That jealous part, preach!!! I tried my hand at something and profited significantly. The guy who I was dating started speaking negatively about my endeavor and secretly tried to do it on his own, but his credit was too bad to do it. 😂😂😂
When I say I have so many men in my home town that hate me because I'm happy in my single hood handling business and spending and saving my money as I please that hate when you happy with yourself 😂😂😂😂😂
The audacity. Mad cause you won’t let them come disturb your peace. Because that’s all they really want to do their ego can’t let them be happy with a success confident women. Now we know the game and learned that we can be happy by ourselves it’s game over for the dusties.
I was very blessed with a good husband. I was married 27 years. My wonderful husband passed away in a car accident last year. I can say I enjoyed-marriage , not everyone is unhappy.She’s correct marry the wright person.
My condolences. I am a widow as well. I know you’re going through it. Rely heavily on the Most High and find peace in all of your memories with your husband. I hope you have his voice saved somewhere. Prayers be with you. ❤
I’m a man and thank God I can function totally on my own but I have to agree with her….most men are definitely the new woman…..now I gots to agree on that 😂😂😂😂💪🏾
I started a new endeavor and Chile! it’s hard, but I am not giving up. One more thing you don’t need a man’s approval to start any business adventure. Period!
I've started, built, and ran several businesses...but building it with full support of my fiancée had been far less stressful for me. It's sad that the black collective, here in the US, doesn't get how important strong marriages are...good luck with your business, you've got this!
Had a man tell me I was a “ fuc$in idiot and nobody will ever invest in your business”…2 years, $5.2M and several million dollar partnerships later…here we are lol…stay single AF ladies I’m a Tech Founder and Co-Host
@@tinukeajidele700 beautiful name. My mother’s name is Atinuke….i am a tech founder. I built an all in one e-commerce platform and have and am currently raising money. On my UA-cam channel, I’m teaching ppl how to leverage tech for their field
Misery loves company, yall. You can be everything he ever wanted and then some, go the extra mile, be supportive, and answer every call. He will still find a reason to complain if he’s not happy with himself. He’ll be unforgiving and salty for no reason if he’s unhappy about his actions and status in life. He can fool you sometimes but most times he’s just dragging you along for a ride through TraumaLand. Study him before you go steady because love and respect is conditional to unfulfilled men.
Real..if he not happy w/self, u won't b happy; I saw this n live action, & it was sad. He tried to prove he had $, come to find out, he was STEALING $ offa a "rink-a-dink" credit card I HAD let him use for a $100, to get me 3 toiletries he never brought home, FOR ME, talking sh--, buying wd, going to restaurants on my money! The nerve. My sh-- was never good enough & I'm RICH😂! I just used to LISTEN & LOOK like these niccas so lost, broken & have not a clue what to do w/a thinking, well-rounded, mannerable woman. No clue. Crazy😂 but sad that black women don't have men. Their own. Really sad😢.
I holler when she pulled out her portable Mic 😂😂🤣 for just in case you didn't hear her. I couldn't stop from rewinding that back. I've been single for a year now and I keep asking myself if I really want to do this again. Naw I'm not ready I'm still healing and thriving with paying myself all the attention ❤ self love is my thing.
She is right. Been telling this to so many women for years already, they thought i was strange and couldn't understand why I was happier single ..i will never, ever marry again, i don't date, celibate for 15 these years already and i don't miss any off it... because back than i already knew how sick men minds work. .. their is something wrong in their programming...They are mean, lazy at home, abusive mentally and or also physically, most of them can't provide by themselves, nor protect, many women need protection against their own husbands. They rape, many are pedofiles, or have sex with other men while married, they are disgusting...Human men who have no heart chakra activated, are insane, nasty and dangerous for many women. They even believe they are the prize and that gaslighting and mental abuse is the way to control and dominate women. Calling themselves a King... God must be so dissapointed in these creatures. So many women don't want a relationship anymore now they are crying about that. Many are going to get exactly what they wished upon many women. Can you share her name?@@taycassomadethat
When single I actually save money. Have more time for myself to grow. When in a relationship, he spends on me and I spend on him but for some reason I lose more. Like the young lady spoke in this video I lose mentally, spiritually, financially, emotionally . And one of my exes did say “it’s nice to have a woman in the house. I can’t be alone.” That was a red flag to me. And for the men out there, she did not say ALL men because she did stay if you do get married, married the RIGHT man.. ❤❤❤❤ When I was married, I was winning. He was the right kind of man. I had an old-fashioned man.
Girl when I was in the military in the barracks, one of them confessed and cried of how he’s so lonely and how he just wants to cuddle. 😂 it took everything in me not to laugh, I just told him, yeah.. well it won’t be me. Trying to signal me, so I just told him flat out, no.
Pure facts Sis!! I have zero desires to be married. I do what I want, when I want and I get to do it with all my self love, peace of God and all of my money that God gives me💯
As a married women shes not lying About anything she said . When My husband & i was on really bad terms & i was over it we had separated not even 2 months later we has in a whole another relationship. I was Like Men Can take two 2 days single or alone without a female in they face
Let me add this, married men are happy because they know that when they have a woman at home, he can harvest her energy to heal himself while he’ll most likely leave her drained and share it with other women.
Singlehood is peace. I do what I want when I want. If I want to be bothered w/ a man, I will on my terms. Other that, they can keep it moving. Like the saying goes, "Catch flights NOT feelings".
But you are married and even though you are even if he's wrong that's personal. Maybe therapy but find your GOD GIVEN PURPOSE. Go to God. Ask him to fix you first and fix your marriage. Unless you reaching out to a therapist I'm not saying I'm right but I would delete your comment. Don't speak it into the air unless you in danger. I hope 🙏 you'll find God and let him take the wheel. Be Blessed ✌️
Coming from a married woman, I approve this message. If something happened to my husband today, I would NOT remarry. This men aren’t men anymore. They think that being an adult male makes them men. 🤦🏽♀️
Yes it was nice at 1st but wore me out over time. I was tired of caring for a man and getting little in return. It’s like I was married to a grown child. More like a moody teenager. I was tired of doing the cooking, cleaning, with little to no appreciation, he was emotionally draining, always disagreeable. We had some good times but I felt trapped . I will never remarry.
Yep, I like that statement vs men bashing. We need each other, whn that car breaks down, who handles it? Whn something needs to be fixed around the house, we do it, we it comes to somebody breaking in the house. Who is the hero that suppose to go see what that noise was on the first floor. So to a certain extent we do need each other.
Because they didn't know what a wife is before marriage and possibly the husband didn't know what a husband was so therfore neither know what the union is about. Don't take their frustration as marriage is bad because it's not. If it's part of The Most High will in your life then it will be Blessed
I’m laughing so hard right now and totally agree! Walking around my house butt azz naked eating a bowl of cereal without a care in the world. Nothing like peace of mind!
I like your comment. People pointing the finger but the blame is not Asking The Most High for your assignment. I met my daughters mom and she was the worse. 2 other ladies I knew they were good but I stopped on one because I felt i wasn't good enough because her family was worth millions and the other she was crazy about me but I was living wrong, not cheating on her but I didn't want my personal life to affect her and her 2 kids so I just disappeared. It's all about going to God first. In the movie devil's advocate. The last line was: VANITY; IT GETS THEM EVERY TIME. People gotta do the Will of the Father before they do their own cause I know i messed up. And the lady that made this video she messed up to but may don't know where; she is NOT HEALED.
Preach! After being married for almost 20 years, Single life has been Heaven! When I’m ready to get back out there, I will but right now I am enjoying myself and this lovely, peaceful solitude✌🏾😊💜
Straight facts. A goal oriented woman can only have a supportive partner or none at all. The average man doesn’t want to see you live up to your full potential or god given mission. Most want you to make them the center of your life and take it as you “competing” with them if you have other interests besides “auditioning” for their attention. I’m not anti healthy relationships (keyword) but seeing how many of my girlfriends are enduring their marriages & lives instead of enjoying it….hmmm I feel even better about my choice to remain unmarried & childfree.
And if you running a business than watch out. Men will try to get with you because they see you and your money as a resource and will fill entitled to your money. I got one now trying to get super close to me, telling me about the stuff we could do together. I'm like boy, I don't need you! When I was broke he was not acting like this. Now that I'm about my business he won't leave me alone.
@@erikawright8134 OOOOH! Yes indeed! The kids call that "having motion". As soon as a man calls me "big money" or anything like that I take a BIIIG step back and dead the situation. I'm a creative professional and always meet men who want to "collaborate" and "build each other up" only after they notice how much I've accomplished on my own already smh. We on the same time sis. When they say "let em use ya" in chruch they weren't talking about no man. No thank you! lol
This young lady speaks truth I have been married 30yrs. I am definitely a man I try hard to keep my wife happy but I here women say exactly what she is saying. The truth sometimes hurt but not me she just helped me alot. I can do better and I am sure she can too keeping each other happy.
Men that don't want to be alone are red flags because they never did the inner work to heal wounds. That is a recipe for disaster. Everyone needs to be alone for some time to really work on themselves.
I just told my brother that if you see me or hear of me with a man, just know he done paid my home off & deposited a significant amount of money in my account with no strings attached... is it about money, yes, along with substance... every woman I know that was independent is now dependent on their husband/man and it seems like that was their goal to get them off their 💩 so they will need them... I'm 3yrs celibate and fnfree
Not one lie told. As soon as me and my ex broke it off, I was relieved and free. I was able to focus and went into straight beast mode. I got all the jobs I had been putting off or waiting for him to do.. Done and got serious about my goals. That was six years ago my business is thriving and his someones baby daddy. I wish him all the best.
Dating the wrong man will do the same as marriage I just went through this & I lost myself thank you I needed this & that microphone took me out 😂😂😂 u a trip ❤
She speaking truth. I stayed single for 28 years until i found what i wanted. I refused to settle for a needy, jealous, lazy a**, competitive man 😂😂 people use to think i was crazy for staying single for so long. And she’s right the men that are happy with their wives and they treat their wives well are not on these apps, hell mine’s doesn’t even have social media. Single ladies listen to her! 💯💯💯
True I almost got kicked out of my course because I was dating whole weekend instead of learning. I blocked my now fiancé until I was sure I could finish the course. And than I started talking to him again and let Im pay for the extra costs I made 😂😊
You don't have to tell me. There are getting worse by the second out here. Disrespectful and you not even in a relationship, nasty for no reason when you don't give them attention. You can't even mind your business without getting insulted. They talk bad if you celibate, married, single, CF, high or low body count. It doesn't matter, your a woman you are automatically disrespected and stereotyped.
You better speak girl!!!!!!!! I don’t want nobody running me low. We need to be happy too!!!! Periodtttt! Mentally, financially, and spiritually!!! Major Factz!!!
You are right!!! Many of the wrong men are Needy... Competitive... Jealous... The wrong man will set you back Mentally Financial Spiritually Men want to compete instead of collaborate. Men becoming the new "women." You said it RIGHT!!!!!!!
That goes for men too! If you are really trying to do something for yourself that requires 100% of your energy, you don't need to be in a relationship. Finding someone who is gonna unconditionally support your dream is like finding a needle in a haystack. Great message!
I'm GLAD that I chose to live my life without being bothered with a self centered and narcissistic man, who thinks that my sole purpose is to serve him, and I'm also glad that I chose not to have children because I never wanted to have them, and I HATE KIDS!!! I never could stand to be around children and I always felt like this since the age of 15 and I STILL do to this day!!! Living my life as a retired single and childfree Black woman is the best decision that I ever made!!!
This!! All my friends are married other than 1 and every single one of my married friends are unhappy in their marriages with their depressed and selfish husbands. How am I a single mother having better mother days, birthdays and Christmases. My children and extended family making sure that on these days I’m being appreciated and celebrated, however my friends are struggling to get their needs met on a day that’s supposed to be for them. The illusion of marriage have a lot of women in a choke hold and I know a few of my friends envy my life but also can’t believe that my life as a single mother is what they thought their lives would be as someone’s wife. They’re tired and stressed and I’m care free, thriving and travelling the world with my children.
Last guy, baby!!!! We sitting in the car I’m listening to the music here go his passive aggressive ass “ you know it’s good to sit in silence “ I replied “ I know that’s a choice but I feel like listening to the music, is it a problem for you, is the music bothering you bc if it is we can use our words?” He shook his head no.. so what are you talking about again?
I am Married and I approve this message! I love my husband, but I approve this message! 💯 I am telling you that this was GOD speaking! I’m not saying everyone needs to separate or divorce, but this beautiful woman just spoke the truth! A lot of the problem is that men don’t seek knowledge or wisdom from the most high 1st! Men just want to be 1st! Wanting and Being are two different things! I could go on & on! ❤💯🙏🏽🥰 SPIRIT of Discernment ✨
So true because there is nothing sexy or attractive about a man without his true God given self activated. And no it’s not all about them. Those self righteous religious males thinking they run stuff only run stuff off a cliff. Balance is what it takes and Being is it. I certainly understand you. I could have wrote it myself. Just like I don’t want to do anything in this world anymore but just Be. I told God this back in 2018. 💜
You have spoken nothing but 💯 truth!!! That's why I'm single today. I have experienced that with my ex before. Always in competition with you and constant gripping and complaining. There is peace inside my apartment. Thank you, Jesus!
Ladies, the most divine gift we have been blessed with are these media platforms and BM with mics projecting insecurity, jealousy and their emotional immaturity onto us in good company, that should tell you everything you need to know ❤
I love Ms. Tiffany and she and her wisdom are fierce👑💃🏽💐. I'm single, blessed, beautiful, at peace, healthy, and abundant😉🔑👑☯️💵💵💵🙌🏽. That's right being single is a fabulous blessing and we're done with sassy, misogynistic, NARC demonic males! She's telling the truth. Lord!
Girl tell it. She's right. It's better than to be happy and single than to be married and miserable. Ladies do not settle. If a man. Is not treating you right, let him go. It's gonna hurt at got but you will be happy that you did one day soon . I promise.😊. Be blessed 😇.
@@DJRenee especially running and taking care of a home. Being caretaker to them children and aging parents on their side of the family and the wives parents and most women work as well. Most men are needy and can't even think about how to elevate without a woman's guidance and input today.
@danniecurlett8702 it's the truth so many women are miserable in marriages. They're are married single wives. Doing everything from cleaning, cooking, caring for children and holding down full time job while the husband's do nothing to help.
She is right it doesn’t benefit women. Women gain 6 hours of labor when they marry. When children come into the picture marital satisfaction drops. In order to care for the children the WOMAN will have to give up her career or cut back her hours at work. Studies show women who marry and have children don’t finish college and they don’t climb the corporate ladder. Meanwhile men focus on their leisure activities. Look it up!
Listening to her and reading all the comments, sounds like you all got together with the wrong guy. There is more to a man than looks and his talk. Observe closely his spirit. Same of the woman. I dont know what to tell you ladies other than pay close attention to the mans spirit not his looks. Is that mans spirit and heart lead by his Creator of life or the deceiver of life. A man can have the looks and financial backing but if he is not your match, there is no peace. Ladies observe his spirit not looks. Thats what attracts. Your spirit will move with his spirit in an unspoken language that will lead the both of you to a fullfiling union. It’s that simple. .
No lies told, I work with 2 older white women that husband's have passed and baby they told me, they'll never remarry they good 😂 SO IT'S ALL OF US 😂 I've been divorced going on 14yrs 😂
i just love this!!!! the single life is lovely. her wisdom is immaculate!
her tiktok is (asktiffanyt) 💜🥰 go follow!
Word!
Fake news 🗞️
Is she on YT?
@S_Blunt i’ve only seen her on tiktok. i’ll look
Honey PREACH!!!!! I recently told a guy that in order for a man to bring me out a singleness, that man is going to have to be something extraordinary.
Same for me
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EXTRAORDINARY forreal!!!
Truth 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
THE HOLY GHOST in the flesh
She told no lies.. I seen it.. that microphone took me out.
That jealous part, preach!!! I tried my hand at something and profited significantly. The guy who I was dating started speaking negatively about my endeavor and secretly tried to do it on his own, but his credit was too bad to do it. 😂😂😂
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I hope you ghosted him while depositing your cash & checks💵🏧 😅
@@beeznhoney4323 Yes, I left him behind. Lol. 😂😂😂
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🌻👊🏽 Sisterly fist bump
When I say I have so many men in my home town that hate me because I'm happy in my single hood handling business and spending and saving my money as I please that hate when you happy with yourself 😂😂😂😂😂
I cannot keep a gardener!
They get to see up close & in person what a charmed life Puppy & I live. 😏
The audacity. Mad cause you won’t let them come disturb your peace. Because that’s all they really want to do their ego can’t let them be happy with a success confident women. Now we know the game and learned that we can be happy by ourselves it’s game over for the dusties.
Yeah, when I had two jobs, the men said I worked too much but wanted to come live with me said no
They are jealous losers
You're single because you're too masculine period.
I was very blessed with a good husband. I was married 27 years. My wonderful husband passed away in a car accident last year. I can say I enjoyed-marriage , not everyone is unhappy.She’s correct marry the wright person.
Sorry for your loss.
It’s these new marriages that could never last as long as yours.
💜💜💜 i’m so sorry. i’m glad that you got the happiness you deserve. thank you 💜
My condolences. I am a widow as well. I know you’re going through it. Rely heavily on the Most High and find peace in all of your memories with your husband. I hope you have his voice saved somewhere. Prayers be with you. ❤
U were truly blessed ,I don think u will get some1 like Ur husband.
Only 2% r good man,the rest r in abusive relationships.
I'm sorry for your loss
I’m a man and thank God I can function totally on my own but I have to agree with her….most men are definitely the new woman…..now I gots to agree on that 😂😂😂😂💪🏾
DRIZZLE DRIZZLE 😂
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Whatever makes them think being single is wrong? The peace and clarity are invaluable.
I started a new endeavor and Chile! it’s hard, but I am not giving up. One more thing you don’t need a man’s approval to start any business adventure. Period!
exactly!!! you got this!!!!
I've started, built, and ran several businesses...but building it with full support of my fiancée had been far less stressful for me. It's sad that the black collective, here in the US, doesn't get how important strong marriages are...good luck with your business, you've got this!
Say it louder for the people in the back. I approve and validate my self you heaarrddd .
What about God's (Yahweh) and "Jesus 👑 Christ" approval?🤔And, if you're running a successful business. I bet you that a man or men are still involved.
DRIZZLE DRIZZLE 😂
It’s the microphone 🎤 for emphasis for me! 😂😂😂😂😂💯
Had a man tell me I was a “ fuc$in idiot and nobody will ever invest in your business”…2 years, $5.2M and several million dollar partnerships later…here we are lol…stay single AF ladies
I’m a Tech Founder and Co-Host
yesss made the right choice for sure! you go girl! doing BIG things!
That's incredible!! May I ask what kind of business? Interested in starting something myself. Thanks!
@@tinukeajidele700 beautiful name. My mother’s name is Atinuke….i am a tech founder. I built an all in one e-commerce platform and have and am currently raising money. On my UA-cam channel, I’m teaching ppl how to leverage tech for their field
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Yes ma’am ❤
Misery loves company, yall.
You can be everything he ever wanted and then some, go the extra mile, be supportive, and answer every call.
He will still find a reason to complain if he’s not happy with himself. He’ll be unforgiving and salty for no reason if he’s unhappy about his actions and status in life. He can fool you sometimes but most times he’s just dragging you along for a ride through TraumaLand.
Study him before you go steady because love and respect is conditional to unfulfilled men.
Such good advice!!
Real..if he not happy w/self, u won't b happy; I saw this n live action, & it was sad. He tried to prove he had $, come to find out, he was STEALING $ offa a "rink-a-dink" credit card I HAD let him use for a $100, to get me 3 toiletries he never brought home, FOR ME, talking sh--, buying wd, going to restaurants on my money! The nerve. My sh-- was never good enough & I'm RICH😂! I just used to LISTEN & LOOK like these niccas so lost, broken & have not a clue what to do w/a thinking, well-rounded, mannerable woman. No clue. Crazy😂 but sad that black women don't have men. Their own. Really sad😢.
All facts !
Girl!!! 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯 This preaching comes from experience plus wisdom. 🙌🏾
#ImLovingBeingSingle 💕🤗💕
Wiser words haven't been spoken, yet.
I holler when she pulled out her portable Mic 😂😂🤣 for just in case you didn't hear her. I couldn't stop from rewinding that back. I've been single for a year now and I keep asking myself if I really want to do this again. Naw I'm not ready I'm still healing and thriving with paying myself all the attention ❤ self love is my thing.
lmaoooo the mic part got real!!!
yesss self love is beautiful. being single is so lovely. 🥰
I came for this....😂😂😂😂😂
yes funny lol 😂
lol yes I loved it
😂 Yes, I HOLLERED!!!! 🎤🎙️🤣.
She ain’t lying….👏🏾
right!!!!
Facts
She is right. Been telling this to so many women for years already, they thought i was strange and couldn't understand why I was happier single ..i will never, ever marry again, i don't date, celibate for 15 these years already and i don't miss any off it... because back than i already knew how sick men minds work. .. their is something wrong in their programming...They are mean, lazy at home, abusive mentally and or also physically, most of them can't provide by themselves, nor protect, many women need protection against their own husbands. They rape, many are pedofiles, or have sex with other men while married, they are disgusting...Human men who have no heart chakra activated, are insane, nasty and dangerous for many women. They even believe they are the prize and that gaslighting and mental abuse is the way to control and dominate women. Calling themselves a King...
God must be so dissapointed in these creatures. So many women don't want a relationship anymore now they are crying about that. Many are going to get exactly what they wished upon many women.
Can you share her name?@@taycassomadethat
Facts
Name one happily married man
I truly understand why my granny and mother never remarried.
When single I actually save money. Have more time for myself to grow. When in a relationship, he spends on me and I spend on him but for some reason I lose more. Like the young lady spoke in this video I lose mentally, spiritually, financially, emotionally . And one of my exes did say “it’s nice to have a woman in the house. I can’t be alone.” That was a red flag to me. And for the men out there, she did not say ALL men because she did stay if you do get married, married the RIGHT man.. ❤❤❤❤
When I was married, I was winning. He was the right kind of man. I had an old-fashioned man.
You lose more cause he breadcrumbs you while you giving him loaves of bread.
@@Keke-vs7gmbingo! Don’t spend anything on him. You are valuable enough. Especially if you give it your all, you don’t give up the purse too! 😅
"On this here Internet" okayyyyy
Facts! My male friends has all cried to me that they don't want to die single or how lonely they are. I told them i just fine.
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Girl when I was in the military in the barracks, one of them confessed and cried of how he’s so lonely and how he just wants to cuddle. 😂 it took everything in me not to laugh, I just told him, yeah.. well it won’t be me. Trying to signal me, so I just told him flat out, no.
Pure facts Sis!! I have zero desires to be married. I do what I want, when I want and I get to do it with all my self love, peace of God and all of my money that God gives me💯
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Yes ma’am 💯💯💯🙌🏾
Yesss, say it again ❤
YAS
True. I’m 10X less productive than when I was single and it grieves my spirit. He moving up and I feel stuck and exhausted.
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As a married women shes not lying About anything she said . When My husband & i was on really bad terms & i was over it we had separated not even 2 months later we has in a whole another relationship. I was Like Men Can take two 2 days single or alone without a female in they face
As a trying entrepreneur, I have less problems while single. Relationships are so complicated and I wish it was Different
DRIZZLE DRIZZLE 😂
When I was 8, I declared that I never wanted to be married. After 20+ years of relationships, I was right.
This the 1 right here 🎉 turning 40 and divorcing living my best life. They worst than kids very needy, selfish, dismissive, entitled etc wooo chile😂
Yall are dating the wrong men!
Jesus is my everything, I don't need a man.
@@Tyansofficial84YESSSS!!!!!! Girl you hit it right on the nail.
@@ALuxeLifeThank You!! Finally, a real and honest woman. A leader always stands on truth and out from the crowd. I salute you to the fullest!!
Let me add this, married men are happy because they know that when they have a woman at home, he can harvest her energy to heal himself while he’ll most likely leave her drained and share it with other women.
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Bingo! 🎯
I love this!!! Thank you!
No problem 😊
It’s the smacking my ass while eating cereal 🥣 for me 😂😂😂😂
Then the 🎙️ 😭
She speaking facts but I also wanna say that she is rocking that pink and glowing…..Beautiful woman❤❤
DRIZZLE DRIZZLE 😂
DRIZZLE DRIZZLE 😂
Singlehood is peace. I do what I want when I want. If I want to be bothered w/ a man, I will on my terms. Other that, they can keep it moving. Like the saying goes, "Catch flights NOT feelings".
Im miserably married. I wouldn't do it all over again. lol she stated nothing but facts. They cannot function without us!
But you are married and even though you are even if he's wrong that's personal. Maybe therapy but find your GOD GIVEN PURPOSE. Go to God. Ask him to fix you first and fix your marriage. Unless you reaching out to a therapist I'm not saying I'm right but I would delete your comment. Don't speak it into the air unless you in danger. I hope 🙏 you'll find God and let him take the wheel. Be Blessed ✌️
Coming from a married woman, I approve this message. If something happened to my husband today, I would NOT remarry. This men aren’t men anymore. They think that being an adult male makes them men. 🤦🏽♀️
Maybe so but I don't think most women are anything special nowadays either.
Thanks for sharing and being honest
@@moleahy6880They're not. Most of them act like men which is the real reason why they can't keep one.
Yes it was nice at 1st but wore me out over time. I was tired of caring for a man and getting little in return. It’s like I was married to a grown child. More like a moody teenager. I was tired of doing the cooking, cleaning, with little to no appreciation, he was emotionally draining, always disagreeable. We had some good times but I felt trapped . I will never remarry.
@@celeste7469 What could he have done to make you feel appreciated? How was he emotionally draining?
When a man 🗣️ “That’s why you single” TAKE IT AS A COMPLIMENT..
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ALL THE BLACK WOMEN IN MY FAMILY ARE MARRIED TO BLACK MEN AND ARE HAPPILY MARRIED.
Yep, I like that statement vs men bashing. We need each other, whn that car breaks down, who handles it? Whn something needs to be fixed around the house, we do it, we it comes to somebody breaking in the house. Who is the hero that suppose to go see what that noise was on the first floor. So to a certain extent we do need each other.
Well.said
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OBVIOUSLY, IF THEY'RE THAT HAPPY, YOU WON'T NEED TO LISTEN!!! BYE!
On point. All my married friends all they do is complaining about their husbands and have miserable lives.
Because they didn't know what a wife is before marriage and possibly the husband didn't know what a husband was so therfore neither know what the union is about. Don't take their frustration as marriage is bad because it's not. If it's part of The Most High will in your life then it will be Blessed
Marriage is a trick bag
No lie
A box of chocolates like forest gump said
It's a Ponzi scheme
@@IAMMYGOD.5858 Acid chocolates... the most!
Babybee AS Someone who's in the middle of a divorce Never the fuck again
I’m laughing so hard right now and totally agree! Walking around my house butt azz naked eating a bowl of cereal without a care in the world. Nothing like peace of mind!
She spoke nothing but Facts.
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We are lazy and dint want to pray and fast both men and women. Thank God i waited on Him.
Same. I truly enjoy being married and my husband is amazing. It truly saddens me when I see such division taking place.
I like your comment. People pointing the finger but the blame is not Asking The Most High for your assignment. I met my daughters mom and she was the worse. 2 other ladies I knew they were good but I stopped on one because I felt i wasn't good enough because her family was worth millions and the other she was crazy about me but I was living wrong, not cheating on her but I didn't want my personal life to affect her and her 2 kids so I just disappeared. It's all about going to God first.
In the movie devil's advocate.
The last line was: VANITY; IT GETS THEM EVERY TIME.
People gotta do the Will of the Father before they do their own cause I know i messed up. And the lady that made this video she messed up to but may don't know where; she is NOT HEALED.
Preach! After being married for almost 20 years, Single life has been Heaven! When I’m ready to get back out there, I will but right now I am enjoying myself and this lovely, peaceful solitude✌🏾😊💜
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Straight facts. A goal oriented woman can only have a supportive partner or none at all. The average man doesn’t want to see you live up to your full potential or god given mission. Most want you to make them the center of your life and take it as you “competing” with them if you have other interests besides “auditioning” for their attention.
I’m not anti healthy relationships (keyword) but seeing how many of my girlfriends are enduring their marriages & lives instead of enjoying it….hmmm I feel even better about my choice to remain unmarried & childfree.
And if you running a business than watch out. Men will try to get with you because they see you and your money as a resource and will fill entitled to your money. I got one now trying to get super close to me, telling me about the stuff we could do together. I'm like boy, I don't need you! When I was broke he was not acting like this. Now that I'm about my business he won't leave me alone.
@@erikawright8134 OOOOH! Yes indeed! The kids call that "having motion". As soon as a man calls me "big money" or anything like that I take a BIIIG step back and dead the situation.
I'm a creative professional and always meet men who want to "collaborate" and "build each other up" only after they notice how much I've accomplished on my own already smh. We on the same time sis. When they say "let em use ya" in chruch they weren't talking about no man. No thank you! lol
This young lady speaks truth I have been married 30yrs. I am definitely a man I try hard to keep my wife happy but I here women say exactly what she is saying. The truth sometimes hurt but not me she just helped me alot. I can do better and I am sure she can too keeping each other happy.
Why is she so fabulous? I love all of this ⭐️ 🔥
Sis done laid it on the line fr & put it out there. She told the TRUTH 💯 👑 💜
You are absolutely right, and I know this to be true.
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Men that don't want to be alone are red flags because they never did the inner work to heal wounds. That is a recipe for disaster. Everyone needs to be alone for some time to really work on themselves.
That’s why I just mind my business and commit to the cheese 🧀 💰💰💰💰💸
After being in a abusive relationship im happier single
I just told my brother that if you see me or hear of me with a man, just know he done paid my home off & deposited a significant amount of money in my account with no strings attached... is it about money, yes, along with substance... every woman I know that was independent is now dependent on their husband/man and it seems like that was their goal to get them off their 💩 so they will need them... I'm 3yrs celibate and fnfree
I am on that single journey and I see and feel the difference. I am happier and my goals are going to be fulfilled.
55 married twice
She EXACTLY RIGHT💪🏾👏🏽👍🏾✌🏾
Married and divorced twice? You definitely the problem 😂😂😂😂
@@DadieBoachie😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
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Not one lie told. As soon as me and my ex broke it off, I was relieved and free. I was able to focus and went into straight beast mode. I got all the jobs I had been putting off or waiting for him to do.. Done and got serious about my goals. That was six years ago my business is thriving and his someones baby daddy. I wish him all the best.
Dating the wrong man will do the same as marriage I just went through this & I lost myself thank you I needed this & that microphone took me out 😂😂😂 u a trip ❤
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@@fightbackjunior I’m not gone lie the drizzle drizzle comeback is hilarious but it’s still sprinkle sprinkle dusty
Ty for your honesty and candor I appreciate you hope to see more of your videos 😊
You are right. I wasted yesrs in a relationship with a man that was jealous and competitive. Everytime I tried to start a business it was negativity
She speaking truth. I stayed single for 28 years until i found what i wanted. I refused to settle for a needy, jealous, lazy a**, competitive man 😂😂 people use to think i was crazy for staying single for so long. And she’s right the men that are happy with their wives and they treat their wives well are not on these apps, hell mine’s doesn’t even have social media. Single ladies listen to her! 💯💯💯
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True I almost got kicked out of my course because I was dating whole weekend instead of learning. I blocked my now fiancé until I was sure I could finish the course. And than I started talking to him again and let Im pay for the extra costs I made 😂😊
Exactly. Stay focused on your goals.
I approve this message 1000%‼️
I’m with u when u right 💯✅ u spoke truth
You don't have to tell me. There are getting worse by the second out here. Disrespectful and you not even in a relationship, nasty for no reason when you don't give them attention. You can't even mind your business without getting insulted. They talk bad if you celibate, married, single, CF, high or low body count. It doesn't matter, your a woman you are automatically disrespected and stereotyped.
I approve this message ❤ I’m the happiest I ever been since my divorce. Single and loving it ❤
Me too
‼️ same here
Same here.. and I will Never Ever do that ish again.
@@roseinharlem8152 I agree no ma am lol
And have been thriving ever since ❤
Thank you sis! Ur soo beautiful ❤
I needed this
you and me both!
You better speak girl!!!!!!!! I don’t want nobody running me low. We need to be happy too!!!! Periodtttt! Mentally, financially, and spiritually!!! Major Factz!!!
You are right!!!
Many of the wrong men are
Needy... Competitive... Jealous...
The wrong man will set you back
Mentally
Financial
Spiritually
Men want to compete instead of collaborate.
Men becoming the new "women."
You said it RIGHT!!!!!!!
That goes for men too! If you are really trying to do something for yourself that requires 100% of your energy, you don't need to be in a relationship. Finding someone who is gonna unconditionally support your dream is like finding a needle in a haystack. Great message!
Her words are wisdom!
(That microphone🤣 cracked me up!)
I approve this message! 💯
I'm GLAD that I chose to live my life without being bothered with a self centered and narcissistic man, who thinks that my sole purpose is to serve him, and I'm also glad that I chose not to have children because I never wanted to have them, and I HATE KIDS!!! I never could stand to be around children and I always felt like this since the age of 15 and I STILL do to this day!!! Living my life as a retired single and childfree Black woman is the best decision that I ever made!!!
i feel you on all this!!!
This!! All my friends are married other than 1 and every single one of my married friends are unhappy in their marriages with their depressed and selfish husbands. How am I a single mother having better mother days, birthdays and Christmases. My children and extended family making sure that on these days I’m being appreciated and celebrated, however my friends are struggling to get their needs met on a day that’s supposed to be for them. The illusion of marriage have a lot of women in a choke hold and I know a few of my friends envy my life but also can’t believe that my life as a single mother is what they thought their lives would be as someone’s wife. They’re tired and stressed and I’m care free, thriving and travelling the world with my children.
Last guy, baby!!!! We sitting in the car I’m listening to the music here go his passive aggressive ass “ you know it’s good to sit in silence “ I replied “ I know that’s a choice but I feel like listening to the music, is it a problem for you, is the music bothering you bc if it is we can use our words?” He shook his head no.. so what are you talking about again?
❤ BOOM 💥 MESSAGE 👌. I'm 😂hollering when she broke out with the 🎤 action.
Not the mic!!!!😂😂
I am Married and I approve this message! I love my husband, but I approve this message! 💯 I am telling you that this was GOD speaking! I’m not saying everyone needs to separate or divorce, but this beautiful woman just spoke the truth! A lot of the problem is that men don’t seek knowledge or wisdom from the most high 1st! Men just want to be 1st! Wanting and Being are two different things! I could go on & on! ❤💯🙏🏽🥰 SPIRIT of Discernment ✨
So true because there is nothing sexy or attractive about a man without his true God given self activated. And no it’s not all about them. Those self righteous religious males thinking they run stuff only run stuff off a cliff. Balance is what it takes and Being is it. I certainly understand you. I could have wrote it myself. Just like I don’t want to do anything in this world anymore but just Be. I told God this back in 2018. 💜
You are absolutely correct.
Omg that jealousy part also competition that’s the worst
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You have spoken nothing but 💯 truth!!! That's why I'm single today. I have experienced that with my ex before. Always in competition with you and constant gripping and complaining. There is peace inside my apartment. Thank you, Jesus!
🗣🎤"BUNCH O' BUMZZZZZ"😂😂😂 We heard you, sis!❤
Went on a 3-day vacation w a married woman who complained about her miserable marriage all 3 days. Pathetic.
I would NEVER travel with her again 😂
@@Jaysim2 Never will again!
Yes! Make sure you marry the right person.
Gurl 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
I love this message ❤
I totally agree. Being single is happiest I’ve been in a long time ❤
Not the mic😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹🎯💯🔥🙌🏾
Needy, competitive, jealous...totally on point! 😮
Girl, this thought just crossed my mind yesterday. Was thinking of starting a small daycare business and I heard a thought “stay single”
I love her … that’s real talk ❤
this sis is on point. she tells the truth
It definitely goes both ways Fr Fr
Preach my Sister. I've been single for almost 10 years and I have so much joy!!
Ladies, the most divine gift we have been blessed with are these media platforms and BM with mics projecting insecurity, jealousy and their emotional immaturity onto us in good company, that should tell you everything you need to know ❤
The drizzle drizzle men are exposing themselves which makes our job easier dodging them
I love Ms. Tiffany and she and her wisdom are fierce👑💃🏽💐. I'm single, blessed, beautiful, at peace, healthy, and abundant😉🔑👑☯️💵💵💵🙌🏽. That's right being single is a fabulous blessing and we're done with sassy, misogynistic, NARC demonic males! She's telling the truth. Lord!
Tks for sharing you are so right❤❤❤
❤❤❤Well spoken and said FACTS LOVE ❤️ THIS MESSAGE
They are even jealous when you are praying to the Most High.
Girl tell it. She's right. It's better than to be happy and single than to be married and miserable. Ladies do not settle. If a man. Is not treating you right, let him go. It's gonna hurt at got but you will be happy that you did one day soon . I promise.😊. Be blessed 😇.
Marriage doesn't benefit women it benefits men
thats a lie
TREMENDOUSLY. They undervalue or don't understand the free services they get from their wife or women in General.
@@DJRenee especially running and taking care of a home. Being caretaker to them children and aging parents on their side of the family and the wives parents and most women work as well. Most men are needy and can't even think about how to elevate without a woman's guidance and input today.
@danniecurlett8702 it's the truth so many women are miserable in marriages. They're are married single wives. Doing everything from cleaning, cooking, caring for children and holding down full time job while the husband's do nothing to help.
She is right it doesn’t benefit women. Women gain 6 hours of labor when they marry. When children come into the picture marital satisfaction drops. In order to care for the children the WOMAN will have to give up her career or cut back her hours at work. Studies show women who marry and have children don’t finish college and they don’t climb the corporate ladder. Meanwhile men focus on their leisure activities. Look it up!
Listening to her and reading all the comments, sounds like you all got together with the wrong guy. There is more to a man than looks and his talk. Observe closely his spirit. Same of the woman.
I dont know what to tell you ladies other than pay close attention to the mans spirit not his looks. Is that mans spirit and heart lead by his Creator of life or the deceiver of life.
A man can have the looks and financial backing but if he is not your match, there is no peace.
Ladies observe his spirit not looks. Thats what attracts. Your spirit will move with his spirit in an unspoken language that will lead the both of you to a fullfiling union. It’s that simple.
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Agreed. Shades link, please
I just spit my drink out when that mic 🎤 came out😂😂😂
lmaoooo. she funny af
Absolutely 💯‼️
No lies told, I work with 2 older white women that husband's have passed and baby they told me, they'll never remarry they good 😂 SO IT'S ALL OF US 😂 I've been divorced going on 14yrs 😂
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