Once She said “ Black Women most of us don’t start there... we give brothas a lot of chances “ I knew this conversation was going somewhere else... it got REAL real
Loni said "I have been dating black men for 47 years" That says a lot. please people leave these people alone everyone is looking for their personal happiness so if they find it in any race just be happy for them
AGREED! Love is love. I get so many side eyes from different types of women because I’m a Latina and my husband is African American. I love my chocolatito with all my heart and no man has ever made me laugh the way he does. We all should just be happy for one another♥️
It's probably because black men put Latinas and white women on pedestals and make it seem like black women are not doing something right and that's why they date outside of their race. If they didn't say peep about it then there would be less hostility.
Joanna Saadati Everyone has their own opinion. Im not speaking in general but from experience. It’s not like we both went out and said “oh I pick this race”. We randomly started talking but collided our lives over the years. It’s being talked about because it’s a situation that happens. It’s not to degrade black women.
@@julieolivares-liggins2656 I'm not crapping on your relationship by mentioning that at all. Just saying that it doesn't help to create acceptance for relationships like yours when black men (specifically celebrities/athletes/etc) talk down black women. Lots of men do fetishize lighter/mixed women and vice versa so people may be skeptical of your relationship when they don't know you.
Joanna Saadati I mean you could’ve fooled me because it sounded like it. 🤷🏻♀️ It’s honestly ignorant to say “I’ve helped create acceptance” when it’s 2019 and people from 50 years ago are mixed. Celebrities and other people, black men might feel that way but not everyone does. Thats why we shouldn’t be so quick to judge.
Exactly. What Loni and James have is compatibility. I think Jeannie has a fetish towards those outside of her race (especially black men). I'm not going to mention Tamers because Adam is technically half her own race so it's not really dating outside of the race completely
I can only go off my family, friends, experiences etc...., and from what I saw, she has a point. I've known more black men who dated nothing but white way more than vice versa.
LOL I loved this moment! I agree with both of them, at the end of the day love is love no matter if it's with the same race or not. Get over it, it's 2019 get with the times folks. Also I realized black women get more hate for interracial relationships then black men do in general... why is that?
I think women in general bare the burden of "race holder" or something, I wouldn't know how to explain it, but that's why the men in my family broke it down lol. And it has to do with our history or slavery and colonization, women were raped by white men for their egoistic pleasure and/or to create more slaves, while black men were broken down. So today, when a black man is with a non-colored women (mostly white) it's like " I'm equal to a white men because I'm doing their women" but the other way around it's more of a "oh so you're gonna do what our ancestors were forced to?" It's a crude way of saying it but it's pretty much that
Sam Eym How are women race holders when men say they are the race holders. Black men always move the goalpost. They don’t want black women, they want massas daughter but they also don’t want black women to date out so they can come back to her like an unwanted toy.
I don’t think Yvette wanted to commit to it permanently. I follow her on IG and she has stuff going on everywhere. For example, she’s in Ireland working right now.
I want to get offended. But knowing for a fact that some Black men won't hesitate to date outside their ethnic group even at the risk of their own personal safety. I can no longer criticize some Black women for doing likewise.
Yvette said you don't get no blacker than joining a Sorority that "use to" use the brown paper bag test as a prerequisite to join. Girl bye! I like you but I need you to have several seats on the KH! This is the same woman that did nothing for her soror's that had no seats at her rally.
I’ve never understood this argument. You date who you are attracted too. Why is it so offensive if you date interacially your attracted to who you are attracted to.
Kamala Harris is black but she didn’t start acting black until it was time to run and get the black vote. The way she has been trying so hard to relate to the black community these past few months says a lot. Sis can’t even dance on beat to the drums she was marching to 😂
I can't date white women no more. 3 weeks ago I was having a romantic evening with my now-ex. In the process her actions vacuumed up 32% of my blackness. Now my scheduled promotion designed to increase upper-management minority representation in my company has been rescinded. I'm just furious.
interesting, No black men Loni dated could come on the show, she said (it was her private business} but soon as Loni dates a white man....she wants to show him off, pictures, and him coming on the show. smh why?
I din’t think it was ever about her not wanting to bring those men on cause they were black. I think because she wasn’t serious about them she didn’t want to bring them on the show.
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Once She said “ Black Women most of us don’t start there... we give brothas a lot of chances “ I knew this conversation was going somewhere else... it got REAL real
Loni said "I have been dating black men for 47 years"
That says a lot. please people leave these people alone everyone is looking for their personal happiness so if they find it in any race just be happy for them
Blonde Kinkz BOOM
Yvette is the best please keep her. She ain’t lied yet!
Dee M she’s too cute. She can say the nastiest things and I will still love her. She can take Loni’s spot.
I am telling "The Real" you Need to make Yvette permanent. She definitely adds something to the show.....
Yvette ain't lying, EVERY black lady I know dated black guys for years 1st.
Yvette got real 101%😂💛
LONI AND YVETTE IS THE BEST FRIENDSHIP EVER!!!
"We give a lot of chances" Ain't that the fucking TEA.
😂😂😂Loni and Yvette crack me up!!
Those locks on Tamera wow elevated her beauty...didn't think it was possible, she so beautiful already lol
I will say it again and ive said it before. Black women are just amazing no other race has more swag funny and strength as black women. Periodtt!
AGREED! Love is love. I get so many side eyes from different types of women because I’m a Latina and my husband is African American. I love my chocolatito with all my heart and no man has ever made me laugh the way he does. We all should just be happy for one another♥️
Aw cuteness overload
It's probably because black men put Latinas and white women on pedestals and make it seem like black women are not doing something right and that's why they date outside of their race. If they didn't say peep about it then there would be less hostility.
Joanna Saadati
Everyone has their own opinion. Im not speaking in general but from experience. It’s not like we both went out and said “oh I pick this race”. We randomly started talking but collided our lives over the years. It’s being talked about because it’s a situation that happens. It’s not to degrade black women.
@@julieolivares-liggins2656 I'm not crapping on your relationship by mentioning that at all. Just saying that it doesn't help to create acceptance for relationships like yours when black men (specifically celebrities/athletes/etc) talk down black women. Lots of men do fetishize lighter/mixed women and vice versa so people may be skeptical of your relationship when they don't know you.
Joanna Saadati
I mean you could’ve fooled me because it sounded like it. 🤷🏻♀️
It’s honestly ignorant to say “I’ve helped create acceptance” when it’s 2019 and people from 50 years ago are mixed. Celebrities and other people, black men might feel that way but not everyone does. Thats why we shouldn’t be so quick to judge.
The only co-host I ever wanted to stay!!
You love who you love. You are whom you identify with. Long as it comes from a sincere place. All should be good.
As long as ya'll don't confuse 'compatibility' with self-hatred and fetishizing. Then you need to be CHECKED.
Exactly. What Loni and James have is compatibility. I think Jeannie has a fetish towards those outside of her race (especially black men). I'm not going to mention Tamers because Adam is technically half her own race so it's not really dating outside of the race completely
Skye A.
Black women dating out = compatibility 99% of the time
Black men dating out = fetishising 99% of the time
My favorite clip of all times!!!!
Yvette is hilarious and well-spoken.
Yvette should be a permanent cohost
THATS WHAT IVE BEEN SAYING
This aged well!!! Congratulations Yvette Nicole Brown on your engagement. 🥰
I love the real I love all of you Latina power
I can only go off my family, friends, experiences etc...., and from what I saw, she has a point. I've known more black men who dated nothing but white way more than vice versa.
I agree since my divorce and before marriage I have always dated all races Love is Love ❤️
This was hilarious!
She’s always Great 👍🏼
LOL I loved this moment! I agree with both of them, at the end of the day love is love no matter if it's with the same race or not. Get over it, it's 2019 get with the times folks.
Also I realized black women get more hate for interracial relationships then black men do in general... why is that?
I think women in general bare the burden of "race holder" or something, I wouldn't know how to explain it, but that's why the men in my family broke it down lol. And it has to do with our history or slavery and colonization, women were raped by white men for their egoistic pleasure and/or to create more slaves, while black men were broken down. So today, when a black man is with a non-colored women (mostly white) it's like " I'm equal to a white men because I'm doing their women" but the other way around it's more of a "oh so you're gonna do what our ancestors were forced to?"
It's a crude way of saying it but it's pretty much that
Sam Eym How are women race holders when men say they are the race holders. Black men always move the goalpost. They don’t want black women, they want massas daughter but they also don’t want black women to date out so they can come back to her like an unwanted toy.
I am down for the brown also but I don’t mind some sugar in my coffee 😉
I found out that Yvette my cousin last night on a zoom call for my great aunts 100th birthday 💕
PERIODT Yvetteeeeee!!!!!!!!!!
they don't only do this to black people. i am very fair skinned and have been questioned about my race many times before.
Why didn’t they add her as the 4th host!!!!!
Kamala is Jamaican and Indian that's cool to me. I still need to see more before I pick a candidate.
Stephen Anderson check her history with prisons and funding them.
Anisa Islam So she does her job and locks criminals up? Whats the problem
I like this look on Tam.
Loni switching up her voices. .lol
Thats why im wondering why they didnt have yvette join the show permanently
I don’t think Yvette wanted to commit to it permanently. I follow her on IG and she has stuff going on everywhere. For example, she’s in Ireland working right now.
I love Helen!
Evette best hairstyle EVER
WAIT THATS WHERE THE LONI MOMENT CAME FROM PLEASEEE
😂😂😂😂
I want to get offended. But knowing for a fact that some Black men won't hesitate to date outside their ethnic group even at the risk of their own personal safety. I can no longer criticize some Black women for doing likewise.
Yvette said you don't get no blacker than joining a Sorority that "use to" use the brown paper bag test as a prerequisite to join. Girl bye! I like you but I need you to have several seats on the KH! This is the same woman that did nothing for her soror's that had no seats at her rally.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
They really needed to keep Yvette on this show.
Now that Kamala has dropped out and we have Joe Biden what do people think now about being so petty???
I’ve never understood this argument. You date who you are attracted too. Why is it so offensive if you date interacially your attracted to who you are attracted to.
You’re confused all right.
Smfh so sad
Loni looking like V from OITNB
Kamala Harris is black but she didn’t start acting black until it was time to run and get the black vote. The way she has been trying so hard to relate to the black community these past few months says a lot. Sis can’t even dance on beat to the drums she was marching to 😂
I can't date white women no more. 3 weeks ago I was having a romantic evening with my now-ex. In the process her actions vacuumed up 32% of my blackness. Now my scheduled promotion designed to increase upper-management minority representation in my company has been rescinded. I'm just furious.
ThAt iS noT mY jOb
interesting, No black men Loni dated could come on the show, she said (it was her private business} but soon as Loni dates a white man....she wants to show him off, pictures, and him coming on the show. smh why?
I din’t think it was ever about her not wanting to bring those men on cause they were black. I think because she wasn’t serious about them she didn’t want to bring them on the show.
Don’t*
Because with James they’re more than just “dating” they’re in a committed relationship
What would "never dated out of her race" mean? Thought there was only the human race??
Stop playing naive.
Stop it.🙄
MsFears stop what?
You one of them 'nu blacks'? You know what it means.
issamemariheaux I'm one of those "use proper English" people...