REAL TALK: Are we having more kids? What did we do to have twins after 3 years of infertility?
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- Опубліковано 6 лют 2025
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😳😳 Our most intimate Q & A sit down since having our identical twin boys after 3 years of trying. We took the most common questions we get DM'd, and give our raw and personal answers. We share our experiences, both the ups and downs, in hopes that it will help at least 1 person get through some of the same struggles and challenges. We talk a little bit about everything in this episode, and we thank everyone who sends us these questions!!
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👋 Hello everyone and welcome to Hanging with the Hehners!
I'm Jamie Otis Hehner and me and my hubby of 10 years, Doug Hehner met & married on the same day as strangers on season 1 of Lifetime TV's Married At First Sight.
A few years into our marriage we lost our first baby, Johnathan.👼🏼 Trying to grow our family has been a bumpy road, and we lost a couple more babies along the way. ➡️ Sooo, we feel exceptionally thankful and blessed for our two beautiful rainbow babies: Henley & Hendrix. We were honored to be able to share both pregnancies on TV through LifetimeTV and MAFS 🥰🥳
Now, after 3 YEARS trying to conceive for baby number 3....we found out we are having TWINS 🤯🤪🥳 Some of you have been with us from Day 1 when Doug & I said "I Do" over 10 yrs ago at our wedding… You were there for our first kiss, when we first said I Love You to each other, for the loss of our son Johnathan in 2016, witnessed us give birth to both Henley & Hendrix, and moving to FL into our Forever Home!
We are SO EXCITED to bring our TWINS into this world & we can't wait to take YOU, our amazing Frans along the ride with us!
➡️ So, on this channel, we share content on love, family, marriage, and lifestyle. We love to keep it real and fun (our subscribers can attest to this). We share our wins, losses, rock bottoms, and everything in between. All with the aim of spreading love and positivity.👪✨
Who knows what we will run into as we are preparing to go from 2 to 4 kids towards the end of the year, and start all over again with 2 newborns after 3 years of trying! All we can guarantee is a lot of laughs, mistakes, emotions, and amazing milestones!!
Your continued love and support means the world to us, especially because we are not shy about what we share with you. We feel extremely blessed, and are honored to share this next chapter of our lives with you, and we hope you will continue on this journey with us! 🩷🩷🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️
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I'm trying Lume for the first time bc of Jamie's authentic sharing. I made sure to mention that I decided to purchase after watching the "Hehner Family YT Channel." I can't wait to try it for the first time.
The code isn't working for me.
I love it!!! But I also love my crystal deodorant I got from sprouts & I use that & lume or another deodorant on top
My daughter-in-law was having problems conceiving because of endometriosis. It went on for years. I asked a lady in our church to pray for her and she told me that every woman that she prayed for (for infertility) became pregnant.
The doctor told my daughter-in-law that she would need to have surgery but she became pregnant that same year without surgery and no other intervention or procedure. I now have three grandchildren from her.
I wish I had her to pray for me to conceive
Give Him all the glory, gave me shivers. I stopped and gave Him all the Glory. Amen
We were in a weekly Bible study in a home with single people. We were the only couple with a child. Our daughter knew we were hoping to have another baby but didn’t know it was for 3 years. She was five. She said, “We should pray for a baby.” We thought what a concept. We shared with the group. The next month, I was not pregnant. I was sad that our daughter was now in this. I felt in my heart, if God wants us to only have one child, we were ok with that. I told our daughter that. I was older and didn’t want to be an old Mom, so I had peace. I truly handed it over to God.
One month later, we were driving to see Grandma and Grandpa. Our daughter said, “Mommy, you have a baby in your tummy.”
I said, “Why would you say that?”
She said, “God just told me on my heart.” Three days later, I had a POSITIVE pregnancy test. A little brother arrived 7 months later.
Our son knows all about this.
Years later we would say “How do Mommy’s and Daddy’s have babies?” He said, “They pray!”
How precious is that?
🙏🙏🙏
@@Marriedhimanyway. oh my gosh how SWEET 🩵🩵🩵
Doug I can really tell that you’re working out and putting on weight! I hope this message makes you happy! Whatever you are doing is working!
Thank you so much 😁
I had secondary infertility. Exactly what Doug said, we stopped the extras. We looked at our life and thanked God and put it in his hands. The month before we were going to talk about just letting that hope go, we were blessed with the completion of our family, our son. Jamie, thank you for being real and not pretending everything is easy and roses and rainbows. Love you guys! Best couple from LAFS hands down.
MAFS
My daughter's are 10 yrs apart in age. I've lost 3. I had PCOS and was told I'd never carry to full term again.. I gave up. Wound up pregnant 9 yrs later and we used birth control methods. She was determined to come into this world and held on tight as my uterus was trying to eject her 3 mos early.. had to keep going to ER for shots to stop contractions. Then they put me on pills to stop labor. It made me sick but kept her in. I had irritable uterus syndrome. Had C section and now she's 19 ❤❤
i’ve been thinking about finding a better relationship for a while now, and out of nowhere, i met someone who ticks all the boxes. it was like we just clicked from the moment we met, and now we’re talking about building something real. honestly, i didn’t think it could happen so fast, but i had been focusing on manifesting the right connection. i remember reading Vibrations of Manifestation by Alex Lane, and it gave me a lot of clarity on how to focus my energy towards attracting the right person into my life
They’re so precious ❤
so i’ve been focusing on improving my overall health, and i finally got that doctor’s appointment i’d been putting off. the results came back better than expected-my cholesterol is down, my energy’s up, and i just feel so much more in tune with myself. it’s like everything just clicked once i started putting my energy towards health and well-being. i think it’s thanks to Vibrations of Manifestation by Alex Lane, which i read after seeing it mentioned so often in comments. it really helped me shift my mindset and manifest the health i was craving.
The twins are so cute!!❤
OMG those babies are adorable!!!
I had to do that, legs in the air. My OB told us to do that and it worked!!
I hate videos where people put ads into their videos
That's how you get to keep watching this platform for free. The ads pay for the platform to keep running. You can fast fwd.thru them
@@TheUnderCoverMother2020It's how they make money
Well you could play for UA-cam premium and have no ads or you can watch for a few seconds. Ads are how platforms work. And how creators make money
you two, your honesty is contagious, thank you. and thank you for sharing living life.
@@kimjimenez8752 you mean you like how she posts practically nude content for the world to see? Do you think good honors that? Some things need to be kept private.
I'm so happy for you guys. I've been following since the beginning. You both have come so far. Continued love and happiness.
The two sweeties ❤❤❤❤
With postpartum, I only had it with my 3rd but ..I already had depression! But it's a different kind of depression!
As Always Thanks For Sharing Jamie and Doug ❣️ Love how honest ya'll are about everything! Hope ya'll have a great weekend😊
You guys are amazing and I’ve had fun tagging along since the “Married At First Sight” season yall were on!
Doug, you are lookin ripped!!
I'm so happy for you both.
I've heard that gluten issues can cause infertility. One of my friends tried cutting it out and she finally got pregnant.
I’m just remembering in the early days of your marriage Doug being so hesitant about starting a family. Now look at you! You guys are the best real life romance novel.
They are precious so cute.
LUME is great! I’m 53 and I definitely use the products!! You all are amazing!! 🤩
Is it really that good? I've heard such mix reviews. Horrible to great
@@deannaverderber8749absolutely loved the scented wipes. Cucumber Melon.. very light scent and refreshing.
Such a nice Q&A session, i always enjoy these and think they are so fun!! @Doug, i can tell the program you are doing is working. You can see a difference and i know you must be so happy!!
Doug, you are looking good! I'm not sure what is different, but you look healthier! Jaime, you are beautiful and thank you for being real! I love that about your social media and youtube!
Omg… your boys are absolutely adorable! Such good babies! You two are such great parents, your kids are so lucky to have you both in their lives. Love your vlogs!
Doug your hair looks great! Jamie you look beautiful & it’s so nice to see how much calmer & relaxed you are this time around. The boys are so adorable.
I know ! Why is the hair so full all of a sudden? He used to be bald! Did he have surgery?
I love lume!! I’ve used it since it came out. Can’t endorse it enough! Love the wipes!! Dr. Klingmon graduated from Wayne State!!
Doug looks great. Bulking up n hair looks great
Amen. Trusting God.
What do you mean trusting God. They post inappropriate videos and pictures on social media that I can tell you do not honor God, and they are trusting God. It seems very sacrilegious to me. They have got you people fooled.
@@susanshepherd4530 Susan, I agree with you. It's heartbreaking that Jamie talks about envisioning being pregnant or claiming that God gave her these twins in response to prayer. People will answer at the Great White Throne Judgment who claim God does this or that when His Word does not say that He is doing that.
Jamie and Doug, do you think God is going to answer your prayer if you haven't even trusted the gospel of Christ yet? If you haven't you are and unbeliever and unforgiven. You are still in your sins. You clearly don't study the Bible either because you know nothing about sound doctrine. You need to get saved. You need to trust Christ's death, burial, and resurrection as atonement for your sins so you can be forgiven all trespasses and made "COMPLETE IN CHRIST." Please don't delay - trust the gospel of the grace of God TODAY. (I Corinthians 15:1-4, Romans 3:27, Ephesians 1:13 KJB). Grace and Peace
@darcya.9390 YIKES you missed the part about standing in judgment of others. You've missed everything about Christ... what an ugly post. Praying for Discernment for you.
@@darcya.9390
The Bible verse "ask and you shall receive" appears in both Luke 11:9 and Matthew 7:7.
@darcya.9390 The Bible says that God answers prayers, and that answered prayers are a gift from God. The Bible also says that answered prayers bring glory to God.
You two are closer to my sons/nieces ages but I would love to hangout with the 2 of you! I mean I still hangout with them soooooo
The energy level is insane! I’m jealous!
Qe bonitos son idénticos su mamá qe es guapisima
Qe lindos madre miaaa don preciosos qe robustos están superarnos qe munecos
Please, don't use lotions due to dryness. It puts you at greater risks for yeast infections as well as bacterial infections. You can also develop urinary tract infections. I would suggest you get a small bottle of lubricant and keep it in your purse when you travel. Trust me, you'll be thankful you did!
I think that the pressed kind is good
@@debyoung5968 I did a bad job explaining … the lotion was never ever used inside me.🙅♀️ As a nurse I totally know the harm that’d cause!🤪 it was used just for Doug bc we’ve done that before…but even that was a bad idea.🫣😬😆
A gynecologist developed the lume products. They are safe
Doug looks good with his hair like that. I didn't know you pronounce your last name hay ner. I would have thought hen ner.
You two are so amazing ❤
When I tried Lume it worked but you can’t use it everyday. It’ll throw off your PH and your smells would come back swinging. But I also couldn’t smell the scent it was intended. It just smelled like dried spit. Like sneeze lol I’m hoping the smell is better.
you guys are amazing, love your pod cast I have watched you from the start take care
Thank you for sharing the real world of life. I have followed you since you met and enjoy your vlogs!
Jamie and Doug I love your UA-cam channel and watching your videos what a wonderful fun way to start off the new year is watching a wonderful question and answer video. I would love to see a day in the life vlog or what my family eats through out the week for breakfast, lunch and dinner
Qe guapaaaaaaaay qe rápido te has recuperado los ninos son preciosos son ña vopia de su mamá
Faz vídeos de ordenha manual também em seu canal
6 years of secondary infertility here. Trusting God’s plan because with our first, no treatments worked and it happened naturally exactly when it needed to; because of life circumstances, sooner timing wouldn’t have been a good thing we later realized
God is soooo good.Amen
God blesses practically nude pictures on social media? Not the God I worship.
I personally- I think it’s great you guys can talk about literally anything ! So no questions would bother them !!
The twins sound so much better with their breathing ! Love that ! Also I’m the crazy one that tries to tell them apart and geez I just can’t. I’d it because your mom that you can or are there obvious differences?? They are absolutely adorable h&h !!!
Oops I should’ve watched longer……
So funny how Doug says d nooo to more kids. The long NNNOOOO lol
@@leanneadams2549 literally anything? Posting practically nude photos and disgusting photos and videos for the world to see is okay with you. Then she’s giving God the glory. There is something terribly wrong here.
I have been using Lume for a couple of years. I'm chubby, medium size breast and my belly hangs (I'm 62 and 3 children later), and let me tell you, Lume is the best thing ever! I use it every where, and it last for few days, even after showers. The kit last a long time.
GERIATRIC with bo LOLOL
I love keeping it real! You two are awesome ❤
I was so excited to see this video. I followed you from the Married at First Sight series because your relationship was so unique and you made such a sweet couple. Doug really had to hang in there to make you fall in love with him, Jamie. I think it was when you saw him in a bathing suit. It is so wonderful to see your marriage and family thrive.
Always love seeing you and your family💙💙💙💙🩷🩷
Yours really IS a beautiful family. May God bless you all. (Love watching you both, and seeing your family grow.❤)
Lume is awful!! I bought for my special needs daughter and it burnt her! Awful
Impossible
@@lauramoor7730huh?
Doug I love your haircut. Jamie don't worry not hitting on him. I am almost 72. LOL I love how TMI you guys are like you said there maybe someone out there experiencing the same stuff you are. Like your mastitis.
You can't use regular lotion.
Do you still talk with anyone from married at first sight?
Hey guys, good to see you. Happy new year. The babies are growing so big. And can I just say thank you for talking about those stinky body parts that we never want to address. Thank you for sharing about everything today. You guys are doing a great job.❤
Jamie you are a nurse you should know better and what is the problem with trusting God without him we are nobody
How do you not have time to take a shower at least once a day?
thank you for your endorsement. The developers ads have been TMI for me. Just saying.
You guys look great ❤
Doug you look great!!
🏖🏝 I too did "legs up" after intimacy & finally got pregnant. & lay still till morning.
I was told "legs up" would get me a girl. I did get my 2 girls.
You two crack me up! 😂😅 I Love this video. ❤
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I'm not trying to be nosey, but how do y'all make an income? just curious :)
I’m curious too
i’ve been working so hard on my financial goals, and this week i got an unexpected opportunity to work on a side project that’s going to bring in a ton of extra income. i didn’t plan for it, but it’s exactly what i needed. i’ve been trying to align myself with the energy of abundance, and honestly, i think reading Vibrations of Manifestation by Alex Lane really helped me understand how to do that. now, things are falling into place in ways i didn’t even expect.
The twins are adorable and getting so big. so is Henley & Hendrix. So happy for you all. You have a beautiful family. Praise God. All Glory to His Name. P.S. I used lecithin supplements for mastitis. Worked great for me. We also use organic coconut oil. It is natural and no side effects. It was nice to hear from you. Thnx for sharing your lives.
Hotel lotion? 😳🤣
No 2 People’s journey will be the same. I LOVE Jamie’s (Doug too) empathy for those trying to conceive please never feel guilty or ashamed of your story. God does not write our stories the way we think/want/need them to go He writes them they way He wants them to go. Giving God the glory is the only true control we have.
Thank you for sharing your journey
God's will is that 1) all men be saved and 2) come unto the knowledge of the truth (I Timothy 2:4 KJB). They have clearly not trusted the gospel of Christ yet, so they are still in their sins and unsaved.
The Gospel of the Grace of God: I Corinthians 15:1-4 KJB
Christ died FOR OUR SINS;
He was buried;
He rose again the third day according to the scriptures.
If you trust this gospel of Christ for the salvation of your soul, God instantly saves you. He forgives all your trespasses and makes you a "new creature" in Christ.
God is not doing "religion" (works based salvation) in this current "mystery" grace dispensation (Ephesians 1:12-14 KJB).
Jamie, you and the boys look great! You too Doug! Lol
Hawkins and Huxley are lookin like big sis, or is it just me? Will Henley and Hendrix get bedroom make overs too?
God first, then your spouse, then your children. As Christians that really is the way (I think the Bible puts the man under God, followed by the wife, then the kids.)
God bless you all
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my health has been so much better lately. a few months ago, i was struggling with energy and feeling off, but now i’ve been waking up early, feeling energized, and hitting my workout goals every single day. i didn’t do anything drastic, just started focusing on feeling healthy and strong. i think it has to do with this book, Vibrations of Manifestation by Alex Lane, that i read. it talks about how focusing your energy on your goals really shifts things, and i guess it worked for me.
You both look great but Jamie you look stunning!!
Doug looks like the male version of Blake Lively. The nicer version too lol💛
I see it lol I swear I do
@lauramoor7730 thx for entertaining my thought lol💛
Lo df la boca no le hagas caso son todavía muy peqenos
Lume is great
you must of had your elf ears on when you conceived lol
Doug has gotten better looking since the beginning
Doug looks good, like the hair, mustache and beard.
Cuidado con su cabecita qe aqy en España están juzgando a unos padres por zarandear fuerte a su hija y por lo wd se sabe le han causado danos graves caso anabel pantoja
🏝🏖Jamie, I miss u on after show Married @ 1st site. It's awful wout u. " u met yr hubby there, u get it". I no longer watch it with out u!
I hoped u guys have another girl one day ❤
I did all the things to try to get pregnant and wound up having twins. I did ovulation tracking, took robutussin cough syrup around the time I thought I was ovulating. Left a light on in my closet to mimic moon rays. Put my legs up the wall after sex and also used an ovulation predictor kit.... lol
Even though the twins are identical, it’s funny that they each match a sibling. Is it Huxley that looks like Henley and Hawkins that looks like Hendrix?
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Time for a new intro….
You are so right 😂
so i’ve been focusing on improving my overall health, and i finally got that doctor’s appointment i’d been putting off. the results came back better than expected-my cholesterol is down, my energy’s up, and i just feel so much more in tune with myself. it’s like everything just clicked once i started putting my energy towards health and well-being. i think it’s thanks to Vibrations of Manifestation by Alex Lane, which i read after seeing it mentioned so often in comments. it really helped me shift my mindset and manifest the health i was craving.
i’ve been working so hard on my financial goals, and this week i got an unexpected opportunity to work on a side project that’s going to bring in a ton of extra income. i didn’t plan for it, but it’s exactly what i needed. i’ve been trying to align myself with the energy of abundance, and honestly, i think reading Vibrations of Manifestation by Alex Lane really helped me understand how to do that. now, things are falling into place in ways i didn’t even expect.