well I’m stupid for not realising that your hair’s back to brown it looks amazing tho :3 if stressing about the future was a sport then I’d be a professional honestly this helped a lot thank you uwu
Thank you, I have multiple fears, not looking how I want to look aka dysphoria, anxiety, and like a bunch others, you really helped me with going through this part of my life, I made my first binder with the help of one of your videos, and I plan to come out in a year or two
(this is kind of a long rant/brain dump i am very sorry) Honestly thank you for sharing this. it really, honestly helped me a lot. It aactually kinda reminded me of what you said a while back on your instagram story, when somebody asked you how to stay calm while travelling and you said something along the lines of not having to worry because in the end everything always works out, even if it doesn't seem like it for a while (i hope i remembered that right), it kinda- blew my mind a little bit...? Because it's so true, not even just limited to travelling. I might be going through a really hard time but at some point, whatever is making me unhappy or what i am worrying about, it will change. Or it will get more bearable. Even if I feel like I lost everything, I will probably get over it and find happiness in something else. It just- it gives me so much hope and reassurance which is honestly exactly what i need lately. Thank you so much.
All these issues are so familiar to me. I always think I need to have everything planned ahead and if I don't know what I'm going to do in a few years then I'm done for. Your thoughts heleped me realize this wasn't right to be so hard on myself and that we can't control everything in life, especially the future. Anyway, thank you so much for sharing your thoughts!
Sorry I'm late I had church 🙃 Your hair looks awesome btw. This helped a lot bc I'm starting high school next year and where I live it's like choosing a college except it doesn't cost anything.
Hi, Sweetie! First of all...love your hair! :) Yes, change does tie everything together. I am not a big fan of change. If I go to the doctor's office and they have changed their furniture; I mildly freak out. You don't need to know your future. Look at how much better things are now as opposed to when you were a younger teen. I feel you are fortunate to be sad to leave your school. Personally, I could not wait to get out of school! Going to UN-L was magical. Stick with what is going on now and don't fuss about what comes next. And don't feel lost! xo
This has helped a load. I’m currently sitting in my bed (with tub of ice cream) after a bad night of depression watching this and I now know that I am not stuck in this state forever and I can move on. I have the power to change my future and it holds so much for me that I don’t know. ❤️
Change is, as you’ve probably gathered, one of the biggest triggers for my anxiety. And you made it sound kind of okay. As much as you call me the eloquent way, your words can also do something magical
One of the reasons why I’ve remained more calm about my future, is that my mom went to school for advertising. And little did she know, that when she was in her late 40’s, she would completely switch careers. She just got a job as a professor for makeup in a college, which she has stated many times she never thought she would do something like that. So, live your life. You can make changes in the future.
This was so interesting to see your perspective on. Honestly when you were talking about loving your life and being scared that it’ll change it made me realise that I’ve always had the opposite problem which is that I’ve never been happy enough with my life to be afraid of change. Honestly the prospect of change is the only thing that keeps me going some days but I love this philosophy. It’s very comforting to think about. In a way, the lack of stability is the only thing stable and sure in life. Thank you for the lovely video, Darling. Thank you for being an amazing person 💙
I’m really glad you made this. Thank you so much I feel so reassured and it really does feel like things are going to be okay. Hope you have a great day :)
this is really such a good video and though i don’t have a lot of anxiety about the future it’s much more about present day stuff? this still hits home and i‘m so glad i decided to watch it at this moment :) you’re the best
Kovu Kingsrod you are supposed to learn who you are and tell you get to a certain age like being a kid first and then a teenager and then grown up years and every day is a learning experience and pain and hurt and and don't understand a answer to a question you ask and some answers don't come to you when you are ready for it and matured enough for it and Kovu Kingsrod you have done a suproved job for growing up for 3 to 4 years I have heard you on line and I am glad I got to know you because your the most kindest and loving person you showing there is so much good on this earth and how you do good to help other people on this earth to that's why I believe in you so much and care about too I would do anything to help your causes and you to because you knowing good in you makes me feel about myself to keep up the good work on your videos and your singing too I love to about you take care Kovu Kingsrod till your next video and I miss your cooking show to the home made pancakes made with love your internet Friend From USA
This video really helped me. This is a great philosophy to live by. I've been struggling with similar things and this really made me look at life in a different way!
i haven't seen your channel since the 100 ways to come out video, and in the first skit it says "maybe puberty will hit me like a truck and i'll have one of those instagram glow-ups" so lemme just say: you can tell the future
Hi, I can relate a lot. This is my last year in highschool... And I made such a big effort making friends, I also had a lot of luck because most of it lies on the other persons. And I am afraid of losing them. I know I'll keep the memories and we'll keep in contact but it will never be the same. I'm afraid because I've never felt this close with anyone I hope the river takes me some where nice. Thanks Kovu. It's pretty weird how your videos are that accurate with my life. I'll write you maybe.
Damn I am in the same situamtion. School starts tomorow for me and then I'll have to chose a college. I'm 16. It's stressing me out. I didn't think this would make me feel better but it dose! I really like your hair like this btw
Hey kovu, Im ftm transgender but i am still in the closet. My mum finally agreed to let me get my hair cut short. Im so happy! I can finally pass in public!! Thank you for helping me through my trans journey with all of your supportive videos. Thanx
For me it sounds kinda nihilistic, you can't do anything, so why bother. And although you said you have to take responsibility, it sounds trusting in fate or something like that. It sound like I am losing control because the river is now responsible for the outcome. I think a got glimpses of what you actually mean though. The problem is maybe that I am not afraid of being stuck, so telling me change will inevitably come isn't the solution here ^^ I am actually more afraid of life moving to quickly. I am happy for you tho, that it helps you and you found your own philosophy to counter your anxiety ^-^
Would you consider doing a product review of the wave mental health subscription box? It just seems like it would fit with the kind of message you put across in your videos
The thing that depresses me is THE MOMENT that you just feel like nothing make sense and you only feel sad. Right now, I'm on college, and I love every friend that I made, but, at the same time, I don't think this is the exact place that I should be. But if I abandon everything right now, I won't have anything to do, because I depend on money to do anything that's on my mind. I get it that your anxious on something that you can't do anything right now to change, but what to do when you do have to make a big decision?
I really wish I could do something about my anxiety but because I'm autistic, there's not a lot I can do about it tbh bc that's what causes the anxiety and you can't cure it (obviously)
I'm 20, I've been out of school for 2 years and I still have no idea what I'm doing or what I'm gonna do and it scares the shit out of me. My mom pressuring me to do something and my depression and anxiety keeping me from getting a job aren't helping much. Oof.
Hi I think I’m transgender I have always like girl clothing and makeup and I like wean people call me girly so people tell me if I’m transgender I have been guessing my self so much ween I was a kid
I am really sorry for possibly sounding rude, but you should stop yawning, apologizing for being tired, talking about your back, talking about pronunciation of words, repeating yourself etc... just focus on the subject of the video, maybe write down notes of what you want to say and speed up. Get to the point more quickly. Also, editing out some of the things that aren't important is also a good idea. But if you can't edit, than just focus on talking quicker and more to the point and being more energized. You have something to say, a good outlook on life and I would very much like to hear more of ypur thoughts but to be honest I can't always spend 19 minutes on something that takes 10 to explain. Again I am not being negative I am just suggesting improving the quality of your content would help you get across more of what you have to say.
I totally agree with you, and I hope that Kovu will see this comment. Indeed, 10 minutes in the middle of the video are very interesting and helpful, but the rest is not essential. Beside that, I think that it would be great if the sound quality was better (there's nothing really special to see, but much to hear).
well I’m stupid for not realising that your hair’s back to brown
it looks amazing tho :3
if stressing about the future was a sport then I’d be a professional honestly
this helped a lot thank you uwu
wasnt he blonde?i remeber past videos with him having blonde hair
@Pagan Subliminals yOs he did have blonde hair in the past but I also remember at some point him having brown hair x3
thank you so much for making this!
i tend to stress about the future a lot.
Thank you so much for this, because every now and then my old fear about the future comes back; with this I think can mamage it better 😌
Thank you, I have multiple fears, not looking how I want to look aka dysphoria, anxiety, and like a bunch others, you really helped me with going through this part of my life, I made my first binder with the help of one of your videos, and I plan to come out in a year or two
Sorry this has nothing to do with the video but holy hecc you’ve changed soooo much💕
(this is kind of a long rant/brain dump i am very sorry)
Honestly thank you for sharing this. it really, honestly helped me a lot. It aactually kinda reminded me of what you said a while back on your instagram story, when somebody asked you how to stay calm while travelling and you said something along the lines of not having to worry because in the end everything always works out, even if it doesn't seem like it for a while (i hope i remembered that right), it kinda- blew my mind a little bit...? Because it's so true, not even just limited to travelling. I might be going through a really hard time but at some point, whatever is making me unhappy or what i am worrying about, it will change. Or it will get more bearable. Even if I feel like I lost everything, I will probably get over it and find happiness in something else. It just- it gives me so much hope and reassurance which is honestly exactly what i need lately. Thank you so much.
All these issues are so familiar to me. I always think I need to have everything planned ahead and if I don't know what I'm going to do in a few years then I'm done for. Your thoughts heleped me realize this wasn't right to be so hard on myself and that we can't control everything in life, especially the future. Anyway, thank you so much for sharing your thoughts!
I can totally relate to being in your last year of high school and scared of the future.
same, I've just left and am going to uni in less than 2 weeks and i'm scared shitless haha, still feel like a pure child
CarbonArcade omg good luck in uni
Sorry I'm late I had church 🙃
Your hair looks awesome btw.
This helped a lot bc I'm starting high school next year and where I live it's like choosing a college except it doesn't cost anything.
“What I love most about rivers is, you can’t step in the same river twice. The water’s always changing, always flowing.” ~ Disney’s Pocahontas
Hi, Sweetie!
First of all...love your hair! :)
Yes, change does tie everything together. I am not a big fan of change. If I go to the doctor's office and they have changed their furniture; I mildly freak out.
You don't need to know your future. Look at how much better things are now as opposed to when you were a younger teen. I feel you are fortunate to be sad to leave your school. Personally, I could not wait to get out of school! Going to UN-L was magical.
Stick with what is going on now and don't fuss about what comes next. And don't feel lost!
xo
This has helped a load. I’m currently sitting in my bed (with tub of ice cream) after a bad night of depression watching this and I now know that I am not stuck in this state forever and I can move on. I have the power to change my future and it holds so much for me that I don’t know. ❤️
Change is, as you’ve probably gathered, one of the biggest triggers for my anxiety. And you made it sound kind of okay. As much as you call me the eloquent way, your words can also do something magical
I love you, J. Thank you.
One of the reasons why I’ve remained more calm about my future, is that my mom went to school for advertising. And little did she know, that when she was in her late 40’s, she would completely switch careers. She just got a job as a professor for makeup in a college, which she has stated many times she never thought she would do something like that. So, live your life. You can make changes in the future.
Thank you for that, honestly probably the hardest thing to talk about is personal struggle.
No one can understand how much I needed this... thank you so much
These talks help me a lot. Even though you might not see this I hope you know how much this affects everyone in the best way possible...luv ur vids❤️
This was so interesting to see your perspective on. Honestly when you were talking about loving your life and being scared that it’ll change it made me realise that I’ve always had the opposite problem which is that I’ve never been happy enough with my life to be afraid of change. Honestly the prospect of change is the only thing that keeps me going some days but I love this philosophy. It’s very comforting to think about. In a way, the lack of stability is the only thing stable and sure in life. Thank you for the lovely video, Darling. Thank you for being an amazing person 💙
I’m really glad you made this. Thank you so much I feel so reassured and it really does feel like things are going to be okay. Hope you have a great day :)
this is really such a good video and though i don’t have a lot of anxiety about the future it’s much more about present day stuff? this still hits home and i‘m so glad i decided to watch it at this moment :) you’re the best
Kovu Kingsrod you are supposed to learn who you are and tell you get to a certain age like being a kid first and then a teenager and then grown up years and every day is a learning experience and pain and hurt and and don't understand a answer to a question you ask and some answers don't come to you when you are ready for it and matured enough for it and Kovu Kingsrod you have done a suproved job for growing up for 3 to 4 years I have heard you on line and I am glad I got to know you because your the most kindest and loving person you showing there is so much good on this earth and how you do good to help other people on this earth to that's why I believe in you so much and care about too I would do anything to help your causes and you to because you knowing good in you makes me feel about myself to keep up the good work on your videos and your singing too I love to about you take care Kovu Kingsrod till your next video and I miss your cooking show to the home made pancakes made with love your internet Friend From USA
Así es, mí amigo!
I really needed this video. Thank you Kovu! I appreciate your thoughtful videos so much.
This video really helped me. This is a great philosophy to live by. I've been struggling with similar things and this really made me look at life in a different way!
Thank you for this ❤️I've been stressing about going into highschool.
This calmed me about the future mostly thank you kovu
i haven't seen your channel since the 100 ways to come out video, and in the first skit it says "maybe puberty will hit me like a truck and i'll have one of those instagram glow-ups"
so lemme just say: you can tell the future
Just wanted to let you know that I love you, I really do you're so inspiring man
Kovu is my motivational speaker
wow. Your really progressing Kovu I haven’t been back in a long time to your channel but your voice has changed so muchhhh hope you feel better bb
That was really motivating and inspiring.
Wow seems like you really knew what I needed right now
Thanks, I really needed this
i can't get over what a cute little bean you are have a nice day
You can never step in the same river twice, that’s Heraclitus in a nutshell
Thank you, that is exactly what I needed
Hi, I can relate a lot. This is my last year in highschool... And I made such a big effort making friends, I also had a lot of luck because most of it lies on the other persons. And I am afraid of losing them. I know I'll keep the memories and we'll keep in contact but it will never be the same. I'm afraid because I've never felt this close with anyone I hope the river takes me some where nice. Thanks Kovu. It's pretty weird how your videos are that accurate with my life. I'll write you maybe.
Thank you for making this you always manage to make me learn something about myself in videos like these :)
Thank you Kovu your the best
Kovu you should have a podcast, I'd listen to it, I think you'd be really good at it
thank you so much for your videos you help so many people thank you really
Damn I am in the same situamtion. School starts tomorow for me and then I'll have to chose a college. I'm 16. It's stressing me out. I didn't think this would make me feel better but it dose! I really like your hair like this btw
Omg i just seen you are so different now its amazing in the last video i watched of yours you had coming out tips
Thank you kovu❤️❤️
I needed this so much
okay I can’t watch it now but BRUH YOUR HAIR LOOKS AMAZING? LIKE DO YOU USE SOMETHING OR YOU JUST BRUSH IT AND IT COMES LIKE THAT? ITS SO GOOD
thanks for sharing , made me feel better :-)
Hey kovu,
Im ftm transgender but i am still in the closet. My mum finally agreed to let me get my hair cut short. Im so happy! I can finally pass in public!! Thank you for helping me through my trans journey with all of your supportive videos.
Thanx
For me it sounds kinda nihilistic, you can't do anything, so why bother. And although you said you have to take responsibility, it sounds trusting in fate or something like that. It sound like I am losing control because the river is now responsible for the outcome.
I think a got glimpses of what you actually mean though.
The problem is maybe that I am not afraid of being stuck, so telling me change will inevitably come isn't the solution here ^^ I am actually more afraid of life moving to quickly.
I am happy for you tho, that it helps you and you found your own philosophy to counter your anxiety ^-^
❤
This is really helpful
Completely off topic but I like your Fall Out Boy poster in the background.
are you psychic how did you post this video at this exact time in my life
Lol my native language is English and I get the heraclitus name wrong all the time when I read it but it's actually pronounced hera-cleetus
Kovu seems, super I'm touch with me
Would you consider doing a product review of the wave mental health subscription box? It just seems like it would fit with the kind of message you put across in your videos
I like the tattoo idea
Heráclito's philosophy it's really interesting
The thing that depresses me is THE MOMENT that you just feel like nothing make sense and you only feel sad. Right now, I'm on college, and I love every friend that I made, but, at the same time, I don't think this is the exact place that I should be. But if I abandon everything right now, I won't have anything to do, because I depend on money to do anything that's on my mind.
I get it that your anxious on something that you can't do anything right now to change, but what to do when you do have to make a big decision?
#norgegang
You made me yawn every time you yawned during this video 😂
I really wish I could do something about my anxiety but because I'm autistic, there's not a lot I can do about it tbh bc that's what causes the anxiety and you can't cure it (obviously)
I'm 20, I've been out of school for 2 years and I still have no idea what I'm doing or what I'm gonna do and it scares the shit out of me. My mom pressuring me to do something and my depression and anxiety keeping me from getting a job aren't helping much. Oof.
I just realized that I turned 21 2 days ago, wow. I'm 21, not 20. Lol.
Hello🌸
is there any chance the book you read was the world of sofie? (sofies verden)
It's perfect ! Thaaaanks ! :-D
What's the name of the philosopher ?
Heraclitus :)
@@sonyafox9487 :-) cool, thanks !
My existential crises have existential crises
:)
oh a norwegian book about 16 different philosophers? you talking about sophie's world by jostein gaarder?
Hi Kovu :)
Nice fall out boy poster, has it always been there??
When you star to study the conflict Heráclito vs Parmênides ?
Har du noen anbefalinger om filosofibøker?:) Og har du Goodreads?
Did you go to Fredrikstad Pride yesterday?
Cruzlio Games I didn’t, no. 😅
Oh well
Heyuu
Hi I think I’m transgender I have always like girl clothing and makeup and I like wean people call me girly so people tell me if I’m transgender I have been guessing my self so much ween I was a kid
Bro, get some sleep, but apart from that good vid
Hi
I am really sorry for possibly sounding rude, but you should stop yawning, apologizing for being tired, talking about your back, talking about pronunciation of words, repeating yourself etc... just focus on the subject of the video, maybe write down notes of what you want to say and speed up. Get to the point more quickly. Also, editing out some of the things that aren't important is also a good idea. But if you can't edit, than just focus on talking quicker and more to the point and being more energized. You have something to say, a good outlook on life and I would very much like to hear more of ypur thoughts but to be honest I can't always spend 19 minutes on something that takes 10 to explain. Again I am not being negative I am just suggesting improving the quality of your content would help you get across more of what you have to say.
I totally agree with you, and I hope that Kovu will see this comment. Indeed, 10 minutes in the middle of the video are very interesting and helpful, but the rest is not essential. Beside that, I think that it would be great if the sound quality was better (there's nothing really special to see, but much to hear).
This is suck a weird huge random repeating rant. Like tf? lol I don’t understand anything he just said.