How To Charm A High Status Person: 5 Tricks From Sean Evans

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  • @Milestonemonger
    @Milestonemonger 5 років тому +2091

    I appreciate a genuinely curious person.

    • @danparish1344
      @danparish1344 5 років тому +39

      Curiosity is probably my biggest asset to my company - I like to know every little detail when I problem solve.

    • @aidanh999
      @aidanh999 5 років тому +7

      Why?

    • @PowerRedBullTypology
      @PowerRedBullTypology 4 роки тому +9

      What is the best and the worst comment you've ever written? ;)

    • @weneedmoreconsideratepeopl4006
      @weneedmoreconsideratepeopl4006 4 роки тому +6

      @@PowerRedBullTypology Man, do you ever think, "wow I wish I wrote that comment"?

    • @PowerRedBullTypology
      @PowerRedBullTypology 4 роки тому +1

      @@weneedmoreconsideratepeopl4006 Yeah when they have a lot of thumbs up I sometimes do..other than that not really. Why?

  • @lokidecat
    @lokidecat 3 роки тому +4862

    Sean is the best interviewer hands down. He's respectful, funny, well-read, and has great banter. So great to watch a master at work.

    • @daweihuang9687
      @daweihuang9687 3 роки тому +59

      Really? He sounds like a robot trying to recite a script to me.

    • @orti1283
      @orti1283 3 роки тому +33

      @@daweihuang9687 I don't think so, but even if he was, the script is very good

    • @lokidecat
      @lokidecat 3 роки тому +42

      @@daweihuang9687 to each their own opinion. he's garnered much respect in the industry for his style and conversational tone. You don't have to like it.

    • @riderzinc
      @riderzinc 3 роки тому +31

      Sean Evans and Nardwuar are my favourite interviewers

    • @Noobie2k7
      @Noobie2k7 3 роки тому +40

      @@riderzinc Natdwuar is on a whole different dimension.

  • @HvyMetal4Ever
    @HvyMetal4Ever Рік тому +236

    "see them as a human"
    Indeed
    I got to meet one of my musical heroes some years ago. It was backstage at a show, and everyone was losing their minds, asking for autographs and pictures. He wasn't in a great space at the time. His band-mate and dear friend passed away just 6 months prior.
    I approached him, and said "I'm so sorry for your loss"
    He was caught off guard. I think it was that human moment that so many skipped past all night.
    I saw him again a few months later at another show backstage. I made a comment, and I think it clicked who I was. It's like he was genuinely happy to see me. Such a great experience

    • @AutomHatter
      @AutomHatter Рік тому

      Was that musical hero Dave Grohl?

    • @HvyMetal4Ever
      @HvyMetal4Ever Рік тому +11

      @@AutomHatter Chad Gray from Mudvayne / Hellyeah. It was shortly after Big Vinnie passed.

    • @HM87520
      @HM87520 7 місяців тому +1

      Don't take my question personally but did you say that because you genuinely wanted to comfort him or because you wanted to stand out among the other fans? 🤔

    • @HvyMetal4Ever
      @HvyMetal4Ever 7 місяців тому

      ⁠@@HM87520to be genuine. He looked broken man. I’ve been there, and I know what it’s like. Everyone else was putting him in Star mode, not a human being who just lost a dear friend.

  • @thescoobymike
    @thescoobymike 5 років тому +3742

    "This is such a good interview, good research"
    Sean: so are you!

    • @tychobrahe6379
      @tychobrahe6379 5 років тому +259

      "Y-y-you too"

    • @FrenchToast663
      @FrenchToast663 5 років тому +48

      Sean Evans is my favorite late night host

    • @Lenduya
      @Lenduya 5 років тому +194

      Why are you leaving things out?
      K Stewart: This is wild...
      Sean Evans: So are you

    • @TheReal_Dirty_Dan
      @TheReal_Dirty_Dan 5 років тому +26

      At least he was aware so he doubles down by repeating it lol

    • @thescoobymike
      @thescoobymike 5 років тому +7

      @@Lenduya oh I didn't catch that lol

  • @bradenboyko
    @bradenboyko 5 років тому +7415

    *At a Job interview:*
    Me: so how are your 3 kids doing? Is your daughter still on the volleyball team?

    • @kushzei
      @kushzei 5 років тому +384

      Easy way to impress interviewer for sure! :D

    • @Gabriel.4190
      @Gabriel.4190 5 років тому +174

      They’ll think your a stalker

    • @smokejc
      @smokejc 5 років тому +378

      @@Gabriel.4190 that was the joke

    • @manchul
      @manchul 5 років тому +428

      10/10 if you apply as a hacker

    • @Th3Colossus7
      @Th3Colossus7 5 років тому +145

      Who are you and what are you doing in my living room?

  • @ragtop63
    @ragtop63 3 роки тому +315

    Sean is definitely a unique host. Make no mistake, there is a team of people, including the creator of Hot Ones, Chris Schonberger, doing the research and digging up the topics Sean presents during his shows. His delivery is definitely his own but all credit must be given where due.

    • @CristinaTringali
      @CristinaTringali Рік тому +19

      I guess I’m watching a different show then all these other people. I see a super awkward guy reading prepared questions and never knowing how to follow up with anything interesting. The questions are good but they are delivered in a wooden manner and he can’t say or do anything clever on the fly.

    • @kevinC5611
      @kevinC5611 Рік тому +4

      @@CristinaTringali 100% agree, its like he's reading these questions for the first time, like the room is empty...

    • @TNEQL
      @TNEQL Рік тому +3

      @@CristinaTringali The "awkwardness" is exactly the appeal of the show. Nobody wants to see rich people in suits stroking their own egos and pretending they're kings anymore.

    • @davidc2838
      @davidc2838 Рік тому +1

      @@CristinaTringali Show us how it's done... Make something SUPER Successful that MILLIONS of people watch and love.

    • @davidc2838
      @davidc2838 Рік тому

      @@kevinC5611 Nonsense. Not a single bit of confusion or uncertainty on his part. Clearly you don't perform or have a huge following. He's ALSO eating Scorching Hot Wings of Death, WHILE doing the Interview. Go show us how it's done...or shut yer pie hole.

  • @adels.185
    @adels.185 5 років тому +5841

    Boss: Do you have any questions?
    Me: So do you have any weird fantasies?

    • @sal_strazzullo
      @sal_strazzullo 5 років тому +23

      Lol

    • @chiepah2
      @chiepah2 5 років тому +106

      No longer potential Boss: Um... nooo.

    • @acc1541
      @acc1541 5 років тому +71

      Also boss: nope, but i do have weird fishes.

    • @babybu8452
      @babybu8452 5 років тому +13

      hahahaha killer question! nail it!

    • @seohyunism1
      @seohyunism1 5 років тому +31

      actually this is a good way to crack a joke in a serious situation, I think it's good

  • @AscendedMasculine
    @AscendedMasculine 5 років тому +23068

    Treat someone like a celebrity and they'll treat you like a fan

  • @SyrillSilly
    @SyrillSilly Рік тому +102

    I am not sure if anyone has noticed how GREAT these videos are for people who struggle with pragmatics. I am an intervention specialist who has to help students on the spectrum learn how to interact with and/or read people in social situations.
    These videos are gold and an unexpected gift that emerged from the virtual void 🤩

    • @ramonew7815
      @ramonew7815 Рік тому +6

      Seeing people past what they represent to you and looking at the human beneath is absolute dynamite practical advice.

    • @dadadadave9652
      @dadadadave9652 9 місяців тому +1

      "intervention specialist who has to help students on the spectrum learn how to interact with and/or read people in social situations" sorry, can you tell me more on this? what is this job and how do you go about doing so? sounds kinda fascinating!

    • @unredactedrecords8521
      @unredactedrecords8521 7 місяців тому

      @SyrillSilly, please tell me some of the highlights and the lowlights of helping students on the spectrum learn how to interact in social situations.

  • @ZacharyLaid
    @ZacharyLaid 5 років тому +7481

    Treat the person you admire as if they are just a normal friend.

    • @JoeSmith-oy3hk
      @JoeSmith-oy3hk 5 років тому +353

      Treat the person I admire as if they are imaginary, got it.

    • @Michael-nq4rc
      @Michael-nq4rc 5 років тому +38

      ...Unless it's Robert De Niro.

    • @keiranleonard1301
      @keiranleonard1301 5 років тому +31

      @@Michael-nq4rc or Kim Jung un...

    • @Snow_Pulse
      @Snow_Pulse 5 років тому +5

      Zachary Laid Finding Freedom You sir know what’s up Woke

    • @99999george
      @99999george 5 років тому +79

      @@JoeSmith-oy3hk another good tip is to not overuse self-deprecating humor

  • @lokimorginstjarna33
    @lokimorginstjarna33 3 роки тому +1774

    Sean Evans deserves everything he's made of himself. Him and his superb team host one of the best talk shows in history.

  • @karabelles5142
    @karabelles5142 3 роки тому +28

    I love that we are now analyzing Sean’s interview and research skills. That’s how good he is. Thanks for this. Super helpful.

  • @TimeFliesTimeManagement
    @TimeFliesTimeManagement 5 років тому +5805

    *Confidence is silent, Insecurities are Loud*

    • @daithiocinnsealach1982
      @daithiocinnsealach1982 5 років тому +315

      My insecurities make me silent.

    • @polaroidandroidjeff6383
      @polaroidandroidjeff6383 5 років тому +45

      Damn man with deep thoughts like this you should have your own UA-cam channel.....

    • @TheRightLadder
      @TheRightLadder 5 років тому +67

      Confidently releasing silent farts

    • @scotthannan8669
      @scotthannan8669 5 років тому +29

      Dumbest statement ever
      Confidence is not silent, insecurities are not loud, this is just a silly statement made for people who are insecure to feel better about themselves by thinking the opposite of the truth

    • @scotthannan8669
      @scotthannan8669 5 років тому

      bookmarkthis haha

  • @saralind2032
    @saralind2032 5 років тому +1094

    "look at us. Hey. Look at us. Who would've though? Not me."

    • @anna_thema3732
      @anna_thema3732 5 років тому +26

      thanks for the chuckle

    • @saralind2032
      @saralind2032 5 років тому +1

      anna_thema didnt even think anyone would see this lolll

    • @Treyzor8989
      @Treyzor8989 5 років тому +5

      Thought*

    • @inh6940
      @inh6940 5 років тому +3

      Look at us.
      Hey, look at us.
      Say it again.
      Look at us.

    • @duhvnlocs
      @duhvnlocs 5 років тому +6

      classic Rudd

  • @rapzad3623
    @rapzad3623 3 роки тому +71

    The problem with doing this, at least with “peers” (like someone you want to date) is if you “do research” and start asking in-depth questions about things you wouldn’t know about without that research you’re probably going to creep them out

    • @rileywiebe3512
      @rileywiebe3512 Рік тому +8

      Maybe do it in an uncreepy way-like comment on something obscure about a recent (not old) post. Like something or someone in the picture

    • @libertyandjusticeforall6435
      @libertyandjusticeforall6435 Рік тому

      You sound like an ugly person

    • @themonsterunderyourbed9408
      @themonsterunderyourbed9408 Рік тому +5

      When you start thinking with "my date is higher status than me."
      You've already failed (especially as a man).

    • @LauraM-j7m
      @LauraM-j7m 10 місяців тому +1

      I think the research aspect would just force it anyways. There’s much to be said for asking unique and interesting questions but for dating I think the focus should just be on “what do you want to know about this person” rather than “how can I make this person like me”.

  • @thescoobymike
    @thescoobymike 5 років тому +253

    When Sean Evan's is impressed, you know you made it

  • @EricMarlow
    @EricMarlow 5 років тому +2781

    HOW TO IMPRESS SOMEONE YOU ADMIRE (summary)
    1. ask killer questions beyond the obvious ones 00:28
    2. use the question preamble to connect on a personal level 03:09
    3. steer conversations towards the other persons emotion or passions 04:52
    4. tease playfully and have some fun 07:37
    5. comfortably express disagreement 09:12
    This is an awesome video and this summary doesn't do it justice. Watch it all the way through. Thank me later. 🙂

    • @DougMarv
      @DougMarv 4 роки тому +13

      Actually, ty in advance =)

    • @Sabadoe2013
      @Sabadoe2013 4 роки тому +12

      I clicked on the first time stamp you wrote. I didn't pause the video a single time after that.

    • @botakram
      @botakram 4 роки тому +9

      Thank you for creating the summary Eric...love the engagement

    • @Sneha-fh3uh
      @Sneha-fh3uh 4 роки тому +3

      Thanks

    • @abelarvizu2898
      @abelarvizu2898 3 роки тому +4

      this is awesome, thank you!

  • @nak3dxsnake
    @nak3dxsnake 2 роки тому +686

    Damn Sean Evans can even tease and joke with people who aren't funny and still relate to them. Thats always been next to impossible for me.

    • @MoltenPlastic
      @MoltenPlastic Рік тому +17

      I find it helps to just switch off your brain for a moment and take the plunge. A bit like diving into cold water. After a respectful tease the whole conversation can get so much more relaxed.
      Don't forget that high status people are used to people tiptoeing around them and often bored of it.

    • @BD-zg7is
      @BD-zg7is Рік тому +5

      practice. he's done hundreds of hundreds of interviews. just go practice with ppl :)

    • @corail53
      @corail53 Рік тому +1

      Because he himself is not funny.

    • @Sorayan13
      @Sorayan13 Рік тому +3

      This is such a wrong view. Every person has humor, just not the same humor.
      So it's not because you don't find them funny that they aren't funny. It's just your opinion.
      Sean, or his team behind the curtains, have a talent of finding out everything there is to know about the celebs, even their kind of humor.

  • @eliseerickson5994
    @eliseerickson5994 5 років тому +525

    On the way into my first job interview I noticed a sign outside that stated the company was the oldest in its industry and the year it was founded. (exactly 200 years before!) When I was asked how much I knew about the company, I brought that up and asked if they were doing anything special for its anniversary. They called me the next morning with a job offer.

    • @TheRightLadder
      @TheRightLadder 5 років тому +6

      Did they do anything?

    • @eliseerickson5994
      @eliseerickson5994 5 років тому +89

      @@TheRightLadder they gave me the job

    • @christophergonzalez8598
      @christophergonzalez8598 5 років тому +11

      @@eliseerickson5994 They have you a job because you are White.

    • @Rytoast99
      @Rytoast99 5 років тому +71

      Christopher Gonzalez no lol troll stfu

    • @eliseerickson5994
      @eliseerickson5994 5 років тому +38

      @@christophergonzalez8598 unfortunately, this is probably true :( white privilege is real asf

  • @kobetiu8628
    @kobetiu8628 5 років тому +924

    Sean: Hey what's your name?
    Person: *that's a great question*

    • @G33KST4R
      @G33KST4R 5 років тому +60

      Person: Wow. You really did your research.

    • @thedynamitepriest2755
      @thedynamitepriest2755 5 років тому +32

      Most likely question fro Sean:
      Imagine you live in a fantasy world and you wanted to get out of it. What name would you pick for yourself?

    • @Frdnnd
      @Frdnnd 4 роки тому +21

      @@thedynamitepriest2755 that's a great question

    • @yourmajesty3569
      @yourmajesty3569 3 роки тому +1

      That is exactly what Sean doesn't do. And exactly how people don't respond.
      How are you funny?????

    • @nobodyishere
      @nobodyishere 3 роки тому +12

      @@yourmajesty3569 r/woooosh

  • @aramislucas3281
    @aramislucas3281 2 роки тому +330

    Back when I used to be a treinee at a gym, there was a girl that I became friends with and I noticed she even used to became blushed and nervous when I talked to her, as if she was interested, and then when we followed each other on Instagram I discovered that she was a singer from a considerably popular local band that I had never happen to know because I'm not a big fan of that specific music style. But it was interesting to see how I behaved naturaly just because I didn't knew who she was. I didn't ask her out btw, I was not single at the time lol

    • @princesmith8008
      @princesmith8008 Рік тому +14

      Bruh....

    • @Goyleguy266
      @Goyleguy266 Рік тому +11

      L

    • @alanalycan3986
      @alanalycan3986 Рік тому +16

      Aww c'mon we was all anticipating a love story here lol. I admire you though of course being faithful to your lady !!! 💙 Kudos

    • @1337-Nathaniel
      @1337-Nathaniel Рік тому +5

      You're a real one. What's her band called though?

  • @DRB-Octane
    @DRB-Octane 3 роки тому +618

    Sean makes guests feel like not being interviewed at all, instead he plays inside the spicy wings game and the questions feels more like an excuse to engage those invited, rather than the focus of it all, Hot Ones format is unique and fresh, and is a display of good things to come. Sean is a talented guy, bright yet humble, a good content maker/contributor .

    • @CidGuerreiro1234
      @CidGuerreiro1234 2 роки тому +11

      Agree, the show is great. I normally don't give a flying about celebrities, but Sean makes the conversation interesting to watch by asking really good question (and actually letting them answer, unlike some hosts who wants to be in the spotlight 100% of the time).

    • @SStupendous
      @SStupendous 2 роки тому +3

      @@CidGuerreiro1234 That last part applying to Kimmel. I really like this guy. ACTUAL interview. Instead of how many talk-show hosts are.

    • @katec5105
      @katec5105 2 роки тому

      Very true

    • @mummyjohn
      @mummyjohn Рік тому

      feels similar to Craig Ferguson. I'll have to check this guy out

  • @haythamhakla
    @haythamhakla 4 роки тому +120

    I remember I had an interview in a high tech company and I was extremely under qualified. I researched the interviewer online before the interview and found out he had a couple of patents. I brought that up while he was walking me from the lobby to the interview room. He was so shocked I even knew about it and I got the internship the next day.

    • @JustMe-ob3nw
      @JustMe-ob3nw 2 роки тому

      What a terrible idea. I would’ve thought you were a freak, an adulator. It also makes you look like someone who is calculating. I would have you escorted out by security on the spot. Amazing you actually got the position. This person is probably very naive for having hired you. Also, people who behave like this are the reason why toxic working environments exist. I would bet you probably have very strong back stabbing’ tendencies too.

    • @Parallaxxx28
      @Parallaxxx28 Рік тому +2

      That’s actually a really good skill. How did you get to know who your interviewer was?

    • @ThinkBeFree99
      @ThinkBeFree99 Рік тому +4

      How did u ask this though. Could be kinda creepy for some lol

  • @e.l.2734
    @e.l.2734 Рік тому +3

    The way you put together those scenes really makes Sean's genius show.

  • @jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862
    @jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862 5 років тому +528

    Be genuine, be yourself. If they don’t like you, move on

    • @fadeskywards1245
      @fadeskywards1245 5 років тому +2

      Right

    • @montanerdz
      @montanerdz 5 років тому +37

      Yeah, until nobody likes you 😂 then what?

    • @Carlos1234jfk
      @Carlos1234jfk 5 років тому +31

      @@montanerdz then you're free

    • @AlexanderMoen
      @AlexanderMoen 5 років тому +78

      Be careful. Lots of people use the "be yourself" reasoning as an excuse to not better themselves, or to justify jerk-like actions.

    • @jk3838
      @jk3838 5 років тому +4

      The person you want to be is the person you really are inside

  • @seanpowlesland1703
    @seanpowlesland1703 4 роки тому +57

    Another thing that makes Sean so great is his how he takes his time. He never rushes his guests and takes his time asking questions. He's also comfortable in silence and doesn't feel pressured to ask killer question every time

  • @pastrana21
    @pastrana21 Рік тому +4

    never get tired of how often sean impresses guests with his questions. though at the same time sean has said that he does a massive amount of research prior to any interview/guest

  • @sqlevolicious
    @sqlevolicious 3 роки тому +271

    Sean is this generation's greatest interviewer. He is light years ahead in connecting to celebrities in a modern way and knows how to treat everyone so equally and respectfully. Everyone WANTS to be on this show because of Sean and his team.

    • @joshjosh7578
      @joshjosh7578 2 роки тому +28

      yes, but then there's Nardwuar

    • @yeldarb1880
      @yeldarb1880 Рік тому +3

      3 letters, jre

    • @karenphan8046
      @karenphan8046 Рік тому

      @@joshjosh7578 you

    • @orbit1894
      @orbit1894 Рік тому +4

      @@joshjosh7578 Nardwuar is the goat

    • @Elurin
      @Elurin Рік тому

      @@orbit1894 Nah, he is a goat, or perhaps eats goats?

  • @YoutubeSun1
    @YoutubeSun1 4 роки тому +45

    Sean Evans is like the celebrity whisperer! Also, his humility is a definite plus. He’s the right balance of admirer, intelligence, and chill! I love him. ♥️🙌🏼💯

  • @bonniecreevy2642
    @bonniecreevy2642 8 місяців тому

    I love Sean Evans. You always learn something new about the celebrities and he doesn’t bait them just for views. I think he’s the best interviewer I’ve ever seen

  • @JS-th7ow
    @JS-th7ow 5 років тому +66

    Just wanted to thank you. This channel has helped me a lot. Due to medical conditions I spent my teen years in isolated. I’m 20 now and this channel has helped me a lot in terms of socializing and being a more confident person overall.

    • @romanpabianczyk8870
      @romanpabianczyk8870 3 роки тому +7

      Maybe if it helped you then maybe it can also help me, because I was an outsider and scapegoat whole my life and I would like to create more social mind.

  • @Miketz
    @Miketz 5 років тому +599

    Boss: "Do you have any questions?"
    Me: "Have you ever killed anybody?"

    • @jamesgarrett7844
      @jamesgarrett7844 5 років тому +32

      Can’t wait to use this at my next interview

    • @satyamprakash7030
      @satyamprakash7030 5 років тому +5

      Maybe😋😋

    • @maahive4321
      @maahive4321 4 роки тому +1

      @@jamesgarrett7844 so how did it went?

    • @anotherstockcivic
      @anotherstockcivic 4 роки тому +4

      Was it good for you too?

    • @miseno31
      @miseno31 4 роки тому +25

      And if you have, what were the highlights of killing, and what were the most frustrating things about it?

  • @1989red13bfc
    @1989red13bfc Рік тому +4

    Sean is a gem. That’s why his show has done soo well.

  • @Harsh-bx2mf
    @Harsh-bx2mf 5 років тому +2449

    Do I need to eat 4000 gallons of hot sauce before I can be like Sean Evans

    • @calebf612
      @calebf612 5 років тому +41

      Most likely, be strong

    • @tomothy527
      @tomothy527 5 років тому +10

      not in one sitting, do it in increasing amounts over the course of months.

    • @csnoopy
      @csnoopy 5 років тому +8

      Heck no. You need 5000

    • @farwakhan4423
      @farwakhan4423 5 років тому +3

      yes

    • @ClarkieReidri
      @ClarkieReidri 5 років тому +14

      Yes, this is coming from someone who subjects themselves to the hottest sauces they can find, once you have drank a half bottle of Da Bomb, nothing can scare you anymore. No person or object will hurt you as much as that will.

  • @LisaGemini
    @LisaGemini 3 роки тому +220

    Self confidence impresses anyone. Being intelligent is huge. It might seem geeky to you, but it's vital. Thanks for the video!

    • @7ylerD
      @7ylerD 2 роки тому +10

      People don’t respect intelligence, per se; people respect competence. They like when you are able to effectively interpret and respond to what they’re saying, but they don’t like when you come off as a know-it-all.

    • @romancetips365
      @romancetips365 Рік тому +1

      I have both and I still don't have any friends, go figure... :-P

    • @MikeD-hn9hf
      @MikeD-hn9hf Рік тому +2

      I think if recent history has taught us anything it's that you don't have to be intelligent to be confident.

    • @corail53
      @corail53 Рік тому

      ​@@7ylerD If you claim you are intelligent is shows how insecure you are - that is what turns people off. The folks who have to brag about how smart they are etc. People respect people being themselves and not having to one up or brag about things like that.

    • @corail53
      @corail53 Рік тому

      @@MikeD-hn9hf You don't.

  • @tyrroo
    @tyrroo 7 місяців тому +1

    Bro, this is the best ad for Hot Ones I've ever seen!
    As someone who hates spicy food, I had no idea it was a legit interview show, I thought it was just celebs eating gross intense spices!

  • @silvervixen007
    @silvervixen007 4 роки тому +1754

    As someone who is socially awkward and maybe even on the autism spectrum... this channel surprisingly helps me a lot! 🙆‍♀️

    • @shadmanhasan4205
      @shadmanhasan4205 3 роки тому +19

      Same.

    • @davecullins1606
      @davecullins1606 3 роки тому +39

      In my experience, if you start to *heavily* self-identify with something you see as fundamentally limited, then you're more likely in general to doubt your own abilities which is just going to lead you to give up on seizing a lot of opportunities you wouldn't otherwise have given up on if you hadn't let that thing be at the center of your identity. That thing being autism in this case.
      That has been my own experience as an autist, and I have also seen other autists suffer from not following that advice.

    • @jasperw.2701
      @jasperw.2701 3 роки тому +11

      I don't find that surprising. I'm kind of in the same place. This guy is a genius!

    • @Chris-Moore501
      @Chris-Moore501 3 роки тому +7

      The tools they give me confidence to carry on through the awkwardness haha

    • @wesleygraham335
      @wesleygraham335 3 роки тому +26

      I think Dave is right. If you put yourself in box or category such as labelling yourself as ‘maybe even on the autism spectrum’ you’ve now created a belief in your mind which is not helping you. If you can remove the labels that society places on us we become more free to express who we are without caring. It takes work though. Your awkwardness is most likely due to suppression in society because you do things differently. Just a theory from someone that used to think the same things.

  • @ALLROY240
    @ALLROY240 5 років тому +123

    0:49 I think that question would have floored most interviewees.

    • @kichapps
      @kichapps 5 років тому +15

      Yeah. That's a really long sentence to comprehend...

    • @DustyyBoi
      @DustyyBoi 5 років тому

      @@kichapps no? I'm gonna guess English isn't your first language

    • @meat.
      @meat. 5 років тому +27

      Alojzija it’s a pretty complicated question. We don’t all watch rick and morty like you

    • @yanited7603
      @yanited7603 5 років тому +6

      @@DustyyBoi Rude. You might need to watch more charisma on command.

    • @blackharpy7468
      @blackharpy7468 5 років тому +4

      @@DustyyBoi Stop judging and start self-developing. You need to.

  • @kaalen24
    @kaalen24 3 роки тому +30

    I love how Sean and his show is getting well deserved recognition for how incredibly skilled he and the show is at these interviews. Better than anything you will find on TV. Shout out to Dustin Poirier for doing the show!

    • @Swordifsh1
      @Swordifsh1 Рік тому

      I didnt see Poirier here? Or did you mean in a diff video?

  • @samtoshner8002
    @samtoshner8002 5 років тому +312

    Sean Evans deserves an award for his abilities as a talk show host.

  • @lexilowe4928
    @lexilowe4928 5 років тому +275

    Sean Evans is an awesome interviewer. He inspired me to start asking people more and better questions about themselves, and it's made my social life so much better. And for job interviews, I do a ton of research on all the people I'll meet. Probs not as much research as Sean and Chris do, but it would be weird if I tried to do an "Explain that Gram" on a job interview.

  • @Reorganiser
    @Reorganiser Рік тому +4

    For me the most important thing about conversations and questions is to ask something you're actually interested in.
    Sean asks phenomenal questions, but his job is to get information out of people for the sake of informing and entertaining viewers and listeners.
    When I'm in a conversation, I want this information for myself, so there is no point in asking something you don't care about.
    Also it gives the conversation genuity which can make even ordinary, uncreative questions feel natural and interesting

  • @marc-andrecote2948
    @marc-andrecote2948 3 роки тому +634

    Got it, so killer question on first date: so do you think your insecurities in relationship are the fruit of a long and heartfelt grief from the fact your dad did not love you?

    • @CaneSr
      @CaneSr 3 роки тому +27

      Dayumn

    • @XIVDock
      @XIVDock 3 роки тому +83

      Not open ended enough. Can still boil it down to yes or no, assuming the person decides to answer instead of immediately throwing themselves at you

    • @RochdiD
      @RochdiD 3 роки тому +2

      Hahahahahaha

    • @earlyangelo
      @earlyangelo 3 роки тому

      Noted. Thanks

    • @Bryan-kl5rr
      @Bryan-kl5rr 3 роки тому +3

      This should help with my dating life, or lack thereof. Thanks 🤙

  • @Benisued
    @Benisued 5 років тому +280

    damn man the quality of this channel is soaring

    • @CC-bu2gv
      @CC-bu2gv 3 роки тому +6

      so what are some of the highlight and lowlights of the videos you've seen so far?

    • @Benisued
      @Benisued 3 роки тому +2

      @@CC-bu2gv
      highlights:
      5 easy ways to start a conversation
      why good relationships turn bad
      turn anxiety into charisma
      lowlights are difficult, I understand videos from this channel end up being pretty personal, a charisma lesson that I need will be different than what you need, but the reaction videos that they started making, I think, are their weakest link right now

  • @punkinkng
    @punkinkng Рік тому +245

    As highlighted in this video, Sean's real talent is predicting people's deaths.
    "Have you ever killed anyone?"
    "We haven't heard from Coolio in a while."

    • @BabyJesus66
      @BabyJesus66 Рік тому +12

      He killed Coolio

    • @Pb4Au
      @Pb4Au Рік тому

      😬 i cringed at that

    • @jumpieva
      @jumpieva Рік тому +1

      I caught that too, didn't age well lol

    • @djramennoodles
      @djramennoodles Рік тому +18

      ​@@jumpieva neither did Coolio

    • @Vanden_Vanden
      @Vanden_Vanden Рік тому

      Poor Coolio, did great work for children ,and had an interesting interview before his passing. "Coolio Joined The Hip Hop Uncensored Podcast To Talk about being approached to do some weird stuff while he was and artist. "

  • @AlexPlatinumAdvice
    @AlexPlatinumAdvice 5 років тому +360

    This is a lot of great info, whenever I go out on a date I typically ask 5 in depth questions with the girl, then get into more detail.
    Also, in the past when I would have interviews I would always study up on the company. When they were founded, who founded them, what their goal and values are.
    I almost always got hired for every job I applied.
    Good stuff my man.

    • @Ana-bx6fn
      @Ana-bx6fn 5 років тому +36

      Could you give examples of the questions that you asked during the interviews?

    • @chag3406
      @chag3406 5 років тому +16

      ^ and the first 5

    • @drpizzagames1015
      @drpizzagames1015 5 років тому +8

      Nothing to comment just want the notification when/if you respond to the replies

    • @NelemNaru
      @NelemNaru 5 років тому +1

      Do you have a set of questions to asks on dates, or are they different depending on the girl?

    • @nexo8742
      @nexo8742 5 років тому

      What are the 5 deep questions?

  • @Nero_2276
    @Nero_2276 5 років тому +50

    I loved the line about asking a job interviewer about what they like about working there. That can lead into many directions.

    • @JaysonT1
      @JaysonT1 5 років тому +2

      I ask that on very interview Iźve been on. They always say"the people". Ironically, I worked a job (setting up stages) where the people I worked with and the environment were VERY hastle.

    • @janetmiller2160
      @janetmiller2160 5 років тому +1

      @@JaysonT1 hostile, jicywi

  • @davidcummins8125
    @davidcummins8125 Рік тому +3

    It is funny how much of the status thing is an illusion. A friend was star-struck in a bar when he saw the DJ of his favorite radio station. He would never have approached him. I didn't know who the heck he was, so I just dragged my friend over and had a 5 minute conversation with the guy. The real thing is the human connection. Another time I was at a conference and blew off a boring session. I ended up bumping into the guest speaker for the whole event in the cafeteria and bonding over how terrible the food was. I appreciate these videos for making the good moments more reliable, not just "a weird thing that happened to me".

  • @1chaplain
    @1chaplain 5 років тому +74

    The day Sean gets featured in Charisma in Command, is the day I'm satisfied with the internet. Great content

  • @TheDonkyGamePlay
    @TheDonkyGamePlay 5 років тому +21

    I once commented how good of an interviewer Sean is, that his questions really make the other side open up and he really digs a lot of information about them. Never got so many disagreeing comments hah. Glad you pointed this out

  • @ezra9401
    @ezra9401 3 роки тому +3

    I usually would gloss over UA-cam videos these days, even the educational ones that I usually like. This video was really grabbing my attention and provides a great perspective and information. Kudos.

  • @devam7768
    @devam7768 5 років тому +5

    That mindset is golden! It's been a true game-changer in my own life. Sometimes we put the people we admire on a pedestal instead of seeing them as a fellow human being. This prevents us from connecting with them and making a lasting impression.

  • @wilbeugre
    @wilbeugre 5 років тому +28

    So I was right: treat human beings as human beings and be kind to anyone; it doesn't mean that you'll agree on everything but that is ok ☺️
    Keep up the great work guys! 👍🏿

  • @cameronjadewallace
    @cameronjadewallace Рік тому +1

    I've been listening to this channel all day after it came up in my autoplay, and I've been trying to learn how to human properly lately. I've been feeling like I'm out of sorts, but my self-confidence (that I've built on my own just by listening to NF) has gotten in my way. Now... I've been seeing flaws in my character and how I can fix it.
    I mentioned to my coworkers that I've found this channel today and been listening to it ravenously and they asked how it's been going... I laughed and said "Well, it's just Day 1!!!" And they found it hilarious.
    I've always been known for my humor, and now ... I actually think this is helping me be more personable, instead of relying on shock value.
    I love this channel. I hope it helps me human better.

  • @scotthullinger9955
    @scotthullinger9955 5 років тому +69

    The way you impress me is by not trying to impress me. Humility says a lot.

  • @lizicadumitru9683
    @lizicadumitru9683 5 років тому +28

    You know the more I think about what this channel does and promotes the more I'm surprised at the genius of it 👍

  • @syedali1401
    @syedali1401 Рік тому +2

    Eye contact is the most powerful thing to keep someone connected to you for a while.
    It helps me a lot, its just makes the other person in a trance like state. I dont know exactly how it works. But this thing is powerful

  • @joeymcarthur8679
    @joeymcarthur8679 5 років тому +127

    I'm so glad you're doing Sean. He's like, a gold standard.

  • @xingmenneigong
    @xingmenneigong 5 років тому +9

    I have a sarcastic dry sense of humour and it serves me well. I feel I need to change too much when I watch your videos. Causes me to over think, forget, then never say anything at all to people. Charisma comes through practice, intuition, empathy and a whole host of other skill sets learnt over time. To sum up your videos in one phrase "think outside the box", as cliche as that phrase is, it suits you perfectly. Stay confident, congratulations on your original UA-cam channel and best of luck in the future.

    • @__-fi6xg
      @__-fi6xg 3 роки тому +1

      I think everyone has His own Magic, at.least If you are good with communication.
      I conciously decide to be less social and its Just the part of me who wants to be alone from time to time. You either Accept me as i am or Not, i dont care.

  • @katomlife8635
    @katomlife8635 Рік тому

    Sean Evans is such a talented interviewer.
    What makes highlight and lowlight questions so interesting to the interviewee...
    Highlight questions will bring them joy and make you sound interested in them.
    Lowlight questions sound like you care and will create a connection with them.

  • @bphifer
    @bphifer 5 років тому +8

    Video Idea: Chris D’Elia. Two things I notice that I’d love to hear y’all elaborate on.
    1) enthusiasm makes the difference. Guy has child like excitement about whatever he’s talking about
    2) creatively imagining scenarios to elaborate on the topic at hand and keep people engaged to what you’re saying.
    Can you do a video on this?

    • @NickOloteo
      @NickOloteo 4 роки тому

      Brandon Phifer and a video on Andrew Schulz. That guy can say almost anything and be hilarious despite the fact his laugh is cringe

  • @blakeglosson
    @blakeglosson 5 років тому +10

    Insightful and tangibly helpful. I love the idea of being playful with higher-profile people, rather than always speaking/responding in literal terms. Will definitely be using this. Thanks, Charlie!

  • @thomaschezik9769
    @thomaschezik9769 Рік тому

    I totally stumbled on this video, but this is one of the most valuable 15 minutes of education that anyone could have in learning how to network and connect with a stranger that they are interested in partnering with or learning from. HUGE HIGH YIELD how to.

  • @jakedouglassmith8779
    @jakedouglassmith8779 3 роки тому +34

    GREAT LESSON!!! Too many people lack basic communication skills let alone these kind of skills that take you to the next level. Well Done!

  • @zanemiracle6121
    @zanemiracle6121 5 років тому +1722

    Before watching video:
    Guy: How's it going? ❌
    After watching videi;:
    Guy: Imagine how you're feeling right now. Now take that same situation and imagine that you're on Mars. So fellow martian, how's it going? ✅

    • @raphaelmotta7630
      @raphaelmotta7630 5 років тому +131

      That actualy made me smile, if someone said that to me in real life I'd instantly conect with them. haha
      I'm gonna use this!

    • @Ot-ej5gi
      @Ot-ej5gi 5 років тому +20

      still the same thing, but only on Mars...

    • @Ot-ej5gi
      @Ot-ej5gi 5 років тому +5

      @Alan Hardcastle A story?! that's not even a story, they absolutely randomly pick Mars and the rest of it is just a totally RANDOM ramble.

    • @DeadPointDelusions
      @DeadPointDelusions 5 років тому +5

      Vadim Galperin I think you’re missing the point 😂 it entices your imagination

    • @Ot-ej5gi
      @Ot-ej5gi 5 років тому +1

      @@DeadPointDelusions How so?

  • @emory4258
    @emory4258 Рік тому

    These questions are also being asked while they are eating spicy food! This makes an even interesting conversation because not only are they concentrating on the heat going on in their mouth but they are also thinking about the conversation. So far this is the most interesting video so far for me in my opinion that I've watched from you. I haven't seen them all but so far.....

  • @phoqueme
    @phoqueme 5 років тому +4

    The main reason this channel is awesome! For beginners or shy people, this is a great course and checklist, and for seasoned charisma veterans, you can still get some great tips for your own strategies. Very well spoken

    • @kirbylover37
      @kirbylover37 2 роки тому

      Beginners of social interaction? So babies?

  • @marialiyubman
    @marialiyubman 5 років тому +8

    My favorite part is all the sauces on the table. It instantly makes me interact with the show because I want to try them all.

    • @XoIoRouge
      @XoIoRouge 3 роки тому +1

      Same! And it's a great way to break the ice too.

    • @shadmanhasan4205
      @shadmanhasan4205 3 роки тому +1

      Hah!! The Sauces would *MELT* that 🧊.... it's metaphorical... bit still 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Jo3W3st
    @Jo3W3st 2 роки тому +2

    He has a whole team including him who comes up with these amazing questions. He's just the face of the channel, asking the questions. Yes he does improve a lot but the writers don't get recognition honestly and if you're in the entertainment industry, you should have known this already.

    • @dumdum9367
      @dumdum9367 2 роки тому +1

      He a natural, has charisma, someone who draws you in while letting you be, this man should be studied in university

  • @calmman32
    @calmman32 5 років тому +4

    Little gratitude here, I have used your teachings on interviews, for my agents and team leads to help them make better connections. Thank you for sharing

  • @QueenZsWorld
    @QueenZsWorld 5 років тому +77

    See them as human. Talk to then like you would a friend

  • @mikeheerkens1195
    @mikeheerkens1195 2 роки тому +1

    I watched this video two weeks ago and yesterday I used the 'best and worst' structure in a flirty conversation with a girl i just met. Her reaction was exactly the same as in the video and I could tell she was impressed. I am now in the possession of her number. Thanks!

    • @millaze
      @millaze Рік тому

      I read this as “I am now in possession of her” and I stopped cold

    • @mikeheerkens1195
      @mikeheerkens1195 Рік тому

      @@millaze 😂😂😂

  • @wabylgoth96
    @wabylgoth96 5 років тому +100

    "We haven't heard from Coolio in a long time" - SE

  • @sweetspleen795
    @sweetspleen795 3 роки тому +6

    He got a team for his research. Kudos to them!

  • @SirGlacius1
    @SirGlacius1 3 роки тому +6

    I really like to watch hot ones. Sean is without a doubt a great host so you get to meet celebrities you love engaged in a warm and fun conversation.

  • @alexeyvolin4263
    @alexeyvolin4263 5 років тому +4

    Just in time! I've been preparing application to my dream company and I was really hesitating about the way how I decided to approach it. It's a very well-known designer and a unique persona, so I decided to prepare a super informal video application, with a few jokes related to him. Feel very relieved to see that it ticks all the points from the list!

  • @ZachWeiss
    @ZachWeiss 5 років тому +827

    How to impress someone you admire: “Be unapologetically yourself”
    Done.

    • @peterDcontact
      @peterDcontact 5 років тому +24

      i am sorry, this is the kind of advice Tony Robbins would give, the kind that i hate, what does that even mean?

    • @ZachWeiss
      @ZachWeiss 5 років тому +48

      peterDcontact it means to stop trying to watch advice on how to be something other than how you would normally be. If you put on a show, the facade will fail at some point and that person you were trying to impress won’t stick around. If you don’t try to impress them from the get-go, if it’s meant to be, they will stay anyway.

    • @adels.185
      @adels.185 5 років тому +5

      @@peterDcontact Means (if I got it right) that you are yourself and stick to your opinions and beliefs unapologetically

    • @ben-asinus
      @ben-asinus 5 років тому +25

      Yeah, but to be able to do that you have to be the best person you can possible be. And that is hard or nearly impossible. So it is useful to be aware of the fact that you are not perfect. And it is good to be modest and to ask for apology every time you were wrong.

    • @ZachWeiss
      @ZachWeiss 5 років тому +6

      ben yeah of course. When you are objectively wrong on something. I do like the tips on this video, it’s more like in my opinion, when you act like yourself without restraint then you tend to polarize people and the only people who stick around are the ones who count. 😊

  • @Eltonlin1998
    @Eltonlin1998 Рік тому

    Good conversations engage on an emotional level. Ways to do that: Why questions "Why do you like it"? steer away from mundane "What was the best, what was the worst?"

  • @pootnikalexander
    @pootnikalexander 5 років тому +14

    If these videos are any indication of the quality of your course, it practically sells itself! Well researched, clear, to the point and excellent examples even for those of us firm in self confidence these are great tips to practice more deliberately.

  • @marlonese
    @marlonese 4 роки тому +8

    Sean Evans really is one of the best human beings on this planet

    • @johannesschmitz6370
      @johannesschmitz6370 3 роки тому

      I would also place him among the likes of Jesus Christ, Mother Teresa or even Jerry Trainor from iCarly

  • @athmaid
    @athmaid Рік тому

    Sean Evans and Mike Laita are the best interviewer on UA-cam imho, very different approaches but they know how to get stories out of their guests

  • @MH-dv2cz
    @MH-dv2cz 5 років тому +55

    So what I'm hearing is that my stalker skills are going to come in handy

  • @jessicamaccabe9620
    @jessicamaccabe9620 5 років тому +4

    nothing much more respectable than integrity, this is awesome. Ignore "ranks", value your own character

  • @NathanHarrison7
    @NathanHarrison7 2 роки тому +6

    Great advice. Great practical points to implement, use, with anyone who 1) respects you enough to want to engage with you on an “emotional” level and 2) see number 1 above. If they don’t basically nothing you say, or do, will matter. If someone simply doesn’t feel comfortable around you, they might not even consciously know why they feel that way, they’ll quickly find a conscious reason not to. At that point all meaningful conversations are over before they start no matter how you phrase the questions.

  • @dameanvil
    @dameanvil Рік тому +6

    00:14 🎯 To impress someone higher in status, focus on asking unique, thoughtful questions. Avoid common, repetitive ones.
    01:38 🧠 Prioritize empathy and ask questions beyond the obvious to engage the person's interests and experiences.
    02:36 📖 Research the person or company before a meeting or interview. Avoid asking easily available information.
    03:47 🤔 Start conversations with a short preamble highlighting a specific aspect of their work to stand out.
    04:58 😊 Steer conversations towards emotional topics or their passions for a deeper connection.
    05:55 💬 Use "best and worst" questions to get people talking about what excites or frustrates them.
    08:46 😄 Don't be afraid to inject humor and playfulness, but maintain a balance and avoid overdoing it.
    09:29 🗣️ Disagree assertively while still acknowledging areas of agreement to showcase your independent thinking.
    10:51 👤 See the person as a human, not just their status or achievements, to create a more genuine connection.

  • @aloe704
    @aloe704 2 роки тому +10

    *Sean honestly DOESN'T have to ask good question, because he knows many people watch his videos for the celebrities' reaction to hot sauce, but he still asks amazing questions, that's why he's the most underrated and best hosts of all time!!*

    • @matthewvanrensburg3824
      @matthewvanrensburg3824 Рік тому +1

      Without the questions the celebrities wouldn't be lining up to come on the show though. The wings are for the fans, the quality of the interview is for the celebs.

    • @corail53
      @corail53 Рік тому

      no

  • @DanielleWasHeree
    @DanielleWasHeree 2 роки тому

    this video made me realize something.. I used to do most of these things. mind you, I'm already very introverted. then I worked closely with a superior at work. I tried establishing a comfortable relationship to ease the stress of the job. he took it too far. yes, he confided in me and relied on me, but he also gave me most of the work and complained to me multiple times a day. to everyone else, he was happy-go-lucky guy that seemed understanding. to me, he was fed up with everyone's incompetence and life and repeatedly informed me daily. after 2-3 years I actually got depressed because of the stress of the job and the toxic environment he made. fast forward to now, half a year later, and I have an amazing, understanding, intelligent, positive boss and I'm so glad that is all behind me.

  • @laurafedora5385
    @laurafedora5385 2 роки тому +62

    It’s hard to ask questions beyond the obvious ones if you don’t know the person that well though.
    Sean has the luxury of being able to do some research on celebrities’ interests or new work. If you did that to your crush, you’re a creepy stalker 😆

    • @JamesDavisakaRemguy
      @JamesDavisakaRemguy Рік тому +1

      Good Point, let's hope he responds at some point in the (near?) future. I'm sure he can come up with some way of presenting this "research" so that it's not interpreted as a creepy invasion of one's privacy. If done (adroitly or adeptly?) done GOOD...ly(?!), it can come off as very flattering that you sacrificed the time/effort/blood/sweat/tears to go to these lengths, but that's probably part of the risk-taking that he refers to in this video. *It's all in the delivery* - which itself would make a great by-line for Charisma University!

    • @mrmatiti3405
      @mrmatiti3405 Рік тому

      Not sure CoC agrees with this but my approach is to just be interested in what they are doing or where they have been, even though I am not familiar with it. For example, I met someone who worked with building electric excavators. My first response was "Well, that sounds a little unpractical because they require a lot of energy. How long does it last before it's out of battery?". It lead to a very interesting conversation where he got to give me some insights on electrical excavators.
      I am also the type to ask if someone wore hula skirts if I find out they lived in Hawaii. That either leads to a good laugh or a good story if they actually did wear one.

  • @compequiet0584
    @compequiet0584 3 роки тому +27

    I'm taking and watching these videos to build up my characters, by writing them and inserting those techniques into each character, I memorise them too. And I have to say, so far I have built great characters and I'm taking your notes, Charlie and Ben. I'm sure my dad uses your techniques too in his business, and have to say, he knows to read ANY adult accurately. No bragging.

  • @callmejeff9272
    @callmejeff9272 Рік тому

    Honestly this one of the best vids I’ve come across. Became a standout at my current job because of asking those great questions at the end of the interview

  • @andreschumann7327
    @andreschumann7327 Рік тому +6

    Basically, Sean doesn't talk to celebrities like they are celebrities. In a nutshell, he talks to them as a person to another person, trying to get to know them better. This is exactly how I conduct my business meetings.

  • @HiddenLunarWings
    @HiddenLunarWings 5 років тому +626

    Basically just be bald. Bald guys have all the charisma.

    • @witchbitchgirl
      @witchbitchgirl 5 років тому +76

      That's the price you have to pay...

    • @alisthemalice
      @alisthemalice 5 років тому +13

      @@witchbitchgirl lmao that was on point 👌

    • @jusayalex
      @jusayalex 5 років тому +16

      Saitama made the right decision

    • @kirkjohnson9353
      @kirkjohnson9353 5 років тому +10

      Why are bald homeless guys such a rare thing?

    • @josephd53
      @josephd53 5 років тому +2

      Especially Seth Everman

  • @nawwk79
    @nawwk79 3 роки тому +1

    Being yourself and not bombarding your brain with all this "How To" videos is the best way to impress someone genuinely.

  • @lucigaroyan826
    @lucigaroyan826 5 років тому +5

    Very insightful video. I've been watching your videos consistently and I'm very impressed by your ability to create fresh content and to analyze. Can't wait for the next one!

  • @Changsta31
    @Changsta31 4 роки тому +19

    These are great tips! Love it. I have a question though. If you were to start a conversation with someone that you repeatedly interact, you'll tend to run out of "researchable questions", and eventually resort to the typical "How are you?" or "How was your weekend?" question, how do you avoid to do that with someone you already know and engage with on a frequent basis?

    • @The_Situation
      @The_Situation 3 роки тому +9

      You don't. If you see someone THAT often where you've ran out of things to say, then basic interactions apply. The other option is to start having deeper more philosophical conversations, or silly musings and random thoughts.

    • @andrewd8026
      @andrewd8026 2 роки тому +1

      In that case I'd just resort to really wacky funny questions that aren't researchable. Those "researchable questions" should probably be used to get to know someone and for them to open up to you. You don't need to be doing that for years, because at some point you just become normal friends where u can talk about random stuff

  • @jesseowens4652
    @jesseowens4652 Рік тому

    It helps a lot to keep your mind open and be truly curious about the person. If you are genuine it will show in a very obvious way and they will respect you for that.

  • @AmyMuspratt94
    @AmyMuspratt94 5 років тому +23

    So glad you did Sean Eveans! Hope He watches this

  • @tyanite1
    @tyanite1 5 років тому +5

    Definitely among my all time favorite lessons of yours. A small challenge to figure out how to apply it, but worth figuring out. A shorthand version? Thinking of David Snyder, NLP UA-cam mind-hacking rebel and confessed egomaniac. His lesson on 3 Magic Questions works amazingly well. Easiest technique I know. I practice using it every single time I fly and reactions are always over-the-top. You can even work it into watercooler conversations.

  • @briangallagher710
    @briangallagher710 Рік тому

    This is excellent advice. I would also add that one should never lie or distort the truth, no matter how bad.

  • @TheBrownConnor
    @TheBrownConnor 5 років тому +4

    Do a video on attitude. I’d like to know how to consistently maintain a positive attitude. I also think it’s such a simple concept that we tend to overlook it, but it’s huge.