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  • Опубліковано 9 вер 2024
  • Ever wondered what it's like to grow up in the Bollywood industry? This week I sit down with Seema Kiran Sajdeh who stars in Netflix hit show Bollywood Wives who shares her unfiltered truth on:
    - Growing up in Bollywood
    - Marriage, divorce & motherhood
    - Finding her superpower
    - How she manages her mental health & So much more.
    I loved this conversation with Seema and hope you will too!
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  • @quickcinemarecap
    @quickcinemarecap 8 місяців тому +9

    00:05 Transition from disciplined lifestyle to the chaotic world of Bollywood
    02:43 Seema Sajdeh grew up in South Bombay, in a nuclear family as the oldest sibling.
    07:47 The impact of social media comments on mental health
    10:16 Seema talks about her upbringing and family connections to Bollywood.
    15:25 The societal conditioning of women to constantly compromise and prioritize others.
    18:03 Overcoming fear and finding strength in speaking one's truth.
    23:09 Transition from struggling with motherhood to self-discovery
    25:47 Prioritizing herself led to clarity and happiness.
    30:55 Challenges of societal expectations and pressure on women regarding marriage and children.
    33:32 The decision to get married and have kids should not be rushed
    38:49 Finding happiness and purpose within oneself is essential for true fulfillment.
    41:19 Seema Sajdeh discusses her journey towards becoming more confident and the role of her female friendships in this transformation
    46:39 Seema felt nervous about filming 'Bollywood Wives' while separated.
    49:19 Seema shares about the challenges of being open on the show
    54:19 Finding time to disconnect and regroup is important
    57:12 Personal growth is about learning from our own mistakes and finding happiness

  • @sukonyagogoi4462
    @sukonyagogoi4462 10 місяців тому +252

    My parents conditioned me to have a career, be independent, travel the world, buy my own place..marriage was the last thing on the list.
    We are from a small town in Assam.
    Thanks, mom and dad.
    By the way, I have been married for 17 years now… married on my own terms, had my daughter when I was ready.

    • @ShivaniPauPodcast
      @ShivaniPauPodcast  10 місяців тому +13

      Love that!!!

    • @rituparna801
      @rituparna801 10 місяців тому +9

      More power to you. My parents are like that too. And I'm from Assam as well. Jorhat 😊

    • @DC-fw7ie
      @DC-fw7ie 10 місяців тому +6

      Same here. People who are “single-shaming” others are usually the ones who are the most insecure and unhappy in their own relationships. It’s much better to stay single than be in a toxic unhappy relationship!

    • @Kathakathan11
      @Kathakathan11 10 місяців тому

      That’s lovely, my parents are same.
      But I have gone through hell life medically.
      So they want me to settle and then plan the life.
      May I know the age when you had your daughter??
      Because all are talking about that I need 3 years before I have a child, and hence I should marry sooner.
      I have sidle lined my career, i have no choice.
      But I am making my own choice, by applying for jobs again. But my gal years are affecting eating everything
      Even my gynaecology says that I should marry, settle and focus on kids 😢
      See, I want kids in life, I was raised progressive but my inner calling is towards being a mother. That is something I want for myself, not for my fiancé, not for my in laws.
      But I want a more stable career and explore the world before I get anchored.

    • @aurbata9135
      @aurbata9135 10 місяців тому

      horrible advice for girls.......its true...women fail each other!

  • @demijo9792
    @demijo9792 10 місяців тому +70

    Omg!! I feel her..I have just moved out of my inlaws house with my husband because the pressure of responsibility on me for being a pefect bahu was making me chronically depressed ..i can resonate her so well..Every body is struggling in some or the other way ..i was so sick of living and tending other peoples needs and happines but not mine and i was struggling to have kids due to stress..finally i mustered the courage to say i couldnt do it anymore..i prioritized my mental health and left the house..i still get anxiety and have triggers about how i was treated but im happy my husband supported me..

    • @nandinisharma7096
      @nandinisharma7096 10 місяців тому +1

      Right but wat to do but my mom is not less than any grandmother she never understand me i'm also suffering this but in my own house? Wat to do feeling to get married but the marriage is not the solution here coz i live in a very small place with 7 people around me whu disturb me a lot i'm 32 but not get married coz of my acting career but wat is the need of getting aged , remain without husband if u r not getting peace nd mental helath here nd not focusing on career

    • @nandinisharma7096
      @nandinisharma7096 10 місяців тому

      Nd i left my job for dreams nd for fulfilling those dreams i need to find job for home rent

    • @YODDHASPARKS
      @YODDHASPARKS 4 місяці тому

      @demijo9792 So true why why women are tied down after marriage .... Why the hell a women is one tied up to responsibilities of doing dishes of whole family and cooking food for all

  • @rohithal1
    @rohithal1 10 місяців тому +140

    Never knew Seema is this intelligent and sensitive as a person . It's very sad bright minds get overshadowed by powerful spouses !

    • @tiya466
      @tiya466 10 місяців тому +6

      I second that!

    • @Kathakathan11
      @Kathakathan11 10 місяців тому +7

      She looks like kiara

    • @BeingL3X
      @BeingL3X 10 місяців тому +2

      Who ,Sohail Khan?😂😂

    • @Kathakathan11
      @Kathakathan11 10 місяців тому +8

      @@BeingL3X khandan, not just Sohail, entire abusive family

    • @rohithal1
      @rohithal1 10 місяців тому +1

      @BeingL3X yes he was relatively famous:) and whole family in general

  • @sameerafarid
    @sameerafarid 10 місяців тому +39

    She’s so relatable to every modern age mother with kids growing up under the media bombardment

  • @deesur
    @deesur 10 місяців тому +317

    I've been married for 16 years and chosen not to have children... and instead got myself two degrees.. and pursing other goals, this podcast has been therapy and absolute gold ❤

    • @ShivaniPauPodcast
      @ShivaniPauPodcast  10 місяців тому +19

      Thats amazing 🤩

    • @gulmohar6709
      @gulmohar6709 10 місяців тому

      Bullshit. What you achieved in life. Nothing 🤣😜

    • @RashminderKaurindia
      @RashminderKaurindia 10 місяців тому +36

      We decided the same, pursue our spiritual goals and live comfortable. Children are a blessing but everyone doesn't need to claim that blessing and some should refrain from it as they are not suitable for parenthood because of their own issues.

    • @charusharma184
      @charusharma184 10 місяців тому +6

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ m planning the same

    • @evelynbaran8863
      @evelynbaran8863 10 місяців тому +1

      That’s amazing ❤

  • @vrushalidhongade5725
    @vrushalidhongade5725 10 місяців тому +20

    Seema is such a breath of fresh air! She's poised, articulate, funny and kind. I wish her the best!

  • @malvikarana4132
    @malvikarana4132 10 місяців тому +21

    Seema and Malaika only knows what hard life they were living in with the Khans. Feels so proud to see both happy and settled ( career wise ) now.

    • @pratibhakarkera2547
      @pratibhakarkera2547 9 місяців тому

      I actually agree with you..I was genuinely happy for Malaika. n now for her too.

    • @sunnyb831
      @sunnyb831 9 місяців тому +2

      How and why ?
      Khans are most wonderful family

    • @OmkarPawar-tj4bq
      @OmkarPawar-tj4bq 8 місяців тому

      ​@sunnyb831 you know them personally

    • @fhhn4335
      @fhhn4335 4 місяці тому

      ​@@OmkarPawar-tj4bqso U know them personally 😂

  • @beezee17
    @beezee17 10 місяців тому +38

    I respect her after listening to this podcast. Kudos to her for finding her self and putting herself first 👏🏼

    • @sakshianand6054
      @sakshianand6054 10 місяців тому +1

      I feel you. I hope you are able to let go of the baggage of the past. God bless you ❤

    • @maryamhamid6003
      @maryamhamid6003 9 місяців тому

      lol I dint get how people lose themselves first if all

  • @anamikaangelsingh
    @anamikaangelsingh 10 місяців тому +14

    Very few have been this honest, straight-forward... yet not bitter about their experience. More power to you... and thanks for opening up. The manner in which u explained you were looking for happiness in the wrong places, touched me. Loads of love and best wishes ❤️

  • @nikksdodo
    @nikksdodo 10 місяців тому +4

    She is super normal with no fake accent. Good she is moving ahead .

  • @purbanimukherjee8331
    @purbanimukherjee8331 10 місяців тому +9

    Very difficult interview for Seema clearly. She is not fake like the other Bollywood wives/ex wives. Being a straight forward person it was difficult for her to hide the real reasons and names while going through this podcast. Hope she does well from here on.

  • @tashilayangbhutia512
    @tashilayangbhutia512 10 місяців тому +17

    I think Seema has just shown a mirror to alot of women, thanks to both you amazing women 🎉

  • @anitajoshimathpal2062
    @anitajoshimathpal2062 10 місяців тому +18

    Seema came out of her shell and comfort zone to speak her mind and heart is not at all easy actually. Kudos to her ❤👍 such a beautiful charming smart intelligent intellectual poised lady🫶 thoroughly enjoyed this podcast. Accidentally came through and found Shivani one of the best interviewers ❤

  • @smladyfj22
    @smladyfj22 10 місяців тому +7

    She is a strong woman. It takes guts to revisit a painful past.

  • @kalpanabhat3513
    @kalpanabhat3513 10 місяців тому +12

    Seema is very natural and candid in saying what she says . I admire her confession and it’s helping me so much to understand myself . I am glad she came out of such big mess and confusion box . She looks relaxed and prettier than before because she is free from huge unwanted emotional burden

  • @frimavalentine4756
    @frimavalentine4756 10 місяців тому +12

    I like this woman .. She is so honest and love the way she has learnt to embrace self love ❤️..
    She looks amazing

  • @kys1855
    @kys1855 10 місяців тому +16

    Seema looks not a day above 35 .....47 😮....she looks amazing 👏

  • @shikha79
    @shikha79 10 місяців тому +20

    Honestly...we have these conversations amongst our girl groups. The mental load of women have to deal with is insane, and we have to lose ourselves to make others happy. Glad to see this conversation!

    • @shikha79
      @shikha79 10 місяців тому +1

      It took a bit...but I only started feeling comfortable with being single as an older person later in life. I'm embracing this and I am living my life to the fullest. If a guy comes great if not also great. My Instagram social media life truly is authentic and it truly does reflect me because I don't have to hide behind social norms and expectations.

    • @ShivaniPauPodcast
      @ShivaniPauPodcast  10 місяців тому +2

      Love this!! Thanks so much for sharing 🙌🏽

  • @kirankhatri5687
    @kirankhatri5687 10 місяців тому +16

    Such a nice podcast, I can also relate to Seema, I got married at 22, it was just like listening to my own story, lots of guts to get a divorce after 25 years, where lots of women are just compromising , not able to break the rules of our indian socity

    • @iracture
      @iracture 10 місяців тому

      Indian men really need to upgrade themselves. One does not marry a woman to produce kids for chrissake. You marry a girl because ur life appears meaningless without her in it..And woman also should marry a guy who understands her...otherwise best to stay single..Most woman desire security at 22 hence marry the first guy who flashes wealth/status etc..Its so imp to be financially independent before getting into marriage in case wealth/status is important to u. Wealth etc can be self earned these days.

    • @amssaiyed
      @amssaiyed 9 місяців тому

      Especially hard it must have been when Salman was at his peak

  • @lubnakhan8986
    @lubnakhan8986 10 місяців тому +8

    One can totally relate to Seema and her thoughts. Unless a man is worthy enough to be a good companion for a woman in every sense of the word, the partnership turns toxic.

  • @malihah23
    @malihah23 10 місяців тому +3

    she is so different than what you see on insta and netflix...v mature and all the best for seema

  • @sanamraza6806
    @sanamraza6806 10 місяців тому +5

    She was the funniest on bollywood wives compared to other ladies. It was only because of her i watched both the seasons. She was real, caring and sentimental.

  • @florawatele1764
    @florawatele1764 10 місяців тому +11

    I absolutely relate with Seema! I'm sailing on a similar boat and long for freedom, to bring to life, the woman-child in me. Hope to make the right decision to be free from all constrictions before I lose every inch of myself.

    • @User25896
      @User25896 10 місяців тому

      Go for it dear ❤

    • @sunnyb831
      @sunnyb831 9 місяців тому

      Rooting for you

  • @sweet2008s
    @sweet2008s 10 місяців тому +12

    From the moment I saw Seema on Bollywood wives, I could see she was just such an inspirational person. Whenever I see her interviews I always have to watch! I hope she realises she’s amazing

    • @ShivaniPauPodcast
      @ShivaniPauPodcast  10 місяців тому +3

      she is isnt she!! Thanks so much for watching

  • @Mayaxxxxxx
    @Mayaxxxxxx 10 місяців тому +11

    Great interview!!
    I love Seema’s honesty, rawness and advice. What a wonderful breathe of fresh air to hear about her journey and her perspective. 😇
    Thank you Seema. 🙏🏽 I hope you broadcast your voice even further. Asian women need to hear more of you. 💕

  • @Mridulasuri1
    @Mridulasuri1 10 місяців тому +6

    For the first time I’m loving your interview Seema Kiran Sajdeh! Sooo beautifully articulated

  • @loveme6067
    @loveme6067 10 місяців тому +11

    Whenever i came across young students esp girls..my advice them to focus on education..skills, Carrer,house,car..maid, independent etc.everything should be under your name ..NO JOINT ACCOUNTS..
    Never gave up your freedom..
    Ur choices, hobbies
    Go for it,my dear sisters...
    Aim high🙏

    • @Soulfulmind-hj1td
      @Soulfulmind-hj1td 10 місяців тому +1

      Yes your life your rule 🙌 If a man truly loves you then only he will come into your life and take care of you. Otherwise enjoy being single 💃

    • @loveme6067
      @loveme6067 8 місяців тому

      @@Soulfulmind-hj1td
      Stop the baby making machine..

  • @rifhatgrewal
    @rifhatgrewal 10 місяців тому +12

    Absolutely loved and agreed & resonated with what Seema said. Love how you let all your guests speak and guide the conversation gently without interrupting

  • @DebopriyaDas-sk6nv
    @DebopriyaDas-sk6nv 10 місяців тому +6

    Finally someone said the right thing to put your happiness first

  • @specialsasha6506
    @specialsasha6506 10 місяців тому +8

    She looks more beautiful and happier now.
    Individual choice … choose things that makes u happy. Life is worth living not sulking ❤❤
    I wanna c her in bollywood movies too … may b side heroine or some fun character she’s so charming n real

    • @loveme6067
      @loveme6067 10 місяців тому +1

      U mean suicidal industry..😢

  • @radziorio
    @radziorio 10 місяців тому +13

    Shivani at 30 talking like she knows everything is what's wrong here! Seema has been through so much more and she can't compare and try to connect her dating life to Seema's 🤦‍♀️

    • @gassyalways
      @gassyalways 10 місяців тому +4

      Very very correct...i too felt the same...she says at 30 when u marry u have things sorted...really???😂 U r not sorted even when u r 80...

  • @tuhinabhattacharya1499
    @tuhinabhattacharya1499 10 місяців тому +14

    Shivani the moment you said why is everyone in the 'urge & rush' for marriage, I sooo felt it. Being single in our society is constant struggle of controlling ourselves from getting angry sad n annoyed because people out there have got only one topic to discuss, either body shaming or marriage, literally always. And for the same reason I've stopped attending family events and I avoid meeting relatives. This feels like a constant pressure of finding the right guy n get married, I mean how, u can go out n bump on the right guys come on its real life not a movie. No one ever ask a woman how is she, never, it's always get marriage, if married, have babies, if a parent, still have more babies. Let a woman breathe .

    • @karmyogi-2.1
      @karmyogi-2.1 10 місяців тому

      Fully agree.

    • @induprabha1990
      @induprabha1990 10 місяців тому

      I m single and 33 yrs old. Whenever u face these questions make them sit and force them to listen to the entire conversation about why are you not doing that. What is the scenario. Give some examples.

    • @Soulfulmind-hj1td
      @Soulfulmind-hj1td 10 місяців тому

      I think society in general is changing as the average Indian age is drifting from 20s to 30s and it brings a lot of change in thought process in the society. It will gradually change more as we age

  • @praju1986
    @praju1986 10 місяців тому +3

    These are d kind of Breakaway conversations we need - Bold, Beautiful and Mature :) keep it up

  • @Seangomes767
    @Seangomes767 10 місяців тому +10

    She just nailed it wonderfully. Hats off to Seema. I really loved her on this talkshow. So gracefull. ❤❤❤❤

    • @ShivaniPauPodcast
      @ShivaniPauPodcast  10 місяців тому

      So glad you enjoyed the episode! Thanks so much for watching 🫶🏽

    • @Seangomes767
      @Seangomes767 10 місяців тому

      @@ShivaniPauPodcast your doing a great job. I really treasure your episodes. It's from your heart, unfiltered and realitable. Genuine. God bless you girl.

  • @bhavsar96
    @bhavsar96 10 місяців тому +14

    This was such a wholesome episode Shivani, keep shining 🧡 big love

  • @river1304
    @river1304 10 місяців тому +4

    Seema seems so real and vulnerable, loved her on the show. She’s also beautiful.

  • @ameetlibran9845
    @ameetlibran9845 10 місяців тому +5

    Women finally has a Voice greatly said, as a Society we are Evolving, upgrading and Learning. Although there is no reason to break existing Relationship and fight battles on your own. Take efforts to Save a Relationship than finding excuse to break relationship.

    • @Soulfulmind-hj1td
      @Soulfulmind-hj1td 10 місяців тому

      I think society in general is changing as the average Indian age is drifting from 20s to 30s and it brings a lot of change in thought process in the society. It will gradually change more as we age

  • @chetanasathish6210
    @chetanasathish6210 10 місяців тому +7

    She speaks well , relatable and seems like a sensible woman , sad that she was probably over powered by her husband and his family . I m happy she is in a better place now and wish her good luck with her career

  • @shivanisivapalan3031
    @shivanisivapalan3031 10 місяців тому +26

    I loved Seema on the show and to see her open up in such an honest way is so eye opening and inspiring ❤ Thanks Shivani for another great episode!

  • @shalomthms1
    @shalomthms1 9 місяців тому +2

    I left my house at 22, went to get an MBA. Worked for 2 years after. The best 4 years .. married at 26! There are highs and lows.. and obviously life is not fair, has never been! But that is life.
    I urge very girl listening, to please seek financial independence before anything. Study hard, get a job & dream. Your freedom begins and ends with 💸💸💰

  • @bijalvaghela559
    @bijalvaghela559 10 місяців тому +6

    Seema is my fav character to on the show, its nice to see her open up more on the topic. Great chat

  • @purpleangel6099
    @purpleangel6099 9 місяців тому +7

    So I just needed to listen to this podcast today. I have been separated for 6 years n decided today that it's okay for me to divorce. I have been feeling stuck personally n professionally. I am sure I will come out stronger like Seema. I have also been raised in a similar way and been timid but that is slowly changing. Something is changing inside me as I have started to believe in myself and look for happiness within myself. I wish I could meet her and spend time with her :). lot of love to both of you ! May you have His grace always!

  • @Swati_thapa13
    @Swati_thapa13 10 місяців тому +27

    Amazing podcast, thoughts only someone so brave can voice. Also clearly so many unsaid traumas Seema didn’t even speak of, we all have bouts of anxiety and we know why. Its the mindset, the society, the patriarchy and sadly our own partners are an unfortunate accumulation of everything women have to cope with!!! Women give back and never back down!!!

  • @neisham7478
    @neisham7478 10 місяців тому +4

    thank you seema for not touching your hair all the time like other celebs, instead you spoke well and gave great advice

  • @shikhakohli1548
    @shikhakohli1548 10 місяців тому +8

    This was such a great Podcast. Thank you! Seema has definitely had a Spiritual awakening. I could totally see that by her conversation

  • @art.a12
    @art.a12 10 місяців тому +2

    This lady seems to be very matured and intelligent.

  • @meghnarohit6909
    @meghnarohit6909 9 місяців тому +1

    ln this interview it was not just seema sajdeh speaking .it was every married girl who got married at early stage and went through all this indian mentality including me. its very difficult for any girl to leave thier own comforting house and keep on adjusting for everyone around them.but no one adjust for that one girl who leaves her entire family and adjusts with them.and that adjusting is never an ending .

  • @shrutisingh3350
    @shrutisingh3350 10 місяців тому +6

    I just love this heart to heart conversation between two girls ❤❤❤

  • @Hope-uq1vn
    @Hope-uq1vn 9 місяців тому +1

    I came across this podcast quite by accident and was unaware of who both woman are hence googled but more importantly what a wonderful refreshing and much needed conversation. Bravo ladies., bravo.

  • @nasreenbasrai7010
    @nasreenbasrai7010 10 місяців тому +2

    🎉Financial independence is key.With today's kids it is too much too soon.The mind is not ready to accept certain things.There is a time & a place for everything.Women have a never ending role in this part of the world.

  • @zari5893
    @zari5893 10 місяців тому +7

    She said her mum and Chunky’s mum are sisters so wouldn’t that make chunky her cousin brother…. Not Uncle

  • @Springrolllll
    @Springrolllll 10 місяців тому +24

    Growing up, I thought I was above all the things people say. I really didn’t believe that marriage is the center of my existence. I always wanted to get married but not desperate for it. It will happen when it’s meant to happen. But this year, I hit rock bottom in my career, my friends were married and I was suddenly alone. Those comments were ringing in my mind. “You’re worthless without a man. You’re gonna be alone forever.” I questioned myself so much that maybe I was wrong to focus on my career. Maybe they were right. I kept hearing those voices in my head. I realized that somewhere somehow I absorbed all those shit people would say. There’s really multiple layers to conditioning and it’s a lot of work. It takes massive strength.

    • @ShivaniPauPodcast
      @ShivaniPauPodcast  10 місяців тому +1

      Sending you so much love, I’ve felt exactly the same 💛💛💛💛

    • @amritarai4463
      @amritarai4463 10 місяців тому

      Sometimes, i feel the same but was never interested in any relationship. I liked being alone but as i am aging, i always wonder whether i took wrong decision..

    • @swapnavaradhan2461
      @swapnavaradhan2461 10 місяців тому

      D

    • @Soulfulmind-hj1td
      @Soulfulmind-hj1td 10 місяців тому +3

      Even I feel the same. Growing up I was very sincere, hardworking.I have topped in schools& colleges and had a decent corporate job by the age I was 20. I am very well settled now in my 30s. But my so called friends who have not achieved even half of what I have done always show me down because I am single and not even had any boyfriend. Now everyone makes me feel guilty as if I am not good enough to attract a man and not desirable 😢 and worthless. What kind of society we live in where there is no respect for even highly intelligent strong women if they are single?

  • @Positivelearningswithsayali
    @Positivelearningswithsayali 10 місяців тому +53

    I am new generation woman here ..i don't know why I felt this very illogical. She married that guy with her own decision..love marriage. Btw.. vobhi literally if anyone knows their marriage story..pyaar fir shadi fir bachchey...then khudke bareme sochna..ummm something is really odd here. She didn't may be decided to get separated because of her own life or happiness.. there is more the inside story I can sense. If you are so truthful then just reveal the truth what caused you to unlove a guy with whom she was in love with and married. I am not criticizing but just telling if a woman wants to really really be happy she should just stop faking...just tell all the ladies your true story how and what made you to unlove the man in the years and years of marriage. It's not self love dear.. you are just trying to coverup the facts with that self love ideology

    • @Kareena1988
      @Kareena1988 10 місяців тому +5

      Yeah...maybe it was regret for being so innocent and immediately marrying Sohail and even if you have a secure life, BOREDOM chimes in. Is that your life till death? Just a babymaker?

    • @loveme6067
      @loveme6067 10 місяців тому +5

      Marriage is not a warranty.. people changes with time..is there any warranty Ur husband won't leave u..
      Share same bed,but minds are on the other side...u got it..stop g
      Judging about others,focus on your life...u bet your childrens life will be better then her....
      Mdm HYPOCRITE

    • @Kareena1988
      @Kareena1988 10 місяців тому +3

      @@loveme6067 ok but she felt useless..same hair salon every month..nothing else

    • @cinnow
      @cinnow 10 місяців тому +13

      Seema doesn't talk about her husband's many infidelities but perhaps she signed an NDA? That said, why is it not possible for a woman to decide that she should finally quit an unhappy marriage? She put up with a lot for years and they were temporarily separated but as she says social pressures force men and women to stick it out in an unfulfilling marriage. Better late than never. And love marriage is no guarantee that love lasts!

    • @nivdeshmukh6433
      @nivdeshmukh6433 10 місяців тому +4

      Malaika free life made her to take decision she also want freedom

  • @abczuchini3757
    @abczuchini3757 10 місяців тому +5

    Love this really! Just finished it.. and the kid is just the cutest.. love to see women together this way!! ❤

  • @abczuchini3757
    @abczuchini3757 10 місяців тому +3

    I liked Seema's personality. Hey Seema if you get this message, please show more of this side on the show too. It is great!!

  • @rashmikadam1378
    @rashmikadam1378 10 місяців тому +3

    More power to you Seema Kiran Sajdeh😘😘😘

  • @amulyalabschandigarh1009
    @amulyalabschandigarh1009 9 місяців тому +4

    Excellent podcast between 2 lovely ladies! Yes break the stereotype of a woman. I served in the Army and both of chose to have one kid and it’s a lovely daughter who completes our family. She turned 28 recently and is busy in her career and marriage nowhere close! We are fine…..just the grandparents are in a rush and ask us! Second kid was never discussed in our busy lives! Women are the bravest in society. High time guys and Seema aunty comes to terms with that! We have equal rights including inheritance! Use those rights to empower yourself and stand equal!

  • @RahilKhan-el5qx
    @RahilKhan-el5qx 9 місяців тому +3

    Sad to see people talking about their personal relationships & failed marriages in public platforms like this encouraged by anchors like this lady. It’s called washing dirty linen in public.
    Lots of respect for Sohail Khan and the Khan family for maintaining the dignity and giving his Ex wife / former Daughter in law the respect she deserves.

  • @nancig1466
    @nancig1466 10 місяців тому +4

    Amazing interview ❤ refreshing hearing strong beautiful intelligent women from our eastern culture being so honest. Makes me not feel alone in my own thoughts and feelings. We conditioned at a young age in what will happen to women and what is expected of us. It’s never ending making others happy. Not realizing until a later age that our happiness matters as well. We can be strong, loving and caring at the same time.

  • @AtiyaRahman-re2cn
    @AtiyaRahman-re2cn 10 місяців тому +3

    Wow ! Love the thoughtful conversation!

  • @oldsoul6696
    @oldsoul6696 9 місяців тому +1

    Just finished watching the whole interview and I didn't think I ll manage to watch it till the end.
    Seema is quite sensitive and serious which I never expected from her.

  • @nehakochhar1603
    @nehakochhar1603 10 місяців тому +6

    What a fantastic episode 👏 such a refreshing perspective on life!

  • @anjalichandna3240
    @anjalichandna3240 10 місяців тому +8

    So nice Seema I feel like she is talking about me we all woman go through this phase make ourself happy first Indian woman loose themselves in husband kids family etf imagine woman like seems who people assume have no pressure in marriage good seema that you finally prioritised yourself first happy for you , don’t worry about haters or people who judge you go girl ❤

  • @archithseshadri
    @archithseshadri 10 місяців тому +8

    I absolutely loved the conversation and the engagement chat by Seema and the host Shivani -- really nice and honest discussion about so many life lessons and conversations. Thank you for this!

  • @lifearoundwesternghats
    @lifearoundwesternghats 10 місяців тому +2

    I know her as sohal khans wife ..she is realy self made ...and I wonder how ...how she manage to do that ..

  • @poojachheda352
    @poojachheda352 10 місяців тому +10

    Shivani can u please do somekind of podcast of women who have decided to not get married or not have children......their thought process,there courage,how did they make the choice n what r pros n cons

    • @ShivaniPauPodcast
      @ShivaniPauPodcast  10 місяців тому +2

      yessss great idea!!!

    • @thetraveldrug3096
      @thetraveldrug3096 10 місяців тому +1

      Yes please do videos on these topics. I a 31 year old married woman, very content and happy with just being me and husband and have no kids. We both have so much to do in life, having kids is a decision I am still on fence. I too need to know from people who have taken these decisions.

    • @prefuvvk
      @prefuvvk 10 місяців тому

      ​@@thetraveldrug3096Exactly. Me too...

  • @batulkarbalai5144
    @batulkarbalai5144 8 місяців тому +1

    i still cant understand that why divorce or breaking family is only an option to find happiness.

  • @poojachheda352
    @poojachheda352 10 місяців тому +4

    Shivani this n malvikas interview r 2 interviews wch i saw but the quality of conversation is top notch without crossing the line n yet getting the message across

  • @Jessica-jq7lr
    @Jessica-jq7lr 7 місяців тому

    This was such a great interview! It has resonated with me so much as I am in a similar situation to you Shivani and to hear such in depth conversation about experiences that we as Indian women go through is such so enlightening and comforting. Thank you!

  • @sweet2008s
    @sweet2008s 10 місяців тому +5

    I love Seema so much! Brilliant interview

  • @Sololife07
    @Sololife07 10 місяців тому +2

    She is most beautiful classy and decent women in Bollywood wives show on Netflix ❤

  • @carldevis
    @carldevis 10 місяців тому +1

    Great to see this Podcast truly on netflix nobody can realise that how people in Limelight survive in their lives. 😢

  • @Maya-kr2cr
    @Maya-kr2cr 10 місяців тому +3

    Loved the interview. Candid and pure

  • @bhavna8516
    @bhavna8516 10 місяців тому +9

    Shivani your depth of thought and perspective is truly admirable. ♥️ Also loved Seema's vulnerability and I am sure it will resonate w majority of women today.

  • @diptymahajan8660
    @diptymahajan8660 10 місяців тому +39

    Marriage needs to be looked at more seriously. I think there should be an institute training young men and women about their roles in marriage. That will remove the self questioning "what about me "? In marriage.

    • @Kareena1988
      @Kareena1988 10 місяців тому

      Yeah but how do you define "roles in marriage"???

    • @kaluvamaddhusudhanrao8457
      @kaluvamaddhusudhanrao8457 10 місяців тому

      Break ups marages no ones hands its destiny good bad ugly ok death is permanent every thing temporaey zindagi milana doobara nise na meried not mariwd children no children come aline gone aline 😅😅😅😅😅❤😂😂❤❤

    • @Sammy-sm4yg
      @Sammy-sm4yg 10 місяців тому +1

      Roles in marriage is subjective and keeps on changing. There's no defined role a person fulfills throughout the married life, there are Ups,downs,challenges and shifts which we all have to adjust to. Marriage is being taken seriously since forever and still is. Just because people are voicing their needs and wants doesn't mean they are "not serious" about the marriage. I am sure men face fare share of challenges in marriage but when it comes to women, it's endless. For centuries, women only were limited to care givers and that's not the only purpose of them, it's high time the society also realise that and men too, so that they can accommodate to the challenges and changes. When women see no space for them, they tend to leave and there's nothing wrong with that. There's no point watering the dead tree for life. Everyone got one life and it's okay to live it your own way

    • @prefuvvk
      @prefuvvk 10 місяців тому

      ​@@kaluvamaddhusudhanrao8457. Exactly. People think ty will be embracing their family forever. ,,,... fools. Everything VAIN

    • @prefuvvk
      @prefuvvk 10 місяців тому

      ​....@kaluvamaddhusudhanrao8457 no one will come wd us... we will come and go alone.

  • @sharu5578
    @sharu5578 10 місяців тому +9

    This was so unfiltered. So different than the regular boring bollywood interviews. Well, we can’t complain about the Bollywood interviews also because they need to maintain a repute.

  • @vrajeshparikh4163
    @vrajeshparikh4163 9 місяців тому +2

    She is here because of khan family and sohail khan.

  • @kissamago
    @kissamago 10 місяців тому +2

    Loved this interview,Seema you were mind blowing 🎉

  • @aradhnatyagi4833
    @aradhnatyagi4833 10 місяців тому +1

    Very matured & dignified way of expressing ,seema❤

  • @Rave_believe
    @Rave_believe 10 місяців тому +3

    Hii. Really an eye opening. Like I literally had to pause the video and comment. I never really comment , cause there is so much of insight going on here. I had to do it. Love the perspective when you moved out cause it is the only time you have for yourse. i have been single all the time and always use to complain but the amount i have grown into. cause its real men are gonna see for themselves. but i am growing into this powerful and strong lady. somehow wounded but i will get over it. love seema too.loved in bollywood wives. somehow found her genuine and loved her courage and felt her pain.

  • @sabaafra9118
    @sabaafra9118 9 місяців тому +3

    I feel bad and at the same time sad for her. I am a mother of two beautiful boys one is a toddler and the other is a baby. Watching another human grow and making sure to contribute for the betterment of society is so beautiful. It's true sometimes it gets hard but at the same time motherhood is so beautiful and beyond any work that I would want to do. 💓

    • @Hope-uq1vn
      @Hope-uq1vn 9 місяців тому +1

      That’s your feelings and journey not hers What a shame that you are so judgemental even having watched the podcast. Evidently you learnt nothing from it.

    • @duchessofmagic
      @duchessofmagic 7 місяців тому

      Parenthood not just "motherhood" is a huge responsibility and u agree with the comment below, everyone's experience is different. Also perinatal mood difficulties is very real. I work as a mental health professional in this field and not enjoying every moment of motherhood is just as valid...Also no disrespect but the real test is when those children don't need you anymore...also unfortunately you can't ensure how those humans will contribute to the world...we can make no such assumptions...you can only do your best...I also know women go over and above and still feel they've failed as a parent... bottom line...let's have more empathy for people... much rather that than parents who think they're brilliant until adolescence arrives and their beautiful children push their buttons like no tomorrow... it's great to enjoy parenthood but you have a long way to go still...
      😊

  • @meghnayadav4431
    @meghnayadav4431 10 місяців тому +1

    It seemed like my future self was speaking and believe you me, irrespective of the age difference, Seema has provided life clarity. Cathartic..., I loved the chat. Loved the ladies and atmospherics too

  • @TheSpeech01
    @TheSpeech01 7 місяців тому +1

    Everything about this is great because I think so many women go through these emotions but no one wants to say it!

  • @kripleenks9644
    @kripleenks9644 10 місяців тому +2

    This was such a relief to watch!! I love Seema Khan!! She is so me!! ❤😍

  • @Annie-jl9eq
    @Annie-jl9eq 8 місяців тому

    Love Seeemmmaaaa!!!! Never saw this Confident side of hers on the show. Can't wait for reason 3 to see how she has evolved. So proud of her❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @umaseshadri1065
    @umaseshadri1065 10 місяців тому

    well, i have not yet started the video but for the FIRST TIME i am seeing a sensible ad preceding the show. Thanks to people like Malleshwar for spreading this very important message of ' SAVE FOOD SAVE LIFE'. salutes to MILAAP👋👋👌👌🙏🙏

  • @yashikagupta3018
    @yashikagupta3018 10 місяців тому +4

    Im in my 20s and just loved whatever Seema explained so naturally❤I agree to every single word she said. It's so funny that inspite of understanding all this we still fall under traditional lifestyle & then fall prey to future consequences like divorce. Im sure from today my only & only 1st priority is going to be ME.....whether I have a man to love me or not but im 100% I need to be there for me❤

    • @viansingh1825
      @viansingh1825 10 місяців тому +2

      When you marry young you grow along with your partner, discover things together, and you adjust much quicker and d bond is much stronger between couples, whereas this brainwashed era of these paid feminist encourage women to marry late which makes it much difficult to adust as you have lived almost half of your life living independently. I am not saying marry for the sake of it but if you find a good person who loves you and brings you comfort and peace and can provide for u thn do get married evn if your r in your 20s(23-28)..The Bond will be like a tied knot(Inseparable and strong) between couples..Trust me 👍👍👍

    • @yashikagupta3018
      @yashikagupta3018 10 місяців тому

      @@viansingh1825 Totally agree with you. I hope & pray I find someone before my 30s😊🤞 Fingers crossed

    • @viansingh1825
      @viansingh1825 10 місяців тому +2

      @@yashikagupta3018 God Willing You surely will..👍👍That guy will be extremely lucky to have you as his beloved wife..😊

    • @xennie352
      @xennie352 8 місяців тому

      True that. With or without a man ,women should know their worth and what they want in life.

  • @valeriedsouza
    @valeriedsouza 10 місяців тому +3

    Another amazing podcast Shivani I love u n find everything interesting just keep them coming ❤

  • @jennyfromtheblock5578
    @jennyfromtheblock5578 10 місяців тому +3

    Amen. Always about the men. I work and run the home, but still my needs fall behind. How nice to be free.

  • @ilasawjani443
    @ilasawjani443 10 місяців тому +2

    Seema wonderful wonderful podcast . Honest , from the heart conversation. . Take care . You are a strong lady

  • @Unknown-fn6vq
    @Unknown-fn6vq 10 місяців тому +3

    Life is about adjusting, why make such a big deal. Not just in marriage , in every aspect of life you have to adjust.

    • @pratibhadoshi8783
      @pratibhadoshi8783 10 місяців тому

      True , that’s wat life is , u carve a life in adjustments n have a balance, nobody gets a plate full of happiness, it’s d journey that’s interesting

  • @bobitak1
    @bobitak1 10 місяців тому +3

    Both of you gals are so inspirational!!! Kudos to you both❤❤❤

  • @kasthuripujari3278
    @kasthuripujari3278 9 місяців тому +1

    Loved this podcast… Seema u seem to be such an intelligent brave n sorted woman!! U look amazing n have carried urself with a certain aura!! Genuinely a honest podcast❤❤❤

  • @anjiii9530
    @anjiii9530 8 місяців тому

    Seema has always been my favorite. She seems so genuine. And today listening to her gave us a deeper understanding of her as a person. Love her❤

  • @ggunga7764
    @ggunga7764 10 місяців тому +1

    Intelligent woman. Great podcast to empower woman in the same situation. Well done

  • @mariadsouza2600
    @mariadsouza2600 10 місяців тому +1

    Hats of to Seema she is so honest, enjoyed the talk.

  • @iam_jeevikaprabhu
    @iam_jeevikaprabhu 10 місяців тому +1

    Hey chanting really helps and you are really on the right path you were so honest and you are really so intelligent to understand where knowing yourself is so important

  • @AshishTiwari-sl4ju
    @AshishTiwari-sl4ju 10 місяців тому +1

    She just brought Seema and started knowing her viewpoint. She should have brought Sohail khan too. His viewpoint is also important. Program must maintain balance and should put forth opposite party too

  • @MM-es1it
    @MM-es1it 10 місяців тому +1

    This was a great interview! Had no idea that I will listen until the end.