Love this! One thing I realized, besides the fact that these generational curses need to stop with us....is that forgiving someone and choosing to have God right the wrong (not me) is that forgiveness does NOT mean I put myself in to a position of trust with them. I always thought it was "forgive and forget," but it is forgive and still make smart choices. I don't go out with them alone, I am not alone with them at all. If I need to have a relationship with them, I need to have someone there to help me get out without being hurt again. If I don't need to have a relationship with them, I can forgive and give it to God, but I don't need to put myself in physical or emotional danger again. God says He parents the orphans, that might mean, I become a distance (physically) orphan because that parent refuses to change, and let God parent me, until my parent is ready to be a good parent.
Listennnn!!! I was the same way! But I’m telling you, once you communicate and effectively, it’s so much weight that’s lifted off of you. I breathe different just because I had several uncomfortable conversations! YOU GOT THIS & GOD GOT YOU 🤍
sis, i praise the Lord for making this video appear on my feed at the right time. this really blessed me and had me reflect on myself. thank you sis & God bless!!
I thank God for you! For taking the time out to comment and most of all do some self reflection, I pray that God continues to help you during your healing.
Thanks so much for this video girlfriend, everything you said is very helpful to me 😢😢 I am feeling a hard to communicate with people that have hurt me and people that I have hurt too, but I pray God help me to find myself 😢😢
It’s all in God’s timing, that’s something else we have to trust and remember, always pray and ask the Lord how He wants you to move and go about having these conversations and don’t be hard on yourself 💕
I’m praying for your strength during this journey-but continue to just lean on the Lord and press in, into His presence. Your pouring out and healing is the opening to God being able to pour in and redeem 💕
The only thing with the communication is I have tried multiple times before.. My dad is very stubborn and narcissistic, so no matter what I used to talk to him about when telling him how I feel, it would be like talking to a wall. Like of course I want a relationship with my dad, but it is so much more complicated unfortunately.
Thank you for sharing this! I touched on that more in the extended conversation of this video. There are sometimes, we won’t be able to have a conversation for me my biological dad is no longer here and then in your case He’s here but he won’t listen and this is where still choosing to heal anyways comes in at. For me, it was writing a letter and reading it out loud (I mentioned that in the video) and then constantly talking about it and being open with other people that are around me about how it has made me feel and has affected me. I want to definitely encourage you to pray for God to help you, if you really desire a relationship I want to even encourage you to find someone to navigate that conversation for you, therapist, someone you trust and that’s going to act as mediator. Even if He doesn’t listen or tries to make it something that it’s not, at least you were able to release it. I pray that God mends that relationship between you and your dad, I really do and don’t stop having faith and hope that you can have that daughter/father relationship. 🤍
@@KamiaMcWilliamsthank you so much! I’ve been praying about it for awhile, I’m just being patient and waiting on Gods timing while trying to heal from it. But thank you again for the response God bless 🤍
I have tried having conversations with my mother who hurt me, she seemed like she couldn't be bothered. She wanted to go do something else and she mentioned she wont apologize for her wrong doing. What bothers me is that i feel obligated to build a relationship with hee because she is my mother
New to your page...... as a baby Christian I love the content. I always struggle with where to start my healing journey and I'm a little intimated by the bible. I know it's the enemy trying to keep me away from the word. Side note: I love your hair. What products do you use? Lol
God is so good! In the beginning it's going to be hard, the way the Lord gave it to me was a new born baby, they have to get adjusted to being out the womb and in the world depending on their parents, the same with us in the spirit. So, you got this, it's going to be hard but continue to read the word, find new ways to study, pray and apply the word to your life, but let the Holy Spirit mold you. Nowwwwww, the hair products I use it: Auntie Jackie's Gel (for my coils) and Donna's Recipe by Tabitha Brown.
Do we necessarily have to communicate face to face if that person was unhealthy and i rlly don’t want to reconnect in any way ? Could i just write a letter n speak it aloud…….
Love this! One thing I realized, besides the fact that these generational curses need to stop with us....is that forgiving someone and choosing to have God right the wrong (not me) is that forgiveness does NOT mean I put myself in to a position of trust with them. I always thought it was "forgive and forget," but it is forgive and still make smart choices. I don't go out with them alone, I am not alone with them at all. If I need to have a relationship with them, I need to have someone there to help me get out without being hurt again. If I don't need to have a relationship with them, I can forgive and give it to God, but I don't need to put myself in physical or emotional danger again. God says He parents the orphans, that might mean, I become a distance (physically) orphan because that parent refuses to change, and let God parent me, until my parent is ready to be a good parent.
Girl I’m not ready for that communication part 😭 i know i need to i just feel so afraid
Listennnn!!! I was the same way! But I’m telling you, once you communicate and effectively, it’s so much weight that’s lifted off of you. I breathe different just because I had several uncomfortable conversations! YOU GOT THIS & GOD GOT YOU 🤍
Each video opens my mind to more !! Keep doing yo thing and spreading the word, thank you. 💗
This word gave exactly what it needed to give ma'am, Thank U and Thank you Lord !
You better preach m’am !!!! Thank you Jesus for you and this message !!!!!
Jesus don't want you to stay wounded. Whoo!! Felt that! Bless your Heart Sis for sharing this with us💗🌷
NEEDED THIS. Pulled out my pen and paper for this.
sis, i praise the Lord for making this video appear on my feed at the right time. this really blessed me and had me reflect on myself. thank you sis & God bless!!
I thank God for you! For taking the time out to comment and most of all do some self reflection, I pray that God continues to help you during your healing.
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God bless you my beautiful SiSTAR! This was well received! Stay encouraged Sis! Praise the LORD
Thank you so much, may God continue to bless you also 🤍
Thanks so much for this video girlfriend, everything you said is very helpful to me 😢😢
I am feeling a hard to communicate with people that have hurt me and people that I have hurt too, but I pray God help me to find myself 😢😢
It’s all in God’s timing, that’s something else we have to trust and remember, always pray and ask the Lord how He wants you to move and go about having these conversations and don’t be hard on yourself 💕
Thank you ❤ I’ve been trying to figure out how to heal in the eyes of God. I love you 🥹 & I know this will be good for me
Thank you for your message. I am starting my healing journey and man its really hard.
I’m praying for your strength during this journey-but continue to just lean on the Lord and press in, into His presence. Your pouring out and healing is the opening to God being able to pour in and redeem 💕
Whew God bless you and keep you 🙌🏾
Sis this blessed my soul!
God is so good! THANK YOU FOR TAKING THE TIME OUT OF YOUR DAY TO WATCH IT 🥹
The only thing with the communication is I have tried multiple times before.. My dad is very stubborn and narcissistic, so no matter what I used to talk to him about when telling him how I feel, it would be like talking to a wall. Like of course I want a relationship with my dad, but it is so much more complicated unfortunately.
Thank you for sharing this! I touched on that more in the extended conversation of this video. There are sometimes, we won’t be able to have a conversation for me my biological dad is no longer here and then in your case He’s here but he won’t listen and this is where still choosing to heal anyways comes in at.
For me, it was writing a letter and reading it out loud (I mentioned that in the video) and then constantly talking about it and being open with other people that are around me about how it has made me feel and has affected me. I want to definitely encourage you to pray for God to help you, if you really desire a relationship I want to even encourage you to find someone to navigate that conversation for you, therapist, someone you trust and that’s going to act as mediator. Even if He doesn’t listen or tries to make it something that it’s not, at least you were able to release it.
I pray that God mends that relationship between you and your dad, I really do and don’t stop having faith and hope that you can have that daughter/father relationship. 🤍
@@KamiaMcWilliamsthank you so much! I’ve been praying about it for awhile, I’m just being patient and waiting on Gods timing while trying to heal from it. But thank you again for the response God bless 🤍
Needed this. Keep going sis.
I have tried having conversations with my mother who hurt me, she seemed like she couldn't be bothered. She wanted to go do something else and she mentioned she wont apologize for her wrong doing. What bothers me is that i feel obligated to build a relationship with hee because she is my mother
New to your page...... as a baby Christian I love the content. I always struggle with where to start my healing journey and I'm a little intimated by the bible. I know it's the enemy trying to keep me away from the word.
Side note: I love your hair. What products do you use? Lol
God is so good! In the beginning it's going to be hard, the way the Lord gave it to me was a new born baby, they have to get adjusted to being out the womb and in the world depending on their parents, the same with us in the spirit. So, you got this, it's going to be hard but continue to read the word, find new ways to study, pray and apply the word to your life, but let the Holy Spirit mold you.
Nowwwwww, the hair products I use it: Auntie Jackie's Gel (for my coils) and Donna's Recipe by Tabitha Brown.
Praise the Lord. This is so good.
I love you too sis. May God bless you!
This video was so helpful, tips & advice thanks so much.
I’m struggling with bipolar and ptsd 😢it feels like is so hard to be healed can you please make a video about this topics
Thank you for this message/ video please keep doing these; I immediately had to subscribe 🤍
Welcome to the family sis 🤍
Amazing video thank you. Struggling with 4&5... but I will get there.
Keeping leaning of the Lord and He will get your there!!!!
By ourself, it’s impossible but with the Lord-ALL things are possible!
Do we necessarily have to communicate face to face if that person was unhealthy and i rlly don’t want to reconnect in any way ? Could i just write a letter n speak it aloud…….
Does this have to all in order?
Not at all, just always remember to 1. Trust God and 2. That it's a process no matter the order you begin in!