Relationship Expert Reveals The 13 Elements of a Long-lasting Marriage - Amy Morin

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Time Stamps
00:00 - Intro
2:24 - what do all strong couples have?
4:33 - the secret to parenting as a team
7:06 - kids pick up on EVERYTHING
7:30 - Amy’s backstory: married young and widowed
8:48 - the expectation vs reality of grieving
9:56 - the 13 things strong people DON’T do
10:40 - underestimating a life changing moment
12:05 - grief leads to living life to the fullest
14:15 - failing comes with living
14:40 - how to overcome a fear of failure
17:00 - trick yourself into being an adventurous person
18:06 - the only way to get good is to get going
19:26 - actively plan some positive memories
22:51 - take advantage of your opportunities
24:00 - living in close proximity with your partner
26:13 - don’t ignore your problems
29:05 - stop your relationship becoming ‘practical’
29:55 - agree boundaries
33:50 - don’t try and fix your partner
36:08 - if you want something, work to deserve it
37:41 - navigating differences in blended families
42:40 - mutual respect
44:03 - does your relationship need to meet all your needs?
45:30 - using time intentionally
46:53 - don’t get lost in the negatives
47:57 - the art of specificity
52:55 - keep growing, keep changing
56:33 - don’t wait until you’re suffering to go to couple’s therapy
58:33 - a gender imbalance

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