When I brother arrived in the U.S., he told me that strangers would say hi to him, which does not happen in China. My first culture shock came when a fellow shopper in a mall called me "honey". Will never forget how Ohioans would jump out of their cars to help push a vehicle stuck in a snow storm. One guy jump-started my car four times because it kept dying. I lost my wallet at a gas station in Indiana and they kept it till I drove back to get it. I have lived in this country for almost 23 years and still have not visited all the national parks yet. I could not agree more: the people and the national parks are my absolute favorites about living in America.
As an American i happy ro have you here & im extremely happy for you that you don't have to live under the CCP. I think the best thing about America is our 1st & 2nd Amendments & that our government says our rights comenfrom God & not Government & that our Government is to protect our rights not curtail them..except durring pandemics, I've come to find out.
Zhen Li , thank you for this comment. I'm so glad you felt welcomed and not so on your own when you came to the US. Your words cheered me up in this difficult time.
@@shaunellis3060 Our rights do not come from God, they come from the people. Our inalienable rights, life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness are rights all humans deserve. Our codified rights, like free speech, freedom of religion, and the right to bear arms are manifestations of thoseminalienable rights. They don't come from any god. In America an atheist has those same rights as any Christian, or any other religion, including Satanists (who are really atheists). They only disappear if we the people let them. That's why it is important to be vigilant against encroachments on those rights, whether they come from your preferred political ideology or from competing political ideologies (they all profess freedom while saying the others don't, but any group in power for long enough will do almost anything they can get away with to prolong their hold on power)
This is so weird, hearing someone saying nice things about America. I've gotten so use to hatred and vitriol directed towards us that this video is an amazing breath of fresh air.
(UK Citizen) When I was 8 me, my 2 sisters and my parents went on this once in a lifetime holiday to florida. And whilst there our car had broken down/overheated; now we had no idea what to do or where we were, and me and my two sisters were also like the car dying in the hot weather; then this sweet old American couple came out and invited us into their home, offering tea, food, a look at the cars engine and a lovely chat. We couldn't believe it! That would never happen in the UK. Such genuine people whome turned a situation that felt dire to a child into one of his favourite highlights of the holiday. A situation that speaks volumes about the average American. Thank you America from the heart! Side note: The tea was pretty awful 😂 but i made sure to tell her it was the best i'd ever drunk. Hopefully that means something coming from an Englishman.
"The tea was pretty awful..." 😂 My brother-in-law is from Taiwan and his family farms tea. When I offered him a cup of tea he immediately refused because it wouldn't be good. I knew it was good tea and the temperature and steeping time for it. Since my sister and I were having some I made him a cup as well. I didn't force it upon him but he drank it and was pleasantly surprise at how good it was. Now I can't go to their house without being sent home with tea for brewing. He is appalled at how much we have to pay for good tea in the US because it is so prevalent in Taiwan.
Lovely story ☺️ 90% of Americans are fantastic but I did think as soon as you said they invited us to there home that it could be a chainsaw massacre situation lol jk but good for you to have met such lovely people x
The litter thing really changed dramatically about 50 years ago in the U.S. This was mostly due to a very successful ad campaign on televisions. For a few states (eg. Missouri), it was a bit later (mid to late 80s). As a kid from Illinois, I remember being shocked every time we went to Missouri. Most undeveloped parts of the world are shockingly bad with litter. If you spend much time in them at all, you'll probably end up littering at some point too. It just doesn't feel like it makes a difference when everyone else does it all the time.
It's abhorrent to me. It shows utter disrespect toward our neighborhood, town, city, State, country and Earth. Litter is something I can not tolerate so I go around, especially the ditches to keep them clear and running, picking up other people's trash anywhere I see it and on days off around my neighborhood and around country highways. 😠 It's extremely good exercise for me, too. All that walking, bending, reaching, squatting, lugging, etc. a full yard-size trash bag around. I hate exercising to be exercising. This is purposeful work with noticeable results for the environment and for my body. ❤
Growing up in the deep south, they are a necessity! Currently, I can't open about 8 of my windows because there is no screen and its an OLD house with big widows so they need to be special ordered to replace. Cost too much :(
I've always thought that was why in Britain they have lace curtains, to act like screens for bugs ( wouldn't help much with the cat). I enjoy your humor.
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 yes! If you throw trash out of your window while driving (literally happened) don’t expect me to be your friend. I’ll lose all respect for you immediately.
I was all ready dating my partner when he threw a whole fast food meal piece by piece out the window while driving. I told him it was low class and if he ever did it again it was over. I married him. 20 years being litter free!!
I would also like to thank you for bringing it up. With everything going on, there is a divide but when it comes down to it, we all love each other and want what’s best for everyone.
As someone working in customer service, the niceness thing isn’t *just* a thing we need to do. I genuinely enjoy when the good feelings are reciprocated and enjoy being temporary friends with a stranger I’ll likely never see again in my life.
Yeah despite hating working food service, my favorite part of the job was being nice to people and having positive interactions. It makes you feel like the world isn't so crazy, and you feel like you're doing something more with your life than just rolling burritos if you're making people smile when they might be having a rough day. I quit food service, did car maintenance instead, with a good amount of my job being interaction with customers. I like cars and I like positive interactions with people, so win-win. No more soggy burritos.
Agreed. I *liked* being able to help people. Even if it was 'wasting' time by taking me away from completing tasks that were actually tracked, I still wanted to help. Still glad to not be working retail anymore.
maybe it's because Americans live so far apart in such wide green spaces that they get lonely and want to bond, even with strangers/customers, because talking to someone in person is a rarity?
The epitome of Southern hospitality was when my friend, her family, and I were in South Carolina to watch the solar eclipse. We were pulled over by the side of this rode outside a state forest to see the eclipse. This sweet old reverend and his wife were hosting a lot of people from their church and neighborhood over for a barbecue to watch the eclipse. As they were driving by, they proceeded to invite everyone that was pulled over on the road over to their house to watch the eclipse and have dinner afterwards. We met so many amazing people and had a great time with complete strangers. Now that's hospitality.
One time when I was a kid, our church was having one of its outdoor pitch-in dinners that it had a couple times a year. Two burly, hairy, grungy bikers pulled in. One of them was having engine trouble, and they were nearly broke and hungry. Not only were they welcomed at the church picnic, my mother invited them home, where they stayed for a week or so while the mechanically talented guys of our church fixed the guy's motorcycle. She pulled out all the stops, too -- huge meals at the dining room table we only ate at for special meals, with the lace tablecloth and the best china and silverware. What's more, she kept in touch with one of the two for years afterward till he stopped writing.
@@ianfab79 Joe barton probably means "pretentious" hospitality. Not very common, but can happen in all countries.There are people who REALLY are hospitable, there are those who PRETEND to be just for the sake/creation of a hospitality sense and others who use it for getting to know people. I would say people are inherently good, they have just been programmed to act in certain ways. Quoting Lawrence, "Look at the Flowers, not the Weeds" - Have a beautiful day. ya'll!
..My wife is from Lithuania, and when we visited there, I was told that I "looked American"... no Budweiser shirts and fanny packs... when pressed as to why they thought so...they all said it was because I was smiling... no one in Europe smiles...or God forbid says hello to anyone else on the street without knowing them.... LOL
@@Ionabrodie69 It's probably true. One common caricature of Americans is a big toothy smile, especially in eastern Europe. Though, when I was in Ukraine, the people I was working with, who were mostly young guys, veterans of the Soviet/Russian Army going to college after serving argued quite a lot about where I looked like I was from. The US curiously was not on the list, though both Russia and Afghanistan were. Afghanistan was higher on the list because I'm tall even for Americans. The "American" betrayal though was that I whistled. That was something that raised superstition/greed. The explanation was that you didn't whistle because you would be whistling away your money or your luck or both. It was clear that if I didn't have any money I would not be able to buy dinner or a beer or coffee or ...
If people in the US behaved (in person) the way they do in Twitter, or even sometimes in the comments on UA-cam, everyone would either be hiding, looking for someone to kill or dead
I'm from the UK and I live in the US. My favorite happy surprises about living here share some overlaps with yours: lack of litter, friendliness of random people, good customer service, toleration of difference (like in the UK, everyone used to call me "quirky" and "eccentric" but in the US nobody comments - I feel that they are more tolerant and open minded of difference), better consumer choice, scale of natural beauty - huge, stunning mountains and lakes, can-do attitude, cats being indoors. I will click comment now, and then realize all the things I forgot. I also have a list of what sucks, but let's keep it positive!
@@chopitup9950 This. As a Brit who moved to the US, the Health Care is something that always amazes me that it's so corporate owned and how much they try to say that free health care would bring the system to it's knees despite the fact Canada, the UK and so many other countries have it and it's fine, if not better. If I fall and break my leg back in the UK I know I'm covered and I won't pay a thing. Here if I break my leg, I'm driving myself to the hospital because I know I've already saved myself at least $300 if not more just for not needing an ambulance and that's before the actual consultation fee, treatment fee, medication fees etc. It's insane.
@@Kinvarus1 Although many countries have great tax payer funded health care (not free), many do NOT! America would be one of them. Because big pharma is so corporate they are involved with politicians, as both love money and power. If we allowed tax payer funded healthcare then our federal (and possibly state) taxes would go up and most of it would go into the pockets of politicians and big pharama, leaving very little to doctors, nurses, and equipment. Just look at our schools. The more money that goes into them the dumber kids get and the worse things are for them. Private schools don’t have this problem. Michelle Obama turned school lunches into a tortilla with bologna. The schools that receive the most money from taxes aren’t the best schools. Anything the government touches turns to shit due to corruption. We need to keep business and politics local. And businesses, including healthcare related businesses, need to be more transparent about prices and services. There’s no reason that someone can’t request an mri or X-ray and actually get it. Too many doctors deny patients tests and referrals to specialist but will happily write up antidepressants without a psychiatrist or therapist. I and my family have a rare disorder that has a lot of secondary disorders. It’s a battle to get a specialist and even then some of them accuse us of lying or don’t do enough tests before making a diagnosis and coming up with a treatment plan. And a LOT of them don’t like doing paperwork, which is needed for insurance and medical records.
My husband is new to the USA, been here less than a month and he was surprised by: 1. Wal-Mart 2. Pumping our own gas 3. Drink refills at restaurants 4. How big the personal vehicles are (the trucks!) 5. That you buy ice at a gas station 6. The people are nicer than he thought they would be (even though I tried to explain) My husband is from Brazil. Thank you for your channel! It is quite entertaining!
Where do you go to buy ice in Brazil then? Seems like in a country with a warm climate like Brazil, access to the ice supply might be an important thing.
Rio is insanely dangerous, I went to Carnival and never have felt so unsafe as being in downtown Rio. And never been more grossed out by water. The bay was like a sheet of trash. Pollution everywhere. The docks stunk so bad. We were staying on a boat.
My husband and I have travelled the world over, and we are forever amazed at the friendliness of Americans. They would literally give you the shirt off their backs.
We also don't like that walls and doors in the stalls don't go all the way to the floor. Ideally they would be completely enclosed with ventilation to the outside to keep the rest of the restroom from stinking.
Actually, our airwaves were littered with anti-littering campaigns throughout the 60's, 70's and 80's. It took 30 yrs or more and a couple more generations born, to get the message sunk into the population's minds, but it worked. It was constant campaigning about earth, water bodies, and air pollution. So happy that we have come such a long way from the days of littering and pollution. It was so very bad back then, compared to now.😊
@@brenda9140 I feel like even all the way up into the early 90's! I'm 32, and vividly remember anti-littering commercials airing when I was little. I guess change takes awhile.
A good friend of mine who is not rich, gave away her stimulus check in extra tips to wait staff after restaurants opened back up. All 12 people that she gave $100 to cried.
I went out to dinner twice during this pandemic and tipped $100 each time, my servers never said anything but I hope they were grateful. I know how difficult life is for them these days.
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I gave $100 tips to 3 servers/delivery drivers that always take excellent care of us. They were overwhelmed. I was happy I could do something to help them out.
As an American, "It has less litter" is never something I thought I would hear about the USA. About the indoor vs outdoor cat thing: Cats are in invasive species in a lot of areas, the US included. I don't think they're invasive in Europe though, so that would partly explain why people the US keep them inside more.
I keep my cat indoors because cats frequently go missing, lost cat posters are everywhere. I don't want her to get hit by a car or have to fight raccoons, and it also eliminates concerns about fleas and the house getting infested with them. It hasn't anything to do with "invasive species", just her health and safety. I like her and I want her to live is all.
When I bought this house in 1988 it was a bank repo and had new screens. No central heating or air. Central California. Screens are practically a health code requirement on old houses.
I travel internationally a lot. I can't tell you how many times I've been asked, "Do you *HAVE* to say hi to EVERYBODY?" I always reply, "Yes - I'm an American - we talk to everyone!" Love your glasses, btw.
Apparently, according from some American friends who were going abroad to certain places, one of the lessons a lot of Americans need to learn before going abroad is to tone down the smiling at strangers thing lest they come off as weirdos or (for the ladies) prostitutes.
I had a friend come over from America to watch a NBA basketball game with me in London. 2 and a half hours after the game I was still waiting for him outside the venue as he talked to everyone. As British we were too polite to tell him to shut up. The staff were leaving before me. Just strange to talk to everyone. He talked all the way through the game too and spent half of the time putting stuff on Instagram 🙄
@@moralityisnotsubjective5 And they tend to themselves. No watering, no fertilizing, etc. needed. Really, they're the superior breed of plant to the fragile flowers.
Back in the 70s there was an environmental push, not littering, recycling were two of the big things we focused on, and overall got adopted. Having been used to it, it's nice to know someone noticed!
The only other countries that are comparable to the USA regarding having less litter are Japan and Singapore. Part of it is the nature of oriental culture. In the case of Singapore, it’s severe penalties for littering.
Right! that commercial of the Native American sitting on his horse and a tear falling down his cheek as he looked over the landscape with trash all over it.
What I experience as an American, in day to day life, is so far removed from what I see on the news. It's nice to hear someone comment on it. When I go to work, I am greeted with "good morning" by about 6-7 strangers before I even get to my work station. When I go to the grocery store, people are friendly and nice. I'm short so I often have to ask tall people for help reaching things in the grocery. Everyone I have ever asked has been great.
Yes!! Agreed. I'm in a wheelchair and everyone offers to help me if I make it clear that I'm having trouble with something. Heck, most offer help before I struggle at all. xD I have to TRY to be independent over here. :P
@@handle--729 I have never thought of that before. However, I appreciate you getting things for short people off the shelf. It is interesting to see someone climbing shelves to get something up high. I do it when no one is around to help, but I am sure it would be funny to me, a 51 year old woman climbing shelves to get peanut butter. So thank you anyway.
Same here. Americans do try to be polite and helpful. That's a generalization, yes, but I'm grateful to tall people for helping me get stuff on high shelves, and no one has ever refused. We do have a national congenial streak, for the most part.
@@handle--729 I could see your asking for help if, for example, the item was towards the back of the very bottom shelf . I think most folks should be understanding of that. Sometimes I'll ask a kid to help with that--they're usually delighted to do it.
The nicest thing I ever had happen to me was this: When I was between jobs, maybe about 6 years ago, I was working at a temp job for $8/hr, a distribution center of some kind. I was living very paycheck to paycheck and really only bought stuff like groceries and school supplies. I went to the store to buy some stuff for the coming week, and as I checked out, my card was declined. We scanned it 3 or so times and it was still declined, so I went to cal my bank and check my account (the put the transaction on hold so other people could go by). Turned out, I had $3 total, so I guess I was off by a day or something. The lady behind me bought my groceries for me (about $60) saying that she had had to go through the same type of situations. Never had anyone do anything that nice for me before (who weren't family anyway), I still remember that moment very clearly.
I work as a cashier at Lowes. The same exact thing happened last month. A woman was having trouble with her card. The man behind her insisted on paying for it...even though it was $68!
I had someone do that for me once. I was buying things for one of my kids birthdays. Ordinarily I would have put out all back without a problem, but this day it would have been so disappointing. The person in line behind me paid. I try to help like that when I can now. It’s come up a couple times. Feels really good to pay that forward (even though it’s only been a couple bucks each time)
I think Americans are friendly because most of our ancestors were “strangers in a strange land” having left family and friends of their homelands. Plus in the early days of America interdependence was necessary for survival.
Meli Garrett speaking of which my ancestors have been in the United States of America since the 1600s and fought for American Independence and against the Confederates.
I went to the US as a Brit and had a few pleasant surprises myself. One being how friendly people are, just strangers coming up to me and complimenting my clothes or anything, it felt so warming. The amount of stores that are sort of quirky in nature as well, I absolutely adored those and wish we had more of them here in the UK. Gas prices being so cheap compared to Europe is another. Oh and at Target, the checkout dude was putting my items in the grocery bags and I loved that. There's a lot of things that surprised me and I loved my time there.
@@selahgreen9648 I went through a dozen countries in Europe over 2 months. I found the people in each country to be really friendly in their own way. The Brits were quick to make sure that I knew how to get around safely and quickly in their towns(without me asking). They seemed almost worried for me which was... maybe a little unnecessary. The Germans were fantastic at being efficient(which is a cold, but material form of politeness). The Italians weren't efficient(seriously who closes an entire city just because it's a bit warm), but they loved to talk with me and their night life was oddly both genuine and exciting. The French were nice, sometimes even nice in Paris. The people who stood out the most were the Flemish. My friends joked that if any of us were ever alone and sad in Antwerp, we could open a map and be swarmed with friendly conversation. Having said that though, I will admit that my hometown in the USA is much more openly friendly. A good mix of the cultures.
A friend of mine from college (25 years ago) was from Britain. He told me the thing that amazed him the most was the idea Americans had that tomorrow would always be better, that if you work hard you can be a huge success, that you can win the lottery and become a movie star and cure diseases, that there is always hope and never give up. I thought this was strange because I thought all people were that way. He told me in America, anyone can go to college, whenever they want, wherever they are. In Britain, you have to qualify to go to college by taking standardized tests at the end of high school, and if you don't make it, you don't go to college. Again, this was 25 years ago so I don't know if things have changed. But in America, he went on, you can drop out of high school and still go back later, get a GED, study for an entrance exam you can take over and over until you eventually pass, and go to college. He said he thought it was in the DNA of Americans, the idea that they can always improve their lives, that they are the masters of their destiny, and so have created a system giving people the chance to become better, to reinvent themselves, to keep improving, to become anything you want. He went on to marry his American college sweetheart, get a Master's degree in chemistry from another American college, divorced her and married another American woman, and is now an American citizen teaching high school chemistry in California. One of my college friends' married a guy from France she met during her graduate studies in AZ. He now works on laser optics for NASA. Another friend married a guy from Ireland she met during her graduate studies in WA, who has a PhD in something I forget. They both have become American citizens. I mention them because they seem to epitomize what Americans see as the "American Dream", starting from square one and achieving great things through hard work, perseverance and dedication. One of my ancestors came over from German by herself in the 1860's and moved to Minnesota. THAT took guts! If hope and perseverance even in the face of adversity is in the DNA of Americans like my friend said, it's because of those that came before us that had the hope and dreams to come here and start a brand new life in a foreign land...like you :-) This is an incredibly vast oversimplification of the American experience and just my views, but my friend's comments have stuck with me and how that DNA of exploring somewhere new, trying something new, going beyond the limits, has been passed down generation after generation. I have no idea what it's like to grow up in another country, but I know growing up here, I always felt the sky was the limit...then again, not even that ;-)
@Red Head Geek - that was perfectly said - I agree with the American attitude of optimism, etc...as a trait coming from our ancestors who left their homelands to make a better life here. My family came mainly from Ireland in the 1800s with my paternal grandmother’s side from England coming around 1750. All poor, many illiterate. The last to immigrate was my 3rd great grandfather in 1871 from Ireland and he arrived alone. All of them were so brave all went on to have good lives and gave their children more than what they had, on and on each generation more successful than the last. I think having ancestors who were brave enough to leave everything they knew to start all over in a new country is something that’s passed along. And for that I’m grateful and proud of my great grandparents who left places like Strokestown and Ardee and Yorkshire to come to New York and then Michigan.
RedHeadGeek I have a distant cousin who dropped out of high school our junior year to get married. She eventually got her GED, went to college and is now an elementary school principal. It’s nice to know that we can change the course of our lives and it’s never too late for a college education.
I live in Alaska and I can really appreciate that remark! At times I think we have islands of population between National, State, and Local parks. Even my town of 45,000 (second most populated) has almost as many parks / playgrounds as churches. LOL.
@Intellectual Ammunition Fairbanks. Just surrounded by them, Denali to the South. Too many to count in the North. Between Homesteads (168 acres each) and National parks we are surrounded. LOL.
In the 80's we had Woodsy the Owl who was a marketing icon to teach Americans not to litter. "Give a Hoot, Don't Pollute." We also had Smokey the Bear to teach us not to start forest fires. 😁 P.S. I live in the Rocky Mountains and we do indeed have soccer, football, and baseball fields! They are in valleys and the giant mountains surround them.
The reason the US has less litter is because there are WAY MORE public trash cans. In the UK and in most of Europe, there aren't trash cans on all of the paths, in the US, not only does the government put them everywhere, but businesses also make a point of providing them to help keep their exteriors litter-free.
(American here). I'm about as far from a "tree hugger" as one can be, I'm a big Buick driving,pro nuclear power/natural gas guy, but I HATE litter! (I also LOATHE graffiti..) It's ugly AF. I am thankful that, yes, private property owners provide trash cans. I just wish more people would USE THEM. I'm THAT guy who will put a wrapper in my pocket until I find an appropriate place to dump it. LOL.
Michael Lyndon Also there is a much higher general respect towards other people’s property. I mostly noticed that trespassing is taken much more seriously here than in my home country in Europe. But it can also mean we don’t throw stuff onto other people’s property.
Not true. There are almost no public trash cans in Japan, and you must carry your trash with you home, and yet, the country is extremely clean. It's the culture.
The Grand Canyon was a zen experience for me. I drove from flagstaff about 5 in the morning. On my way the road was blocked by two large elks standing in the middle of the road. They were huge majestic creatures, shoulder height to the roof of my car. They inspected me and let me pass. Then onto the park. The gates were up so I drove on in and found my spot. The rising Sun continually revealed more of the majesty of our planet and at every moment I continued to be moved. Easy to say this was the greatest experience of my life.
My one and only Elk hunt was Unit 7E Flagstaff, plenty of them out there within the 12,000+ ft mtn ranges. I live in AZ and never experienced the grand canyon...
My family managed to make a trip to the Grand Canyon, Bryce Canyon, and Zion National Park in a week or two. I really enjoyed all three. The Grand Canyon is the most famous (for good reason), but I found the other parks just as spectacular - maybe even more so because of the lack of expectations. If you've never seen Bryce, it's like a canyon filled with natural sculptural rock formations - during sunset and sunrise they are especially beautiful. And pictures of Zion don't really do justice to the feeling you get when you drive through the tunnel and emerge in a valley surrounded by gigantic cliffs and canyon walls that look like mountains.
Can confirm. From the Rockies, have plenty of soccer fields(and yes, lung capacity, too). They're good for more than just soccer, it's a large, flat, grassy area that you can have a lot of people gather or run around in for any number of activities.
I visited Aspen with my family ans we stopped in the shopping district. There was a park in the middle of town with a soccer field included I believe. The view was insane. Total LOTR vibes. The grass just drops off to a gorgeous mountain vista. I see why a lot of rich people call Aspen their home.
When I was a kid in Indiana, the local mall used to have pay toilets. However, most of the people would hold the door for the next person, so they wouldn’t have to spend any change. One day they just took out the coin boxes and made them free.
I heard airports in the US back in the 70s had pay toilets. I don’t remember them as we traveled by car till the late 80s the first time I flew in an airplane. Heard it was sex discrimination lawsuit ended it. Women had to pay to go #1 or #2 and guys only had to pay to go #2.
It’s an absolute joy to discover someone from another country who actually likes us. To Laurence, we are generally hospitable. Others see the same actions, and criticize us for being loud and overly friendly. The same actions! 🤷♀️
'Overly friendly'. What a complaint. I'd be tempted to ask them if they'd prefer me being rude and generally an asshole? Too nice is better than too rude. However, they're right about us being loud.
@@Techhunter_Talon Have you ever seen the English drunk on the weekend or on vacation? They are the least liked nationality in Europe. They don't "hold their liquor well" and are vomiting in public and a general nuisance at every establishment.
Laughing Lark but that’s only because they like to blame the U.K. for the USA. Russians are just as obnoxious, their soc or hooligans are brutal and their oligarchs in the south of France get lots of eye rolls. Also it’s Swedes in Paris that puke on the streets.. I’ve seen it.
Most Europeans tend to live in the USA while making a nice living and also simultaneously bitch about it.. I never understood it. If an American lives abroad and complains about anything of their host country they are labelled uncultured. Even if their complaint is a common one that the natives also share.
Techhunter Talon You’re right. They explain the “overly friendly” complaint by saying they feel we’re being fake and shallow. However, it’s just a cultural thing. Personally, I enjoy chatting with strangers. But traveling outside the country, I would try my best to adhere to THEIR norms. I’m not sure about the “loud” generalization, but even that seems relatively petty unless we are being disrespectful to a particular situation...
As a hoosier, you talking about hoosier hospitality made my day. I remember one day I was riding my bike around my Indiana hometown and asking a feller biking across the country what surprised him most about my state, he said we were all very nice. It pretty much changed my life and how I interact with others.
We have a coyote that hangs out in the back of our yard..always licking his chops...at the thought of our cat "making a break for it" through an open window.
🐱Great quotation🖤 Love window & door screens too🖤 w/o them in Los Angeles I'd be covered in welts from mosquito bites. It would also be an open invitations to curious creatures like lizards, skunks, raccoons, opossums & deer. A screen alone is not gonna keep a hungry coyote, mountain lion or bear out if it saw a slumbering snack (meow) on the other side.
I remember when I was a teenager, The Dayton Mall tried to start charging .25 to use the bathroom. It didn't last long because people would hold the door open for the next person to go in, crawl under the door or jam paper into the lock.
There was a commercial when I was a kid with a Native American actor who turned to the camera with a tear in his eye. I have hiked miles to find garbage cans rather than disappointing that guy.
My grandmother lived to 108 and passed away in 1990. AT her 100th birthday she was asked what was the most important invention of her time. She answered unexpectedly Window Screen Consider she lived most of her life in the country, Horses were common but so were horse flies. Consider that they were a public health boon.
Hi Joani, so many people are negative about the English too. Especially other members of the United Kingdom. They don't realise the same aristocrats who gave them a hard time treated us English peasants badly too. And they still do! :)x it's easy to criticise, not so easy to praise, so don't listen to the haters. xx
Window screens - I always find it strange when I watch movies or TV shows that are supposed to be set in America, and none of the windows have screens in them. People just open the window and climb in/out, or throw something out the window. I've never lived anywhere that didn't have screens in the windows. Even so, I regularly get bugs inside during the summer. For some reason, my home seems to be really popular with ladybugs. I don't mind those so much and usually catch & release them. I hate the moths and other bugs that find their way inside though.
We used to climb in and out of our windows, but we left the screens off on purpose so we could. We also live in coastal SoCal, not a lot of bugs to worry about.
It keeps the lighting even and also it just generally looks bad on camera. Another fun one is that cars don’t have often have head rests in the front seat if multiple people are in the back.
"Smile at everyone you see; it may the only smile they see that day." That is a common motto of people I know here in the west, and I guess it explains why we smile and wave at strangers! When Europeans insist that American friendliness is fake, it makes me wonder how depressing their lives (as a society) must be back home - everyone must either ignore each other or be incredibly rude. Haven't they heard of the Golden Rule? When you are raised in a culture whose core values are based on hope of a better tomorrow for everyone, it's (almost) impossible to have a dour outlook. Our friendliness is a direct result of that. However, there are always exceptions to the rule. 😉 I lived in Bolivia, and it was so eye opening for me. There was such an absence of hope. I'd never realized how ingrained in our culture it was because it was all I'd ever known. But there was a repressive attitude of "Things have always been bad/hard, and they will always be this way." Everyone was just hopeless that life could get better. It was incredibly sad, because all of the people I met there were wonderful people. I loved them very much. I can't count the number of times I was asked to sponsor someone's child to come to the US for a chance at a better life. I appreciate my country much more now than I did before, and I understand much better why people will do all kinds of things to get their families here. We aren't perfect by any means, but hope is a beacon.
Friendliness is more than just smiling. Many European countries show politeness and friendliness in other ways. I think what makes people say that American smiles are fake is that you're expected to smile instead of using smiling as a sign of utter enjoyment. What I think is what shows the difference in mentality is that "how are you?" is a greeting rather than a genuine question.
Please don't make the mistake of assuming that just because a culture is different that it is inferior or a miserable place. My friend from Hungary explained to me that people are warm and kind as appropriate, but don't just smile, smile, smile "for no reason" as he put it. If you meet him for the first time, he is polite but not super smiley. Once you get to know him, he is jovial, friendly, always making jokes, eager to help, happy to feed you or lend you whatever you need. It's just something reserved for friends, not (his point of view) squandered on strangers.
The hardest part of wearing a face mask during the pandemic for me has been not being able to see people's smiles. I am from the Midwest where it's common to smile at passing strangers (how sad to think this is "squandering" smiles--the supply is unlimited!) I traveled to Germany a couple of times for work and the biggest culture shock was having strangers avoid eye contact on the street. I found that if I approached a shopkeeper or cashier with a straight face, they usually greeted me in German, but if I approached with a smile they spoke English. Not 100% of the time, but enough to notice the difference. However, once the people there know you they are as warm as anywhere. My boss used to describe it as "Americans are peaches, and Germans are coconuts," meaning that Americans have more superficial friendliness, with a private core at the center, but Germans are harder on the outside but once they allow you past their shell, you're firm friends.
I have worked retail for 25+ years and I was originally a jaded kid when I started, and am now happy to greet people, and have found out over the years that just being friendly makes you feel better and makes any future interaction with anyone more positive. It's more or less, you get back what you put into it. It's not fake, it's more about I want a pleasant day, and the best way to have a good day is to start it out in a positive way with every interaction you have.
I appreciate you sharing good things about America. I feel a lot of my European and Asian friends hardly want to visit because of all the things they hear on the news. It’s nice to see a Brit love on my homeland.
I'm from Asia. I've been in United States for more than 30 years. I totally agreed with you. United States are indeed are the most comfortable place to live. Whether you are rich, medium class or poor , mostly all home are central air. We are indeed very spoil because everything is all necessity as an American. Paper napkins, toilet paper, take away box even for 2 bite left over, disposal cups are all free. If people complaining that American life are not fair or not to their expectations then I'll say these people don't know what they're talking about. Americans can drive a Mercedes-Benz or BMW even their occupation are just a servers. As long as you got a job, your credits are good, you can drove away a brand new car on the day you shopping for car.There's no Doctor or Esquire to be address. Everyone standard are same in public. After working hours a bussed can sit and hang out with their manager and bosses. I appreciated everything that USA have given me. God is good to me.
I live in Louisiana, and we loooove to feed people. Food is like a religion here. Plus, despite our problems, we are a generally friendly folk. And, in bad times, we tend to look after each other. After a hurricane, the unwritten rule is you take care of you and yours then you help your neighbor. It's just how it goes here. I'm not going to say my state doesn't have its problems, but hearing you talk kind of reminded me of why, even though I hate the humidity and heat, I still keep coming home. The US is in a dystopian dumpster fire right now, but there are still things that are good. Thanks for reminding me of that.
I recently visited New Orleans (I'm American but from Chicago) and I met some of the friendliest people ever. Everyone was so nice and quick to help or make suggestions. Can't wait to go back.
Louisiana is sort of like the crazy little brother of the family: yeah he's crazy but you can't help but love him despite or maybe because of his shenanigans! . Florida, however, is more like the crackhead cousin with the prison record that everyone tolerates to be nice but really wish he'd just go away.
California is the eccentric older ex-hippie aunt who means well but is a hot mess in every sense of the word. . Texas is that one middle kid who hates to be ignored and has to go big on everything, including stoking their own ego.
Louisisna has food at GAS STATIONS better than most places' restaurants. And because people there know good food, there are very few mediocre places to eat. They just wont tolerate bad food down there!
When I was a kid in small-town Missouri in the 90s, a lady who went to my church turned 100. On the week of her birthday, the pastor asked her in front of the congregation what was the greatest invention she ever saw in her lifetime. Without missing a beat, she shouted, “Window screens!” I’ll never forget that.
It’s inconceivable to me that there are people anywhere in the world who do not use window screens. I would never open a window without a screen no matter how much I craved some fresh air.
I lived in Brazil for a year. No screens and no A.C. and near 100 degrees daily. Windows definitely stayed open! And yes, okay, there would be tiny lizards inside and once a Tarantula in the bedroom. But humans adapt.
Thank you for all the kind things you say about the US, Lawrence. You seem like such a genuinely pleasant person - always seeing the positive in everything. I do hope to get the chance to visit the UK someday so I can share what I love with you too.
I'm so glad I read the comments. I'm an American living in Canada which has a reputation for "niceness". But I've not yet experienced it as fully as I remember from the states. And I had forgotten that which is why I'm glad I read the comments. Thank you everyone for making me homesick. That's not a bad thing.
I lived in Florida for a while and if someone was being outwardly rude in a store or a restaurant, more often than not, they were Canadian. It’s been my experience than Canadians ,at least the tourists, are extremely arrogant and rude, so much so that I don’t feel like a visit North of the Border would be much fun.
I'm old enough to remember how filthy everything was "back in the day" and the resulting massive anti-littering campaigns of the 70's. Now littering is a modern taboo throughout the US - so much so that I remember being genuinely surprised at many places in Europe. Everyone rightly speaks of the beauty of Paris but few mention the constant reek of urine and the endless scatter of cigarette butts, light litter and an astonishing amount of dog crap - or "dog dirt" as many call it.
I too was amazed at the amount of dog poop on the sidewalks of downtown Brussels. Dog owners don't even try to get the dogs to go somewhere out of the walkway. That was 20 years ago, now we have human poop on the sidewalks of downtown LA. Probably won't be going back to either place.
I remember when I visited Europe for the first time I was also surprised at how in some of the cities like Paris there was a lot of litter. Don't get me wrong, it is bad in large US cities too but in the states if you litter people will either actively call you out for it or they will give you a look and pick up after you. I know when I visit the beach I often walk back to my car with a handful of garbage that's not mine.
That one's clever, but thank God Texas stopped using: *"Don't Meth with Texas"* as its Anti-Drug Slogan! Sounds kinda gay "💕😏🍑 *Welcome to Georgia"* is their new advert to attract tourists, and lots of folks do enjoy it, there! ✌️😜*🔫
Yeah, when I got to the South I was shocked at the flagrant and messy and contemputous littering. There's a big anti-environmentalist strain here. The slogan a few years ago was, 'Seriously, y'all still litter?'
I think the best description ever of American culture is that we are basically the golden retrievers of the world. We are friendly, welcoming, occasionally loud, and not always super bright but we make up for it in cuteness.
When my oldest was a teenager, he threw something out the window. I stopped the car right there and made him get out and pick it up. Then he did it again. So I did it again. Don't mess with mom! I loved Woodsy Owl. Give a hoot, don't pollute.
Haa haa I love that! Give a hoot, don't pollute! It's true I personally think people that litter don't love themselves enough to keep their enviroment clean.
---Thats funny, as a kid I was truly frightened by Smokey telling me ‘That only YOU can prevent forest fires!’ My family cooked out at the Florida beaches and I was the appointed fire fighter, chastising everyone around us too!! I was a ‘Karen’ as a kid!
I also remember the ads with the Native American man with tear down his cheek looking at trash. I think they need to do the antitrust ads again, many young kids aren't aware.
Driving across country a few years ago, I stopped at a motel for the night. The next morning in the motel parking lot I raised the car hood to check the fluids etc. since it's an older car. A few people seemed worried and asked if I needed help with the car. That was so kind of them.
Window screens! We went to Normandy last year, stayed in a great apartment, beautiful weather but every time we opened the window flies would come in because there weren’t any screens. The things you take for granted ... 🙂
I never realized screens weren't a thing until I saw new immigrants OPENING the screens. They really didn't know what they were for. My mom explained it them - and then had to explain about the storm windows. Who knew our windows were so complicated?
I think alot of the credit for things being so clean and litter-free must go to the First Lady, Ladybird Johnson. She initiated a beautification program in 1965 which was very effective, and caught on everywhere. Littering became socially unacceptable. Then the 1970s environmental movement solidified the trend.
The Texas Department of Transportation (TXDOT) did a survey in the 70’s to determine who the litterbugs were and found it was mostly young men. Hence the “Don’t mess with Texas “ campaign. Still works today.
Lady Bird Johnson was also responsible for the beautiful wild flowers we have along our highways, back when her husband was Governor here in Texas, she enacted the spreading of the seeds, esp our world famous bluebonnets. Still illegal to pick them.
As an American, currently living in America, I"m not sure I recognize many things that are comparatively nice until I go overseas. Here are a few that I've noticed: Free and clean ice in drinks at restaurants and generally being able to trust the tap water at home.
clean tap water isn’t everywhere. In my city we get water from a river but turns out a factory up river has been dumping chemicals in it for years and now the water causes cancers
Two things: 1. If you lived in San Francisco and didn't explore the western parks, that's the most beautiful part of the country. Come back and see it. 2. Oddly, when I was in Italy (mostly Tuscany, but also Rome) for a month, EVERYONE who had been to the US said they flew to LA and drove to the Grand Canyon. Cities can be copied, you can't copy Yosemite or the Grand Canyon.
Great other parks as well. Bryce Canyon, Zion Canyon, Kings Canyon, Mesa Verde NP, Giant Sequoia NP, Death Valley NP. I have been to all of them plus Grand Canyon NP North and South Rim, and Yosemite. All in 10 days road trip. I still need to visit Yellowstone NP and Teton NP as well as Glacier NP.
Funny, I grew up in NYC in the 80’s studied Abroad in the late 90’s and told everyone who would listen about how clean Europe was! I was astonished at how the trains in both London and Paris were so clean (in comparison to NYC at that time) I said to a friend “ Paris has mummies ( below the louvre) in their train station and no one steals them” lol I was 19 years old then 🤪
Americans are friendly people. A pastor from my youth, when wecoming visitors to church on Sunday mornings, used to say: "You are not strangers, just friends we haven't met yet."
but stranger danger is a thing, pedos fucking terrify me as an adult. Like Thank god I am A- a boy, B - an indoor boy, and C- not dumb because HOLY SHIT is there a good reason to teach children how to concealed carry firearms. Like damn.
@@theraccoonasaur3282 You sure about that? We let kids do all sorts of crazy dangerous shit. If we aren't raising our kids to be responsible enough to carry a firearm, that needs to change. I don't mean issue them to the entire class, but parents should absolutely be allowed to entrust a firearm to their children to carry with them.
As a Canadian from Vancouver, I've driven the coastal route several times to LA and back again. I would recommend doing it in the spring or early summer....the highway in northern Oregon and Washington State is less wet and closed due to mudslides. Beautiful trip.
@@l.m.2404 That's a good point. Everyone told me that I was lucky to have done the journey in April. They said any other season the scenery would have been dead-er than dead. lol
At an elevation of 10,152 feet (3,094 m), Leadville, Colorado has the highest elevation of any city in the United States. It only has around 2,700 permanent residents and one soccer field.
@Rowan Melton Figured you would say that. Brits love to put down non-Brits for speaking English differently. Read the smithsonianmag article written by a Canadian soccer fan. He explains that the English started calling the sport "soccer" late in the 1800s and that the use of the term soccer became even MORE popular in England after World War II. He said that when professional soccer became popular in America in the 1980s, the English began saying "football" more to separate themselves from Americans. I guess we Canadians and Americans just speak 1960s English when it comes to soccer.
My pup and I got stuck in a further away neighborhood from where we liv yesterday (Chicago). My phone died trying to call a Lyft... a security guard in his car took an hour out of his day to help us through what ended up being two failures and one success getting back home. He was so nice and I was so grateful; we were at the emergency vet so things had already been fairly stressful. Having not seen the general public in a year (lol) it was nice to be reminded how kind people can be.
Omg! I live in PA and had to drive 30 miles to get my second Covid shot. My car broke down, and found a repair shop. My problem was getting back home as the drive was almost an hour. I called Lyft and was basically kicked out of 3 cars since they refused to drive that far. I was in a strange city and was scared. I finally got a driver to take me, I cried. I was so grateful I tipped him $50.
@@alice_rabbit8345 Just as a thought if that ever happened again, you could probably pick a populated area half-way between and do two trips if someone refuses to take you that far.
Part of that friendliness and hospitality goes back to the frontier days when the country was on the move and people were mostly helpful to each other because was the way everyone survived. It became part of the culture.
As an American who moved to the U.K., I can attest to the litter thing. When I got here I was quite taken aback by how much litter could be found everywhere. I live in a nice neighbourhood and I still find the odd Lucozade bottle or Dariy Milk wrapper in my garden. It’s become part of the scenery, but it definitely made me question what was up.
David Sedaris spends his free time in Britain picking up litter on the roads around his house. The bonus is that he gets his steps in for his fitness tracker. :-)
Quarantine has caused a lot of litter on the sides of roads. It's driving me crazy. We have adopt a highway, but I'm pretty sure we also get prison patrol and I cannot imagine living in a place where litter is the norm.
As an American, I don't really think about our hospitality. I've certainly heard of "southern hospitality", but seeing as I don't live in the south, I haven't really experienced it. We grow up with the idea of "treat others how you want to be treated" being drilled into us and also just common manners like saying please/thank you/excuse me and opening doors for others. The few times someone hasn't opened the door for me, I was absolutely shocked. I can't imagine living somewhere where that isn't the norm.
There are tons of soccer fields all over the South. We have plenty of flat open land to put them, and we do. I never see adults on them, however. I prefer state parks versus national parks because they are still beautiful and mostly tourist-free. One thing that shocked a friend of mine from the UK when she went grocery shopping with me, is how I ended up in conversations with no less than 5 separate strangers during the course of the visit, and I knew the bag boy's entire life history by the time the trip was over. This is just a very common thing in smaller towns, especially here in the South. Also, my local bag boy is looking to buy a used Jeep, if anyone has one. He's getting married to a local school teacher soon. :D
I remember in Japan and us Brits offered the yanks to a game of soccer, as they call it. I myself have always been rubbish at the game but said those yanks don't have a clue about football. (The real one) well, they ran rings around us and completely whooped us. We were all a bit embarrassed.
@@simonpowell2559 It's the most popular kids game in the country. You'd be hard pressed to find someone under the age of 40 who didn't play on a youth team. Adults just like watching other adults play one of the 4 other pro sports that are popular here.
1:49 Quick note about US usage: you tell people to “get off” your lawn, but to “get out of” your yard. (The lawn is the actual grassy surface, while the yard is the physical space that it grows in.)
@@MichaelSHartman It's an important distinction because, speaking as a suburbs kid, it was commonly drilled into us from a young age that walking on another's lawn without permission is rude. And yard entrance permission vs. lawn permission are two different things. You can be allowed into the yard but not onto the lawn, especially if the property owner is emotionally or financially invested in the health and appearance of the grass.
Yes, I haven't been to very many yet ( though I grew up here in western WI, we were very busy with our fairy farm as I got older ) but I HIGHLY recommend the trail through " Panfrey's glen" , part of the Devil's lake state park near Barraboo, WI . 1st half is super boring, 2nd half AMAZING. Then, all the waterfalls, mainly in far northern WI but there's others. I've been to a few, Morgan Falls is the best for hight plus able to see basically the whole thing and from one vantage point ( the bottom ) - can wade right into the stream at the base of it, too. Be careful, the tannins in the water took the finish off a piece of jewelry my S.I.L. was wearing ( she didn't mind, she loved it there ). One surprisingly " worth it " spot was a scenic overlook ( barely a spot to pull over on the side of the highway, better view there than on the rest stop at top of knoll between the highways nearby ) near Elizabeth, IL ( about 1/2 hour S/SE of Galena, IL ) . With a storm moving in, the light was amazing with the view across farmland for miles. Much more impressive than I was expecting ( I grew up with some great views on our ridge-top farm, am spoiled ), hadn't planned to stop there but was passing by.
As a Minnesotan I can't speak of the boundary waters highly enough. There's not much if you're looking for grand mountains or waterfalls, but canoeing in with friends for a week in untouched lakes, streams, and forests is something that I don't think I'll ever feel is a waste of time. It's absolutely gorgeous up there.
I do love your content. As a fellow "lived between two different countries" person, I love seeing other perspectives from people who similarly have a lot of experience in one place going to spend a substantial amount of time in another. Every place has it's patches of bad but also its patches of good, and I think these broader perspectives are fantastic to share!
If I may. We as Americans are a welcoming bunch. That being said, we care about each other, yeah we may fight amongst ourselves but thats how we as a nation have grown. We will accept anyone , depending on how you treat us. We are vocal in our beliefs, we'll stand by them and protect them to the end. Perhaps a trip to Arizona to see the painted desert. Its something to see as the sun goes down and the true colors of the natural beauty come alive.
I could not figure out why people would like to live in a more deserty state like Arizona or New Mexico until I went to Arizona and it took a wile to figure out and its the stark beauty of the red earth with the accents of the hardy plants and the wide open spaces with easy to drive roads the 110+ Temps don't feel as bad.
The Midwest has a reputation of having some of the friendliest people in the country. Most of them also don’t use Twitter. In general, most people in any country are just good people who want to be free to make their own choices.
As a midwesterner, it can almost be a curse. Earlier today me and some guy at walmart started talking about some random thing in line. It took nearly 20 minutes AFTER checking out to successfully extricate ourselves from that conversation since neither of us wanted to be the "bad-guy" that ended it first.
I've lived in a few places around the country. About the only place I lived where people aren't friendly was New Jersey. Right now, I live in what I consider the friendliest area I've lived in. It's also the most diverse area I've lived in. It's about split evenly with black, white and hispanic followed by a fairly good sized Vietnamese population.
And Garbage disposals in really most of Europe especially Germany and further east. In high school one of my good friends was a German exchange student who took a year to study in my hometown while his family was deciding if they would move over here for good. I speak German so I ended up helping him around where he didn't know the words for things or what to do (mind you he spoke fine English just with the typically limited vocabulary of someone who only learned a language through school). well one day he came over to my house and accidentally turned on the garbage disposal and suffice to say was very concerned about the noise the sink suddenly made. after explaining it and giving a demo he was genuinely angry at how he had never heard of them before as apparently they were (not sure about now) exceedingly rare to absent in Germany.
It's strange, I could understand the older buildings probably don't have standard size windows that you could just replace the frames to easily adapt for screens, but there are surely a lot of newer, post WWII buildings in Europe. Why didn't they just design those with window screens?
@@LordOceanus "suffice to say was very concerned about the noise the sink suddenly made" For whatever reason, I absolutely love these stories. I've never used a garbage disposal either (why would garbage go down the sink, that's what the trap/plug is for, to catch food scraps and whatnot) but I have turned them on and off so I know the noise they make.
Laurence picked the right area of the country to live in and experience nice people. "Midwest nice" is legendary. He might not have formed the same opinion had he settled in New York City or San Francisco.
Why is that ingrained in my head?! Also living near a landfill growing up it is better to just compost paper only products. A newspaper in a landfill can be dug up a decade later and still be readable.
There was a huge anti-littering and "ecology movement" in the US in the early to mid-1970's. The formation of the EPA, lot's of PSA's (the old Indian, Smokey Bear, the "give a hoot' owl), schools had "ecology clubs," and a lot of State laws were enacted. Michigan enacted the bottle and can $0.10 deposit law in the early 70's and our state really cleaned up quickly of that litter.
Was at a bar in the UP asked for a bottle of beer and the girl apologised and said only cans. NO big then come to find out my first was 65 cents and every one after was only 55 cents because of the deposit. With 5 guys in their early 20's drink for less than 20 bucks when use to Chicago prices we were amazed and happy.
The $0.10 deposit is amazing in my opinion. It encourages me to keep my cans and return them. Vs my parents who live in FL but grew up in MI don't recycle their cans anymore because they don't get the deposit. I would still recycle them if I moved but there is a large population that only recycles so that they can get their money back.
As kids we had a few cartoons like the owl that said “give a hoot don’t pollute”. There was American Indian that would cry on the commercial about littering. Good Grief that one had to have been back in the 1970s.
I remember those! And don't forget Smokey The Bear, telling us "not to set forest fires" and the American Lung Association ads..."it's a matter of life and breath".
That American Indian was Iron Eyes Cody. He was an actor and was in a lot of westerns.But he wasn't an American Indian, he was Italian American. But everyone thought he was Native American because of his looks and name.
I have been watching your videos for a while now & I have to say, as an American man myself, it makes me smile to see you, a foreign man who moved here & is able to enjoy his “new life” here. Way to go!
Regarding the strangers who invited you to their ranch: It’s probably not as weird/creepy as you might think. I live in a rural area of Pennsylvania and this is how I grew up. (Someone mentioned the hospitality in Germany so maybe that is part of our culture as a lot of us are Pennsylvania Dutch?) We would invite people who stopped by inside and always, always ask if they wanted a cup of coffee which was usually accepted and appreciated. Visits could last 15 minutes or 3 hours. Mmm, everyone I knew also had an accessible shotgun somewhere in their home as well. And, no, kids weren’t shooting each other, etc. Don’t be afraid. There is a saying: “I’ve never met a stranger.”
an armed society is a polite society my friend regularly picks up hitchhikers because hes comfortable that if one were to try something he can handle himself...
Hello fellow Pennsylvanian..I was brought up the same way, we often had strangers eating dinner with us, or picked up hitchhikers, or lent a hand to someone needing help on the side of the road. When you live in a rural area you know you have to depend on your neighbors so most mend a hand when needed.
Along with public trash cans, anti-litter laws and a general interest in keeping things clean, one of the main reasons the US tends to be clean and litter free are the active efforts to clean up litter. Businesses will pay staff or non-profits to clean sidewalks and the sides of roads near them. Nonprofits and other groups will also do this. As I boys out I remember doing this. This is what those adopt a highway signs you see refer to.
I spent 2 summers in high school on a park cleaning crew. We worked from 7 - 11 am, so by the time people really started coming out for the day, the parks were all clean and empty of trash. I can't remember any of us ever actually filling our garbage bag and needing a 2nd one. 15 of us covered about 10 city parks each day.
Re: prisoners picking up trash - I worked for a multiline insurance company and our location insured the city law enforcement agency. I was posting claims for prisoners who were on trash pickup detail. One claim was a male who contracted poison ivy on his private parts. About four claims later a female prisoner on the same detail had also contracted poison ivy on her nether regions. Speculation was rife.
We have adopt a highway systems up here. Different groups or people adopt a mile stretch of road and keep it clean year round. Every May everyone in your area does a big clean up on the same day and follows it with a bbq for the folks in your specific area.
I remember in the 70s littering was a problem. Then the Native American tv commercial would come on and he had tears in his eyes. That always got to me and I would find myself picking up litter.
Iron Eyes Cody actually wasn't an American indian, though he played them in numerous westerns. His real name was Espera Oscar de Corti, and he was Italian. He got the name "Iron Eyes Cody" when he played a character by that name in the Bob Hope comedy, Paleface.
I spent a few weeks in the UK in my youth and found the people to be, on the whole, very friendly and welcoming. They were very interested in seeing how much alcohol I was able to consume. This was a lot of fun as, being of Irish descent, I represented my country most admirably.
Talking to random people in stores is hit or miss. In the deep south, it is common to just hang out at a gas station talking to people. But in parts of the northeast, trying to talk to someone in line at the store will have them thinking you are an ax murderer.
I'm from the Philly. It really depends on how you start the conversation. If what your saying is somehow relevant, it goes over fine. You have to answer the question, "Why are you talking to me?" before someone thinks to ask. The most important thing is to not be in the way while you talk, we are always in a hurry.
People in the northeast are just rude no matter what you say to them, and if you don't say anything they take the liberty to stare until you literally ask them if they want to fight. Nothing else will make them stop staring at you.
Growing up in the south, I met multiple people from the northeast be freaked out by the friendliness and ask me if you “have to be nice here” because “everyone has guns”
Mainly the big cities. My state of Texas has a huge anti-littering campaign "Don't mess with Texas". And it works. Also our Interstates are well maintained and beautiful. Driving them in the Spring is a delight because we encourage wildflowers, especially our state flower, the Bluebonnet.
I've had the weirdest looks saying hello to strangers in the UK. We say hello to anyone. We're just naturally friendly. Someone once said, "Strangers are just friends I haven't met yet."
Try it in Sweden. You don't have to worry about any weird looks because they'll just straight up fucking ignore you. But if you have to ask someone a question or you need help, assistance, they'll help you. You just have to have a REASON for talking to people there. I don't want to make it sound like they're horrible, they're just different.
While there are occasional exceptions (mainly in seedier areas of large cities), the lack of litter was one of the nicest surprises when I moved to the States.
L A people from Wisconsin are some of the kindest humans on the planet. I grew up and still live 5 miles from the border in Illinois and we have always preferred doing our business in Wisconsin. Also helps that’s where most our family is from.
@@ChrisPage68 If you are not rich you can become rich. It happens very often. I was born to a schizophrenic mother and alcoholic father. For a few years my most prized possession was a plastic drinking glass with my initial painted on the bottom with fingernail polish. When I got into the world I found all the opportunity I needed, particularly education courtesy of a public library within a few miles walk. There I learned enough electronics to get my first job as an electronics tech. 48 years later I retired with a pension, living in a nice house, with wonderful children and grandchildren. Opportunity means "make it happen."
I have been to the USA twice New York and Las Vegas. I thought i would be put off because of the gun laws etc, but i saw none of that and the American people are so friendly and welcoming. the only time that happens with brits is when you meet them abroad. i look forward to the time i can go again as i have so many places i want to go and see. America is a wonderful and beautiful country and vast in comparison to the UK
When I brother arrived in the U.S., he told me that strangers would say hi to him, which does not happen in China. My first culture shock came when a fellow shopper in a mall called me "honey". Will never forget how Ohioans would jump out of their cars to help push a vehicle stuck in a snow storm. One guy jump-started my car four times because it kept dying. I lost my wallet at a gas station in Indiana and they kept it till I drove back to get it. I have lived in this country for almost 23 years and still have not visited all the national parks yet. I could not agree more: the people and the national parks are my absolute favorites about living in America.
Glad to have you here! Our national parks are definitely one of our best assets!
As an average American, thank you! I guess I've become blind to what you see. Thank you for helping me open my eyes
As an American i happy ro have you here & im extremely happy for you that you don't have to live under the CCP. I think the best thing about America is our 1st & 2nd Amendments & that our government says our rights comenfrom God & not Government & that our Government is to protect our rights not curtail them..except durring pandemics, I've come to find out.
Zhen Li , thank you for this comment. I'm so glad you felt welcomed and not so on your own when you came to the US. Your words cheered me up in this difficult time.
@@shaunellis3060 Our rights do not come from God, they come from the people. Our inalienable rights, life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness are rights all humans deserve. Our codified rights, like free speech, freedom of religion, and the right to bear arms are manifestations of thoseminalienable rights. They don't come from any god. In America an atheist has those same rights as any Christian, or any other religion, including Satanists (who are really atheists). They only disappear if we the people let them. That's why it is important to be vigilant against encroachments on those rights, whether they come from your preferred political ideology or from competing political ideologies (they all profess freedom while saying the others don't, but any group in power for long enough will do almost anything they can get away with to prolong their hold on power)
This is so weird, hearing someone saying nice things about America. I've gotten so use to hatred and vitriol directed towards us that this video is an amazing breath of fresh air.
@Skrying Shame It sucks.
@Skrying Shame so true.
Stop watching the news. Lol
I love how many of us can't seem to stand criticism
Yeah, even if some of them are Russian trolls, we do seem to be the whipping boy nationality of the year this year.
(UK Citizen) When I was 8 me, my 2 sisters and my parents went on this once in a lifetime holiday to florida. And whilst there our car had broken down/overheated; now we had no idea what to do or where we were, and me and my two sisters were also like the car dying in the hot weather; then this sweet old American couple came out and invited us into their home, offering tea, food, a look at the cars engine and a lovely chat. We couldn't believe it! That would never happen in the UK. Such genuine people whome turned a situation that felt dire to a child into one of his favourite highlights of the holiday. A situation that speaks volumes about the average American. Thank you America from the heart!
Side note: The tea was pretty awful 😂 but i made sure to tell her it was the best i'd ever drunk. Hopefully that means something coming from an Englishman.
Thank you for sharing your lovely story.
"The tea was pretty awful..." 😂 My brother-in-law is from Taiwan and his family farms tea. When I offered him a cup of tea he immediately refused because it wouldn't be good. I knew it was good tea and the temperature and steeping time for it. Since my sister and I were having some I made him a cup as well. I didn't force it upon him but he drank it and was pleasantly surprise at how good it was. Now I can't go to their house without being sent home with tea for brewing. He is appalled at how much we have to pay for good tea in the US because it is so prevalent in Taiwan.
Beautiful story 🥰 I suspect the tea was Lipton instant since southern tea is usually excellent, especially when Mahmah makes it
It would mean more if you wouldnt lie on yhat issue
Lovely story ☺️ 90% of Americans are fantastic but I did think as soon as you said they invited us to there home that it could be a chainsaw massacre situation lol jk but good for you to have met such lovely people x
I can confirm that seeing someone actually just toss litter, even just a single paper cup, on the ground is shocking to me
YES! I instantly judge people for that.
It is infuriating and disgusting. Don't Mess with Texas.
The litter thing really changed dramatically about 50 years ago in the U.S. This was mostly due to a very successful ad campaign on televisions.
For a few states (eg. Missouri), it was a bit later (mid to late 80s). As a kid from Illinois, I remember being shocked every time we went to Missouri.
Most undeveloped parts of the world are shockingly bad with litter. If you spend much time in them at all, you'll probably end up littering at some point too. It just doesn't feel like it makes a difference when everyone else does it all the time.
I couldn’t believe Paris. It was filthy! So disappointing.
It's abhorrent to me.
It shows utter disrespect toward our neighborhood, town, city, State, country and Earth.
Litter is something I can not tolerate so I go around, especially the ditches to keep them clear and running, picking up other people's trash anywhere I see it and on days off around my neighborhood and around country highways.
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It's extremely good exercise for me, too. All that walking, bending, reaching, squatting, lugging, etc. a full yard-size trash bag around.
I hate exercising to be exercising. This is purposeful work with noticeable results for the environment and for my body.
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I never realized that I was taking my window screens for granted.
Right lol
Growing up in the deep south, they are a necessity! Currently, I can't open about 8 of my windows because there is no screen and its an OLD house with big widows so they need to be special ordered to replace. Cost too much :(
@@adriennestudaway893 If you have the frames, rolls of screening and the tool to pop them in are pretty cheap!
I've always thought that was why in Britain they have lace curtains, to act like screens for bugs ( wouldn't help much with the cat). I enjoy your humor.
It sounds like we need to start selling window screens in the UK. Untouched market.
literally if i’m on a date with someone and they litter, they’re gone
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 yes! If you throw trash out of your window while driving (literally happened) don’t expect me to be your friend. I’ll lose all respect for you immediately.
I was all ready dating my partner when he threw a whole fast food meal piece by piece out the window while driving. I told him it was low class and if he ever did it again it was over. I married him. 20 years being litter free!!
💯 the rudeness.
@@dellahart2463 very cool story :)
Agreed! 😻
I just want to say thank you for noticing the good America has to offer.
Alex, your comment should have at the very LEAST, 1 million thumbs up!
Agreed I gave it one
I would also like to thank you for bringing it up. With everything going on, there is a divide but when it comes down to it, we all love each other and want what’s best for everyone.
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Maybe the east side because California is dirty
As someone working in customer service, the niceness thing isn’t *just* a thing we need to do. I genuinely enjoy when the good feelings are reciprocated and enjoy being temporary friends with a stranger I’ll likely never see again in my life.
Yeah despite hating working food service, my favorite part of the job was being nice to people and having positive interactions. It makes you feel like the world isn't so crazy, and you feel like you're doing something more with your life than just rolling burritos if you're making people smile when they might be having a rough day.
I quit food service, did car maintenance instead, with a good amount of my job being interaction with customers. I like cars and I like positive interactions with people, so win-win. No more soggy burritos.
Agreed. I *liked* being able to help people. Even if it was 'wasting' time by taking me away from completing tasks that were actually tracked, I still wanted to help. Still glad to not be working retail anymore.
maybe it's because Americans live so far apart in such wide green spaces that they get lonely and want to bond, even with strangers/customers, because talking to someone in person is a rarity?
The epitome of Southern hospitality was when my friend, her family, and I were in South Carolina to watch the solar eclipse. We were pulled over by the side of this rode outside a state forest to see the eclipse. This sweet old reverend and his wife were hosting a lot of people from their church and neighborhood over for a barbecue to watch the eclipse. As they were driving by, they proceeded to invite everyone that was pulled over on the road over to their house to watch the eclipse and have dinner afterwards. We met so many amazing people and had a great time with complete strangers. Now that's hospitality.
One time when I was a kid, our church was having one of its outdoor pitch-in dinners that it had a couple times a year. Two burly, hairy, grungy bikers pulled in. One of them was having engine trouble, and they were nearly broke and hungry. Not only were they welcomed at the church picnic, my mother invited them home, where they stayed for a week or so while the mechanically talented guys of our church fixed the guy's motorcycle. She pulled out all the stops, too -- huge meals at the dining room table we only ate at for special meals, with the lace tablecloth and the best china and silverware. What's more, she kept in touch with one of the two for years afterward till he stopped writing.
as a South Carolinian, If you get past some of the bad, you can find real kindness in this state.
As a southerner I can tell you that's all a front
@@joebarton4947 as a southerner, it's a front for what?
@@ianfab79 Joe barton probably means "pretentious" hospitality. Not very common, but can happen in all countries.There are people who REALLY are hospitable, there are those who PRETEND to be just for the sake/creation of a hospitality sense and others who use it for getting to know people. I would say people are inherently good, they have just been programmed to act in certain ways. Quoting Lawrence, "Look at the Flowers, not the Weeds" - Have a beautiful day. ya'll!
..My wife is from Lithuania, and when we visited there, I was told that I "looked American"... no Budweiser shirts and fanny packs... when pressed as to why they thought so...they all said it was because I was smiling... no one in Europe smiles...or God forbid says hello to anyone else on the street without knowing them.... LOL
Yeah right of course they did..🙄🤣🤣
@@Ionabrodie69 It's probably true. One common caricature of Americans is a big toothy smile, especially in eastern Europe. Though, when I was in Ukraine, the people I was working with, who were mostly young guys, veterans of the Soviet/Russian Army going to college after serving argued quite a lot about where I looked like I was from. The US curiously was not on the list, though both Russia and Afghanistan were. Afghanistan was higher on the list because I'm tall even for Americans. The "American" betrayal though was that I whistled. That was something that raised superstition/greed. The explanation was that you didn't whistle because you would be whistling away your money or your luck or both. It was clear that if I didn't have any money I would not be able to buy dinner or a beer or coffee or ...
Charles Bronson was lithuanian... he was so serious
😲 WOW, seriously?
When I’m biking , I always make sure to say hello to everyone I pass and tell them that I hope that they have a good day.
Twitter is by no means a representation of the real world. People in America generally get along in person. One of the main reasons I hate twitter.
One of the reasons I'm not on Twitter.
You are absolutely correct, I dropped account a year ago.
If people in the US behaved (in person) the way they do in Twitter, or even sometimes in the comments on UA-cam, everyone would either be hiding, looking for someone to kill or dead
Same, I'm never going on Twitter
Yeah twitter is the worst
I'm from the UK and I live in the US. My favorite happy surprises about living here share some overlaps with yours: lack of litter, friendliness of random people, good customer service, toleration of difference (like in the UK, everyone used to call me "quirky" and "eccentric" but in the US nobody comments - I feel that they are more tolerant and open minded of difference), better consumer choice, scale of natural beauty - huge, stunning mountains and lakes, can-do attitude, cats being indoors. I will click comment now, and then realize all the things I forgot. I also have a list of what sucks, but let's keep it positive!
Please share the bad parts.
As an American, I know a bad one. Health care.
Everywhere has good and bad. Some positivity every now and then is refreshing. ✌🏻🤟🏻
@@chopitup9950 This. As a Brit who moved to the US, the Health Care is something that always amazes me that it's so corporate owned and how much they try to say that free health care would bring the system to it's knees despite the fact Canada, the UK and so many other countries have it and it's fine, if not better. If I fall and break my leg back in the UK I know I'm covered and I won't pay a thing. Here if I break my leg, I'm driving myself to the hospital because I know I've already saved myself at least $300 if not more just for not needing an ambulance and that's before the actual consultation fee, treatment fee, medication fees etc. It's insane.
@@Kinvarus1 Although many countries have great tax payer funded health care (not free), many do NOT!
America would be one of them. Because big pharma is so corporate they are involved with politicians, as both love money and power. If we allowed tax payer funded healthcare then our federal (and possibly state) taxes would go up and most of it would go into the pockets of politicians and big pharama, leaving very little to doctors, nurses, and equipment.
Just look at our schools. The more money that goes into them the dumber kids get and the worse things are for them. Private schools don’t have this problem. Michelle Obama turned school lunches into a tortilla with bologna. The schools that receive the most money from taxes aren’t the best schools.
Anything the government touches turns to shit due to corruption. We need to keep business and politics local. And businesses, including healthcare related businesses, need to be more transparent about prices and services.
There’s no reason that someone can’t request an mri or X-ray and actually get it. Too many doctors deny patients tests and referrals to specialist but will happily write up antidepressants without a psychiatrist or therapist. I and my family have a rare disorder that has a lot of secondary disorders. It’s a battle to get a specialist and even then some of them accuse us of lying or don’t do enough tests before making a diagnosis and coming up with a treatment plan. And a LOT of them don’t like doing paperwork, which is needed for insurance and medical records.
Had to laugh out loud at “curiosity isn’t going to kill my cat, but a Prius would” 😂😂😂
I have 2 cats that are deaf and are strictly indoor furry roommates. They would never hear it coming and I live next to a bus stop. lol
Yes very funny, I spotted that line as well.
I love his dead-pan humour... a nice change from the UA-camrs who scream at the camera and put a hand over the camera lens to indicate scene change.
Haha made my day!
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My husband is new to the USA, been here less than a month and he was surprised by:
1. Wal-Mart
2. Pumping our own gas
3. Drink refills at restaurants
4. How big the personal vehicles are (the trucks!)
5. That you buy ice at a gas station
6. The people are nicer than he thought they would be (even though I tried to explain)
My husband is from Brazil.
Thank you for your channel! It is quite entertaining!
Order your husband some Mackinac Island fudge from Murdick's. Give him a taste of Michigan.
Where do you go to buy ice in Brazil then? Seems like in a country with a warm climate like Brazil, access to the ice supply might be an important thing.
@@BIGBLOCK5022006 OHIO
@@BIGBLOCK5022006 oh my I'm from Michigan, and I haven't had that since I was a little girl! Dangggggg ittttttt I need it!
Rio is insanely dangerous, I went to Carnival and never have felt so unsafe as being in downtown Rio. And never been more grossed out by water. The bay was like a sheet of trash. Pollution everywhere. The docks stunk so bad. We were staying on a boat.
"I know curiosity wouldn't kill my cat, but a Prius would" best line ever
So would a coyote and a rabid racoon is no good.
I saw a sticker on a Prius that said “Cool Prius!” -Nobody
I think a large cat, like a Maine Coon, would probably give as good as it gets.
There was a time that a Prius was a curiosity, so curiosity would have killed your cat.
The US definitely needs better walking and cycling infrastructure.
My husband and I have travelled the world over, and we are forever amazed at the friendliness of Americans. They would literally give you the shirt off their backs.
ima be honest with you i probably couldn't live outside of the us for this very reason
This is very true.
I have legitimately done that, the situation was wild though
@@damianmorningstar3150 would love to hear that story 😂
@@damianmorningstar3150 Please, we need the story now. We have all the time in the world to read this story.
Americans don't like the see through cracks on public toilet stalls either.
Creepers might...
Those gaps are intentional, they cut down on use, thus cleaning and maintainence cost.
We also don't like that walls and doors in the stalls don't go all the way to the floor. Ideally they would be completely enclosed with ventilation to the outside to keep the rest of the restroom from stinking.
Dayle Arceneaux I saw something on UA-cam recently about those gaps but can’t remember what it was 🤷♀️
Easy Rider I just posted about the gap and it said something about the fact doors don’t go all the way down, can’t remember what it was
There was a big campaign to end littering in the 1980’s and we stuck with it. It really is one of our better group achievements.
Actually, our airwaves were littered with anti-littering campaigns throughout the 60's, 70's and 80's. It took 30 yrs or more and a couple more generations born, to get the message sunk into the population's minds, but it worked. It was constant campaigning about earth, water bodies, and air pollution. So happy that we have come such a long way from the days of littering and pollution. It was so very bad back then, compared to now.😊
Somehow New Orleans didn't get the memo.
@@audrarouse5564 Neither did the entirety of California.
@@brenda9140 I feel like even all the way up into the early 90's! I'm 32, and vividly remember anti-littering commercials airing when I was little. I guess change takes awhile.
"Give a hoot, don't pollute."
"Don't mess with Texas."
A good friend of mine who is not rich, gave away her stimulus check in extra tips to wait staff after restaurants opened back up. All 12 people that she gave $100 to cried.
I love this! If we get another, I’d like to do this too.
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I went out to dinner twice during this pandemic and tipped $100 each time, my servers never said anything but I hope they were grateful. I know how difficult life is for them these days.
"All 12 people that she gave $100 to cried." That is sad, I know, I Love people in general. She gave it away is very generous of her, and they cried, which is very sad. I Love this guys place, he's uplifting and not foul mouthed, when people cuss so much I just turn the channel and think they must be Democrats... God Bless You, and Everyone! www.sez33.com
I gave $100 tips to 3 servers/delivery drivers that always take excellent care of us. They were overwhelmed. I was happy I could do something to help them out.
As an American, "It has less litter" is never something I thought I would hear about the USA.
About the indoor vs outdoor cat thing: Cats are in invasive species in a lot of areas, the US included. I don't think they're invasive in Europe though, so that would partly explain why people the US keep them inside more.
They are in Athens, Greece! They were everywhere when I visited. I don't mind, but a cat hater probably would!
Cats are NOT an invasive species.
Humans that view cats as such however, are an invasive species…
@@JROD082384 you're welcome to look up the definition of invasive species, if you're ever inclined to stop with your nonsense
I keep my cat indoors because cats frequently go missing, lost cat posters are everywhere. I don't want her to get hit by a car or have to fight raccoons, and it also eliminates concerns about fleas and the house getting infested with them. It hasn't anything to do with "invasive species", just her health and safety. I like her and I want her to live is all.
I've been seeing a lot more outdoor cats these days though.
I'm really surprised window screens haven't caught on elsewhere.
When I bought this house in 1988 it was a bank repo and had new screens. No central heating or air. Central California. Screens are practically a health code requirement on old houses.
@@garywheeler7039 Window screens are a requirement for Section 8.
They have caught on elsewhere, but here in Australia, *for good reason*, we call them "flyscreens", because life would be unbearable without them!
@@redleader7988 Window screens are a requirement for a section 8? No wonder Klinger never got out of the Korean War!
Naples, Italy has flies in the summer, but no window screens.
I travel internationally a lot. I can't tell you how many times I've been asked, "Do you *HAVE* to say hi to EVERYBODY?" I always reply, "Yes - I'm an American - we talk to everyone!" Love your glasses, btw.
Apparently, according from some American friends who were going abroad to certain places, one of the lessons a lot of Americans need to learn before going abroad is to tone down the smiling at strangers thing lest they come off as weirdos or (for the ladies) prostitutes.
@@bemusedbandersnatch2069 people always looked weirdly at me in germany when i just said hi like I'm about to kidnap them
I've traveled quite a bit as well, and while I respect other's culture and way of life one thing I NEVER apologized for was saying "Hi" to strangers.
I had a friend come over from America to watch a NBA basketball game with me in London. 2 and a half hours after the game I was still waiting for him outside the venue as he talked to everyone. As British we were too polite to tell him to shut up. The staff were leaving before me. Just strange to talk to everyone. He talked all the way through the game too and spent half of the time putting stuff on Instagram 🙄
@@dianethompson209 Damn friendly Social Americans! :-)
"Focus on the flowers, not the weeds." That's a keeper!
A weed is just a plant that's in the wrong place.
Many weeds are edible. That's a huge plus in a food shortage if you know which ones they are.
@@moralityisnotsubjective5 And they tend to themselves. No watering, no fertilizing, etc. needed. Really, they're the superior breed of plant to the fragile flowers.
Dread Cthulhu My family will pick and eat dandelion greens. They are really good.
I was tempted to say, focus on the flowers, and pull the weeds.
Back in the 70s there was an environmental push, not littering, recycling were two of the big things we focused on, and overall got adopted. Having been used to it, it's nice to know someone noticed!
I dont remember the recycling bit from the 70’s. I do remember the reuse and repurpose ads. But we were hillbillies and already did that. 😂
The only other countries that are comparable to the USA regarding having less litter are Japan and Singapore. Part of it is the nature of oriental culture. In the case of Singapore, it’s severe penalties for littering.
Yeah, there are still "Don't Mess With Texas" signs up around Texas discouraging littering and promoting caring for the environment.
Right! that commercial of the Native American sitting on his horse and a tear falling down his cheek as he looked over the landscape with trash all over it.
@@coxstereightynine9650 I remember that commercial
What I experience as an American, in day to day life, is so far removed from what I see on the news. It's nice to hear someone comment on it. When I go to work, I am greeted with "good morning" by about 6-7 strangers before I even get to my work station. When I go to the grocery store, people are friendly and nice. I'm short so I often have to ask tall people for help reaching things in the grocery. Everyone I have ever asked has been great.
Yes!! Agreed. I'm in a wheelchair and everyone offers to help me if I make it clear that I'm having trouble with something. Heck, most offer help before I struggle at all. xD
I have to TRY to be independent over here. :P
I'm short and I ask people all the time to get stuff down off shelves for me. Always nice. Always accommodating. Even during COVID.
@@handle--729 I have never thought of that before. However, I appreciate you getting things for short people off the shelf. It is interesting to see someone climbing shelves to get something up high. I do it when no one is around to help, but I am sure it would be funny to me, a 51 year old woman climbing shelves to get peanut butter. So thank you anyway.
Same here. Americans do try to be polite and helpful. That's a generalization, yes, but I'm grateful to tall people for helping me get stuff on high shelves, and no one has ever refused. We do have a national congenial streak, for the most part.
@@handle--729 I could see your asking for help if, for example, the item was towards the back of the very bottom shelf . I think most folks should be understanding of that. Sometimes I'll ask a kid to help with that--they're usually delighted to do it.
The nicest thing I ever had happen to me was this:
When I was between jobs, maybe about 6 years ago, I was working at a temp job for $8/hr, a distribution center of some kind. I was living very paycheck to paycheck and really only bought stuff like groceries and school supplies. I went to the store to buy some stuff for the coming week, and as I checked out, my card was declined. We scanned it 3 or so times and it was still declined, so I went to cal my bank and check my account (the put the transaction on hold so other people could go by). Turned out, I had $3 total, so I guess I was off by a day or something. The lady behind me bought my groceries for me (about $60) saying that she had had to go through the same type of situations.
Never had anyone do anything that nice for me before (who weren't family anyway), I still remember that moment very clearly.
Paying it forward 🙂
Awesome!
I work as a cashier at Lowes. The same exact thing happened last month. A woman was having trouble with her card. The man behind her insisted on paying for it...even though it was $68!
@@margietucker1719 That was really nice of him. I had stepped away to call my bank and she paid mine while I was gone, I was very surprised.
I had someone do that for me once. I was buying things for one of my kids birthdays. Ordinarily I would have put out all back without a problem, but this day it would have been so disappointing. The person in line behind me paid. I try to help like that when I can now. It’s come up a couple times. Feels really good to pay that forward (even though it’s only been a couple bucks each time)
I think Americans are friendly because most of our ancestors were “strangers in a strange land” having left family and friends of their homelands. Plus in the early days of America interdependence was necessary for survival.
Meli Garrett speaking of which my ancestors have been in the United States of America since the 1600s and fought for American Independence and against the Confederates.
@@sethfrisbie9840 Picked the wrong side in the English Civil War as well I see
@@nicholasparker2086 American Civil War* ...
@@soybasedjeremy3653 no, English civil war, as in the revolution
Good observation!
I went to the US as a Brit and had a few pleasant surprises myself. One being how friendly people are, just strangers coming up to me and complimenting my clothes or anything, it felt so warming. The amount of stores that are sort of quirky in nature as well, I absolutely adored those and wish we had more of them here in the UK. Gas prices being so cheap compared to Europe is another. Oh and at Target, the checkout dude was putting my items in the grocery bags and I loved that. There's a lot of things that surprised me and I loved my time there.
ive heard stories of American going abroad in Europe and hating it seems everyone so cold
Yes we are a pretty chatty country as a whole 😂
In L.A. there is litter EVERYWHERE
@@selahgreen9648 I went through a dozen countries in Europe over 2 months. I found the people in each country to be really friendly in their own way. The Brits were quick to make sure that I knew how to get around safely and quickly in their towns(without me asking). They seemed almost worried for me which was... maybe a little unnecessary. The Germans were fantastic at being efficient(which is a cold, but material form of politeness). The Italians weren't efficient(seriously who closes an entire city just because it's a bit warm), but they loved to talk with me and their night life was oddly both genuine and exciting. The French were nice, sometimes even nice in Paris. The people who stood out the most were the Flemish. My friends joked that if any of us were ever alone and sad in Antwerp, we could open a map and be swarmed with friendly conversation. Having said that though, I will admit that my hometown in the USA is much more openly friendly. A good mix of the cultures.
@@IronpenWorldbuilding La doesn't even represent the rest of California. I hate going there
A friend of mine from college (25 years ago) was from Britain. He told me the thing that amazed him the most was the idea Americans had that tomorrow would always be better, that if you work hard you can be a huge success, that you can win the lottery and become a movie star and cure diseases, that there is always hope and never give up. I thought this was strange because I thought all people were that way. He told me in America, anyone can go to college, whenever they want, wherever they are. In Britain, you have to qualify to go to college by taking standardized tests at the end of high school, and if you don't make it, you don't go to college. Again, this was 25 years ago so I don't know if things have changed. But in America, he went on, you can drop out of high school and still go back later, get a GED, study for an entrance exam you can take over and over until you eventually pass, and go to college. He said he thought it was in the DNA of Americans, the idea that they can always improve their lives, that they are the masters of their destiny, and so have created a system giving people the chance to become better, to reinvent themselves, to keep improving, to become anything you want. He went on to marry his American college sweetheart, get a Master's degree in chemistry from another American college, divorced her and married another American woman, and is now an American citizen teaching high school chemistry in California.
One of my college friends' married a guy from France she met during her graduate studies in AZ. He now works on laser optics for NASA. Another friend married a guy from Ireland she met during her graduate studies in WA, who has a PhD in something I forget. They both have become American citizens. I mention them because they seem to epitomize what Americans see as the "American Dream", starting from square one and achieving great things through hard work, perseverance and dedication.
One of my ancestors came over from German by herself in the 1860's and moved to Minnesota. THAT took guts! If hope and perseverance even in the face of adversity is in the DNA of Americans like my friend said, it's because of those that came before us that had the hope and dreams to come here and start a brand new life in a foreign land...like you :-) This is an incredibly vast oversimplification of the American experience and just my views, but my friend's comments have stuck with me and how that DNA of exploring somewhere new, trying something new, going beyond the limits, has been passed down generation after generation. I have no idea what it's like to grow up in another country, but I know growing up here, I always felt the sky was the limit...then again, not even that ;-)
"Focus on the flowers not the weeds." Nice!
You seemed more yourself tonight. Thank you. Good one.
@Red Head Geek - that was perfectly said - I agree with the American attitude of optimism, etc...as a trait coming from our ancestors who left their homelands to make a better life here. My family came mainly from Ireland in the 1800s with my paternal grandmother’s side from England coming around 1750. All poor, many illiterate. The last to immigrate was my 3rd great grandfather in 1871 from Ireland and he arrived alone. All of them were so brave all went on to have good lives and gave their children more than what they had, on and on each generation more successful than the last. I think having ancestors who were brave enough to leave everything they knew to start all over in a new country is something that’s passed along. And for that I’m grateful and proud of my great grandparents who left places like Strokestown and Ardee and Yorkshire to come to New York and then Michigan.
RedHeadGeek that story was wonderful, thanks 😊
RedHeadGeek I have a distant cousin who dropped out of high school our junior year to get married. She eventually got her GED, went to college and is now an elementary school principal. It’s nice to know that we can change the course of our lives and it’s never too late for a college education.
Hey! I'm from MN. Where did she go in MN? My great grandmother came over from Germany.
"If not for the people, America would just be one giant, unregulated, national park." lol. Classic.
I live in Alaska and I can really appreciate that remark! At times I think we have islands of population between National, State, and Local parks. Even my town of 45,000 (second most populated) has almost as many parks / playgrounds as churches. LOL.
@Intellectual Ammunition Fairbanks. Just surrounded by them, Denali to the South. Too many to count in the North. Between Homesteads (168 acres each) and National parks we are surrounded. LOL.
Will never understand why window screens haven't caught on in other countries.
Lot less bugs in Europe
seems it would be common sense to me.
I had absolutely no idea that other countries didn't use screens
@@samuelharnden9641 the freaking flys in the UK in summer drove me nuts. Hated lack of screens then.
Their big in Canada!
In the 80's we had Woodsy the Owl who was a marketing icon to teach Americans not to litter. "Give a Hoot, Don't Pollute." We also had Smokey the Bear to teach us not to start forest fires. 😁
P.S. I live in the Rocky Mountains and we do indeed have soccer, football, and baseball fields! They are in valleys and the giant mountains surround them.
the ad with an Indian chief with a tear running down his cheek...so good...
The reason the US has less litter is because there are WAY MORE public trash cans. In the UK and in most of Europe, there aren't trash cans on all of the paths, in the US, not only does the government put them everywhere, but businesses also make a point of providing them to help keep their exteriors litter-free.
Don't forget the hefty fines..for littering and for killing praying mantis'. Lol
(American here). I'm about as far from a "tree hugger" as one can be, I'm a big Buick driving,pro nuclear power/natural gas guy, but I HATE litter! (I also LOATHE graffiti..) It's ugly AF. I am thankful that, yes, private property owners provide trash cans. I just wish more people would USE THEM. I'm THAT guy who will put a wrapper in my pocket until I find an appropriate place to dump it. LOL.
Michael Lyndon Also there is a much higher general respect towards other people’s property. I mostly noticed that trespassing is taken much more seriously here than in my home country in Europe. But it can also mean we don’t throw stuff onto other people’s property.
Not true. There are almost no public trash cans in Japan, and you must carry your trash with you home, and yet, the country is extremely clean.
It's the culture.
Should see Japan, almost no litter whatsoever, and not a single public trash can to be seen.
“I love window screens cuz they keep my other inhabitant from getting out... not my wife, she uses the door... I’m talking about my cat”
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
That was quite funny 😂🤣😂😁
I moved to US 7.5 years back from India and I genuinely love it here.
So glad you love it! I've always wanted to see India.
Glad to have you here with us!
@@Soveliss1986 thank you 😊
Welcome!
Hello, welcome !
The Grand Canyon was a zen experience for me. I drove from flagstaff about 5 in the morning. On my way the road was blocked by two large elks standing in the middle of the road. They were huge majestic creatures, shoulder height to the roof of my car. They inspected me and let me pass. Then onto the park. The gates were up so I drove on in and found my spot. The rising Sun continually revealed more of the majesty of our planet and at every moment I continued to be moved. Easy to say this was the greatest experience of my life.
My favorite sight in the US. You gasp when you walk to the rim. I haven’t been many places, but this is the best.
great description...awesome experince
My one and only Elk hunt was Unit 7E Flagstaff, plenty of them out there within the 12,000+ ft mtn ranges. I live in AZ and never experienced the grand canyon...
i stayed atthe El Tovar on south rim in '93...eating breakfast 20 feet from the edge...like a dream
My family managed to make a trip to the Grand Canyon, Bryce Canyon, and Zion National Park in a week or two. I really enjoyed all three. The Grand Canyon is the most famous (for good reason), but I found the other parks just as spectacular - maybe even more so because of the lack of expectations. If you've never seen Bryce, it's like a canyon filled with natural sculptural rock formations - during sunset and sunrise they are especially beautiful. And pictures of Zion don't really do justice to the feeling you get when you drive through the tunnel and emerge in a valley surrounded by gigantic cliffs and canyon walls that look like mountains.
I’m in the Rockies and yes we have soccer fields aplenty.
And probably massive lung capacity then too. You'd dominate the low country folk.
Can confirm. From the Rockies, have plenty of soccer fields(and yes, lung capacity, too). They're good for more than just soccer, it's a large, flat, grassy area that you can have a lot of people gather or run around in for any number of activities.
Ah fellow Rockies people
I visited Aspen with my family ans we stopped in the shopping district. There was a park in the middle of town with a soccer field included I believe. The view was insane. Total LOTR vibes. The grass just drops off to a gorgeous mountain vista. I see why a lot of rich people call Aspen their home.
Where do people think the term "soccer moms" came from?
When I was a kid in Indiana, the local mall used to have pay toilets. However, most of the people would hold the door for the next person, so they wouldn’t have to spend any change. One day they just took out the coin boxes and made them free.
I heard airports in the US back in the 70s had pay toilets. I don’t remember them as we traveled by car till the late 80s the first time I flew in an airplane.
Heard it was sex discrimination lawsuit ended it. Women had to pay to go #1 or #2 and guys only had to pay to go #2.
It’s an absolute joy to discover someone from another country who actually likes us. To Laurence, we are generally hospitable. Others see the same actions, and criticize us for being loud and overly friendly. The same actions! 🤷♀️
'Overly friendly'. What a complaint. I'd be tempted to ask them if they'd prefer me being rude and generally an asshole? Too nice is better than too rude. However, they're right about us being loud.
@@Techhunter_Talon Have you ever seen the English drunk on the weekend or on vacation? They are the least liked nationality in Europe. They don't "hold their liquor well" and are vomiting in public and a general nuisance at every establishment.
Laughing Lark but that’s only because they like to blame the U.K. for the USA. Russians are just as obnoxious, their soc or hooligans are brutal and their oligarchs in the south of France get lots of eye rolls. Also it’s Swedes in Paris that puke on the streets.. I’ve seen it.
Most Europeans tend to live in the USA while making a nice living and also simultaneously bitch about it.. I never understood it. If an American lives abroad and complains about anything of their host country they are labelled uncultured. Even if their complaint is a common one that the natives also share.
Techhunter Talon You’re right. They explain the “overly friendly” complaint by saying they feel we’re being fake and shallow. However, it’s just a cultural thing. Personally, I enjoy chatting with strangers. But traveling outside the country, I would try my best to adhere to THEIR norms. I’m not sure about the “loud” generalization, but even that seems relatively petty unless we are being disrespectful to a particular situation...
As a hoosier, you talking about hoosier hospitality made my day. I remember one day I was riding my bike around my Indiana hometown and asking a feller biking across the country what surprised him most about my state, he said we were all very nice. It pretty much changed my life and how I interact with others.
I’m a Hoosier too! As a baby boomer it was a wonderful and wholesome place to grow up (50’s & 60’s). Terre Haute
Curiosity wont kill the cat, but a Prius will. Best phrase I've ever heard in my life!
You mean like #MEK, or the car?
Should be on a shirt.
We have a coyote that hangs out in the back of our yard..always licking his chops...at the thought of our cat "making a break for it" through an open window.
Gotta love the Brits and their humor.
🐱Great quotation🖤 Love window & door screens too🖤 w/o them in Los Angeles I'd be covered in welts from mosquito bites. It would also be an open invitations to curious creatures like lizards, skunks, raccoons, opossums & deer. A screen alone is not gonna keep a hungry coyote, mountain lion or bear out if it saw a slumbering snack (meow) on the other side.
I only lived in the US for a year and it was the happiest time of my life. I had a blast!
Come back! (Once everything is over) we’d love to have you!
Welcome sweetheart.
Where did you live while over here?
@@phredphlintstone6455 Tarrytown, New York.
Thank you! I'm glad you came. Please come again!
I remember when I was a teenager, The Dayton Mall tried to start charging .25 to use the bathroom. It didn't last long because people would hold the door open for the next person to go in, crawl under the door or jam paper into the lock.
Yup. For sure sounds like Dayton. Lol.
This is one of the most fascinating channels on UA-cam. As an American, I would like to say we are glad to have you!
“Don’t be a litter bug”, was a campaign ,like 50 yeas ago. It worked.
Yes, that was a campaign, and there were signs on roads saying "Don't Litter" and $ fines if you did and were caught.
Keep a America beautiful
When I was living in Oklahoma as a kid they had the "Don't Lay That Trash On Oklahoma" campaign.
There was a commercial when I was a kid with a Native American actor who turned to the camera with a tear in his eye. I have hiked miles to find garbage cans rather than disappointing that guy.
Yup!! In Texas it's Dont Mess With Texas!!
My grandmother lived to 108 and passed away in 1990. AT her 100th birthday she was asked what was the most important invention of her time. She answered unexpectedly Window Screen Consider she lived most of her life in the country, Horses were common but so were horse flies. Consider that they were a public health boon.
It's so nice to hear people talk about positive things from America! I know we're not perfect by far but I feel like everything focuses on the flaws.
I know people are getting so negative recently!!
Hi Joani, so many people are negative about the English too. Especially other members of the United Kingdom. They don't realise the same aristocrats who gave them a hard time treated us English peasants badly too. And they still do! :)x it's easy to criticise, not so easy to praise, so don't listen to the haters. xx
Window screens - I always find it strange when I watch movies or TV shows that are supposed to be set in America, and none of the windows have screens in them. People just open the window and climb in/out, or throw something out the window. I've never lived anywhere that didn't have screens in the windows. Even so, I regularly get bugs inside during the summer. For some reason, my home seems to be really popular with ladybugs. I don't mind those so much and usually catch & release them. I hate the moths and other bugs that find their way inside though.
We used to climb in and out of our windows, but we left the screens off on purpose so we could. We also live in coastal SoCal, not a lot of bugs to worry about.
It keeps the lighting even and also it just generally looks bad on camera. Another fun one is that cars don’t have often have head rests in the front seat if multiple people are in the back.
"Smile at everyone you see; it may the only smile they see that day." That is a common motto of people I know here in the west, and I guess it explains why we smile and wave at strangers! When Europeans insist that American friendliness is fake, it makes me wonder how depressing their lives (as a society) must be back home - everyone must either ignore each other or be incredibly rude. Haven't they heard of the Golden Rule? When you are raised in a culture whose core values are based on hope of a better tomorrow for everyone, it's (almost) impossible to have a dour outlook. Our friendliness is a direct result of that. However, there are always exceptions to the rule. 😉
I lived in Bolivia, and it was so eye opening for me. There was such an absence of hope. I'd never realized how ingrained in our culture it was because it was all I'd ever known. But there was a repressive attitude of "Things have always been bad/hard, and they will always be this way." Everyone was just hopeless that life could get better. It was incredibly sad, because all of the people I met there were wonderful people. I loved them very much. I can't count the number of times I was asked to sponsor someone's child to come to the US for a chance at a better life. I appreciate my country much more now than I did before, and I understand much better why people will do all kinds of things to get their families here. We aren't perfect by any means, but hope is a beacon.
Friendliness is more than just smiling. Many European countries show politeness and friendliness in other ways. I think what makes people say that American smiles are fake is that you're expected to smile instead of using smiling as a sign of utter enjoyment. What I think is what shows the difference in mentality is that "how are you?" is a greeting rather than a genuine question.
Please don't make the mistake of assuming that just because a culture is different that it is inferior or a miserable place. My friend from Hungary explained to me that people are warm and kind as appropriate, but don't just smile, smile, smile "for no reason" as he put it. If you meet him for the first time, he is polite but not super smiley. Once you get to know him, he is jovial, friendly, always making jokes, eager to help, happy to feed you or lend you whatever you need. It's just something reserved for friends, not (his point of view) squandered on strangers.
The hardest part of wearing a face mask during the pandemic for me has been not being able to see people's smiles. I am from the Midwest where it's common to smile at passing strangers (how sad to think this is "squandering" smiles--the supply is unlimited!) I traveled to Germany a couple of times for work and the biggest culture shock was having strangers avoid eye contact on the street. I found that if I approached a shopkeeper or cashier with a straight face, they usually greeted me in German, but if I approached with a smile they spoke English. Not 100% of the time, but enough to notice the difference. However, once the people there know you they are as warm as anywhere. My boss used to describe it as "Americans are peaches, and Germans are coconuts," meaning that Americans have more superficial friendliness, with a private core at the center, but Germans are harder on the outside but once they allow you past their shell, you're firm friends.
I have worked retail for 25+ years and I was originally a jaded kid when I started, and am now happy to greet people, and have found out over the years that just being friendly makes you feel better and makes any future interaction with anyone more positive. It's more or less, you get back what you put into it. It's not fake, it's more about I want a pleasant day, and the best way to have a good day is to start it out in a positive way with every interaction you have.
Ann-Marie, what an awesome comment.
I appreciate you sharing good things about America. I feel a lot of my European and Asian friends hardly want to visit because of all the things they hear on the news. It’s nice to see a Brit love on my homeland.
As an american I just want to say thank you. It's always nice to see someone pointing out some of great this this land has to offer.
I'm from Asia. I've been in United States for more than 30 years. I totally agreed with you. United States are indeed are the most comfortable place to live. Whether you are rich, medium class or poor , mostly all home are central air. We are indeed very spoil because everything is all necessity as an American. Paper napkins, toilet paper, take away box even for 2 bite left over, disposal cups are all free. If people complaining that American life are not fair or not to their expectations then I'll say these people don't know what they're talking about. Americans can drive a Mercedes-Benz or BMW even their occupation are just a servers. As long as you got a job, your credits are good, you can drove away a brand new car on the day you shopping for car.There's no Doctor or Esquire to be address. Everyone standard are same in public. After working hours a bussed can sit and hang out with their manager and bosses. I appreciated everything that USA have given me. God is good to me.
I live in Louisiana, and we loooove to feed people. Food is like a religion here. Plus, despite our problems, we are a generally friendly folk. And, in bad times, we tend to look after each other. After a hurricane, the unwritten rule is you take care of you and yours then you help your neighbor. It's just how it goes here. I'm not going to say my state doesn't have its problems, but hearing you talk kind of reminded me of why, even though I hate the humidity and heat, I still keep coming home. The US is in a dystopian dumpster fire right now, but there are still things that are good. Thanks for reminding me of that.
I recently visited New Orleans (I'm American but from Chicago) and I met some of the friendliest people ever. Everyone was so nice and quick to help or make suggestions. Can't wait to go back.
I'm from Louisiana too... food is religion. Everyone is also trying to give you something cold to drink...haha.
Louisiana is sort of like the crazy little brother of the family: yeah he's crazy but you can't help but love him despite or maybe because of his shenanigans!
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Florida, however, is more like the crackhead cousin with the prison record that everyone tolerates to be nice but really wish he'd just go away.
California is the eccentric older ex-hippie aunt who means well but is a hot mess in every sense of the word.
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Texas is that one middle kid who hates to be ignored and has to go big on everything, including stoking their own ego.
Louisisna has food at GAS STATIONS better than most places' restaurants. And because people there know good food, there are very few mediocre places to eat. They just wont tolerate bad food down there!
When I was a kid in small-town Missouri in the 90s, a lady who went to my church turned 100. On the week of her birthday, the pastor asked her in front of the congregation what was the greatest invention she ever saw in her lifetime. Without missing a beat, she shouted, “Window screens!” I’ll never forget that.
lol
Lol omg too cute ♥
Not sliced bread? :)
Omg she sounded awesome. 😂
Adorable
It’s inconceivable to me that there are people anywhere in the world who do not use window screens. I would never open a window without a screen no matter how much I craved some fresh air.
I lived in Brazil for a year. No screens and no A.C. and near 100 degrees daily. Windows definitely stayed open! And yes, okay, there would be tiny lizards inside and once a Tarantula in the bedroom. But humans adapt.
No screens in Poland. You have to vacuum the bugs if you forget to close your windows at evening. Or sleep with them😂😂😂😂
@@babycakes8434 🙀
Screens don’t smell so fresh.
I had the thought. I grew up on a farm, I can't imagine how many flies we would have had in the house without screens.
Thank you for all the kind things you say about the US, Lawrence. You seem like such a genuinely pleasant person - always seeing the positive in everything. I do hope to get the chance to visit the UK someday so I can share what I love with you too.
I'm so glad I read the comments. I'm an American living in Canada which has a reputation for "niceness". But I've not yet experienced it as fully as I remember from the states. And I had forgotten that which is why I'm glad I read the comments. Thank you everyone for making me homesick. That's not a bad thing.
I lived in Florida for a while and if someone was being outwardly rude in a store or a restaurant, more often than not, they were Canadian.
It’s been my experience than Canadians ,at least the tourists, are extremely arrogant and rude, so much so that I don’t feel like a visit North of the Border would be much fun.
I'm old enough to remember how filthy everything was "back in the day" and the resulting massive anti-littering campaigns of the 70's. Now littering is a modern taboo throughout the US - so much so that I remember being genuinely surprised at many places in Europe. Everyone rightly speaks of the beauty of Paris but few mention the constant reek of urine and the endless scatter of cigarette butts, light litter and an astonishing amount of dog crap - or "dog dirt" as many call it.
I too was amazed at the amount of dog poop on the sidewalks of downtown Brussels. Dog owners don't even try to get the dogs to go somewhere out of the walkway. That was 20 years ago, now we have human poop on the sidewalks of downtown LA. Probably won't be going back to either place.
I remember when I visited Europe for the first time I was also surprised at how in some of the cities like Paris there was a lot of litter. Don't get me wrong, it is bad in large US cities too but in the states if you litter people will either actively call you out for it or they will give you a look and pick up after you. I know when I visit the beach I often walk back to my car with a handful of garbage that's not mine.
I am ashamed of San Francisco, my home town. The litter. The reek. Is that why they call it the Paris of the West?
@@StevenBanks123 Yes, other than that there's no real comparison to be made, they're very different places!
Also, police can fine people for littering (at least in some places, and only if the cop really wants to)
The term "Don't mess with Texas" started as a anti littering campaign.
That one's clever, but thank
God Texas stopped using:
*"Don't Meth with Texas"*
as its Anti-Drug Slogan!
Sounds kinda gay "💕😏🍑
*Welcome to Georgia"* is
their new advert to attract
tourists, and lots of folks
do enjoy it, there! ✌️😜*🔫
timreno72 but alas... there is too much litter here still ☹️
timreno72 Saying someone is “Texas” in Europe means they’re crazy or badass or both. 😂
@@Carma123 well we do kinda roll that way sometimes. LOL
Yeah, when I got to the South I was shocked at the flagrant and messy and contemputous littering. There's a big anti-environmentalist strain here. The slogan a few years ago was, 'Seriously, y'all still litter?'
I think the best description ever of American culture is that we are basically the golden retrievers of the world. We are friendly, welcoming, occasionally loud, and not always super bright but we make up for it in cuteness.
That sounds exactly like my golden retriever
When my oldest was a teenager, he threw something out the window. I stopped the car right there and made him get out and pick it up. Then he did it again. So I did it again. Don't mess with mom! I loved Woodsy Owl. Give a hoot, don't pollute.
9cats7 I made mine pick up an additional 10 pieces of trash. Leave “it” better than you find it. ❤️
Damn right!
Haa haa I love that! Give a hoot, don't pollute! It's true I personally think people that litter don't love themselves enough to keep their enviroment clean.
---Thats funny, as a kid I was truly frightened by Smokey telling me ‘That only YOU can prevent forest fires!’ My family cooked out at the Florida beaches and I was the appointed fire fighter, chastising everyone around us too!! I was a ‘Karen’ as a kid!
I also remember the ads with the Native American man with tear down his cheek looking at trash. I think they need to do the antitrust ads again, many young kids aren't aware.
Driving across country a few years ago, I stopped at a motel for the night. The next morning in the motel parking lot I raised the car hood to check the fluids etc. since it's an older car. A few people seemed worried and asked if I needed help with the car. That was so kind of them.
Americans seem nice people from what I’ve seen. In England most people wouldn’t stop and help and would walk saying unlucky mate being sarcastic
Window screens! We went to Normandy last year, stayed in a great apartment, beautiful weather but every time we opened the window flies would come in because there weren’t any screens. The things you take for granted ... 🙂
I never realized screens weren't a thing until I saw new immigrants OPENING the screens. They really didn't know what they were for. My mom explained it them - and then had to explain about the storm windows. Who knew our windows were so complicated?
No window screens just seems completely substandard to me. With Europe getting hotter summers I bet that's going to be changing soon.
Jeandiata Smith I’m cracking up 😂
inkydoug or getting ac
If flies were getting in that's enough reason to get screens. Nasty disease spreading critters.
Bought some window screens for our patio doors last year here in the UK, what a godsend! Open the back doors and air can come in and NO bugs.
I think alot of the credit for things being so clean and litter-free must go to the First Lady, Ladybird Johnson. She initiated a beautification program in 1965 which was very effective, and caught on everywhere. Littering became socially unacceptable. Then the 1970s environmental movement solidified the trend.
I grew up with The Crying Indian PSAs and am disgusted by anyone who litters.
@@hippychikforever Yes, I remember that PSA! It was a very successful campaign.
It became really successful when states started issuing fines for littering.
The Texas Department of Transportation (TXDOT) did a survey in the 70’s to determine who the litterbugs were and found it was mostly young men. Hence the “Don’t mess with Texas “ campaign. Still works today.
Lady Bird Johnson was also responsible for the beautiful wild flowers we have along our highways, back when her husband was Governor here in Texas, she enacted the spreading of the seeds, esp our world famous bluebonnets. Still illegal to pick them.
As an American, currently living in America, I"m not sure I recognize many things that are comparatively nice until I go overseas. Here are a few that I've noticed: Free and clean ice in drinks at restaurants and generally being able to trust the tap water at home.
clean tap water isn’t everywhere. In my city we get water from a river but turns out a factory up river has been dumping chemicals in it for years and now the water causes cancers
@@PurpleHermitcrab Hence the word "generally."
Two things:
1. If you lived in San Francisco and didn't explore the western parks, that's the most beautiful part of the country. Come back and see it.
2. Oddly, when I was in Italy (mostly Tuscany, but also Rome) for a month, EVERYONE who had been to the US said they flew to LA and drove to the Grand Canyon.
Cities can be copied, you can't copy Yosemite or the Grand Canyon.
Great other parks as well. Bryce Canyon, Zion Canyon, Kings Canyon, Mesa Verde NP, Giant Sequoia NP, Death Valley NP. I have been to all of them plus Grand Canyon NP North and South Rim, and Yosemite. All in 10 days road trip. I still need to visit Yellowstone NP and Teton NP as well as Glacier NP.
Funny, I grew up in NYC in the 80’s studied Abroad in the late 90’s and told everyone who would listen about how clean Europe was! I was astonished at how the trains in both London and Paris were so clean (in comparison to NYC at that time) I said to a friend “ Paris has mummies ( below the louvre) in their train station and no one steals them” lol I was 19 years old then 🤪
it was cleaner in Germany until govenment financial woes...never been the same since
Times have changed! Even New York is pretty clean.
Americans are friendly people. A pastor from my youth, when wecoming visitors to church on Sunday mornings, used to say: "You are not strangers, just friends we haven't met yet."
but stranger danger is a thing, pedos fucking terrify me as an adult. Like Thank god I am A- a boy, B - an indoor boy, and C- not dumb because HOLY SHIT is there a good reason to teach children how to concealed carry firearms. Like damn.
@@DSiren it’s definitely not a good idea to actually give kids concealed carry firearms
@@theraccoonasaur3282 You sure about that? We let kids do all sorts of crazy dangerous shit. If we aren't raising our kids to be responsible enough to carry a firearm, that needs to change. I don't mean issue them to the entire class, but parents should absolutely be allowed to entrust a firearm to their children to carry with them.
We’re either nice or having a bad trip on crack. No In-between.
@@DSiren Training, training, training.
I would also recommend driving from LA to Seattle along the coast using HWY 1 - freaking unbelievably beautiful!!!!
OMG I drive PCH in October. Beautiful
Hwy 1 becomes the 101 around Manzanita I think
As a Canadian from Vancouver, I've driven the coastal route several times to LA and back again. I would recommend doing it in the spring or early summer....the highway in northern Oregon and Washington State is less wet and closed due to mudslides. Beautiful trip.
@@l.m.2404 That's a good point. Everyone told me that I was lucky to have done the journey in April. They said any other season the scenery would have been dead-er than dead. lol
Highway1 and Big Sur are amazing💖💖💖
At an elevation of 10,152 feet (3,094 m), Leadville, Colorado has the highest elevation of any city in the United States. It only has around 2,700 permanent residents and one soccer field.
I've been there once it was a nice little town
I bet it's also high for another reason
Sounds like a perfect place to spend July and August instead of the hellishly hot South.
@Rowan Melton you must not be from England. "Soccer" was coined by the English, not by Americans. Americans took the word from England.
@Rowan Melton Figured you would say that. Brits love to put down non-Brits for speaking English differently. Read the smithsonianmag article written by a Canadian soccer fan. He explains that the English started calling the sport "soccer" late in the 1800s and that the use of the term soccer became even MORE popular in England after World War II. He said that when professional soccer became popular in America in the 1980s, the English began saying "football" more to separate themselves from Americans. I guess we Canadians and Americans just speak 1960s English when it comes to soccer.
Aren't this country and it's people wonderful?! I feel so blessed to live here! Welcome, Laurence! Enjoy!
My pup and I got stuck in a further away neighborhood from where we liv yesterday (Chicago). My phone died trying to call a Lyft... a security guard in his car took an hour out of his day to help us through what ended up being two failures and one success getting back home. He was so nice and I was so grateful; we were at the emergency vet so things had already been fairly stressful. Having not seen the general public in a year (lol) it was nice to be reminded how kind people can be.
Hope your critter is okay.
Ditto to 'Add E' ... hope everything is back to 'fine' with your puppy!
Omg! I live in PA and had to drive 30 miles to get my second Covid shot. My car broke down, and found a repair shop. My problem was getting back home as the drive was almost an hour. I called Lyft and was basically kicked out of 3 cars since they refused to drive that far. I was in a strange city and was scared. I finally got a driver to take me, I cried. I was so grateful I tipped him $50.
He did the right thing. That is how it should be.
@@alice_rabbit8345 Just as a thought if that ever happened again, you could probably pick a populated area half-way between and do two trips if someone refuses to take you that far.
Part of that friendliness and hospitality goes back to the frontier days when the country was on the move and people were mostly helpful to each other because was the way everyone survived. It became part of the culture.
As an American who moved to the U.K., I can attest to the litter thing. When I got here I was quite taken aback by how much litter could be found everywhere. I live in a nice neighbourhood and I still find the odd Lucozade bottle or Dariy Milk wrapper in my garden. It’s become part of the scenery, but it definitely made me question what was up.
David Sedaris spends his free time in Britain picking up litter on the roads around his house. The bonus is that he gets his steps in for his fitness tracker. :-)
That’s so sad
Quarantine has caused a lot of litter on the sides of roads. It's driving me crazy. We have adopt a highway, but I'm pretty sure we also get prison patrol and I cannot imagine living in a place where litter is the norm.
As an American, I don't really think about our hospitality. I've certainly heard of "southern hospitality", but seeing as I don't live in the south, I haven't really experienced it. We grow up with the idea of "treat others how you want to be treated" being drilled into us and also just common manners like saying please/thank you/excuse me and opening doors for others. The few times someone hasn't opened the door for me, I was absolutely shocked. I can't imagine living somewhere where that isn't the norm.
There are tons of soccer fields all over the South. We have plenty of flat open land to put them, and we do. I never see adults on them, however.
I prefer state parks versus national parks because they are still beautiful and mostly tourist-free.
One thing that shocked a friend of mine from the UK when she went grocery shopping with me, is how I ended up in conversations with no less than 5 separate strangers during the course of the visit, and I knew the bag boy's entire life history by the time the trip was over. This is just a very common thing in smaller towns, especially here in the South.
Also, my local bag boy is looking to buy a used Jeep, if anyone has one. He's getting married to a local school teacher soon. :D
My part of the South is anything but flat, open land. North Georgia is very mountainous.
I remember in Japan and us Brits offered the yanks to a game of soccer, as they call it. I myself have always been rubbish at the game but said those yanks don't have a clue about football. (The real one) well, they ran rings around us and completely whooped us. We were all a bit embarrassed.
@@simonpowell2559 It's the most popular kids game in the country. You'd be hard pressed to find someone under the age of 40 who didn't play on a youth team. Adults just like watching other adults play one of the 4 other pro sports that are popular here.
I'm from the South as well, so I can relate to this comment.
In the north too. I live in Scranton, which I suppose is technically a city, and people here act in the same way.
1:49 Quick note about US usage: you tell people to “get off” your lawn, but to “get out of” your yard. (The lawn is the actual grassy surface, while the yard is the physical space that it grows in.)
Whatever.
Excellent point!
You also drive on the Parkway and park on the driveway, english is weird.
@@MichaelSHartman It's an important distinction because, speaking as a suburbs kid, it was commonly drilled into us from a young age that walking on another's lawn without permission is rude. And yard entrance permission vs. lawn permission are two different things. You can be allowed into the yard but not onto the lawn, especially if the property owner is emotionally or financially invested in the health and appearance of the grass.
The state parks in the midwest are quite lovely even though they're overlooked.
Yes, I haven't been to very many yet ( though I grew up here in western WI, we were very busy with our fairy farm as I got older ) but I HIGHLY recommend the trail through " Panfrey's glen" , part of the Devil's lake state park near Barraboo, WI . 1st half is super boring, 2nd half AMAZING. Then, all the waterfalls, mainly in far northern WI but there's others. I've been to a few, Morgan Falls is the best for hight plus able to see basically the whole thing and from one vantage point ( the bottom ) - can wade right into the stream at the base of it, too. Be careful, the tannins in the water took the finish off a piece of jewelry my S.I.L. was wearing ( she didn't mind, she loved it there ). One surprisingly " worth it " spot was a scenic overlook ( barely a spot to pull over on the side of the highway, better view there than on the rest stop at top of knoll between the highways nearby ) near Elizabeth, IL ( about 1/2 hour S/SE of Galena, IL ) . With a storm moving in, the light was amazing with the view across farmland for miles. Much more impressive than I was expecting ( I grew up with some great views on our ridge-top farm, am spoiled ), hadn't planned to stop there but was passing by.
As a Minnesotan I can't speak of the boundary waters highly enough.
There's not much if you're looking for grand mountains or waterfalls, but canoeing in with friends for a week in untouched lakes, streams, and forests is something that I don't think I'll ever feel is a waste of time. It's absolutely gorgeous up there.
Indiana has covered bridge festivals and Turkey Run park. Amazing area for hiking and canoeing.
Isle Royal National Park. Isolated, rugged, and incredibly gorgeous. But bring mosquito/black fly repellant.
Shawnee National Forest in Southern Illinois is massive! Garden of the Gods is a beautiful place to visit.
I do love your content. As a fellow "lived between two different countries" person, I love seeing other perspectives from people who similarly have a lot of experience in one place going to spend a substantial amount of time in another. Every place has it's patches of bad but also its patches of good, and I think these broader perspectives are fantastic to share!
If I may. We as Americans are a welcoming bunch. That being said, we care about each other, yeah we may fight amongst ourselves but thats how we as a nation have grown. We will accept anyone , depending on how you treat us. We are vocal in our beliefs, we'll stand by them and protect them to the end. Perhaps a trip to Arizona to see the painted desert. Its something to see as the sun goes down and the true colors of the natural beauty come alive.
Im in northern qz so gorgeous hete so friendly
It's easy to imagine Sam Elliott reading your post aloud. Plus it kind of sounds like a beer commercial. No disrespect intended. Cheers! 🍺
Or go to the Petrified Forest, also in Arizona, beautiful.
Come see Alaska too- we live in the most beautiful place in the world.
I could not figure out why people would like to live in a more deserty state like Arizona or New Mexico until I went to Arizona and it took a wile to figure out and its the stark beauty of the red earth with the accents of the hardy plants and the wide open spaces with easy to drive roads the 110+ Temps don't feel as bad.
The Midwest has a reputation of having some of the friendliest people in the country. Most of them also don’t use Twitter.
In general, most people in any country are just good people who want to be free to make their own choices.
As a midwesterner, it can almost be a curse. Earlier today me and some guy at walmart started talking about some random thing in line. It took nearly 20 minutes AFTER checking out to successfully extricate ourselves from that conversation since neither of us wanted to be the "bad-guy" that ended it first.
I live in the South now after growing up in the Midwest, and Midwesterners ARE friendlier. The food's better in the Midwest, too. :D
Except don’t ask for the freedom of having an abortion.
There's probably a connection there lol
I've lived in a few places around the country. About the only place I lived where people aren't friendly was New Jersey. Right now, I live in what I consider the friendliest area I've lived in. It's also the most diverse area I've lived in. It's about split evenly with black, white and hispanic followed by a fairly good sized Vietnamese population.
Business opportunity in Britain "WIndow screens"
they sell about as well as Bidets here in the US... *Glances at the toilet paper shortage* well, as well as they usually sell in the US.
And Garbage disposals in really most of Europe especially Germany and further east. In high school one of my good friends was a German exchange student who took a year to study in my hometown while his family was deciding if they would move over here for good. I speak German so I ended up helping him around where he didn't know the words for things or what to do (mind you he spoke fine English just with the typically limited vocabulary of someone who only learned a language through school). well one day he came over to my house and accidentally turned on the garbage disposal and suffice to say was very concerned about the noise the sink suddenly made. after explaining it and giving a demo he was genuinely angry at how he had never heard of them before as apparently they were (not sure about now) exceedingly rare to absent in Germany.
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It's strange, I could understand the older buildings probably don't have standard size windows that you could just replace the frames to easily adapt for screens, but there are surely a lot of newer, post WWII buildings in Europe. Why didn't they just design those with window screens?
@@LordOceanus "suffice to say was very concerned about the noise the sink suddenly made"
For whatever reason, I absolutely love these stories. I've never used a garbage disposal either (why would garbage go down the sink, that's what the trap/plug is for, to catch food scraps and whatnot) but I have turned them on and off so I know the noise they make.
Laurence picked the right area of the country to live in and experience nice people. "Midwest nice" is legendary. He might not have formed the same opinion had he settled in New York City or San Francisco.
...to the contrary, as a NYer, you are just as likely to be treated well by strangers on any NYC street as in any midwest city...
Thank Woodsy Owl for the lack of litter - Give a hoot, don’t pollute! Never be d dirty bird.
Hey, he taught me not to litter, too! 😉
Why is that ingrained in my head?! Also living near a landfill growing up it is better to just compost paper only products. A newspaper in a landfill can be dug up a decade later and still be readable.
The ads in the 70's were really effective. The crying Native American got me, too. I didn't want to make him cry!!
The only owl I listened to said it only took three licks to get to the center of a Tootsie Pop.
@@lemonadecupcakes Yes, those "Keep America Beautiful" post marks on letters were a good reminder!
There was a huge anti-littering and "ecology movement" in the US in the early to mid-1970's. The formation of the EPA, lot's of PSA's (the old Indian, Smokey Bear, the "give a hoot' owl), schools had "ecology clubs," and a lot of State laws were enacted. Michigan enacted the bottle and can $0.10 deposit law in the early 70's and our state really cleaned up quickly of that litter.
Was at a bar in the UP asked for a bottle of beer and the girl apologised and said only cans. NO big then come to find out my first was 65 cents and every one after was only 55 cents because of the deposit. With 5 guys in their early 20's drink for less than 20 bucks when use to Chicago prices we were amazed and happy.
The $0.10 deposit is amazing in my opinion. It encourages me to keep my cans and return them. Vs my parents who live in FL but grew up in MI don't recycle their cans anymore because they don't get the deposit. I would still recycle them if I moved but there is a large population that only recycles so that they can get their money back.
Now we need to do it again for our public lands
#puremichigan 💚
@@chriscahill1005 If you don't mind me asking, where in the UP?
As kids we had a few cartoons like the owl that said “give a hoot don’t pollute”. There was American Indian that would cry on the commercial about littering. Good Grief that one had to have been back in the 1970s.
I remember those! And don't forget Smokey The Bear, telling us "not to set forest fires" and the American Lung Association ads..."it's a matter of life and breath".
That American Indian was Iron Eyes Cody. He was an actor and was in a lot of westerns.But he wasn't an American Indian, he was Italian American. But everyone thought he was Native American because of his looks and name.
1971 - first played on Earth Day. Very popular commercial for taking care of our planet.
Beverly Lech Oh yeah smoky bear too. My husband remembered that owls name, it was woodsy owl . I can’t remember things as well as him anymore.
Remember the one with the crying Native American?
I have been watching your videos for a while now & I have to say, as an American man myself, it makes me smile to see you, a foreign man who moved here & is able to enjoy his “new life” here. Way to go!
Regarding the strangers who invited you to their ranch: It’s probably not as weird/creepy as you might think. I live in a rural area of Pennsylvania and this is how I grew up. (Someone mentioned the hospitality in Germany so maybe that is part of our culture as a lot of us are Pennsylvania Dutch?) We would invite people who stopped by inside and always, always ask if they wanted a cup of coffee which was usually accepted and appreciated. Visits could last 15 minutes or 3 hours.
Mmm, everyone I knew also had an accessible shotgun somewhere in their home as well. And, no, kids weren’t shooting each other, etc. Don’t be afraid.
There is a saying: “I’ve never met a stranger.”
an armed society is a polite society my friend regularly picks up hitchhikers because hes comfortable that if one were to try something he can handle himself...
NEPA here.. I love Honesdale..
Hello fellow Pennsylvanian..I was brought up the same way, we often had strangers eating dinner with us, or picked up hitchhikers, or lent a hand to someone needing help on the side of the road. When you live in a rural area you know you have to depend on your neighbors so most mend a hand when needed.
It's very similar here in the Ozarks.
Along with public trash cans, anti-litter laws and a general interest in keeping things clean, one of the main reasons the US tends to be clean and litter free are the active efforts to clean up litter. Businesses will pay staff or non-profits to clean sidewalks and the sides of roads near them. Nonprofits and other groups will also do this. As I boys out I remember doing this. This is what those adopt a highway signs you see refer to.
I spent 2 summers in high school on a park cleaning crew. We worked from 7 - 11 am, so by the time people really started coming out for the day, the parks were all clean and empty of trash. I can't remember any of us ever actually filling our garbage bag and needing a 2nd one. 15 of us covered about 10 city parks each day.
Re: prisoners picking up trash - I worked for a multiline insurance company and our location insured the city law enforcement agency. I was posting claims for prisoners who were on trash pickup detail. One claim was a male who contracted poison ivy on his private parts. About four claims later a female prisoner on the same detail had also contracted poison ivy on her nether regions. Speculation was rife.
Kris Martikris hilarious hmmm
@@krismartikris4834 UA-cam needs an "lol" button 🤣
We have adopt a highway systems up here. Different groups or people adopt a mile stretch of road and keep it clean year round. Every May everyone in your area does a big clean up on the same day and follows it with a bbq for the folks in your specific area.
I remember in the 70s littering was a problem. Then the Native American tv commercial would come on and he had tears in his eyes. That always got to me and I would find myself picking up litter.
I remember that...If someone would litter, as a young teenager I would pick it up and say "don't make the Indian cry."
Iron Eyes Cody actually wasn't an American indian, though he played them in numerous westerns. His real name was Espera Oscar de Corti, and he was Italian. He got the name "Iron Eyes Cody" when he played a character by that name in the Bob Hope comedy, Paleface.
I spent a few weeks in the UK in my youth and found the people to be, on the whole, very friendly and welcoming. They were very interested in seeing how much alcohol I was able to consume. This was a lot of fun as, being of Irish descent, I represented my country most admirably.
Talking to random people in stores is hit or miss. In the deep south, it is common to just hang out at a gas station talking to people. But in parts of the northeast, trying to talk to someone in line at the store will have them thinking you are an ax murderer.
I'm from the Philly. It really depends on how you start the conversation. If what your saying is somehow relevant, it goes over fine. You have to answer the question, "Why are you talking to me?" before someone thinks to ask. The most important thing is to not be in the way while you talk, we are always in a hurry.
People in the northeast are just rude no matter what you say to them, and if you don't say anything they take the liberty to stare until you literally ask them if they want to fight. Nothing else will make them stop staring at you.
Growing up in the south, I met multiple people from the northeast be freaked out by the friendliness and ask me if you “have to be nice here” because “everyone has guns”
We definitely have our fair share of litter in America depending on where you go.
Pickelkilla-agreed. NC used to be nicknamed the clean roads state. Not now. Litter all over the side of the road. It's really sad.
Yea New York City is comparable to the UK with litter. Midwest US is pretty litter free though.
@@Tommy2shoe811 we have our fair share of litter in Texas, try as we might to turn it around.
Los Angeles is basically a giant dump, it's filled with trash.
Mainly the big cities. My state of Texas has a huge anti-littering campaign "Don't mess with Texas". And it works. Also our Interstates are well maintained and beautiful. Driving them in the Spring is a delight because we encourage wildflowers, especially our state flower, the Bluebonnet.
I've had the weirdest looks saying hello to strangers in the UK. We say hello to anyone. We're just naturally friendly. Someone once said, "Strangers are just friends I haven't met yet."
Come to Australia we say hello to everyone. I once said g'day to a lamppost, granted I was on my phone ... but still.
I like the saying :)
Try it in Sweden. You don't have to worry about any weird looks because they'll just straight up fucking ignore you.
But if you have to ask someone a question or you need help, assistance, they'll help you. You just have to have a REASON for talking to people there. I don't want to make it sound like they're horrible, they're just different.
While there are occasional exceptions (mainly in seedier areas of large cities), the lack of litter was one of the nicest surprises when I moved to the States.
Well, you’re nice. That makes it very easy for most Americans to be nice or even nicer. At least that’s my perspective. (A Wisconsinite)
L A people from Wisconsin are some of the kindest humans on the planet. I grew up and still live 5 miles from the border in Illinois and we have always preferred doing our business in Wisconsin. Also helps that’s where most our family is from.
Yes, be nice set the tone, if the other person is a jerk that’s on them.
Yes! As a Wisconsinite I concur-I’ve lived in other states and although nice just not as nice as we are here!
The northeast coast is the most unliked section of the country imo
Foreigners call us 'chatty' - - we call it friendly (or nosy, depending)
I am in htis country for 26 yrs, and what amazes me is the opportunity to grow in every single way!💖💖💖💖💖
Yes! Land of the Free!! 🇺🇲
We're glad you're here❤😊
@Guss Ruffee If you're rich.
The entire Civil Rights movement that shook up the US in the '60s and '70s was about one thing: equal opportunity.
@@ChrisPage68 If you are not rich you can become rich. It happens very often. I was born to a schizophrenic mother and alcoholic father. For a few years my most prized possession was a plastic drinking glass with my initial painted on the bottom with fingernail polish. When I got into the world I found all the opportunity I needed, particularly education courtesy of a public library within a few miles walk. There I learned enough electronics to get my first job as an electronics tech. 48 years later I retired with a pension, living in a nice house, with wonderful children and grandchildren.
Opportunity means "make it happen."
I have been to the USA twice New York and Las Vegas. I thought i would be put off because of the gun laws etc, but i saw none of that and the American people are so friendly and welcoming. the only time that happens with brits is when you meet them abroad. i look forward to the time i can go again as i have so many places i want to go and see. America is a wonderful and beautiful country and vast in comparison to the UK