You know, it’s crazy in the beginning, but the PEACE you feel after the storm ⛈️ it all balances out. You just have to keep moving ❤ plus it makes you stronger, and its a time of reflection, and it teaches you lessons, pain also has lessons, the best one is knowing what you deserve, and to love yourself, and work on your healing process. That space will transform you if you give yourself that space ❤❤❤ wish her much happiness, and peace!!
It's been 4 years for me since my husband left. I am raising two kids alone. It does not get better or easier-the pain is still here and the loneliness of not having your husband supporting you, not having a partner to raise the kids with-it never gets easy, it's very painful and lonely. And even if you get into a new relationship, it's not the same-because the new guy is not the father of your kids
@@immealldayeveryday9425friends? They are nothing like each other. It's very well known that J Lo doesn't have any friends in the business. She hasn't done herself any favours over the years also, by dissing everyone...thinking she's so much better than everyone else, yet not even being equal to them in talent and popularity.
@@helenjoanna49 yes they are do some research instead on just reading fake gossip, and how in the world did JLO even get mentioned here, y’all so damn miserable is pathetic
It sucks women still sacrifice so much for men and they ditch their family in a heart beat no matter how great the woman they’re with it’s pointless women need to stop having kids cause they just get exploited by their partner and most men stil don’t even help with the kids or contribute much to the family anyhow
So true. Women sacrifice their bodies and their energy while the men are deadbeat dads. That's why I refused to get married. I almost got married once and found out the dude was also talking to other women just before the wedding. How do you still marry someone when you are having multiple affairs with other people. After asking him for the hundredth time he confessed that he was scouting around for the best option. At least he was honest before the wedding.
Her relationship with her kids is beautiful though. Ideally she'll have two amazing men in her life that will be there for her always that she would never have had had she feared being exploited by her partner and chosen not to open herself up for the intense ride raising children is.
Eh. Many do. Personally I could care less at this point, doesn’t affect me. I think it affects people more who stick around because that open wound continues to bleed. When you cut your losses, it means you accept their character for what it is and move on. I think the problem lies when women blame themselves when in reality it has nothing to do with the woman, because he will cheat on the next one too. A respectful man with morals if a relationship breaks down will sit there and discuss it with you and respectfully decide to end the relationship, cowards and people who lack integrity cheat.
It's refreshing when someone with her celebrity status is so authentic and down to earth. And I agree with her: friendship is more important. Romantic love is elusive and deceiving.
I think it's a process of healing yourself for sure. Cheating is breaking a bond of trust and it doesn't ever truly heal but it rather closes itself up on the person. You forgive what happened without blaming yourself for it. It's the beauty found in time. She has never been alone without being coupled because she felt she needed that. So now it's time for her to learn the deeper value of friendship, she is entering a new chapter in her life. Friendships can come in different shapes and places, even in the form of a new partner down the line. I feel like we've seen it lately, a lot of women who were coupled for a while had to break things up for reasons known or unknown to the public eye, but they found themselves and a person that truly appreciated them soon after. I hope she gets to know herself better and finds her own confidence as an individual again first. We missed her self expression through music so much and I'm sure she missed it as well. Te amamos Shak! ❤
The issue is… Pique left his last girlfriend for her, then he did the same to her. If he does it to the last girl, he will most definitely do it to you. I’ve seen it time and time again.
it's different, don't you think? having a girlfriend and left her, and havin a wife, who you live 10 years with, have 2 children and humiliate his kid's mother like this? i can understand that passion is a thing that can disappear in some point, but he could've did this in other way, ask for a divorce before he cheated on her wife.
@@MariaMaria-nh3to it’s not different just because the relationship lasted longer. IMO men who overlap relationships like this have issues and tend to repeat the same Behavior even if they get tamed for sometime and maybe he never was and she just found out, who knows. I know a married man who harasses me despite being married. He started dating her ten years ago. Time makes no difference to men with bad patterns. I actually recently followed a criminal case of a man where he started dating his ex wife right after he divorced his last and even before the divorce proceedings were complete. Then despite having four children. And being married to years for her he then started having an affair. Same story - just way worse outcome. I have seen it over and over and over again. Healthy men fully end previous relationships and frankly if a new woman catches his eye so quickly that he dumps his then girlfriend, don’t you think eventually another woman will also catch his eye? And whether or men or society want to follow what should be done is a diff story but most people should take a break after every relationship and work on themselves and assess what went wrong in their last one before moving onto someone else or you continue the same patterns over and over again. That said very few men in particular do this.
Her ex is trash 🗑🗑🗑 Sadly I find a lot of women are like that, they put their partners before their friends and then realize later that they still need their friends because their partner doesn’t last
I will always love Shakira it’s not her being trending it’s just her as a person she’s always so cool nice and down to earth. I wish her the best and also no more Botox your beautiful as is shakira shakira
I like that she’s been honest about how she feels which is hard when society is so, so, so used to not listening and emphasizing but instead so quick to tell people that they shouldn’t feel this way or that way and even before you start healing they want you to fake it until you make it. No more of that please, we need to be more empathetic and mature mentally and emotionally to the point of listening and not saying anything if it’s not going to help.
I really love your taste and style always so chic. 👌My faves would be the #kkuwan leather backpack and the Swarovski pave diamond ring so gorg. 💓Thank you for your recommendations.
Yes but she also has to travel halfway across the world for things and go through a public breakup etc. but in general yes most other single moms probably have it harderZ
This is from singapore , She is my favourite singer . Shakira love her style so natural and she is still as beautiful as ever. I wish her success in her new life and new her album. Im Sure she will find the love of her life soon ❤️💕💕💕💕💕💕
She's one great woman who wouldn't let herseld be a victim of an unfaithful partner despite the circumstances like having kids. Whether or not she finds another partner, she already got two cool boys around her. ❤❤
Virtual hug! I am with you and agree. I will not find love again as the last 10+ years was my story. Been there done that… would have preferred to had salvaged the friendship verse going forward with the relationship. To be honest it was both the most beautiful and at times the less fortunate. But isn’t everything… but my path forward is to surrender to friendship and loving myself ❤️
Always tell the truth to your child true!And try to ttell the truth with no hate, anger , frustration words toward the father or mother in front of your chidren I have learn that going throught a messy divorce myself...kids never have to pay for adult issues ! Not always easy but later in the future children will respect you more and won't resent you ! The best decision you take for the safety of your children.
Happiness makes up in height for what it lacks in length. -Robert Frost You may not be happy every single moment of your life, but learn to relish those moments filled with joy. You can’t rely on a man or a woman to make you happy for the rest of your life. Happiness comes from within you.
This is not a rule, but it just seems as if you’re setting yourself up for failure if you as a woman choose a male partner who is ten years younger than you. While going through menopause, you’ve got a man beside you who’s nowhere near slowing down. He’s still gross, but we do choose our partners. You have to consider all the factors.
I think she set herself up for failure when they both cheated on their partner. He was young and a playboy. I think 23 is very young. They can have a 10 year age gap ,but maybe it would have worked better if he was 33 and she was 43. Same age gap ,but more maturity from him. Never trust a playboy and a cheater!he won't change. What goes around comes around!there are women who have a late menopause. Also many VIP are on hormonal therapy
The only 2 things that women own are there independence & there reputations that's the 2 things men can't take from us so it's good to maintain them both well
A single mother is when the kids as no father, the kids know their father, spend time with their father, both has nannies and are surrounded in $millions.
I can't feel too sorry for her. She's a multi millionaire. She probably has nannys and lots of help. My husband died when our children were 12, 10, 6, and 4. I didn't have all that. I never get it when these people say how hard life is.
And? Because you have world other people can’t express their feelings because for you is not so bad???? How selfish is that??? Than you shoul d not comment about how hard your life is since the re are women who are por with kids being abused with out a family!!!! WAKE UP THERE IS ALWAYS SOME ONE IN A WORST SITUATION THAN US BUT THAT IS NOT A REASON FOR US TO NOT EXPRESS DISCONFORT AND SADNESS ABOUT THINGS HAPPENING IN OUR LIVES!
You don’t really need to play the comparison game. Someone somewhere always has it worse than you, doesn’t mean what people go through is less painful. It’s like someone saying oh you have a chronic illness and are suffering terribly - oh quit complaining I had a family member that died. Life doesn’t work like that. Both individuals suffered in their own way.
@JacintaParraga Come on, the guy is an Alpha male young beautiful woman are lining up for, it's nature. And she is far out of her prime and Botox show she is insecure of herself as she is in reality.
How selfish is to leave your wife and kids?! First, they should be married because that paper mean something. Second, man must be a man and be there for his family .When man start to fill something for another girl, he must run and save his marriage and family. Once, my friend told me he is in love with me and we should stop seeing each other and we did . I' m sad because I lost my friend but happy because he is still with his wife and his children are growing with him.That's a man!
If she want to feel more secure she need come back to the reality time flies by aging. Lower her standards and engage someone appropriate age and average attractiveness, or this sob story debacle will repeat over and over, again and again.
I love how she’s not afraid to show her vulnerability, maybe that single thing is her strength ❤
She didn´t loose anything, he is for the streets .... she is an intelligent, beautiful and talented woman, she will find someone at her level!
Yes to that 👏🏽 ❤
He's not graceful enough to match her. I am so glad her kids look like her, not him.
@@ira_herself997 Lol, I men he is not bad, but he is defo not as smart as her!
*Lose* anything
Loose is an adjective like when your hair is down, loose hair vs updo
With 2 kids yeah ok
Her outfit is gorgeous & I admire her strength 🩷
Lol😂
What Shakira says about friendship is so true!
What the time stamp
Nah, she just says that because she just went through a rough patch. But friendships can break too
Shakira is my favourite female artist she's so talented . She's doing great as a single mum. She's wise and honest about life.❤
You know, it’s crazy in the beginning, but the PEACE you feel after the storm ⛈️ it all balances out. You just have to keep moving ❤ plus it makes you stronger, and its a time of reflection, and it teaches you lessons, pain also has lessons, the best one is knowing what you deserve, and to love yourself, and work on your healing process. That space will transform you if you give yourself that space ❤❤❤ wish her much happiness, and peace!!
It's been 4 years for me since my husband left. I am raising two kids alone. It does not get better or easier-the pain is still here and the loneliness of not having your husband supporting you, not having a partner to raise the kids with-it never gets easy, it's very painful and lonely. And even if you get into a new relationship, it's not the same-because the new guy is not the father of your kids
@@JuliaSochnikova Don´t understand new guy(fertile) can accept and raise other guys responsibility.
She is so delightful to see and listen Skaki is one of a kind ❤
Having gone through my own personal catharsis of a separation, Shakira's insight is right on point.
You got this Shakira ❤⭐️❤️🔥
I hope that Shakira will find her way back to her old strength. And there will be a concert on a world tour with a stopover in Cologne.
Loved this interview 🙌 😊shes so strong and beautiful ❤loved all she said and so true!
that's what friends are for. make sure we surround ourselves with true friends.
The difference in Shakira and how candid she is compared to J Lo's BS. Shakira has so much more self awareness. Long reign La Reina Shaki 👑 ❤❤
Shakira is a normal person..jlo is attention, drama think she is a diva
Crazy that you say this when JLO and Shakira are friends
@@immealldayeveryday9425friends? They are nothing like each other. It's very well known that J Lo doesn't have any friends in the business. She hasn't done herself any favours over the years also, by dissing everyone...thinking she's so much better than everyone else, yet not even being equal to them in talent and popularity.
There is no reason to be hating on J. Lo in these comments . That's one thing Shakira would never do .
@@helenjoanna49 yes they are do some research instead on just reading fake gossip, and how in the world did JLO even get mentioned here, y’all so damn miserable is pathetic
It sucks women still sacrifice so much for men and they ditch their family in a heart beat no matter how great the woman they’re with it’s pointless women need to stop having kids cause they just get exploited by their partner and most men stil don’t even help with the kids or contribute much to the family anyhow
You think that's exclusive to women or that it happens to both men and women
Primarily women, by a vast majority.
So true. Women sacrifice their bodies and their energy while the men are deadbeat dads. That's why I refused to get married. I almost got married once and found out the dude was also talking to other women just before the wedding. How do you still marry someone when you are having multiple affairs with other people. After asking him for the hundredth time he confessed that he was scouting around for the best option. At least he was honest before the wedding.
Her relationship with her kids is beautiful though. Ideally she'll have two amazing men in her life that will be there for her always that she would never have had had she feared being exploited by her partner and chosen not to open herself up for the intense ride raising children is.
Amen!
I don't think anyone ever truly heals from being cheated on.
Same - and having that girl up in your house, in your fridge, in your bed?! Agh! Violation of trust and space!
Correct, it leaves you a horrible wound that even if it closes, the scar pains you during different weahters.
@@basicallyno1722 and being Shakira
@@vcada4756 😅 yes and being Shakira
Eh. Many do. Personally I could care less at this point, doesn’t affect me. I think it affects people more who stick around because that open wound continues to bleed. When you cut your losses, it means you accept their character for what it is and move on. I think the problem lies when women blame themselves when in reality it has nothing to do with the woman, because he will cheat on the next one too. A respectful man with morals if a relationship breaks down will sit there and discuss it with you and respectfully decide to end the relationship, cowards and people who lack integrity cheat.
Shakira is my favourite celebrity...she seems to be genuine and very very smart and she has integrity for real!
Great interview, one of my favorite artists. ❤
It's refreshing when someone with her celebrity status is so authentic and down to earth. And I agree with her: friendship is more important. Romantic love is elusive and deceiving.
She is just so wonderful 😊
I think it's a process of healing yourself for sure. Cheating is breaking a bond of trust and it doesn't ever truly heal but it rather closes itself up on the person. You forgive what happened without blaming yourself for it. It's the beauty found in time. She has never been alone without being coupled because she felt she needed that. So now it's time for her to learn the deeper value of friendship, she is entering a new chapter in her life. Friendships can come in different shapes and places, even in the form of a new partner down the line. I feel like we've seen it lately, a lot of women who were coupled for a while had to break things up for reasons known or unknown to the public eye, but they found themselves and a person that truly appreciated them soon after. I hope she gets to know herself better and finds her own confidence as an individual again first. We missed her self expression through music so much and I'm sure she missed it as well. Te amamos Shak! ❤
The issue is… Pique left his last girlfriend for her, then he did the same to her. If he does it to the last girl, he will most definitely do it to you. I’ve seen it time and time again.
it's different, don't you think? having a girlfriend and left her, and havin a wife, who you live 10 years with, have 2 children and humiliate his kid's mother like this? i can understand that passion is a thing that can disappear in some point, but he could've did this in other way, ask for a divorce before he cheated on her wife.
she was not his wife=they were not married @@MariaMaria-nh3to
Wow I didn’t know that
@@MariaMaria-nh3to it’s not different just because the relationship lasted longer. IMO men who overlap relationships like this have issues and tend to repeat the same Behavior even if they get tamed for sometime and maybe he never was and she just found out, who knows. I know a married man who harasses me despite being married. He started dating her ten years ago. Time makes no difference to men with bad patterns.
I actually recently followed a criminal case of a man where he started dating his ex wife right after he divorced his last and even before the divorce proceedings were complete. Then despite having four children. And being married to years for her he then started having an affair. Same story - just way worse outcome. I have seen it over and over and over again. Healthy men fully end previous relationships and frankly if a new woman catches his eye so quickly that he dumps his then girlfriend, don’t you think eventually another woman will also catch his eye? And whether or men or society want to follow what should be done is a diff story but most people should take a break after every relationship and work on themselves and assess what went wrong in their last one before moving onto someone else or you continue the same patterns over and over again. That said very few men in particular do this.
It's the same for this type of people.A cheater is and will be always a cheater. What goes around comes around@@MariaMaria-nh3to
Love from South Africa Shakira.
Her ex is trash 🗑🗑🗑
Sadly I find a lot of women are like that, they put their partners before their friends and then realize later that they still need their friends because their partner doesn’t last
It must’ve been so painful to have everything shattered like that.. music is really therapeutic
So much love from South Africa, you will always have our love
I will always love Shakira it’s not her being trending it’s just her as a person she’s always so cool nice and down to earth. I wish her the best and also no more Botox your beautiful as is shakira shakira
I like that she’s been honest about how she feels which is hard when society is so, so, so used to not listening and emphasizing but instead so quick to tell people that they shouldn’t feel this way or that way and even before you start healing they want you to fake it until you make it. No more of that please, we need to be more empathetic and mature mentally and emotionally to the point of listening and not saying anything if it’s not going to help.
One she never was married bless you Shakira your strong woman ❤❤
I really love your taste and style always so chic. 👌My faves would be the #kkuwan leather backpack and the Swarovski pave diamond ring so gorg. 💓Thank you for your recommendations.
Where can I watch the whole interview?
Well she has nannies, cooks, cleaners, and assistants. It will not be as intense for her as for a regular single mum.
Yes but she also has to travel halfway across the world for things and go through a public breakup etc. but in general yes most other single moms probably have it harderZ
This is from singapore , She is my favourite singer . Shakira love her style so natural and she is still as beautiful as ever. I wish her success in her new life and new her album. Im Sure she will find the love of her life soon ❤️💕💕💕💕💕💕
I’m sure she will find love again, and it will be better than her ex’s love
Honestly, she's got 2 cute boys who will be able to satisfy all her needs in a few years..
She's one great woman who wouldn't let herseld be a victim of an unfaithful partner despite the circumstances like having kids. Whether or not she finds another partner, she already got two cool boys around her. ❤❤
You need your sleep, Shakira. You need your health. The boys need you.
Virtual hug! I am with you and agree. I will not find love again as the last 10+ years was my story. Been there done that… would have preferred to had salvaged the friendship verse going forward with the relationship. To be honest it was both the most beautiful and at times the less fortunate. But isn’t everything… but my path forward is to surrender to friendship and loving myself ❤️
Friendship last longer than love,wow i think i needed to hear this
Always tell the truth to your child true!And try to ttell the truth with no hate, anger , frustration words toward the father or mother in front of your chidren I have learn that going throught a messy divorce myself...kids never have to pay for adult issues ! Not always easy but later in the future children will respect you more and won't resent you ! The best decision you take for the safety of your children.
This candid interview is inspiring
Love Shakira! Truly a global icon. ❣
Actualy shakira, when singing with her boys of with piano that the song so much.Its songs also touch my heart.
Love you 😊😊
I'm dealing with the same situation but flipside as a male so indulging with friends and my music and teaching myself more string instruments
Im hoping for Shakira to come to Orlando.Fl
Her english is very good
Happiness makes up in height for what it lacks in length. -Robert Frost
You may not be happy every single moment of your life, but learn to relish those moments filled with joy. You can’t rely on a man or a woman to make you happy for the rest of your life. Happiness comes from within you.
They were never married just boyfriend and girlfriend and parents for 12 years.
Right there with ya girl!❤
Keep strong top lady❤
Divorce? They were never married.
Exactly 😂 she didn’t want to get married
@@MzAquashe’s smart, imagine how much she’d be paying in alimony now.
I love Shakira I hope she meets a loving and caring partner that values her.
She wasn’t even married, and the narrator is saying she got divorced LOL! These people can’t even get their information correct!
Smart woman
Indeed she's healing maybe not totally but you can see that she's starting to calm down and she's getting pretty again.😍😍🥰
Yeah. My former husband and I started as friends and are still friends even though we're not together.
11 year old Millen? I thought it was Milan, like the city in Italy.
Shakira wasn't married in the first place to get divorced.
WONDERFUL WOMAN
This is not a rule, but it just seems as if you’re setting yourself up for failure if you as a woman choose a male partner who is ten years younger than you. While going through menopause, you’ve got a man beside you who’s nowhere near slowing down. He’s still gross, but we do choose our partners. You have to consider all the factors.
I think she set herself up for failure when they both cheated on their partner. He was young and a playboy. I think 23 is very young. They can have a 10 year age gap ,but maybe it would have worked better if he was 33 and she was 43. Same age gap ,but more maturity from him. Never trust a playboy and a cheater!he won't change.
What goes around comes around!there are women who have a late menopause. Also many VIP are on hormonal therapy
@@SE-hh4vxAgree completely
Wait 47 where
💯💯💯
Now you a single mom!! Now you a single mom!! 🎶🎵
I don’t think she divorced they broke up they were never married
Divorce ? I didn’t think she was married .
She was not
Is it me or she’s done something to her face?
right??????
looks like lip injections =\
she did something to her face or maybe it's a filter.
Divorce? When was she married?
i see why you will never be and if you are i feel sorry for him . HATER
She is strong women, her career was in control because of her ex, now she now much earner than her ex.
Shakira is a normal person, great view on kids...
The only 2 things that women own are there independence & there reputations that's the 2 things men can't take from us so it's good to maintain them both well
Some will come for both of those things too. It’s called an abusive narc
I thought she wasn’t married to him?
She's strong
Divorce???? SHE WAS NEVER MARRIED DING DONG
La reina Shakira!!! 💓💓💓
A single mother is when the kids as no father, the kids know their father, spend time with their father, both has nannies and are surrounded in $millions.
I can't feel too sorry for her. She's a multi millionaire. She probably has nannys and lots of help. My husband died when our children were 12, 10, 6, and 4. I didn't have all that. I never get it when these people say how hard life is.
Wait that guy in Instagram is your friend? You guys are so darn cute
She doesn't want people to feel.sorry. i believe Is just the opposite. You just did not get the message
And? Because you have world other people can’t express their feelings because for you is not so bad???? How selfish is that??? Than you shoul d not comment about how hard your life is since the re are women who are por with kids being abused with out a family!!!! WAKE UP THERE IS ALWAYS SOME ONE IN A WORST SITUATION THAN US BUT THAT IS NOT A REASON FOR US TO NOT EXPRESS DISCONFORT AND SADNESS ABOUT THINGS HAPPENING IN OUR LIVES!
You don’t really need to play the comparison game. Someone somewhere always has it worse than you, doesn’t mean what people go through is less painful. It’s like someone saying oh you have a chronic illness and are suffering terribly - oh quit complaining I had a family member that died. Life doesn’t work like that. Both individuals suffered in their own way.
@JacintaParraga Come on, the guy is an Alpha male young beautiful woman are lining up for, it's nature. And she is far out of her prime and Botox show she is insecure of herself as she is in reality.
I feel so bad for rich people. Such a tough life.
As in the past when the rich woman even hired breast feeders.
Yes friendship last longer then love 👍👍👍
I am single mum as well making ends meet. it is much easier to be single mum when you have all those resources as she has.
How selfish is to leave your wife and kids?! First, they should be married because that paper mean something. Second, man must be a man and be there for his family .When man start to fill something for another girl, he must run and save his marriage and family. Once, my friend told me he is in love with me and we should stop seeing each other and we did . I' m sad because I lost my friend but happy because he is still with his wife and his children are growing with him.That's a man!
They were never married
I love you shakira
You will find it again.
A clickbait. She doesn't talk about the split from Pique. Just some classic generic phrases.
As if they were married. They weren't husband and wife but boyfriend and girlfriend cohabiting
Shakira, love never dies…. Friendships and relationships do!
True love ends up being friendship. She confuses narcissistic love with love. With Pique, obviously it was not love but narcissism.
You hit the nail on the head.
Come on, she is too old for a still Alpha male, woman are lining up for him, Instead she should pick someone down the alpha scale and be more secure.
Live putting God first day by day everything be ok
i could never see a chemistry or that they suited each other...anyway, if she found love then that is fine and the jounrey is over.
She's been single before. Who are you talking about?
LIES. SHE NEVER MARRIED
I lover her thinking
So true
Single mothers in the chat coping.
Image if woman like shakira got cheated in , how we woman have a hope found a loyalty man in this world 😅
Queen 🇦🇷 ❤♥️ ❤🎶 ❤❤️ ❤💖 ❤😄 ❤❤
Please don't start messing with your face..
Too late😂
i love shakira!!
I mean she is not exactly like other single parents. She is a multimillionaire that is functionally retired.
If she want to feel more secure she need come back to the reality time flies by aging. Lower her standards and engage someone appropriate age and average attractiveness, or this sob story debacle will repeat over and over, again and again.
She will never get another boyfriend will take a pool. She treated last two boyfriends a piece of something you get on bottom of your shoe.
I thought she had never married officially?
How on earth this woman is 47😮😮