Jeannie Reveals Jeezy Doesn’t Have Female Friends That Aren’t Friends with the Both of Them

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  • @mandys1038
    @mandys1038 2 роки тому +644

    This is why I love The Real because you see how much these ladies have grown, they are not afraid to admit that they are not the same person they were in the past. Jeannie has evolved so much realizing that carefree nature she used to have can't work in a marriage. Also kudos to Jeezy for establishing those boundaries and taking into account how Jeannie would feel.

    • @candacedawn357
      @candacedawn357 2 роки тому +35

      Yes, it's always good when your man considers your feelings and isn't acting out with selfish intent!

    • @DaniielaVergara
      @DaniielaVergara 2 роки тому +30

      Exactly. I remember when she was married to Freddy. She wanted him to have girl friends and hang out with them.

    • @constantnipples2428
      @constantnipples2428 2 роки тому +8

      but if a man did the same to his gf society would say its toxic

    • @voidx1231
      @voidx1231 2 роки тому

      @@constantnipples2428 if a man did what

    • @jestiny
      @jestiny 2 роки тому +2

      I agree but saying a carefree nature doesn’t work in a marriage is weird

  • @Rio_Monique
    @Rio_Monique 2 роки тому +210

    Y'all...........if he gone cheat, HE GONE CHEAT! That's just that. Either you got a real dude or you don't.

    • @Msladyrae92
      @Msladyrae92 2 роки тому +10

      Absolutely, but it’s not always about cheating. Sometimes it’s just the optics. Imagine your man gave a female coworker a ride home and your momma saw them at a red light. 🤭 just a totally unnecessary and avoidable situation

    • @Myaccount923
      @Myaccount923 2 роки тому +12

      @@Msladyrae92 it’s also about boundaries and setting standards for yourself and your relationships

    • @BeautifuloONightmare
      @BeautifuloONightmare 2 роки тому

      You're so naive, you must be a kid.

    • @divinefeminineoracle5825
      @divinefeminineoracle5825 2 роки тому +1

      @@Msladyrae92 girl my next man not allowed to have no arms, no legs, no eyes..he might try to see or somthin! 😆

    • @thembicosta5308
      @thembicosta5308 Рік тому +1

      @@Msladyrae92 Agreed and well put

  • @BeautyUnraveled
    @BeautyUnraveled 2 роки тому +422

    This reminds of the episode where Jeanie was saying that taking someone’s number you are attracted to isn’t cheating and all the ladies were like.. whaaaa😂

    • @RamataaBah
      @RamataaBah 2 роки тому +140

      Freddie was not the man for Jeanie 🤣

    • @mandys1038
      @mandys1038 2 роки тому +76

      Yup now even Jeannie looks back and realizes how crazy that was. Jeannie has grown and realized what that foolishness cost her in the end.

    • @teresamarie7460
      @teresamarie7460 2 роки тому +37

      @@RamataaBah STOP... Jeannie was in a 14 year relationship where she didn't have to be jealous about women or children. This relationship is different because he has children and a history of "womanizing".

    • @Mel__21
      @Mel__21 2 роки тому +7

      Right. That was one hell of an episode 👀😂 she’s learned from it good for her.

    • @candacedawn357
      @candacedawn357 2 роки тому +3

      Say what?! 😀

  • @aidasa3791
    @aidasa3791 2 роки тому +324

    Lol remember she forced Freddy to have female friends (cause she didnt give a frick about him 😂)

    • @Onur0547
      @Onur0547 2 роки тому +78

      Evidently he ran off with a "female friend" 👀

    • @mimiad397
      @mimiad397 2 роки тому +13

      That's just weird and sad. Good thing they broke up and moved on

    • @aidasa3791
      @aidasa3791 2 роки тому +7

      @@Onur0547 not really they were separated and Jeannie was the one who called it off not him. But true he did end up with a friend.

    • @aidasa3791
      @aidasa3791 2 роки тому +6

      @@mimiad397 yup I agree i called their divorce first season when k saw her disrespect him on national tv .. imagine closed doors lawd

    • @astewart4468
      @astewart4468 2 роки тому +6

      I think it's because Jeezy is well known/"that guy" and Freddie just isn't.

  • @meaganbianca2978
    @meaganbianca2978 2 роки тому +185

    It really depends your upbringing and social circles. I appreciate Loni representing the women with what they call “masculine energy”. Growing up with only brother and working in construction even though I try to make lady friends it’s WAY easier for me to make friends with guys because I’m use to them.

    • @etsube1092
      @etsube1092 2 роки тому +13

      Yessssss. I find it difficult to be friends with females lol

    • @terynb4407
      @terynb4407 2 роки тому +5

      I just connect with guys more cause that's all I knew since I grew up in a house with 5 boys

    • @SL-lz9jr
      @SL-lz9jr 2 роки тому +4

      I’m the opposite. Wish I had more guy friends but it’s just easier with girl friends. And, yes, my girl friends mostly have feminine energy too. Sigh. We all try, don’t we?

    • @sagba9473
      @sagba9473 2 роки тому +6

      I really enjoy relationships with guys even as a teen due to the women gossiping running to tell other women business to me let’s watch wrestling and eat😂

    • @hekdhjrkf3601
      @hekdhjrkf3601 2 роки тому

      Jeannie and Lonnie who is fooling who?

  • @jyn88
    @jyn88 2 роки тому +155

    I clicked on this immediately because I remember Jeannie trying to push Freddy to have female friends lol. She's so different now. She pretty much said what Tamera said.

    • @harmonyz
      @harmonyz 2 роки тому +37

      It just shows what happens once you marry the right person and their is a mutual respect.

    • @teresamarie7460
      @teresamarie7460 2 роки тому +34

      Freddie is not a womanizer. Jeezy was a womanizer. STOP minimizing her 14 year relationship. She's older now and has different competition in this relationship.

    • @SS-km4pp
      @SS-km4pp 2 роки тому

      @@teresamarie7460 Jeezy was not a womaniser, don’t let the his rap persona fool you. I heard him date 1,2 women in the industry but I never heard his name attached to any scandals involving women. Freddie on the other hand was a low down, disrespectful, dirty, money grabbing ass CHEAT 😮‍💨
      What it boils down to is this… Jeanie is now equally yoked with Jeezy and wants to protect and respect their union. No new friends especially after what her ex did to her.

    • @sadesuarez2954
      @sadesuarez2954 2 роки тому +23

      She isnt different. Her Man is different. Sorry but Jeezy is extra careful because he has to be. He is a celebrity who is extra careful when people ARE watching. Who knows what happens when people arent. Just saying. Also Jeannie is in a relationship with a man who she thinks is out of HER league so yeah she is going to praise even the tiniest things acting like they have been together 10 years. She cant compare this relationship to hers before that because its still FRESH

    • @sogandkarimian6890
      @sogandkarimian6890 2 роки тому +13

      @@teresamarie7460 girl what did Jeezy do to you you are everywhere in these comments LMAO

  • @JenniCampestrini
    @JenniCampestrini 2 роки тому +146

    I’ve been scarred by bad experiences with “female friends” so no thank you😅

  • @MajesticMyronn
    @MajesticMyronn 2 роки тому +72

    Listen… she learned from ALL of her past experiences with that first one that shall remain unnamed ! Cuz if we not friends , you ain’t my partners friend !! Ain’t no negotiations , retaliating or nothing ! Thank you for your services ! Goodbye 👋🏽

    • @d-nise6364
      @d-nise6364 2 роки тому +1

      Exactly! It’s about the principal and setting boundaries

  • @motivationalquotesshorts
    @motivationalquotesshorts 2 роки тому +10

    love this video and hearing everyone take on it. sometimes it may not be about trusting the other person rather respecting your relationship and boundaries! totally agree

  • @SetCCC
    @SetCCC 2 роки тому +32

    No, when you're married, you don't have opposite sex friends that aren't mutual. Your spouse is your number one.

  • @allthingsbeauty9175
    @allthingsbeauty9175 2 роки тому +22

    A streaming network should pickup this show. These topics are too good for this show to end so abruptly like this.

  • @sorinkempf1601
    @sorinkempf1601 2 роки тому +174

    If someone is gonna cheat, they’re gonna cheat. If you’re unable to be close to someone of the opposite sex without having the desire to cheat on your partner, that’s a problem with you, not the dynamic.
    And it shouldn’t be a matter of “not trusting the woman around the man”. If that is your man, he should be taking care of himself even if the woman is flirting with him like the rent is due tomorrow. Staying in a relationship where you are that paranoid of your partner cheating is not healthy

    • @liaaa3862
      @liaaa3862 2 роки тому +11

      Speak on it 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @Strawberryfearsforever
      @Strawberryfearsforever 2 роки тому

      That's way too black and white. You can love your partner to death and still get tempted because you're human. That's why I respect someone for just not putting themselves in those situations. I agree with Jeannie.

    • @teresamarie7460
      @teresamarie7460 2 роки тому +16

      INDEED INDEED... These Commenters praising Jeannie being jealous in this relationship is asinine. If anything, it proves she is insecure about this husband's history. Garcelle's husband cheated for five years is proof that blocking female friends doesn't secure anything.

    • @alexisking8495
      @alexisking8495 2 роки тому +1

      YESSSSSSSSSSSSS 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 👏🏽 Excatly how I feel.

    • @Tam974eva
      @Tam974eva 2 роки тому +6

      it's correct that ur man should be able to control himself but control is best practiced by restriction. if ur setting boundaries to not meet female friends in one on one settings, you're obviously not likely to cheat. lol. if u put 2 attractive ppl in a room together cheating likelihood is higher.

  • @shirleysimankomonde2743
    @shirleysimankomonde2743 2 роки тому +93

    I’m with both Jeannie and Garcel on this one, I trust myself with my male friends and I make them befriend my boyfriend

    • @ssti603
      @ssti603 2 роки тому +9

      No women don’t need male friends and men don’t need female friends when you are married. Yes Adrienne is right.

    • @theumbrellaofdoom
      @theumbrellaofdoom 2 роки тому +4

      @@ssti603 what? Lol friendships exist… regardless of gender

    • @saints0538
      @saints0538 Рік тому

      @@theumbrellaofdoom no those dude wanna smash. They aren’t your friends!!

  • @Shalayah2010
    @Shalayah2010 2 роки тому +12

    Jeannie has CHANGED. Freddie was able to damn near go on dates with other women lol

    • @iriemo721
      @iriemo721 2 роки тому +3

      She didn’t value that one cuz he was never what she wanted. She values this one, her fetish personified. She’s holding her hand different. You got a bunch of ugly cards you don’t mind showing your hand. You got a flush, you’re covering it up so nobody see it.

    • @Shalayah2010
      @Shalayah2010 2 роки тому

      @@iriemo721 hmmm interesting

  • @beyondblessed2207
    @beyondblessed2207 2 роки тому +79

    I don’t think either or should have friends of the opposite sex that aren’t mutuals.

    • @xoangelicaf0523
      @xoangelicaf0523 2 роки тому +2

      I agree

    • @ChelseasLiveLine
      @ChelseasLiveLine 2 роки тому +1

      Agreed!

    • @marbles529
      @marbles529 2 роки тому +18

      I disagree. What if I don't wanna be friends with all your friends? Or vise versa? I think having our own friends is healthy.

    • @ddh19454
      @ddh19454 2 роки тому +7

      @@marbles529 i agree
      If y'all wanna be friends thats great
      But am not gonna drop my friend just because y'all can't get along
      Sometimes people just don't get along and that's ok
      We don't have to have all the same friends

    • @cooky75015
      @cooky75015 2 роки тому +7

      @@marbles529 💯🎯 Besides sharing same friends does not guarantee anything. If someone wants to cheat he/she will cheat. Just my two scents. I have male friends who have been my friends forever. They are like family. I see no reason why we should cut ties just because I got married. It goes both ways to me.

  • @tamarasbargains
    @tamarasbargains 2 роки тому +7

    I love how Jeannie explained that and that’s the same for my husband and I are the same way. We are on our Drake “No new Friends” and I love that it the mind set as J, why to put that image or that scenario to make it like something happened when it’s innocent or not at all. And we all know “people” love to make assumptions over stuff that sometimes is nothing. Well said Jeannie!❤

    • @spirituallygifted11111
      @spirituallygifted11111 2 роки тому

      Jeezy has women she doesn’t know about. Jeannie will neverrrrr be enough for him. He may have slowed down for a bit but the delusion is real. she is with a rapper. And that’s apart of the game. Just like dating ball players. for some reason she thinks her puss is the change lol y’all wait… 🙄

  • @yzma6142
    @yzma6142 2 роки тому +8

    Jeannie has changed SOOO MUCH. remember when she wanted Freddie to have female friends and would be mad when he didn't have a "female perspective". lmao she didn't love that man at all

  • @iamporshalove
    @iamporshalove 2 роки тому +9

    One thing about Garcelle, SHE GON KEEP IT REAL 😂

    • @july13670
      @july13670 2 роки тому

      She had a cheating husband she's not with the shitz. Lol

  • @britbritnicole9211
    @britbritnicole9211 2 роки тому +84

    I think it’s reverse double standard. Women get tempted too and it’s whack that we can’t just treat each other equally and have friends. Especially if it’s someone you’ve known for years before your relationship, why get all clingy?

    • @teresamarie7460
      @teresamarie7460 2 роки тому +9

      INDEED... AND it's about insecurities. If one is in a same sex relationship, they would not be insecure about the opposite sex friendships.

    • @RDCFemmes
      @RDCFemmes 2 роки тому +3

      @@teresamarie7460 because they would be worried about the same sex frienship because obviously that is who they are attracted to.

    • @teresamarie7460
      @teresamarie7460 2 роки тому

      @@RDCFemmes EXACTLY

    • @constantnipples2428
      @constantnipples2428 2 роки тому +1

      I agree but she been burnt before her ex husband cheated on her with his female friends so the trauma is from that

    • @britbritnicole9211
      @britbritnicole9211 2 роки тому

      @@teresamarie7460 I agree, I think it’s a insecurity issue

  • @writingbywinifred6677
    @writingbywinifred6677 2 роки тому +19

    It would be nice for the four of them to still do a UA-cam or Facebook show or something..they get me through my work-from-home days..

  • @Reallychris_
    @Reallychris_ 2 роки тому +19

    Just because he's not taking pictures with anyone doesn't mean he's not cheating.

  • @JCQNSH
    @JCQNSH 2 роки тому +31

    Lol I believe Jeannie bc I had a friend who dated Jeezy’s DJ (not sure if this person is STILL his DJ) and they’d all be flicking it up with Jeezy around but he’d neverrrr be in any of the pics or videos. Lol.

  • @Lifeoffaridah
    @Lifeoffaridah 2 роки тому +8

    😄that laugh of jennie thou before she said “yeezy do not play like that”

    • @teresamarie7460
      @teresamarie7460 2 роки тому +1

      Yup. Like she just gave an ultimatum to end his friendship with females.

  • @kp5496
    @kp5496 2 роки тому +27

    My man has a female friend from high school who lives in a different state and they communicate through FB. It’s a I know the whole family situation. My mom has guy friends and my Dad always made female friends growing up and they would invite our family to Temple, Church, birthday parties, etc. my parents have a popping social life and I’m not like that, but I have a lot of friends and we’ve never been in more than a platonic situation. My Dad is more friendly with women, because he’s not a guys guy. He gets along better with women and my mom is not a girls girl, she gets along better with men. When her girlfriends cry about their husbands, she can’t relate and doesn’t know how to and my Dad can’t relate to how men talk around him at work and how they treat their wives/girlfriends. My mom will tell her guy friends how the girl is crazy and my dad is like that guys sucks, get a better man. That’s their personalities. They’re not like “I can’t hang with the opposite sex because I lack self control and put myself in situations where I’ll make bad choices in the future”

    • @TheodoreBakes
      @TheodoreBakes 2 роки тому +1

      Your parents sound pretty cool honestly!

    • @kp5496
      @kp5496 2 роки тому +1

      @@TheodoreBakes thank you, they really are. My dad now has 3 kinds of dementia and of course that changes a relationship, so my mom has a bf now. My dad said he wanted her to be happy, but also he wants her to be taken care of romantically and financially, so he didn’t want a divorce, he wants her to get his old people money. He’s 74 and she just turned 60. My dad just wants her to be happy and to live out the rest of his life happily, and he says that family comes in different forms. Btw, this is technically my stepfather, but he raised us. My parents still live together, my mom is his caretaker and she has her bf of 2 years now, plus my mom and dad (not so much parenting done by him anymore these days though) are foster parents and have 3 foster kids currently. They weren’t eccentric parents how I’m making it seem, but they’re very realistic and have showed us what honesty, loyalty and family means. The life we live is not what any of us imagined, but man has it been a good time! Even with the obstacles my family has had. My parents are really good people and amazing parents. I’ve learned to be open in life because of them, and not to cross things off because I don’t understand them or disagree right away. Like having friends of the opposite sex. We are all living one life. Everyone is grown. There are no needs for rules in relationships. You know what is expected of you. If you disappoint your partner, knowingly, regardless of the situation, you’re wrong. As for specific “what if” situations, like presented in this girl chat, when you end up in that situation, you may think differently yourself, so try to remain open, through all situations life may bring, and keep your good values and morals intact.

    • @TheodoreBakes
      @TheodoreBakes 2 роки тому +1

      @@kp5496 that's a really Interesting family dynamic yall have but I would have loved to grow up in such an environment!

  • @allthingsbeauty9175
    @allthingsbeauty9175 2 роки тому +4

    I hear that Mrs Jenkins 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @langeldvyne1126
    @langeldvyne1126 2 роки тому +8

    🙄 society so messed up even being friends with another human being has become and issue.
    Hopefully one day we can go back to just being beautiful together. Without the mess

  • @mariposa1933
    @mariposa1933 2 роки тому +71

    I actually am not the type to be jealous if my man had lifelong female friends before me, as long as they’re respectful, but I am definitely guilty of pushing an ex to have more female friends because I didn’t know how to break up with him. I knew he could be tempted and he was. It was my way out. There’s a lot more to that story, but he was very narcissistic, verbally abusive and I felt the guilt of always being manipulated into staying when I wanted to leave. Now I’m happily married and my hubby and I don’t play that! 😁😉

  • @julianramirez7103
    @julianramirez7103 2 роки тому +7

    All I gotta say is: TRUST
    If you don't TRUST Your partner, then split

  • @SL-lz9jr
    @SL-lz9jr 2 роки тому +44

    I’ve witnessed my bff’s ex-bf maintaining a healthy friendship with his ex-gf while they were dating. We’ve also remained friends even after he broke up with my BFF (who is now happily married). So, I guess it CAN work. Sometimes. Maturity is a huge thing.

  • @Nlovexo
    @Nlovexo 2 роки тому +12

    I remember Jeannine said Jay Z was at a party and didn’t take pictures with anyone because he didn’t want to give anyone a chance to make up anything. Interesting how Jeezy said the same 🤔

    • @teresamarie7460
      @teresamarie7460 2 роки тому +10

      Well Jay Z cheated so he has to be extra careful. Jeezy use to be a womanizer so he has to be careful.

    • @omphilemoerane2569
      @omphilemoerane2569 2 роки тому +8

      Lol they may as well just take the damn pictures cause they are cheaters anyway, especially Jay z🙄😂😂

    • @SammySam316
      @SammySam316 2 роки тому

      And that episode was before the revelation of Becky with the good hair.

  • @trinnytron
    @trinnytron 2 роки тому +5

    “Wonder” how long that will last!?

  • @MaiMai-ys4yg
    @MaiMai-ys4yg 2 роки тому +2

    My husband and I are both introverts and like being home
    Thank God lol

  • @oliviabright8720
    @oliviabright8720 2 роки тому +1

    Loved what Garcelle and Adrienne had to say.agree with both of you completely!! I personally believe in protecting my marriage.

  • @sexyhomeowner9345
    @sexyhomeowner9345 10 місяців тому +1

    I'm seeing this differently now...

  • @bees0la276
    @bees0la276 2 роки тому +20

    As someone with more close guy friends than female friends. I'm sad to lose those relationships because those are my friends 😩😩😩 We’re young but I realise that in the future if their girlfriends or wives are not cool with me, there goes my friendships 🤷🏾‍♀️. But I know if it were the opposite way I might not be cool with it either 🙂

    • @victoriajohn6486
      @victoriajohn6486 2 роки тому +1

      If I was the girlfriend or wife I would try to be best friends with you too. So you don't lose your friendship with your guy friend.

  • @nakuro2686
    @nakuro2686 2 роки тому +26

    Unfortunately it's on a situation individual basis. My man has 4 friends who are married to his bffs..they all have felt the need to tell me they know him way better than me..so that got cut quick when we were married..even with my female friends who would proclaim they loved me more than he and our children . I don't tolerate that bs.

  • @jalondradavis2473
    @jalondradavis2473 2 роки тому +7

    My husband has always had so many female friends. He has a lot of friends, period and that just includes women. He respects women and their intelligence. He has always been faithful and I’ve never caught him in a lie. It’s beautiful sometimes because most of them are also my close friends now and the best people to talk to because they know and love us both. Most of them are also married so the time spent together is often hanging out as couples. But there are a couple where we’ve had to have conversations around boundaries and it’s the ones that haven’t made any
    effort to create that direct relationship with me and invite us out together. I think men and women can be platonic friends and it has to go both ways, but if both are heterosexual the relationship does have to be navigated a bit differently if one or both are in serious relationships. My husband says he’s fine with me having close male friends but I don’t really, not because I don’t want them but because my male friends are all married and I’m so extra careful about how I conduct myself with them so that their wives are not uncomfortable that it can be hard to nurture the friendship if you don’t also have a strong friendship with their wife.

  • @Sunshine-is_here_to_stay
    @Sunshine-is_here_to_stay 2 роки тому +50

    Jeannie has grown so much...

  • @alexandraanderson3988
    @alexandraanderson3988 2 роки тому

    Lmaoo loniiii the only female friend James has is his mama😂😅😄🥴 then she made that face afterwards 1:28- 1:34 like yeah right😏☺️🥴😂😅

  • @alexandraanderson3988
    @alexandraanderson3988 2 роки тому

    I just love Jeannie’s and Garcelle quote to quote friendship together on the taking to the phone to the bathroom comment 4:37 like even while Jeannie’s on screen you can still sort of feel the connection in a way I love that😊😏🥰😍

  • @Uthiop
    @Uthiop 2 роки тому

    I'll be driving, and listening to radio and a podcast from my phone and same time using the gps

  • @adayah30
    @adayah30 2 роки тому

    Keeping it 100% this time around. Good for them.

  • @uk_4092
    @uk_4092 2 роки тому +5

    Remember when she used to beg Freddie to have more female friends?

  • @ShaydahandSaharavlogs
    @ShaydahandSaharavlogs 2 роки тому +9

    I won't have male friends unless they're family members and it's the same for my husband. I feel like every relationship is different, but life is complicated enough to have friends of the opposite sex that you have the opportunity to be attracted to. Like Jeannie said, there's no reason to be in a situation like that.

    • @2sense110
      @2sense110 2 роки тому +1

      Life is complicated already exactly so that's one less thing you have to worry about your man hooking up with one of his female friends

    • @marbles529
      @marbles529 2 роки тому

      If your mate is gonna cheat, they're gonna cheat... with whoever (it doesn't have to be a friend). I don't have time to manage anyone's friends list.

  • @lunahestiasolaria
    @lunahestiasolaria 2 роки тому +2

    I used to trust men around women , but bc of a repeated habit of broken trust I now would prefer a big circle hang out where I am present

  • @lexie02jones25
    @lexie02jones25 2 роки тому +4

    JEEZY understood the assignment! 👏🔥🔥

  • @ourlove1449
    @ourlove1449 2 роки тому +1

    Well sometimes it's the friends you both have together that you have to watch. Even people who pretend to be happy for may not be.

  • @Candie4JC
    @Candie4JC 2 роки тому +11

    I actually go out of my way to get to know my guy friends’ women. I want to assure her that I’m not a threat of any kind. I’ll even exchange numbers so we can get to know each other and bond over ways to make fun of her man through inside jokes 😂 it works every time. I’ll even just check in with her to make sure she’s okay. I don’t want my guy friends to feel like they have to figure out how to do that by themselves. I take equal responsibility in making these women comfortable with me. If I’m not trying to be close to the woman, my guy friends already know that I’m not sensing something healthy. But I leave them to figure out their own relationships. If it’s marriage, though, I’m showing her love even though out of full respect.

    • @jessicaj.358
      @jessicaj.358 2 роки тому

      That's nice of you! You are a good friend! 🙏🏾

  • @Msladyrae92
    @Msladyrae92 2 роки тому +65

    Jeannie is right. Eventhough you have trust in your partner sometimes it’s about the optics.
    Imagine your man gave a female coworker a ride home and your momma or someone you know just so happens to see them at a red light. 🤭 just a totally unnecessary and avoidable situation if he didn’t put himself in that position . That’s just how I was raised.

    • @teresamarie7460
      @teresamarie7460 2 роки тому

      Optics has no place in heaven. Do good to others because God doesn't care about your optics.

    • @SmoothOpe_
      @SmoothOpe_ 2 роки тому

      😅😅

    • @TheodoreBakes
      @TheodoreBakes 2 роки тому +2

      Yep it can be something so simple and innocent and be blown wayyy out of proportion.

    • @1989menutheiswhat
      @1989menutheiswhat 2 роки тому

      "Don't do good things/deeds that may seem bad things"

    • @TheNemshar
      @TheNemshar 2 роки тому +6

      I would feel ashamed if my partner said no to his female coworker who had troubles reaching home. It seems like you were raised in an enrvironment where you have to treat your man like a child. If he wants to cheat he will anyway and no amoint of policing him would help. Giving a coworker a ride would be seen bad by my mother? That would be crazy.

  • @Lovekarisma
    @Lovekarisma 2 роки тому

    Lol Jeannie checked that question quick. That laugh smirk was like he better not have female friends to do with that with

  • @1rkhachatryan
    @1rkhachatryan 2 роки тому +12

    Ya'll stop policing their friends and focus on them, this is so weird. Cheating is two way, either the guy or the girl have to participate in the foolery so punishing the friends is weird.
    If your partner can get swayed so easily they were trash to begin with lol.

  • @malaikapaul6315
    @malaikapaul6315 2 роки тому

    True...

  • @amberbanks930
    @amberbanks930 2 роки тому +59

    This is tricky because your man could easily be attracted and tempted by any woman so it’s not fair to not “allow” your man to have female friends and vice versa. It’s too much control and it isn’t realistic. I totally get ppl have been burned and played but that can happen no matter what you try to “control” or “allow” we should just experience each other and love 💕

    • @jazminrodriguez9026
      @jazminrodriguez9026 2 роки тому +2

      And that's why she's insecure about his past

    • @teresamarie7460
      @teresamarie7460 2 роки тому +1

      INDEED... Garcelle's second husband was in another relationship during their entire marriage.

    • @constantnipples2428
      @constantnipples2428 2 роки тому

      I agree putting out boundaries is what I do like they can hang out but not come to each others houses or give each other physical affection

    • @skybosman7034
      @skybosman7034 2 роки тому +10

      I think l am weird because l believe you really can not control anyone, if your man is going to cheat either with their female friend or who ever, it's out of your control just let people be friends with who ever they are going to be friends with or are already friends with. I trust my man until he gives me a reason not to trust him and that day would be the day l am out the door.

    • @CrystalDatingCoach
      @CrystalDatingCoach 2 роки тому

      It's not CONTROL it's demanding Respect. Meeting other Women is a DATE! Period. Disrespectful!

  • @thatjamericankidd6637
    @thatjamericankidd6637 2 роки тому

    I remember the episode when she said it’s ok for Freddy to be on a chat room and if phone to someone u like was cool

  • @kaleenajean
    @kaleenajean 2 роки тому

    So she thinks… 🥴

  • @clairedavis8564
    @clairedavis8564 2 роки тому +5

    Ha, ha, ha! If Loni were a pilot, chef, a school bus driver, lawyer, anything, she definitely would have had male friends! Loni, that’s just the wiring of your flavor 💘💘💘

  • @kristinawilliams4597
    @kristinawilliams4597 2 роки тому +1

    I do not mix circles
    My friends are not yours and your friends are not mine

  • @Hotmamagotdatbomb
    @Hotmamagotdatbomb 2 роки тому

    Neither one of us needs friends that aren't mutual to us both! My opinion

  • @CrystalDatingCoach
    @CrystalDatingCoach 2 роки тому +1

    Jeannie's RIGHT! Your Partner should NOT have friends that you don't know about. Hanging out at work is one thing. Meeting someone is another. It's a Date. You don't DATE when you're in a RELATIONSHIP.

  • @wordsspoken_
    @wordsspoken_ 2 роки тому +4

    Of course different relationships bring out different versions of you so she’ll be different with Jeezy but hopefully if Jeannie wants him to have mutual girl friends, she’s returning the same energy.

  • @baaaaadmintoluvr
    @baaaaadmintoluvr 2 роки тому

    I remember in an earlier episode, there was a segment called “Cheating or Not Cheating” and there were different scenarios and they had to choose if those scenarios were cheating or not. Some of them were technically “not cheating” but were definitely red flags and could very easily lead to cheating. One of them was going out to coffee with someone you “like” meaning like like, like you wanna do them haha and she seemed very nonchalant about unnecessarily putting yourself in a situation where someone is gambling with temptation and could possibly cheat…it seems like she thinks alittle bit differently now than her previous answers…which is a good thing😌😊

    • @ebravo2981
      @ebravo2981 2 роки тому +1

      Yess! I was rewatching that episode and would like to see Jeannie answer those questions again now that she is remarried. ☺

  • @LionessJewlz
    @LionessJewlz 2 роки тому

    First they're gonna fix my credit, then their gonna write a book, then they're gonna open up a daycare....lmbo Loni 😂😂😂

  • @JoyFay
    @JoyFay 2 роки тому

    Especially those people that fix credit and sell courses on how to credit successful businesses. They are out here swindling.

  • @drizzle1977
    @drizzle1977 2 роки тому

    Give it all to this one Drizzle. I have not spoken in secret from the beginning.

  • @yolandahoward1099
    @yolandahoward1099 2 роки тому +2

    "All things beauty",I also feel that this show will be missed. It's like getting canceled,at the peak of the show.

  • @teeroo96
    @teeroo96 2 роки тому +8

    Wondering why Jeannie married her first

    • @iamcaydenceasherah7069
      @iamcaydenceasherah7069 2 роки тому +1

      She said it was because he asked to marry her, he seemed ready and like he'd be a good husband, and her family said he would be good to mature her up, he was a guy of a certain stature and she didn't want to say no. She said all this before they even filed for divorce.

  • @maximumms6443
    @maximumms6443 Рік тому

    No time to monitor. Confidence rules. No intimidation here.

  • @xuxushushu
    @xuxushushu 2 роки тому +18

    Nope, my man has no female friends and I have no male friends. We don’t put ourselves in these situations and don’t care for anyone else, but even beyond that, we’re best friends and need only for eachother. Jeannie is completely right. It isn’t about trust because the trust is there and it’s solid, we simply don’t need or want or care to make friends.

    • @sodamngood8704
      @sodamngood8704 2 роки тому +1

      😎

    • @TheNemshar
      @TheNemshar 2 роки тому +4

      I saw people like you, when the relationship ends they have no one because they were focused on their partner only. This is very toxic in my opinion.

  • @TwiFiveGirls101
    @TwiFiveGirls101 2 роки тому

    HAHAHA! Loni is so funny. 🤣🤣🤣 Them faces.

  • @adamgranger5653
    @adamgranger5653 2 роки тому

    Nope and i saw this first hand with my parents' marriage growing up. My mom had some deep rooted insecurities and as a result she had a hard time trusting my dad around other women even though he was the best husband she could have asked for. She went so far as to keep records of his text messages and phone calls cause there was this one neighbor lady who she despised and always had to keep an eye on. It didn't help that my mom and this lady had the same kind of personality where if things didn't go their way exactly as it is supposed to, then it gets ugly fast. The biggest shock was that this same neighbor lady who my mom hated showed up to her funeral to pay her respects and i definitely was not comfortable about it but i didn't want to cause a stir to i said nothing and mingled with the other guests

  • @thottales7109
    @thottales7109 2 роки тому +1

    Yeah! She think she’s friends with the both of them. I take friendships seriously, I’m not doing “friends by default” or force. Eff your girl unless they’re cool and we have a real connection as friends

  • @LupeMejicano
    @LupeMejicano 2 роки тому

    I have it happen both directions we only tend to trust that people at church are just friendly and really it’s your choice how you act with people

  • @nadeenrobinson197
    @nadeenrobinson197 2 роки тому +1

    Adrian glowing like she is pregnant.

  • @drizzle1977
    @drizzle1977 2 роки тому +1

    It is written, My Word is good enough. Some nations quickly ante up one my trillion. I'm beyond jealous. My name is Jealous.

  • @desireefranco3671
    @desireefranco3671 2 роки тому +17

    These opinions are so weird to me but I have to remember my social circle is unique. My day 1 high school group made up of 2 guys and 5 girls 15 years later we are stuck like glue. The males in this group have private 1/1 dinners, happy hours, basically anything at anytime with any of us. and all but 2 of us are single. I’m talking married, kids, and it’s still perfectly ok with the husbands/boyfriend and girlfriends. But we did walk into these romantic relationships establishing our strong friendship, so maybe that’s the difference.

    • @candacedawn357
      @candacedawn357 2 роки тому +2

      That's cool!

    • @Myaccount923
      @Myaccount923 2 роки тому +1

      And in those 15 years nothing romantic or sexual has been attempted with anybody in the group?

    • @desireefranco3671
      @desireefranco3671 2 роки тому +4

      @@Myaccount923 Believe it or not NEVERRRR! A few years ago one of the guys and I attended a mutual friends destination wedding and we shared a room at a couples resort no less lol. At the time I was very much in my current relationship and it was no drama with us attending as a platonic pair. We have camped and slept in mega tents together. We book Airbnb's and party together. We're 29-30 but one of the girls in our group is married to a 43 year old and he's also perfectly fine with the men in our group, and her 1/1 friendships with them. I'm always so proud to share because I love us so much. My brother and parents always express how incredible our little circle of greatness is :)

    • @shantelane2553
      @shantelane2553 2 роки тому +1

      Same here!
      I have several male friends with zero attraction to them. Some have been my friends since I was a teenager. Believe it or not we’re not attracted to everyone of the opposite sex 😂😩
      I’m married and my husband has no issues with my male friends. Same with his female friends.

    • @desireefranco3671
      @desireefranco3671 2 роки тому

      ​@@shantelane2553 See! you get it! When I describe the relationship to ppl they just cant imagine. Which I can understand if your spouse comes in with 0 friends and out of no where is claiming lunch and dinners with "friends" you never met or heard of. But even in the dating phase I speak on my friends like extensions of my family b/c that's just what we are at this point. I love that your husband gets it. I actually find it weird if your a male/female and cant have a single platonic friend of the opposite sex.

  • @janwoburn447
    @janwoburn447 2 роки тому +1

    In a marriage dynamic a wife's business is to make known to her husband what kind of friends she chooses to associate with. To me trust is build within if boundaries were already set

    • @TiffanyRayneOfficial
      @TiffanyRayneOfficial 2 роки тому +1

      It's also the husband's dynamic to make known to his wife what type of friends he chooses to associate with also. The point is, there's boundaries within any relationship or friendship. And you have to respect each other's feelings.

  • @ForeverGodsGirl03
    @ForeverGodsGirl03 2 роки тому +4

    We don't do opposite sex friendships over here.

  • @jessicaj.358
    @jessicaj.358 2 роки тому

    I agree with Jeannie's mentality about female friends!

  • @dorsieasmith3136
    @dorsieasmith3136 2 роки тому +7

    I don’t trust my ex boyfriend he cheated on me with another girl

  • @marquisatkins3174
    @marquisatkins3174 2 роки тому

    That’s ridiculous…so jezzy cut off every friend that’s a girl prior to her? That’s crazy

  • @msbrad2013
    @msbrad2013 2 роки тому +1

    My partner doesn't want me to have male friends, it's annoying. I get it but I rather just trust we will be respectful

  • @oliviabright8720
    @oliviabright8720 2 роки тому

    And love Jeezy is so respectful to his wife!! Praise God for Him Jennie!

  • @risseg3352
    @risseg3352 2 роки тому

    I love me some Jeannie hunny…I also go by the, “Try it if u want to👀👀!!!!” My man and I both. Let’s all be friends!!! 😩🙃

  • @cecemac988
    @cecemac988 2 роки тому +22

    I have a group of friends: 3 girls and 4 guys. Friends since high school, all in our late 20s now. We have a pact: no one comes in between our friendship. If the guys girlfriends don’t like them having us girls as friends, she can bounce. By saying “men and women can’t be friends” you’re saying that either you always catch feelings or you’re arrogantly assuming that every guy wants you. Get over yourself. Of course none of us are rude or disrespectful to our friends partner but if she/he doesn’t like us just because of our gender, I’m failing to see how that’s not sexist.

    • @rebekahkingbello9560
      @rebekahkingbello9560 2 роки тому +7

      Your partner (especially if married) should eventually take priority over friends.

    • @staceyphillips1585
      @staceyphillips1585 2 роки тому +3

      Girl...yall need to grow up...yall Will eventually...ijs...thats cute and all to be still friends

    • @yogaqueen1527
      @yogaqueen1527 2 роки тому

      You sound like a fool. You'll be the one bouncing, not their partners

    • @cecemac988
      @cecemac988 2 роки тому +1

      @@rebekahkingbello9560 if your partner doesn’t have a legit reason not to like your friends, why would you want to be with them? What’s wrong with us making a pact to stay friends as long as no one is disrespectful to our friends partner?

    • @cecemac988
      @cecemac988 2 роки тому

      @@staceyphillips1585 Exactly! Grow up and stop thinking men and women can’t be friends without it turning sexual. My point exactly. Especially, if the friends haven’t done anything wrong. Seems very trivial and adolescent to judge your partners friends based off their gender.

  • @bribribri446
    @bribribri446 2 роки тому

    I don’t have a lot of guy friends unless they are my friends husbands, my husband doesn’t have many female friends either

  • @KayraR1221
    @KayraR1221 2 роки тому

    My partner and I can have opposite sex friends that we don't mutually know as long as there's no hanging out with them alone and we're aware of the way we interact with those people to prevent anything weird like the friend thinking is okay to be too close or dependent with us, etc.

  • @DML_81
    @DML_81 2 роки тому +7

    My husband and I have no friends of the opposite sex. We have always had it that way. I am good with that.

  • @yogaqueen1527
    @yogaqueen1527 2 роки тому

    She doing right.

  • @Desi-zz4gb
    @Desi-zz4gb 2 роки тому +4

    Every time I hear Jeannie speak on Jeezy I see more and more she never really liked Freddy lol I remember her saying she would push him to have women friends
    As for the opposite sex friend thing. My husband doesn't have female friends and I don't have male friends. All our friends of opposite sex are both of ours

    • @coralee7801
      @coralee7801 2 роки тому

      I think quite the opposite regarding Jeannie liking Freddy. I feel she really liked him otherwise why did she act so hurt by the divorce. Jeannie is simply trying to make Freddy feel bad by pumping up Jeezy and her marriage. Is Jeannie foolish to think that Jeezy tells her everything about whether he has female friends or not?

  • @drizzle1977
    @drizzle1977 2 роки тому

    Or all cities fall as it is written.

  • @lynnramadan9855
    @lynnramadan9855 2 роки тому +1

    If my partner had a childhood friend and I tried to be friends with her and it didn’t work out . I’ll let them be it’s ok.. that’s one example .

  • @teresamarie7460
    @teresamarie7460 2 роки тому

    Jeannie just said on a few episodes ago that her love is beyond so she's not jealous. This episode her husband cannot have his own female friends. Also, Garcelle questioning James doesn't have female friends was rude. Funny how she didn't question Jeezy not having female friends...

    • @TiffanyRayneOfficial
      @TiffanyRayneOfficial 2 роки тому +1

      You keep mentioning the show and the episodes, but you don't know what happens when the cameras stop rolling and these people go back behind their closed doors. It's all speculation.

  • @bobbleheadmoe
    @bobbleheadmoe 2 роки тому

    Garcia and Lonnie need their own show lol

  • @chefnic4763
    @chefnic4763 2 роки тому +3

    I'm not one for friends. I've been stabbed in the back one too many times ✌🏼

  • @SaharaKnows
    @SaharaKnows 2 роки тому +1

    Gosh Jeanie has changed lol. Remember Jeanie publicly hugging and flirting up with common while married. She also met Jeezy on the real and started hanging out with him before their divorce. She checked out long before she separated from Freddie.

  • @trendalecharon7021
    @trendalecharon7021 2 роки тому +1

    Double standard

  • @CrystalDatingCoach
    @CrystalDatingCoach 2 роки тому

    Theirs a famous proverb : Jack of all trades MASTER at none.

  • @anitasimpson2883
    @anitasimpson2883 2 роки тому +1

    I dont share friends with my significant. My friends are my friends and he can keep his friends. male or female. If i cant trust him. Then why am i with him. It makes no since to have to police a man. I have way to much life to live. To do all that.

  • @pigstars89
    @pigstars89 2 роки тому +2

    Our friends are separate tbh, but don't be hanging out with the lady friends though. Plus a mutual friend can have motives too.

  • @cocoacandleco.4643
    @cocoacandleco.4643 2 роки тому

    People have to multitask and have more than one hustle these days to sustain their household. Blame it on the economy.