I Wish I Knew The Real Reason I Was Lazy Earlier (Wasn't Distractions)

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  • @riandoris
    @riandoris  Рік тому +26

    Get the FREE One-Month Day checklist here: www.flowstate.com/onemonthday
    Rían here. Thanks for watching! Ever feel like tiny hassles are holding you back? Science reveals this "friction" is crushing your focus and blocking your flow state.
    With the science-backed techniques in this PDF, you can delete systemic friction from your life and exceed a month’s worth of work in less than a day.

  • @bilalMalic0001
    @bilalMalic0001 Рік тому +207

    Props to editing team

    • @riandoris
      @riandoris  Рік тому +28

      Thank you!

    • @bilalMalic0001
      @bilalMalic0001 Рік тому

      @@riandoris Hey Rian! I'm also an editor and would love to exchange insights with your team. Can I reach out to you on Instagram? Looking forward to connect with you..🙌

    • @Dishes_delicious
      @Dishes_delicious Рік тому +8

      Yesss the editing on these videos is class - some of my fav I’ve see.

    • @serinadelmar6012
      @serinadelmar6012 Рік тому +2

      Definitely, I actually recently showed another video on this channel as an example of what good editing looks like for a client. Love it, content too, exquisite.

    • @emir5009
      @emir5009 Рік тому +3

      I think it's a little much

  • @holdenlager
    @holdenlager Рік тому +92

    I can’t get enough of your content. I’ve implemented your morning routine and it has unlocked a whole new Me.

    • @riandoris
      @riandoris  Рік тому +23

      It’s the best morning routine in town 😎

    • @wade4846
      @wade4846 Рік тому

      Has it improved your life? Wondering if the tips really work

    • @flappiv
      @flappiv Рік тому +7

      It does but at the end after few days you need to recharge by watching his videos again. To keep self reminding his techniques... That's all maybe known as consistency.

    • @skidibidup
      @skidibidup Рік тому

      @@wade4846 I have seen/figured out way many tips hacks along the years but seperated... This dude just perfectly sums them up in a model. just do go for it.

  • @hytalePvP
    @hytalePvP Рік тому +69

    0:00 Intro
    0:29 Friction explaination
    3:09 Friction as a Deterrent - Add Friction to non-work
    4:17 Friction as a Catalyst - Remove Friction from your work
    6:45 Systemic Friction - Remove Interruptions

    • @riandoris
      @riandoris  Рік тому +13

      Thanks for noting this for everyone ✅

  • @indiequa
    @indiequa Рік тому +7

    Favourite channel ever. I just love how the videos work with people’s natural attention retention, theyre punchy, informative and relatable. Life has changed so much since I subscribed. Thank you very very much

  • @notmirmujtaba
    @notmirmujtaba Рік тому +2

    He's the one Stop for all Productivity Problems...

  • @menacingskull740
    @menacingskull740 Рік тому +1

    thats soo true the hard part is applying it the right way its like ur saying what it is but u dont know how to do it in a way make it flexible or like strategize with it the way u explain it is so intuitive

  • @nidalshaikh9855
    @nidalshaikh9855 Рік тому +2

    What i learned with flow that our subconscious mind probably control for our over-all decision even before you take decision...this is tremendous to understand...on this flow topic...thanx rian keep that good work...

  • @smileyginger1
    @smileyginger1 Рік тому +16

    I've been on the "friction reduction" mission this year. It started in my kitchen, of all places, with constantly having to "move this thing to get to that thing to cook the thing," every time I wanted to cook the simplest meal.
    It's gradual, because sometimes you get so used to the constant "toe stub" you just assume that's how it's got to be. But as I identify those spots - whether it's decluttering or putting organization tools in place to make staying on top of things easier - my aim is by the end of this year to have created a home conducive to work work and creative work without having to re-prep my spaces every time.

  • @anaghnair
    @anaghnair Рік тому +15

    ma man dropping bangers after bangers

  • @spontaneousbootay
    @spontaneousbootay Рік тому +2

    I realized the other day on mushrooms that the reason for my outbursts of frustration is because of all the cumulative points of friction set up throughout my day. And the fix is to take care of each one. This video was the perfect follow up.

  • @NatalieOlaArt
    @NatalieOlaArt Рік тому +4

    Great insights about friction! Reducing systematic friction for me has been largely about dealing with things in the past, having processed and put away, so no emotions rise to create friction through triggers. Having dealt with everything up to the current moment leaves me with full ability to focus on the task or day in front of me.

  • @marinaperera.33
    @marinaperera.33 7 місяців тому

    Your content is simply amazing. Everything I was looking for to take my life to a whole new level of performance. Thanks a lot!

  • @TheExecutor_96
    @TheExecutor_96 8 місяців тому

    these videos on focus is crazy valuable
    thank you for this

  • @_cr8ive_
    @_cr8ive_ Рік тому +1

    Makes 100% sense . . . The systems demands keep you drained. 🤜🏻💥🤛🏻

  • @sfbadogani
    @sfbadogani Рік тому +13

    Value in this channel is unmatched. Taking my ventures to a whole new level with these strategies
    Cheers Rian!

  • @mad_max99
    @mad_max99 11 місяців тому

    Energy in your videos is unmatchable.🔥

  • @iamonline3221
    @iamonline3221 11 місяців тому +4

    You, Blondy, changed my life so radically , thanks , can't be thankful enough .

  • @petar2680
    @petar2680 Рік тому

    I believe you absolutely! I see how your neck has always focus and flow to your head

  • @RNBLOVER4LIFE1
    @RNBLOVER4LIFE1 7 місяців тому

    I'm
    So in love with this channel. Sheesh

  • @rymag556
    @rymag556 Рік тому +1

    Life changing work! Taking my sales team to the next level with all of this.

  • @sarthaksharma..9
    @sarthaksharma..9 Рік тому +1

    thank you so much rian
    yours are the only video on youtube which really help me improve and and absolutely practical in real life
    please keep this up and thank for your help

    • @riandoris
      @riandoris  Рік тому

      Very happy to hear this 🫡

  • @boratlion8613
    @boratlion8613 Рік тому

    Hey Rian! Thank you. Great work. You have an amazing ability for defining the problem, explaining it clearly and then solving for it in an engaging and entertaining way. Keep up the good work and thank you again, truly appreciate you for the value you’re providing us.

  • @kawaii_princess_castle
    @kawaii_princess_castle 9 місяців тому +1

    This is incredible information!! Thank you so muchhh!!! 😂❤🎉

  • @chriskaplan6109
    @chriskaplan6109 Рік тому

    Brilliant. Good editing and delivery. Understanding these three dimensions of friction, especially systemic friction, was very powerful!

  • @VerseBlast
    @VerseBlast Рік тому +3

    Great video as always! A lot of other creators always "reuse" their content in a different way. But, you always have a totally different advice every single video, thank you for that. Could you make a video about night routine as well? It doesn't seem to be talked about much, or at least, not as much as a morning routine. (which you made and it was great as well). Thank you!

  • @renefrance8630
    @renefrance8630 Рік тому +1

    I'm going through this exactly rn, like my coworkers all around talk to the phone some listening to music. I'm like tf you guys even really focusing. It's alot different and better if I'm alone in my house. I focus and get things done better when there's no distraction

  • @shijinbadarudeen9920
    @shijinbadarudeen9920 Рік тому +1

    This is a wonderful strategy and the book atomic habits explained it very well. The less friction you pre designed into a task then that task is more likely to accomplish and vice versa.

  • @astroboy1102
    @astroboy1102 Рік тому +2

    Thanks Rian...it will help a lot ❤

  • @cynthia_g_
    @cynthia_g_ Рік тому

    Perfect timing as I'm planning my weekend work! Thanks for this.

  • @dokwonsuh
    @dokwonsuh Рік тому +7

    He forgot to mention the meteor that falls on your house every morning, right after the phone calls to different time zones.

  • @amishay9130
    @amishay9130 Рік тому

    Awesome analysis of human behaviour. Whatever you said is very related to me

  • @johnrichadante5803
    @johnrichadante5803 Рік тому +4

    My mother is the number one friction, shouting at me when I'm studying

  • @JLArts55
    @JLArts55 Рік тому

    I found this video very interesting because I did the removal aspect about a week ago. I made seperate channel playlists for videos I've intended to watch, but could never find the time to do so, including this channel.

  • @chrislords_dpt
    @chrislords_dpt Рік тому

    Only seen a couple of your videos but they’re all 🔥 you need more subs!

  • @bhavya_sodhi
    @bhavya_sodhi Рік тому +1

    THANKS BRO YOU ARE HELPING ME A LOT YOU ARE DOING SOMETHING GREAT

    • @riandoris
      @riandoris  Рік тому +2

      Thank you for all the support!

  • @AboveTheAllAMV
    @AboveTheAllAMV Рік тому

    Your Every Single Video Makes Me More Productive. Thanks A Lot.

  • @SunDerick
    @SunDerick Рік тому

    Amazing! 🎉 I will always like the channel📖.

  • @davida1606
    @davida1606 Рік тому

    I sat down to get a design job done, due today, and got self distracted setting up a Ring Doorbell and then sharing it for about 2 hours.

  • @NinaRoseTreasures777
    @NinaRoseTreasures777 8 місяців тому

    Thank you for the wonderful content! 💫

  • @Net_Flux
    @Net_Flux Рік тому +1

    Thank you. Keep up the good work.

  • @ahmadiskandar5657
    @ahmadiskandar5657 Рік тому

    This channel deserve more subscribers fr

  • @hassaanahmad3179
    @hassaanahmad3179 Рік тому

    you literally have the best self helping videos out there i can easily see you getting more sucessful in some time. More power to you and please upload videos more consistenly. Love you a lot.❣

  • @TheIllerX
    @TheIllerX Рік тому +5

    Good video and advice.
    This is the main idea of the book "Atomic habits" by James Clear, which is really excellent.

  • @avenuee2738
    @avenuee2738 9 місяців тому +1

    Amazing amazing videos

  • @harshkhosla5561
    @harshkhosla5561 Рік тому +1

    Your work did changed by life for the Better 😀

  • @EdwardFisherTradiy
    @EdwardFisherTradiy Рік тому +1

    outstanding

  • @GrimFowler
    @GrimFowler Рік тому

    Jocko taught me to grunt the word "good" at distractions and then crush the task anyways.
    dog sh!t in the floor and youre late for work? GOOD. now you know how to get ready faster.
    lmao

  • @xentity2714
    @xentity2714 7 місяців тому

    So one of the application of flow is plan ahead of time so that you can done you work and rest more than work more

  • @xxclucthmasterxx6726
    @xxclucthmasterxx6726 Рік тому

    intro was an amazing hook point

  • @ssehe2007
    @ssehe2007 9 місяців тому

    Sweet work station

  • @huck9293
    @huck9293 6 місяців тому

    Wow, a 10 minute video about removing little distractions!

  • @Matinirx
    @Matinirx Рік тому

    Thank u for great content 🤘🏻❤️

  • @AnilKumar-st7do
    @AnilKumar-st7do 7 місяців тому

    Sir, I am haking Flow ondemand on Task, Tqs to you, Steven Kotler and Father of flow MCM...

  • @craigseganti8999
    @craigseganti8999 Рік тому +1

    Excellent. I read FLOW when it first came out and it is one of my ten most influential books. I could do without all the sound fx in the videos, I find them distracting. I really wish school districts would latch onto this concept rather than all the CRAP taught at professional developments. I am a little torn about the video on less hours for more productivity. I want to be working on skills all the time as a music producer - Da Vinci is my model, it seems he worked more than 3-6 hours a day. Thoughts?

  • @maajstroo
    @maajstroo Рік тому

    Awsome video Ryan!

  • @Mayaanillusion
    @Mayaanillusion Рік тому +4

    Rian, great video and love your content.
    Had a question- what about our internal friction? When we don't feel like doing the work. When everything is set up but there seems to be this resistance from within that stops you from going forward.
    Also, what are your thoughts on animedoro study technique?
    Would love to hear your thoughts. Thanks!!

    • @Net_Flux
      @Net_Flux Рік тому +2

      Rian would advise against animedoro. Your breaks must be more boring than your work so that your dopamine hit from your work is higher, prompting you to get back to work.

  • @dqueezytv
    @dqueezytv 10 місяців тому

    I like this guy

  • @MisterOne_
    @MisterOne_ Рік тому

    Your videos are so good man, omg

  • @vividchilling2492
    @vividchilling2492 Рік тому

    I really like you bro, these flow videos have helped me alot 🙏🙏🙏

  • @YaboyNemonm1
    @YaboyNemonm1 Рік тому

    FOCUS

  • @MindMatters-t9q
    @MindMatters-t9q 11 місяців тому

    Hey Rian. Sometimes, I open UA-cam, but can't decide what to watch. My brain forces me to open UA-cam and learn something new, and this keeps me into a delusional of learning something new, but when I open, I can't decide what to watch. How and why does this happen and how to fix it.
    Thanks
    Adi

  • @KooKoogm
    @KooKoogm Рік тому

    Awesome videos. Thanks for the great info. The music volume on this one is too high and makes it hard to concentrate on what you are saying. I suppose a compression is in use on the music track, but the threshold is not enough.

  • @DSGQR
    @DSGQR Рік тому +1

    There so much in your videos. It would be awesome if you provided a PDF cheat sheet of each video. It could be a lead capture method too for you.

  • @КириллЖихарев-п1ю

    It's like in Atomic Habits from James Clear

    • @spontaneousbootay
      @spontaneousbootay Рік тому

      Its exactly that

    • @LittleTimmyO
      @LittleTimmyO Рік тому

      Everything about being better comes back to that book. What James clear did in that book was take all the habit information out there and make it simple and easy to hear and implement.
      But again and again, consistency is the hardest part of being better.

  • @amolnar1
    @amolnar1 Рік тому +1

    What do people who can apply this advice even do everyday for a job? In my job as a corporate IT low level manager there is literally nothing but friction all day long from bosses, useless administrative demands that result in little more than someone else checking a box, fire drills to deal with mostly related to politics as everyone scrambles to give the impression they know what’s going on to someone else… I’m jealous of this lifestyle (work style?) I see all over UA-cam on productivity videos where people seem to be in control of their own lives enough to even decide what they will do with their day and how. Most often it seems their primary job is making UA-cam videos about productivity.
    I like and appreciate the research, info, tips, and ideas but….

  • @username604error5
    @username604error5 Рік тому +2

    FRICTION is such a DRAG 😂
    … and GRAVITY is such a DOWNER …
    PS
    I like soup ❤

  • @WYLOEvelin
    @WYLOEvelin Рік тому +1

    Flow state comes with EGO development. Look the 10 fetters. One by One. ❤

  • @smartify5389
    @smartify5389 Рік тому

    rian i have a question. how do i study in noisy environments, without interuppting flow? pls answer

  • @willyengcahyo4581
    @willyengcahyo4581 8 місяців тому

    Only three words.
    "Make it easier."

  • @jakefrosher
    @jakefrosher 10 місяців тому

    Nice❤

  • @ChimwemweMvula-q9r
    @ChimwemweMvula-q9r Рік тому

    Hey rian, could you do a video on switching tasks especially if they are unrated to each each other, like from reading to trading to studying for an exam. please.

  • @tomhale2966
    @tomhale2966 Рік тому

    curious....what wrap around screen is that? (followup video for desk set up would be awesome!)

  • @mujokeric1804
    @mujokeric1804 Рік тому

    This reminds me on atomic habits actually, did you leverage any points from the book?

  • @bienaimemastergardykelly9030

    I like your work

  • @ld9387
    @ld9387 Місяць тому

    But for most people it genuinely is their phone and social media. It's really not that complicated

  • @DeadbeatGamer
    @DeadbeatGamer 11 місяців тому

    This is why i cover my tv with a blanket

  • @ankityadav-kg7yf
    @ankityadav-kg7yf Рік тому

    yeah its work and i think atomic habit book have same concept like this

  • @ItzFisH_
    @ItzFisH_ Рік тому +1

    Can you explain the logic behind the extremely over the top dopeamine spiking editing in every video? I thought we were trying to bring peoples base level down, not up

    • @DimasAndhikaWidyadana
      @DimasAndhikaWidyadana 2 місяці тому

      I think it suits his targeted audience which is overstimulated dopamine people, and making video like that help to get our attention.
      For example, I wouldnt finish his first video if he he didnt use this style of editing

  • @inkyboi685
    @inkyboi685 11 місяців тому

    in jjk terms : its like if you got the six eyes so your cursed energy consumption becomes lower and you can precieve and foucus better

  • @UnJoe.
    @UnJoe. Рік тому

    hidden gold

  • @modemode3509
    @modemode3509 Рік тому +1

    Why did you delete the video of how to get our focus back in 11 minutes

    • @riandoris
      @riandoris  Рік тому

      It’s not deleted! We just renamed it and changed the thumbnail ☺️ It’s the second to last video we uploaded still.

  • @user-kelsier
    @user-kelsier Рік тому +1

    Oooohhh!

  • @mreese8764
    @mreese8764 Рік тому +1

    The audio effects and music are really distracting.

  • @abhisheks-fh8qi
    @abhisheks-fh8qi Рік тому +1

    swg just got this insight before this vid even released............

  • @Novasavant
    @Novasavant Рік тому

    who's starting their new year with no distractions?

  • @prakhar-rn3nr
    @prakhar-rn3nr Рік тому

    Hey Rian I just wanted to know that I am a student and most of my work involves doing practice questions which involve a lot of thinking which generally is above 4% of my skill set so is it still horrible that I can be able to access flow state

    • @riandoris
      @riandoris  Рік тому +1

      Have you been recovering with good sleep? Don't push yourself to the limit without healthy rest. It's counterproductive.

    • @prakhar-rn3nr
      @prakhar-rn3nr Рік тому

      @@riandoris I am able to get a max 6.5 hour sleep daily and I try to get power naps in between tasks during my day but I try everyday to get my tasks done so that I can get some quality sleep.

  • @menacingskull740
    @menacingskull740 Рік тому

    thor but zen

  • @WendingWayfarer
    @WendingWayfarer Рік тому

    Systemic friction: it sounds like you're telling us to clean our rooms.

  • @raygiguette8677
    @raygiguette8677 Рік тому

    One time a volcano erupted when I was tring to concentrate. I had to stop everything and call the vet to make sure my dog was O.K.. Then I had to mail his payment before lava destroyed my mailbox. I was still looking for a stamp when lava came rushing through the air vents and I had to jump onto the bed. Three years later, everything was back to normal, but by that time I had lost my train of thought.

  • @Your_Target
    @Your_Target Рік тому +1

    But you don’t develop self discipline here which tends to make you base very thing on motivation which is not something you want as it makes you will power weaker

  • @denisblack9897
    @denisblack9897 Рік тому +2

    moral of the story:
    if you want to get shit done, dont get married

  • @GameDeveloper-nq6zi
    @GameDeveloper-nq6zi 10 місяців тому +5

    Can you please make videos without the overly dramatic music and sounds . or release ones without editing . I love your content , its one of a kind . But I cant listen to it for any longer than 30 seconds . Maybe I'm somewhat ADHD or autistic , idk . But I would love to know if anyone else has the same feelings ? After I listen to these vids , I need to do a 10 min silence meditation to make my mind calm again 😟

    • @talalkhalid2920
      @talalkhalid2920 9 місяців тому +1

      I feel the same way. It's just wayy too much. But perhaps people like it. I can't get through most or his videos though.

    • @Lee_pe
      @Lee_pe 8 місяців тому

      Same. Watched two videos thinking they just might be a liiiiitle overedited. To my taste, too many transitions, sounds, popping letters, images, etc. 😅
      It's actually funny commenting about being distracted by too many sparkling things on a video about trying to avoid distractions/frictions.

    • @NewMe-lr8jt
      @NewMe-lr8jt 8 місяців тому

      @@Lee_pe 🤣🤣🤣

  • @ridagilani
    @ridagilani Рік тому

    Firstt❤

  • @anbadspeller4807
    @anbadspeller4807 Рік тому

    I mean... The phone and social media are also problems lol

  • @govardhanyadav7378
    @govardhanyadav7378 Рік тому

    the no of likes of this right this second are 911...........

  • @yogiputindas896
    @yogiputindas896 Рік тому

    Foreign version of 'Vidyut Jamwal'😮

  • @komat1c
    @komat1c Рік тому

    isn't this basically willpower

  • @aj2291
    @aj2291 Рік тому

    Your videos are like watching a fight scene from Bourne Identity, the editing is too fast man… calm down.

  • @beastnow1965
    @beastnow1965 Рік тому

    I think, Your thumbnail Must be changed..that reveals the answer. you try to say in the video. Make something curious. More people May click