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  • @KylaMichelleC
    @KylaMichelleC 2 роки тому +811

    this series truly came at the PERFECT time for me... i've been trying to kinda 'grow up' and create better habits too

    • @ginahanson18
      @ginahanson18 2 роки тому +2

      Same here! Rooting for you Haley!!

    • @bethany.spalding
      @bethany.spalding 2 роки тому +1

      YES!!

    • @ImaginaryNate
      @ImaginaryNate 2 роки тому

      Literally been having this “grow up” talk so often with my friends lately, I even just had a really long one just a few hours ago. I think this series is perfect timing for a lot of people. Such a relief

  • @humphrey
    @humphrey 2 роки тому +383

    as someone in his 30s i wish i had this series in my 20s! 🙂

  • @sarahtrader5457
    @sarahtrader5457 2 роки тому +118

    This made me really emotional. Sometimes it can feel like we’re stuck in the same place but growth happens slowly not all at once:)

  • @Aerocookie
    @Aerocookie 2 роки тому +150

    Crazy enough, these videos were the kickstarter I needed to get my life back on track. I find it's really nice to ease into things like baking some muffins or making waffles in the morning instead of going and cooking a full-on meal and getting sick of making food early on. Just really simple stuff that helps me get inspired. Eventually, you build your way up to being ready to tackle a bigger life dummy. All I can say is if you can stay inspired, anything is possible! :D

  • @suavebere9026
    @suavebere9026 2 роки тому +315

    i feel like this series came at the perfect time in my life!!! thank you haley

  • @maryamnabil6361
    @maryamnabil6361 2 роки тому +93

    Honestly, it's so refreshing to see the parts where you fail. I keep feeling like everyone have their life together and when I see those little moments of yours I remember mine and I feel so happy and definitely less lonely Haley. So thankyou❤

  • @jacib8597
    @jacib8597 2 роки тому +53

    this is exactly what i needed. i turn 21 this month and it has been terrifying trying to navigate my life as i get older thank you for making this series and inspiring me

  • @oliviaeade517
    @oliviaeade517 2 роки тому +27

    Atomic Habits is literally changing my life and I'm so glad ppl are finding out about it! I'm on page 96 & it keeps on getting more useful on how to apply it into my everyday life!

  • @katherinegarner8865
    @katherinegarner8865 2 роки тому +8

    thank you for continuing this series!! also thank you for being so transparent in these videos! it’s so refreshing watching someone that isn’t pushing “hustle culture” or pressuring us to be a “girl boss” 24/7. real progress isn’t a constant forward and life changes take time, so thank you for showing that.

  • @igglepiggle8447
    @igglepiggle8447 2 роки тому +33

    All these comments are saying these videos came at the perfect time…and I agree haha. I was about to start being more productive daily, when the first in my 20s video came out and that started my first day off absolutely great! Favourite youtuber, love every video you make

  • @khalilahd.
    @khalilahd. 2 роки тому +39

    I just started atomic habits and relate to how you feel so much. I love that you’re also non this mission is makes me feel less of a mess and with your guidance I feel like I can organize my goals a lot better 💜

  • @mostlymichaela
    @mostlymichaela 2 роки тому +14

    That part of Atomic Habits motivated me so much too! Just keep going & the results will catch up to you.

  • @sarahimorrison863
    @sarahimorrison863 2 роки тому +18

    I really needed this series I feel like I can relate a lot to you. I’m 21 and also got married young at 18 so it’s hard to find things I can relate to when everyone else my age around me is doing what I guess “normal 21 year olds do” lol but recently I’ve been feeling like my life’s been in a loop. Will definitely be following along 😊

  • @addisonmiddleton1816
    @addisonmiddleton1816 2 роки тому +1

    Haley’s videos>>>>>>>>> everything else

  • @allisonhorak8647
    @allisonhorak8647 2 роки тому +10

    This series inspires me so much Haley! The topic of getting life together with new systems is brilliantly relevant to our generation!!!

  • @melmellyboo
    @melmellyboo 2 роки тому +7

    Girl, literally thank you for making this series I’ve been feeling in a major rut and it’s so inspiring and motivating to know that I’m not the only one who feels like this! Just bought this book and I’m excited to see growth! Thank you

  • @blessvcabrera2686
    @blessvcabrera2686 2 роки тому +9

    This series has been such a motivation for me u have no idea, im a soon to be graduating senior, high school + a huge procrastinator and seeing u do this...one of my fav comfort youtubers... makes me want to start setting "systems" and challenging myself more. I love ur vids Haley, thank u so so much! Wish u all the best in this journey of yours

  • @angelamaxine
    @angelamaxine 2 роки тому +12

    i’m living for this series!! it’s so inspiring and relatable, it came the perfect timing because i def need this ✨love this vid sm!! thank u for inspiring us 🤍

  • @bencrocker2661
    @bencrocker2661 2 роки тому +4

    I’m in my 20s and feel behind or like I have less figured out than others all the time! Don’t worry too much, your life is your own story and there’s no reason to compare yours with others, just enjoy what you’ve got!

  • @sarahbooth360
    @sarahbooth360 2 роки тому +3

    Loveee this series!!! Im married and had been feeling the same way with cooking, workouts, cleaning etc. I’m on the other end now having made these habits and it’s truly life changing. The confidence is amazing and these tasks become so fun and enjoyable!!! Keep pushing yourself!!! Gym tip: if you ever don’t want to workout take preworkout and that will make you go to the gym when you get the tingles!!

  • @esmehammond6485
    @esmehammond6485 2 роки тому +12

    this series has come at a really good time for me because i really want to get my life together in time for summer so i can feel happy and fulfilled by the time it roles around 😍💝💖

  • @fedormar000
    @fedormar000 2 роки тому

    i LOVE the editing, the speed, the goals of this video series.

  • @raquelmorellviadel1352
    @raquelmorellviadel1352 2 роки тому +4

    Haley, thank you for being so raw and vulnerable with us!! I believe this series will help me a lot, specially at the moments where I feel more alone and lost in this adulting process. But now I know that we're together in this journey! Thank you a lot ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @themedicdroidx10
    @themedicdroidx10 2 роки тому +11

    I'm loving loving loving loving loving this series. Habit research is one of my favorite topics and I have read a lot of books on it. For you I would recommend Mini Habits by Stephen Guise. That was a game changer for me in terms of consistency.

  • @carleewaschek
    @carleewaschek 2 роки тому +8

    these are so wholesome, so proud of you for conquering your fear of going to the gym alone!!!

  • @leahpark5245
    @leahpark5245 2 роки тому +2

    inspiring honestly because at 22 i feel like my life is static and stuck where i have put it, but it SHOULDNT feel that way. we should all live by the saying, "its never too late to start" or "better late than never."

  • @kassidysheehan5675
    @kassidysheehan5675 2 роки тому +6

    Im turning 20 in four months and I absolutely do not have my life together. I need to do my taxes, I have no idea how to budget(especially when it comes to grocery shopping), and do not know how to manage my time correctly. I moved out on my own this past year, and haven't fully grasped the concept of being an adult. The series so far is inspiring me so much and I've felt like the last few weeks or so my mindset has shifted and I feel like an actual adult, which is so strange, and I've been wanting to change how I've been living my life, and shift it to be more productive. Thx for showing us your journey into your twenties.

    • @audyalcaraz
      @audyalcaraz 2 роки тому +1

      I'm in the same boat, it's pretty scary. Watching videos like this help me too a lot :,)

  • @nataliesmith267
    @nataliesmith267 2 роки тому +5

    This feels like what I need hard-core right now Haley! I'm really struggling with senioritis right now and the stress of going to college soon and a ton of other stuff. Basically I'm a big mess right now lol but I'm doing my best to be better and seeing your videos of you doing the same makes me feel like I can do it!

  • @morganmurphy8700
    @morganmurphy8700 2 роки тому +6

    I just turned 20 so this series came at the perfect time for me & I just added atomic habits to my tbr, I’m so excited to read it!!

  • @ANOTHERENIGMADRAGON
    @ANOTHERENIGMADRAGON 2 роки тому +2

    I loved this vlog it’s one of my favorites so far. The transparency of it makes it so relatable. I also struggle with consistency and the part about making systems and not goals was extremely helpful.

  • @sarahcastaneda3429
    @sarahcastaneda3429 2 роки тому +3

    I’m literally getting EMOTIONAL! I’m so happy for you Haley! Thank you for encouraging us to be our best selves you’re amazing and can’t wait for more of this journey! 💖💖💖😌

  • @marccolomayt82094
    @marccolomayt82094 2 роки тому +12

    LOVE YOUR ENERGY & THIS 20s vlog HALEY!!! 😍💖💖💖💖

  • @allycook9599
    @allycook9599 2 роки тому +1

    Bro it’s so wholesome to see everyone in the same place ready to create better habits and not knowing how but we are all kind of doing it together 🥰🥰🥰

  • @stellapienaar8109
    @stellapienaar8109 2 роки тому

    you’re actually so relatable and aren’t afraid to show the side of you that’s isn’t cupcake and rainbows

  • @abicates6674
    @abicates6674 2 роки тому +3

    I look forward to this new series SO MUCH like literally they make me wanna get up and clean and do the dishes and workout and I love it

  • @OriginalMegan
    @OriginalMegan 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for this Haley!! I just turned 22 and life has hit me over the past month that I need to make some changes in my life. It's super hard but at least now I have someone to watch going through the journey with. I just got over my gym fear and it has been so nice. I quite enjoy journaling my gym day and it helps me to see the progress!💛

  • @amandaleidy
    @amandaleidy 2 роки тому +1

    Just remember the goal is not perfection and failing is ok as long as you start again. Thats what will give you success

  • @carmenw1896
    @carmenw1896 2 роки тому +11

    ahhhh i love this series haley! totally cheered up my day

  • @zoeyda9010
    @zoeyda9010 2 роки тому +3

    I love this series I’m literally turning 21 n I want to take advantage of my 20s SO BAD I don’t wanna look back w regrets ready to make it my year 💪🏻💪🏻

  • @camelise13
    @camelise13 2 роки тому

    This series has changed my life. Haley is my new fav youtuber! She inspires me and to read, go to the gym, eat healthy, and be positive. I am going into high school and i really needed a mental refresh

  • @donnavanstaden946
    @donnavanstaden946 2 роки тому +14

    It's so fun going on this journey with u!! 💘

  • @SenzuLean
    @SenzuLean 2 роки тому

    As someone who's going to be moving countries in a few months and living completely alone, I needed this series so much. Thanks a lot for sharing your life Hailey. Keep it up!

  • @meliadianne953
    @meliadianne953 2 роки тому +2

    Legit thank you so much for posting these! I have been at such a hault in my life, I just got married and after that everything just kinda stopped, like I don't get up or workout and I definitely don't know how to cook. But watching this really helped me and I feel like I can do it now. I'm grateful!

  • @ashleydasher8703
    @ashleydasher8703 2 роки тому

    I woke up this morning and the first video of this series was on my homepage.
    Watched and have never related so much with someone else sharing their life on this platform. I’ve also been married a year and a few months and have not changed my name.
    I’m really excited because I didn’t know I needed this series, but I did. ❤️
    Got my water, vitamins, and woke up early today!!

  • @madhumathi1255
    @madhumathi1255 2 роки тому +5

    I'm 17, but I am gonna finish my school in 2 months and move onto college, so this series motivates me....

  • @yatzarith
    @yatzarith 2 роки тому

    I love you and how i literally just started listening to the audio book and everything you said was something i already knew. I love how motivated we are to make these habits stick for good. You are doing amazing and inspirational but just know that you don’t have to change ALL your habits at once to avoid the burn out. remember the small positive habits will compound and sooner or later you will inevitably get your systems down. be proud of your “little” wins

  • @SimplySami13
    @SimplySami13 2 роки тому +1

    i’m in love with this series 🥲 always been obsessed with aesthetic lifestyle videos but always have the hardest time applying them to my life lol. appreciate this and your vulnerability of not having it all together at times 💗

  • @ren9289
    @ren9289 2 роки тому +4

    So glad for you, Haley! I love how you show your trials and errors which makes me feel more like we are in this together!! I'm starting to do more prodyctive things too, lately. I'm really excited to see where we'll be in the next months too!!

  • @Christine.Baraka
    @Christine.Baraka 2 роки тому +2

    I’ve been learning how vitamin D and sunlight has so many benefits in regulating your body and making you feel great. One habit I’ve adopted is going outside at noon for 30 minutes (no sunglasses) and I’m already noticing the benefits. Regulated hormones, better sleep, easier to wake up in the morning!

  • @littlebitsarahjane
    @littlebitsarahjane 2 роки тому +2

    Haley is genuinely one of my favorite youtubers! 💕 I absolutely love this series. It is so motivating and encouraging! Keep up the great work Haley!

  • @nikaylal
    @nikaylal 2 роки тому +2

    Genuinely love this concept!! Also the editing? So good. (Also love the bible verse at the end). Chefs kiss tbh

  • @malvisl5392
    @malvisl5392 2 роки тому +3

    You have no idea how much I needed this motivation boost today tbh, thanks Haley!! ❤

  • @Dalia2287
    @Dalia2287 2 роки тому +2

    The biggest thing that made a difference when I started cooking and was afraid I was undercooking my food was getting a meat thermometer! HIGHLY recommend!

  • @madipaige28
    @madipaige28 2 роки тому +2

    i am living for this series - haley i love you

  • @MariasNook
    @MariasNook 2 роки тому +2

    Watching Haley learn how to cook for herself makes me feel like a proud mom even tough I'm younger than her 😭😅
    I'm proud of you Haley! You got this, keep going! 💕

  • @kiramei5856
    @kiramei5856 2 роки тому +1

    haley im a brazillian manly pop, and im in the transition from adolescence to adulthood, going through a bit of a rough phase and your videos gave me the courage to take an action as i can relate to that situation, thanks a lot for that ❤ you dont know how much that means to me

  • @sher5396
    @sher5396 2 роки тому +2

    Like everyone else in the comments have said, this really came out at the right time for me. 💛 My boyfriend and I broke up a month ago because we felt like we needed time to grow up and be individuals before we could ever become one. This summer I decided I’m going to grow in all aspects of my life! From my relationship with God to making my photography business even more successful. I definitely need tips on creating healthier habits!! 💛😂

  • @alixmonette4554
    @alixmonette4554 2 роки тому +1

    I love this new series ! It feels like we can go forward all together, as a group 🙌🏼 And now I want to read Atomic Habits 😫

  • @pameladamaceno3883
    @pameladamaceno3883 2 роки тому

    GIRLLLLL YOUR CHANNEL IS EXACTLY THE ONE I WAS LOOKIN FOR, LOVE YOUR ENERGY

  • @babyfacenaevlogs
    @babyfacenaevlogs 2 роки тому +1

    Been watching you for years and you always help me get my life together! needed this… thank you

  • @elisazouza
    @elisazouza 2 роки тому +1

    I met Wes on a train to London once, but I didn't speak to him but he noticed me and i will never forget that day EVER

  • @ranisameidiana
    @ranisameidiana 2 роки тому

    So grateful that I found your videos! Sometimes when I watch this kind of video of others, I doubt the authenticity, I'm a lil bit skeptical sometimes if they're real or scripted. But honestly, in everything you said and did, I feel like you were talking about me. It is just so relatableeeeee and feels soooo real. Keep showing us your progress on your growth, please ❤

  • @rubescentpeach762
    @rubescentpeach762 2 роки тому

    i love this series! its like a more unique take on spring cleaning. also I really appreciate how realistic it is... very refreshing to see amongst all of the totally unrelatable "that girl" videos

  • @melanyfelix6038
    @melanyfelix6038 2 роки тому +1

    I absolutely love this series! i also love the bible verse at the end, these make me feel so motivated :)

  • @katrinakirilyuk6215
    @katrinakirilyuk6215 2 роки тому +1

    I’m 21 rn and I’m trying to change my life around too! I bought this book and I’m seriously loving it! You’re inspiring ❤️

  • @juliasoroka2087
    @juliasoroka2087 2 роки тому

    I'm just head over heels with the format of the series. It's both engaging and entertaining. And it really strengths my motivation to incorporate more healthy habits to my daily life. Thanks for the video and keep going🌟🌟🌟

  • @monicag.9193
    @monicag.9193 2 роки тому

    just having to watch in your 20s series is motivating to finally getting myself together especially since now I have 10 days left until my birthday so turning 20 this year 💗🥳 and even now that I’m still 19. :) so thank you for this series Haley :)

  • @dina6001
    @dina6001 2 роки тому

    I love that you’re talking about the book and are trying to live by it! I love the book and watching a video about it makes it easier for me💙

  • @aiyannabentley
    @aiyannabentley 2 роки тому +1

    you’re actually amazing for this 🤎 the motivation I needed

  • @addierevak9411
    @addierevak9411 2 роки тому +1

    I’ve been waiting for this video all week! This as very quickly become my favorite series!

  • @Rebecca-ct4bn
    @Rebecca-ct4bn 2 роки тому +1

    i love all of your videos but these are just hitting different! i love the way you are editing this video

  • @victoriaflynn1672
    @victoriaflynn1672 2 роки тому +1

    I have been waiting for this video all week! It’s one of my new favorite videos

  • @urfriendhannah
    @urfriendhannah 2 роки тому +1

    I feel you on the cooking, specifically meat like I don't know why it makes me too nervous to even try

  • @misscocopop1801
    @misscocopop1801 2 роки тому +1

    Perfect timing!!! I LOVE YOU HALEY BEEN WATCHING YOU SINCE YOU MOVED TO YOUR FIRST APARTMENT❤️🥹

  • @luigi5726
    @luigi5726 2 роки тому +1

    that book literally is the best pls make more ❤️

  • @jamiezepeda1117
    @jamiezepeda1117 2 роки тому +1

    i'm about to enter my 20s in about 6 months and i've been wanting to change my habits and whatnot before i turn 20 so i can already have healthy habits set. this video is amazing

  • @sarahgarcia9521
    @sarahgarcia9521 2 роки тому

    i love this series! i think most people need this, regardless of their age

  • @uwuwu1884
    @uwuwu1884 2 роки тому

    i’ve been trying to have better habits also. its not easy. but once i watch someone do it it always makes me happy. i love watching your videos because they are so calming and cute!

  • @alyipotova
    @alyipotova 2 роки тому

    this is so inspiring! as someone who hates how they are living right now and had really bad depression, this had definitely motivated me. another amazing video!

  • @thesevenkingswelove9554
    @thesevenkingswelove9554 2 роки тому

    I like the habits mentioned in the video. And yeah systems always tend to be better than goals

  • @aidamanzano2129
    @aidamanzano2129 2 роки тому

    Haley keep going! I just started a similar journey and a phrase I mentioned to my therapist was celebrating the small wins. Even if a cloudy day still makes you feel down or you get Taco Bell for lunch, you ARE moving forward and it's out of love for yourself ❤️

  • @carriekrampf
    @carriekrampf 2 роки тому

    something that helps me with groceries and making food at home is planning what meals you want to make for the week and buying exactly what you need. then you aren’t wasting food and have everything for your meals.

  • @jadentoole7100
    @jadentoole7100 2 роки тому

    Been struggling with my direction and motivation in my life recently and this series is making me so motivated to start my own systems and good habits!

  • @meaganrice9993
    @meaganrice9993 2 роки тому +1

    i’m reading this book rn too and it’s SO good!!

  • @axelorellana4600
    @axelorellana4600 2 роки тому +1

    atomic habits is such a good book to read. nice to see u at passion

  • @meredith9514
    @meredith9514 2 роки тому +2

    love the series! im praying for u!

  • @createdforlove
    @createdforlove 2 роки тому

    These videos are genuinely so inspirational for me! I’m graduating from high school this year and I’m really feeling like I want to start better habits before college, and just for a new season of my life. I feel so much more inspired now to create some new habits for myself and get out of the slump I’ve been in recently! Thanks so much for making this series and documenting it for us

  • @allisonnicole1659
    @allisonnicole1659 2 роки тому

    My life has been flipped up and down lately. I moved into a house away from my parents for the first time a year ago at 19 so I learned to function with my husband and I together. Now at 20 my husband is going to be gone for a year so I’m going to have to learn to function alone alone for the first time. Then at 21 were moving again to a new country. So I have to learn how to function as an adult combining my new routine with my husbands new routine in a completely new place. I’ve been at a loss for where to start with these changes I want to make and this is the perfect thing at the perfect time to help me with that. I have started to not be sad and scared about it but to be exited for how much I’m going to grow and learn. Changing my mindset, setting goals and now after this trying to make systems to help me change those goals to lifestyle habits have made me feel like I stopped regressing and started back up on progressing.

  • @stellapienaar8109
    @stellapienaar8109 2 роки тому +1

    HAYLEY IS MY FAV AND I LOVE HER AND SHE MAKES ME HAPPY ❤️

  • @malisehargrove8971
    @malisehargrove8971 2 роки тому

    I was always told the preseasoned chicken is the chicken that wouldn’t sell in the store (often times it is about to go out of date so they season it and repackage). Not sure how true it is but I say a good habit is to buy plain chicken and find a good seasoning mix you like. I suggest garlic powder, onion powder, lil salt and red pepper flakes. Also just plain lemon pepper seasoning *chefs kiss* I always cook it in a skillet (easiest way for me :) you’re doing great loving the series!

  • @chloeannabelle2721
    @chloeannabelle2721 2 роки тому

    Already obsessed with this series ahhhh

  • @LexKuma
    @LexKuma 2 роки тому +1

    not sure if you'll see this comment but i didn't start cooking till 21-22 and i'm still learning a lot. i was anxious at first but tiktok has been a lifesaver for finding simple, quick recipes for beginners and has added a lot more variety to my diet! it's helped me work up to being more comfy seasoning my own foods or cooking multiple things at once, etc. i really recommend that

  • @carolineshort9433
    @carolineshort9433 2 роки тому +1

    All my life consist of now is waiting for you to post another video because you’re inspiring me so much!

  • @LaurynAmini
    @LaurynAmini 2 роки тому

    I am literaly here with everyone else when I say that I really needed this series to inspire me to do similar things! I usually am so afraid of ccoking more difficult meals than just varies bagel sandwiches, eggs and avocado toast but I’ve cooked two different ones so far and it’s so exciting!! Can’t wait to see more 💖💖

  • @Lizzy_Garfield
    @Lizzy_Garfield 2 роки тому +1

    I am always in a slump because of my anxiety, so your video motivated me to get up and get dunkin INSTEAD of ordering it, the small things matter 😂❤️

  • @cheeseandcheddar294
    @cheeseandcheddar294 2 роки тому +1

    Shopping list: Toaster, bread, measuring cups

  • @BellaIsDed
    @BellaIsDed 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you Haley! I'll try reading this book and ps great tips !! Love your videos

  • @Mariiiam
    @Mariiiam 2 роки тому +1

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️ it’s the best series I’ve ever watched

  • @maaaaaddi
    @maaaaaddi 2 роки тому +2

    THIS NEW ERA IS AMAZING 🤩 luv you Haley!(you to spock😘)

  • @ARaeSperry
    @ARaeSperry 2 роки тому +2

    I would love to see an updated exercise routine. Today I was so motivated, and then I got into a slump. I blamed not going to the gym on not knowing what to do when I get there. I am terrified to do anything outside of my comfort zone(lifting) so I just do cardio…🙄