I'm a UA-camr too so I'm gonna be very honest (we'll see if you leave this up.) In the video you talk about you did CLICKBAIT: a dramatic title- to attract attention and get views, so please don't blame folks for their knee jerk response. Even in this video your title is meant deliberately TO ATTRACT ATTENTION. So I'm getting a bit meta but I know UA-cam behind the scenes...I find it odd that you blame folks for their reaction to something you put out in order to get attention. I'm sorry you were not ready for the negative response.
That's exactly what I think. After all you get what you do. I mean, read the title of this video and then listen to the content: it's literally screaming 'view seeker'
Agreed 100%. And can't believe she made this video entirely for those negative comments....as someone who clicked the video genuinely curious about her experience , the content gave me nothing but disappointment..it was a waste of my time!!!
Im sorry you had to deal with that. While my experience in Italy was very limited, short vacation only, I found the people Italy so welcoming and warm. I am grateful for the video you posted as its so very true! If a person is not happy with themselves- they wont be happy ANYWHERE! As you said, there is good and bad in all places and in and at various times of life for all people! Love yourself- be grateful and love life regardless of WHERE you are!
I completely understood what your video was about and it’s a shame some others did not. Your content is always so loving towards Italy and I throughly enjoy it all! There will always be people who just don’t get it. Thanks for making this video to address your thoughts, and keep doing what your are doing!! ❤
Thank you so much! I'm so lucky to have subscribers like you here, and I'm eternally grateful for your support and kind words. It wouldn't be possible without you ❤️
Dear, most of those comments are probably from people who never traveled or spent a significant amount of time anywhere abroad and didn't really understand that you were proposing a topic of discussion. Moving abroad for the first time or when you change countries, especially the first time, totally blows your mind and makes you question everything that you were programmed to believe in your home country. Moving from America to China back in 2012, for the first time, totally blew my mind and completely gave me a new perspective, and I am so happy for that. I love living abroad in new countries. Those people are projecting their own stuff onto you. I'm glad that you could explain yourself, sill, don't let their ignorance and judgement get you down. Many people who have never lived or spent a significant time abroad are living in a bubble and have difficulty seeing any other perspective. Many people are just looking for reasons to get offended. Keep doing you!
Thank you so much for your support! It means the world ❤️ And I totally agree with you - haters gonna hate! It just felt like something I wanted to address, but as you've rightly pointed it out, people are just looking for reasons to get offended. But all those hateful comments are really insignificant compared to all the love and support here! ❤️
My opinion, for what it’s worth: 1. Maybe be a little more careful when choosing video titles… Maybe don’t go so hard on the Clickbait-ness, especially if you already know how many people on UA-cam comment solely on the title without even watching a video. Sensationalism is a double edged sword, and as you have seen, it could come back to bite you in the butt 2. : don’t give so much attention to people who make comments about content they haven’t watched based on the title. If it were me, I definitely would not be making a video to address the haters who had bashed me on a video they didn’t even bother to watch. Delete those comments, and move on. Don’t make a whole video addressing haters who probably aren’t watching this video either
We love you V. Even though I am just a fellow commentator and not there to comfort you in person. You have no idea how much your attitude, personality, and well made videos have personally made my days better. I am also a college student in the USA who struggles with mental health issues from time to time. Though I haven’t watched this video yet, I want you to know that every video you have made and just your presence make my day and all of your other viewers way better when things go wrong. You are valued and you are special and even if we are just a comment on the screen to you, know that I am a real person behind the screen who is here for you and am subscribed to you because of your hard work and amazing personality that lifts my spirits whenever I get extremely depressed. Thank you V ❤️
Thank you so much! It means the world to me, knowing that what I do here makes people's days better - and it's the best reward. I wish I could hug you in person!!! Sending you lots of love, and I'll keep posting more videos - your words makes it worth it ❤️
First time I came to Italy in 1999 and Italy stole my heart I ♥️ Italy never mind the haters they don't even like themselves how do you expect them to you 🤣
I travel extensively and I have to say that Italy is one place I would like to live in. I think that you should return to your homeland since apparently Italy is not for you.
It’s the same as ‘if you’re not happy single, you won’t be happy in a relationship’ of course your surroundings, experience, etc have an effect but your happiness is also down to your own headspace. It’s also down to how you can take inspiration. Went to Florence in 2017, saw a lot of people cycling and appearing carefree, so went back in the U.K. sold my car and bought a cycle, felt a lot less stressed (and had more money to do more travelling). 😎
Wow what a title... Disturbing and awful, it really is! I don't care bout your issues but I think you should change your approach to people in general.
So sorry to hear about these negative comments! You’re full of positivity and happy! Don’t worry about these people who are telling you such bad comments! You are making your life in Italy and as an expat from France living in the US, many years later I still get some negative comments as I should go back to my country! I used to be offended but I realized that some people can’t help themselves to be mean and putting people down!! Just ignore these comments, don’t pay attention to these mean people!! They are probably jealous about you making a good life for yourself!! I love your positivity and great videos!! Please Valeria focus on the good comments rather than those who don’t have anything else to do but put people down just to makes themselves bigger behind their computers!! You’re wonderful and I believe others feel the same way about you🌸🌸🌸😍😍😍
Thank you so so much! It means a lot ❤️ I really appreciate your words and your support, and yes, I know I'm so lucky to have such amazing subscribers ❤️
So sorry for this commentaries! I am so glad that you tell the truth from your perspective - the good and the bad, because one objective opinion is always better than pink glasses! There always will be haters and misinterprets
I agree on what you say: Italy as all the countries on the world have its own problems. I'm Italian and I know it. I know it very well. But still it's my country and I can't find one another that is better for me. No matter how many problems my country have or how many pro have other countries. I'm simply part of this Nation and there will be nothing that will change it.
I'm thumbing down this video for the completely irrelevant title. I'm not a subscriber; I've never watched your videos before (and now probably never will). If you want to make a video addressing the contents or comments of another video, indicate that in the title.
I'm glad you are addressing this . Wish you continued success in your studies . Locals should be embracing you for working hard and coming legally. I didn't realize that they would be hateful against other white people also . I thought only they didn't like Africans and Asians . Europe is Europe . Italy joined the EU and they should accept other Europeans equally.
I am sorry you have to go through this . I really want to go to Italy but I didn't know that even though it may be a paradise it can also have a dark side to it . Every country can have racsim and cruelty . I hope you are ok now!!!
One month in Bologna and I find the people loud and pushy and generally rude. I witnessed three shouting matches /fights - one in a grocery store and two in cafes. Also, definitely feel the anti-American sentiment. I fully understand "when in Rome do as the Romans" I have learned Italian phrases, am patient but it doesn't seem to matter. IMO and as I have experienced there are many more civilized and enjoyable countries to visit.
Oh, it's so sad hearing that. I've seen a lot of beautiful and positive videos of yours. My country, Italy, is far from perfect (to live) but special, beautiful and unique too. Don't mind unkind people with bad comments. For 1 of them there are 100 beautiful people.
I loved the video, because you were honest about your observations! If people got defensive they didn't understand why you did the video. Thank you for that video, because you helped more people re-think their motives for leaving their country.
Italy hadn’t ruined you, you did it to yourself. There are countless videos of people going overseas & talking about their experiences good or bad. You need to understand that you will have people who will follow you or destroy you, the amount of negativity that people say about other countries is appalling you cant expect being a foreigner going into someone else’s country & bringing down the way they live. The first comment that you read was if you dont like it go back home. Which wouldnt be a bad idea just understand what you put out there people are watching & it can be dangerous if they know where you are. This low persona of vlogging is dying nobody cares what YOU think to others italy is beautiful. People dont need to hear what your doing just live there & enjoy for good or bad. Dont take this the wrong way & not having a go at you but there are alot of want to be reporters. Just live your life & forget it all life is better without youtube.
just ignore them. They`re typical of nowadays mentality,. Meanig it`s all about showing off at any cost, judging without beforehand properly founding any opinion they might have (which in the case, would mean paying proper attention to what you say on the video and, more importantly...see it through). The result is, as you`ve seen a lot of rubbish. So, just ignore them. And please, keep up what is clearly a great work on your part. Best regards.
Several people already addressed this issue and I am here to emphasize it again - pls be careful with using clickbait titles. They might give you a few seconds of fame but it is not sustainable. People who are really curious about your experience of what your title indicated (like myself!!) are gonna waste their time on the content that's not relevant at all. I disapprove of the internet bullies, but I am also not a fan of clickbait titles that add no value. Please focus on making content for your genuine viewers, instead of putting your energy and time on those haters who just wanna forget about their misery by commenting.
Ok so just not done with this video. Ok 1st of all thanks for keeping it real. No matter where you live there will be good and bad things about it. That's just the way it is. No where is perfect in the world. That's impossible. So I'm just not going to finish this video. Not because I don't want to but to allow my voice to be heard. This video shouldn't even need to be made at all. HATERS SHUT UP! This is real of the world not trying to make people hate other countries. All countries have thier good and bad. Girl your amazing keep doing what you do love your videos. It's because of you there are lots of places in Italy I and I'm sure many others want to visit. Your the BOMB!!
I don’t think it is a good reason to move to another country because you just love the place. Because A) you will have to leave things that truly matter to you, such as family and friends and B) Just because you love the country, it doesn’t mean that you will have a good time as well….
You make a clickbait title and then complain when people get angry about it, if you use a clickbait title to gain easy views dont complain then if people take it negatively
LOVE! I REPEAT IT AGAIN BEFORE COMMENTING AGAIN : I AM WRITING IN UPPER CASE BECAUSE OF MY EYES AND NOT OUT OF ANGER OR TO SHOUT! NOW, SINCE I AM A LOT OLDER THAN YOU, I ALSO WISH TO SAY, THAT YOU OUGHT NOT TO CARE LESS ABOUT NASTY AND HATEFUL COMMENTS ATTACKING YOU SINCE YOU ARE TRYING TO ENLIGHTEN PEOPLE TO HELP THEM MAKE POSITIVE CHOICES! IT IS THEN INEVITABLE, THAT PEOPLE WHO LIVE IN A WORLD OF FANTASY AND SELF-DELUSIONS WILL SIMPLY DISMISS EVERYTHING, THAT YOU SAY! WHY? BECAUSE THAT KIND OF PEOPLE IS ONLY AFTER REINFORCING THEIR OWN PREJUDICES AND NOT AFTER ANY TRUTH OF ANY KIND! THE TRUTH CONTRADICTS THEIR SILLY IDEALISATONS AND MAKES THEM ANGRY! THAT IS FOR ONE. FOR TWO, MOST OF THEM HAVE NOT EXPERIENCED WHAT YOU HAVE EXPERIENCED, SO THEY DO NOT KNOW OR UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT! SO DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME IN DEFENDING YOURSELF AS YOU ARE DOING IN THIS VIDEO. LET THEM SPIT OUT THEIR BS AND CONTINUE TO DO EXACTLY AS YOU FEEL IT! YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE SUCH PEOPLE! WHAT YOU ARE DOING WITH YOUR VIDEOS IS SIMPLY MARVELOUS AND EXTREMELY HELPFUL FOR ALL THOSE WHO ARE REALLY AFTER DISCOVERING REAL ITALY WITH ITS PLUSSES AND MINUSES! PLUS, SPENDING A HOLIDAY IN A COUNTRY IS NOT LIKE LIVING IN IT. THESE ARE 2 ENTIRELEY DIFFERENT EXPERIENCES AND I KNOW WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT TOO SINCE, LIKE YOU I LIVED ABROAD FOR A LONG TIME IN SEVERAL DIFFERENT COUNTRIES AND YOU KNOW WHAT...I HATE TOURISM BECAUSE IT DISTORTS EVERYTHING AND ALSO DISTORTS A LOT THE TRUE IMAGE OF ANY COUNTRY, AS WELL AS UNIFORMIZES THE ENTIRE WORLD! I LOVE WHAT IS REAL, NOT THE READY MADE FOR CONSUMING! WHAT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT IS REAL LIFE, NOT IMAGININGS AND I LOVE AND THANK YOU FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART FOR THAT!
I was surprised , shocked reading that tittle after seeing allot of your video's which showed a beautiful ,joyful Italy ! But that was your point to get these reactions hahaha. Keep up those good video's , I will still follow it from time to time :) . Place next time a opposite tittle and see what reactions you then get . Regards
Ciao Valeria. Bravo for all of your commentary! Everything was VERY well said. I left the US for many reasons but mostly because I simply love Italy. I knew beforehand that Italy is not perfect, but I did a lot of research before I moved so I would be better prepared for some of its challenges. I also cannot stand racism in any form and this is one of the other reasons that I decided to leave the US. I simply just don't understand the hatefulness in too many peoples minds. Being a subscriber to your channel, I know of your love for Italy. From watching your videos I can tell that you are an intelligent, kind, and thoughtful young woman. Keep doing you and f*#@k what these negative, cowardly people say. I look forward to and enjoy all of your videos! Ok, buona giornatta, Paul in Firenze
I’m judging negatively the You tuber girl and you are calling me a coward ? Why ? Because I don’t see it like you ? You cowardly answer is also naive and superficial (classical American ) . I know, the USA is number one in everything , specially in racism , crime, inequality, ignorance and a lot lot lot more. Look in the mirror before you talk about anybody else.
@@paulfreitag8267 il mio nome è’ Michele Ricci and if you want to meet me in piazza della signoria , post the day and time . We can talk about Anything with an American ignorant .
Don't mind them. I'm Italian living overseas, the video was pretty clear. It wasn't insulting to my country, I didn't feel offended by it and your followers know you're not ungrateful to Italy. It's about idealization and disappointment, cultural shock, stuff like that. Like you've said, one thing is to visit Italy as a tourist, now moving in Italy is an entirely different thing and that rule applies to all countries in the world. Keep up the good work. I love your videos! 😉
You will get negative comments from some people for no reason whatsoever Some people are just mean We put a lot of time and effort into our vlogs but some people just like to hate on others. Keep doing what you love and try to block out other peoples negativity.
Hey Valeria, Please do not disappoint yourself. The world is full of idiots and good people. I subscribed your channel, because I really like your videos. Being an expat, I can connect with your thoughts on Italy. I've also had extreme issues while living in this country. Even racism too. I ve just came back to my home country. I would rather never go to Italy except for short term travel. Please don't be sad. We are grateful that you are showing us the reality. Keep up the good work!!!! Best Regards, -P
Hi, don't even mind them. I know it's bad, but today if you don't have haters it means you don't have few followers :) it's by now part of the web life
Dear Valeria, I'm so sorry about these negative comments. I always watch your videos.they are super positive about everything. Various tips you give, music, spots you walk, information you share.everything... they are full of positive vibes and makes me want to travel and visit Italy and not only. I support your channel and each of your videos. Want to thank you for everything you do and share and there is nothing negative. Wish you happy Sunday, positive feedbacks and good luck in everything 🇮🇹 ❤
-My advice is: maybe not be a view seeker with clickbait titles? never thought? -My conclusion: I'm very sorry that you were disappointed, always feel free to express your opinion without fear of the judgment of others. But if you get criticism, accept it and try to improve yourself. From the title of this video it seems to me that you have fallen into the same mistake. Good luck with your stay 🍀
I studied and lived in Italy for 7 years .i am so sorry but I'm agree with you. And imagine for me and my friends as Iranian was worst. I miss Italy but I absolutely not come back for live
@@Snooper810 molto piacere a sentire che a lei piace arte e cultura iraniana. Comunque qualsiasi cosa non va bene in italia secondo me .italia è bella e interessante solo per viaggio
I love Italy because the people's use bycicle and walk like 10 km a day live close 100 years everybody talk give smile in My country only with 50 60s years have osteoporosis and panic attack problem,
didnt watch it but all countries now do not like immigrants, because the situation has become so bad so yes i am sure you are not treated like a native unless you return to poland
Hey, I just wanted to say that you are really helping international students get an idea about what Italy is really like and in all honesty, you just wanted to show us the reality. Haters would just always hate you know, and I guess those are the people who should probably not move to Italy. Also, I wanted to ask you something about choosing a university and wanted to know more about Bologna as a city, both the pros and cons. Is there a way I could speak with you or connect with you via Instagram or Email? The help would be greatly appreciated.
nope, they didn't watch that video and probably won't even bother to listen to you this time, it's ... unfortunate. Incredibile come - pur avendo la capacità di conoscenza che internet offre - molte persone diventino progressivamente sempre più miopi... un abbraccio
So sorry you had this experience. It is just such stupidity and meanness that make me wish I could leave the US but as an American I am not wanted in so many other places as fascism takes over keep up your great vlogs
Thank you ❤️ Most often than not, these people are just hiding behind the screens, and will not tell you anything in person - and, as you've probably seen, many of those are not even Italians. This is cowardice, for sure, and it makes it no less disgusting, but the majority of people I encounter on a daily basis are kind and welcoming ❤️
Congratulations Italians, you made yourself hated, I Italian am sorry for that .... I'll give it to you Sophia Congratulations Italians, you made yourself hated, I Italian am sorry for that .... I'll give it to you Sophia Loren, Marcello Mastroianni and these other characters of Italy
I'm a UA-camr too so I'm gonna be very honest (we'll see if you leave this up.) In the video you talk about you did CLICKBAIT: a dramatic title- to attract attention and get views, so please don't blame folks for their knee jerk response. Even in this video your title is meant deliberately TO ATTRACT ATTENTION. So I'm getting a bit meta but I know UA-cam behind the scenes...I find it odd that you blame folks for their reaction to something you put out in order to get attention. I'm sorry you were not ready for the negative response.
you got the point :-)
That's exactly what I think. After all you get what you do.
I mean, read the title of this video and then listen to the content: it's literally screaming 'view seeker'
Agreed 100%. And can't believe she made this video entirely for those negative comments....as someone who clicked the video genuinely curious about her experience , the content gave me nothing but disappointment..it was a waste of my time!!!
Im sorry you had to deal with that. While my experience in Italy was very limited, short vacation only, I found the people Italy so welcoming and warm.
I am grateful for the video you posted as its so very true! If a person is not happy with themselves- they wont be happy ANYWHERE! As you said, there is good and bad in all places and in and at various times of life for all people! Love yourself- be grateful and love life regardless of WHERE you are!
From the bottom of my heart: thank you so much. It means a lot to me to know you appreciate my videos, and it definitely makes it all worth it ❤️
I completely understood what your video was about and it’s a shame some others did not.
Your content is always so loving towards Italy and I throughly enjoy it all! There will always be people who just don’t get it. Thanks for making this video to address your thoughts, and keep doing what your are doing!! ❤
Thank you so much! I'm so lucky to have subscribers like you here, and I'm eternally grateful for your support and kind words. It wouldn't be possible without you ❤️
Dear, most of those comments are probably from people who never traveled or spent a significant amount of time anywhere abroad and didn't really understand that you were proposing a topic of discussion. Moving abroad for the first time or when you change countries, especially the first time, totally blows your mind and makes you question everything that you were programmed to believe in your home country. Moving from America to China back in 2012, for the first time, totally blew my mind and completely gave me a new perspective, and I am so happy for that. I love living abroad in new countries. Those people are projecting their own stuff onto you. I'm glad that you could explain yourself, sill, don't let their ignorance and judgement get you down. Many people who have never lived or spent a significant time abroad are living in a bubble and have difficulty seeing any other perspective. Many people are just looking for reasons to get offended. Keep doing you!
Thank you so much for your support! It means the world ❤️ And I totally agree with you - haters gonna hate! It just felt like something I wanted to address, but as you've rightly pointed it out, people are just looking for reasons to get offended. But all those hateful comments are really insignificant compared to all the love and support here! ❤️
Absolutely ! U keep doing the good work . God bless u dear . ❤️
My opinion, for what it’s worth: 1. Maybe be a little more careful when choosing video titles… Maybe don’t go so hard on the Clickbait-ness, especially if you already know how many people on UA-cam comment solely on the title without even watching a video. Sensationalism is a double edged sword, and as you have seen, it could come back to bite you in the butt 2. : don’t give so much attention to people who make comments about content they haven’t watched based on the title. If it were me, I definitely would not be making a video to address the haters who had bashed me on a video they didn’t even bother to watch. Delete those comments, and move on. Don’t make a whole video addressing haters who probably aren’t watching this video either
As a person from Africa, I feel your pain girl but ignore the haters because you're doing a good job
We moved to a medieval Norman-Invasion era village in Campania. We left 'crazy' and arrived in calmness. Thanks for your video.
We love you V. Even though I am just a fellow commentator and not there to comfort you in person. You have no idea how much your attitude, personality, and well made videos have personally made my days better. I am also a college student in the USA who struggles with mental health issues from time to time. Though I haven’t watched this video yet, I want you to know that every video you have made and just your presence make my day and all of your other viewers way better when things go wrong. You are valued and you are special and even if we are just a comment on the screen to you, know that I am a real person behind the screen who is here for you and am subscribed to you because of your hard work and amazing personality that lifts my spirits whenever I get extremely depressed. Thank you V ❤️
Thank you so much! It means the world to me, knowing that what I do here makes people's days better - and it's the best reward. I wish I could hug you in person!!! Sending you lots of love, and I'll keep posting more videos - your words makes it worth it ❤️
First time I came to Italy in 1999 and Italy stole my heart I ♥️ Italy never mind the haters they don't even like themselves how do you expect them to you 🤣
Dude stop saying lies you are italien
I travel extensively and I have to say that Italy is one place I would like to live in. I think that you should return to your homeland since apparently Italy is not for you.
You should probably watch this video first, it's exactly about people like you 😂
@@DramaticallyExpatic So how has Italy ruined your life? Is that
1. sarcastic?
2. Or a clickbait?
3. Or something real?
This is the problem with clickbite
It’s the same as ‘if you’re not happy single, you won’t be happy in a relationship’ of course your surroundings, experience, etc have an effect but your happiness is also down to your own headspace. It’s also down to how you can take inspiration. Went to Florence in 2017, saw a lot of people cycling and appearing carefree, so went back in the U.K. sold my car and bought a cycle, felt a lot less stressed (and had more money to do more travelling). 😎
Thank you so much! Your support means a lot ❤️ And I love your story of switching to the bicycle and how it made you happier!
Wow what a title... Disturbing and awful, it really is! I don't care bout your issues but I think you should change your approach to people in general.
So sorry to hear about these negative comments! You’re full of positivity and happy! Don’t worry about these people who are telling you such bad comments! You are making your life in Italy and as an expat from France living in the US, many years later I still get some negative comments as I should go back to my country! I used to be offended but I realized that some people can’t help themselves to be mean and putting people down!! Just ignore these comments, don’t pay attention to these mean people!! They are probably jealous about you making a good life for yourself!! I love your positivity and great videos!! Please Valeria focus on the good comments rather than those who don’t have anything else to do but put people down just to makes themselves bigger behind their computers!! You’re wonderful and I believe others feel the same way about you🌸🌸🌸😍😍😍
Thank you so so much! It means a lot ❤️ I really appreciate your words and your support, and yes, I know I'm so lucky to have such amazing subscribers ❤️
Hugs sweet, as my mama would say ,some folks can't be happy unless they are making someone else sad
I love your videos and your experience and I'm so sorry that happened to you
You make me want to move everytime I watch your videos
Thank you so much darling! It means a lot to me ❤️
@@DramaticallyExpatic no problem do you know if you have a dog do you need to have documentation from landlord that you have permission
So sorry for this commentaries! I am so glad that you tell the truth from your perspective - the good and the bad, because one objective opinion is always better than pink glasses! There always will be haters and misinterprets
Thanks a lot! I really appreciate it so much ❤️
I agree on what you say: Italy as all the countries on the world have its own problems. I'm Italian and I know it. I know it very well.
But still it's my country and I can't find one another that is better for me. No matter how many problems my country have or how many pro have other countries.
I'm simply part of this Nation and there will be nothing that will change it.
your intro is highly deceptive. I shouldn't have to explain why...
I am always loving your enthusiastic travelling videos
Thank you so much ❤️
This is a boring video. Talk about Italy, not people's motivations or long disclaimers
This can save a lot of people that waste Money to visite or transfert here belive me dude It Is a Nightmare
I'm thumbing down this video for the completely irrelevant title. I'm not a subscriber; I've never watched your videos before (and now probably never will). If you want to make a video addressing the contents or comments of another video, indicate that in the title.
I'm glad you are addressing this .
Wish you continued success in your studies .
Locals should be embracing you for working hard and coming legally.
I didn't realize that they would be hateful against other white people also .
I thought only they didn't like Africans and Asians .
Europe is Europe .
Italy joined the EU and they should accept other Europeans equally.
I love Italy! ❤
I am sorry you have to go through this . I really want to go to Italy but I didn't know that even though it may be a paradise it can also have a dark side to it . Every country can have racsim
and cruelty . I hope you are ok now!!!
I am I am really shocked that anybody had anything negative to say about what you're doing I don't know what to say about those people
Thank you so much!!!❤️
One month in Bologna and I find the people loud and pushy and generally rude. I witnessed three shouting matches /fights - one in a grocery store and two in cafes. Also, definitely feel the anti-American sentiment. I fully understand "when in Rome do as the Romans" I have learned Italian phrases, am patient but it doesn't seem to matter. IMO and as I have experienced there are many more civilized and enjoyable countries to visit.
In the USA you shoot yourself in the street
Obviously those commenter did not watch all the video or are idiots! You are a joy to watch and please, keep growing and taping and be safe!
Thank you so much!
Oh, it's so sad hearing that. I've seen a lot of beautiful and positive videos of yours. My country, Italy, is far from perfect (to live) but special, beautiful and unique too.
Don't mind unkind people with bad comments. For 1 of them there are 100 beautiful people.
Thank you so much! Italy is amazing, indeed, and I'm glad there are so many supportive people here who appreciate my videos ❤️
I loved the video, because you were honest about your observations! If people got defensive they didn't understand why you did the video. Thank you for that video, because you helped more people re-think their motives for leaving their country.
Thank you so much! ❤️
Italy hadn’t ruined you, you did it to yourself. There are countless videos of people going overseas & talking about their experiences good or bad. You need to understand that you will have people who will follow you or destroy you, the amount of negativity that people say about other countries is appalling you cant expect being a foreigner going into someone else’s country & bringing down the way they live. The first comment that you read was if you dont like it go back home. Which wouldnt be a bad idea just understand what you put out there people are watching & it can be dangerous if they know where you are. This low persona of vlogging is dying nobody cares what YOU think to others italy is beautiful. People dont need to hear what your doing just live there & enjoy for good or bad. Dont take this the wrong way & not having a go at you but there are alot of want to be reporters. Just live your life & forget it all life is better without youtube.
just ignore them. They`re typical of nowadays mentality,. Meanig it`s all about showing off at any cost, judging without beforehand properly founding any opinion they might have (which in the case, would mean paying proper attention to what you say on the video and, more importantly...see it through). The result is, as you`ve seen a lot of rubbish. So, just ignore them. And please, keep up what is clearly a great work on your part. Best regards.
How has life in Italy ruined u?
Are you Italian born?🇮🇹
Several people already addressed this issue and I am here to emphasize it again - pls be careful with using clickbait titles. They might give you a few seconds of fame but it is not sustainable. People who are really curious about your experience of what your title indicated (like myself!!) are gonna waste their time on the content that's not relevant at all. I disapprove of the internet bullies, but I am also not a fan of clickbait titles that add no value. Please focus on making content for your genuine viewers, instead of putting your energy and time on those haters who just wanna forget about their misery by commenting.
Ok so just not done with this video. Ok 1st of all thanks for keeping it real. No matter where you live there will be good and bad things about it. That's just the way it is. No where is perfect in the world. That's impossible. So I'm just not going to finish this video. Not because I don't want to but to allow my voice to be heard. This video shouldn't even need to be made at all. HATERS SHUT UP! This is real of the world not trying to make people hate other countries. All countries have thier good and bad. Girl your amazing keep doing what you do love your videos. It's because of you there are lots of places in Italy I and I'm sure many others want to visit. Your the BOMB!!
Thank you so much for your support! You've no idea how much your words mean to me ❤️
I don’t think it is a good reason to move to another country because you just love the place. Because A) you will have to leave things that truly matter to you, such as family and friends and B) Just because you love the country, it doesn’t mean that you will have a good time as well….
You make a clickbait title and then complain when people get angry about it, if you use a clickbait title to gain easy views dont complain then if people take it negatively
LOVE! I REPEAT IT AGAIN BEFORE COMMENTING AGAIN : I AM WRITING IN UPPER CASE BECAUSE OF MY EYES AND NOT OUT OF ANGER OR TO SHOUT!
NOW, SINCE I AM A LOT OLDER THAN YOU, I ALSO WISH TO SAY, THAT YOU OUGHT NOT TO CARE LESS ABOUT NASTY AND HATEFUL COMMENTS ATTACKING YOU SINCE YOU ARE TRYING TO ENLIGHTEN PEOPLE TO HELP THEM MAKE POSITIVE CHOICES! IT IS THEN INEVITABLE, THAT PEOPLE WHO LIVE IN A WORLD OF FANTASY AND SELF-DELUSIONS WILL SIMPLY DISMISS EVERYTHING, THAT YOU SAY! WHY? BECAUSE THAT KIND OF PEOPLE IS ONLY AFTER REINFORCING THEIR OWN PREJUDICES AND NOT AFTER ANY TRUTH OF ANY KIND! THE TRUTH CONTRADICTS THEIR SILLY IDEALISATONS AND MAKES THEM ANGRY! THAT IS FOR ONE. FOR TWO, MOST OF THEM HAVE NOT EXPERIENCED WHAT YOU HAVE EXPERIENCED, SO THEY DO NOT KNOW OR UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT! SO DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME IN DEFENDING YOURSELF AS YOU ARE DOING IN THIS VIDEO. LET THEM SPIT OUT THEIR BS AND CONTINUE TO DO EXACTLY AS YOU FEEL IT! YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE SUCH PEOPLE! WHAT YOU ARE DOING WITH YOUR VIDEOS IS SIMPLY MARVELOUS AND EXTREMELY HELPFUL FOR ALL THOSE WHO ARE REALLY AFTER DISCOVERING REAL ITALY WITH ITS PLUSSES AND MINUSES! PLUS, SPENDING A HOLIDAY IN A COUNTRY IS NOT LIKE LIVING IN IT. THESE ARE 2 ENTIRELEY DIFFERENT EXPERIENCES AND I KNOW WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT TOO SINCE, LIKE YOU I LIVED ABROAD FOR A LONG TIME IN SEVERAL DIFFERENT COUNTRIES AND YOU KNOW WHAT...I HATE TOURISM BECAUSE IT DISTORTS EVERYTHING AND ALSO DISTORTS A LOT THE TRUE IMAGE OF ANY COUNTRY, AS WELL AS UNIFORMIZES THE ENTIRE WORLD! I LOVE WHAT IS REAL, NOT THE READY MADE FOR CONSUMING! WHAT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT IS REAL LIFE, NOT IMAGININGS AND I LOVE AND THANK YOU FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART FOR THAT!
That video was beautiful. And the point you were making was completely relevant and true.
Thank you so much ❤️
I was surprised , shocked reading that tittle after seeing allot of your video's which showed a beautiful ,joyful Italy ! But that was your point to get these reactions hahaha. Keep up those good video's , I will still follow it from time to time :) . Place next time a opposite tittle and see what reactions you then get . Regards
Thank you so much! ❤️❤️
Ciao Valeria. Bravo for all of your commentary! Everything was VERY well said. I left the US for many reasons but mostly because I simply love Italy. I knew beforehand that Italy is not perfect, but I did a lot of research before I moved so I would be better prepared for some of its challenges. I also cannot stand racism in any form and this is one of the other reasons that I decided to leave the US. I simply just don't understand the hatefulness in too many peoples minds. Being a subscriber to your channel, I know of your love for Italy. From watching your videos I can tell that you are an intelligent, kind, and thoughtful young woman. Keep doing you and f*#@k what these negative, cowardly people say. I look forward to and enjoy all of your videos! Ok, buona giornatta, Paul in Firenze
I’m judging negatively the You tuber girl and you are calling me a coward ? Why ? Because I don’t see it like you ? You cowardly answer is also naive and superficial (classical American ) . I know, the USA is number one in everything , specially in racism , crime, inequality, ignorance and a lot lot lot more. Look in the mirror before you talk about anybody else.
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@@MAGRIPPA1 attacking a girl randomly and anonymously is cowardly!!!
@@paulfreitag8267 il mio nome è’ Michele Ricci and if you want to meet me in piazza della signoria , post the day and time . We can talk about Anything with an American ignorant .
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Don't mind them. I'm Italian living overseas, the video was pretty clear. It wasn't insulting to my country, I didn't feel offended by it and your followers know you're not ungrateful to Italy. It's about idealization and disappointment, cultural shock, stuff like that. Like you've said, one thing is to visit Italy as a tourist, now moving in Italy is an entirely different thing and that rule applies to all countries in the world.
Keep up the good work. I love your videos! 😉
Thank you so much! It means a lot to me, especially coming from my Italian subscribers ❤️
FWIW as another Italian abroad I agree 100% with Natalia. Chin up and keep doing your own thing!
You need to grow a pair, don't let those comments under your skin, dear. Greetings from the sunny Poland :)
before starting the video i hope this is a clickbait
Dont Pay Attention to Trolls and Haters...After Tweeter was Sold...they are unenployed now....
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😂😂😂 stop it!!!
@@DramaticallyExpatic im from Brasil its pure Brasilian humour....
You will get negative comments from some people for no reason whatsoever Some people are just mean We put a lot of time and effort into our vlogs but some people just like to hate on others. Keep doing what you love and try to block out other peoples negativity.
So true! And thank you so much, truly ❤️
Dramatic expa. You canceled my comments because of the truth …..bulls eye . Go find a real job and you will find happiness.
What is a real job?
You are very angry person and jealous of the beautiful girl. It's bad for karma.
Agree
Rude
Oh sorry about that! I was thinking of moving to Italy, but after this video Idk🤔
A few tenths or hundreds of trolls do not represent Italians and their culture, cheers
Italy ruined me as well. In many ways it's the standard by which I measure all other countries.
I couldn’t agree more!!! ❤️😂
I am sorry to hear about that but I support you, you may find another better place to live your life, don't be too sad and please be strong to move on
Hey Valeria,
Please do not disappoint yourself. The world is full of idiots and good people.
I subscribed your channel, because I really like your videos.
Being an expat, I can connect with your thoughts on Italy.
I've also had extreme issues while living in this country. Even racism too.
I ve just came back to my home country. I would rather never go to Italy except for short term travel.
Please don't be sad. We are grateful that you are showing us the reality.
Keep up the good work!!!!
Best Regards,
-P
Thank you so much ❤️ Your support means a lot, and I'm so happy the majority of my subscribers get what I'm trying to say and are so kind ❤️
Please do not use a vacation as a measure of how suitable a country is for you to move to. Everyday life is very very different
Probably not worth discussing this behavior again; people will post nasty comments on the most wholesome videos.
That's true, and thank you! It was something that had to be said, but definitely not worth giving them any more attention ❤️
Hi, don't even mind them. I know it's bad, but today if you don't have haters it means you don't have few followers :) it's by now part of the web life
Thank you! I know, it's the other part of the medal, which could be annoying - but it's a small price to pay for all the support ❤️
we re in aviano if you need a place to escape
forget about the haters..
Where ? in your ugly , uneducated , racist , ignorant, full of homeless country ? You welcome and don’t come back.
Ignore the bitter haters. I love your videos!
Thank you so much, Juana! ❤️
Dear Valeria, I'm so sorry about these negative comments. I always watch your videos.they are super positive about everything. Various tips you give, music, spots you walk, information you share.everything... they are full of positive vibes and makes me want to travel and visit Italy and not only. I support your channel and each of your videos. Want to thank you for everything you do and share and there is nothing negative. Wish you happy Sunday, positive feedbacks and good luck in everything 🇮🇹 ❤
Thank you so so much ❤️ it means a lot to me. I'm so glad you enjoy my work, reading comments like yours makes it all worth it!
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If you don't like to live ther then move to a place that is good for you... Not all have that experience that you have, l love ltaly and the people...
-My advice is: maybe not be a view seeker with clickbait titles? never thought?
-My conclusion: I'm very sorry that you were disappointed, always feel free to express your opinion without fear of the judgment of others. But if you get criticism, accept it and try to improve yourself. From the title of this video it seems to me that you have fallen into the same mistake. Good luck with your stay 🍀
Oh please girl, tell them to go go smoke a doobie and chill.
I studied and lived in Italy for 7 years .i am so sorry but I'm agree with you. And imagine for me and my friends as Iranian was worst. I miss Italy but I absolutely not come back for live
Thanks for your kind words, but please, watch the video - it'll explain a lot!
@@Snooper810 molto piacere a sentire che a lei piace arte e cultura iraniana. Comunque qualsiasi cosa non va bene in italia secondo me .italia è bella e interessante solo per viaggio
italy has SO many problems that you even didn't address; some people are just weird. i thought your video was overly positive about italy. go figure!
I love Italy because the people's use bycicle and walk like 10 km a day live close 100 years everybody talk give smile in My country only with 50 60s years have osteoporosis and panic attack problem,
didnt watch it but all countries now do not like immigrants, because the situation has become so bad so yes i am sure you are not treated like a native unless you return to poland
Hey, I just wanted to say that you are really helping international students get an idea about what Italy is really like and in all honesty, you just wanted to show us the reality. Haters would just always hate you know, and I guess those are the people who should probably not move to Italy. Also, I wanted to ask you something about choosing a university and wanted to know more about Bologna as a city, both the pros and cons. Is there a way I could speak with you or connect with you via Instagram or Email? The help would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you so much! ❤️ Feel free to DM me on Instagram (you can find the link in the description)
nope, they didn't watch that video and probably won't even bother to listen to you this time, it's ... unfortunate. Incredibile come - pur avendo la capacità di conoscenza che internet offre - molte persone diventino progressivamente sempre più miopi... un abbraccio
Grazie di cuore ❤️
Let me guess, the losers who attack you are bruta Italia gente????
Correct.
So sorry you had this experience. It is just such stupidity and meanness that make me wish I could leave the US but as an American I am not wanted in so many other places as fascism takes over keep up your great vlogs
Which experience? She hasn't said what happened to her
@@andreaguarino8207 she wants to find paradise without going to work.
Thank you ❤️ Most often than not, these people are just hiding behind the screens, and will not tell you anything in person - and, as you've probably seen, many of those are not even Italians. This is cowardice, for sure, and it makes it no less disgusting, but the majority of people I encounter on a daily basis are kind and welcoming ❤️
Ignore the haters!
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Cry
You take forever to get to the point, unreal.
Sorry you got so much hate. But that video got the most views by far of any of your videos..
Congratulations Italians, you made yourself hated, I Italian am sorry for that .... I'll give it to you Sophia Congratulations Italians, you made yourself hated, I Italian am sorry for that .... I'll give it to you Sophia Loren, Marcello Mastroianni and these other characters of Italy