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Having Major Regrets With My Family
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- Опубліковано 20 гру 2022
- You might think it's nothing, but this was a hard realization for me and it's something that I think about often. Especially considering the past year. That being said, we watch my Dad play in one of his concerts and it's a blast!
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Good morning and happy Wednesday! Thanks for being here. I know this may sound silly to some people, but it's a big worry and thought of mine that I have almost every day. Now, with the Christmas season, I think those emotions and thoughts are amplified. Thanks for understanding, thanks for being here, and we hope you have an awesome day and week! ❤
Already evening here😂
Why did you and your family choose to move away from everyone else?
Good morning and happy Wednesday
@@lindamangoldbooth7789because of the warmer weather I believe.
Nothing silly about that Jared, that is so so sweet and I understand completely ❤❤❤
Since my dad passed I could have never took enough photos of him so I always encourage that. But also don't forget about the younger crowd. Accidents cancer and other things can affect us too. You never know who will be missing the next holiday.
I totally understand where you’re coming from. My Grammy passed in September, and in the past year I tried to take more pictures with her. Now those pictures and the voicemails she left are so incredibly special❤
I think it’s wonderful that you save and share all of the voices and memories! My mom had cancer and passed right before my daughter turned 2 - I am so thankful for the videos we have of the two of them together so she can know how much her grandma loved her. ❤
I saved some of my dad’s voicemails when he passed due to cancer in 2017 and it truly makes life so much better hearing his voice again 😢
My fathers passing was a year ago this week and hearing his voice recordings have been such a comfort to us. He was always teased for taking so many photos and videos but now they are more precious to us than gold. God bless you and your family and Merry Christmas!
My husband died at 50! I would give anything, ANYTHING , to hear his voice again.
Oh my goodness Jared you had me in tears. I love what your doing with your family as my father passed away at Thanksgiving and I’m having an extremely hard time this Christmas. My mother lives hours away from me and now it’s so hard knowing she is completely alone and my heart is breaking. So I want to say thank you for the idea of more pictures and videos with my family. But hold tightly to yours and have a very Merry Christmas.
I think it's wonderful that you keep all the voice mails and take all the pictures. ❤️❤️❤️
I saved my Moms last 3 voicemails in 2014 before she passed…. I love listening to them from time to time. Merry Christmas to your beautiful family..
My Mom passed away in 2018 and I am still able to listen to her tell me “Happy Birthday” every year because I have saved voicemails.
Always save the voicemails!
This was a very endearing, heartfelt vlog. You're so right, Jared, tomorrow is not guaranteed for any of us. I have 4 sisters, and we call ourselves the 5 Sister Network. We are very close and in constant contact with each other. It's a great feeling when families are like that. God Bless. Love you all! xxoo
Merry Christmas Jared and family 🧡 lt’s wonderful that you’re keeping mom and dad voice mails. What a tender and special thing to do for yourself and the kiddos🌟🕊💕
I just lost my grandpa very suddenly last week and I regret not having more pictures of him and me and him with my kids. I wish I had more voice mails as well. So happy you are saving all these memories for yourself and your kids. Merry Christmas ❤
Jared, I hear you 'loud & clear' because I have my own regrets (hindsight is 20-20). You're so smart save those sentimental voice messages they're more precious than gold when their voices eventually fade in your heart which WILL make you feel emptier if & when that happens. I love your insight & thoughtfulness. 💌
Penny making snow dog angels has fizzled away all anxiety I’ve had all day- she’s so silly😂😂
I've saved voicemails too. We are 4 sisters and just lost 2 sisters in 2 years. I know when the time comes, I will still be able to hear a voice from someone that passed. At one of my sister's services, they played a cd of her speaking and singing. She loved singing and felt God gave her the voice to do so.
I still can't get over that a little girl is going to be in Ellie and Jared's lil family! So exciting.
Jared it’s not morbid, it’s very thoughtful and a beautiful thing to do. ❤
Take the photos!! I lost my young brother unexpectedly when he was 30, in 2014, then my father the following year 2015 and my 38 year old sister in 2016 and my 20 year old niece in 2021. You don’t know when they’ll be gone and those pictures are everything now. I am always taking photos of my family.
Merry Christmas Mechams!
Your dad and his band are awesome! Merry Christmas to all of you!
Jared is so sweet and a loving person.
Totally get where Jared is coming from I think that’s sooooooo lovely honestly my heart ❤️.
As someone who last their dad at the age of 15 I completely understand the voicemails and pictures. I wish I had more of my dad to share with my kids.
Sending your family so much love and prayers ❤
It’s SO WONDERFUL to see a Young Family Living Your BEST LIFE…..Your Boys are just so BEAUTIFUL and are so SWEET and So LOVING…
Merry Christmas 🎄
Watching from Virginia 🌹
My family always make sure to take a group photo when we get together and I make sure to take a really nice picture of my girls with my grandmothers. It’s not silly or morbid. My husband’s grandfather left me a really sweet voicemail and I’m so glad I saved it because he just passed away. We had visited him in July and took a lovely photo with my husband and girls and that ended up being the last one. I’m happy to have a nice picture to put in their yearbooks to remember him by.
That’s such a sweet sentiment Jared and what a great idea to take more pictures and the voicemails 🥰
That voicemail memory is so beautiful thanks for sharing that!
I'm so glad you use your platform and audience to be sentimental. I'm a funeral director and see regret constantly. Thank you for sharing and living this out, that you want to document your life for your future reminiscing and telling your kids about the people you love and how they influenced your life. Very well said and done. I applaud you.
Hope you had a great Christmas and you have a happy new year.
You made me cry. Live you guys. Have a Merry Christmas.
Love you guys.
Jared you so had me crying .. I so wish I had done what your doing, you will never regret it ❤️❤️
Jared, thank you for the reminder. I’m going to try to take more pictures this Christmas with family. Merry Christmas Mecham Family.
Pictures and videos are so important! I lost my mom very unexpectedly 6 years ago and wish more than anything I had more pictures with her and could hear her voice again. She hated being in photos so I have very few.
So important to take time to think about does thinks and take picture , save voice mails. I’m 37 and lost my dad unexpectedly in April this year🥲 so take time with family is important ⭐️
Oh! Jared!!!!😭💔😭💔
Yes! You are so right.
Our family is spread out thanks to me 🙄
We moved to Texas for work 35 years ago!
Ever time we would go home we always took a large family photo.
My older brother would never come, nor did he come to my wedding before I moved away.
Our last family COMPLETE picture that was taken, he refused to come.
Two years later we lost our dad to cancer. 💔💔
Now for over 27 years my older brother has tried ever way he could to splice him & his wife in our last completed family picture. It still grieves me for him.
I wish we could spread this message far & wide! Life is way too short in the grand scheme of life.
Thank you for sharing your heart with all of us.
God bless 🙏🏻♥️
Merry Christmas ✝️🎄
Doesn't sound silly at all. We lost our dad in March, he went very quickly. You think I'd never forget his voice but it happens. Our first Christmas without him, staying positive for our kids but it's tough. Hug your loved ones tight x ☘🇮🇪 wishing you all a wonderful and peaceful Christmas
Merry Christmas, Jared and family. I love your kind and loving soul.❤
Oh Jared. I save my Mom, Dad, and hubby's voice-mails. I get it. It's rough watching everyone getting older. ❤
Bless you Jared have wonderful Christmas with all your family + 1. Coming January 2023. Sending you all so much love for the new year... merry Christmas and a Happy New year 🎉 ✨ 😊
❤fun video…fun entertainment… Sending hugs prayers and kindness ❤❤❤ps I so understand your feelings. I lost my mom in 2017. I still have her last voicemail. My father is still living at 93 years old and I treasure every time I get to talk to him.
Jared, you’re so wise and you may have just inspired a lot of people to do the same thing (you definitely inspired me). Merry Christmas to you and your sweet family.
Your dad is seriously so precious!
I know how you feel living so far from family. Have. Merry Christmas to you and Ellie and boys. Can't wait to see baby girl❤😫
Merry Christmas Ellie, Jared, Kids and Family
Merry Christmas Ellie & Jared. ❤
Jared I'm so glad you save so many photos and voicemails. My dad passed and I regret not having more photos and voicemails with him.
I lost my mom over 40 years ago and only have one old cassette tape of her voice and it is a bit distorted. 😢
My Mom died from the flu when she was 47. I was 23 and newly married. Neither of my children ever met her. I have, maybe, 10 or 12 pictures of her. I have memories, but I can't remember the sound of her voice. I'm 75 now and have lived many years more than my Mom. I hope my children and grandchildren will be able to look at pictures and remember me.. Jared you are so smart. I can understand exactly why you are taking pictures and saving voice mails!
I have saved voicemails as well. My elderly friend, JC, passed away 5 years ago. And I’ll go back and listen to his voice when I’m missing him.
Thanks for sharing! I lost my youngest son last year and pictures are priceless I have my son's voicemails also
I know how you feel. My dad wasn't in a lot of pics with me or my kids; not for any particular reason, but we were in Disneyworld a couple years ago and I was taking a picture of my daughter. My dad was with us and I looked at him and said, "Hey get over there with Jess! I barely have any pictures of you with the kids!" Little did I know we would lose him in Sept. 2021. I treasure every photo, video, and voicemail I have of him. My first 2 kids are old enough to remember him, but I had just told him about my 3rd pregnancy, then lost him a few weeks later, so I have a son who will never meet him. I'm glad of what I have to show him of his Pawpaw.
Hi ellie jared family 🎄 it's so sweet what you do.this time of year I send a good morning tex to my only son with a photo of me with a Christmas theme for him to keep.take care merry Christmas to you all xx💕👍🎄🎅🎄🎅🎄🐕🐕🇬🇧🇬🇧
I wish I had taken pictures with my mother though we were so very close neither her or I liked having our picture taken. I regret not taking some of us together and also of her and the grandkids and great grandkids cause after she passed we all wished there was even one photo of us together. Keep it up Jared they are great things to have and look at.
Photos with family hold so much meaning. I never got may photos taken of myself and my papa, whereas my brothers had lots. ( I was majorly camera shy as a little girl). My papa passed away in 2017 but I got a photo with him only 2/3 months before he passed and I’m so great full for that photo.
Beautiful days to always remember 🎄💜💜💜💜
I have a few from my dad and grammie and I treasure them since they have passed. I wish I had some from my grandpa too!
I think about that all the time too! We never do it, and I'm always afraid I will regret it. Also, Record or transfer them onto your laptop and save them that way so you can have voicemails again.
I was laughing every time you panned to the martial arts gear 😂
I'm sentimental like that too Jared. I wish we had more videos of my grandparents.
Praying for you and your family so much love🙏❤️
We have a cassete tape of my maternal Grandpas voice and a video tape of my paternal grandmother cooking. I treasure those too.
God bless the beautiful family Merry Christmas to the whole family.🌲🎁🎊🎉❤️
Happy christmas to yous all
Be a bit careful with snow tunnels as they can collapse, especially if kids are making them….which you already know, I’m sure.
Jared I have always kept my text messages from my Mother and my brother, my Daddy is with Jesus however I do have videos with him and those mean the world to me.. I also have videos with my husband and children and text messages I’ll never get rid of.. Thank you for sharing your family with us and also your message as to why you take the pictures and voicemails.. Merry Christmas to you and your family from my family... Hope you have a Blessed New year...
Merry Christmas from my family to yours.
It's not silly. Be sentimental and save all of those memories. One day, hopefully a far, far away day, you will be happy that you did❤
My Grampy passed recently. I had his voice mails saved. My dad then took me to build a bear to get my grampies voice in hedwig The owl My Grampy’s nickname was wiggy. And he was wise as an old owl it was perfect and brings me so much comfort I am glad you save your voice mails
I remember the vlog you did when Cullen's dad passed away and you talked about why you started vlogging and not knowing your Grandpa's voice. I'm glad you have all these memories saved and your right, we never know when it will be the last. Cherish those moments. ❤️
Beautiful mountains!
I also save voicemails, but I did not start until after my dad passed away. I have one from every person in my immediate family, I usually delete the old one once I save the newest one. My favorite is every year my grandmother sings happy birthday to me!
Merry Christmas 🎅
Oh my gosh your dad is a sweetheart how cute
I missed seeing you guys! Love your vlogs❤
I lost my dad December 2nd 2020. He passed during a routine surgery. It wasn’t supposed to happen. He was only 67 and I was only 30 (my kids were only 5, 3, and 7 months). He was an amazing grandpa. I’m so glad I have his voicemails. So many are the same, but I’ve saved them all to multiple places. I miss hearing him say “hey baby, it’s dad.” Watching my mom raise my now 15 yr old sister without him has been heartbreaking. I hope that those voicemails will also bring comfort to my sister so she never forgets his voice.
You should have come oregon is wonderful, I'm from The Dalles, Oregon!
I love the frequent uploads!
Please pray for my family this week it’s going to be a hard one. It’s going to be the 5 year anniversary of our dad’s passing this Friday.
Oregon missed you guys! ❤
Merry Christmas 🎄
Why are you are making me cry, Jared.😭
What a beautiful sentiment Jared ❤
Your state of Utah is beautiful!!! I was to visit!
Jared, I always took photos with my dad when I would see him. 8 years ago I hosted Easter dinner and I took a selfie with him before he left. Two days later he unexpectedly passed away. I am so grateful to have all of the photos I have with him. I'm not so lucky when it comes to my mom. She passed when I was 23, she was only 44. We didn't have digital cameras and cellphones then so there aren't many photos of us even together, let alone many of her by herself. I do have some of her growing up and from my wedding day but that's about it. Now people tell me I take too many photos....
My father in law passed away Sunday . He was ill for 16 years and was unable to speak all that time. My son found a video of his grandfather speaking and holding him as an infant. We didn't realize we forgot what he sounded like. It was heartwarming to hear his broken English Italian accent again.
Miss you and your dad singing together
What a lovely thing to think of. My mam passed away 4 years ago and I wish I had her voice recorded as I struggle to remember her voice. Great idea.
I wish I could have do that with my husband I lost him last year he was only 51 you think oh you have years left but you just never know. I should have in one way as I lost my dad and he was 49 so should have done more with my husband. I miss his voice everyday. Enjoy your love and time with your families xx
Jared you have me in tears. The last photo I have with my Mum is holding her hand in palliative care in September of last year. I don’t remember the last voicemail but it is still in my phone, I just can’t bring myself to listen to it
U have the most beautiful and kind fam in the world
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I really understand Jared cause i lost my Dad he was only 62 and i wished that i had more photo with him…i have some but i would of love to have more❤️❤️❤️
oh no Jared it's not silly at all. my mum passed away this year unexpectedly she was only 59. An I only have photos no videos an that kills me because I feel like I'm already forgetting her voice. So I think this is incredibly smart. I can promise you will not regret doing this.
Loved the vlog
My great uncle made a recording of my voice when I was little. He passed away in 2015. I will always have his voice now.since he gave it to me before he passed.
Merry Christmas Everyone!
I’ve saved mine to my computer! It’s oddly easy, I figured it would be obnoxious 😂
I’m in Oregon! Where in Oregon are they? Would love to meet them. ❤
Jared, I just want you to understand that life -- and death -- does not always follow a "natural selection". At any time, we could lose any one, of any age. All memories should be preserved, all voices captured. We are so blessed to have the technology that makes this relatively easy to do, now.
Yes Jared, please find a way to save those voice messages from your phone. I had to get a new phone and somehow lost the voice messages from my mom, who has since passed away. I saved them to so in case that "day" ever came, I would have them, but ended up losing them.. so please do that so you won't have to worry about that...😇