My ex dedicated this song to me after he had cheated on me & convinced me everything would be better if I gave him another chance. I did & it was the most emotionally & physically abusive relationship I've ever been in. Now, a year later, I listen to this song & think of how right he was about me deserving better & how thankful I am that I realized you can't change a cold-hearted person & now I have a more trustworthy, mature, & loving boyfriend.
The pain we feel in this life is caused by our own expectations. Last night my girlfriend left me because of how much I work. We were together for a year, and six months. It sucks, but life continues, and I will always have family, and friends that will help me through this time. Remember ladies and gents, even though you gave your heart to someone, it doesn't mean you can't move on. You lived X amount of years without them, and you can continue on without them. Stay strong, keep your chins up. Pain is finite, much like our existence. Live your life to impress yourselves. Thank you for reading this, have a good day, and remember to smile.
So UA-cam told me that someone flaged this song as inappropriate when I clicked on it .... Whoever did that can take that flag and shove it where the sun don't shine
@@bernamontoya6158 this version I don't see why it only shows words. The actual music video I can see more cause that shows him doing drugs then having a freak out moments afterwards
Has anyone ever noticed... That the sound of his voice is just so intriguing. The way he uses his words and everything. His voice sounds like how a mans voice should sound. Strong, eager, broken. This song is truly one of my favorites.
Anyone else crushed and broken? I've been broken since May. I know it doesn't seem long.. But when you think of the other person everyday and knowing that they don't even care really feels like years.
it took me 2 years to get over my ex but I'm here to say it does get better you should not dwell on the past there is no reason to love hurts but it comes and goes until you find the right one
i've never had a horrible break up but the reason i listen to this song is because when i was younger my dad use to play this song for my mother, and i never understood why until now...
hey guys I think it's amazing how music brings people together but also creates many emotions. I like to read what people have gone through and give them respect for letting out something personal that probably took time for them to let go of.
My ex and I sang this to each other karaoke night years ago. Now looking back maybe it was a glimpse of what was to come but it still kills at my heart every time I hear of this song I think about him. I was so in love with him and we we're just realizing that when we sang this song. I moved on bc he left me no choice but A part of me will Always love him and I hate it.
I lost someone i was dating due to a carfetty od...it was the day after his 27th bday...he was special to me and i miss him daily..but i met someone the day i found out he od and it was the man i was made for so i am eternally grateful to juston joseph palombo....he gave me my silver lining...now go sail to the moon jus, we always looked at it and he truely loved the moon...hes now my man in the moon...please use the pain to push forward...i am an addict too i used to shoot dilaudid...0LEASE STAY AWAY FEOM THE CAR FENTANOL...he od 3 times in the month before his death...rip jus!!! Ull forever be loved and missed by those who werent fortunate enough to kno you...loving an addict is torture n thats coming from one but life isnt easy so u live it the best u can...thank u for reading this n ty juston...muahhhhh my man in the moon
Is it.. Is it weird that, well I think I'm addicted to sadness. I mean I have a good life now but I catch my self reminiscing in sadness, in moments where I was down or very sad times and it fuels me and keeps me and I know this sounds stupid but it keeps me, me. I don't think id be me if I didn't think of the sadness.
we are all like that man..everyone has had there heart hurt at some point in there life and it will always cross our minds sometime or another. COMPLETELY normal
Taylor Baitz but I meen to want the pain or to reminisce in it because well it just like I said keeps me, me it's like there are 2 parts of me one that is happy with the life he has now and the other who can't function without at least thinking of sad moments.
Maybe, just maybe, it's just like all other addictions, after getting used to it happening and it always being around for even most of your life it just, it's like drugs or alcohol.
I'm in legit so much pain... He was my true love.. But we are now apart he's got a new girl I see photos of them she looks like she makes him more happy then I ever did.... That's what breaks my heart....
Sometimes that just isn't enough. Sometimes the darkness overpowers the light. I know in my case it has. I am just not strong enough to overcome all the bad shit that has happened over the past years.
@@keithwest3286 I always been a believer but why put 2 people together and then take away one after only a few months. Ive asked quite a few people this question without a good answer. We thought God put us together.??
I feel the same way. I feel like every song make me think of my exs. It’s crazy how someone can be your everything then the next day it’s like you never knew them. 😓
It's less of a numbness and more of a bored feeling.Overall it's not that bad I mean sadness is tempory, time is irreplacable. Hold tight random internet girl
Love is mythology. There's no such thing as who you're meant to be with. The only way a relationship is going to work is if you are honest and logical with yourselves.
I told my self I wont miss you, but I remember what it fees like beside you... I wasnt perfect... neither was she... but together perfection was possible... because she was my better half... none cane compare because she still has my heart... the memories are the worst...
I dont know why I keep coming back to this song, but I do. I had a beautiful girl once...a very loyal and loving girl... She could read my my very thoughts for what I thought and she was like the female side of me but I was young and stupid....so I came across what I thought was a better girl.. It quickly became obvious that she was not at all, she was a lying cheating whore. I tried desperately to get back to the girl that my heart really belonged to, but it was never the same love, never the same fire that we had always shared before I betrayed her in a heat of selfish lust.... I'll never be able to forgive myself as long as I live. I lost the girl I would have given my life to for the rest of my life, and now...now she's gone forever. This song will forever remind me of her.
+Commander Shepherd I can't say that I have an identical story as yours but I did betray that one girl I loved more than life itself....it has been so many years now but life just isn't the same without her & a new day is just that, another day! Godspeed brother in this journey called life!
+Commander Shepherd Gotta stay strong, I been through thick and thin. Life is never perfect... I feel your pain though. I also went through alot, but I try to move on and remember the good times while it last.
This song has alot of meaning to me I never gave my lady Shyann enough attention if I had it to do over again I'd spoil her...You don't realize what u lost until it's over and then u realize they can do better than you 😢😢😢 then u wish it wasn't over....
This song reminds me of my orphanage. whats like to wrestle God and to be known in the stars and the alignments that speaks out so much and how they missed the most beautiful part of my life and cant escape this yet it speaks out look we made the planet and life is crazy and how the stories align to this day. From orphan to bouncing to foster homes and now as i look at now its beautiful just to tell my my mother and father that yes you gave a beautiful life than anyone and i desire to make them proud I will i will make them so proud we will never be forgotten. I wish i could see them! its so awesome it blew my mind. I miss u !
I used to feel this way deep down inside. I was right. she found someone better. I really thought that I didn't care and that I would be okay because I didn't need anybody. I was so so wrong I needed her. I am in a phase right now just living everyday just to forget and nothing works no matter how much I try to drown it out. I Love her and guess what I was selfish and now she's gone. I hope I can feel happy again because at this point I don't even know if I will have a soul left after so long.....
I been w my Fiancé for 2yrs, I admit, sometimes I'm a dick, But I listen to this song and it straightens my ass up, Cause I don't want this song to end up being me.
Everyone here's talking about some personal experience they have and how it has a poignant relationship with the song and here I am just listening because it's catchy...
Although my wife and I are still together, I think about her whenever I hear this.... Sometimes I feel like she does deserve better than me and wonder how I got so lucky to land and keep her.... Im not a bad guy, however, I could be alot better husband... I couldn't imagine my life without her and would be completely lost if she ever left.... I love you Valerie
Every time I hear this song, I want to either, sing or cry, cause I remember when I had my first girlfriend, and on the first day of November, she left me for nothing, and she said "leave me alone" yet Guys are supposed to hang out with their girlfriends. It's just so sad.
We used to listen to this a lot. I remember he would tell me I deserved better and is tell him I don't want anyone else and now all that's left is the emptiness where he used to be in my life and everyday I get thinner because there is also a hole in my stomach and our music is all I have left of him and even though it hurts listening in repeat and rather hurt and remember than allow myself to forget
My wife n I was together 14 years n my heart is there its a hard thing to get over especially with kids just so blessed I have my boys the worst pain ever Its been two years n its still hard
I feel you, my wife and I were together for 18 1/2 years, she started an affair with a co-worker, turned in to a relationship, found a text message from him. They were in a relationship for a year before I found out about it. I'm just about 2 1/2 months into it and everyday is a constant reminder of me finding out that my life was nothing but a lie,my marriage wasn't a marriage, and the only person I've ever trusted in my entire life hurt me more than anyone in my entire life. My boys are about grown up now, one's 17,the other 18. They have no clue what happened, and I have to leave it like that, until it's relevant,if ever. I still can't believe it, can't understand it, and wonder how much of me will be left when it's all done and over with. From the second I found out about him, she lied and said it was a guy who worked there and he tried to kiss her. After 8 months it's evolved into the ugliest possible version imaginable. It's not right for someone to do things like that. I even told her repeatedly,if she ever felt like she even just might want to be with someone else, just might, to please come to me and tell me that you don't want to be together anymore, you don't have to tell me about whoever, just please tell me before you start anything with anyone. If our time together, and if I've ever meant anything to you at all, please promise me. She did promise me that, and here I sit. I never thought she would be capable of something so horrible. You never know, and you don't ever need to put your entire heart into somebody,no matter how well you think you know them.
I,m also suffering the deepest, worst, most extreme constant n endless torture never meant to exist. Loving someone with every extremities of yourself n ur life is like the sharpest 2-2-edge sword you'll ever be "handed". 25 best shared years of my life just ended last yr, altho the agony of such unbarable pain makes it seem time will never even begin to pass for me. I hurt to the depths of my being. With complete honesty, I cant even begin to find words strong enuff to describe the worst infinate form of torture one could imagine, well that sums up my every waking moment, each brutal minute more ruthless than the last. I hurt so bad, I cant stop my mind's smothering me with memories, thoughts, imigines places, events, feelings, words expressions, lips, special times, constantly stabbing at my heart, agonizing, tearing every part of me. I just cant stop feeling such deep pain, n suffering i dunno what to do, how too feel, cant sleep, eat, or nothing. Is this it, how the last half of my life's gonna be til the end? As i'm lowed into my grave my tears will continue to pour out. It truly does feel as if I'm physically suffocating and "Hard to breath with no air". Why Mike? Why? How? When did your love die? I can't fathom it even possible to just toss everything away, easy as pushing a button cleared deleted,erase every trace from 25 years of "The rarest love that's only found in dreams", along with every last memory from it's existence? "Tell me I was dreaming, right? Wasnt I?...I wanna wake up, plz wake up... let me open my eyes to see my favorite gorgeous face, wrapped in warmth n arms of the one n only man capable of making me whole, n completes me. Ohh how I miss his beautiful face *Dear Heavenly Father,..Please, i beg of you, please let me never again awaken, if I can only hold him in dreams.
I forgive and forget. I don't know what's so hard about that lol. People hang onto memories that will mean nothing later on, other than something emotionally. They move on but something is still attached to them and honestly I do rather well at not being like others, and actually move on despite how difficult it is.
this song is killing me. I used to like it just because, but now, it really is hitting home. everything from the photos, to the 'that time in the dressing room'. I really fucked up.
I'm a piece of shit and know my wife could do way better and it depresses me knowing she deserves alot and our child don't like me cause I work so much and I don't have much time to spend with them I love them dearly but it kills me knowing I can be alot better but can't be
This song reminds me of the girl I'm in love with.. Idk how she feels about me, but she's not over her ex.. She's the most amazing person I've ever met and I wish she liked me the way I like her. I'd do anything for her. Anything to see her happy. I love you Hazel💕
When you know they are better off without you...it hurts but at the same time it feels good. Knowing you love her but knowing you are doing her a favor by letting her go. But it never stops hurting. Courtney I love you.
I was a sophomore in highschool when my ex broke up with me after a year and 4 months together it crushed me and listening to this back then didn't help one bit haha. Blessed to have gone thru that shit tho because it's made me the man I am today. Happy with where I am now :) no matter how shitty your life gets it'll always come back to true happiness.. NEVER GIVE UP.
My ex tried playing this on me. Cheated and never told me then spent most of a year pushing me away instead of fessing up and letting me decide. I loved him too much to leave for petty things so I was just hurt and confused the whole time. I did deserve better than him, to be single.
best game ever all roads lead to hinder look up any random song on UA-cam and keep listening to videos u find on the side eventually it always leads back to hinder. doesn't even matter what genera u start with, rock, pop, country, alternative, indi, rap, blue grass, thrash, 80s metal all roads lead to hinder
+Victoria Drake Nah sistah, that's called profiling. UA-cam watches your activity, profiles you based on that activity, and recommends videos based on what you've watched/liked in the side bar titled "recommended for you"
I just go back to my old life. I miss my baby brother I miss my dog Baby I miss everything that I used to have now I don't. Moving from a state in the north down to a state in the south kills me. I miss Michigan. I wish I never moved and maybe life wouldn't hurt so bad. Michigan will always be my home state. I just will never move on from moving from a big ass house to a trailer house. Love the family you have because its all you got......
this ones for my ex, after 14 years, 3 kids, a home, im sorry for everything, for be being an alcoholic for some years, ignoring you, since I stopped drinking it changed me, and im sorry I dealt with everything the wrong way, my emotions, my pain, all alive now, I don't want to let you go, but you really do deserve someone better...cuidate mija..
Even though I'm with the one I truly love this song still taught me something and that lesson was how much I can't live without her just imagining a world without her... Remember to appreciate your loved ones. Remind your self how much you need your loved ones and remind yourself never to forget what you just remembered.
This is for my ex. I miss you. I miss how you made me feel- like i could take over the world, that nothing was impossible. But it was all a lie. Did you ever really love me? No... i don't think so. You told me that it was just for my happiness. You should have just left me alone. All i ever did was be kind to you, to try and make you happy... but i guess that wasn't enough.
I know exactly how you feel, I caught my girl talking to her ex and LIED about it to me so next time I see he I'm gonna cut t off I think it's the best thing to do...
Lady Nightshade same thing here been together for 3 months i done everything to make her happy and what happened she broke up with me and told she was here to teach em a lesson that i deserve to eb happy that now i can go on without her that she must go further that it was just to amke me happy bassically al that i love you when her mom throwed her out on the street and i take care for her was nothing than a big lie... sorry for you
Every night I lay in bed thinking about this one person. I try to move on but somehow I end up on my knees praying for you to come back, yet ... you never do and never will. I stood back and watched you cheat on me twice and break my heart.... I did everything for you.... EVERYTHING ... yet it still wasn't good enough. I'm so sorry
grell sutcliff Sorry yeah Cheating on someone is one of the worst thing you can do, you should listen to "Nothing More - I'll Be Ok" and care for the lyrics it helped me a bit not so long ago after a breakup
I'm going through the same thing I've fallen for someone and I wish I could know if she truly feels the same but deep down I feel like I'm wasting my time loving her
jimchevy1990 same thing here bro been with that girl done miracles for her we even lived together when her mom acted crazy n shiet and she dumped me like i was nothing sad even im selfish yaay .. and i stiul love her and just listen to sad music and drinkin arpund with friends .. jup feel the pain bro...
For some reason I love this song! When I first heard it instantaneously, I was drawn into it. I'm black and don't really listen to...to....rock music??...I'm not sure what this genre of music is but it's dope...I love this song!
***** L M A O um okay. you got all that? or maybe I came here because I like this song, and wasn't expecting so many depressing comments. but no, your idea is much more sensible. I'm the sole perfect human being in the world who has never experienced anything bad. I am a robot who does not compute human emotions, and I only cause suffering for others, because I am obviously insane. lol do you hear yourself you nut?! Thanks for the over the top laugh.
I told myself I wont Miss you... Do you remember what it feels like beside me... Bet you really miss my hair in your face... And how my innocence taste... And I know I DESERVE MUCH BETTER THAN YOU....
Julie, it was 2006, we were so young and I was so in love. There was no way you could understand how deeply I fell. You were 14, it was love greater than which you could conceive. That 15 year old boy felt something so stupefying his breath was unobtainable. His heart had forgotten how to beat. His head was on the moon and his heels were on the ground. He never stood a chance.
My ex dedicated this song to me after he had cheated on me & convinced me everything would be better if I gave him another chance. I did & it was the most emotionally & physically abusive relationship I've ever been in. Now, a year later, I listen to this song & think of how right he was about me deserving better & how thankful I am that I realized you can't change a cold-hearted person & now I have a more trustworthy, mature, & loving boyfriend.
love will fuck you up more than drugs ever could.
got that right im havin flashbacks of my ex of a year an half it sucks my heart still hurts sometimes
+Stephen Dunkin I feel you bro.
true.
I salute you there
yea..
The pain we feel in this life is caused by our own expectations. Last night my girlfriend left me because of how much I work. We were together for a year, and six months. It sucks, but life continues, and I will always have family, and friends that will help me through this time. Remember ladies and gents, even though you gave your heart to someone, it doesn't mean you can't move on. You lived X amount of years without them, and you can continue on without them. Stay strong, keep your chins up. Pain is finite, much like our existence. Live your life to impress yourselves. Thank you for reading this, have a good day, and remember to smile.
"Keep your chins up" makes me think you're addressing a fat person lmao.
Rather than think he is speaking to all of the people who might read his comment? What an insensitive comment.
Christian Davoe I dig the sense of humor!
Dam. That's awesome. How true
I was with my girl and we got it to one argument and she left me after 3+ years. Getting over her sucks but I will get by. I miss you Gina.
So UA-cam told me that someone flaged this song as inappropriate when I clicked on it .... Whoever did that can take that flag and shove it where the sun don't shine
I thought it was weird also..why wld this be in any means inappropriate 🤷
@@bernamontoya6158 this version I don't see why it only shows words. The actual music video I can see more cause that shows him doing drugs then having a freak out moments afterwards
@@mikeanon641 agreed but the video version isnt.. just corrupt UA-cam
@@midnightdraconic1182 true
Much a-fuckin-greed
Has anyone ever noticed...
That the sound of his voice is just so intriguing.
The way he uses his words and everything.
His voice sounds like how a mans voice should sound. Strong, eager, broken.
This song is truly one of my favorites.
Rex White you soo strong his voice
I love his voice myself.
2020 here! Who else!!!
not for long
one of my favorite albums, I always come back here.
4/20/2020 ;)
Paula Gray yeah Buddy!
Paula Gray ayyyyy
Anyone agree with me that this song is one of Hinder's best songs? :D
yes
Me
Yes!
I agree
Kaylie Boucher lips of an angel beats this
"I told myself I won't miss you But I remember what it feels like besides you".
I hate how much that line is true
Sarah Underwood oh I know right
100% :(
This song is sad but it gives me chills. Hinder never seems to disappoint me this song is amazing.
Anybody listening to this in October 2019?
Heaven Flores yup me
THIS SONG WILL NEVER GET OLD
Me
Ohh hell yeah I always get this song on Pandora and it’s always fire kinda makes me a little bit sad but oh well still a dam good song.
Micah Doak i have no idea
Anyone else crushed and broken? I've been broken since May. I know it doesn't seem long.. But when you think of the other person everyday and knowing that they don't even care really feels like years.
I know how do you feel, it's totally tormenting! :/
im getting a divoce this week :) im sacrificing myself because i love my wife and im cursed i dont want her to suffer with me
:( Everyday this pain gets a little better. It heals on day by day. Just stay strong and try to feel happy.
I know how your feel :\
it took me 2 years to get over my ex but I'm here to say it does get better you should not dwell on the past there is no reason to love hurts but it comes and goes until you find the right one
"I really miss your hair in my face, and the way your innocence tastes"
This part gets to me
i've never had a horrible break up but the reason i listen to this song is because when i was younger my dad use to play this song for my mother, and i never understood why until now...
This Legit Almost Made Me Cry..Cause I Can Relate..
An amazing song for those moments you just need a good cry.
Agreed!
Fk ya. Music is healing. It allows us to face our emotions and express them. Then we let go and move on
i did not turn in my permission slip for this feels trip :/
+fspsyco1 True...
You win the comment section.
BAM! perfect comment ! oh god.......... I feel ya
Genius! 🌠
Same. Never listen to this song after a break up ugh
Anyone still playing this song in 2019?
the comment section of hinder songs is just a big therapy session.
hey guys I think it's amazing how music brings people together but also creates many emotions. I like to read what people have gone through and give them respect for letting out something personal that probably took time for them to let go of.
LMFAO
For sure. Dr. Phil got a fake profile somewhere on here lol
Hey some of us need it.
Thanks!!!
wonder if this is still 4 Elizabeth.
this is hilarious
+Tiffani Logan LAUGH WHEN UR HEART HAS BEEN TORN OUT !!
when ur heart has been torn out sometimes all u can do is laugh at the pain that it causes
😂😂😂😂
Cross99obx nah bitch, she dead
My ex and I sang this to each other karaoke night years ago. Now looking back maybe it was a glimpse of what was to come but it still kills at my heart every time I hear of this song I think about him. I was so in love with him and we we're just realizing that when we sang this song. I moved on bc he left me no choice but A part of me will Always love him and I hate it.
I understand completely
I hope you are doing better now! You deserve much better than him; I hope you found the true love of your life! 💖
loving an addict is the most painful thing
Coming from one it truly is. One second happy then sad then pissed the hell off then take a hit and wonder y so mad
Loving a person in pain is the most helpless feeling you can feel ?
I lost someone i was dating due to a carfetty od...it was the day after his 27th bday...he was special to me and i miss him daily..but i met someone the day i found out he od and it was the man i was made for so i am eternally grateful to juston joseph palombo....he gave me my silver lining...now go sail to the moon jus, we always looked at it and he truely loved the moon...hes now my man in the moon...please use the pain to push forward...i am an addict too i used to shoot dilaudid...0LEASE STAY AWAY FEOM THE CAR FENTANOL...he od 3 times in the month before his death...rip jus!!! Ull forever be loved and missed by those who werent fortunate enough to kno you...loving an addict is torture n thats coming from one but life isnt easy so u live it the best u can...thank u for reading this n ty juston...muahhhhh my man in the moon
And my names elizabeth so i see the little signs were given
Omg yes it is
Is it.. Is it weird that, well I think I'm addicted to sadness. I mean I have a good life now but I catch my self reminiscing in sadness, in moments where I was down or very sad times and it fuels me and keeps me and I know this sounds stupid but it keeps me, me. I don't think id be me if I didn't think of the sadness.
That's a relief, I thought I was a crazy person.
we are all like that man..everyone has had there heart hurt at some point in there life and it will always cross our minds sometime or another. COMPLETELY normal
Taylor Baitz but I meen to want the pain or to reminisce in it because well it just like I said keeps me, me it's like there are 2 parts of me one that is happy with the life he has now and the other who can't function without at least thinking of sad moments.
Maybe, just maybe, it's just like all other addictions, after getting used to it happening and it always being around for even most of your life it just, it's like drugs or alcohol.
I am too
Thank you Hinder for increasing my drinking habit to your relatable music, ty it feels so good to be fucked up and listeing to this. thanks you.
right now im tearing up because this is a song that gets again
I'm in legit so much pain... He was my true love.. But we are now apart he's got a new girl I see photos of them she looks like she makes him more happy then I ever did.... That's what breaks my heart....
There's a person for everyone. Maybe that was his. Don't give up, okay? You'll be happy with someone some day. All of us will be lovedd
hinder is a band that says what u want to say but never can.... Thank you Hinder
This is still my fav song in 2016.
Same omg. It had me in tears so bad last night.😔
+McKenzie Kell same
same
And 2017
I'm squidward
the pain goes away, with every darkness their is light, have faith in god. truth.
Sometimes that just isn't enough. Sometimes the darkness overpowers the light. I know in my case it has. I am just not strong enough to overcome all the bad shit that has happened over the past years.
Of course u r capable. God made u. God is perfection. We are as close to perfect as we want to be
Strong we all are. Your strengths may be another's weakness. 1 thing that makes you happy that doesn't require anyone else? No perv answer plz
If your happiness requires another person then you will never be completely happy. Let go let God. Pray God shows u. God bless all
@@keithwest3286 I always been a believer but why put 2 people together and then take away one after only a few months. Ive asked quite a few people this question without a good answer. We thought God put us together.??
There’s always that one person you think of when listening to songs like this am I right? 😔
My best friend. She deserves someone better than me as a friend
I feel the same way. I feel like every song make me think of my exs. It’s crazy how someone can be your everything then the next day it’s like you never knew them. 😓
i never realized how much i missed this band until i went a year without listening to them
I fear the day that I stop feeling sad at all, and all I'll feel is numb.
It's less of a numbness and more of a bored feeling.Overall it's not that bad I mean sadness is tempory, time is irreplacable. Hold tight random internet girl
I've been there, pills helped, but unless you take care of the root cause for what is hurting you it will never get better.
"sadness is nothing more than the cost of being able to smile once in a while."
remember that.
How I feel right now. Not sure what to do about it.
I wonder though... Isn't it better not to feel anything rather than being hurt? Maybe being numb isn't so bad...
that feeling you get when you remember the lyrics to a song you have not heard in 10 years, google them, and fins the song and listen to it...
just like i remember it...
+TheScienceGuy120 Haha I just literally did that. And I have a horrid memory so it's odd I somehow remembered the lyrics. Lol. : D
╭♥ＨєαɼȶＥєvєє lol
+TheScienceGuy120 exactly how I found this.
+TheScienceGuy120 10 Years has got to be an exaggeration. This is still played on the radio every once in a while.
..sadly i have forgotten how to love this much
Love is mythology. There's no such thing as who you're meant to be with. The only way a relationship is going to work is if you are honest and logical with yourselves.
I told my self I wont miss you, but I remember what it fees like beside you... I wasnt perfect... neither was she... but together perfection was possible... because she was my better half... none cane compare because she still has my heart... the memories are the worst...
I dont know why I keep coming back to this song, but I do. I had a beautiful girl once...a very loyal and loving girl... She could read my my very thoughts for what I thought and she was like the female side of me but I was young and stupid....so I came across what I thought was a better girl.. It quickly became obvious that she was not at all, she was a lying cheating whore. I tried desperately to get back to the girl that my heart really belonged to, but it was never the same love, never the same fire that we had always shared before I betrayed her in a heat of selfish lust.... I'll never be able to forgive myself as long as I live. I lost the girl I would have given my life to for the rest of my life, and now...now she's gone forever.
This song will forever remind me of her.
+Commander Shepherd I can't say that I have an identical story as yours but I did betray that one girl I loved more than life itself....it has been so many years now but life just isn't the same without her & a new day is just that, another day! Godspeed brother in this journey called life!
Bhupinder Kumar
Thank you, and I hope the same for you as well man.
+Commander Shepherd Gotta stay strong, I been through thick and thin. Life is never perfect... I feel your pain though. I also went through alot, but I try to move on and remember the good times while it last.
+Commander Shepherd this happened to me yesterday😴
Isaak Birkhead
Im so sorry....I really am. I hope that you can find the strength to make it through like I did. It's not easy, but you will recover.
This song has alot of meaning to me I never gave my lady Shyann enough attention if I had it to do over again I'd spoil her...You don't realize what u lost until it's over and then u realize they can do better than you 😢😢😢 then u wish it wasn't over....
Love can be the greatest feeling you have for someone, but it can also cripple you when it goes wrong...
Ohh the memories that flood my mind when I hear this! I'm very glad I'm not that sad, self conscience little middle school girl anymore.
2020 still one of the greatest songs of all time🤞🤞
This song reminds me of my orphanage. whats like to wrestle God and to be known in the stars and the alignments that speaks out so much and how they missed the most beautiful part of my life and cant escape this yet it speaks out look we made the planet and life is crazy and how the stories align to this day. From orphan to bouncing to foster homes and now as i look at now its beautiful just to tell my my mother and father that yes you gave a beautiful life than anyone and i desire to make them proud I will i will make them so proud we will never be forgotten. I wish i could see them! its so awesome it blew my mind. I miss u !
I used to feel this way deep down inside. I was right. she found someone better. I really thought that I didn't care and that I would be okay because I didn't need anybody. I was so so wrong I needed her. I am in a phase right now just living everyday just to forget and nothing works no matter how much I try to drown it out. I Love her and guess what I was selfish and now she's gone. I hope I can feel happy again because at this point I don't even know if I will have a soul left after so long.....
I know how you feel and it sucks I just feel numb now Mikey Hostettler
I understand how u feel completely
I been w my Fiancé for 2yrs, I admit, sometimes I'm a dick, But I listen to this song and it straightens my ass up, Cause I don't want this song to end up being me.
Ghundabah Jones I get you
Everyone here's talking about some personal experience they have and how it has a poignant relationship with the song and here I am just listening because it's catchy...
same
I listen for both reasons. I found this long before the pile of shit hit the largest manufactured fan created.
FUCK YOU
agreed
nag fawq u
this song will forever touch my heart. Memories is all that remained.
The pain we feel is so real and it's put into words.
Although my wife and I are still together, I think about her whenever I hear this.... Sometimes I feel like she does deserve better than me and wonder how I got so lucky to land and keep her.... Im not a bad guy, however, I could be alot better husband... I couldn't imagine my life without her and would be completely lost if she ever left.... I love you Valerie
Every time I hear this song, I want to either, sing or cry, cause I remember when I had my first girlfriend, and on the first day of November, she left me for nothing, and she said "leave me alone" yet Guys are supposed to hang out with their girlfriends. It's just so sad.
Let me guess... were you 12?
No
thats rude Jugganautx.... sorry to hear that Shaun Vega
It's k, people are d**ks
I feel you same thing happend to me 3 days ago
We used to listen to this a lot. I remember he would tell me I deserved better and is tell him I don't want anyone else and now all that's left is the emptiness where he used to be in my life and everyday I get thinner because there is also a hole in my stomach and our music is all I have left of him and even though it hurts listening in repeat and rather hurt and remember than allow myself to forget
My wife n I was together 14 years n my heart is there its a hard thing to get over especially with kids just so blessed I have my boys the worst pain ever Its been two years n its still hard
I feel you, my wife and I were together for 18 1/2 years, she started an affair with a co-worker, turned in to a relationship, found a text message from him. They were in a relationship for a year before I found out about it. I'm just about 2 1/2 months into it and everyday is a constant reminder of me finding out that my life was nothing but a lie,my marriage wasn't a marriage, and the only person I've ever trusted in my entire life hurt me more than anyone in my entire life. My boys are about grown up now, one's 17,the other 18. They have no clue what happened, and I have to leave it like that, until it's relevant,if ever. I still can't believe it, can't understand it, and wonder how much of me will be left when it's all done and over with. From the second I found out about him, she lied and said it was a guy who worked there and he tried to kiss her. After 8 months it's evolved into the ugliest possible version imaginable. It's not right for someone to do things like that. I even told her repeatedly,if she ever felt like she even just might want to be with someone else, just might, to please come to me and tell me that you don't want to be together anymore, you don't have to tell me about whoever, just please tell me before you start anything with anyone. If our time together, and if I've ever meant anything to you at all, please promise me. She did promise me that, and here I sit. I never thought she would be capable of something so horrible. You never know, and you don't ever need to put your entire heart into somebody,no matter how well you think you know them.
I,m also suffering the deepest, worst, most extreme constant n endless torture never meant to exist. Loving someone with every extremities of yourself n ur life is like the sharpest 2-2-edge sword you'll ever be "handed". 25 best shared years of my life just ended last yr, altho the agony of such unbarable pain makes it seem time will never even begin to pass for me. I hurt to the depths of my being. With complete honesty, I cant even begin to find words strong enuff to describe the worst infinate form of torture one could imagine, well that sums up my every waking moment, each brutal minute more ruthless than the last. I hurt so bad, I cant stop my mind's smothering me with memories, thoughts, imigines places, events, feelings, words expressions, lips, special times, constantly stabbing at my heart, agonizing, tearing every part of me. I just cant stop feeling such deep pain, n suffering i dunno what to do, how too feel, cant sleep, eat, or nothing. Is this it, how the last half of my life's gonna be til the end? As i'm lowed into my grave my tears will continue to pour out. It truly does feel as if I'm physically suffocating and "Hard to breath with no air". Why Mike? Why? How? When did your love die? I can't fathom it even possible to just toss everything away, easy as pushing a button cleared deleted,erase every trace from 25 years of "The rarest love that's only found in dreams", along with every last memory from it's existence? "Tell me I was dreaming, right? Wasnt I?...I wanna wake up, plz wake up... let me open my eyes to see my favorite gorgeous face, wrapped in warmth n arms of the one n only man capable of making me whole, n completes me. Ohh how I miss his beautiful face
*Dear Heavenly Father,..Please, i beg of you, please let me never again awaken, if I can only hold him in dreams.
I forgive but I never forget.
Angelica Proimadis oh word
Angelica Proimadis that's my name on Instagram
I forgive and forget. I don't know what's so hard about that lol.
People hang onto memories that will mean nothing later on, other than something emotionally. They move on but something is still attached to them and honestly I do rather well at not being like others, and actually move on despite how difficult it is.
Lol
It's been over 4 years since my girl left. And stumbling upon this sing via the UA-cam effect, makes it feel like yesterday.
this song is so good omg
who else here thinks hinder is underrated??!!
I told myself that I won't miss you, but I remember what it feels like beside you. That's so damn sad. Lol
GObyBO TOshe I told my slef I would not miss my ex but u still miss them and im just numb now I don't feel anything any more
You will again. I promise.
LOOOOOOOL omg
this song is killing me. I used to like it just because, but now, it really is hitting home. everything from the photos, to the 'that time in the dressing room'. I really fucked up.
You live and you learn bro
You live and you learn bro
You live and you learn bro
I hate him for turning me into a mean person
this song use to just jerk a single tear out of me.. but after losing my ex of 6yrs a few weeks ago, it has me crying like a bitch on the floor. 😂😭💔
I miss my husband it's been over a year. Guess you don't even get over a death
i lost my wife 02/11 to Cancer............i miss the fuck out of her n i still wanna pick up the phone to talk to her
I'm a piece of shit and know my wife could do way better and it depresses me knowing she deserves alot and our child don't like me cause I work so much and I don't have much time to spend with them I love them dearly but it kills me knowing I can be alot better but can't be
@@natefreireich9912 Now that you've identified the problem, plan out the steps to fix it!
Lynette Clark lost my husband in 2015... Never will forget but it does get a lil better thru time. Rip your husband
I miss my husband but I can't go back I miss him more than the world its killing me
I love this song every time I hear it more and more
big bowl of honey nut feelios
Honey nut feelios. That goes on my list now with honey bunches of no. I feel ya bro.
+Fischstix95 XD
That's good one
+Fischstix95 watch the music video, you'll need a bigger bowl
damn that was great 😂
This song reminds me of the girl I'm in love with.. Idk how she feels about me, but she's not over her ex.. She's the most amazing person I've ever met and I wish she liked me the way I like her. I'd do anything for her. Anything to see her happy. I love you Hazel💕
wow it really makes me think of the girl I once loved. I can't get her back now.....
When you know they are better off without you...it hurts but at the same time it feels good. Knowing you love her but knowing you are doing her a favor by letting her go. But it never stops hurting. Courtney I love you.
This song got me thru so much we’re still kicking life continues ppl but I love the song Ben hearing it since I was like 2 lol
I miss when my Mom and Dad were still together! :(
+emma holt aww
2019 and still jamming!
I was a sophomore in highschool when my ex broke up with me after a year and 4 months together it crushed me and listening to this back then didn't help one bit haha. Blessed to have gone thru that shit tho because it's made me the man I am today. Happy with where I am now :) no matter how shitty your life gets it'll always come back to true happiness.. NEVER GIVE UP.
My ex tried playing this on me. Cheated and never told me then spent most of a year pushing me away instead of fessing up and letting me decide. I loved him too much to leave for petty things so I was just hurt and confused the whole time. I did deserve better than him, to be single.
This song will forever break my heart for the first girl I loved..
Facts
best game ever all roads lead to hinder look up any random song on UA-cam and keep listening to videos u find on the side eventually it always leads back to hinder. doesn't even matter what genera u start with, rock, pop, country, alternative, indi, rap, blue grass, thrash, 80s metal all roads lead to hinder
Duuuuuuude it works
+Victoria Drake it's called "recommended for you"
+SweetPsychoDreams XD
+Victoria Drake Nah sistah, that's called profiling. UA-cam watches your activity, profiles you based on that activity, and recommends videos based on what you've watched/liked in the side bar titled "recommended for you"
I just go back to my old life. I miss my baby brother I miss my dog Baby I miss everything that I used to have now I don't. Moving from a state in the north down to a state in the south kills me. I miss Michigan. I wish I never moved and maybe life wouldn't hurt so bad. Michigan will always be my home state. I just will never move on from moving from a big ass house to a trailer house. Love the family you have because its all you got......
2:37 I started getting chills down my spine. like my favorite part
same here...I love the rest of it afterwards too :)
who hasn't suffered at some point...
if i didn't know pain...then how would i know love....
I only just found these guys!!!! Amazing, every song has a vibe. His voice is electric!!!
By the way my name is ELIZABETH!!!!
Love is a labyrinth.
Well thats one way to put it...
I've been on a sad nostalgic journey through early 00s music from when my life was good, I wish I was 16 happy and confident again
I miss you Suzette.. A year since you've passed and it's killing me. I miss everything about you.
Here I am 2019 anyone else
Yessss
this ones for my ex, after 14 years, 3 kids, a home, im sorry for everything, for be being an alcoholic for some years, ignoring you, since I stopped drinking it changed me, and im sorry I dealt with everything the wrong way, my emotions, my pain, all alive now, I don't want to let you go, but you really do deserve someone better...cuidate mija..
Even though I'm with the one I truly love this song still taught me something and that lesson was how much I can't live without her just imagining a world without her... Remember to appreciate your loved ones. Remind your self how much you need your loved ones and remind yourself never to forget what you just remembered.
I'm only 15 but my dad was a big fan of hinder and I love this song
What does your age have to do with anything?
It doesn't but I was stating that even in my generation its still popular
Ohh okay yeah true
+Aleecia Martin I love hinder lol im the same age, i'm right with you.
+zach bono yes they are the best
This is for my ex. I miss you. I miss how you made me feel- like i could take over the world, that nothing was impossible. But it was all a lie. Did you ever really love me? No... i don't think so. You told me that it was just for my happiness. You should have just left me alone. All i ever did was be kind to you, to try and make you happy... but i guess that wasn't enough.
im sorry that she did that
I know exactly how you feel, I caught my girl talking to her ex and LIED about it to me so next time I see he I'm gonna cut t off I think it's the best thing to do...
Lady Nightshade same thing here been together for 3 months i done everything to make her happy and what happened she broke up with me and told she was here to teach em a lesson that i deserve to eb happy that now i can go on without her that she must go further that it was just to amke me happy bassically al that i love you when her mom throwed her out on the street and i take care for her was nothing than a big lie... sorry for you
Lady Nightshade ik just how u feel i dated a girl named jasmine and she cheated on me for the 1 year that we dated
I get u I left a 17 year abusive relationship to be with the man of my dreams said he never hit me an now the verbal an physical abuse is horrifying.
You deserve so much better than me......
this is bringing back memories that i don't want to even remember but i love it :'(
Hinder-better then me and lips of an angle is a good song
Every night I lay in bed thinking about this one person. I try to move on but somehow I end up on my knees praying for you to come back, yet ... you never do and never will. I stood back and watched you cheat on me twice and break my heart.... I did everything for you.... EVERYTHING ... yet it still wasn't good enough. I'm so sorry
Im so sorry that happened to you
grell sutcliff Sorry yeah Cheating on someone is one of the worst thing you can do, you should listen to "Nothing More - I'll Be Ok" and care for the lyrics it helped me a bit not so long ago after a breakup
SAme
I'm going through the same thing I've fallen for someone and I wish I could know if she truly feels the same but deep down I feel like I'm wasting my time loving her
jimchevy1990 same thing here bro been with that girl done miracles for her we even lived together when her mom acted crazy n shiet and she dumped me like i was nothing sad even im selfish yaay .. and i stiul love her and just listen to sad music and drinkin arpund with friends .. jup feel the pain bro...
I love this song! especially with "call me" by Shinedown
same here
Havent heard this song in years, but I had a sudden craving for it yesterday out of nowhere.
Just in case anyone is wondering, this came out is 2005. It is 15 years old.
Listening in December 2019!
Alexander Case, your are not weird. I get where you are coming from. Our scars are part of who we are.
throw back Sunday for me just got off work in my car just jamming good songs one of my favorites of Hinder I told my self won't miss you
I DESERVE BETTER THAN YOU I GAVE IT MY ALL AND YOU CRUSHED IT LIKE IT MEANT NOTHING
Notice that you have a duck face...
i have a duck face lol
Yeah..... hm....
what Yeah .... hm?
Nothing...
For all my life, I thought it said "The way your venison tastes" not "the way your innocence tastes".....
You know you're country when you hear venison over innocence.
And do motorcross.
Im so sorry my love... I love you so much... I never meant to hurt you...If I could fix this i wouldn't because you deserve much better than me...
For some reason I love this song! When I first heard it instantaneously, I was drawn into it. I'm black and don't really listen to...to....rock music??...I'm not sure what this genre of music is but it's dope...I love this song!
am I the only one who came here simply because I like the song, and not because I'm sad and bitter like everyone else apparently? these comments. o_o
***** PREACH
***** L M A O
um okay. you got all that?
or maybe I came here because I like this song, and wasn't expecting so many depressing comments.
but no, your idea is much more sensible. I'm the sole perfect human being in the world who has never experienced anything bad. I am a robot who does not compute human emotions, and I only cause suffering for others, because I am obviously insane.
lol do you hear yourself you nut?! Thanks for the over the top laugh.
***** The sarcasm flew right over your head, didn't it.
Are you terminator
+Funnyfish66 Amen to that brother/sister xD
Sad, but still love this song !!
Anyone listening in November 2019
I told myself I wont Miss you...
Do you remember what it feels like beside me...
Bet you really miss my hair in your face...
And how my innocence taste...
And I know I DESERVE MUCH BETTER THAN YOU....
Julie, it was 2006, we were so young and I was so in love. There was no way you could understand how deeply I fell. You were 14, it was love greater than which you could conceive. That 15 year old boy felt something so stupefying his breath was unobtainable. His heart had forgotten how to beat. His head was on the moon and his heels were on the ground. He never stood a chance.
she deserves so much better...
I felt the most loneliest when we were laid up together.
I feel this honestly I do
Jasmine Lazarick if you’re going through this now, leave please, no one deserves that kind of loneliness
this is a great song and if a guy told me this song is for me I would probably cry
+Ashley Allison this song is for you
+Alfwedo Salvatewa Awww
+Alfwedo Salvatewa Dude.. That was so smooth i almost slipped and fell on my ass..
+Ashley Allison lol girl it sucks you don't want that trust me
If someone don't like this song, move away. Like has nothing better to do other than flagging songs. This is one of the best song from Hinder.