This Perfect Man STILL Disappoints This Woman
Вставка
- Опубліковано 5 бер 2024
- Join this channel to get access to perks:
/ @entrepreneursincars
GET MY BOOK - "The Unplugged Alpha, The No Bullshit Guide To Winning With Women & Life:" amzn.to/3fIVW3J
SUPPLEMENTS FOR MEN: theunpluggedalpha.com/collect...
VISIT MY WEBSITE: www.richcooper.ca/
CHANNEL SPONSOR: You're showering anyways, so why not buy handmade soap from a sponsor that supports the creation of my content. Use code "COOPER" at checkout and Get 10% off Tactical Soap mentioned here: bit.ly/2jQEZbz
AMAZON BOOKS & PRODUCTS I ENDORSE FOR MEN: www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-a03634c5
JOIN MY PRIVATE COMMUNITY: You get exclusive premium videos, my private Facebook community & MUCH more, start here: www.entrepreneursincars.com/co...
REQUEST A VIDEO TOPIC: entrepreneursincars.com/request
GET ON MY EMAIL LIST & RECEIVE A FREE CHAPTER FROM MY BOOK ON 20 RED FLAGS TO AVOID WITH WOMEN: entrepreneursincars.com/red-f...
Send business/sponsorship inquiries to EntrepreneursinCars@gmail.com
======================================================
© Richard Cooper - For all business inquires contact EntrepreneursinCars@Gmail.com
This video is not to be reproduced without prior authorization. The original UA-cam video may be distributed & embedded, if required.
GET ON MY EMAIL LIST TO RECIEVE THE FREE CHAPTER FROM MY BOOK ON RED FLAGS TO AVOID: entrepreneursincars.com/red-flags/
MY COURSES - the-school-of-entrepreneurship3.teachable.com/courses
GET MY BOOK - "The Unplugged Alpha, The No Bullshit Guide To Winning With Women & Life:" amzn.to/47K3BIS
SPANISH TRANSLATION OF THE UNPLUGGED ALPHA: bit.ly/3R2AxFT
SUPPLEMENTS FOR MEN: theunpluggedalpha.com/collections/all-products
MY WEBSITE: www.richcooper.ca/
TACTICAL SOAP: Use code "COOPER" at checkout and Get 10% off Tactical Soap mentioned here: bit.ly/2jQEZbz
REQUEST A VIDEO TOPIC: entrepreneursincars.com/request
SUB MY CLIPS CHANNEL: ua-cam.com/users/RichCooperClips
He sounds like a workaholic who puts constant activity above close personal relationships. Not exactly what a lot of partners want. It’s good to have some real connection now and then.
@rich - can you do a video on sexual assault false allegations - NSW (State of Australia) is reviewing all sexual assault cases due to rampant false allegations
THINGS MEN DO THAT UPSET WOMEN:
-Lie
-Be honest
-Not talking to them
-Talking too much to them
-Not showing any emotion
-Being too emotional
-Breathing 😂
Fellas, they will always hate you in the end. I don't try anymore!
Lucifer tempts Eve, not Adam.
Bezos, and Tom Brady are divorced. Let that sink in.
Richard Branson( Owner of the VIRGIN brand) also after giving his wife 1 of his kidneys and rescued her from drowning. smh
Thats equal to 3 hall passes
Add Bill Gates and Phil Collins.
Brad Pitt
Musk too multiple times
And DONALD TRUMP🇱🇷
Translation:
She just realized that she can't train him.
NO independent woman will stay in any relationship, especially marriage. It is disappointing how many males miss this crucial point.
If you want a good relationship, marry a DEPENDENT woman - like in Thailand or South America, and pray she does nt learn about the misandrist laws.
Bingo
She can’t betatize him, she knows if she starts to become complicated or naggy. He will just leave and find another woman.
Truth
Bingo
Women say they want a "perfect man" but they really don't. A perfect man shows up all their imperfections just by existing... and they hate that.
word.
Yep, learned a long time ago, women do not like having to step their game up to be on par with the kind of man they "want".
They want a "perfect man" so they can break him and prove he wasn't perfect.
And yet when men are less than perfect they say they deserve more 🙄
Women don't say they want a "perfect man."
Which dark corner did you pull that idea from?
Nelson Mandela imprisoned, starved, and beaten for years and couldn’t be broken. He finally gets out of prison and goes home to his wife. After a short time he could no longer tolerate her and gets a divorce. Broken.
Women can be a challenge, but Winnie Mandela.. Holy shit.
This one cracked me up!
😆@@earx23
It's true. And the same thing happened to that Colombian politician chick who was abducted in the jungle by FARC for years - Ingrid Betancourt. Her husband stood by her all the time, but once she was unexpectedly freed by the military and re-united with her loyal husband, that loyalty was quickly rewarded with a divorce.
She was probably cheating on him. He was very beta.
This is not surprising. I have said so many times… Men can sit in the worst apartment, eating the worst pizza, drinking the worst beer and watching our favorite football team get the snot beat out of them on a terrible television, but we are sitting with our buddy, and we are happy as a clam. Far too many women, You can take them on a first class Hawaiian vacation to an oceanfront Villa at the four seasons hotel and they will complain that they don’t have gluten-free croutons for the Caesar salad. There is always something wrong. Always something not quite right. Always something that could be just a little bit better. And your role as the man in the relationship becomes putting out her never ending stream of emotional wildfires that keep popping up like the worlds worst carnival, whack-a-mole game. It’s just too Exhausting.
They are generally miserable creatures
I took my ex on a vacation, great hotel, 1st class flights, the whole deal. While on the vacation doing everything to get under my skin including picking fights. On the flight back complaining about not doing things to her liking. Back in NYC arguing with me before we hit the sack. In the morning starts the BS all over then raises a finger to tell me I shouldn't speak. That was the final straw - you're outta here. Never met anyone more ungrateful in my entire life.
I see this scenario everyday in divorce court.
@@jcnlaw I've never been married but man, I don't know how guys put up with the nonsense. I was asked by a girl I'd just met (maybe 3 weeks) to help her look at apartments. We looked at stupendously expensive apartments overlooking central park (these were her choices) I'd come down from from my place in CT to help her. While we're looking at one of the apartments the realtor asks how she's going to pay? Without even consulting me she tells the realtor that I will be her guarantor. I kept my cool and smiled. After we left the building I asked her what the hell? Guess what? I'm the bad guy now. The entitlement and pure psychopathy is something to behold. And they say men are bad.
🤣
My girlfriend at the time once said, "You have to know what I want." I answered, "You don't even know what you want." Stopped her dead in her tracks.
Best response ever!
"I just want you to 'get it'!"
Had one say, "You don't know who you are." I asked what her natural hair color was.
Was she projecting?@@Lenny_Hondo
Lol
There is no better example than Tom Brady.
I'm convinced that a lot of women today don't want a man, they want a girlfriend.
Add an invisible rich man in to supply a steady stream of money and now you're really talking. 😅
Preferably one with strap-on.
Often they want a male clone of themselves.
Statistics show that they're even more unhappy with each other as oppose to being with a man.
Funny!
She is only scared because she can't control him
Nope,thats not it........she is scared,because she knows she isnt good enough for him. She will self sabotage this relationship in 2 years or less and become an Alpha Widow for life.
Every woman wants the same man. The rich, fit , popular guy thats never at the gym, doesn't work everyday and spends no time with friends but spends all his time with her so she can be angry with him because he's suffocating. Unhappiness is fuel to women, they want to hate you.
Interesting last point; it's like they're cursed to walk the earth, unhappy and unfulfilled. In WOTSM, Deida talks about how the feminine is "empty and trying to get full" - I think that one line explains so much about their behaviour.
Best comment
"They want to hate you." Brilliant. That's actually true but it's subconscious. It would take extended and directed therapy to get women to realize, own, and admit it.
An insane woman like that hate's she's a woman. Ultimately she hates nature ..
AT LEAST 10 years of therapy.
Rich you are so right. Whatever I did my ex-wife was NEVER happy. She is now involved with a guy from her work. She's not happy there either. Thanks to him for taking out my garbage.
Did she act different before you married her in an attempt to get you to fall for the trap?
I am a little thick... It took me 3 wifes (and 2 fortunes) to get this connected up right. About to retire now all these years later. Listen to what this guy in the video is saying.
What could that guy have done, or said, that she didn’t see in you? Nothing I dislike more than a disloyal chick..
@@DOOR.DASH.TYRONEsome act differently once the ring is placed on. That’s how my parents got divorced. My dad said it was all fine til the honeymoon in Hawaii and she was verbally fighting, hitting him around, threatening to see other guys at the bar. You can’t make this shit up
@Mike_Cosentino Nothing she is a narcissist. See my reply to the other guy here it kinda tells my story. Not alot different than tons of others out here.
like a dog chasing cars, they don't know what to do after they catch one 😆
Drain it.
But she cant
Brilliant analogy 😂
Gold😅😅😂
💯👍
She's hypergamous by nature.
What society has created in the modern woman is a self destructive creature.
Toxic feminism
Yeah well it's like a storm that has blown from the west.. Atleast in the east the women don't act on it, women there behind closet doors maybe act on it but society shuns that publicly and traditional roles are still apparent .. for now.
The woman's god is the serpent, and the man failed listening to the woman. Go back to your father God and let him be your head once again as it was in paradise. The woman that your father sends will fallow you.
God over man, man over woman, woman over children is the natural order of God
Yes
They've been self-destructive since Adam and Eve. It will never change.
Like late Kevin Samuels said, you can't make this s*it up!!!
Also, "She's likely just to wind up a *BADADA gal* - Buy A Dog And Die Alone."
She's hypergamous by nature.
Al Bundy said it right. How to make a woman unhappy? Give her what she wants!
Women didn't start so much drama before modern feminism because drama is a luxury they could not afford back then. Men were responsible for their wives behavior. If a woman started drama, that would tarnish the man's reputation and livelihood. On top of this, there were a plethora of real problems. Women didn't need to invent them.
The "drama" you speak of is about women's emotional well-being. An actual "thing."
In the past, they accepted whatever crap was in that marriage because they had to eat period, and there were no other options. Some lucked into fulfilling marriages, many didn't.
When eating comes first, which it does, and there are no other options except whatever you drew in that marriage lottery, and when everyone is hurriedly paired up by early 20's and forbidden from changing the choice if it wasn't right, then everything else becomes a luxury indeed.
It's Maslow 101, which doesn't mean emotional health is not a very serious need. It is not "made up, irrelevant drama," as you insinuate.
Check psychology.
In fact, a sense of belonging and connection (or lack thereof) has way more impact on quality of life than eating. But you can't afford to worry about it before you eat bc everyone is a meat-sack first.
For the sake of simplicity, there are three levels of relationship:
1) Abusive
2) Externally practical but internally lonely/ disconnected / unfulfilling
3) Fulfilling with multidimensional PIES synchronization (Physical, Intellectual, Emotional, Spiritual symbiosis, wouldn't change the person for the world and they feel the same about you).
Women are more sensitive to the differences between these three relational levels.
Many men are variants of autistic so they just want "a wife." They fulfill basic duties towards her (aka bring food), then set her aside. Men want to be "alone just not by themselves," bc it's always nice to have some entrances on hand for bio-needs. That's not a relationship. It's meat-sack behavior.
@@roses6564cope harder
@@roses6564 great chat gpt answer LOL Now please tell me the reality 3) Fulfilling with multidimensional PIES synchronization (Physical, Intellectual, Emotional, Spiritual symbiosis, wouldn't change the person for the world and they feel the same about you).- How long this last ? 1 kids 2 kids 3 kids ? asking for a friend
@@optivitanutritionSounds like this is the latest trend: IQ-challenged types getting intimidated by a few non-tardy words and accusing you of ChatGpt-ing them. So be it.
How long does #3 last?
FOREVER, darling. Forever. It's 1) and 2) that are the pickle you need to worry about.
3) is a blessing. It needs to be found first, then cultivated and maintained which is relatively easy to do because the two match naturally.
@@roses6564what's your husband have to say on the topic?
I once went to the grocery store, purchased food, drove to my sister's house, and put the stuff away. She complained the the ketchup was in the wrong place. She reached into the fridge and moved the bottle less than an inch to the left. Not kidding. She didn't have to shop or pay for her groceries, but she was unhappy with the exact placement of a bottle of ketchup. I haven't gone to the store for her again. I washed and rinsed her dishes and put them in the dishrack. I didn't pull the plug to drain the soapy water. She never said thank you but did complain about the standing water. I haven't washed her dishes again. I mowed and edged her lawn. She complained that there were grass clippings on the sidewalk. Give a woman a $100 bill, and she'll complain that it's hard to break a C note and would have preferred tens and twenties.
I am a woman and your sister's behaviour is odd. It is the behaviour of someone who doesn't like you. Ask if there is a reason that she currently doesn't like you.
Regarding grass clippings, though, that would need to be swept. Any man or woman would appreciate that standard.
Maybe u2 arent meant to be
Stay the hell away from your sister.
She is a narcissist, and nothing will be good enough. It's about dominance, control, manipulation, superiority, etc.
Stay away from toxic people!
@siteworld123 hahaha you are exactly like his sister, no way you somehow try to spin this into being his fault
If he didn’t do all that stuff to better himself, she’d he ready to walk out too.
All he had to do was game her, but paying the bills, having ambition, and going to bed early doesn’t make her wet. Game and alpha does. Something this guy lacked. She got bored.
@@Jimminityjabooboo man is on a mission, he has no time to be "gaming" anyone.
His best bet is to have several women he doesn't live with that play minor parts in his life. Worst thing he could ever do is marry and cohabitate with any of them.
She'll divorce him 100% once it is to her advantage. So she can take his resources and not have to deal with feeling "intimidated".
Juice is not worth the squeeze at all.
She's not satisfied meaning she's not worthy. If you are ungrateful, you deserve to be alone. Nobody wants that crap in their lives anyways
Spot on. Two good friends of mine are top shelf guys and BOTH of them have been cheated on and discarded like trash. I told them “she threw away a winning lottery ticket, remember that”.
word
Preach
NO independent woman will stay in any relationship, especially men. It is disappointing how many males miss this crucial point.
If you want a good relationship, marry a DEPENDENT woman - like in Thailand or South America, and pray she does nt learn about the misandrist laws.
AYEEEOOO LFG MY DOOD
Even Sigmund Fraud said 'there is one thing I still cannot understand and that is, what does a woman want?'.
A woman has no essence because she's not a rational human being (= a man) and should not be designated as such. A woman has no consciousness, no assertion, no personality. As it was written in the bible, the woman was formed by a rib taken from a man. Her existence is to live and serve a man and she can't rebel against this innate, natural programming even if she tries. The man in this context is like the sun in the universe around which the stars (her thoughts) circulate. Capisce?
Chad
An (feminist) ex said to me once 'How do You know what women want??' I said 'Because you lot have never stopped telling me for thirty years..'
I can answer that. What they want is… More.
😂😂@@superswag3252
Translation: “wait I don’t want a guy who also is better than me.”
Got to bring him down to her level so they can be equal. Just like your typical communist.
She still wants him, she's just moaning.
@@hibernian87 Women have two sets of lips so they can piss and moan at the same time.
But the irony is they do, if he was an equal in her eyes or worse interior she would leave him with some jiujitsu instructor .. yeh hypergamy sucks
The want both......they love cognitive dissonance.
“Women Weaken Legs!”-Mick, Rocky
I’ve experienced all this. My ex complained once that I didn’t put enough effort into getting ready to go out because I was wearing a hat, white shirt and jeans… so next time we had a date, I took the time to iron my clothes, wear something nice, do my hair etc, and she complained that I took too long to get ready. It’s a losing battle you can’t win. Girls are complainers by nature.
They are never satisfied and have no idea what the hell they want.
I've gotten shit for being "too fit" it's stressing the woman out. Complaints about my ambition within my career, complaints about wanting to progress with composing music. So I know this first hand!
And yes, I have the body, the face/looks, money and an interesting and intellectually stimulating carreer within a global company. So Rich is correct, no matter the status, women seem to find something to complain about either way.
My gf got repulsed by me getting into perfect shape. It was intimidating and threatening to her. After 10 years I’m no longer with her. You’re not alone brother.
Having recently become single and attempting to date again, it came to be a surprise the backlash I got from women when they ask about what exercise I do. I explain I lift and do a couple martial arts to which they seem to get an ick, and proceed to question why I bother. It puzzled me but this explains it.
We dont want men who are better than us. I personally dont go to the gym and prefer men who dont go either. Find somebody at your level🤷🏻♀️
@@beardedjuan3401 true. We dont like men who workout a lot. Find yourself a gym girl
@@beardedjuan3401 Personally, I wouldn't want a guy who works out a lot. There's all the time he's going to be in the gym, plus all the dietary restrictions. Plus, I don't find big muscles very attractive. I'd rather have a normal guy.
Despise going out to eat with (most) women. I enjoy the food, and the feeling of being full afterwards. They go to pick, and analyse every mouthful. They take the joy away completely.
maybe just let them talk... and you don't say anything about what your interested in.
Women take the joy out of most things.
My Boomer dad always tells me "Women are never happy."
He's told me this since I was a boy. He's right.
My father likewise...... back in the 70's lol 😂 😂 he also added, " it depends on their fu fu many a time lol 😂 😂
@@freddysquirenaranjo4859what's fu fu??
@@freddysquirenaranjo4859 ditto
Just had this happen this morning with my wife. Right after saying good morning she took something I said out of context and started laying into me with a hissy fit. Kind of funny that it happened today when I've previously made reservations to take her to her favorite restaurant for dinner this evening. I just disengaged, prepared for my day and didn't say a word. By the time we sat down for breakfast she seemed back to normal. Putting Rich's advice to work and seeing good results.
i commend your ability to condone this.
Right. Rich's advice to not argue with them is very valuable advice that works out for the best the vast majority of the time IMO.
Correct.@@loseerich493 Never argue with a woman.
My wife and I once got in an argument over the issue that I never want to argue. Lol.
I grew up with arguing parents, never saw the point of it.
My ex wife and I went to marriage counseling shortly after I’d left her. We thought about giving it another chance for the kids. She found a counselor, went to about 6 sessions, then the counselor wanted to talk to me. On our first session together, he asked me what I had to say about the marriage. I told him that for the last 20 years we were together, my mission was to make her happy. He stopped me and asked why I felt responsible for her happiness. I told him “happy wife, happy life…right”. He said some people are not capable of being happy and it’s not my responsibility to make anyone else happy. He said she was one of those people who doesn’t know how to be happy, right in front of her! This felt like the weight of an elephant being lifted from my shoulders. She’s still single and still miserable 9 years later. 🤣
2000 years of muted women for a REASON
Yep. And look at the havoc they cause in politics and bureaucracy
Every extension of privilege that has been extended to them has resulted in the degradation of society.
@@stephenc8956 The damage is incalculable and lasting.
Thanks for the reminder Rich. Don't focus on pleasing women. Focus on excellence.
Women don’t care about what a great guy you are. You could be Captain America. All women care about is how they FEEL about you.
*in that moment
FEEL indeed.
The truth: What a woman want changes with her emotions all through the day. Even from hour to hour.
TRUTH, they are emotional 4 year old children
@@dr_bullseyewomen stop agin mentally after their first period. So yes, women are literal children in grown bodies
@@dr_bullseye And we expect that from 4 year olds. With proper parenting, we can train 4 year olds to be decent humans. It ceases to be tolerable and acceptable by the age of 5 or 6.
Pretty accurate representation of woman. My wife gets annoyed that im working late in the business earning dollars wanting me to come to bed, but also wants the nice things in life.
I thank my lucky stars I have a good women. She cooks, makes my lunch everyday. She Will fill up my coffee without me asking. She is a very kind loving and loyal woman.
Keep her it's rare to find that ESPECIALLY in today's times
Couldn’t deal with this modern women that think there special because they have a vjj
It's sad that this is very very rare ...
Yeha man I also think it's very rare. Cherish her.
She's probably poisoning you
A Canadian comedian once said: “I finally figured out what love is; love is the ability to control your hate”.
I have been on my grind of constant self improvement since the age of 16: straight A student (BS. MBA, PhD), great career, and worked out every single day (awesome physique, won my age group in marathons). Her royal fatness used to call me "Mr. Perfect" with HATE in her voice. I stayed faithful. She cheated. They can have her.
I believe you, would a man leave a great woman? Probably not.
You are not perfect. You made a bad choice when it came to women.
I love how the woman's flaws are his choice.
Fascinating video, Let's stop taking relationship and family for granted. I have battled depression since my wife left me. I have tried all I can to make her see that I love her with everything I am made of but she has insisted on leaving. This has made me so empty, and I do not know what to do. I can barely function properly at work. I am frustrated and miserable. I really miss her.
Your pain resonates with me. Letting go of someone dear to your heart is an immense challenge. I found myself in a comparable situation when my 12-year-long relationship ended, and I struggled to accept it. Despite my efforts to reconcile, I eventually turned to a spiritual counsellor for guidance, which eventually led to a reunion. I'm now filled with joy
I'm keen on meeting the counsellor you're talking about. What steps should I take?
Online, you'll find shelly renee white, revered for her expertise as a spiritual counsellor. She has the ability to reunite couples and promote holistic well-being
Thank you for this information. I have just looked her up on Google. impressive.
Get a passport and a new loving wife
Misery loves company, misery loves to complain, misery loves to control, misery runs from success, gratefulness and peace. Run away miss misery, run away.
She will make this guy’s life miserable if he allowed it. She’s competing with his achievements and that jealously will turn toxic eventually and lead to divorce. If all she wanted was to cook cookies she’d be a stay at home mom and be happy he can provide that lifestyle.
She likes to bake other men cookies while he's at work 😂
He's not around enough. She may as well be single or get a more present bf. She wants someone to come home to.
Just one of the many daggers she casts at her man.@@MackABD
@@Julie-en5lgshe needs a subservient man. She cannot handle masculine men although she found one.
@@josephj6521 He can be masculine and his friends/work will value him. But if he's barely home she may as well be single
Growing up in the 60's I became aware of my Mom, and her circle of friends were rumor mongers, and would gossip at the fence, on the phone, having coffee. In the afternoon ... Soap operas. Common denominator : Drama
If they can enjoy drama without collateral damage, fine.
My own mother told me that a man can't make a woman happy. I'm grateful she had the courage to tell me the truth.
I was left by a woman who was jealous of my accomplishments.
wtf
I once dated a woman who was resentful of me. She was a bartender and I worked in master control operations at a local NBC affiliate who was attending community college at the time. Here I was with a specialized job with ambition continuing trying to better myself, and yet she hated me for it.
I dated a med student, she was extremely proud of that, everything changed when she found out how much I earned as a software engineer. "I chose the wrong career, you're not even graduated and you earn more than I'll earn for years after graduating". Then started being resented that I was more intelligent than her. Didn't last long after that.
@@thebrowithnoname1703I dated many women who couldn’t think past their nose. They had barely any savings, their biggest achievements were their past breakups and yes, not only were they jealous their mothers were insanely jealous!
Some mothers hated I’d spend money on cars, upgrading my home, etc.
Miserable people only want to bring others down.
@@mosca4968 that doesn’t surprise me at all. Good riddance to her and hope you found someone better.
She is not on his level. The mentality to stay in bed on weekends doesnt match with him
If he really loved her. She could do no wrong.
@@kathrynj.hernandez8425 smh.. typical response from a woman who takes no accountability
@@kathrynj.hernandez8425that's unhealthy anxious attachment. Not love.
@@kathrynj.hernandez8425narcissist seek help
This exact thing has happened to me multiple times. I have had multiple women tell me I am too perfect, they are too intimidated by me, and they feel like they could never measure up to the level I am operating on. I would say this is not even uncommon. People want someone who is good but not hugely better than them, or it makes them insecure. If you're a highly driven and successful man, especially if you are attractive also, the pool of women who are going to be able to keep up with you and also be a good match is extremely small. A way around this is to spell out clearly to a woman that she doesn't need to be Superwoman to be with you, just pleasant and decent, enjoyable to be around, and not a liability. Most men are pretty happy with just that.
Respectfully, if wmn are saying that to you, then you need to raise the caliber of wmn that you are interacting with. Today , the average modern wmn is a loser. It's not like yesteryear when the average wmn was a decent and moral human being.
Facts. Got to a point earlier on with my 2nd wife she'd be getting pissed here & there (especially on weekends) & one time let it slip that she was pissed I was on some sort of mission (staying productive) 7-days-a-week, that she "Can't keep up" (not that I was even asking her to). You see, she didn't want to feel guilt she was sleeping in etc while I was up & getting shit done. Just like she'll get testy at dinner if I don't have any or more more typically, if I don't have more food in front of me than she does... she doesn't want the embarrassment. Someone once said, 'it forever pisses chicks off that men can find solice/happiness in the littlest of things'. They're incapable of understanding men are hardwired to be ok with 'labors of love'. We can take pride in fixing something, keeping a tidy yard etc. Rich is right - Keep striving to put a dent in the universe no matter what illogical pushback she may give you.
Are you guys sure this wasn’t Batman 🤔 or at the very least Bruce Wayne props to this guy be more like him at the very least with workouts lol
Gyming at 5am when ur girl is home is easy , doing it when no one is watching is harder
Can I just say😬don't hate me🥴 All of the unhappy and divorced women I know were ALLOWED to do what ever they wanted. I know "allowed" is going to make people angry but just an observation of mine. As a woman who has been married for 22 years. This is what I see from the single woman around me. The woman who go on girls nights and disrespect their husband in public and work long hours end up bitter and divorced.
You mean that they were never called out on disrespectful behavior and that the guy didn't set any boundaries in the relationship?
@@K4113B4113 yes, that's what I mean. Maybe I shouldn't have used allowed.
How would a man not "allow" it properly? And are some of those women a type that just couldn't adjust themselves even if the guy refused to be "ran over"?
Truth, preach ma'am.
Can this be pinned?
"If your life is to mean something, it's up to YOU.
You cannot influence the moments of planets. You cannot live forever. You cannot affect the entropy of the universe. All you can do is to make this moment, your moment, better. You can affect the lives of others around you, and you can affect your own life. You can ease some suffering. You can do some epic shit. If you, yourself, only last for a nanosecond, you might expand your influence to a millisecond. And that's something. Honest, it is.
You don't matter to the planets and the sun and the stars, but you matter to YOU. You matter to those around you. You matter to those you can reach, and touch, and who you live and die with.
Stop waiting for someone to give you what you want. The universe is too busy to care. It has worlds to create and galaxies to destroy. If you're worried about death and about your own end, don't. It's coming whether you like it or not. You will either arrive at the end of your life in style or you will arrive broken and beaten, but whichever way you choose, have no doubt that you WILL ARRIVE.
There is only now. If you have power, it's now. If you can change anything, you have to do it now. If you want to be or to have that next great thing, be it. Have it. Take it. Own it. Do it. Become it.
Be awesome. Do epic shit.
Do it now. The clock is ticking."
-- Truant, J.. The Universe Doesn't Give a Flying Fuck About You (Epic series Book 1) . Unknown. Kindle Edition.
Memento Mori:
"Remembering that I'll be dead soon is the most important tool I've ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything, all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure; these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart." -- Steve Jobs
She was flexing, making it sound like its a problem.
❤ exactly
The topic should have been that’s it hard for women to keep up when you have your act together and the idea of the effort they need to use is frightening to them. Many gals could not handle that I did not want alcohol, could comprehend that I never had an addiction, it freaked them out and in effect were intimidated - they couldn’t see themselves NOT drinking.
I’m so effin glad I have a good marriage ( about as good as a marriage can be) these woman today are CRAZY. I’m in my 60s now……when I met my wife woman were more old school, I’m a retired blue collar worker, made a good living. We have similar goals and live a nice life. I don’t envy young men today, sounds like you can’t win. I’d be single if I were 20-30 something today, no doubt
Whoa, hmmmmm, harsh truth.
my friend's older sister was like that. she could not be content when everything was going good. she had to have drama and chaos in her life to be able to function.
You can't make anyone happy.
Happiness and contentment can only come from the inside. Nothing external will ever satisfy, at least not for long.
Thats bs. Its not hard to make the average man happy as long as there isnt something specifically looming over his head like a terminal illness, facing a foreclosure ect.
I can tell young men, that 😮women will change quickly like the wind, don’t take it personal, don’t try to change her mind, she doesn’t know her own mind, so move on, get a good dog, hang with your buddies, never let a woman control your emotions, they are unpredictable like the wind. Men should be steady like a rock. Enjoy your life, hobbies, buddies, don’t chase women, good men are the prize.
100%
Well said and on target.
💯 common sense. I didnt figure this out until 40 years old. Theyre all crazy, the key is to find the right kinda crazy for you that you can tolerate😂
I red pilled three years ago and stopped trying to please the wife. Everything dramatically improved.
I’m learning not to sweat my wife’s petty complaints. Hard to do at first because my usual reaction would be “stfu, you live a perfect life with a high earning powerful husband who gives you everything you want and puts your daughter (his step-daughter) through private school.” But getting upset about little stuff doesn’t help anything. If you ignore it, it usually goes away. Just make sure she can’t get anything better.
that's a lot of effort for... what is it you're getting from her?
a year or two from now, let me know if she hasn't left you or cheated on you
with single moms, usually after you've supported them and put their children through something expensive is when they're ready to be done with you.
This is your most on point video yet Rich
Al Bundy told us this eternal truth decades ago.
Al Bundy - The True Philosopher.
They hate being happy. If you happen to have girl put yourself first
Had a girlfriend that left me because i wasn't ambitious enough.
Maybe i wasn't. I focused to much on her, Sometimes, it takes a while before you get your stride, but i found it, got married and became successful. Where is she? Still single, and no one wants to take ger seriously. She did find a good one but left him because he didn't pay enough attention to her.
You can't make this shit up!!
Never aim to impress to attain a relationship. It makes you look desperate or needy. Be yourself. Forge your path. If another person values you, great. If not, move on. Trying to force-fit a relationship is an utter waste of time and resources.
Even in the garden of Eden…Eve could not be content and happy. She had the original man. Man made in God’s image. What else is there to say?
At the fall of man, God placed a separate curse on men, on women, and on the serpent. PART of the curse on women was that they would continually attempt to usurp the authority of men. This is precisely what we see today.
First you will get to hear your not doing enough, then you go do more and you'll get to hear your never around! There is no pleasing them so just stay centered within yourself date-have fun and don't let there emotional garbage roller coaster effect you, including helping them pack if needed, stay happy guys.
Giselle cheated on Tom Brady for years, let that sink in.
She never did that. He did
Yes 💯……….women manufacture drama that does NOT exist.
Give a woman what she wants, and still the complaints don’t stop
Tom Brady was "the perfect man" and he still got divorced by his unhappy wife just like everybody else on planet earth!
The feminist chant at a recent DC protest went like this: WHAT DO WE WANT! WE DON’T KNOW! WHEN DO WE WANT IT! NOW!!!!
Men, the only winning move is not to play.
Women can't ever be happy, but a bachelor can
I've said this for years! There is no way in hell they can ever be happy.
Happiness, true contentedness comes from within. No one can make me feel happiness as I cannot make another feel happiness. If a guy or a woman is unhappy, he or she needs to look inward and do the work to change his or her life.
The problem is she thinks she's supposed to compete with him. No. He leads, you follow and be his help meet. Both of you profit.
Unfortunately, I see this too often. Modern women are compelled to find something to obsessively complain about.
I'm seeing this all the way up to women in their 60s. They've been wrecking society for decades, and the process is almost perfected in this current, young crop of women.
So true! Once you reach this simple truth it becomes so clear. Look after yourself first!!
On a mission to succeed is your goal as a man. Don't let others stop you especially a woman.
Haha. I’ve always had them complain about ridiculous things. I just walk away or find something else to do as an excuse to step away. They quickly grovel back to me when they’ve realized how childish they behaved.
The key word in your post is "childish".
She wants a rich,successful man. But hates that he is always working. She wants a guy who is in great shape. But hates that he is always at the gym and doesn't like to indulge in desserts. She wants a guy with a good sense of humor. But hates that he never takes anything seriously...etc...
I don’t this is a top shelf guy necessarily - men who are overachievers are often trying to prove their own worth to themselves and have low self esteem issues. High achievement is great but without evidence of balance, something’s off
Narcissists are envious of, jealous of, and intimidated by ANYONE who is “better” than them.
I hope this guy find this and moves on without this ticking time bomb.
To be fair, that does sound like an obnoxious person to live with.
He's the kid who always asked the teacher if there's extra credit
I spent the first half of my life deliberately trying to overlook the emotionalism, the flightiness, the inconsistency, and the insincerity.
Because I believed that somewhere hiding behind all of the above were sugar, and spice, and everything nice.
Then I found out the part I was tryna see past... was the whole building. There was never anything there other than the emotionalism, flightiness, inconsistency, and insincerity. That's the deal.
...And it's a crappy one.
'Oh but 6xual gratification!'
That's been free and abundant for decades without the involvement of a second party. The only part that really appeals other than that is companionship... and they're the worst companions imaginable.
Cats are objectively preferable, and cats *suck* as pets.
Calm down
@@amaldpdamald8874
I'll edit the 4 letters' worth of allcaps.
I know how that can upset milksop screen addicts.
@@amaldpdamald8874
I'm sorry, did 4 letters' of allcaps ruin your day?
I'll that edit that for you.
I have never met a happy woman- I have been all over the states (military family, father and then I)
Women are unhappy single, they are unhappy married. They are unhappy without children and they are unhappy with children. THEY are never happy.
True enough that we are unhappy if we expect too much from our romantic partner.
Being grateful is a discipline. A mindset. Im a religious person and I have to discipline myself in how I think everyday. To be grateful from what God gives me everyday.
Always be thankful even in small things. This discipline is not easy. But it can be done.
"Stop trying to make women happy because you're never going to do it" - truth bomb. It took me long enough to learn that one!
There is no perfect man or woman. Life is hard and there are ups and downs.
They wil ruin you, no matter what. They are jealous and therefore want to destroy you!
Monday, June 10, 2024 ☁⛅☁
My mom used to watch the evening news and say, "Some people just have to find something to bitch about." 😕
.
Right On , Absolutely Correct
5:40 It's here when I see "Queen" for the street in the background as you turn... do I recall, as I live in the States, that you are in Canada? Hail to the Queen. Hahaha!
The Very Best is always only Half Good!
Words to live by! Thank You Rich for your insight.
It's about chemistry it's not ticking all boxes for so called perfection.
Do not move in together. Full stop.
Bond with or marry someone who is fundamentally happy, on a metaphysical level, that is. That advice would be directed to either men or women. The man in the question may be a success; but consider the possibility that his woman wasn’t the right choice.
Thank you Rich. This was a helpful reminder. I appreciate you and what you’re doing here.
Extremely type A individuals border on sociopathy. They are obsessed with pedigree and success, and relationships for them tend to be mere formalities. These people tend to end up eating themselves alive if they can't catch their lucky break that pushes them into the upper echelons of success.
It's a disturbing thing to behold.
Thanks for the reminder!
their contentment is a moving target, even for themselves. if you're getting roughly a 50% hit-rate, you're doing well, and you'll be okay. For all the misses you just shrug them off and tell her to live with it. When you're okay with that she will be too.
Women find unhappiness inside them. External factors don't even matter. A 24. year marriage taught me this and then it ended my marriage in spite of my herculean efforts. I wish I knew this stuff then.