STORYTIME - WE’RE HAVING A BABY AT 17

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  • Опубліковано 23 вер 2019
  • We received a lot of messages from you guys asking us how we managed having a baby at 17, so we decided to make a story time about our experience!
    Please leave a comment below let us know what you think.
    Also don’t t forget to LIKE,SUBSCRIBE & SHARE!!!
    Thank you for watching.
    The Kabs Family xx

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  • @natashabee1
    @natashabee1 4 роки тому +617

    He may not have been totally ready, which at 17 is understandable. However the fact that he stayed and they built a family, shows the measure of his character. Men twice his age, run from this responsibility. So I really rate him. 🙂

    • @fireyflower6643
      @fireyflower6643 3 роки тому +12

      So true

    • @DeeCM58
      @DeeCM58 3 роки тому +20

      Totally agree! The true measure of a man!

    • @vinceniaferguson8445
      @vinceniaferguson8445 3 роки тому +15

      I most definitely agree. There’s a lot of Love and Happiness in that family. 😃

    • @deborahsterling1776
      @deborahsterling1776 2 роки тому +9

      100% agree!

    • @tiasljuka05
      @tiasljuka05 2 роки тому +11

      And a real woman ! He would be stupid to let her go she is stunning 🤩

  • @dianekennedy2839
    @dianekennedy2839 3 роки тому +345

    I've been with my husband since I was 14. I got pregnant when I was 16. I'm now 56 and we are still together, we have 2 sons ages 39 and 34. Your family is so awesome! Love watching these videos! Thank you

    • @RayFamilyreality
      @RayFamilyreality 3 роки тому +17

      I've been with my husband since 14, got pregnant at 16 and gave birth at 17. We have 3 boys and 3 girls. Still married any I'm 38 now.

    • @thandiswengwaqa6271
      @thandiswengwaqa6271 3 роки тому +14

      How did you ladies pray😂😂😂 because woooow this is rare.....🙏

    • @princess_essanoa
      @princess_essanoa 3 роки тому +1

      @@thandiswengwaqa6271 lol

    • @MakaAkan
      @MakaAkan 3 роки тому +6

      @@RayFamilyreality
      ₩o₩! You two were so young! What an amazing triumph!! 💚
      I'm sure your strength and propensity for perseverance
      has passed along to your children and your life together.
      May you continue to have joy filled days 🌞 and carefree nights! 🌙

    • @janewestcountry5131
      @janewestcountry5131 3 роки тому +18

      Been with my husband since aged 13. He was the boy next door and was best mates with my brothers. Roll on 44 years, a marriage, 5 kids , 2 grandkids... still holding hands....still in love. X

  • @8missus
    @8missus 3 роки тому +529

    They are not just beautiful, they really exude human kindness, and you can see it taking root in their fantastic kids. They are helping me cope with 2020.

  • @brendastanley2844
    @brendastanley2844 3 роки тому +200

    She still looks 17. So beautiful. I love their relationship.

    • @williamroark
      @williamroark 3 роки тому +5

      You can see WHY the kids are so Gorgeous!!
      (good job ‘DANCER’)

    • @Sheats71
      @Sheats71 2 роки тому +4

      You both have great character and a beautiful family! I pray for your continued health, wealth and happiness!!

  • @patriciadavis11
    @patriciadavis11 4 роки тому +950

    After my mom told my daddy, he looked at me and said I bet that boy don't even want you. Hurt my feelings so bad because I hadn't saw him since I told him. But that same moment my daddy said that guess who came walking up the street. Yeah it was him. As soon as he came in the house he said sir I need to talk to you. That was 1968 and we had our baby boy in 69. We both were 18. Got married 4 months later. It was a very happy marriage. When he died in2018 he left me with beautiful memories.

  • @Annie-zd6rn
    @Annie-zd6rn 4 роки тому +920

    Tay was a young kid standing up to his responsibility and obligations. I'm so proud of this young couple still hanging in there 16 years later.

    • @maame6768
      @maame6768 4 роки тому +9

      16?

    • @Annie-zd6rn
      @Annie-zd6rn 4 роки тому +1

      @@maame6768 yep.

    • @maame6768
      @maame6768 4 роки тому +5

      Isn't it like 12?
      Or you're saying they coupled at 13/ 14

    • @debora.426
      @debora.426 4 роки тому +4

      NOT 16, 13

    • @abbeymore1
      @abbeymore1 4 роки тому +3

      Y'all were together since age 12? Wow and still together!

  • @nancykirk4021
    @nancykirk4021 3 роки тому +272

    I was pregnant at 17 too. Unfortunately, my boyfriend abandoned me, so I like your story much better. Y’all are an inspiration.

    • @almabirket7272
      @almabirket7272 3 роки тому +22

      Nancy Kirk my lady i stand beside you in your sad serious memories. I was abandoned by that irrelevant nobody of a “ father” of my firstborn babydoll when i was 17. She will be 37 tomorrow. WE MADE IT !!!! No man necessary. Peace be with you ALWAYS and in ALL WAYS. Greetings from prescott, AZ.

  • @georgiapeach8822
    @georgiapeach8822 3 роки тому +100

    Been there girl! I was 17 when I had my daughter back in 1976. NOBODY believed we would make it a yr. We have been married for 45 yrs now. Young couples starting out so early with a baby can make it. I won't lie - it wasn't easy, but we are here today. We have a 17 yr old granddaughter & retired. Just trying to enjoy the rest of our lives. Lots of love to you & your family.

  • @deeknits
    @deeknits 4 роки тому +2494

    I'm sorry, but I HAVE to take a min to appreciate how ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS this couple is...actually, the whole family bc the kids are beautiful, as well. Ok...carry on. 😊

    • @amandathode4540
      @amandathode4540 4 роки тому +43

      Deirdre Lee they are absolutely gorgeous!!!

    • @brooklynforever1990
      @brooklynforever1990 4 роки тому +32

      Melanin overload 🥰

    • @Chutney1luv
      @Chutney1luv 4 роки тому +24

      They all are so beautiful! 💞

    • @TheKabsFamily
      @TheKabsFamily  4 роки тому +53

      Deirdre Lee 😂thank you so much!

    • @aribabe01
      @aribabe01 4 роки тому +13

      Fuschia816 No homo but the mum is the most beautiful thing I’ve ever seen

  • @ingramr88
    @ingramr88 3 роки тому +192

    My parents had me at 17. There are 4 of us. My parents married and have been married for 31 years! My childhood was so fun and cool having young parents. They both worked hard take care of our family and still maintain their youth!

    • @brendarodrigues3046
      @brendarodrigues3046 3 роки тому +1

      Sad to say this phenomenon contradicts what we were taught growing up but I’ve seen countless stories such as these to prove unfamiliar and unwavering naysayers wrong. May that always be the case. God is not subject to anyone’s limitations. Blessings
      BIG BIG L❤️VE - InspirationByB

    • @brendarodrigues3046
      @brendarodrigues3046 3 роки тому +1

      There are so many realities to this ideology. First, you’re blessed with parents that have the energy to not only provide the fun but participate in it. Sorry, Fans. No sitting this one out! They themselves have the luxury of truly knowing and appreciating what it really means to grow together in love. The journey being the icing on the cake! In this instance, you can gladly have them both; Your cake and eating it too!!! Make sense? How many times have you arrived at a beautiful destination only to get inquiries of the process? What stories do you choose to share? Which ones do you consider of most value or importance? Generally, those which outlines that of the trip. It’s because before you fully arrive, it’s the collection of things along the way that shaped, molded and gave vision to what was produced. The saying still holds true that you shall know them by the fruit or lack there of. (Matthew 7:16 KJV) I absolutely wholeheartedly love their story. #TeamKabs
      BIG BIG L❤️VE - InspirationByB

  • @johnblagrove5177
    @johnblagrove5177 Рік тому +11

    I'll never get tired of seeing this vlog again. Tay as a young man stood up to his responsibility as a man. Love you guys keep the love going strong

  • @lindaellis1215
    @lindaellis1215 3 роки тому +157

    I walked in your shoes 47 years ago I was 17 years old when I had my first. I thank God for the man he sent my way a great father and husband 42 years. He’s the love of my life 8 years older than me. My dad didn’t like the fact that I was pregnant. My mom said what are you going to do I said keep my baby. At seventeen I moved out got my own place and have been living a blessed life. Would not have changed it for anything.

  • @weightlosswithmichellehilt4667
    @weightlosswithmichellehilt4667 4 роки тому +397

    I had my baby at 17, it was scary but we managed. You have to just get on with it. He is now at university studying to be a lawyer. I would not change one thing. Great story xx

    • @lifewithdanicepedersen821
      @lifewithdanicepedersen821 4 роки тому +4

      So get, that the baby came out nice. Abortion is never the option and this shows it. May God Almighty continue to bless in Jesus name.

  • @HOBBYMONEY
    @HOBBYMONEY 4 роки тому +1607

    I had the same problem...and parents didn't want their daughters or sons around me because I was supposed to be a bad example. Now I am Dr. Bennerson...and them....

    • @miesha.b8740
      @miesha.b8740 4 роки тому +84

      HOBBY! MONEY I’m so happy things worked out for you hun ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @HOBBYMONEY
      @HOBBYMONEY 4 роки тому +157

      @@miesha.b8740 Thank you hun! My mother always told us that when we fall, we must get up, brush off, and continue on. I have been doing this all of my life, so failure has never been an option for me. I learned to make lemonade with the lemons that I was dealt. I am a better person TODAY because of those falls.

    • @annjames4403
      @annjames4403 4 роки тому +23

      Beautiful! Thanks for sharing

    • @rosepetalslavender5505
      @rosepetalslavender5505 4 роки тому +27

      You're awesome sis💕I felt your triumph. Thank u for sharing😘🤗✊🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

    • @pierretoussaint8426
      @pierretoussaint8426 4 роки тому +20

      Doesn't surprise me you're an amazing woman I've listened to some of your lectures!

  • @monikaniishinda207
    @monikaniishinda207 3 роки тому +11

    This is an inspiring story cos if someone who runs away from his responsibilities in his 30s will surely regret it after watching this. You guys were just teens but you didn't allow anything to go between you even after this mess ,you just accept it and build a strong family which is an amazing thing 😊Thumb up for this man cos he is a caring man ever since at his teen age.. double blessings.

  • @jilthorp1249
    @jilthorp1249 3 роки тому +74

    I’ve never seen a family enjoy their children so much. And each other.

  • @kclarue4610
    @kclarue4610 4 роки тому +212

    Thanks so much for sharing ❤️ I was 16 and my husband was 18 when we got pregnant and your story is so similar to ours! it brought back so many memories GOOD AND SCARY too! We are old now 😂 married 43 years with 2 kids and 3 grandkids and I can tell you it was ALL WORTH IT!!! Continued blessings to you and your BEAUTIFUL family 🥰

  • @ayizhathebrat1531
    @ayizhathebrat1531 4 роки тому +358

    I’m soo glad he stuck around, real one right there

  • @whiteraven69
    @whiteraven69 3 роки тому +33

    As a former Child Protective Social Worker working with numeorus parents that were unprepared and dysfunctional..Your story makes my heart ❤️ joyful. This video should be introduced to young new parents, as it is thought provoking and a true life experience. Thank you. Also there is a BIG need for healthy parenting and raising a family videos..I encourage you to explore this in your Vlogs.

  • @petrinamayanwilliams5244
    @petrinamayanwilliams5244 3 роки тому +101

    Omg! Does ur wife have a makeup channel?...She is absolutely stunning... So beautiful. May God keep u all together forever n always

  • @esmemcgill4570
    @esmemcgill4570 4 роки тому +256

    I have just turned 60 and I have no idea how I found you just a few days ago. I am so glad I did find you. What a beautiful couple you are and your kids are gorgeous. Loved your story so much. Stay safe and always be happy. Hugs from Scotland

    • @caroledetello3305
      @caroledetello3305 3 роки тому +3

      Agreed. X

    • @PrettyFunnyLooking
      @PrettyFunnyLooking 3 роки тому +2

      And hugs to you from a Scottish woman in New York. I can’t get enough of these to. They are like angels shining light on us all

    • @PrettyFunnyLooking
      @PrettyFunnyLooking 3 роки тому +5

      Oh I stumbled on one of the videos of Maliya taking over her dad’s music ... was stunned by that then started watching Teija ... then the video of how they got engaged... not sure but I think a couple of days have gone by and I still sitting here hahaha

    • @SweetColo
      @SweetColo 3 роки тому +3

      Me too! I’m 62, and enjoy watching these videos. I’m not a grandma yet, I have 2 sons who are dragging their feet🤨😊

    • @fruitofthespiritgalatians5856
      @fruitofthespiritgalatians5856 3 роки тому

      Same age. Found over a year or two but, never heard your story. Only occasionally seen the children's mom and his wife!!! Great story!!!

  • @wescollins2981
    @wescollins2981 4 роки тому +185

    I could never even contemplate not being a father to my children. I needed them every bit as much as they needed me

    • @LovesJesusandAmericaToo
      @LovesJesusandAmericaToo 4 роки тому +14

      This world needs more fathers who feel that way!!!!!! I love seeing fathers step up and genuinely love their children and love being involved in ALL aspects of their lives. So many children growing up in this world with no father figure. It’s not just on race, it’s just a shame. Keep being one of the dads who step up and stay involved. Your children will be so much more well rounded with your presence in their lives.❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @skyevonn7085
      @skyevonn7085 3 роки тому +4

      💖💖💖💖💖😢happy tear.

    • @kevindowdell9316
      @kevindowdell9316 3 роки тому +1

      They are a part of us. I always say they came from us first. Why would a man turn his back on what he helped create? I couldn't begin to imagine my life without Kaela Braylon or Mariah.

  • @PrettyFunnyLooking
    @PrettyFunnyLooking 3 роки тому +56

    OK I just figured it out! You are aliens from another planet who have come to earth to teach human beings how to live life! You are such an amazing couple and the only thing annoying thing is that I can’t stop watching your videos and I HAVE MY OWN STUFF TO DO. I was so inspired when Chan said “OK that’s it 5 year plan so we can make this positive.” You do remind me of my husband and I and how we are together and you even make me appreciate my marriage more. Thank you for the joy and inspiration. Now I have to stop watching and get my own work done. Love from NYC

  • @starmom4497
    @starmom4497 3 роки тому +33

    I was older and living on my own when I got pregnant. But having to tell my Daddy was the hardest thing I have ever done. It didn't help that I was 24 and my baby's Dad was 41. He was basically the same age group as my parents. But we have been married for 33 years. Best thing that ever happened to me.

    • @daniellemark5110
      @daniellemark5110 3 роки тому +1

      Haha, i got pregnant at 23, my mom freaked out and my dad said, shes a grown adult whats the problem lol

  • @andreasorsby8813
    @andreasorsby8813 4 роки тому +722

    So happy you both were responsible enough for each other and your beautiful daughter at the time.....now you guys have three beautiful children, married and successful.....please keep GOD FIRST, people out of your business (relationship) always, always tell each other that you love one another.....I pray for your family. Never stop Praying for and with each other, Never stop loving each other.

    • @TheKabsFamily
      @TheKabsFamily  4 роки тому +55

      Thank you so much!! We appreciate the kind words 🙏🏾❤️

    • @truthhurts2225
      @truthhurts2225 4 роки тому +15

      Andrea Sorsby you provided The Wisest words for this couple and indeed any family. AMEN

    • @secretlight3304
      @secretlight3304 4 роки тому +4

      The Kabs Family ❤️

    • @maynashrikhi5418
      @maynashrikhi5418 4 роки тому +1

    • @wanZ...
      @wanZ... 4 роки тому +2

      👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽Best comment!

  • @monicah4261
    @monicah4261 4 роки тому +608

    Your story, was my story 39 years ago😍 now she is a college graduate with a family! Guess who else will be soon, that's right me!!!

  • @ahavah4670
    @ahavah4670 3 роки тому +39

    So happy you guys stayed together and pushed through the negativity. You all are a blessing.

  • @candacejaghai2904
    @candacejaghai2904 3 роки тому +27

    I love this story. I am so glad that the two of you had a Plan to get your education one at a time and then show the world what Black Love looks like on the other side of a bump in the road. Bravooooo👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾‼️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Beautiful Family ‼️👍🏾

  • @sabamakedah7910
    @sabamakedah7910 4 роки тому +260

    Regardless of the fact that you were young. You'll were raised well. The fact that you'll remained loyal to another... Beautiful

  • @karensindisoparimwa6130
    @karensindisoparimwa6130 4 роки тому +318

    "you go to uni first, when you finish I'll go..." thats so sweet!

    • @breezyakanan9727
      @breezyakanan9727 4 роки тому +54

      Karen Sindiso Parimwa Their have been many young women who worked and cared for their child only to be abandoned by their boyfriend or husband. The few I know supported their men through medical and law school only to abandoned by their husbands.
      Mr. Kabs is truly a loving human being. 😊

    • @anonnona6433
      @anonnona6433 4 роки тому +11

      Pure sacrifice! Bless.

    • @First.Lastname
      @First.Lastname 4 роки тому +3

      That melts my heart

    • @charleneperry3670
      @charleneperry3670 3 роки тому +1

      He’s a real man for staying and standing by his words.
      Makes me even more proud to know he’s my fellow Congolese brother.

    • @Cute_Stuffs
      @Cute_Stuffs 3 роки тому

      Sacrifice ❤️

  • @JUDESMOM1
    @JUDESMOM1 2 роки тому +10

    Love hearing these personal stories. What wonderful parents you are. I am in bed with a few broken bones from a fall and I have spent the whole day with the Kabs family. Beautiful Mommy, handsome Daddy and three talented, bright and gorgeous young ones! I haven’t been this entertained in a long time. So glad I joined Team Kabs. Much respect to you all! ❤️

  • @triareynolds6226
    @triareynolds6226 3 роки тому +4

    Every video I watch my eyes are glued on Chan. She is one beautiful black Queen! Love and admire this family. So glad you remained together.
    ♡ from 🇯🇲

  • @speaktruth7791
    @speaktruth7791 4 роки тому +220

    So glad Teija is here! She is a blessing to us all! She picked amazing and beautiful parents.

    • @pnmusic6206
      @pnmusic6206 4 роки тому +4

      What? We don't pick our parents. Lol

    • @rudasclara
      @rudasclara 4 роки тому +6

      @@pnmusic6206 we do

    • @ellachristina7730
      @ellachristina7730 4 роки тому +2

      We don't pick our parents

    • @Chutney1luv
      @Chutney1luv 4 роки тому +4

      That's what I always here people say! Taija, is such a blessing to her family because they are the only ones blessed to have her and her sibblings! Just look at how her dad looks at their performances! He can't believe it himself!😅

    • @marthabouwma974
      @marthabouwma974 4 роки тому +1

      Thank you for sharing. May God always be with you.

  • @teleyyemo-quarshie2751
    @teleyyemo-quarshie2751 4 роки тому +341

    When he styled it out when she said she was pregnant when he was on the bus😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @enitaneni2495
    @enitaneni2495 2 роки тому +3

    You're a man's man. Lot of respect and praise to you. Thank you for letting the world know great men are out there! More Grace to you and your family. I love love Mali! She's fabulous

  • @sheilaabraham4350
    @sheilaabraham4350 3 роки тому +19

    You are still together after getting pregnant at 17!?! And you seem to like each other. I'm so impressed. ♥️

  • @kirstencon
    @kirstencon 4 роки тому +153

    I fell pregnant at 16 had my daughter at 17 I was with her dad for 4 years and ran! He refuses to meet his own daughter. I love seeing couples who have kids young and still stay strong 💗

    • @valerieshinia8526
      @valerieshinia8526 4 роки тому +8

      ❤mine too does nothing it hurts my daughter is almost 7😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @kirstencon
      @kirstencon 4 роки тому +7

      Valerie Shinia aww bless does she get upset? My daughter would cry around this age about why he wouldn’t see her! Hardest thing to watch send her huge hugs from us all 💗 she must have one strong mama to be getting through it xx

    • @valerieshinia8526
      @valerieshinia8526 4 роки тому +1

      @@kirstencon ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @valerieshinia8526
      @valerieshinia8526 4 роки тому +4

      @@kirstencon she is almost 7 and I can tell you they are days whereby she just has tantrums and she just cries and cries and it breaks my heart but then what do I do I cant force aman to be with me or to be there for her.

    • @kirstencon
      @kirstencon 4 роки тому +3

      Valerie Shinia this won’t help right now but it does get better! I find my daughter still watches her friends with their dads and can see she’s hurt. But I’ve always told her I’m not a man but I’m your mum and dad I’m here for everything! I’ve never kept anything from her I let her mail him on fb asking to meet 2 years ago and he refused! I think for her that was the point she thought f you!! I’ve always said it’s better having no dad than a bad dad also I just wish these children had two parents that love them! My son sees his dad not as much as he should but they still see each other and I know that hurts my daughter also! Thankfully my dad is amazing and been there for her xx

  • @nonacee5065
    @nonacee5065 4 роки тому +47

    They've done a terrific job having a baby so young. Lovely family.

  • @elcip1570
    @elcip1570 3 роки тому +28

    What a beautiful well grounded couple. They have a deep love between them that makes them secure with each other.

  • @oladunniadekola8975
    @oladunniadekola8975 2 роки тому +16

    I now understand why you guys do everything together. You guys literally had just each other from the very beginning. Love you guys🥰

  • @strawberryworldtv1676
    @strawberryworldtv1676 4 роки тому +72

    I love how your mom handled the situation and how she treated your husband..then boyfriend

  • @daphne1274
    @daphne1274 4 роки тому +74

    I’m over here all the way in Texas, USA crying my eyes out. It’s just wonderful to watch u guys..Such a beautiful family. God has truly blessed you guys to have each other..anybody says otherwise..pay them no mind! ✌🏾

    • @juliefrancis8825
      @juliefrancis8825 3 роки тому +4

      Same happen to me here in England so please for them they are wonderful people I ended up on my own but was happy I love them ❤️

  • @debrathornton4392
    @debrathornton4392 3 роки тому +42

    I was 18 and my husband was 21 we got married I was 19 when I had my first child 21 when I had my second my husband and I just celebrated our 46th wedding anniversary it was never easy that’s that’s that’s what keeps us together

  • @southlondonlass1
    @southlondonlass1 2 роки тому +7

    Reading through the comments, I see that many of you have a similar story and made it through with your baby’s father and are still together and even happily married. My story didn’t have the fairytale ending but 41 years later I can say I was gifted with the most beautiful and wonderful daughter any parent could wish for, I feel extremely blessed. I’m so happy for those of you that were blessed with finding your life partner/ soulmate straight off the bat. Congratulations to you all! 💕🙏🏾

  • @valeriessnippets
    @valeriessnippets 4 роки тому +168

    I am so glad you guys didn't let negative people bother you. You guys are blessed

  • @reneeallen1118
    @reneeallen1118 4 роки тому +63

    You too are such a lovely couple. How did you get to be so wise at such a young age? Sweet blessings to you and your family

  • @contactjoy4140
    @contactjoy4140 3 роки тому +3

    I love you guys, as individuals, as a couple, as parents of 3 healthy, happy children.
    You've given your children self confidence and inner strength because of your honesty.
    I'm 73 yrs old, American, and thoroughly enjoying your channel content.
    5 beautiful humans!
    Thank-you!

  • @marycharles146
    @marycharles146 3 роки тому +22

    This is what Real Liove looks like 💕❣ Blessings to this family and whomever is reading this🙋❣

  • @mamiemoore5015
    @mamiemoore5015 4 роки тому +79

    Beautiful story.. it's normal for African parents to go crazy sometimes when they hear their teenagers having baby.. I am happy for your family

    • @denisedean2446
      @denisedean2446 4 роки тому +6

      Shhhhoooot! Ump! Any parent would freak out if their 16 year old daughter said she was pregnant! Fortunately for them they are still together. Kids generally cant handle that responsibility. Tai stepped up and grew up.👏👏

  • @createdcreated1977
    @createdcreated1977 4 роки тому +64

    Love that you went to university. Life doesn’t have to end when we have hiccups in life. God bless your family.😍

  • @reginek.7042
    @reginek.7042 3 роки тому +63

    It's so funny how when a young male/female has peers who tease them for still being a virgin, yet when he/she partakes in the action and the obvious result occurs (PREGNANCY) those same peers/or people want to turn the other cheek and be judgmental... THAT'S WHY it is always important to never abide by others perception of you; you do something under your own decision and responsibility.
    ........
    Anyways, I'm very happy that y'all stayed together after all these years and conquered the difficulties. Y'all made it through! May God bless your entire family.

  • @ruthjohnson2710
    @ruthjohnson2710 2 роки тому +7

    They owned up to their responsibilities. Very impressed and proud of them👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @kentonrichards6443
    @kentonrichards6443 4 роки тому +115

    Ammmm I just glad I can see teija again that kid is life

  • @cathyhetzel5944
    @cathyhetzel5944 4 роки тому +43

    What a great loving family! He's every woman's dream and his wife is beautiful and so sweet!

  • @karenlewis3876
    @karenlewis3876 3 роки тому +2

    This teenage pregnancy could not have happened to a more beautiful, mature, together young couple. You're both remarkable. You had the good sense to put a brilliant plan together when you were only 17 years old, and you stayed the course! You are a wonderful success story and inspiration. You and your family are bringing so much joy into my life. The girls in the car singing and dancing while Dad remains straight faced - priceless!!

  • @canag0d
    @canag0d 3 роки тому +17

    I love how as they recount this they both learn small details about the situation the didn’t know...

  • @onelove3568
    @onelove3568 4 роки тому +30

    That's what true love is. He is a real man for real. Bless up

  • @livinglife469
    @livinglife469 4 роки тому +114

    Beautiful true story n now yuh all have 3 kids your love is strong❤❤❤

  • @lauriewaldrep968
    @lauriewaldrep968 2 роки тому +9

    I am glad you stayed together to build the beautiful family you built. I love watching your videos. They are the best videos to watch. They are fun, and cannot get over your talented children. Absolutely awesome!!!

  • @AmosHashaka
    @AmosHashaka 3 роки тому +4

    I recommend your maturity at that age to have decided to hold on together and have such beautiful soul to the world and big up to your parents on both side, amazing!

  • @maureenkolis9738
    @maureenkolis9738 4 роки тому +21

    I just “discovered” you and wish you could have been a part of my life way before this. As a (still can’t believe it!) SENIOR CITIZEN, it’s so heartening to witness a family so full of joy! Your children are blessed to have you...and so is everyone blessed by your generous sharing of your life! Your family makes people smile! God’s best blessings to you! 🤗

  • @alishaphilbert4754
    @alishaphilbert4754 4 роки тому +337

    Very nice story alot of people dont make it together after having a baby at 17 or younger very nice "goals" for sure

    • @judechukwuelue617
      @judechukwuelue617 4 роки тому +10

      Alisha Philbert it’s nice they made it! But as a goal it’s not an ideal. I recall a lot of people being pressured to have babies or get married due to outdated thinking!
      My advice would be to take it step by step and keep open possibilities in terms of abortion is open, having the child is open, being together is open, being apart is open! There are no wrongs just choices that need to be made but within time and patience. All choices need to be informed and require a cool calm head.

    • @alishaphilbert4754
      @alishaphilbert4754 4 роки тому +2

      @@judechukwuelue617 4 reallll!!

    • @nataliebrady7565
      @nataliebrady7565 4 роки тому +1

      Jude Chukwuelue i agree

    • @TJ-gt1zz
      @TJ-gt1zz 4 роки тому

      What you said

    • @teeramirez464
      @teeramirez464 4 роки тому +1

      Not "goals" being a teen parent, is not easy, glad they are doing well though!

  • @LeesTexan
    @LeesTexan 3 роки тому +3

    Dad, YOU are a GREAT man and father! Years into the future you will reap the rewards of your love and caring for your wife and kids! With the videos when your kids are adults, you will have so many wonderful memories to share and when they are married, you can black mail them and tell them if they do not do what you want, you will show some of these videos to their spouse!!!! :) This family is so inspirational and wonderful ! Dad you are doing everything RIGHT !!

  • @numberkayjonathan6985
    @numberkayjonathan6985 2 роки тому +3

    Your parents were amazed to have supported you then even though they weren’t proud of what happened. And I want to shout out to you both for taking that decision to support each other. Tay, you’re such a good man to have taken such decision at that tender age, men twice as your age don’t want responsibilities these days. Kudos to your lovely family👍🥰🙏

  • @kendyllorange3779
    @kendyllorange3779 4 роки тому +199

    This was amazing. Tay, Thanks a lot for being in Taija and T.J.'s life because I grew up without a father because of my mom being Pregnant at 15. But now I am 12 and my dad runs in and out my life and I can't stand seeing kids growing up without their Father. It's Beautiful how you guys stayed together and are Wondeful, Parents and you guys have a Beautiful Family.❤

    • @Annie-zd6rn
      @Annie-zd6rn 4 роки тому +5

      Just stay strong young lady. Most girls that doesn't have their dads in their life run wild and become very pemiscuos. Guys will say anything you want to hear to get what they want.

    • @sandraoppong136
      @sandraoppong136 4 роки тому +1

      I understand u dear I'm 24 and same experience with my dad now I just avoid because I don't want to be hurt anytime he does not keep his promises

    • @jeanmason4395
      @jeanmason4395 4 роки тому +2

      And Maliya!!

    • @sabrinaspeakeasy
      @sabrinaspeakeasy 3 роки тому +1

      Oh sweetie, I’m sorry. What he chooses is about HIM not you. It is not your fault. You will heal.

  • @judechukwuelue617
    @judechukwuelue617 4 роки тому +111

    I was sooo judgemental back in the day to single parents or teenage parents but there is a need to show love and understanding in retrospect on reflection. When you were younger the whole idea of teenage pregnancy or single parents was such a taboo

  • @1SafetyAngel
    @1SafetyAngel 3 роки тому +2

    Beautiful story. All it took was both your parents giving you both full love and support with no judgment. That is all children need and why everything has turned up well. God bless both your parents

  • @kimberlyfolmar
    @kimberlyfolmar 3 роки тому +6

    I love this story, take it from someone who had an early pregnancy, the panic is real and you do things you wish you hadn't of. You guys were so mature and staying together and Teija is beautiful just like her mom.

  • @SunFlower-x3
    @SunFlower-x3 4 роки тому +78

    Glad, you two remained together.

  • @all8046
    @all8046 4 роки тому +11

    The pair of you have completely blown apart the stereotypical image of teen parents. The fact that you had support from your families (when the news settled in 😊) but most importantly support from each other is testimony that you were meant to be together. I love to see your family videos, it completely warms my heart. Keep up the great work, may you all continue to prosper. 🙏🏾💕

  • @tahrehale591
    @tahrehale591 3 роки тому +14

    I love your accents & I'm so happy you both were brave enough to stick together & raise your own family. God bless

  • @pauletteyearout2958
    @pauletteyearout2958 3 роки тому +2

    Such a wonderful, colorful, intelligent beautiful family. I usually don’t like UA-cam families but this family is contagious. Thank you for sharing your lives. You guys are incredible...

  • @WeCanTravel321
    @WeCanTravel321 4 роки тому +273

    IT'S SO REFRESHING TO SEE BLACK LOVE LIKE THIS!!!!! 🖤🖤🖤

    • @MB-nb7yq
      @MB-nb7yq 3 роки тому +4

      You know ❤️🥰🥰

    • @moniquewilliams3003
      @moniquewilliams3003 3 роки тому +2

      yessss!!!

    • @MB-nb7yq
      @MB-nb7yq 3 роки тому +6

      @Lorraine Gravesande why can’t black people celebrate themselves for once without comments like yours.

    • @WeCanTravel321
      @WeCanTravel321 3 роки тому +2

      @@MB-nb7yq I TOTALLY AGREE!!!!! 🙌🏽🖤✊🏾

    • @WeCanTravel321
      @WeCanTravel321 3 роки тому +6

      @Lorraine Gravesande I said what I said. IT'S SO REFRESHING TO SEE BLACK LOVE LIKE THIS!!!!! What part of my statement don't you understand? I will celebrate BLACK love as I choose. I can truly care less on how you interpret it. 👋🏽 #blacklove

  • @shae5053
    @shae5053 4 роки тому +215

    These two people r just gorgeous!!

  • @lifeandhomewithmeredith9050
    @lifeandhomewithmeredith9050 3 роки тому +2

    To have the support of your families is such a great thing. So many parents kick their children out. God knew that you were going to have a child which is such a blessing! Yes you were young but God had and still has great plans for your lives. Glad I found this video. Much Love

  • @marymargaretgivens1352
    @marymargaretgivens1352 3 роки тому +17

    THANK You FOR SHARING YOUR STORY...
    So Similar to my STORY
    And A PRAYING MOTHER

  • @TRUTHFUL2000
    @TRUTHFUL2000 4 роки тому +30

    Praise God they stayed together, see how they are doing so well now.Really such a blessing. Babys are Blessing guys. They come with BLESSINGS.💝💘💌

  • @taylore806
    @taylore806 4 роки тому +11

    What made it easier is the fact that you two had the support of each other, you may not have had the financial support because you were both young...but you two rode it out together and managed to raise a beautiful child..thats a blessing..there are young mums out there who is doing it by themselves and thats when it can be even more difficult..

  • @katherts
    @katherts 3 роки тому +1

    The world needs more families like yours. It would be such a beautiful place. You’re all lovely. Thank you for sharing who you all are. You make my heart smile. 💕

  • @ibexy
    @ibexy 3 роки тому +23

    Am proud of you guys. You have a beautiful thing going on.

  • @helencarterjohnson3722
    @helencarterjohnson3722 4 роки тому +37

    I truly understand you guys. I had my daughter at 17. That was 43 Years ago. I’m not condoning teen pregnancy, but I’m grateful I did have my daughter. She’s a blessing. I recently started watching your Vlogs. And what I observed, you all are Awesome parents. And your children are Beautiful. God Bless your family.

  • @pierretoussaint8426
    @pierretoussaint8426 4 роки тому +364

    She reminds me so much of Kelly Rowland and Remey Ma mixed if they had a daughter.

  • @lindacastro5703
    @lindacastro5703 3 роки тому +2

    Love & laughter is what makes a perfect family and you both show the world how to love & laugh together. Keep doing it!

  • @francoisehesse8397
    @francoisehesse8397 3 роки тому +4

    Such a beautiful couple! The journey, the love, the drive to succeed the negative energies. So inspirational! So glad you chose love over fear. You are truly blessedx

  • @KaiYonnaLewin
    @KaiYonnaLewin 4 роки тому +61

    That was nice sharing this. It’s nice to hear young pregnancies end in happy ever after. The response on the bus was sooooo funny. He must have been in shock😍

  • @samanthabarona7981
    @samanthabarona7981 4 роки тому +24

    I loved the part about you guys making a five year plan. Amazing, it’s amazing that you guys stuck together. What a team. 🙏🏽❤️

  • @catgirljourney4593
    @catgirljourney4593 3 роки тому

    i love how authentic you sweet humans are... a slice of life on planet earth... thank you for sharing

  • @brendapaul5950
    @brendapaul5950 3 роки тому +2

    Beautiful story!! Glad you have continued to grow and strive together as a family with these two beautiful and spirited girls who love music and dancing. Blessings from upstate New York.

  • @julyguy9225
    @julyguy9225 4 роки тому +29

    Not sure how I found this channel, but these folks r my new fav family

  • @deneseanderson5449
    @deneseanderson5449 4 роки тому +99

    All that was for Teija to be here, she is a blessing 😁❤

  • @teenamaree5660
    @teenamaree5660 3 роки тому

    What she said in the end about family made the entire video worth it. They are so in love and she is so beautiful...easy to watch beautiful people. He is unique looking. They each have big beautiful eyes and so do their kids. It's so nice to see young people in love that way and making their lives work, in spite of beginning a family so early....God bless you, Kabs family❤

  • @dianawestrup7416
    @dianawestrup7416 3 роки тому +1

    Such a beautiful family, she is truly a model! And your girls couldn't be more adorable! Love the Kabs family! God bless you! Greetings from Cancun, Mexico.

  • @carleranachantisbuckle7623
    @carleranachantisbuckle7623 4 роки тому +305

    I was drinking my drink at the part when he said "Does Chanel know' I swear I chocked on my drink😂😂

    • @TheKabsFamily
      @TheKabsFamily  4 роки тому +12

      Carlera Nachantis Buckle 😂😂

    • @nnavi8284
      @nnavi8284 4 роки тому +6

      That was so funny 😂😂👏🏾

    • @jeanmason4395
      @jeanmason4395 4 роки тому +22

      His Dad had to have been in shock to ask if Chanel knew she was pregnant!! What's even funnier, Tay says, " I think so." Geeeez! This family is the BESTEST!!!🤗💗💜💕💕

    • @cynthiankosi6887
      @cynthiankosi6887 4 роки тому +3

      Bruh😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @robinjohnson6581
      @robinjohnson6581 4 роки тому +3

      Beautiful Couple

  • @nkechiagbawu7016
    @nkechiagbawu7016 4 роки тому +60

    I love when people take responsibility. Tay is a real man and Chan is so admirable ❤❤

  • @CallmeMrStar
    @CallmeMrStar 3 роки тому +14

    What a story... Would be amazing to hold sessions with young parents

    • @Seremonii
      @Seremonii 3 роки тому +1

      This is what I was thinking.
      I had my baby at 20 but I still could've used role models like them when I was young.😊

  • @jessicataylor1930
    @jessicataylor1930 3 роки тому +1

    What a beautiful and classy family. You can tell that they are great parents from the way their children behave. They seem to have such a great family bond. Their videos always make me smile on a bad day.

  • @shawilliams9701
    @shawilliams9701 4 роки тому +19

    I laughed way too hard at the Bus scene, lol good one!

  • @danilakassels431
    @danilakassels431 4 роки тому +77

    So I’m on Facebook reacting on messages, automatically you get these clips, some funny some cute, you know how it goes....suddenly there’s the cutes little girl ever singing a song in the car with her daddy (as she calls him) the interaction between these two, the little girl singing and doing her thing and de dad acting af if he’s nog watching her brought such a big smile on my face... so I went on UA-cam and search for more clips and to my delight I found that you have a YT channel TheKabsFamily. I was wondering how you guys became so I subscribe with notification and today I got to see how it all started. I’m a 55 year old black woman from the Netherlands 🇳🇱 but you kids bring a big smile on my face. There is still real love, dedication and hartwarming people out there. I’m a fan of yours God bless you and I’m looking forward for more of your story’s and posts. Love U kids and God bless you all🙏🏾💕💕💕💕💕🙏🏾

    • @starmom4497
      @starmom4497 3 роки тому

      Are there many black people in the Netherlands?

    • @danilakassels431
      @danilakassels431 3 роки тому +1

      @@starmom4497 well, there are quite a few black people in the Netherlands. The Netherlands is a small country with a population of only 17 million and I think that maybe 400.000 are black people?? (give and take)

    • @starmom4497
      @starmom4497 3 роки тому +1

      @@danilakassels431 that's cool. I just don't think I have ever seen on TV a black person from the Netherlands. Thanks for the info.

  • @Stay1432skz
    @Stay1432skz 2 роки тому +2

    A baby is a blessing and I’m proud of you both and your parents.

  • @angelabaiers5055
    @angelabaiers5055 2 роки тому +1

    Stressful situation for any young teens. Tay is a good man, a husband & father. They both handled the situation with great maturity. Plus letting their parents know. They genuinely care for & love each other. You make a wonderful family. You both are wonderful humans & parents.