Lady whose husband sllept with her younger sister did the unthinkable as we try to settle them.

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  • @MarciaMerritt-rl1lu
    @MarciaMerritt-rl1lu 6 місяців тому +41

    Younger sister please 🙏 don’t leave your kids alone with your older sister. She want your children. Watch your step please 🙏. Trust no shadow after dark

  • @BeatoMagnus-nh2uj
    @BeatoMagnus-nh2uj 6 місяців тому +36

    The kid sister has more wisdom than her elder sister.

    • @balqisajagun8197
      @balqisajagun8197 6 місяців тому +3

      True talk and more mature

    • @christieobi2974
      @christieobi2974 6 місяців тому +2

      Very well!

    • @IDONGOLILY
      @IDONGOLILY 6 місяців тому +2

      True she got more wisdom than her elder sister, elder sister is filled with bitterness and evil. Im thinking elder sister has removed her womb or damage it that's why she has refuses ivf.

    • @BeatoMagnus-nh2uj
      @BeatoMagnus-nh2uj 6 місяців тому +1

      @@IDONGOLILY yeah,I think she remove her womb, that is why she is not accepting IVF technology for having a baby

  • @ninajones281
    @ninajones281 6 місяців тому +45

    Senior sister and her husband; have a plan, to runaway with the twins, this settlement is risky LAFWELL

  • @esthersalau5478
    @esthersalau5478 6 місяців тому +7

    Wow! I love this Mummy Twins. She knows her right. She is wiser nd bold. I love you my darling...

  • @merlsmall5747
    @merlsmall5747 6 місяців тому +79

    Don't trust that senior sister she is up to something because she's desperate..

  • @mercyumennachi8663
    @mercyumennachi8663 6 місяців тому +51

    Lafwell,
    You need stop telling the junior sister to apologize. The senior sister is very wicked and arrogant.

  • @rosemichealamenmaygodforgi8126
    @rosemichealamenmaygodforgi8126 6 місяців тому +54

    You're feeding her. That's why you ask her to sleep with your husband, that's wickedness on you.

    • @imem.7502
      @imem.7502 6 місяців тому

      Absolutely 💯

  • @beefuakeekyir8631
    @beefuakeekyir8631 6 місяців тому +28

    Lafwell, be careful with this woman. You will be blamed if anything happens to these children.

    • @christieobi2974
      @christieobi2974 6 місяців тому +1

      Lafwell please, leave this part. I dont trust this senior sister. She is evil. She wants to do something else...

  • @angeladiele5806
    @angeladiele5806 6 місяців тому +63

    This senior sister is very troublesome. Make peace with your sister, make peace with your husband so both of you can be visiting the kids. She has serious trust issues.

  • @paulettegolding1679
    @paulettegolding1679 6 місяців тому +9

    Her husband called her baren and she didnt say anything, yet she keeps repeating that her sister call her barren. Why cant she be angry with her husband too!

  • @BeatoMagnus-nh2uj
    @BeatoMagnus-nh2uj 6 місяців тому +59

    Lafwell don't allow this woman to go to her kid sister for any reason please.

  • @osarobohappinesstv3714
    @osarobohappinesstv3714 6 місяців тому +86

    This senior sister again please leave your younger sister alone. You don't have a good mind with your younger sister why, you are fighting for a man who doesn't love you anymore hmmm

    • @eliveberi6556
      @eliveberi6556 6 місяців тому +6

      My dear I don't trust this sister of yours pls run with ur children ohooooo I don talk my own lafwell take this girl far for the safety of the children pls 😔 watching from Cameroon

    • @RoselineIse-my2fe
      @RoselineIse-my2fe 6 місяців тому +5

      There's no both them, the eldest sister, don't have good mind junior sister runoooo with your children don't trust your sister

    • @dynenelo9861
      @dynenelo9861 6 місяців тому +4

      This woman is a trouble maker, you don't want IVF why? Is there anything you are hiding from your husband?.

    • @akindelegloria1820
      @akindelegloria1820 6 місяців тому +2

      Lafwell, please, kindly take that lady and the twins from that man and his wife, the senior sister is very wicked., please, help this younger sister and the kids because the sister is planning evil. I am begging you. Don't allow her go there, she will harm her sister and the kids.

    • @lekodavis1175
      @lekodavis1175 6 місяців тому +1

      Wow what a comment worst from a fellow woman wow shocking

  • @phinaonuorah1753
    @phinaonuorah1753 6 місяців тому +11

    Don't force this girl to apologize. Her elder sister has intimidated her enough please let her be.

  • @francaobinga3972
    @francaobinga3972 6 місяців тому +32

    What is rough with this woman so if your husband is not at home that means your husband is with your sister evil woman you push your sister into this

  • @ikegbunamprisca-dw2ec
    @ikegbunamprisca-dw2ec 6 місяців тому +11

    Your younger sister will carry her babies and give you just like that, you are a dreamer

  • @velmablake3949
    @velmablake3949 6 місяців тому +42

    She don't want to make the effort to carry her own children or to bear the pain to born, of her own. She is just a trouble maker.

    • @imem.7502
      @imem.7502 6 місяців тому

      Correct, but I think it's lack of understanding. She will come around

    • @mollysito534
      @mollysito534 6 місяців тому

      True

  • @flouandersnosredna1725
    @flouandersnosredna1725 6 місяців тому +15

    You locked one of those children in an uncompleted building all alone...you can't be TRUSTED

  • @promisesmoothes3370
    @promisesmoothes3370 6 місяців тому +37

    I THINK THE YOUNGER SISTER CHANGED HER MIND AFTER, THE OLDER SISTERS TREATMENT TOWARDS HER DURING PREGNANCY.SHES AFRAID THE OLDER SISTER WILL BE WICKED TOWARDS HER TWIN BABY BOYS.

    • @SadeOmozuwa
      @SadeOmozuwa 6 місяців тому +1

      And yes she will treat them bad after all these issues on ground sh e will surly treat them bad

  • @Zzzyyybbbbds
    @Zzzyyybbbbds 6 місяців тому +9

    Lafwell this woman is not ready to forgive. Lafwell don't put this girl and her children's life at risk because this woman is very wicked.

  • @icemasomers4981
    @icemasomers4981 6 місяців тому +48

    This woman is not going to stop disturbing this girl
    Lafwell leave this mad woman

    • @balqisajagun8197
      @balqisajagun8197 6 місяців тому

      Senior sister is so senseless, can you imagine all the things she said, her husband stopped sending money to her junior sister and she said it’s because her junior sister said she don’t want to marry him and senior still coming to ask her junior sister to leave her husband alone. So senseless senior sister.

    • @zionvictory-ye5ti
      @zionvictory-ye5ti 6 місяців тому

      Mumu senior sister

  • @esthersalau5478
    @esthersalau5478 6 місяців тому +10

    Pls stop telling this lady to apologize to this wicked woman.

  • @badanile1781
    @badanile1781 6 місяців тому +44

    Madame you forced her..threaten to throw her out .That was force.

    • @especialTVrolls
      @especialTVrolls 6 місяців тому +4

      He has the right to be physically available for the twins... he's a nursing father. Stop this jealousy and immature attitude. ARE YOU NOT THE SAME WIFE WHO COERSED YOUR SISTER AND PERSUADED YOUR HUSBAND TO HAVE SEX AND BRING CHILDREN? BE CALM AND FACE IT WITH SENIORITY SENSE... ALLOW YOUR SISTER TO HAVE PEACE. YOU SWORE TO KPAI THE TWINS OR YOUR SISTER, REMEMBER? YOU WERE NOT READY FOR WHAT YOU WANTED.

  • @daughterofzionhebrewisrael3189
    @daughterofzionhebrewisrael3189 6 місяців тому +16

    This woman, I don’t think she’s normal. There’s some wrong somewhere. She understands absolutely nothing!!

  • @JalangosonMorishon
    @JalangosonMorishon 6 місяців тому +56

    The elder sister is wicked

  • @GeorgieGoodGirl
    @GeorgieGoodGirl 6 місяців тому +6

    Stop trying to make the younger sister apologize to her senior sister especially after her senior sister threatened to delete her beautiful twin children.
    I would never , because her senior sister is pure evil and full of crap.
    All her sister want is her babies and then push her out without her babies.

  • @HenrienttaAgbons-ij3oi
    @HenrienttaAgbons-ij3oi 6 місяців тому +1

    I hope the peace lasts forever and they sincerely forgave each other! Lafwell thank you, may God continue to strengthen you.

  • @kikelomolafiaji1913
    @kikelomolafiaji1913 6 місяців тому +12

    The senior sister is a trouble maker, mr man stop bringing this senior sister to her junior sister house again. Let the women and her children rest and have peace of mind.

  • @faithydarlingtv
    @faithydarlingtv 6 місяців тому +1

    What I have seen here is confusion. The host told her to let them help her with IVF to prevent her husband from going out there, and immediately, she said her husband would never do that. Smh, she needs to find peace within.

  • @ChristianaDakup
    @ChristianaDakup 6 місяців тому +45

    This senior sister is always brewing trouble. She talks carelessly.

    • @sophietanyi7643
      @sophietanyi7643 6 місяців тому

      Am seeing as if she's not mentally stable

    • @GloriaUlom-h2e
      @GloriaUlom-h2e 6 місяців тому +4

      You made her to call him dog by not allowing her to rest and her proverb is correct, apologize what, she put her in early marriage unprepared and scatter her future plans, I pity the little sister.

  • @Yehwahdehdu
    @Yehwahdehdu 6 місяців тому +6

    This elder sister is very wicked and full of hatred. You need to take this case to court so that this younger sister and the babies can have rest of mind.

  • @dorothyrobinson4674
    @dorothyrobinson4674 6 місяців тому +16

    If that woman don't stop her nonsense, that husband is going to leave her for some other woman, which won't be her kid sister.

  • @wilmamurphy8557
    @wilmamurphy8557 6 місяців тому +14

    The senior sister does not want peace.. So tried of this Mess!!!!!

  • @Busisiwehadebe-k2p
    @Busisiwehadebe-k2p 6 місяців тому +14

    Lady your husband has another woman outside he doesn't love you any more watching from South Africa

  • @MorEnoch-t7w
    @MorEnoch-t7w 6 місяців тому +7

    This elder sister should calm down now. I'm always supporting you, BCOS you have a kind of bitterness not as a result of bad character. Take it easy. Don't get too frustrated. Sarah in the Bible had a child at older age.

  • @maureenndanji3265
    @maureenndanji3265 6 місяців тому +12

    This woman has a problem. Why does she think that each time her husband is not at home she must be with her husband. You are being too lenient with this woman. Let her go and face her husband . Her kid sister needs her peace.

    • @debbiebrown71
      @debbiebrown71 6 місяців тому

      Bomb elder sister is a joke, a mumu, that man of other women

  • @vebongw
    @vebongw 6 місяців тому +14

    This senior sister needs mental health evaluation

  • @velmablake3949
    @velmablake3949 6 місяців тому +24

    Lafwell let that woman go home to her husband she is having trust issues, get her, she needs a mental health check.

  • @pascalineuchenye2199
    @pascalineuchenye2199 6 місяців тому +7

    Laffwell it is so sad that you have made this innocent gal whose future she has damaged, to apologise for what ?

    • @ameldajoyce
      @ameldajoyce 6 місяців тому

      And when it comes her time she did not apologize for what she did and say, she only say she forgive her.

  • @namugerwajoeria3624
    @namugerwajoeria3624 6 місяців тому +29

    I don't know what this lady wants really

    • @yemisioladapo2011
      @yemisioladapo2011 6 місяців тому

      She's just want to collect the children easily, for her to do prerogative 😂😂 she refused, do pvc 😂😂😂😂 she refused all she's after is to collect her kid sister free of charge.

  • @jahbelnatty5083
    @jahbelnatty5083 6 місяців тому +10

    MR LAFWELL, CAN YOU PLEASE TELL THE SENIOR SISTER TO LET THE POOR WOMAN AND HER CHILDREN TO HAVE REST FOR ONCE.

  • @adamaturay6272
    @adamaturay6272 6 місяців тому +20

    This case is becoming boring now because of the senior sister’s drama and oppressing her younger sister. It’s too much, Lafwell please dismiss the senior sister if you want to continue with this case.

  • @nnekachukwu3835
    @nnekachukwu3835 6 місяців тому +9

    Senior sister needs mental health assessment and therapy.

  • @OnyeochaBlessing
    @OnyeochaBlessing 6 місяців тому +15

    But this woman and her high chief husband no get work again

  • @chineduchinakwe4739
    @chineduchinakwe4739 6 місяців тому +9

    What's really wrong with this woman? Lafwell, please stop shaming this girl, it's unfair.

  • @valcinahowell6405
    @valcinahowell6405 6 місяців тому +13

    You should know your husband will leave you. That is why you should not put him on to your sister

  • @hannystacey9290
    @hannystacey9290 6 місяців тому +2

    To the elder sister,
    God will Surely open your womb, and as you have said it with faith God will give you your own children in the mighty name of Jesus.🙏

    • @imem.7502
      @imem.7502 6 місяців тому

      Yes but she should accept help with IVF and we will all help her dream to come true

  • @dawnrollins7300
    @dawnrollins7300 6 місяців тому +16

    Lafwell, why are you trying to insult this younger sister?
    Does the older sister want a pound of flesh?
    Why make her apologize several times, over & over & over again?
    It is not her with the issues, but the older sister.
    The older sister should apologize also.
    This is becoming a mini soap opera.
    Nonsense!

  • @hildahammond6810
    @hildahammond6810 6 місяців тому +1

    Never trust the big sister. She's desperately having a wicked plan up her sleeves. Dont entertain her

  • @sisterflora8390
    @sisterflora8390 6 місяців тому +37

    Senior sister, talk to your husband. Lafwell, the problem is the husband leave these 2 women, this high chief stopped supporting the children.

  • @anne7728
    @anne7728 6 місяців тому +3

    Mommy sister, here's your apology..."Sister, I am sorry the day I allowed you to take advantage of my lack, and bribed me into becoming a bearer or your children. I am also sorry for allowing you and your husband to destroy my life, please forgive me. "

  • @elizabetho.6292
    @elizabetho.6292 6 місяців тому +15

    Visits with the children & her sister should be supervised by Lafwell in his house.

  • @coreenhughes2316
    @coreenhughes2316 6 місяців тому +1

    That hug is not genuine. Where is her husband now - he is not home and he is not with the sister

  • @mariaodu773
    @mariaodu773 6 місяців тому +6

    Madam God who knows everything will bless you with your children in Jesus holy name amen

  • @paulajarvis7816
    @paulajarvis7816 6 місяців тому +7

    LAFWELL you need to stop the nonsense with that young lady

  • @eucharianze3061
    @eucharianze3061 6 місяців тому +9

    The senior sister is a drama queen.

  • @gwendolynarhin1473
    @gwendolynarhin1473 6 місяців тому +12

    She should not keep apologizing to that evil woman. She's mad because her trick didn't work. So stop making people apologize when they don't have to…

  • @JcKWAZU
    @JcKWAZU 6 місяців тому +5

    Laffwell, you are a very funny person.
    I do hope that you will know what you're doing in this matter.

  • @gloriamekowulu3286
    @gloriamekowulu3286 6 місяців тому +1

    The senior sister needs to apologise to the little sister . You and your husband deceived that girl and took away her virginity just like that. Senior sister settle with your little sister.

  • @ChristianaHagan-u6w
    @ChristianaHagan-u6w 6 місяців тому +4

    I’m sick and tired of this woman

  • @evelmumps3232
    @evelmumps3232 6 місяців тому +1

    My husband my husband. Are you sure that husband of yours has any feelings for you.

  • @demianaosinowo3018
    @demianaosinowo3018 6 місяців тому +2

    Stopped running after your sister and look out if your husband is having a new girlfriend.

  • @estherdimkpa540
    @estherdimkpa540 6 місяців тому +2

    Lafwell, this senior sister is senseless, wicked and troublesome..
    Please look for way to stop this evil wicked senior sister.
    You can imagine an elder sister that does not want the husband to care for his children.
    Please sound it into this woman head that the younger sister said The man have stopped sending upkeep money for the children because she refused to marry the man.
    This woman should please stop disturbing this young lady and the children.

  • @Blessedchild272
    @Blessedchild272 6 місяців тому +4

    THE YOUNGER SISTER SHOULD NOT TRUST HER ELDER SISTER. BECAUSE SHE SAID THE OTHER DAY THAT SHE WILL HOT 🔥 THE POOR CHILDREN. THE HUSBAND HAS STARTED GOING OUT SOMEWHERE ELSE

    • @franciscaafanu6979
      @franciscaafanu6979 6 місяців тому

      The evil and demonic elder sister did not say HURT but said she will KPAI THE CHILDREN and even KPAI the SISTER.I don't know why laffwell is not seeing the intensity of all these threats this evi woman l had put across but is just taking everything for granted and always making the younger sister to apologise 😊😊 what type of STUPID AND SENSELESS APOLOGY IS IT????
      The elder sister refused to apologise to the younger one as laffwell said but Laffwell just overlooked it, why??? My sister, you just said the Gospel truth Laffwell HEAD UP😊😊

  • @gloriahenry-nt6dr
    @gloriahenry-nt6dr 6 місяців тому +1

    Lafwell,tell her to take the these children very far away from both the elder sister and her husband...This case is complicated..Let her go o far o

  • @treasureokpo6944
    @treasureokpo6944 6 місяців тому +5

    If this lady treats the younger sister well, she will willingly hand over the children to them. As long as the sister doesn't trust her, they won't have the children. This lady doesn't know she's the one that offended the younger sister.

  • @estherdimkpa540
    @estherdimkpa540 6 місяців тому +2

    Lafwell this elder sister called for the meeting to apologize, but now you are making the younger sister to apologize to the senior sister.
    This same senior sister will return tomorrow with another trouble. Mark my words.

  • @missehiggins7093
    @missehiggins7093 6 місяців тому +3

    Little man is soooo handsome, as he woke to these shouting,confused women 😅

  • @colletteada1023
    @colletteada1023 6 місяців тому +1

    Please. her senior sister should apologize to her

  • @emamuzouchristian5304
    @emamuzouchristian5304 6 місяців тому +10

    It's like you don't understand men

  • @chukwuemekeogwugwa8774
    @chukwuemekeogwugwa8774 6 місяців тому +2

    As they have settled let the peace reign forever more in the mighty name of Jesus Christ.

  • @sileussejour5474
    @sileussejour5474 6 місяців тому +10

    Very good mother I like the way you are talking in this video. Let that wicked sister look for her husband some place else she needs to stay away from you and the children. Do not ever trust her with your boys she said she can kill the children do not ever trust her. From USA

  • @victoriaifah2211
    @victoriaifah2211 6 місяців тому +1

    The senior sister suppose to apologize to her , because she done wrong to her sister and she has bad minds towards her

  • @mamywomenor3548
    @mamywomenor3548 6 місяців тому +9

    Senior sister she just a wicked person

  • @olusholakafayatshittu1440
    @olusholakafayatshittu1440 6 місяців тому +1

    Senior sister, you too mean. Your husband is playing both of you he has changed because is very clever he will never tell you his woman. Senior don't fight for your husband fight for your blood sister because of future.

  • @Riz-w8b
    @Riz-w8b 6 місяців тому +3

    🙈🙈just leave your gate open, no need to close it.🤣🤣🤣youve inherited a lot of family members.

  • @isaacdanso5788
    @isaacdanso5788 6 місяців тому +1

    This woman is problematic and she have evil minded to do anything stupid, so please do not accuse this young lady again without any evidence

  • @ChristianaDakup
    @ChristianaDakup 6 місяців тому +22

    I thought you had control on high chief, titled man.

    • @ziggy6806
      @ziggy6806 6 місяців тому +1

      You made me laughed aloud.

    • @hyacinthleon4178
      @hyacinthleon4178 6 місяців тому +1

      😂😂😂

    • @patriciaarharheir9378
      @patriciaarharheir9378 6 місяців тому +1

      I wonder o 😂😂 na only where her kid sister dey she dey get power 🔋

  • @nnedinmachikezie5464
    @nnedinmachikezie5464 6 місяців тому +1

    The man should transfer money into the girls account, if he want to see the children, there should be a central place to see the children

  • @angeladixon25
    @angeladixon25 6 місяців тому +13

    I’m tired of this senior sister go adopt your own child

  • @onyinyechinwazue9955
    @onyinyechinwazue9955 6 місяців тому +2

    This lady is not happy because she doesn't have a kid and her kid sister had a child for husband.

  • @stellachisom4112
    @stellachisom4112 6 місяців тому +10

    This woman is dramatic! Chai confused woman

  • @akindelegloria1820
    @akindelegloria1820 6 місяців тому +1

    Lafwell, please and please, i am begging you, if you want peace, let that trouble maker elder sister be, she is evil, wicked, even someone trusting her useless, foolish high chief lstay with his wife, this children need rest, that lady is going through a lot, taking care of twins, and all trouble, stop telling that girl ti apologize to her sister,

  • @missehiggins7093
    @missehiggins7093 6 місяців тому +6

    The younger said that exactly 💯 before, when going to the house he was there twice and didn't allow them in😮😮😮 is it he has abandoned them both and went to share his" HIGH CHIEFNESS " WITH ANOTHER YOUNG UNEXPECTED GIRL???

    • @eglantinevanterpool5630
      @eglantinevanterpool5630 6 місяців тому

      Guy you are a dam fool. You are looking for content. Her Sister use her, then accused her of other men while pregnant. She treathen to harm those Kids. You like too múch confusion.

    • @lekodavis1175
      @lekodavis1175 6 місяців тому +1

      Exactly and everyone is acting like she is innocent

  • @olajumokeadenowo6773
    @olajumokeadenowo6773 6 місяців тому

    This woman is too serious to have her husband instead of thinking about how she will have her own child. Evil senior sister

  • @Vwata
    @Vwata 6 місяців тому +5

    This woman needs counselling.

  • @benedictokoye7896
    @benedictokoye7896 6 місяців тому +1

    When an enemy suddenly changes for peace be very careful. Lafwel tell the senior sister to leave the junior sister alone.

  • @emekanwosu2987
    @emekanwosu2987 6 місяців тому +6

    This snr. sister is very paranoid. It’s understandable but she is not helping herself. That ivf option many will jump on it and it’s free. Someone she listen to needs to educate her more on this ivf

  • @veronicadouglas1473
    @veronicadouglas1473 6 місяців тому +1

    So is this how this wife program her husband? She follow him everywhere. Laffwell stop acomoany that woman to her sister home, the sister is avoiding her, please do the same

  • @FaithEviemere
    @FaithEviemere 6 місяців тому +6

    God help this family

    • @SundayDahunsi
      @SundayDahunsi 6 місяців тому

      Amen 🙏 oh lord answer this family blessings them🙏

  • @keniaolivier2097
    @keniaolivier2097 6 місяців тому +1

    She wong the little sister because she asked her to sleep with her husband to have kids ,shameless wife.

  • @ijahpreacher
    @ijahpreacher 6 місяців тому +11

    WHERE IS THE HIGH CHIEF? WE MISS HIM

  • @uchennaodimegwu3589
    @uchennaodimegwu3589 6 місяців тому +1

    There can never be peace with this kind of senior sister. I wish there will be help for the younger sister so that she will go far from this so called senior sister and d so called high chief empty brain husband.

  • @zoedonajessys874
    @zoedonajessys874 6 місяців тому +4

    Lafwell! Stop saying that her junior sister's kids belong to her senior sister as it is her junior……….. That's a wrong statement 😡
    This senior sister is the problem……. Lafwell…… stop accommodate this evil senior sister she's not ready

  • @gloriacole831
    @gloriacole831 6 місяців тому +1

    No apology between the Sisters... The big Sister did not have good motive

  • @markokusanya855
    @markokusanya855 6 місяців тому +1

    I commend all your efforts and patients Lastman, sorry I mean Lafwell & team.
    You have done a very good job.
    Now let's put this behind us and move on to next problem that needs solving.

  • @beatricemeghoma840
    @beatricemeghoma840 6 місяців тому +2

    Elder sister needs to sort out her MH. She needs peace of mind. I don't understand why she would not consider IVF. There is something she is not telling us.

  • @udezecomfort
    @udezecomfort 6 місяців тому

    I can see the wisdom in the younger sister, she is trying to give her sister tips to retaining her husband but she is not seeing it. I don't trust that husband of hers

  • @donatejones8702
    @donatejones8702 6 місяців тому +1

    Lafwell that woman that woman don't want peace

  • @stellajones8083
    @stellajones8083 6 місяців тому +1

    Lafwell remember she threatened to Kpai the children. Let’s be guided

  • @IrevahSolomon
    @IrevahSolomon 6 місяців тому +1

    Oga what exactly is she apologizing for, the younger one asked what is she apologizing for, is the elder sister who talked her for sleeping with her husband ought to apologize