same. I want a community. if I'd get a girlfriend I would just talk to her too much and would get annoying, but if I'd have lots of homies I could do load balancing
Just wanted to express my small thank you to you. Your videos is something I really needed, especially since I myself am going through a rough time. Leaving your videos play in the background while I’m just laying there and listening to your voice somehow brings comfort to me. keep on doing the great work and I can not wait for more of your videos! thank you again and may god bless you ❤
My biggest advice to younger men (I'm 24 and married) is that If you find a gem among your age group, pursue that You can tell by the way they move But people can change, and still get you hurt. Doesn't mean you're a fool - just means they're buggin. Focus on you, and be okay with losing people if you have to
Age 24, still a young man and worse married in 2024 to another gen z giving out advice. Dude sit down kid. Nothing more condescending and haughty than another young person trying to brag or son his peers under the guise of “advice”…be humble
@@kozmatheclownI mean from what I’m getting out of your perspective comment, you’re basically saying that “It’s just a comment, so does it matter ?” I’m not trying to start an argument bro, but go off if you want King
I totally understand where ur coming from dude. I got rejected by this girl I had a crush on last year and it really hurt. I thought I had this shit in the bag, she was always excited to see me, it felt like she was flirting with me sometimes. I asked her out to homecoming and said she had plans with her friends instead. That hurt enough on its own, but on the same night she got back with her ex and posted pictures of them holding hands and kissing all over her story. And they guy she got back with is like some kind of NPC. He just follows her around everywhere and like never shows any emotion of any kind. Teenage girls don't make any sense to me. Fuck high school dating, I'll worry about this bs in collage.
advice from someone in college: you should still not care too much about this stuff. just focus on yourself and eventually you'll find the one meant to you, not just some random girl that you don't really like and just got with her to be in a relationship. last year i started dating this girl just a couple of weeks after meeting eachother. we liked eachother, the feeling was real but it was kinda obvious from the start that we didn't really clicked and eventually something would go wrong. i didn't thought about it much if it was a good idea to date her or not, i just went with it because she was the first girl to really take an intrest in me. later we were having many problems with eachother(as expected) and after five months i broke up with her, it went very well because she agreed to it and we are still really good friends. i didn't say i regret it because there were some good moments and i grew up a lot after this experience, but in conclusion you shouln'd go into a relationship just for the sake of it, be sure that you can see a great future with the person.
this is a dude i wanna listen to while gaming. Like when im alone with my thoughts playing games chilling, this guy just makes me think bout life in a few years after high school and what to do. And especially in this video and the one about fake friends, teaches me on how to cope and deal with people who manipulate you and use you for their own good and then throw you away like a piece of garbage when you're useless to them. Love your videos man, waiting on the next one!
as a person who has a gf now, i need to say that not caring so much about having GF is the thing that will bring you one. In our language we often call romantic partners our "second halves", but the fact is - you need to be not a half to have a pair, you need to be whole yourself, and it will attract another whole one. I am mostly against institution of marriage (me and my gf plan to do it only to take advantage of some legal institutions), but you do you.
bro actually went off in this one. this one calmed me down a bit since ive been stressing about finding a girlfriend for a while now, but truth is i dont really have much as it stands right now; and i'd probably just feel awful in the situation where i have nothing to provide. it does suck having the feeling of wanting a connection with someone but i dont think it's healthy to let that govern your decisions. ill probably be alright.
Idk if you’ll see this but, I’m not a guy I’m a gay girl but this video is so real ‼️ people (myself included, I’m not above the “status quo” but atleast I’m self aware) can be super superficial and as someone who wants deep platonic/romantic connection its a struggle. I like how around 4:26 you start talking about how being cut off was integral to your growth because (and maybe I’m just biased as a spiritual person) it can really be true to an extent, honestly I’m thankful for all my past failures/rejections because now I know better and I can alchemize my pain. Hopefully I get out of the “desperate for a girlfriend” energy soon 🫂
To be honest, this is something that I was reconsidering myself to be. "Am I really that ready to be in a relationship?" To be honest, I don't know. I just sleep over my alarm and I don't have time to get ready for School and what not, even contrary to the fact that I feel emotionally tired at school. It aches and hurts watching people walk around, showing affection to their lovers, while I'm just there, With no GF. But recently I thought to myself whether or not I am just ok with it. And I been trying to exercise to get myself in shape instead of getting Mcdonalds almost everyday. I want to Exercise, Get healthy, Work for money, Spend time with my family and friends, and not to mention, actually be happy with my life. And with this new generation, I can't just enjoy my day hanging out with my female friends without someone asking "Are you two dating?" It's really annoying, and I can't take it anymore. But, I guess it is what it is. But overall, my day was alright.
My advice to you is to start with health and the other things will come easier. If you eat well, sleep, drink water, and exercise regularly, you will most likely have a higher baseline happiness which will afford you the energy to work, the positivity to benefit your friends and family when around them, and you can rule out a major reason why you might not be happy. It's not a fix-all, but its solid start and you starting is infinitely more than not. If you want some tips towards losing weight, eating healthy, or exercising, I can give you some or refer you to good youtube channels to learn from. My actual response to your comment: I sorta feel this. When I picture the kind of person I want my wife to be, not in terms of looks (I'm a 7 on a good day, I know my limits), but in terms of character, that is not someone who I deserve. I don't show the level of kindness and positivity to the people around me that I would hope my wife would provide for me. I am too self-centred and have too many of my own issues to get over before I can focus on being bettered by and bettering my future girlfriend.
This video was honestly nice to listen to. I've been rejected a handful of times and technically never really had a girlfriend before but I've been around enough couples to grasp an understanding of what my type is. With all that being said, the idea of having a girlfriend or even getting married is a scary thought for me. It just seems like a lot of effort having to focus on another person. I know that sounds bad but I just mean that I'm so used to spending time with myself and talking to myself that trying to find a girlfriend almost seems like a waste of time. I'm young so I still have alot of time ahead of me but it still bothers me. But this video was reassuring to hear. Hearing it from someone else makes me feel like I'm aren't alone in this. Keep doing what you do, homie.
@@erickayala1414 yes but I still prefer not to worry about another person rn since I'm working towards my first million, and I have too much going on and little room in life to adjust for a girl who just entered my life
@@semperfi8941 a girl is like a part time job plus you would have to spend your money on her. and honestly I don't even know what is the point of getting a girlfriend, rather find friends - you can team up with them or relate to them because they are male. with girls you often have to filter yourself and constantly change to accomodate her whims or you also need to maintain attraction
i’ve been having this mindset since 2 years ago and i’m never looking back, there is no long positive ROI with modern day western women, it’s 100% more worth becoming your full self cuz no matter what you think we are all alone at the end of the day… might as well love yourself and love being alone then.
yoo this video actually made such a difference for me. the part where you said not to play games really showed me what was going on. a girl i literally liked for so long (and was still hung up on) would ghost me for hella long and it would piss me off. not playing these “leaving on delivered” games anymore. thanks Martin. love your videos ❤
Your videos have inspired me, more than anything, to do a similar content to what you're doing now. I was wondering if, at some point, maybe we could work on things together? Maybe with two minds, we could come up with something. Maybe it could be like the breaking bad walter & jesse scene, or maybe thats not your thing, either way I completely support your path. I wish you the best.
a couple of weeks ago I met a girl and we started chatting for days, and she was literally the perfect girl for me. But a day we got out and she was really different...she was with her friend and it was like I didn't exist...I've felt so bad and I am still thinking about it, I caught she was the right girl....I'm glad I moved on and now I'm working on myself, going to the gym, studying....Doing all the stuff that makes me myself. Guys: if she is not the one for you, move on. You will find someone who really cares about you a day, just be yourself and take care of yourself!
I don't care about getting a girlfriend because i already feel loved by friends and family. Not because it's a "waste of time" or bc im scared it will go wrong or that it will hold me back. Love doesn't have to be romantic. Im not saying ima stay single for the rest of my life that's dumb, ive always likes girls but im not going to spend my life chasing for that kind of pleasure. Ima just wait around until i meet the right girl and in the meantime just chillax and not care about rushing my love life
In few weeks im gonna turn 18, never had a girlfriend and i think there is no for me in my town.. I focus on other things that i found more important. Nice video btw
I agree with a lot of what you're saying here. Don't waste time on relationships that wont last or aren't worth it. They only hold you back and waste time realistically. Focus on yourself and helping others, and it'll work out.
as a girl, I’m sure you will find someone someday for sure. Keep doing what you’re doing and keep up that grind. One word of advice though, it still might be very hard to meet the one without looking for her. A lot of people I know think that love will just show up and end up not finding anyone.
Honestly I haven't had the need to find someone ever in my life, I'm 22 now and a couple of years ago when I was just starting college, I started dating a girl but after 5 months I broke up with her since I wasn't into the relationship as much as she was, our parents kind of forced us together since I knew her from high school. I just never liked the idea being tied down to just one person and talking to them almost every single day and trying to satisfy them, it sounds like purgatory to me.
recently got my heart broken but i realized she isnt and never was worth my effort and i feel like a fool for how much i cried over it. Thanks for the great videos man keep up the great work bro your heading on the right path. God Bless!
I just broke up with my ex yesterday for the same exact reasons you just stated martin. I've never felt relieved for the fact that I'm not the only one who thinks that you should prioritize yourself. I'm still 17 years young and I know I can do a lot more than waste time on gfs. Thanks!!!❤
@@mentalbreakdownishere7536 Well it’s down to interpretation. I guess the statement can mean either of our definitions. But we don’t know how *they* interpret it, which is why I only suggested it *”Sounds like unhealthy expectations”* rather than saying “those ARE unhealthy expectations”.
Im 22 now and I can really relate. Everyone seems to have a partner now or at least dated once or twice. I’ve never had a boyfriend and everything thinks I’m weird. My family always makes comments, my coworkers always ask me and my friends make remarks. I’ve been waiting for a guy to fall into my life but over the years I’ve kind of just accepted that unless you put yourself out there and lower your expectations, it’s not going to happen. And for me I’d rather stay in my room playing videogames instead of going on tinder with a pound of makeup in every photo acting fake so I compete with all the other basic girls. There’s more to life than having a partner and I think some of us are just destined to be alone. It’s definitely a tough pill to swallow but being single can have its benefits as well
i had a huge crush on a girl back in 2019, and last summer her nd a couple of oher friends came to stay with us for a week and a half. turns out she liked me back and while we agreed we shouldnt date because she was going to college and i lived really far away, it still seemed like it was gonna work out. maybe its me that needs to mature,,maybe its her. Honestly the times you get what you want or need in life are when you throw up your hands and give up, because in that moment is when the right time or the right person walks in and everything is beautiful. trust god and lean not on you own understanding, in all your ways acknowledge him and he will make your path straight
Lowkey Martin I saw your video before and i Usually play videos in the background while im playing games (my attention span is ruined) but i can heavily relate to you please start doing this its relaxing and relatable. Super Underappreciated.
I've had plenty of girlfriends. Relationships are really situationalships. They stay till something better comes along. They have all these high expectations for you yet you tell them what you want and now your "controlling".
I got a girl now and tbh, she's the best thing to ever happen to me. She makes me so happy man. It's like, she's my best friend, but we are dating so I see her 5x more often than my other friends. It's amazing
NGL, i noticed ive been watching alot of ur videos. I think i just like hearing someone rambling alot of interesting things that can be also relatable sometimes and its pretty fun and cool. Keep up with ur grind bro
@@ItsSoSymple give it a chance because the proof is out there you just have to look for it and if you look for it you will realize how good of a decision you made.
@@Lamnsss but if the proof is out there wouldn’t everyone be forced to believe im a sense, cuz you can’t deny real proof therefore you wouldn’t be able to say he doesn’t exist, is it just the principles god teaches that make you a better person so you follow him or do you follow him bc you believe everything from a historical record? i don’t believe school history books are remotely accurate to the actual history so what makes you think the bible hasn’t been messed with there’s no way to know what really happened yk cuz we just weren’t there, am i lost hope? what can god offer me that i physically mentally and spiritually can’t offer myself in this world? and where’s the first step with my mentality?
@@ItsSoSymple This is just my 2 cents, but I think the fact that the teachings within the bible have incredible real life benefits when applied is the closest thing to solid proof that you're gonna get. What I mean is that if the knowledge did not infact come from a divine source, then how is it that the knowledge is so tremendously beneficial and holds some of the greatest wisdom for life. I'm still figuring everything out myself, so take my opinion with a grain of salt.
random advice : if you make your thumbnail more catchy, more people will click it i mean like from thumbnail majority of people will find this boring but once people watch it only then they will find it interesting
Broke up with her a month ago, she was everything to me but she was emotionally abusive and manipulative. i still miss her and i feel lost. I like this new amazing girl but i never get a chance to talk to her, ive been waiting a few weeks to ask her out
I get you. As a girl, I have put WAY too much energy into loving and caring for boys who honestly want nothing to do with me. Life is too complicated as it is without having to worry about maintaining a relationship on top of it all. I used to want a boyfriend so so badly, especially when I was younger. I mean, what teen doesn’t? The idea of 'young love' is a nice concept but it rarely works out that way and yeah, it really isn’t worth all the stress and needless pain. I'm tired of being emotionally drained and hurt by people. Dating is one of the last things I wanna get involved with right now, it'd just be too tiring. Maybe one day the right guy will come along, but as it stands now, I'm contentedly single.
Similar thing happened to me. I had a girlfriend for like a few mounths but she cut me off when I went to high school now I am 2 years into high school and still thinking about her and that I should have done things better. However this sentance that you've said that if she is the right one than you don't have to play stupid games is really hit me and now I am sort of more clear visioned. So thanks for this video man
I'm a girl and I never had dated or been in a romantic relationship in my life. Obviously, I had feelings for many people but honestly not being involved with anyone is a huge blessing at least at this stage of my life because I can't even take care of myself and I barely feel the motivation to continue living.
havent watch the full vid yet but immediately something relatable. I've always been the "nice guy". It's not that I'm afraid of what others might think about me or anything but I've never understood being unessessarily mean to others. But lately, I just decided to change myself bcuz I wanted a girlfriend for the first time in my life. It worked pretty good until I fell upon the most beautiful girl. All she wanted from me was to treat her right. But I kept being what I thought people wanted out of me and ended up screwing it all up. She's mad distant now.
for everyone who never had a girlfriend or broke up with their girlfriend do not worry my friends better times will come and you will find the one for you. in order to experience sunshine you need to experience darkness first.
I don't date for marriage but that's because I don't trust the institution of marriage; if my partner actually loves me, I want them to stay, maybe even raise kids together. Marriage just rewards women for leaving. It scares me how quickly people can change. How the woman you thought loved you back transformed into a monster. How she gave into the temptation to leave you, take your money, take your kids, find a "better" man, and relive the "glory days." It's that temptation that drives women to cheat and drives men to sewerslide. Commitment is the only thing that can heal society, but it's so hard to find.
It really depends on how she is mentally and if she's prepared to have a healthy relationship. Always be able to pray with your girlfriend as well, will make the bond so much better
Hey man, I found you from your video that was pretty big and I just wanted to say that you are loved. I'm a bit younger than you but I also share some of the same feelings and found out that devoting my life to Christ has made my life so much better. I'm just so appreciative for what I have and grateful that I have someone I can always depend on. Idk if you will read this or care but I would be so happy if you just looked a little into Jesus and him dying on the cross for our sins. Keep grinding and don't give up, I'm praying for you.
I agree with homie entirely, I've actually been doing the same (Tight schedules and graduation) and I'd say I'm better off now than I was years ago chasing for relationships and such, sometimes you just don't have the time. Other's might not understand or respect your motivations And that's fine as long as you can continue what's possible i guess, W video 👑
I've had one experience in my life with one girl which lasted about 10 months I was deeply in love and I really thought I had found that one girl that would be with me for a very long time I don't know if this is very important but she's an adopted kid, and we weren't in the same school either and it made it hard to see each other (or me see her rather you'll see why) because even though our schools weren't far away there was always something that made it impossible So her school was about 1km away from mine and we had settled on seeing each other on thursdays from 2 to 3 I believe and tuesday, thursday, and friday evenings after school I'm someone that thinks sex isn't a good thing, although not inherently bad, this isn't what I'm seeking for, I was searching for an emotional connection between someone I can trust, and build things on top of this base This is why I wasn't really keen on having sex for the first months We wouldn't see a lot, because on weekends she was "studying" (She was actually going in town with her friends all weekend she almost never studied, but that I learnt from my friends after the relationship, they didn't tell me because they didn't know she was lying to me about it) and she had to go 30 minutes after we got out of school so at max I'd see her 3h in the week, which was painfully low for me but she didnt really seem to care ( first red flag I didn't notice, I was the only one making the advances to see her) I don't want to make this comment too long so I'll speed up the pace a bit Fast forward to valentine's day yada yada I invite her to a restaurant I buy her flowers and pay for the whole thing yada yada, I don't even recall her saying thank you. She had just brought me a random fake rose :/ Then comes may, where she started being a bit more distant, but weirdly that's when she started insisting a lot more on having sex (both virgins at the time) so I eventually said ok, though I still wasn't keen on this idea. The sex was, very, and I mean, VERY awkward, and I hated it very much. Now that's also on me because I hadn't slept much the night before so I was very tired, but it was still very awkward it really didn't feel natural at all and I wish I could just go back and say no but that's now how life works lol 2 weeks later I receive a text at school saying she was breaking up with me because she didn't love me anymore and that I had done nothing wrong and didn't have to worry yada yada What I concluded is that she had stopped loving me long time ago (If she had even loved me in the first place I'm still not sure), and just asked to have sex just to get rid of her virginity This whole thing ended in june last year and I had been very sad for about 5 months (going as far as drinking/smoking) I've been getting better, but as you said in your title, I really don't want anything to do with a girlfriend as a teen (early adult 😢 time goes fast)
I really can't put someone I like, in a position where I'm not able to give her everything she wants whether it's money, a ride, or just facetiming 24/7. Nice video mate I've been fckin with the raw, unedited videos you put out.
This is the most painful video you sent. The get a girlfriend it hits different edit “i hade to edit it because it sounded like I was trying to roast you
I think that what people are doing wrong is the way they treat their lovers. Like, 80% of people nowadays don't even think that you are dating another person, they just think it's like an "object" that can be replace anytime, and like no man. On the other side there's another real person with real problems, objectives, dreams, perspectives and ideologies each one being as complex as the other and people doesn't care about it at all. I've tried to be totally alone 2 years ago and it revealed so many things to me that at this point that i don't even consider getting in love anymore. Why would i spent my time and energy trying to find someone that will stay with me for 1 or 2 years and then just leave? Why would i be determined to make it work out if i don't even need it? I can be happy alone, i can follow my dreams alone, so why would i stress out by getting a girlfriend? Also, i'm not trying to say that "Omg me is strong me doesn't need woman in my life", what i am saying is that there's no point in focusing on that anymore. Years ago, when i got obsessed with getting someone to love, i was a total loser man. But now that i've stopped caring about it, i am a real man, a real person. I accomplished my objectives, i got happy with myself, i am following my dreams, i am becoming SOMEONE. And the ironic thing is that, i wouldn't become that someone if i've been always looking for someone to enjoy, instead of trying to enjoy who i am.
7:40 This is how you think it'll go. This isn't reality, so don't be upset when it doesn't go the way you've been telling yourself it'll go for years. I agree that being single makes things easier though.
I sometimes think of this. If God is going to provide the right one at the right time then you should take that time to work with God to become the perfect one for her. Because she also might be praying for the perfect husband to come at the right time which means she’s also working to become the right wife. And when the time is right that’s when you’ll will come together, his right one and her right one and give glory to God.
Its not really a waste of time having a gf, its time consuming but not time wasting. I have a gf, i have been w her for more than a year, we had have problems but its so nice having someone who you can trust, someone you can sit with for a moment and breath, rest on her lap, tell her about your feelings (like you´re doing it in this video), its like building a castle, obviusly its hard and time consuming but it makes you feel better, it's like someone helping you with a bag you're carrying, it relieves your body. Searching for love doesnt work for anyone, love needs to be found, like a coincidence.
Life happens. You will always have to fight for it. Even if you have it, you fight it maintain it and happiness. You fight yourself to understand yourself and the world. The universe is chaos. It just is. Take care of yourself, and seek your goals. As people grow up and gain wisdom you'll have the edge.
Last girlfriend I had, I had her for 4 years. I tought she was the one. We both made a lot of effort to make everything work whenever one of us went through a tough time. One day another guy, one of her friends kissed her. She didn't push back. She did start to yell at him right after and came clean to me at the end of the day. I forgave her. It was a mistake, everybody makes them. I told her that we are about to go through hard times because even though I forgave her, I was still hurt. She didn't want to go through this with me. She felt too guilty and decided it was better to leave me. I was broken. All that happened a few months ago. Took me a bit of time, but now I know that I am better alone. I don't need a significant other. I have lots of friend to support me emotionnaly and I also now see a girl only for fun times (if you know what I mean). My life is fine like this, maybe some day I will meet someone for who I will be ready to risk it all, do go thourgh all these years of sharing life without knowing if its going to last. But for now I don't want to invest myself emotionnaly with someone and I'm fine with it. There is more to life than girlfriends and wives and what not. Love is everywhere, you can get it through friendship and family. Do what you like, don't change for anyone and learn to live your life with yourself. If you ever fall in love, try not to lose yourself in the process. At the end we are all alone, and it's fine as long as you love yourself.
i also dont want a girlfriend i feel like i'd be a bad boyfriend also for me it feels like to much work but at the same time i want one to not feel lonely
I never had that type of thing with any girl, but i guess i never really cared since it doesnt affect me. I dont really want a girlfirwnd i live fine without one, but meeting her made me want to be her boyfriend, id always try to improve myself before i met her, but now i feel like i want to be better, in a good way. For her, and for myself, and shes genuinely a good person, she is the best type of person to be around, to talk too, to hang around with, shes really perfect. I dont need a girlfriend, but I want her to be my girlfriend now, i want to be her boyfriend
28 married. Take it however you want. I don't think you need a gf but more of a life partner/best friend that you can trust. It's hard to find that person but that person should make you a better person every day without them telling you to - because you want to deep down! The same goes for the other person as well. You won't find anyone perfect but you'll find someone to work the hardships together with!
Started watching this video with no expectations and ended up hearing exactly what I was talking abt with a female friend yesterday lmao, and he thinks exactly as us
I feel this bro. Like, i want a wife, but right now I'm not ripped, don't have a career that would sustain a family yet, and a bunch of other things that I would want to progress in before I get into a relationship. Just hard to get through that process with God, you know what I'm saying? But bro, I think if we had a minecraft session and just talked for an hour or two it would go so hard 😩🔥🔥🔥
The most down to earth person ive watched in the past 4 years man. Youre awesome But asking out principals daughter is still hella wild 🤣 I cant really say anything about my experiences because i never really tried nor cared, Im 18 as of right now but i genuienly can't be bothered with these lol
listen man dont focus on the bad stuff in life, think about the good things that happen in your life. Before if you ever find someone, find yourself first, you not LowkeyMartin your the only man Martin, its not about you but its not about everybody else, love yourself. Look at mistakes in life and improve yourself, love yourself, make yourself happy, take a good look and say am i upset because i have nobody, Wrong! im upset because im not happy with myself and i need to improve MYSELF. Before you find that special person, find the special you. You are special (:
I'm 15 and i still haven't had a girlfriend. Just waiting for the right girl yk. But also, even at this age, there is no point. Because you'll be together for a couple weeks, maybe a month, and break up. Plus at my age, most kids are extremely immature, and just have a girlfriend because everyone else has one. Which i think is bullshit. So i am just myself and always will be myself, no one can change that.
Fifteen? I'm twenty and never been in any relationships. You should focus on yourself- you have so much time to figure it out, don't let it bring you down.
5:20 "Don't get caught up in the idea of someone" words to live by 6:44 Yeah. Sometimes I feel worthless in the same way too, and I'm not even a girl... Heh looksmaxxing is kinda dumb when you can just have the perfect one or the other already made via simply getting good at drawing or some other skill... granted we haven't gotten good enough to where we can actively just choose our appearances, for better or for worse...
Idk if it’s really… right, to call people who don’t want to marry “retarded and disgusting” lol. I personally would only want to date someone if they were going to be my partner for a very long time otherwise I see no point. BUT, I also couldn’t care less if it was written down on paper and we shared our assets or not. Being in a relationship is about supporting each other through anything and that’s about all I see it as. Someone to be there for you. If they’re not gonna be there for you for an extended time, then they’re not worth my time.
noo bro dont take what I said out of context I didnt call those people retarded and disgusting I said I think its disgusting if someone just wants to play around and date around, your right its not right to call people that im mostly talking about hook up culture like why date someone if you know you dont wanna spend the rest of your life with them
ayy boss, nice to hear you considering gym, if you don't have time id really recommend calisthenics, its definitely easier if you are on the naturally skinny side, but even if your larger its still pretty good
Why I don't want a girlfriend anymore: Almost all are just looking for sex and somebody to be their daddy. Even those that seem the exact opposite. Just don't get one. You're really better off alone. You'll find that peace is a thousand times more important than anything.
im just gonna say one thing focus on yourself and don't give up move forward good for you leaving that girl + beaware who you make friends because they can make you go down bad if they were bad ones
Never wanted a gf when I was young I just wanted my own freedom and alot of money I wanted one in the future but right now I'm not in the best position to have one and it has never been my focus money/health has always been my focus but it's mostly money
Agree! Unless you meet her sooner! but moneys not everything its more about freedom! Trust God and put him first and he will make your paths straight! God bless bro ✝️
i use to think that a girl would make me happy, but ive realized that all i need is a friend.
all you need is Jesus bro
Self love n Jesus is wht u need fr
same. I want a community. if I'd get a girlfriend I would just talk to her too much and would get annoying, but if I'd have lots of homies I could do load balancing
@@LowkeyMartinWasTaken Absolutely
@@LowkeyMartinWasTaken what
Just wanted to express my small thank you to you. Your videos is something I really needed, especially since I myself am going through a rough time. Leaving your videos play in the background while I’m just laying there and listening to your voice somehow brings comfort to me. keep on doing the great work and I can not wait for more of your videos! thank you again and may god bless you ❤
Thanks so much man I appreciate it! Thats good to know I like to make my videos just chill
My biggest advice to younger men
(I'm 24 and married) is that
If you find a gem among your age group, pursue that
You can tell by the way they move
But people can change, and still get you hurt. Doesn't mean you're a fool - just means they're buggin.
Focus on you, and be okay with losing people if you have to
Truth
lowkey i'm better off alone ngl
Also self-reflection, if you're trying to date and none of it is working out, it's probably not just because nice guys finish last or whatever.
it's better to be alone,than be with the wrong people
Age 24, still a young man and worse married in 2024 to another gen z giving out advice. Dude sit down kid. Nothing more condescending and haughty than another young person trying to brag or son his peers under the guise of “advice”…be humble
The CIA could not torture this video out of me but go off king
i can’t tell if this is supposed to be a hate comment or nah
@@str1ke0000Does it matter?
@@kozmatheclownI mean from what I’m getting out of your perspective comment, you’re basically saying that “It’s just a comment, so does it matter ?” I’m not trying to start an argument bro, but go off if you want King
@@yang6825 What is bro on about 🗣🗣
@@babyhermitcrab5114 what is blud yappin’ about ?
I totally understand where ur coming from dude.
I got rejected by this girl I had a crush on last year and it really hurt. I thought I had this shit in the bag, she was always excited to see me, it felt like she was flirting with me sometimes.
I asked her out to homecoming and said she had plans with her friends instead.
That hurt enough on its own, but on the same night she got back with her ex and posted pictures of them holding hands and kissing all over her story.
And they guy she got back with is like some kind of NPC.
He just follows her around everywhere and like never shows any emotion of any kind.
Teenage girls don't make any sense to me.
Fuck high school dating, I'll worry about this bs in collage.
advice from someone in college: you should still not care too much about this stuff. just focus on yourself and eventually you'll find the one meant to you, not just some random girl that you don't really like and just got with her to be in a relationship. last year i started dating this girl just a couple of weeks after meeting eachother. we liked eachother, the feeling was real but it was kinda obvious from the start that we didn't really clicked and eventually something would go wrong. i didn't thought about it much if it was a good idea to date her or not, i just went with it because she was the first girl to really take an intrest in me. later we were having many problems with eachother(as expected) and after five months i broke up with her, it went very well because she agreed to it and we are still really good friends. i didn't say i regret it because there were some good moments and i grew up a lot after this experience, but in conclusion you shouln'd go into a relationship just for the sake of it, be sure that you can see a great future with the person.
It's pretty unhealthy to believe you're superior to others, you know literally nothing about her ex.
fr plus good chance hes better looking@@nagitoman
@@nagitoman L
@@YesPositive-y1d they kinda true tho
this is a dude i wanna listen to while gaming. Like when im alone with my thoughts playing games chilling, this guy just makes me think bout life in a few years after high school and what to do. And especially in this video and the one about fake friends, teaches me on how to cope and deal with people who manipulate you and use you for their own good and then throw you away like a piece of garbage when you're useless to them. Love your videos man, waiting on the next one!
No way this comes out an hour after I leave her
dating to marry is the way 🙏
With someone to always love, not eventually leave lol.
*loses half*
@@LukeMlsna It's 2024, Imma be the one taking half. Game is game.
@@nathangaspacio6128 respect
@@nathangaspacio6128 nahhhh
as a person who has a gf now, i need to say that not caring so much about having GF is the thing that will bring you one. In our language we often call romantic partners our "second halves", but the fact is - you need to be not a half to have a pair, you need to be whole yourself, and it will attract another whole one.
I am mostly against institution of marriage (me and my gf plan to do it only to take advantage of some legal institutions), but you do you.
The men has the pair though ;)
This is some logic of the girls will come and get you when you're taken and not when you aren't.
bro actually went off in this one. this one calmed me down a bit since ive been stressing about finding a girlfriend for a while now, but truth is i dont really have much as it stands right now; and i'd probably just feel awful in the situation where i have nothing to provide. it does suck having the feeling of wanting a connection with someone but i dont think it's healthy to let that govern your decisions. ill probably be alright.
Idk if you’ll see this but, I’m not a guy I’m a gay girl but this video is so real ‼️ people (myself included, I’m not above the “status quo” but atleast I’m self aware) can be super superficial and as someone who wants deep platonic/romantic connection its a struggle. I like how around 4:26 you start talking about how being cut off was integral to your growth because (and maybe I’m just biased as a spiritual person) it can really be true to an extent, honestly I’m thankful for all my past failures/rejections because now I know better and I can alchemize my pain. Hopefully I get out of the “desperate for a girlfriend” energy soon 🫂
To be honest, this is something that I was reconsidering myself to be. "Am I really that ready to be in a relationship?"
To be honest, I don't know. I just sleep over my alarm and I don't have time to get ready for School and what not, even contrary to the fact that I feel emotionally tired at school. It aches and hurts watching people walk around, showing affection to their lovers, while I'm just there, With no GF. But recently I thought to myself whether or not I am just ok with it. And I been trying to exercise to get myself in shape instead of getting Mcdonalds almost everyday. I want to Exercise, Get healthy, Work for money, Spend time with my family and friends, and not to mention, actually be happy with my life.
And with this new generation, I can't just enjoy my day hanging out with my female friends without someone asking "Are you two dating?" It's really annoying, and I can't take it anymore. But, I guess it is what it is.
But overall, my day was alright.
Getting mad at a question
My advice to you is to start with health and the other things will come easier. If you eat well, sleep, drink water, and exercise regularly, you will most likely have a higher baseline happiness which will afford you the energy to work, the positivity to benefit your friends and family when around them, and you can rule out a major reason why you might not be happy. It's not a fix-all, but its solid start and you starting is infinitely more than not.
If you want some tips towards losing weight, eating healthy, or exercising, I can give you some or refer you to good youtube channels to learn from.
My actual response to your comment: I sorta feel this. When I picture the kind of person I want my wife to be, not in terms of looks (I'm a 7 on a good day, I know my limits), but in terms of character, that is not someone who I deserve. I don't show the level of kindness and positivity to the people around me that I would hope my wife would provide for me. I am too self-centred and have too many of my own issues to get over before I can focus on being bettered by and bettering my future girlfriend.
@D6XGY6 how you’ve been dude?
This video was honestly nice to listen to.
I've been rejected a handful of times and technically never really had a girlfriend before but I've been around enough couples to grasp an understanding of what my type is.
With all that being said, the idea of having a girlfriend or even getting married is a scary thought for me. It just seems like a lot of effort having to focus on another person. I know that sounds bad but I just mean that I'm so used to spending time with myself and talking to myself that trying to find a girlfriend almost seems like a waste of time.
I'm young so I still have alot of time ahead of me but it still bothers me.
But this video was reassuring to hear. Hearing it from someone else makes me feel like I'm aren't alone in this.
Keep doing what you do, homie.
Im not letting no girl hold me back bro
🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
If anything a real relationship should help u improve urself n shi not hold u back
@@erickayala1414 yes but I still prefer not to worry about another person rn since I'm working towards my first million, and I have too much going on and little room in life to adjust for a girl who just entered my life
based
@@semperfi8941 a girl is like a part time job plus you would have to spend your money on her. and honestly I don't even know what is the point of getting a girlfriend, rather find friends - you can team up with them or relate to them because they are male. with girls you often have to filter yourself and constantly change to accomodate her whims or you also need to maintain attraction
another W ramble from lowkeymartin. great to see ur yt channel pop off like this, keep growing king and dont forget your crown.
i’ve been having this mindset since 2 years ago and i’m never looking back, there is no long positive ROI with modern day western women, it’s 100% more worth becoming your full self cuz no matter what you think we are all alone at the end of the day… might as well love yourself and love being alone then.
U seem like you would lowkey be a homie I would hang out with man, the realest stuff I’ve seen on UA-cam
yoo this video actually made such a difference for me. the part where you said not to play games really showed me what was going on. a girl i literally liked for so long (and was still hung up on) would ghost me for hella long and it would piss me off. not playing these “leaving on delivered” games anymore. thanks Martin. love your videos ❤
Your videos have inspired me, more than anything, to do a similar content to what you're doing now.
I was wondering if, at some point, maybe we could work on things together?
Maybe with two minds, we could come up with something.
Maybe it could be like the breaking bad walter & jesse scene, or maybe thats not your thing, either way I completely support your path.
I wish you the best.
a couple of weeks ago I met a girl and we started chatting for days, and she was literally the perfect girl for me. But a day we got out and she was really different...she was with her friend and it was like I didn't exist...I've felt so bad and I am still thinking about it, I caught she was the right girl....I'm glad I moved on and now I'm working on myself, going to the gym, studying....Doing all the stuff that makes me myself. Guys: if she is not the one for you, move on. You will find someone who really cares about you a day, just be yourself and take care of yourself!
I don't care about getting a girlfriend because i already feel loved by friends and family. Not because it's a "waste of time" or bc im scared it will go wrong or that it will hold me back.
Love doesn't have to be romantic. Im not saying ima stay single for the rest of my life that's dumb, ive always likes girls but im not going to spend my life chasing for that kind of pleasure. Ima just wait around until i meet the right girl and in the meantime just chillax and not care about rushing my love life
Dang bro same. Relationships has just because a possiblity if not distraction. I just have no idea how it would be possible since im such an introvert
In few weeks im gonna turn 18, never had a girlfriend and i think there is no for me in my town.. I focus on other things that i found more important. Nice video btw
gotta say, this touched up on a lot of real topics, i appreciate it.
I agree with a lot of what you're saying here. Don't waste time on relationships that wont last or aren't worth it. They only hold you back and waste time realistically. Focus on yourself and helping others, and it'll work out.
as a girl, I’m sure you will find someone someday for sure. Keep doing what you’re doing and keep up that grind. One word of advice though, it still might be very hard to meet the one without looking for her. A lot of people I know think that love will just show up and end up not finding anyone.
Honestly I haven't had the need to find someone ever in my life, I'm 22 now and a couple of years ago when I was just starting college, I started dating a girl but after 5 months I broke up with her since I wasn't into the relationship as much as she was, our parents kind of forced us together since I knew her from high school. I just never liked the idea being tied down to just one person and talking to them almost every single day and trying to satisfy them, it sounds like purgatory to me.
recently got my heart broken but i realized she isnt and never was worth my effort and i feel like a fool for how much i cried over it. Thanks for the great videos man keep up the great work bro your heading on the right path. God Bless!
I just broke up with my ex yesterday for the same exact reasons you just stated martin. I've never felt relieved for the fact that I'm not the only one who thinks that you should prioritize yourself. I'm still 17 years young and I know I can do a lot more than waste time on gfs. Thanks!!!❤
Love your videos amigo when I watch your videos I feel like i'm at a therapist. Wish the best for you.
aye thanks bro
thats so real bro - "I was sad because she wasn't what I thought she was"
Sounds like unhealthy expectations
@@MrMelonsz not reallly, when someone shows only the good side and after some time shows their true colors then what?
@@mentalbreakdownishere7536 Well it’s down to interpretation. I guess the statement can mean either of our definitions.
But we don’t know how *they* interpret it, which is why I only suggested it *”Sounds like unhealthy expectations”* rather than saying “those ARE unhealthy expectations”.
Im 22 now and I can really relate. Everyone seems to have a partner now or at least dated once or twice. I’ve never had a boyfriend and everything thinks I’m weird. My family always makes comments, my coworkers always ask me and my friends make remarks. I’ve been waiting for a guy to fall into my life but over the years I’ve kind of just accepted that unless you put yourself out there and lower your expectations, it’s not going to happen. And for me I’d rather stay in my room playing videogames instead of going on tinder with a pound of makeup in every photo acting fake so I compete with all the other basic girls. There’s more to life than having a partner and I think some of us are just destined to be alone. It’s definitely a tough pill to swallow but being single can have its benefits as well
Really after my break up I stopped caring and found out what was really important and meaningful it is family and friends
i had a huge crush on a girl back in 2019, and last summer her nd a couple of oher friends came to stay with us for a week and a half. turns out she liked me back and while we agreed we shouldnt date because she was going to college and i lived really far away, it still seemed like it was gonna work out. maybe its me that needs to mature,,maybe its her. Honestly the times you get what you want or need in life are when you throw up your hands and give up, because in that moment is when the right time or the right person walks in and everything is beautiful. trust god and lean not on you own understanding, in all your ways acknowledge him and he will make your path straight
Lowkey Martin I saw your video before and i Usually play videos in the background while im playing games (my attention span is ruined) but i can heavily relate to you please start doing this its relaxing and relatable. Super Underappreciated.
shut up
bro what man shut up
I've had plenty of girlfriends. Relationships are really situationalships. They stay till something better comes along. They have all these high expectations for you yet you tell them what you want and now your "controlling".
I got a girl now and tbh, she's the best thing to ever happen to me. She makes me so happy man. It's like, she's my best friend, but we are dating so I see her 5x more often than my other friends. It's amazing
NGL, i noticed ive been watching alot of ur videos. I think i just like hearing someone rambling alot of interesting things that can be also relatable sometimes and its pretty fun and cool. Keep up with ur grind bro
Same brother, im barely even alive.
all good bro follow Jesus hes all u need
@@LowkeyMartinWasTakeni feel like i can’t trick myself without proof how do you guys do it (not hating just genuinely curious cuz i can’t do it)
@@ItsSoSymple give it a chance because the proof is out there you just have to look for it and if you look for it you will realize how good of a decision you made.
@@Lamnsss but if the proof is out there wouldn’t everyone be forced to believe im a sense, cuz you can’t deny real proof therefore you wouldn’t be able to say he doesn’t exist, is it just the principles god teaches that make you a better person so you follow him or do you follow him bc you believe everything from a historical record? i don’t believe school history books are remotely accurate to the actual history so what makes you think the bible hasn’t been messed with there’s no way to know what really happened yk cuz we just weren’t there, am i lost hope? what can god offer me that i physically mentally and spiritually can’t offer myself in this world? and where’s the first step with my mentality?
@@ItsSoSymple This is just my 2 cents, but I think the fact that the teachings within the bible have incredible real life benefits when applied is the closest thing to solid proof that you're gonna get. What I mean is that if the knowledge did not infact come from a divine source, then how is it that the knowledge is so tremendously beneficial and holds some of the greatest wisdom for life. I'm still figuring everything out myself, so take my opinion with a grain of salt.
random advice : if you make your thumbnail more catchy, more people will click it i mean like from thumbnail majority of people will find this boring but once people watch it only then they will find it interesting
Broke up with her a month ago, she was everything to me but she was emotionally abusive and manipulative. i still miss her and i feel lost. I like this new amazing girl but i never get a chance to talk to her, ive been waiting a few weeks to ask her out
Just begin talking the next time you see the new one. Your previous one was abusive, never let her manipulate or abuse you ever again
@@thebestkillersolo404 lmao pretty sure I got rejected
i love u dawg. hope u succeed in life
I get you. As a girl, I have put WAY too much energy into loving and caring for boys who honestly want nothing to do with me. Life is too complicated as it is without having to worry about maintaining a relationship on top of it all.
I used to want a boyfriend so so badly, especially when I was younger. I mean, what teen doesn’t? The idea of 'young love' is a nice concept but it rarely works out that way and yeah, it really isn’t worth all the stress and needless pain. I'm tired of being emotionally drained and hurt by people. Dating is one of the last things I wanna get involved with right now, it'd just be too tiring.
Maybe one day the right guy will come along, but as it stands now, I'm contentedly single.
You need to find someone that wants the same. It will "naturally come along"
man you created a very real space with this content and the comments. love it
Similar thing happened to me. I had a girlfriend for like a few mounths but she cut me off when I went to high school now I am 2 years into high school and still thinking about her and that I should have done things better. However this sentance that you've said that if she is the right one than you don't have to play stupid games is really hit me and now I am sort of more clear visioned. So thanks for this video man
Man i love these types of vids. Continue doing what you love man.
I'm a girl and I never had dated or been in a romantic relationship in my life. Obviously, I had feelings for many people but honestly not being involved with anyone is a huge blessing at least at this stage of my life because I can't even take care of myself and I barely feel the motivation to continue living.
havent watch the full vid yet but immediately something relatable. I've always been the "nice guy". It's not that I'm afraid of what others might think about me or anything but I've never understood being unessessarily mean to others. But lately, I just decided to change myself bcuz I wanted a girlfriend for the first time in my life. It worked pretty good until I fell upon the most beautiful girl. All she wanted from me was to treat her right. But I kept being what I thought people wanted out of me and ended up screwing it all up. She's mad distant now.
great video buddy, i love how there is no cuts, so refreshing seeing a person not flashing cuts and subtitles. this video is so relatble btw.
gods timing is perfect, glory to god!
Jesus Is King
for everyone who never had a girlfriend or broke up with their girlfriend do not worry my friends better times will come and you will find the one for you. in order to experience sunshine you need to experience darkness first.
I don't date for marriage but that's because I don't trust the institution of marriage; if my partner actually loves me, I want them to stay, maybe even raise kids together. Marriage just rewards women for leaving.
It scares me how quickly people can change. How the woman you thought loved you back transformed into a monster. How she gave into the temptation to leave you, take your money, take your kids, find a "better" man, and relive the "glory days."
It's that temptation that drives women to cheat and drives men to sewerslide.
Commitment is the only thing that can heal society, but it's so hard to find.
Bro took the redpill
It really depends on how she is mentally and if she's prepared to have a healthy relationship. Always be able to pray with your girlfriend as well, will make the bond so much better
Hey man, I found you from your video that was pretty big and I just wanted to say that you are loved. I'm a bit younger than you but I also share some of the same feelings and found out that devoting my life to Christ has made my life so much better. I'm just so appreciative for what I have and grateful that I have someone I can always depend on. Idk if you will read this or care but I would be so happy if you just looked a little into Jesus and him dying on the cross for our sins. Keep grinding and don't give up, I'm praying for you.
Thanks bro! frr Jesus is king hes my Lord and Savior
I agree with homie entirely, I've actually been doing the same (Tight schedules and graduation) and I'd say I'm better off now than I was years ago chasing for relationships and such, sometimes you just don't have the time. Other's might not understand or respect your motivations And that's fine as long as you can continue what's possible i guess, W video 👑
I've had one experience in my life with one girl which lasted about 10 months
I was deeply in love and I really thought I had found that one girl that would be with me for a very long time
I don't know if this is very important but she's an adopted kid, and we weren't in the same school either and it made it hard to see each other (or me see her rather you'll see why) because even though our schools weren't far away there was always something that made it impossible
So her school was about 1km away from mine and we had settled on seeing each other on thursdays from 2 to 3 I believe and tuesday, thursday, and friday evenings after school
I'm someone that thinks sex isn't a good thing, although not inherently bad, this isn't what I'm seeking for, I was searching for an emotional connection between someone I can trust, and build things on top of this base
This is why I wasn't really keen on having sex for the first months
We wouldn't see a lot, because on weekends she was "studying" (She was actually going in town with her friends all weekend she almost never studied, but that I learnt from my friends after the relationship, they didn't tell me because they didn't know she was lying to me about it) and she had to go 30 minutes after we got out of school so at max I'd see her 3h in the week, which was painfully low for me but she didnt really seem to care ( first red flag I didn't notice, I was the only one making the advances to see her)
I don't want to make this comment too long so I'll speed up the pace a bit
Fast forward to valentine's day yada yada I invite her to a restaurant I buy her flowers and pay for the whole thing yada yada, I don't even recall her saying thank you. She had just brought me a random fake rose :/
Then comes may, where she started being a bit more distant, but weirdly that's when she started insisting a lot more on having sex (both virgins at the time) so I eventually said ok, though I still wasn't keen on this idea. The sex was, very, and I mean, VERY awkward, and I hated it very much. Now that's also on me because I hadn't slept much the night before so I was very tired, but it was still very awkward it really didn't feel natural at all and I wish I could just go back and say no but that's now how life works lol
2 weeks later I receive a text at school saying she was breaking up with me because she didn't love me anymore and that I had done nothing wrong and didn't have to worry yada yada
What I concluded is that she had stopped loving me long time ago (If she had even loved me in the first place I'm still not sure), and just asked to have sex just to get rid of her virginity
This whole thing ended in june last year and I had been very sad for about 5 months (going as far as drinking/smoking)
I've been getting better, but as you said in your title, I really don't want anything to do with a girlfriend as a teen (early adult 😢 time goes fast)
I really can't put someone I like, in a position where I'm not able to give her everything she wants whether it's money, a ride, or just facetiming 24/7. Nice video mate I've been fckin with the raw, unedited videos you put out.
Always know not to chase someone as life shall bring you someone Thou shall not rush for a human thou shall rush for gods glory ❤🕊️✝️
Frr Jesus is King, he is the water that will make us never thirst
The "spend money on them" got me 😂
I already know that my bank account will go broke if I get one...
This is the most painful video you sent. The get a girlfriend it hits different
edit “i hade to edit it because it sounded like I was trying to roast you
na
@@LowkeyMartinWasTakenapparently na is already. But I totally understand why yu don’t want one
I love genuine transparent content like this
I typed a whole essay of venting but its not worth it. Relationships suck and I thought I knew her. Im healing, just trying not to start crying.
keep your head up buddy
For real my guy. It seems that a lot of men these days focus way to much on love and dating then actual important stuff (I used to be one of them)
I think that what people are doing wrong is the way they treat their lovers. Like, 80% of people nowadays don't even think that you are dating another person, they just think it's like an "object" that can be replace anytime, and like no man. On the other side there's another real person with real problems, objectives, dreams, perspectives and ideologies each one being as complex as the other and people doesn't care about it at all.
I've tried to be totally alone 2 years ago and it revealed so many things to me that at this point that i don't even consider getting in love anymore.
Why would i spent my time and energy trying to find someone that will stay with me for 1 or 2 years and then just leave? Why would i be determined to make it work out if i don't even need it? I can be happy alone, i can follow my dreams alone, so why would i stress out by getting a girlfriend?
Also, i'm not trying to say that "Omg me is strong me doesn't need woman in my life", what i am saying is that there's no point in focusing on that anymore. Years ago, when i got obsessed with getting someone to love, i was a total loser man. But now that i've stopped caring about it, i am a real man, a real person. I accomplished my objectives, i got happy with myself, i am following my dreams, i am becoming SOMEONE. And the ironic thing is that, i wouldn't become that someone if i've been always looking for someone to enjoy, instead of trying to enjoy who i am.
I'm so fucked. I don't want a girlfriend but I want kids
You can adopt kids
@@Zyxqn Yeah but if I don't have a wife it will be bad for the kid
This video just has that feeling... Like you're talking with bro at 3 am about life, and is just a chill conversation.
7:40 This is how you think it'll go. This isn't reality, so don't be upset when it doesn't go the way you've been telling yourself it'll go for years. I agree that being single makes things easier though.
I sometimes think of this. If God is going to provide the right one at the right time then you should take that time to work with God to become the perfect one for her. Because she also might be praying for the perfect husband to come at the right time which means she’s also working to become the right wife. And when the time is right that’s when you’ll will come together, his right one and her right one and give glory to God.
Its not really a waste of time having a gf, its time consuming but not time wasting. I have a gf, i have been w her for more than a year, we had have problems but its so nice having someone who you can trust, someone you can sit with for a moment and breath, rest on her lap, tell her about your feelings (like you´re doing it in this video), its like building a castle, obviusly its hard and time consuming but it makes you feel better, it's like someone helping you with a bag you're carrying, it relieves your body.
Searching for love doesnt work for anyone, love needs to be found, like a coincidence.
Life happens. You will always have to fight for it. Even if you have it, you fight it maintain it and happiness. You fight yourself to understand yourself and the world. The universe is chaos. It just is. Take care of yourself, and seek your goals. As people grow up and gain wisdom you'll have the edge.
Last girlfriend I had, I had her for 4 years. I tought she was the one. We both made a lot of effort to make everything work whenever one of us went through a tough time. One day another guy, one of her friends kissed her. She didn't push back. She did start to yell at him right after and came clean to me at the end of the day. I forgave her. It was a mistake, everybody makes them. I told her that we are about to go through hard times because even though I forgave her, I was still hurt. She didn't want to go through this with me. She felt too guilty and decided it was better to leave me. I was broken. All that happened a few months ago. Took me a bit of time, but now I know that I am better alone. I don't need a significant other. I have lots of friend to support me emotionnaly and I also now see a girl only for fun times (if you know what I mean). My life is fine like this, maybe some day I will meet someone for who I will be ready to risk it all, do go thourgh all these years of sharing life without knowing if its going to last. But for now I don't want to invest myself emotionnaly with someone and I'm fine with it. There is more to life than girlfriends and wives and what not. Love is everywhere, you can get it through friendship and family. Do what you like, don't change for anyone and learn to live your life with yourself. If you ever fall in love, try not to lose yourself in the process. At the end we are all alone, and it's fine as long as you love yourself.
i stopped reading as soon as you said she had a male friend, that’s where you fucked up don’t let it slide again homie
I never had a girlfriend , I never tried, and i don't feel like getting a grilfriend anyway
John 13:7 lore
Jesus is King
i also dont want a girlfriend i feel like i'd be a bad boyfriend also for me it feels like to much work but at the same time i want one to not feel lonely
as someone whos been single for 23 years im ready for another 23!!!!!!
I never had that type of thing with any girl, but i guess i never really cared since it doesnt affect me. I dont really want a girlfirwnd i live fine without one, but meeting her made me want to be her boyfriend, id always try to improve myself before i met her, but now i feel like i want to be better, in a good way. For her, and for myself, and shes genuinely a good person, she is the best type of person to be around, to talk too, to hang around with, shes really perfect. I dont need a girlfriend, but I want her to be my girlfriend now, i want to be her boyfriend
28 married. Take it however you want.
I don't think you need a gf but more of a life partner/best friend that you can trust. It's hard to find that person but that person should make you a better person every day without them telling you to - because you want to deep down! The same goes for the other person as well. You won't find anyone perfect but you'll find someone to work the hardships together with!
Started watching this video with no expectations and ended up hearing exactly what I was talking abt with a female friend yesterday lmao, and he thinks exactly as us
To be honest, love to me is like gambling, you never know if your gonna win or lose
I absolutely agree with "I don't want a girlfriend, I want a wife"
until i found jesus christ i never experienced true love bro... im not pushing my religion on nobody, thats all ive got to say.
I feel this bro. Like, i want a wife, but right now I'm not ripped, don't have a career that would sustain a family yet, and a bunch of other things that I would want to progress in before I get into a relationship. Just hard to get through that process with God, you know what I'm saying?
But bro, I think if we had a minecraft session and just talked for an hour or two it would go so hard 😩🔥🔥🔥
The most down to earth person ive watched in the past 4 years man. Youre awesome
But asking out principals daughter is still hella wild 🤣
I cant really say anything about my experiences because i never really tried nor cared, Im 18 as of right now but i genuienly can't be bothered with these lol
listen man dont focus on the bad stuff in life, think about the good things that happen in your life. Before if you ever find someone, find yourself first, you not LowkeyMartin your the only man Martin, its not about you but its not about everybody else, love yourself. Look at mistakes in life and improve yourself, love yourself, make yourself happy, take a good look and say am i upset because i have nobody, Wrong! im upset because im not happy with myself and i need to improve MYSELF. Before you find that special person, find the special you. You are special (:
The guy that talks about life and play Minecraft the most wise man haha, thx for the vids bro✌
I'm 15 and i still haven't had a girlfriend. Just waiting for the right girl yk. But also, even at this age, there is no point. Because you'll be together for a couple weeks, maybe a month, and break up. Plus at my age, most kids are extremely immature, and just have a girlfriend because everyone else has one. Which i think is bullshit. So i am just myself and always will be myself, no one can change that.
Your 15 lil bro, trust me your good. Plenty of time to figure it out
Fifteen? I'm twenty and never been in any relationships. You should focus on yourself- you have so much time to figure it out, don't let it bring you down.
5:20 "Don't get caught up in the idea of someone" words to live by
6:44 Yeah. Sometimes I feel worthless in the same way too, and I'm not even a girl... Heh looksmaxxing is kinda dumb when you can just have the perfect one or the other already made via simply getting good at drawing or some other skill... granted we haven't gotten good enough to where we can actively just choose our appearances, for better or for worse...
I love the videos man I'm going to start binge-watching your videos.
what if she stayed loyal and told everyone she had a boyfriend and is looling for you now
then W thats good
some of the best advice I've ever personally heard
haha this guys so chill love listening to this
Idk if it’s really… right, to call people who don’t want to marry “retarded and disgusting” lol.
I personally would only want to date someone if they were going to be my partner for a very long time otherwise I see no point.
BUT, I also couldn’t care less if it was written down on paper and we shared our assets or not.
Being in a relationship is about supporting each other through anything and that’s about all I see it as.
Someone to be there for you. If they’re not gonna be there for you for an extended time, then they’re not worth my time.
noo bro dont take what I said out of context I didnt call those people retarded and disgusting I said I think its disgusting if someone just wants to play around and date around, your right its not right to call people that im mostly talking about hook up culture like why date someone if you know you dont wanna spend the rest of your life with them
@@LowkeyMartinWasTaken Ah I see lol. Thanks for clarifying. I can agree that hookup culture can be pretty nasty/soulless in many cases.
ayy boss, nice to hear you considering gym, if you don't have time id really recommend calisthenics, its definitely easier if you are on the naturally skinny side, but even if your larger its still pretty good
Why I don't want a girlfriend anymore: Almost all are just looking for sex and somebody to be their daddy. Even those that seem the exact opposite. Just don't get one. You're really better off alone. You'll find that peace is a thousand times more important than anything.
Totally understandable bro^^ I pray a good woman of God arrives when you’re ready for it 🙏
frrr bro
Your videos are the true meaning of "authentic". This is the thing that works
im just gonna say one thing focus on yourself and don't give up move forward good for you leaving that girl + beaware who you make friends because they can make you go down bad if they were bad ones
Yo what you say is pretty much relatable to me. U just earned by sub.
Thats the point hes relating to incel reditors
Never wanted a gf when I was young I just wanted my own freedom and alot of money I wanted one in the future but right now I'm not in the best position to have one and it has never been my focus money/health has always been my focus but it's mostly money
Agree! Unless you meet her sooner! but moneys not everything its more about freedom! Trust God and put him first and he will make your paths straight! God bless bro ✝️