My dad just came out of hospital and I've said to my sister that she needs to take him back to her place for recovery. That is the logical thing to do because I am the primary carer for our mum and so naturally, dad falls under her responsibility. Mum and dad do not live together. But looking at how my sister is at work all day, and how 'neglected' my dad is, my heart breaks and I am so tempted to bring him to my place. I am torn...my heart says yes while my head says no.
I hope it all works out well for you. Sounds like you have a really good heart. My mother is in a Care Home and like a toddler at nursery keeps asking to come home with me. It's not practical at all. The guilt and sadness at watching our parents decline can be heartbreaking. ❤
Thankyou so much fantastic! Bang on point
My dad just came out of hospital and I've said to my sister that she needs to take him back to her place for recovery. That is the logical thing to do because I am the primary carer for our mum and so naturally, dad falls under her responsibility. Mum and dad do not live together. But looking at how my sister is at work all day, and how 'neglected' my dad is, my heart breaks and I am so tempted to bring him to my place. I am torn...my heart says yes while my head says no.
I hope it all works out well for you. Sounds like you have a really good heart. My mother is in a Care Home and like a toddler at nursery keeps asking to come home with me. It's not practical at all. The guilt and sadness at watching our parents decline can be heartbreaking. ❤