She actually doubled down on what she said. She stated within the apology that she should’ve chosen a better choice of words and then repeated a different approach to the same problem. She REALLY FEELS THAT POOR BLACK WOMEN ARE A PROBLEM
I feel that too. My real issue is when she said have an advocate with you so that you are heard. Why? My mouth is able to speak for me and the physician should take what I say because it's my body. This statement here makes me think, she believes what she originally said.
let's get the facts. The fact is that none of her patients are poor black women yet she blame her black female patients for feeling pain.. It have nothing to do with class it have everything to do with the color of our skin.
That was not a true apology. Am I the only who notice how she threw in the part about the 2 hr video. The same 2 hr video she precisely said was taking out of context because we only saw a 30 snippet???🤔🤔🤔
Dr Jackie has the nerve to call poor black women lazy knowing they are part of the service class and they are more likely to work more hours than a GYN doctor.
Bunny4real ....she don''t have poor black women as her patients. All her patients are black middle class women and some rich black females. She don't accept medicaid. why are you assuming that all black women are poor? you sound like a racist.
What Jackie said is DANGEROUS! Some years ago I drove myself to the ER because I was in excruciating pain! I was gripping the steering wheel! I had to leave a business presentation early that I was hosting! I knew it was my fibroids. The ER physician (White man) told me,”I’m the doctor! Don’t you tell me what’s wrong!” They did a scan and ultra sound. He returned,”You were right.” I explained the severe pain and exhaustion! He responded,”I’m not going to write a note to excuse you from work!” I felt so UNCARED for. He wasn’t listening or tuned into what I was going through at all. I was self employed and didn’t need a note! I needed relief and care! I am glad Jackie FINALLY humbled herself. I have found some of the most educated people are not so smart at all. Jackie and Quad got some much needed humble pie after all this time! Jackie needs to be demoted to friend.
I had a medical issue, and my doctor didn't take me seriously until it was time for surgery. I'm pissed at what she said. This is about black women's lives. How dear she? She knows what we go through.
Most Drs do not take complaints seriously, it’s like they don’t listen unless they’re introduced to a new medication that may or may not work for you. I’m just coming out of a deep depression from the 90’s when a doctor told me I had cervical cancer a year after my yearly examination. No phone calls to tell me anything about it until my visit then I was told I was one stage from the final stage. At 33 years old I was devastated. I let them do seven if not more procedures of freezing and clipping my canal and finding nothing but the Pap smear showed problems. Soon after was having pain and headaches and was diagnosed with fibroids I went to three doctors I was bleeding and clotting for three years badly. I couldn’t sit, walk, laugh or sneeze without destroying my clothing or chairs with blood every doctor said there was nothing they could do because the fibroids were multiple sizes. I lived the next 35 years waiting to die and living carelessly partying trying to get the thought that won’t leave out of my head. I now have other age old symptoms that doctors don’t feel they are related to the common symptoms and conditions that a lot of people suffer with. The thought of a doctor saying or even thinking out loud that women just want to get out of work is a hurtful way to express the care that you took an oath to help the people you wish to serve. I stopped going to doctors because they don’t all listen and explore further than their thoughts or textbook experience.
It's odd that the network dropped this on social media to begin with. As Black women we didn't get what we were looking for from Bravo. The entire network is trash particularly Andy and some other members of the male LGBT community.
The apology should have come first. I do think the apology was real for many reasons. 70% was about fear perhaps, but it was real she is concerned as a doctor she just speaks so coldly. I hope she continues her practice, but a doctor who deals with the masses becomes a spokeswoman.
When I was 17 years old I gave birth to my oldest , I had a Black woman as an OB / Gyn she was horrible, terrible bed side manners . When I asked her a question she mocked me. Not only that, I had c section and she botched my my body up. As a scared teenager it traumatized me. Now I’m a paramedic I vowed to educate, treat and be my sisters keeper.
I am so so sorry you had such a traumatic experience. Wish I could give you a big hug. I’ll never forget. I discovered I was pregnant and intentionally sought out a black woman OBGYN. My first appointment was horrible. I was so glad my child’s father was there to witness it himself. I had so many questions and she was defensive, dismissive and rude. That was worst doc appt I ever had. It got so bad my partner ended the appointment! He is so calm and chill, so seeing him get upset at how I was being treated and how it was physically effecting me in the moment, he said not today! I was so damn hurt after that. I’m just glad I told her to her face that appointment was the worst ever and although I was looking for a black woman to care for me and give my insurance coins too, now I’m just looking for someone that’s professional and actually cares for their patients.
Her apology was actually worse. Now we gotta document, tell everyone and get multiple opinions to be believed. BS. I’m happy that my KOREAN doctor (in S. Korea) believed me when I told him about the pain I experienced when my son tried to come 2 months early. I was promptly put on bed rest and had to take medicine every 4 hours just to keep him inside of me. He’s now 18 and doing well - praise God
This is so scary!!!! As a Black RN, I do not judge my Patients I listen to them, Pain is whatever the Patient say it is. I am just hurt please let’s all stay Prayed up for each other❤
Apologizing should have been the FIRST thing she did, instead of doubling down on her comments. She’s articulate enough not to read that apology. Whose advising here?!?
Dr Jackie's apology rang hollow with me. I don't believe that she understands the full gravity of her words, and lack of empathy and concern for Black women, especially since they comprise a great majority of her patients. I don't necessarily think that she should be canceled, but a public humbling and contrite spirit is certainly in line with addressing her words!
Exactly!! That’s how you really advocate for the people who are being affected by Jackie’s hurtful, hateful and reckless remarks….you hit them in their pockets and watch all the coins come falling out!😂😏
She apologized for blk women being hurt by what she said but she didn’t apologize for what she said. It’s like she apologized for people’s feelings instead of what she did. She said she used the wrong words meaning she meant what she said but she could have conveyed it a different way. Which is equally as bad
If she wouldn’t have “Double down” on her comments from 3 years ago a couple of days ago, her apology would’ve felt genuine. She didn’t do that. She had to be made to feel uncomfortable to reflect. Thats frightening & could push other ethnicities to not hear us even more. They’ll say “See even their own knows how dramatic black women are.” Kevin heart just did a movie a few years ago about the death of a Judge Hatchett’s daughter. She was ignored after giving birth 🤰🏾 which could have been avoided had she been believed. This could’ve set us back if we didn’t give backlash. Dr. Jackie cannot empathize with us because she’s never experienced child birth. We felt “Shaken” too. 6:06
I wish everybody stop trying to make this woman apologize for stating how she really feels about black women. she's a narcissist, she don't care!!!!! When somebody shows you who they are, believe them!!!! #MayaAngelou
She needs to apologize. She was marginalizing us! I went through this earlier this year after BRAIN 🧠 SURGERY TO REMOVE A TUMOR!! THEY WOULD NOT TAKE ME SERIOULY AND THE PAIN WAS UNBEARABLE!!😢 They gave me Tylenol extra strength and Tramadol low dosage!! That was like eating Skittles. Her tears are Nothing compared to the pain that I felt. I experienced racism in the Healthcare industry 1st hand!!!
She could’ve pre wrote it before going live I’m someone that writes things down before doing major speeches bcuz I don’t want to forget anything As for the tears I dated a guy who could cry on Que and it had me stuck for a while bcuz I thought no man I know fakes tears Whelp, he did 🤣 We can’t trust anyone sis Unfortunately, Jackie has this national platform and used it to basically betrayed us So even if she had said it from the heart w tears pouring down It still wouldn’t have made me believe here. I don’t think she’s a nice person in general Sent w love 💕
true. i wonder if she's aware of the clear ppl thinking that we dont have pain. I hate to say it but as early as this year I had one do a pap on me and was just rough for no reason. I let every doctor on my team know that she was to never touch me again or it was ganna be a misunderstanding (in my bernie mack voice).@@g.pearson4726
As a black women whose throat closed up after receiving anesthesia right before my c-section who wasn't able to swallow and had saliva running down my face I'm glad the anesthesiologist was aware and listened to me. What Dr. Jackie said was horrible and the fact she double down on it makes it worse. As black woman she should have known better that to say some trash like that.
She read the words of her publicist perfectly. Devoid of true emotions and feelings. The fact she said this almost 4 years ago, and I saw this live, and no one said anything is truly annoying to me. Why we have to let people show us repeatedly how they really are is beyond me. The thing with Buffie was enough for me.
This goes beyond public opinion. The medical board needs to investigate her for discrimination by reviewing all of her records. God only knows how many women she has declined to help based on their financial status and race. She should exit the show and Bravo needs to make a huge monetary donation to black women's health.
@gingerwingerful Not evil nor I am jealous. If she was white, this would be expected and in other professions similar actions are taken. You should have compassion for the women who could have been mishandled/injured while under her care. For example, there was a judge in Cobb County, GA (a few years ago) who made racist statements (he admitted to giving black people harsh sentences just for being black) while out drinking with his peers. He was reported and all of his cases/judgements were reviewed. Dr. Jackie is no better than that former judge.
In all fairness, her words were unethical & actually subject her to possible investigation. She’s supposed to “do no harm” and a medical board would be acting well within their rights to investigate any claims of malpractice, malfeasance, etc. She’s broken public trust 😬
Not once during the apology I heard her take accountability as a doctor and she again giving out advice I expected her to say what she’s going to to do to make it better maybe I’m just hard to please why should I keep a log and have a buddy system that’s why they have test and carry out test tf
I'm sorry, but every time I hear this apology I get more and more furious because I actually, in the present, have been going through feeling unheard not only by my OB-GYN but also my family/primary physician who are both non-black. So in thinking and searching for black female physicians this issue with Jackie is extremely terrifying.
No Jackie, you need to keep a log of our concerns and symptoms and figure out how to help us. We are carrying a human inside of us and for you to ignore us when we tell you about our pains could possibly cause a loss of life. Two lives. Jackie still does not get it and how what she said to her own people is disgusting and sad.
Thank you for working on Christmas Eve!!! Now, to say something a lot of people are going to hate me for: All of us mad at her, hurt by her, aren't her clientele. Her celebrity clients are going to continue to go to her. Continue to support. Continue to pay her cash for her services. Us regular degular folks aren't affecting her bag whatsoever 🤷🏾♀️
It’s beyond words because she has done damage to real black women. I seen a post about her and the comments were filled with her ex- patients and she’s was giving that same energy in here bedside manner. People make mistakes but this is a serious issue in our culture and most be taking serious because if a non black doctor would of said what she said the black congregation would of never entertain an apology
I am glad she apologized. It is not for me to judge her apology. During this holiday season and always we need to extend grace to allow her to put her words into real action. It’s time like this where we can show her and other physicians what we need and want from them. I don’t excuse he but I want to extend a chance for her to do better. 🙏🏾❤️💪🏾
Here's the thing, Dr Jackie's reputation will get better eventually. She will lose patients but will not get cancelled. MDs commit medical malpractice and they are still able to see patients. She didn't do that in this case. She also sees a lot of celebrities and patients who are wealthy and they are probably not going to stop seeing her.
People mess up all the time....but it's when they double down is when there is a problem. It's sad someone, especially a black women, in the medical field really has those kind of unethical morals. I think sometimes people shouldn't ask for an apology from someone who has doubled down. How dreadful Jackie...I mean Dr Jackie.
Putting her comments about how she doesn't like Ms.Quad. Well it ain't no fun when the rabbit got the gun Dr. Jackie. Karma comes full circle for everyone
I have not cared for Dr. Jackie since the Buffie situation, however, I think her apology is genuine. I feel like people will call for an apology then when they get it, they complain that it's fake or disingenuous. Sometimes we need to just accept the apology and look forward to proof of change rather than condemning the possibility of change by begrudging every motion made after a mistake or bad behavior.
She does Look a Little Beat down and her face does appear to have been 😭😭😭😭😭. Sending her an Air Hug! I think she has been shaken and moved by the Outpour and Backlash she has received! Welp just 🙏🏽 Pray for her!
@@beth1321 She probably is sorry Now after hearing what our Sister's had to say even patients of her own 🤷🏾. I believe she meant what she said, but now that it has been Revisited and the implications of it all she had to take "A Spin Around The Block". And to think this could affect her coins 🤨 She's definitely Sorry!!! I agree 🤭
I could make this comment into a book. I've experienced hell with health care and had to advocate for myself and thank God I had that skill. It literally saved my life. No one knew I had a tumor in the reproductive region of my body. I'm tearing up thinking about everything I went through. This apology is not enough for me. She needs to REALLY be held accountable. DANGEROUS does not come close to describe the position she put black women in. Shame on her. Sit her ass down a few seasons. And Justin, I love you, but you can't really comment on how this should be handled, especially if you're not standing with us. She took an oath as a physician, and she failed every black woman with those comments patients or not. Still love and respect you, though.
Me coming here after watching the “Jackie you’re DONE” video wondering when you’d make another about it. And here we are 😭😂 All jokes aside, she looked stressed in that video. I only feel bad because I know she wasn’t prepared for all of this, but you have to be mindful of your words and actions. Especially when you are in a certain professional position as well as on a platform such as M2M!
When I say this man's videos be having me in tears 😂 this follow up video had me cackling when he had the "Bravo end of season" type clip he created himself. I can't take Justin serious 😂😂😂lmaooooo
I never experience going through childbirth but I have experience d and still experience high level of pain at times. I have endometriosis and that pain is from the gates of hell. I have been in the hospital and placed on the highest pain medicine to calm it down. One minute I can be fine but when that pain hits- it hits. Someone can say too that I am faking it because you can't see it but the pain is out of this world. The white gynecologist that diagnosed me with this had to take a chocolate cyst from my right ovary. When I came to her one day and said what I experienced one day with my endometriosis, I was not believed. She proceeded to have another white coworker in the room (without my permission) to check me out. I felt upset that I wasn't believed. She never prescribed any pain medicine for me either. I left that group and actually sought a black gynecologist. I finally landed with a male black gynecologist (first time I had a male gynecologist) and I was believed. He gave me pain medicine just in case it can get to a pain level in where I need it. Plus, he wasn't talking about taking out my uterus. I am quite happy with him because he listened to me.
Jackie should be held accountable for her actions. They need to remove her from M2M. She should NOT represent the black OB/GYN community or black women. Her apology was Dramatic. What she said was black women need someone to speak for them, as if we are too dumb to speak for ourselves and we need a journal to PROVE we are ill. As a healthcare provider myself, I would NEVER give that advice to a black woman. We are not less than, and we can come to an appointment and say what's wrong without needing proof of illness for someone to believe us. Absolutely RIDICULOUS!
Thank you binge worthy for posting the real on this situation. These black and so called black opportunists are out of control and need to be called out.
She does not get it. It is not her poor choice words it's her thinking and bedside manner. She never addressed her way of thinking. She stands by what she said in 20/20. She just hates that. It hurt us so bad that it backfired
I could tell Dr. Jackie was reading, but it seemed like she was genuine only because of the vast majority of negative comments from the initial bad response. Once again thanks bae and Merry Christmas!
There are people who are just not open minded until someone corrects them and explains different ways of thinking. Once they become aware of how their thinking can be hurtful to others, it is now up to them to change that. Dr Jackie has listened, seen her mistake and now has apologized. The public now needs to understand that. This matter does not require Dr Jackie to be canceled. Let’s be compassionate to Dr Jackie, as we would want others to be with us if we were in this situation.
Let me just say this...after all is said and done, I feel really sorry for Dr Jackie's patients who surely were on the receiving end of her cold, "you're exaggerating" diagnosis....
Contrition is important! Better LATE than never! She needed to say tho that “LADIES, I am soooooo sorry! Going forward, when you tell me that you are hurting, I WILLLLLLL BELIEVE YOU, because ONLY YOU KNOW your body BETTER than I EVER could!” Happy holidays, Dr. Jackie! TRY TO DO BETTER in the new year! 🙏🏼
The only thing this teaches other doctors is to keep their comments and biases to themselves. I guess we like better when people pretend in our faces and feel another way behind our backs. She didnt mispeak. Jackie proved the age old fact of, do a little good and people will justify the bad 🤷🏾♀️
I understand we all say things that we later regret or realize wasn’t the truth. …. But this was 3yrs ago. She was already well within her career, and aware of the disparage in care that black and brown women had been receiving. She meant what she said.
When she came for Buffy about her infertility, when she herself!!!!...I started to see her in a different light...And when she was confronted at the dinner,The way she responded,was All I needed to see.
I'd like to know why Dr. Jackie's success is predicated on superficial qualities such as looks, wealth, and classism. I've noticed she only associates with people who conform to the traditional US beauty standards, which I find highly problematic. Additionally, it struck me odd that while she attempted to cry, no tears were present. This makes me question her capacity for genuine emotions, compassion, or sincere apologies.
@russ32370 Ohhh PLEASE don't talk about that Quad (women). I'm thru w/her silly behind when she put herself in that coffin WTF. 😱 😱 simple A** women. She'll do anything for attention. And now she's (Quad) crying just like Mrs. Jackie is doing. BYE GIRLS.
I don't believe her apology only because if she didn't mean it nothing like this would've spued out of her mouth. And let's talk about how long it took for her to apologize 👀
As a black women with two autistic children. Dr. J hurt my heart. Merry Christmas, Heavenly Father, give me strength this Christmas. As a single mom I’m struggling to make ends meet. Lord give me strength to get through each day. Both of my sons are autistic and require much from me. It’s difficult to raise children alone. BUT I keep faith Lord Jesus. Even as I struggle to pay rent and as I struggle to buy groceries for my children. I’m so ashamed. Jesus deliver me from my anxieties, and my troubles. Heal me from my lupus and heart disease. Help me to find strength when I am weak, And hope when I am afraid. Amen.
This is a very serious issue that needs to be addressed because there are doctors that really feel this way about black women and they aren’t just white doctors. Just because someone looks like you doesn’t mean that they empathize, understand you or have your best interest at heart. Because she his black physician, it is worst because black women want to go where they know that they will receive the best care, also there is an element of trust, sisterhood and camaraderie. Her comments cannot be taken back, the bias is there and she said what she said without remorse. Just because Jackie is a physician/ celebrity doesn’t mean she should get a pass. This is a big deal and it should be investigated because she is a Provider and she has a license to practice medicine. We would expect the same if she was white. Too many of our black women are dying in the care of doctors because of this type of mindset, this is unacceptable! If she feels that way she should do something else and definitely seek out a therapist for her own mental health. The Bible says, “The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit.”
Listen what comes out of the mouth is what's in your heart. I'm sorry you MEANT every word you said. Too late for apologizing, you can't erase this , Black Women have problems with Doctors with health period but also Black people across the board as well. Words are powerful, the tribe has spoken as a whole, Dr Jackie is beautiful and educated but what comes out her mouth and her thinking is off. Once again it be your own people knock you down. Black Women need the right representation for our health care some one who has empathy, have integrity and fearless.Take care Peace &❤🧿
I can be sensitive to the fact that she has no idea because she has never given birth. And there is clearly a factor of jealousy that she has for her own patients. However, history has shown she is intitled and we all have a time in which we are humbled. This is her time. God bless her and help her in this time, as it is not any easy journey.
Listen, a genuine apology comes un~asked for; you don't have to ask someone to apologize after you let them know how they made you feel. That's why you have to be mindful of what you say. Cause once it's said it's hard to unhear & believe anything else other that what was said. Things happen for a reason. It was important that we know how Dr. Jackie truly feels. Now, people can take it for how they see fit. No, Dr. Jackie doesn't need to be fired from M2M (Married to Medicine). No, she doesn't need to lose her license; that's a bit too much. I wouldn't choose her as my Doctor.
We need universal healthcare. The wealth disparities in the healthcare system would be solved if everyone was looked at as equals. As a white woman I’ve had doctors treat me like I’m faking, dramatizing, or confused about my own body because I didn’t have top-notch health insurance
I am really emotional about this because I tried to support black female doctors and it was every bad experience that is being discussed now that I too went through. You just don't even want to be truthful with a doctor that you know feel and act this way. You can feel it in your heart and soul. I am ashamed and embarrassed for us but also happy that I was not imagining this. In front of the Vice president !!? Wonder what she thinks of this or how she feels. Jackie?? We all make mistakes but I don't know about this and your reading from something.someone had to write your apology for you cuz you didn't mean what you said. Merry Christmas to all may God bless everyone in this upcoming New Year.🙂
What Dr. Jackie said was dangerous. She has to be canceled, unfortunately. Even if she feels that the black women she treats ae dramatic she should take them seriously no matter what.
1: When pregnant & experiencing issues, handling the responsibility of employment and household duties…there might not be any time allowed to “keep a journal” to note everything. 2: Many expectant Black Mothers don’t have a supportive family/village/support system, much less a “Buddy System” to serve as their advocate. 3: Medicaid patients or patients who depend on Employer provided health care cannot afford “a second or third opinion”. Because remember: we don’t need to “take off work”. The whole thing stinks! Prayers for our Sistas.
I will show her grace because I feel it was a humbling moment for her. This is not to excuse her behavior or lessen the black womens pain that she affected she has an arrogant and bitter spirit but I would show her some grace.
Yes… she was reading her words…. That shows that it wasn’t genuine. Don’t cancel her… We have to forgive…. But as a black woman… I will NEVER forget her words…
I believe her apology and as a black mother, I accept it. We’ve all messed up. And have been warranted grace. She deserves the same. This was a much needed conversation that needed to be had.
Coming from a black woman who has experienced drs like this and speaking for other black women friends who almost lost their lives from being ignored when it comes to our health concerns..apology not accepted. #oneblackwomantoablackwomandoctor #youshouldknowbetter #beouradvocate
This is not hard for me! I am a Black woman of a certain age and apologies come with changed behavior. Intentional or not her first oath was To Do No Harm! Jackie has harmed more than her profession or her race. She has harmed the sisters of her community. I do not know how she makes it right, or if she can but right now it is not possible.
Her apology seemed very… dramatic and cry wolf
I see what you did there☺️
Touché 🤣🤣🤣
Bawahaaaaaaa! got 'em!
Overly dramatic…
Touché
She actually doubled down on what she said. She stated within the apology that she should’ve chosen a better choice of words and then repeated a different approach to the same problem. She REALLY FEELS THAT POOR BLACK WOMEN ARE A PROBLEM
I feel that too. My real issue is when she said have an advocate with you so that you are heard. Why? My mouth is able to speak for me and the physician should take what I say because it's my body.
This statement here makes me think, she believes what she originally said.
YUP. You can tell she doesn't like to apologize!
She didn't day poor black women she said black women period are the problem.
let's get the facts. The fact is that none of her patients are poor black women yet she blame her black female patients for feeling pain.. It have nothing to do with class it have everything to do with the color of our skin.
Exactly
She ONLY apologized because she’s humiliated and scared of how her comment will impact her businesses.
That was not a true apology. Am I the only who notice how she threw in the part about the 2 hr video. The same 2 hr video she precisely said was taking out of context because we only saw a
30 snippet???🤔🤔🤔
@delightiful
DAMN STRAIGHT 💯
Exactly ❤❤❤
That part!! Her sorority sister gave her a call
Right because she has yet to apologize directly to her patient/my cousin…
Dr Jackie has the nerve to call poor black women lazy knowing they are part of the service class and they are more likely to work more hours than a GYN doctor.
Facts
Facts
Bunny4real ....she don''t have poor black women as her patients. All her patients are black middle class women and some rich black females. She don't accept medicaid. why are you assuming that all black women are poor? you sound like a racist.
When did she call them lazy?
@@TheresaofTheWorld she said they are dramatic because they want time off from WORK.
What Jackie said is DANGEROUS! Some years ago I drove myself to the ER because I was in excruciating pain! I was gripping the steering wheel! I had to leave a business presentation early that I was hosting! I knew it was my fibroids. The ER physician (White man) told me,”I’m the doctor! Don’t you tell me what’s wrong!” They did a scan and ultra sound. He returned,”You were right.” I explained the severe pain and exhaustion! He responded,”I’m not going to write a note to excuse you from work!” I felt so UNCARED for. He wasn’t listening or tuned into what I was going through at all. I was self employed and didn’t need a note! I needed relief and care! I am glad Jackie FINALLY humbled herself. I have found some of the most educated people are not so smart at all. Jackie and Quad got some much needed humble pie after all this time! Jackie needs to be demoted to friend.
Now I'm skeptical about anyone that has never given birth.🤔
I have a similar story. I'm so sorry you experienced such bs care. 😢
I had a medical issue, and my doctor didn't take me seriously until it was time for surgery. I'm pissed at what she said. This is about black women's lives. How dear she? She knows what we go through.
Did she say that to the vice president?
Most Drs do not take complaints seriously, it’s like they don’t listen unless they’re introduced to a new medication that may or may not work for you. I’m just coming out of a deep depression from the 90’s when a doctor told me I had cervical cancer a year after my yearly examination. No phone calls to tell me anything about it until my visit then I was told I was one stage from the final stage. At 33 years old I was devastated. I let them do seven if not more procedures of freezing and clipping my canal and finding nothing but the Pap smear showed problems. Soon after was having pain and headaches and was diagnosed with fibroids I went to three doctors I was bleeding and clotting for three years badly. I couldn’t sit, walk, laugh or sneeze without destroying my clothing or chairs with blood every doctor said there was nothing they could do because the fibroids were multiple sizes. I lived the next 35 years waiting to die and living carelessly partying trying to get the thought that won’t leave out of my head. I now have other age old symptoms that doctors don’t feel they are related to the common symptoms and conditions that a lot of people suffer with. The thought of a doctor saying or even thinking out loud that women just want to get out of work is a hurtful way to express the care that you took an oath to help the people you wish to serve. I stopped going to doctors because they don’t all listen and explore further than their thoughts or textbook experience.
The apology is giving ‘publicist’, ‘PR’ 💁🏾♀️
It's not giving. It is. Period.
It's giving come reunion "Jackie... Tina from Ohio would like to know..."
And teleprompter she kept reading
@@-Epiphany💯
@@Dawn-ey2mq I agree!
I stand in solidarity with my sisters that are not accepting of this apology.
❤Thank you! We've got to stop bending over forgiving! She meant what she said.
Her Apology didn't Seem Sincere To Me, She Was Call Out & Didn't like it......🙄
She is full of it.
It's odd that the network dropped this on social media to begin with. As Black women we didn't get what we were looking for from Bravo. The entire network is trash particularly Andy and some other members of the male LGBT community.
The apology should have come first. I do think the apology was real for many reasons. 70% was about fear perhaps, but it was real she is concerned as a doctor she just speaks so coldly. I hope she continues her practice, but a doctor who deals with the masses becomes a spokeswoman.
When I was 17 years old I gave birth to my oldest , I had a Black woman as an OB / Gyn she was horrible, terrible bed side manners . When I asked her a question she mocked me. Not only that, I had c section and she botched my my body up. As a scared teenager it traumatized me. Now I’m a paramedic I vowed to educate, treat and be my sisters keeper.
Sorry you had to go through this! Thank you for giving back as a paramedic and caring for people
❤🙏🏽
Omg 😮
I am so so sorry you had such a traumatic experience. Wish I could give you a big hug.
I’ll never forget. I discovered I was pregnant and intentionally sought out a black woman OBGYN. My first appointment was horrible. I was so glad my child’s father was there to witness it himself. I had so many questions and she was defensive, dismissive and rude. That was worst doc appt I ever had. It got so bad my partner ended the appointment! He is so calm and chill, so seeing him get upset at how I was being treated and how it was physically effecting me in the moment, he said not today!
I was so damn hurt after that. I’m just glad I told her to her face that appointment was the worst ever and although I was looking for a black woman to care for me and give my insurance coins too, now I’m just looking for someone that’s professional and actually cares for their patients.
Blessings to you, sis ❤🙏🏾
Her apology was actually worse. Now we gotta document, tell everyone and get multiple opinions to be believed. BS. I’m happy that my KOREAN doctor (in S. Korea) believed me when I told him about the pain I experienced when my son tried to come 2 months early. I was promptly put on bed rest and had to take medicine every 4 hours just to keep him inside of me. He’s now 18 and doing well - praise God
Why is Dr. Jackie reading off her apology?!?! 🤔
because she's insincere
I'm okay with reading it so you don't leave out the important part; which she did!
Because she works for scripted Bravo
I'm so sick of people making us bow down a forgive! That trick meant what she said! All skin folk ain't kenfolk!
This is so scary!!!! As a Black RN, I do not judge my Patients I listen to them, Pain is whatever the Patient say it is. I am just hurt please let’s all stay Prayed up for each other❤
Apologizing should have been the FIRST thing she did, instead of doubling down on her comments.
She’s articulate enough not to read that apology. Whose advising here?!?
Nah Dr.Jekyl we good on you!! You meant EXACTLY WHAT YOU SAID PERIOD!!BYE
That part
Dr Jackie's apology rang hollow with me. I don't believe that she understands the full gravity of her words, and lack of empathy and concern for Black women, especially since they comprise a great majority of her patients. I don't necessarily think that she should be canceled, but a public humbling and contrite spirit is certainly in line with addressing her words!
Nah just like any other biased professional she needs to be investigated
You ain't lyin' about that! She's been on one, for years! ✌🏾
I don't believe her and apology NOT accepted. The apology was forced.
She was so robotic.
@Sweetie_abundant_heart very, it was definitely givin teleprompterish.
@@mochap19 There should be emotion with an apology.
@@Sweetie_abundant_heart she had absolutely 0
Tamar didn’t really need to chime in. Like frfr 😒
She made it worse ..
@@ImAMayTaurus444she always does
It’s giving the people are canceling their appointments🤨
Exactly! Those pockets getting hit honey
It just goes to show you, you have to watch what you say especially when you’re in the public eye
Exactly!! That’s how you really advocate for the people who are being affected by Jackie’s hurtful, hateful and reckless remarks….you hit them in their pockets and watch all the coins come falling out!😂😏
I will believe her apology when she takes Medicare and Medicaid patients 🤨😑🤔
Dr Jackie?! Neverrrr! She think Medicare and Medicaid patients are beneath her. She really thought her sh@t didn’t stank until this happen.
She apologized for blk women being hurt by what she said but she didn’t apologize for what she said. It’s like she apologized for people’s feelings instead of what she did. She said she used the wrong words meaning she meant what she said but she could have conveyed it a different way. Which is equally as bad
If she wouldn’t have “Double down” on her comments from 3 years ago a couple of days ago, her apology would’ve felt genuine. She didn’t do that. She had to be made to feel uncomfortable to reflect. Thats frightening & could push other ethnicities to not hear us even more. They’ll say “See even their own knows how dramatic black women are.”
Kevin heart just did a movie a few years ago about the death of a Judge Hatchett’s daughter. She was ignored after giving birth 🤰🏾 which could have been avoided had she been believed.
This could’ve set us back if we didn’t give backlash. Dr. Jackie cannot empathize with us because she’s never experienced child birth. We felt “Shaken” too.
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You are reading my thoughts…confirmation to other ethnicities, Judge Hatchette’s daughter in law and so many others, including myself
😂😂😂😂😂give Dr jackie an Oscar an emmy😂😂she is trolling not apologizing😂😂😂
I wish everybody stop trying to make this woman apologize for stating how she really feels about black women. she's a narcissist, she don't care!!!!! When somebody shows you who they are, believe them!!!! #MayaAngelou
Facts!
She needs to apologize. She was marginalizing us! I went through this earlier this year after BRAIN 🧠 SURGERY TO REMOVE A TUMOR!! THEY WOULD NOT TAKE ME SERIOULY AND THE PAIN WAS UNBEARABLE!!😢 They gave me Tylenol extra strength and Tramadol low dosage!! That was like eating Skittles. Her tears are Nothing compared to the pain that I felt. I experienced racism in the Healthcare industry 1st hand!!!
I'm glad you made it through. GOD bless. My younger brother battled a brain tumor. Blessings.
God bless you. 🙏 I am so sorry to hear about your experience with uncaring healthcare professionals.
she's reading something. thats not her true feelings. people that speak without reading and real tears falling is more heartfelt.
She could’ve pre wrote it before going live
I’m someone that writes things down before doing major speeches bcuz I don’t want to forget anything
As for the tears I dated a guy who could cry on Que and it had me stuck for a while bcuz I thought no man I know fakes tears
Whelp, he did 🤣
We can’t trust anyone sis
Unfortunately, Jackie has this national platform and used it to basically betrayed us
So even if she had said it from the heart w tears pouring down
It still wouldn’t have made me believe here.
I don’t think she’s a nice person in general
Sent w love 💕
true. i wonder if she's aware of the clear ppl thinking that we dont have pain. I hate to say it but as early as this year I had one do a pap on me and was just rough for no reason. I let every doctor on my team know that she was to never touch me again or it was ganna be a misunderstanding (in my bernie mack voice).@@g.pearson4726
As a black women whose throat closed up after receiving anesthesia right before my c-section who wasn't able to swallow and had saliva running down my face I'm glad the anesthesiologist was aware and listened to me. What Dr. Jackie said was horrible and the fact she double down on it makes it worse. As black woman she should have known better that to say some trash like that.
Nah,that apology was whack af. She spoke more about herself than why what she said was wrong and misleading.
Remember when she kept hosting "exercise" events telling her friends they were overweight, etc. What is wrong w her?
She read the words of her publicist perfectly. Devoid of true emotions and feelings. The fact she said this almost 4 years ago, and I saw this live, and no one said anything is truly annoying to me. Why we have to let people show us repeatedly how they really are is beyond me. The thing with Buffie was enough for me.
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Lololol .. watch the tarot reading I did on her, she is too angry to sympathize
Awww.. people are probably canceling their appointments. Jackie should stop being dramatic 🙄
This goes beyond public opinion. The medical board needs to investigate her for discrimination by reviewing all of her records. God only knows how many women she has declined to help based on their financial status and race.
She should exit the show and Bravo needs to make a huge monetary donation to black women's health.
Wow!!!!!!!!!!! I truly hate y’all
Stop being so evil period what are u going to get from all that happening to her pray to God and stop the hate and jealousy
@gingerwingerful Not evil nor I am jealous. If she was white, this would be expected and in other professions similar actions are taken. You should have compassion for the women who could have been mishandled/injured while under her care.
For example, there was a judge in Cobb County, GA (a few years ago) who made racist statements (he admitted to giving black people harsh sentences just for being black) while out drinking with his peers. He was reported and all of his cases/judgements were reviewed. Dr. Jackie is no better than that former judge.
@@gingerwingerfulEvil?!?!?!Women have died from this type of rhetoric/negligence. #REVIEWTHERECORDS!!!!
In all fairness, her words were unethical & actually subject her to possible investigation. She’s supposed to “do no harm” and a medical board would be acting well within their rights to investigate any claims of malpractice, malfeasance, etc. She’s broken public trust 😬
Not once during the apology I heard her take accountability as a doctor and she again giving out advice I expected her to say what she’s going to to do to make it better maybe I’m just hard to please why should I keep a log and have a buddy system that’s why they have test and carry out test tf
I'm sorry, but every time I hear this apology I get more and more furious because I actually, in the present, have been going through feeling unheard not only by my OB-GYN but also my family/primary physician who are both non-black. So in thinking and searching for black female physicians this issue with Jackie is extremely terrifying.
No Jackie, you need to keep a log of our concerns and symptoms and figure out how to help us. We are carrying a human inside of us and for you to ignore us when we tell you about our pains could possibly cause a loss of life. Two lives. Jackie still does not get it and how what she said to her own people is disgusting and sad.
Exactly!!!! Yt women don't need to complete a college assignment to be believed. She is so wrong.
Her original words spoke to her true mindset and thoughts of black women. I think her apology is a pr move
Chile if this Aint the year of Revelations idk what it is! Everyone is being EXPOSED!
Thank you for working on Christmas Eve!!! Now, to say something a lot of people are going to hate me for:
All of us mad at her, hurt by her, aren't her clientele. Her celebrity clients are going to continue to go to her. Continue to support. Continue to pay her cash for her services. Us regular degular folks aren't affecting her bag whatsoever 🤷🏾♀️
Good news is…this backlash has received more serious attention than her PSA with the Vice President. And will be more helpful to bring about change.
Amen...
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It’s beyond words because she has done damage to real black women. I seen a post about her and the comments were filled with her ex- patients and she’s was giving that same energy in here bedside manner. People make mistakes but this is a serious issue in our culture and most be taking serious because if a non black doctor would of said what she said the black congregation would of never entertain an apology
I am glad she apologized. It is not for me to judge her apology. During this holiday season and always we need to extend grace to allow her to put her words into real action. It’s time like this where we can show her and other physicians what we need and want from them. I don’t excuse he but I want to extend a chance for her to do better. 🙏🏾❤️💪🏾
Bless you for that!❤
Chile... Jackie was definitely reading a prompter when she apologized 😌
Here's the thing, Dr Jackie's reputation will get better eventually. She will lose patients but will not get cancelled. MDs commit medical malpractice and they are still able to see patients. She didn't do that in this case. She also sees a lot of celebrities and patients who are wealthy and they are probably not going to stop seeing her.
It's the music in the background of her apology for me🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Dude you are wild.
People mess up all the time....but it's when they double down is when there is a problem. It's sad someone, especially a black women, in the medical field really has those kind of unethical morals. I think sometimes people shouldn't ask for an apology from someone who has doubled down. How dreadful Jackie...I mean Dr Jackie.
Agree. You can tell she doesn't regret what she said. So sad.
I've noticed that I call her Jackie now ... I guess I've lost respect for her.
Putting her comments about how she doesn't like Ms.Quad. Well it ain't no fun when the rabbit got the gun Dr. Jackie. Karma comes full circle for everyone
I have not cared for Dr. Jackie since the Buffie situation, however, I think her apology is genuine. I feel like people will call for an apology then when they get it, they complain that it's fake or disingenuous. Sometimes we need to just accept the apology and look forward to proof of change rather than condemning the possibility of change by begrudging every motion made after a mistake or bad behavior.
But you gotta ask, should you apologize for thing you mean to say 🤔 I posted a tarot reading on her and it was pretty éye opening
She does Look a Little Beat down and her face does appear to have been 😭😭😭😭😭. Sending her an Air Hug! I think she has been shaken and moved by the Outpour and Backlash she has received! Welp just 🙏🏽 Pray for her!
I believe she’s really sorry.
@@beth1321 She probably is sorry Now after hearing what our Sister's had to say even patients of her own 🤷🏾. I believe she meant what she said, but now that it has been Revisited and the implications of it all she had to take "A Spin Around The Block". And to think this could affect her coins 🤨 She's definitely Sorry!!! I agree 🤭
I could make this comment into a book. I've experienced hell with health care and had to advocate for myself and thank God I had that skill. It literally saved my life. No one knew I had a tumor in the reproductive region of my body. I'm tearing up thinking about everything I went through. This apology is not enough for me. She needs to REALLY be held accountable. DANGEROUS does not come close to describe the position she put black women in. Shame on her. Sit her ass down a few seasons. And Justin, I love you, but you can't really comment on how this should be handled, especially if you're not standing with us. She took an oath as a physician, and she failed every black woman with those comments patients or not. Still love and respect you, though.
Me coming here after watching the “Jackie you’re DONE” video wondering when you’d make another about it. And here we are 😭😂
All jokes aside, she looked stressed in that video. I only feel bad because I know she wasn’t prepared for all of this, but you have to be mindful of your words and actions. Especially when you are in a certain professional position as well as on a platform such as M2M!
When I say this man's videos be having me in tears 😂 this follow up video had me cackling when he had the "Bravo end of season" type clip he created himself. I can't take Justin serious 😂😂😂lmaooooo
@@khrissi17 he’s too much 🥹😭😂
I never experience going through childbirth but I have experience d and still experience high level of pain at times. I have endometriosis and that pain is from the gates of hell. I have been in the hospital and placed on the highest pain medicine to calm it down. One minute I can be fine but when that pain hits- it hits. Someone can say too that I am faking it because you can't see it but the pain is out of this world. The white gynecologist that diagnosed me with this had to take a chocolate cyst from my right ovary. When I came to her one day and said what I experienced one day with my endometriosis, I was not believed. She proceeded to have another white coworker in the room (without my permission) to check me out. I felt upset that I wasn't believed. She never prescribed any pain medicine for me either. I left that group and actually sought a black gynecologist. I finally landed with a male black gynecologist (first time I had a male gynecologist) and I was believed. He gave me pain medicine just in case it can get to a pain level in where I need it. Plus, he wasn't talking about taking out my uterus. I am quite happy with him because he listened to me.
Jackie should be held accountable for her actions. They need to remove her from M2M. She should NOT represent the black OB/GYN community or black women. Her apology was Dramatic. What she said was black women need someone to speak for them, as if we are too dumb to speak for ourselves and we need a journal to PROVE we are ill. As a healthcare provider myself, I would NEVER give that advice to a black woman. We are not less than, and we can come to an appointment and say what's wrong without needing proof of illness for someone to believe us. Absolutely RIDICULOUS!
What she said was unforgivable unfortunately for her we can’t except your apology you meant what you said😢
When people have everything to lose, it amazes me how the waterworks and the apologies start. The damage is already done, bye Felicia!
This is the age of Aquarius ♒️!
Nothing shall remain hidden! NOTHING!!
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Thank you binge worthy for posting the real on this situation. These black and so called black opportunists are out of control and need to be called out.
She does not get it. It is not her poor choice words it's her thinking and bedside manner. She never addressed her way of thinking. She stands by what she said in 20/20. She just hates that. It hurt us so bad that it backfired
I could tell Dr. Jackie was reading, but it seemed like she was genuine only because of the vast majority of negative comments from the initial bad response. Once again thanks bae and Merry Christmas!
There are people who are just not open minded until someone corrects them and explains different ways of thinking. Once they become aware of how their thinking can be hurtful to others, it is now up to them to change that. Dr Jackie has listened, seen her mistake and now has apologized. The public now needs to understand that. This matter does not require Dr Jackie to be canceled. Let’s be compassionate to Dr Jackie, as we would want others to be with us if we were in this situation.
You can...
You can,I'll take a big pass.her ass reading a prompter 😂
Dr Jackie's actions speak louder than her words. 🙄
Let me just say this...after all is said and done, I feel really sorry for Dr Jackie's patients who surely were on the receiving end of her cold, "you're exaggerating" diagnosis....
Contrition is important! Better LATE than never! She needed to say tho that “LADIES, I am soooooo sorry! Going forward, when you tell me that you are hurting, I WILLLLLLL BELIEVE YOU, because ONLY YOU KNOW your body BETTER than I EVER could!”
Happy holidays, Dr. Jackie! TRY TO DO BETTER in the new year! 🙏🏼
Nothing about that apology is heart felt, reading from a teleprompter , she don’t have feelings you can tell .
The only thing this teaches other doctors is to keep their comments and biases to themselves. I guess we like better when people pretend in our faces and feel another way behind our backs. She didnt mispeak. Jackie proved the age old fact of, do a little good and people will justify the bad 🤷🏾♀️
I understand we all say things that we later regret or realize wasn’t the truth. …. But this was 3yrs ago. She was already well within her career, and aware of the disparage in care that black and brown women had been receiving. She meant what she said.
I think that was a genuine, heartfelt apology. We’ve seen her not-so heartfelt apologies and this was just different
When she came for Buffy about her infertility, when she herself!!!!...I started to see her in a different light...And when she was confronted at the dinner,The way she responded,was All I needed to see.
I don't want her to lose her license. But I want her business to be affected to the point where she has to accept Medicare patients to make it...
Ok, the quickness with which I clicked! Let’s see how this apology is looking like 😒😒
I'd like to know why Dr. Jackie's success is predicated on superficial qualities such as looks, wealth, and classism. I've noticed she only associates with people who conform to the traditional US beauty standards, which I find highly problematic. Additionally, it struck me odd that while she attempted to cry, no tears were present. This makes me question her capacity for genuine emotions, compassion, or sincere apologies.
This comes on how they treated Quad maybe she will now see that grace needs to be extend to Quad like she wants now
@russ32370
Ohhh PLEASE don't talk about that Quad (women). I'm thru w/her silly behind when she put herself in that coffin WTF. 😱 😱 simple A** women. She'll do anything for attention. And now she's (Quad) crying just like Mrs. Jackie is doing. BYE GIRLS.
I don't believe her apology only because if she didn't mean it nothing like this would've spued out of her mouth. And let's talk about how long it took for her to apologize 👀
Dr. jackie was told by Bravo to do a video and apologize
As a black women with two autistic children. Dr. J hurt my heart. Merry Christmas, Heavenly Father, give me strength this Christmas. As a single mom I’m struggling to make ends meet. Lord give me strength to get through each day. Both of my sons are autistic and require much from me. It’s difficult to raise children alone. BUT I keep faith Lord Jesus. Even as I struggle to pay rent and as I struggle to buy groceries for my children. I’m so ashamed. Jesus deliver me from my anxieties, and my troubles. Heal me from my lupus and heart disease. Help me to find strength when I am weak, And hope when I am afraid. Amen.
I believe her😬❤️ she meant her apology andbshe recognized she was wrong.
This is a very serious issue that needs to be addressed because there are doctors that really feel this way about black women and they aren’t just white doctors. Just because someone looks like you doesn’t mean that they empathize, understand you or have your best interest at heart. Because she his black physician, it is worst because black women want to go where they know that they will receive the best care, also there is an element of trust, sisterhood and camaraderie. Her comments cannot be taken back, the bias is there and she said what she said without remorse. Just because Jackie is a physician/ celebrity doesn’t mean she should get a pass. This is a big deal and it should be investigated because she is a Provider and she has a license to practice medicine. We would expect the same if she was white. Too many of our black women are dying in the care of doctors because of this type of mindset, this is unacceptable! If she feels that way she should do something else and definitely seek out a therapist for her own mental health. The Bible says, “The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit.”
I don't want to hear it at this point.
Listen what comes out of the mouth is what's in your heart. I'm sorry you MEANT every word you said. Too late for apologizing, you can't erase this , Black Women have problems with Doctors with health period but also Black people across the board as well. Words are powerful, the tribe has spoken as a whole, Dr Jackie is beautiful and educated but what comes out her mouth and her thinking is off. Once again it be your own people knock you down. Black Women need the right representation for our health care some one who has empathy, have integrity and fearless.Take care Peace &❤🧿
Everybody deserves forgiveness even Dr Jackie.
I can be sensitive to the fact that she has no idea because she has never given birth. And there is clearly a factor of jealousy that she has for her own patients. However, history has shown she is intitled and we all have a time in which we are humbled. This is her time. God bless her and help her in this time, as it is not any easy journey.
BUT IM TIRED OF OTHER GROUPS SAYING THEY ACCEPT HER APOLOGY. As a non BW you are in no position accepting her or granting her sincerity
I think she should step down as a representation of the WHITE HOUSE.......for Black Woman...not a good look.... period.
Listen, a genuine apology comes un~asked for; you don't have to ask someone to apologize after you let them know how they made you feel. That's why you have to be mindful of what you say. Cause once it's said it's hard to unhear & believe anything else other that what was said. Things happen for a reason. It was important that we know how Dr. Jackie truly feels. Now, people can take it for how they see fit. No, Dr. Jackie doesn't need to be fired from M2M (Married to Medicine). No, she doesn't need to lose her license; that's a bit too much. I wouldn't choose her as my Doctor.
If there are ANY women still entrusting that vile woman with their medical care,
You are putting yourself and your child in danger.
I love Dr. Shan's message
She chose "better words" too bad she didn't choose "support and advocacy" on behalf of women who look like her instead of violence against them.
We need universal healthcare. The wealth disparities in the healthcare system would be solved if everyone was looked at as equals. As a white woman I’ve had doctors treat me like I’m faking, dramatizing, or confused about my own body because I didn’t have top-notch health insurance
I am really emotional about this because I tried to support black female doctors and it was every bad experience that is being discussed now that I too went through. You just don't even want to be truthful with a doctor that you know feel and act this way. You can feel it in your heart and soul. I am ashamed and embarrassed for us but also happy that I was not imagining this. In front of the Vice president !!? Wonder what she thinks of this or how she feels. Jackie?? We all make mistakes but I don't know about this and your reading from something.someone had to write your apology for you cuz you didn't mean what you said. Merry Christmas to all may God bless everyone in this upcoming New Year.🙂
How she would have said is not what she said at all. She said we are acting and exaggerating our pain to get a free paid day off work.
What Dr. Jackie said was dangerous. She has to be canceled, unfortunately. Even if she feels that the black women she treats ae dramatic she should take them seriously no matter what.
I thought the ambush of Quad was bad, but the missile has been launched and the nuclear fallout has dispersed. 🔔☠️🚀☢️
You can't tell a person how to apologize.
Quad is somewhere saying… “God don’t play bout me..”
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1: When pregnant & experiencing issues, handling the responsibility of employment and household duties…there might not be any time allowed to “keep a journal” to note everything.
2: Many expectant Black Mothers don’t have a supportive family/village/support system, much less a “Buddy System” to serve as their advocate.
3: Medicaid patients or patients who depend on Employer provided health care cannot afford “a second or third opinion”. Because remember: we don’t need to “take off work”.
The whole thing stinks! Prayers for our Sistas.
We must forgive 🙏♥️
I’m glad she apologized, that written one did not do it for me
I will show her grace because I feel it was a humbling moment for her. This is not to excuse her behavior or lessen the black womens pain that she affected she has an arrogant and bitter spirit but I would show her some grace.
Yes… she was reading her words…. That shows that it wasn’t genuine. Don’t cancel her… We have to forgive…. But as a black woman… I will NEVER forget her words…
I believe her apology and as a black mother, I accept it.
We’ve all messed up. And have been warranted grace.
She deserves the same.
This was a much needed conversation that needed to be had.
PROPERLY convey her CONCERN. i don't think she was worry about patient pain. jackie concern was about complaints and not taking it seriously.
Coming from a black woman who has experienced drs like this and speaking for other black women friends who almost lost their lives from being ignored when it comes to our health concerns..apology not accepted. #oneblackwomantoablackwomandoctor #youshouldknowbetter #beouradvocate
This is not hard for me! I am a Black woman of a certain age and apologies come with changed behavior. Intentional or not her first oath was To Do No Harm! Jackie has harmed more than her profession or her race. She has harmed the sisters of her community. I do not know how she makes it right, or if she can but right now it is not possible.