"How you know tho?" "How do you know you're straight?" "How you know tho??" "How do you know you're straight?" "Well I've always known" "Well I know too" That girl ugh xD
I may be a jerk but Imma lt you finish sippin my tea cause I'm feelin so british your a hoax your a joke imma be honest I am broke I dont have friends I cry myself to sleep I regret watching the my little pony movie im scarred for life becuase I see a knife....omg whyyyyyyy
HAHAHAHA! no....they can never be the fuel that continuously ignites your happiness, the job of the parent is to provide you with the knowledge and means to acquire a decent or even prosperous future.
Jose Acosta If a parent only cares about you having a successful future, and doesn't pay mind to whether or not it's a happy one, they are failing as a parent.
They don't have to be perfect, and they don't have to constantly keep you happy, but they need to try to be there with comfort, trying to make you happy
Maria Cota yeah.. it’s so much easier when you’re able to move out. Because if your family doesn’t support you, you have the ability to leave. That’s why I’m waiting to come out until I’m an adult, then I can leave if they hate me lol
@@mynameisnotjordan.noseriou2377 well they won't hate you and if they dont like that they'll need time and if they still dont support it there's many other people that you will meet in your life that will
Fauna Bauna for real.. it doesn’t change who we are all it changes is who we date/marry. I think the reason a lot of them get so pissed is because they wanted grandchildren. And even though we can adopt, they aren’t biological. They can be upset but they should never treat their child differently because of their interest in someone.
Storm1001 tbh, I thought so too. Until I came out. Then I realised how many gays were at my school. A LOT. Most are now my friends. Coming out (schoolwise) really opens your eyes.
I came out to my new class (I failed a year) and yeah. Since when I came out I realized that my group of friends are all LGBT+ except for 1 straight guy
I change my Name alot, it's alright be your self don't let anyone stop you from doing that just do it tell anyone you want to. Scream it from the roof, be proud to be you
As a guy, I had a crush on a lesbian for 6 years... since 7th grade... she came out in 6th grade but every night I would just think about her smile and feel like my heart is broken in half...
Lol same I'm bi and my parents absolutely don't care, my cousin is bi too and probably my other cousin is bi as well and my aunt don't care either 😂 I love open minded families ☺
People who genuinely dislike you for being gay are people not worth dealing with anyway. Sexuality and gender makes no one special, bad, or good. It only matters in relationships (and for obvious reasons.)
I don't see the film as supporting Dad's point of view, the red cowboy boots story is expressive of his awkwardness, his overreaching to say "hey it's no big deal."
Murky DUDE LISTEN TO YOUR HEART! please don't let other people affect your beautiful self. And the thing is, you don't even have to know your sexuality, it's a natural thing that will develope over time. I'm only 13 so I know I have a lot of time to figure it out, but even if you're like 60.. You don't have to know! I'm in between Bi and lesbian, I'm like 75% attracted to girls and like 25% to guys. Okay, another thing is, if they ask you "how do you know you like guys? Maybe you just haven't found the right girl yet." Ask them if they're attracted to llamas, and if they say no, tell them they just haven't found the right llama yet. (sorry this was so long, I wish I was this passionate about school haha ) P.S love you man, it'll work out, I promise, be true to yourself, and many will respect that. Thank you for reading my advice if you did so
Zoeeyy "are you attracted to llamas?" Thanks this made my day😂.Well actually i have depression i hate myself aaaand also social anxiety but i decided to not give up and trying to survive school years because somebody said that everything will get better after school.❤️
Omfg that guy at the beginning literally looks like this one disgusting guy who used to like me. You have no idea how much I relate to that beginning part.
Well it’s more of the point that she feels like death is easy to reach but it’s something she won’t do I’ve said similar things and I self harm but I don’t want to kill myself it’s more of the idea that I know I can do easily do it
That's not how being suicidal is. People that are suicidal want to die. I speak as someone that has 20 failed suicide attempts and still has thoughts about it all the time. Suicide goes hand in hand with depression. Not everyone with depression is suicidal but everyone that has suicidal thoughts or actions has depression.
As a 15 year old myself it always kind of makes me extremely depressed seeing other people come out to their families and having it go down as well as this situation did. Both my parents immigrated from East Africa and uphold strong conservative Muslim backgrounds. I can't count how many times my mom has seen gay people and told me that they are going to hell or that they are disgusting.They literally come from countries where if you were openly gay you'd you most likely be subject to physical attack. I constantly live in fear of having my parents go through my phone or meet my friends and out me cause I'm positive that It would result in me getting like disowned or kicked out. This is just a coming out that I'll never have and it hurts so much.
laylaaa never coming out does not in any way make you "less gay" be yourself & if being yourself puts you in danger then wait or just never do it at wll whatever your choice just know you have a family of lgbt supporters
You don't have to come out. Once you have your own home, and are away from your parents you can be free to be as gay as you like. I don't blame you. I wouldn't risk coming out if I was in that situation.
when i came out to my dad he was like "i wish your bother was gay" and will make jokes with me telling my brother "i aint raising no hetero" and i thing overall we became closer
@@cranecrane4011 Don't let what "others" think define you. You know what you are (even if you are not completely sure don't worry, you will know) . I think I got lucky cuz no guy finds another guy cute 😂.
That therapist was lying if she thought that the parents were cool with it. Tessa was clearly not, the mother was uncomfortable, and the father was supportive but needs education. To tell Andie that they are all supportive while they are not, is setting Andie up for distress. To be honest, I thought Andie's look at the end was one of apprehension, not 'now my life begins'. You should be able to trust your therapist.
Lol my little brother used to snuck in my room while I was watching the L word. I was so shocked af even though he knows I am gay af too. It is weird though. I'd rather watch it alone or with some gay friends
As a Christian who doesn’t want to judge anyone if I ever have kids and they come out to me I want them to know that no matter what they are loved. Loved by me, loved by Jesus, loved by everyone. I will support them no matter what. I am personally trying to get closer to god to learn more about him. I want to study the Bible and from what I’ve studied, the lustfulness is wrong but true love isn’t. God bless everyone. I stand behind the lgbt community and want them to have a good, happy life.
I’m so happy to see a comment like this. Most Christians I see online are saying such horrible things about the lgbt community. This comment makes me believe there are some people who love god that still supports the lgbt community ❤️
Papyrus Senpai I totally agree and I'm Christian too! It's probably cause I'm from the young generation and not really uptight so I'm more open minded to things and I grew up loving people for who they are but either way, I just don't think people should judge others religions/beliefs or how people see themselves as. Respect comes a long way and I think people may not have to agree with LGBTQ community necessarily but they should at least acknowledge and respect them. I have a gay friend,couple of pan or bi friends, as well as a genderfluid friend. Whether I knew or didn't know about their orientation, they all are my best friends and I liked them for their personality and similarities in interests, why push them away because of their orientation? Cause in the end, we're all humans and personally I believe God loves all his children despite people pointing fingers at the biblical text concerning homosexuals and of the like. Everyone deserves equal happiness and acceptance 💕
I don’t know my sexuality yet (I just haven’t been attracted to anyone. :/) My parents are both amazing because they aren’t always assuming I’m straight. They’ll be like: “So, see any guy you like? Or girls?” I sometimes want to take my How my parents are about fine about it and make every parent feel fine with it. I feel so upset when someone hates on someone who’s not exactly straight. *Edit: So I have come to realize that I am bi. It took me a while lol*
Just so you know anything is accepted, if you dont ever feel attraction, even tho ive never met you, i would support you as asexual just as much as i would any other sexuality.😊
"Coming out" doesn't magically make everything okay and saying "I love you" isn't all you need from them. Family ignoring the new weirdness can often feel like they are putting you back into the closet so they can go back to feeling "normal" and comfortable. Family therapy is really important for a while.
Yes! Any good therapist would have scheduled at least one more private session to help her deal with the rest of the family's reactions after they go home & the reactions of the next larger circle of family/friends. Society can be pretty cruel, as if being 15 wasn't hard enough...!
The family has a right to ignore the weirdness if they want. I'm not advocating that. Understanding and communication is they way to go. When the LGBT community, and especially the trans community demands full agreement and acceptance they get less of either. They have the same human rights and legal rights the rest of us have.
I came out in middle school, and I was so proud. From then on, I was bisexual and proud of it! I didn't care. I had girlfriends and boyfriends and my family loves me. I remember my grandma saying, "she thought i was a lesbian". I got lucky. I love my trans fiancee and we are getting married next fall, with everyone's support.
That's a terrible moment to come out to a parent. In the worst case scenario you could end up in a car crash! And it wouldn't even have to necessarily be because he hated you for it or anything.
Arafor Nah, we had been having a conversation beforehand about my cousin dating a transgender person and my Aunt (my dads sister) pretty much disowning her. My dad thought that my aunt was stupid because the world is a different place than what they grew up knowing. It was the best moment I have ever had to tell him, I’m 22 for goodness sake, I waited long enough out of fear already! I knew he would be fine
I really love this clip. I've known since elementary that I was gay, and I never knew how to come out to my parents, I still don't, but this short movie shows the struggle and how awkward it is. This really is beautiful. The way she connects with her dad, and the way others react it honestly is so realistic and I really enjoyed this film. [Edit: I forgot to mention the sister. I was in the same boat. Except I have only come out to my brother. He reacted the same but eventually he came to understand.]
Daughter: Dad I need to tell you something... Dad:Ok? What is it. Daughter: Im a lesbian. Dad: Oh! Um ok I guess... I still support and love you though. Daughter2: Dad Im gay to Dad: Um ok I still love you to sweetheart. Daughter3: DAD I KISSED A GIRL AND I LIKED IT!!!!! Dad: OH COME ON DOES NO ONE IN THIS FAMILY LIKE BOYS. Son: ummm dad Dad: Yes... Son: I do Dad:😰😰😰
Lol I was so nervous I made my mom come out for me to my dad while I just sat next to them awkwardly... Turns out he didn't care. His exact words were, "see, I don't really care who you date." Turns out it was easier coming out to him than to my mom....
I'm split between "it's something she's not used to and learned a lot of negative ideas from school" and "she's resentful because she's gay but has been afraid to say anything to her parents, only to realize that her fears were unfounded."
I recently "came out" to my immediate family because they found out that my boyfriend is transgender, and after hundreds of questions about my sexuality I finally told them that I'm bisexual. In a way, it was a relief. However, it's always the topic of discussion. My mom is always extremely curious and every morning when she drives me to school she asks "are you sure you don't like 'boys'? (I do, once again, my BOYfriend is a trans BOY)" or she'll ask "Can you at least kiss a 'real' boy first before you make your decision so soon?" By the way, I'm nearly 16. I'm very happy in my relationship, and I couldn't ask for a more positive and amazing person in my life right now. Anyways, the overall point I'm trying to get across while venting is simply this: whether your gay, bi, pan, etc., you shouldn't feel ashamed of yourself for loving who you love. You only get one life, so what's the point of conceiling the things that make you happy? It's hard to come out, maybe easier for others. People will always be curious and always have questions. Just remember that no matter what, you are loved and you are beautiful for being you. Don't be afraid.
+Cactus Jones trans isn't a gender. go back to tumblr, she is bisexual. trans is short for transitioning. meaning transitioning from one gender to the next. this doesn't mean said person now has a new gender mark as they are a female until they turn into a male and vice versa
Haha I wish they knew then all of this would be easy, bro only if they knew, they’re telling me that they’re SURE I don’t like girls but BOI! They can’t tell how I’m feeling, I’ve been taught that liking girls is wrong so I thought I liked guys but no😂 just- GIRLS ARE EVERYTHING!!
when he kissed her i got so mad cause i wanted to hear what she was gonna say about fancy rats
Same!
Piggylover17 sameee
SAME AHAHAH
MissPiggy :3 ikr
Same :'c
One of the worst things about coming out to your same gender friend is 'Do you have a crush on me?'.... ;-;
Or 'Are you sure'
Catplays Msp even more awkward if you do....
Catplays Msp I have the biggest crush on my friend and she found out. Now our friendship is drifting apart.
Catplays Msp
I hate that so much
I was OK, didn't think much like someone saying they're straight. Then she said 'I don't crush you!', made it awkward.
"How you know tho?"
"How do you know you're straight?"
"How you know tho??"
"How do you know you're straight?"
"Well I've always known"
"Well I know too"
That girl ugh xD
I may be a jerk but Imma lt you finish sippin my tea cause I'm feelin so british your a hoax your a joke imma be honest I am broke I dont have friends I cry myself to sleep I regret watching the my little pony movie im scarred for life becuase I see a knife....omg whyyyyyyy
Mikas Kazakauskas
Helena hammerhead heartbreaker what the hells wrong with u
Mikas Kazakauskas ikr
You know she was asking bc she is secretly gay right? Thats the tension of it- her sister has come out but she is not fully aware of being gay
"I just want you to be happy thats all that matters"
-how every parent should react
HAHAHAHA! no....they can never be the fuel that continuously ignites your happiness, the job of the parent is to provide you with the knowledge and means to acquire a decent or even prosperous future.
Jose Acosta If a parent only cares about you having a successful future, and doesn't pay mind to whether or not it's a happy one, they are failing as a parent.
They don't have to be perfect, and they don't have to constantly keep you happy, but they need to try to be there with comfort, trying to make you happy
Guys u know all this is a shot movie right?
Sydney I would disown my child
"I cant even see the floor"
"Well look harder" **wheeze**
Miss Bookworm My mom would whoop my ass if I said that to her haha
Miss Bookworm
I laughed so much at that
I laughed so hard that I started to cry
That hit me like a truck haha
Worst pun I could have ever said to my mom xD
Maaan if I ever said anything like that to any of my foster parents I would have gotten my ass beat SO BAD
"I don't care whether you're gay or straight. I just want you to be happy." THAT IS THE COOLEST DAD EVER LIKE WOW 👏👏♥️
JustaPatheticWeeb that's what my dad told me he told me that if I got caught kissing anyone he would be mad boy or girl he would still be mad but idc
That dad made me want to come out to my fam
Sounds like my dad. My mom wouldn't be as easy going about it though.
My dad hates me. I wish I had a dad like that I'm not gay but still
I AGREE.
DID THE THERAPIST JUST GIVE HER A DRUG SUGGESTION
I think they live on a different planet lol
I’m getting a therapist now
@@sumpogimpo0777 me to
Seems like the therapist needs her own therapist
a good one too
"I can't see the floor in here."
"Well, look harder."
DEAD 😂
I love your username!! 😂😂😂
420th like 😂
Move I'm Gay i love youre username😂
Move I'm Gay -- that's my daughter - she has a floordrobe, a bedrobe, a chairdrobe.......I swear you lose a body in her room! lol!
Move I'm Gay lol
“i don’t wanna be gay now, i just wanna be gay later” honestly meee
Maria Cota same
Maria Cota yeah.. it’s so much easier when you’re able to move out. Because if your family doesn’t support you, you have the ability to leave. That’s why I’m waiting to come out until I’m an adult, then I can leave if they hate me lol
@@mynameisnotjordan.noseriou2377 well they won't hate you and if they dont like that they'll need time and if they still dont support it there's many other people that you will meet in your life that will
Fauna Bauna for real.. it doesn’t change who we are all it changes is who we date/marry. I think the reason a lot of them get so pissed is because they wanted grandchildren. And even though we can adopt, they aren’t biological. They can be upset but they should never treat their child differently because of their interest in someone.
Are you gay now?
peeling their arms of because they thnk they are a orange - i bursted out laughing
Jenna hosie lol me too
Jenna hosie yeah in what world does pot make you do that
I am an orange
dont peel yourself
You look more like a waffle
"you ever tried coke?"
When your physiatrist hooking you up with the good cuch.
The good Kush,
“It’s the dollar store how good can it be”
Victoria Brewster 😂😂😂😂😂
Lol 😂😂💍😂
It’s the dollar store how good could it be
that moment u know ur white when u spell Kush "cuch"
How does her sister think gay people work?
Like there can only be one ever at a school only ever
Storm1001 tbh, I thought so too. Until I came out. Then I realised how many gays were at my school. A LOT. Most are now my friends. Coming out (schoolwise) really opens your eyes.
Storm1001 IT'S CALLED ACTING YOU DUMBASS
I came out to my new class (I failed a year) and yeah. Since when I came out I realized that my group of friends are all LGBT+ except for 1 straight guy
Omg i know right
@@lordlumpus75 How many? Gay people make about 2-3% of the population, so it can't be many.
Her dad is so awesome. :)
Prozyon yasssss
i wish my dad would react the same....
im scared to tell anyone
I change my Name alot, it's alright be your self don't let anyone stop you from doing that just do it tell anyone you want to. Scream it from the roof, be proud to be you
c:
prozyon ya he is
When he kissed her she was about to vomit 😂😂
i was about to vomit as well tbh
Cadet Grey lololol
She had a Vietnam flashback
Lunar Star Powers YEAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHAHHHHHHHHHh or sh*t her pants 😂😂
Lunar Star Powers so was i
Theyre actually really good actors.
I know
'My Uncle has a lot of guns' 10/10 best ice breaker.
mY SISTER HAS FANCY RATS
ghoulyviyyn I'M CRYING
Better run better run out run my gun
Use actual quotation marks
Lol
I'm bi but I wouldn't want to kiss fancy rats guy either.
Paranoia Complex same xD
Same 😂😂😂
Ikr
Paranoia Complex lol XD
Same lol😂😂
I love her dad so much holy moly
He’s hoping she’ll bring home some bi friends lmao
ight hol up
I love your name and me too he's ok with his daughter being gay and he's funny
dad she's a lesbian .... that means she won't go out with you.... that's the exact meaning.
As a guy, I had a crush on a lesbian for 6 years... since 7th grade... she came out in 6th grade but every night I would just think about her smile and feel like my heart is broken in half...
6.7M views ・ 3 weeks ago well as a girl I like a girl who's straight so I kinda know how you feel.
6.7M views ・ 3 weeks ago yeah know that feeling
but I started dating my lesbian crush after a while I came out as Transgender and she left me >.>
Script Kiddie if shes a lesbian she understands this more than others
Trust me
Im sure she would like you as a friend
Script Kiddie Give me a hug buddy it must have been tough 😥😥😢
“This is me at 15 and I’m very gay”
CaN ReLaTe
Erika that part 😂
when I smoke pot I'm just like "oh my god...I could die" 😂😂😂
ImNot AllThere yes
'And I'm very gay' I'VE NEVER RELATED TO SOMETHING MORE
elysianjpg me too 😂😂
I kinda yelled out same lol
That fact that she said I'm 15 and I'm very gay I WAS LIKE ME RN NE PANSEXUAL ME 15 ME MOOD
SAAAAME
SAMEE
I like how her therapist recommended coke
Diamond in the rough Reptiles //ikr like wtf if that was my therapist she would of told my mum 😂
Yeah just like yeah have you ever tried coke, like you get a really good high from it
I WAS LIKE WTF
@@chelseahennessey7853 she can't just tell your mom can she
byVentrex no it’s illegal in the US
Wow, this young lady is a great actress! Bravo! 🌻🌷🌸🌼
donna pavlosky yaas
MK and Klara's beauty Secrets aww
Minami :o
donna pavlosky ikr! I cried twise 😂😂😭
They can be in movies
how to introduce yourself
"hey im gay, also my name is -"
dim WELL HI THERE GAY NICE TO MEET YOU, MY NAME IS-
Isn't this very similar to how vegans introduce themselves lol.
Tbh i'm more interested in your name than your sexuality.
dim 👏great introduction 100% accurate 😂
dim Maddie
My family jokes a lot. My sis is bi-sexual and we don't care, she don't care, no one cares. JUST SPREAD GAY LIKE SPREAD BUTTER
gay butter... mmm...
KoruB *gaydar beeping* BEEP BEEP WE HAVE FOUND A FELLOW RECRUIT BEEP BEEP
Nah I'm not gay. Sorry to disappoint.
Lol same I'm bi and my parents absolutely don't care, my cousin is bi too and probably my other cousin is bi as well and my aunt don't care either 😂 I love open minded families ☺
YASSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS BISH
Ik it's not funny BT I couldn't stop laughing after the kiss. he looked so in love and she was cringing hard asf😂
Qween Larrent Kk Same. SAME
Qween Larrent Kk it kinda looked like she was trying not to throw up
Larentsss
So authentic! I Loved it! I wonder what she was thinking at the end?? "...and so my life begins."
Right, I was looking for part 2 so that I could see what the rest of the story was.
I want to click the like button but currently you have exactly 500 likes and i dont want to change that soo...👍
"I just want to be gay later."
Me:😑😔😂😂😂
Lol people cant just force it on their selves
@@ashlynjerome5456 you don't say
😂this video a bit weird. Being gay later and being suggested of coke by that person wth😂😂
It happens. I postponed my gay in 9th grade to college. Like I really said that it's a matter for college and forgot about it.
"This is me at 15, and I'm very gay" no joke lmao same
14 and bi but close.
"i just want to be gay later, or like in california"
😛
The California was a surprisingly good joke!
I'm gay and in California, my problem isn't school, its family
People who genuinely dislike you for being gay are people not worth dealing with anyway. Sexuality and gender makes no one special, bad, or good. It only matters in relationships (and for obvious reasons.)
KoruB dude their my parents and my family
I love how they both like check those girls out at the beginning. I check out my classmates and my non gay friends have to hold me back LMAO
_Fujoshis unite_
Her dad is quality
James Ferris insert Riley Freeman jokes
"I just don't wanna be gay now" MEE WTF LMAOOOOOOOOOO
Anand Chitnis me when i'm trying to focus in class but my crush is in the same room
When I have to give a speech in a class my crush is in. 😂😂
Me but Bi and non binary I want to Bi and non binary in college!!!
ahh yes, the tel-tale signs of homosexuality: red cowboy boots and ruffled up hair.
LMAOOOOOOOO
Katie 😂😂😂
I'm not even kidding I had red cowboy boots in the 5th grade. I loved them so much!
i went to school once ,in grade 5, and realized i forgot to brush my hair! i'm not gay tho!
I don't see the film as supporting Dad's point of view, the red cowboy boots story is expressive of his awkwardness, his overreaching to say "hey it's no big deal."
Stonks
I have a new quote to live by "this is me at 15 and I am very gay"
Grape Crush yaaaasss😂😂
Grape Crush same
Grape Crush im acutally 15 so its perfect
Grape Crush Yeesss!!! Totally me, dude 😅
Grape Crush I am going to say this on my birthday turning 15 very soon! Lol 😂
" Its was... like i could die"
"Maybe you're not gay, you're straight."
"...but i'm gay."
SAAME.
Zoeeyy probably thats my dad gonna say if telk him i guess he will get shocked and will not believe it and im sure he'll be disappointed
Zoeeyy my mom asked how are you sure? I just said that boys are cute and handsome and.......
Murky DUDE LISTEN TO YOUR HEART! please don't let other people affect your beautiful self. And the thing is, you don't even have to know your sexuality, it's a natural thing that will develope over time. I'm only 13 so I know I have a lot of time to figure it out, but even if you're like 60.. You don't have to know! I'm in between Bi and lesbian, I'm like 75% attracted to girls and like 25% to guys.
Okay, another thing is, if they ask you "how do you know you like guys? Maybe you just haven't found the right girl yet."
Ask them if they're attracted to llamas, and if they say no, tell them they just haven't found the right llama yet.
(sorry this was so long, I wish I was this passionate about school haha )
P.S love you man, it'll work out, I promise, be true to yourself, and many will respect that.
Thank you for reading my advice if you did so
Zoeeyy "are you attracted to llamas?" Thanks this made my day😂.Well actually i have depression i hate myself aaaand also social anxiety but i decided to not give up and trying to survive school years because somebody said that everything will get better after school.❤️
Her therapist is the best
why cause shes super gay to
lost cloud No, it’s because she’s accepting, and nice to Andy and her family. There are therapists out there who are homophobic.
Ich wish i had a Therapist like her
Omfg that guy at the beginning literally looks like this one disgusting guy who used to like me. You have no idea how much I relate to that beginning part.
I dont think he is "disgusting"....
He's disgusting because he didn't know you were gay? Lmao
“I never said I didn’t love you” “then why did you pause?” Damn girl
I feel like she can't blame her for pausing. it's a difficult situation for everyone.
1. she's such a good actor
2. her sister is annoying me lol
Hehe which means the sister is also a good actor.. she played her part well..
Same here her sister is annoying
"I dont wanna kill myself" said every person ever before saying something suicidal 😭
ah ikr shes such a liar like me when im trying not to get hospitalised
Me too I’m suicidal
Well it’s more of the point that she feels like death is easy to reach but it’s something she won’t do I’ve said similar things and I self harm but I don’t want to kill myself it’s more of the idea that I know I can do easily do it
That's not how being suicidal is.
People that are suicidal want to die. I speak as someone that has 20 failed suicide attempts and still has thoughts about it all the time.
Suicide goes hand in hand with depression.
Not everyone with depression is suicidal but everyone that has suicidal thoughts or actions has depression.
@@alricaneshama i never said the person IS suicidal , I said it's a suicidal STATEMENT
Tess is literally every straight person stereotyped.
Well there is a spectrum of responses in the family.
As a straight person I thank you for the compliment.
every...
this kid at the beginning looks like a troll
Revenn Art more like a lizard lmao
I snorted at this and scared my dog
So does her sister.
As a 15 year old myself it always kind of makes me extremely depressed seeing other people come out to their families and having it go down as well as this situation did. Both my parents immigrated from East Africa and uphold strong conservative Muslim backgrounds. I can't count how many times my mom has seen gay people and told me that they are going to hell or that they are disgusting.They literally come from countries where if you were openly gay you'd you most likely be subject to physical attack. I constantly live in fear of having my parents go through my phone or meet my friends and out me cause I'm positive that It would result in me getting like disowned or kicked out. This is just a coming out that I'll never have and it hurts so much.
laylaaa never coming out does not in any way make you "less gay" be yourself & if being yourself puts you in danger then wait or just never do it at wll whatever your choice just know you have a family of lgbt supporters
Rust Alpha why does loving people send you to hell?
Fabulous Narwhal It doesn't
You don't have to come out. Once you have your own home, and are away from your parents you can be free to be as gay as you like. I don't blame you. I wouldn't risk coming out if I was in that situation.
Once you get your own house and move out text your parents "im gay come see me once you accept me"
From all the short films I have watched it seems like everyone in America has a therapist.
We all should tbh
The people that put these films out likely are all (mostly) seeing therapists.
when i came out to my dad he was like "i wish your bother was gay" and will make jokes with me telling my brother "i aint raising no hetero" and i thing overall we became closer
Panic at the Chemical Fall out Brides you’re so lucky ❤️❤️
Panic at the Chemical Fall out Brides and btw i love your name
Panic at the Chemical Fall out Brides 10/10 best dad XD
Best dad ever. Also hey another Yeemo how ya doin
Hello fellow yeemo
Where do you find such good actors?
I’ve always thought of girls as more attractive than boys but I thought everyone else felt the same😂
avery BRUH SAME-
Well I always had a hard time. I felt like both guys and girls were cute and attractive and thought everyone felt the same 😂.
@@cranecrane4011 Don't let what "others" think define you. You know what you are (even if you are not completely sure don't worry, you will know) . I think I got lucky cuz no guy finds another guy cute 😂.
Yeah then I remembered my first celebrity crush was Avril Lavigne and then met a girl in high school and yeah.... LESBIAN
Mike Wazawski oh god 😂😂🥺✌🏼
"This is me at 15. And I am very gay."
iF THIS AIN'T ME-
That therapist was lying if she thought that the parents were cool with it. Tessa was clearly not, the mother was uncomfortable, and the father was supportive but needs education. To tell Andie that they are all supportive while they are not, is setting Andie up for distress. To be honest, I thought Andie's look at the end was one of apprehension, not 'now my life begins'. You should be able to trust your therapist.
Well, it's not real soo..
Agreed. This was represented by the silence in the car at the end after she got in.
Coming out is just first of the many steps to actually be accepted somewhat, it's normal
I would never watch the L word with my parent or older siblings that's weird af 😂
slenderman 123 I’ve never watched it but my girlfriend is gonna make me watch it soon lmao
I would never watch the L word
Lol my little brother used to snuck in my room while I was watching the L word. I was so shocked af even though he knows I am gay af too. It is weird though. I'd rather watch it alone or with some gay friends
I couldn't watch it.
I was looking for thisssss
"This is me at 15, and I'm very gay" literally me
Killjoy 613 same 😂 like at this exact moment, im 15 and very gay 😂😂
Like how some people peel of the skin on there arms with an orange peeler bc they think there an orange
That was when it hit me that she was a really good actress like she pulled that stupid line off so well
Off *
Their *
Because *
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XD
I was dying
WTF IS AN ORANGE PEELER LIKE WHY SO SPECIFIC
As a Christian who doesn’t want to judge anyone if I ever have kids and they come out to me I want them to know that no matter what they are loved. Loved by me, loved by Jesus, loved by everyone. I will support them no matter what. I am personally trying to get closer to god to learn more about him. I want to study the Bible and from what I’ve studied, the lustfulness is wrong but true love isn’t. God bless everyone. I stand behind the lgbt community and want them to have a good, happy life.
Papyrus Senpai amazing comment. 🙏i love guys and i believe in God. ❤
I’m so happy to see a comment like this. Most Christians I see online are saying such horrible things about the lgbt community. This comment makes me believe there are some people who love god that still supports the lgbt community ❤️
Papyrus Senpai I totally agree and I'm Christian too! It's probably cause I'm from the young generation and not really uptight so I'm more open minded to things and I grew up loving people for who they are but either way, I just don't think people should judge others religions/beliefs or how people see themselves as. Respect comes a long way and I think people may not have to agree with LGBTQ community necessarily but they should at least acknowledge and respect them. I have a gay friend,couple of pan or bi friends, as well as a genderfluid friend. Whether I knew or didn't know about their orientation, they all are my best friends and I liked them for their personality and similarities in interests, why push them away because of their orientation? Cause in the end, we're all humans and personally I believe God loves all his children despite people pointing fingers at the biblical text concerning homosexuals and of the like. Everyone deserves equal happiness and acceptance 💕
Zhang Ci Eng amen to that.
Papyrus Senpai can I be your child?
this Therapist telling her to do coke😂
Maartje Van Tilborg me as a therapist
Mines the same way XD
Yea I was like who tf does that?!😂😂
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I was very confused
Very well put together
"I don't wanna be gay now, I wanna be gay later"
DDrolet997 in fact, after 40, alot of people get bisexual experience in their lifes. :)
@@befrnigel you don't "get" bi u r bi... according to the media
@@idigmusic4405 F the media mate
@@idigmusic4405 bisexual experiences they mean
"I'm really gay."
nice way to start a conversation. I'll use that one day
she's like oh shiii better erase her search history😂 * shoves the box under the couch.*
Lmao 😂
I don’t know my sexuality yet (I just haven’t been attracted to anyone. :/)
My parents are both amazing because they aren’t always assuming I’m straight. They’ll be like: “So, see any guy you like? Or girls?”
I sometimes want to take my How my parents are about fine about it and make every parent feel fine with it. I feel so upset when someone hates on someone who’s not exactly straight.
*Edit: So I have come to realize that I am bi. It took me a while lol*
Don't try to hard.Youd go mental.Just go with whoever you feel you like
Just so you know anything is accepted, if you dont ever feel attraction, even tho ive never met you, i would support you as asexual just as much as i would any other sexuality.😊
Maybe your ace? Just do whatever you want
Calling someone an ace sounds like a derogatory word lmao
Adopt me please
I can relate to this so much. Thank you so, so dearly for uploading this. I feel just like she did at the start of this video. Thank you.
Jaster 90 you poor kid
Opticious dead 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Opticious Lol😂😂😂
Never clicked anything so fast. I see gay, I click.
If I told my dad he would run around the house smiling and screaming "MY DAUGHTERS GAYY!!!! WOOOO!"
Akuma Chan that’s so gay
Akuma Chan
I want that
Akuma Chan lol
Then tell your dad lol
Mine would probably send me to a mental hospital. Idk lol. I live in a homophobic country.
Omg when he kissed her after he did his face was hilarious😂😂😂
If you have the English captions on it says smooch boi 😂😂😂
The Corner ikr
Chill Iron man lol
"This is me at 15 and i'm really gay" LITERALLY ME IN ONE SENTENCE.
I have two moms, so I don’t have this problem. But it’s good that her dad is accepting.
"Coming out" doesn't magically make everything okay and saying "I love you" isn't all you need from them. Family ignoring the new weirdness can often feel like they are putting you back into the closet so they can go back to feeling "normal" and comfortable. Family therapy is really important for a while.
Yes! Any good therapist would have scheduled at least one more private session to help her deal with the rest of the family's reactions after they go home & the reactions of the next larger circle of family/friends. Society can be pretty cruel, as if being 15 wasn't hard enough...!
The family has a right to ignore the weirdness if they want. I'm not advocating that. Understanding and communication is they way to go. When the LGBT community, and especially the trans community demands full agreement and acceptance they get less of either. They have the same human rights and legal rights the rest of us have.
Yeah the way this ended was just not really that good. I'm not sure how that therapist is still practicing
@@abomidogit's a movie, that's an actor, not an actual therapist.
I must say this now is that i do the same thing, i always tell things to my parents in the car.
Just hope they don't crash :')
i'd be worried to do that with mine. when she's mad at me, she drives really fast on purpose
PEBBLE- Pigeon the thing that is so weird is I came out bisexual to my dad in the car and burst out in tears the same way she did
Hannah Bagnall How did he react tho
PEBBLE- Pigeon same
"My uncle has a lot of guns, he's has like a lot of them" and "my sister has fancy rats"???? WHAT??
Emma Rebecca my sister has fancy cats
Emma Rebecca fancy ratz!?!!loo
And we can shoot at a school with rats on our back
"I don't want to be gay now...like in high school." Baby u can't control that. Its ok.
I came out in middle school, and I was so proud. From then on, I was bisexual and proud of it! I didn't care. I had girlfriends and boyfriends and my family loves me. I remember my grandma saying, "she thought i was a lesbian". I got lucky. I love my trans fiancee and we are getting married next fall, with everyone's support.
This is how life should be for everyone.
God may have mercy on your soul u dont know what u doing
@@aragontwinkll1107 wdym?
@@cheyannescott4130 read the bible or kuran
@@aragontwinkll1107 I….have? Read the Bible?
I told my dad when he was driving, his response was EXACTLY the same as this 😂
That's a terrible moment to come out to a parent. In the worst case scenario you could end up in a car crash! And it wouldn't even have to necessarily be because he hated you for it or anything.
Arafor yea i remember i did and now thinking about it i feel stupid doing it but nothing happen and they just ssaid it wss a phase
Arafor Nah, we had been having a conversation beforehand about my cousin dating a transgender person and my Aunt (my dads sister) pretty much disowning her. My dad thought that my aunt was stupid because the world is a different place than what they grew up knowing. It was the best moment I have ever had to tell him, I’m 22 for goodness sake, I waited long enough out of fear already! I knew he would be fine
TaintedBrownjuice - you luckyyy
if i ever have a gay/lesbian kid i don't want my kid to tell me i just want him/her to bring there partner over💙
Kari na
*their
And I so want to do that too!!!
But like, my boyfriend has to look super cute and dapper for the occasion.
Wickedthtz This has nothing to do with him being gay.
Hermione Tobias like hell it don't
Wickedthtz Then why bring pedophilia around?
Hermione Tobias making a point about accepting people for who they are.
XD So awkward yet so realistic
when u decide to watch short films and you cry real hard
iamshelbyrose same tho!!
Literally me right now
felt that
I know it's serious topic, but this movie had few very funny moments!
I thought I was gay for so long but it turns out thinking Hatsune Miku is pretty is normal lmao
I want this father..
SometimesToStayAlive Frank'sGottaKillHisBlinds I love your profile picture and username!!
I really love this clip. I've known since elementary that I was gay, and I never knew how to come out to my parents, I still don't, but this short movie shows the struggle and how awkward it is. This really is beautiful. The way she connects with her dad, and the way others react it honestly is so realistic and I really enjoyed this film.
[Edit: I forgot to mention the sister. I was in the same boat. Except I have only come out to my brother. He reacted the same but eventually he came to understand.]
11:00-15:00 i have to tell you, that was cringy af, but that dad tho, I mean, he is goals.
The levels of second hand embarrassment are lethal
guy: *checking out girls*
me: *also checking out girls*
If I got kissed by that dude I'd turn gay too
Jennifer Kay nice one xD
Jennifer Kay 😂😂😂 help me am dying
😂😂😂
Plot twist your a guy
Deaaaaaaaad
Daughter: Dad I need to tell you something...
Dad:Ok? What is it.
Daughter: Im a lesbian.
Dad: Oh! Um ok I guess... I still support and love you though.
Daughter2: Dad Im gay to
Dad: Um ok I still love you to sweetheart.
Daughter3: DAD I KISSED A GIRL AND I LIKED IT!!!!!
Dad: OH COME ON DOES NO ONE IN THIS FAMILY LIKE BOYS.
Son: ummm dad
Dad: Yes...
Son: I do
Dad:😰😰😰
elizabeth 00 LOL
so its a family... boy to boy and girl to girl...
It's Dev5516 yeah XD
elizabeth 00 I am steeling this joke for Facebook haha
LITERALLY ALL I WAS THINKING ABOUT
Lol I was so nervous I made my mom come out for me to my dad while I just sat next to them awkwardly... Turns out he didn't care. His exact words were, "see, I don't really care who you date." Turns out it was easier coming out to him than to my mom....
Midnight Wolf lol dont really care who you date ! Best parent in the world
Midnight Wolf
I'm Chinese and lesbian, my family is also really conservative. Gahh
MyPositiveLens Good luck smol bean. Still be proud though!!
I'm gay and my family is all Christian (like, the type that cringed when gay marriage was passed)
Lord Lumpus Yeah, it can be hard, but if we keep fighting for rights and stuff, eventually it'll be a normal kinda thing, you know? So stay proud!
Half Dead yay to that!!
Lord Lumpus same but I'm not Chinese
This is actually really entertaining. It's so awkward.
Ikr! That kiss tho...ugh...cringe xD
Star vs the Zootopia It's also cringe when you say 'xD' it's 2017 😂
👌
"she's my type"
"dad she's a lesbian"
"My sister has fancy rats."
"Is that like a name you gave them?"
THE BEST PART
Quit making me cry. I'm trying to eat my cake :(
me
So me
Oooooooooh can i have some cake ;^; please
Lucky
Cameron Moon lol
"Dad im gay"
"Thank god, i dont have to worry about you having un wanted kids"
Ive heard this before XD
Dads when their daughter's gay:
Aww that ok... that's alright
Dads when their sons gay:
*YOU BETTER SHUT YOUR MOUTH*
I found it easy to come out to my friends. Adults----
*_-That's another story-_*
Mom: Hey, I’m lesbian
Son: I thought you were American
*its a vine reference*
ArtStorm 😂😂😂😂😂 🔥🔥🔥
Why is the sister so salty
Milk. Lion probably because she's a girl and feels weird because a lot of closed minded straight girls feel weird around gay women
Emily Schaeffer yeah lol I know but like I mean it was her sister,,
maybe she doesn't like sugar
f r a g i l e cause the attention wasn't on her for once and she had a major issue with it 😂
I'm split between "it's something she's not used to and learned a lot of negative ideas from school" and "she's resentful because she's gay but has been afraid to say anything to her parents, only to realize that her fears were unfounded."
I recently "came out" to my immediate family because they found out that my boyfriend is transgender, and after hundreds of questions about my sexuality I finally told them that I'm bisexual. In a way, it was a relief. However, it's always the topic of discussion. My mom is always extremely curious and every morning when she drives me to school she asks "are you sure you don't like 'boys'? (I do, once again, my BOYfriend is a trans BOY)" or she'll ask "Can you at least kiss a 'real' boy first before you make your decision so soon?" By the way, I'm nearly 16. I'm very happy in my relationship, and I couldn't ask for a more positive and amazing person in my life right now. Anyways, the overall point I'm trying to get across while venting is simply this: whether your gay, bi, pan, etc., you shouldn't feel ashamed of yourself for loving who you love. You only get one life, so what's the point of conceiling the things that make you happy? It's hard to come out, maybe easier for others. People will always be curious and always have questions. Just remember that no matter what, you are loved and you are beautiful for being you. Don't be afraid.
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I think your pansexual not bisexual sorry lmao I'm pansexual. Pansexual is you like boys and girls, and trans ftm or mtf. But yeah idk lmao 😂
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+Cactus Jones trans isn't a gender. go back to tumblr, she is bisexual. trans is short for transitioning. meaning transitioning from one gender to the next. this doesn't mean said person now has a new gender mark as they are a female until they turn into a male and vice versa
only so girly bagel Does your Mom know what bisexual means? Cuz it means u like girls and boys
Kid: I’m gay
Parent: oh I already know.
THEY ALL KNOW XD
Not mine 🤦🏻♀️
Well im not sure exactly.
I think im not straight.
Im not letting myself admit that tho.
Have a nice day!
Haha I wish they knew then all of this would be easy, bro only if they knew, they’re telling me that they’re SURE I don’t like girls but BOI! They can’t tell how I’m feeling, I’ve been taught that liking girls is wrong so I thought I liked guys but no😂 just- GIRLS ARE EVERYTHING!!