A very sad day | My heart is broken | Vlog Episode 16
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- Опубліковано 13 жов 2024
- This is an audition piece for an independent film that's why I had to put a background music to it to make it more dramatic. But I really appreciate those who commented and showed their support. I hope you don't hate me for this. Peace! =)
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First of all, I applaud you for being so open and transparent to your viewers. This isn't something vloggers normally share--vlogs are usually a highlight reel and rarely show what is real and what isn't as entertaining on a daily basis. Thank you for your courage and honesty. Just continue to use this channel to express yourself and to stay connected to other people. I'm not sure what your coping mechanism is, but whatever it is, I hope it gets you through this phase and you'll emerge a stronger, crazier Steven Bansil. I'm not exactly your bosom buddy, but we are here for you.
"True strength cannot be measured by how strong you are, but to acknowledge your weakness, turning it into true strength to push on."
Coming from a relationship that was built for many years only to end it in the most trivial of reasons is hard, I've been thru that. But the only thing you can do is just step forward, and keep stepping forward. But it's better to take time to breathe and compose.
You can get through this, Steven. It's a good thing that you vented it out. And, this is the first step in any heartbreak. Reach out and talk to your friends. If not with your close friends, you always have us... Your YTVPH fam to talk to. Just approach anyone of us and we'll listen. Even lend you a shoulder to lean on if possible. I've also experienced my heartbroken before and... Hanging out with friends and keeping myself preoccupied helped me move on. Just remember this everything happens for a reason, Steven. Keep your head up high, be strong and move forward. *hugs*
Yong nakita lang kita s fb dahil tuwang tuwa aq s mga vid nyu po tapos ito napanood ko s yt🥺🥺🥺bakit ang xakiiiit peru congratz po nakamove on kana 🥰🥰🥰
Ang sakit sa puso nito. Kahit tagal na neto, i just want u to know na hindi ikabababa ng pride mo yung pag iyak mo. Thankyou for always inspiring me. Keep it up pooo.
Im so sorry to hear this, its alright to cry, ive been through something similar and i did blog about everything i felt to remind myself to not put myself in that situation again because yes it does hurt like mad and to this day i go back to those things ive written to keep myself in check and those actually helped me bounce back quicker too so it might be helpful for you to vlog or write about it (maybe a journal?) though things wont seem like anything will get better, trust me, youll get there. For now, try to keep yourself from dwelling on things that dont serve you any good or purpose to help you lessen the pain, you have to look out for yourself too no? Eventually, hopefully, when youre ready, take those baby steps and rebuild again :) let me know if you need an extra pair of ears - Catalina
kaka panood ko lng nito, kasi now lang po kita nakilala😁 hehe, pero knowing you now... 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗... bagong follower hir. naiintindihan ko,... lahat 😊 kaya ka pala sobrang blessed now🙏 love na kita girl😁🤗🙏
Lahat naman ng tao dumadaan sa ganitong sitwasyon. Basta ang importante natuto tayo. So happy seeing you happy today. 🙌
Sometimes, when we pick up the broken pieces of us to be whole, it doesn’t always end up to be the same person as we were before. It results in a hybrid and co-existence between the "previous us" and the new “us”. We tend to re-discover ourselves and go through a painful transformation; then, re-birth our individuality. Somehow, the product of transformation does not guarantee a stronger hybrid of yourself, it only ends up to have the same senses of feeling the pain, happiness, love and compassion. However, when a difficult times strike back again, we may tend to “respond” differently on the same pain, happiness, love and compassion through the life-learnings from our journey…. Steven, you have my respect...
My heart bleeds while watching you hurting Teb2. I may not know you personally but I do feel that you are a good person. Don't feel bad cause everything happens for a reason. A better person is waiting for you at the end of the rainbow. Smile lang Teb2. 😘
Lots of love from Bacolod City.
yun...yun oh....doon ako bigla naka relate...." I'm not part of his future plan,he had a set priorities...etc..." parang huh..wait ilang tao na tayo nag sama king ina mo now mo pa na isip yan...king ina dami ko ng na set aside pamilya ko best friend, mga mortal enimies ko pati kapit bahay namin na laging chini chika ako ng buhay buhay ng mga kapit bahay ko nanmin set a side ko mabigay ko lng attention at future plan ko na ikaw laging iniisip na makasama ko para ma reach dream ko kaso king ina...
sorry carried away lang...
THANK GOD YOUR STILL BLOGGING 😁
MORE POWER STEV😁
and im now seeing the other side of your coin Teb. its just so sad to see you like that. well, just keep your self busy and avoid things that makes you remember that person. all is fine. you will be fine. SOON! CHEERP UP. ill include you in my prayers. :)
This is our sad story and we must accept the fact that we werent destined to be together. The feeling is mutual, its like, you just want to disappear but the thing is we need to be as hard as stone. Heart breaks taught me that no one can love us dearly except by ourselves. So I feel more better being a single than to be fooled and cheated and to break my heart again into pieces by another stranger. Life is beautiful and as I age, I Realize that God is not sleeping and always believe that karma is a bitch.
I hope you can read this Teb, wala kasi akong instagram or twitter, wag ka sana magalit sa akin, pero this breakup is one of the best thing that happened to you, because of this, unting-unti mong na pursue yung mga gsto mo sa buhay, unti-unti ka rin nagiging successful sa vlogging mo. Keep it up Teb! Mahirap naman talaga sa simula, kailangan lang ng tiyaga at patience. Ganun talaga sa buhay, may ups and downs, pero in then end, kailangan parin natin bumangon.. i'm happy to have found your vids, and your channel. Kudos Teb!
your partner doesn't define who you are... you put meaning in your life...for yourself and for your family and friends
U STILL have ur FMLY & GOD who loves u MORE!!! . . . ☝🙏🙌
Watching you breaking down here is a stark contrast to the usually-gregarious Steven. But, you touch a cord in our hearts. Though we have dissimilar backgrounds but your showing off of your emotions is quite a bravery. This might sound anachronistic, since it has been more than a year, I think, since this happened, but in any case, I hope you are good now! I hate to see someone crying before me hehheh
The secret to happiness is: FAST MOVING ON SKILLS. Congratulations for taking step 1.
kuya Teb :(
i-release mo lang po!
God loves you, YTVPH loves you!
nasa GC lang po kami!
awww.... it's okay to be sad kuya... but you can move along with it till you'll be okay. Time heal wounds as many can tell. you'll be okay for i am certain :)
I feel you, when you said that you and your boyfriend had deferent priorities and you are not part of his plan, that is very sad! I remember my past relationship it seems like really happen! But I'm happy for you right now with khel cayetano, always love love love
It breaks my heart whenever you’re like this Kya Tebi...
When you know someone who is really funny who wants to make everyone smile, then suddenly this person became emotional and open to his true feelings and cries... 🥺
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Great thing that you already copped out of this stage of your life 😁😊🙂
I wish every best things for you Kya Tebi 😊😘😘
Bisitahin mo muna ako dito sa America to unwind somehow, I'm surrounded by casino's hahaha. Cheer up Bro! Life is hard, But you are the kind of person who deserves good things so hang in there and soon smiles and laughter will fill in the the hole left behind. Tsaka lumalaki butas ng ilong mo pag umiiyak ka!
Damang dama kita dito sa vid mo na to Teb nakarelate ako ng subra, but look at you now! 💪.
Ohhhhhh myyyy bat ngayon k kng napanood nito😢😢
At least ok k na ngayon..💪💪💪
Nakarelate ako sa yo teb, un tau eh alam natin sa sarili natin na strong tayo na tao pero pagdating sa mga taong mahalaga sa atin nagiging mahina tayo dahil sobra taung magmahal, maxado taung sensitive madalas s bawat reactions nila satin kc maxado tau magbigay ng love and understanding,,,..
wag ka magmadali please dont compare yourself to your friends.. its time to love yourself now... that person is not meant for you... its really sad so sad talaga,.... but there will be a restoration for your broken heart.. tiwala lang.. God will make something beautiful out of this..
Thank you sa pagiging totoo mo kuya teb.. Naalala ko lang din yung mga panahon ko din naging ganyan...
Kuya Teb... thank you for sharing this with us..you are so brave to do this.. thank you for sharing this 'real' part of your life.
Take all the time you need to gather yourself together and do all the necessary things you think will help you get through this..
the first few steps are always the hardest.. please know that we are here for you.. the YTVPH fam are also here for you.. :)
Looking forward to a better, stronger and crazier Kuya Teb! :)
you can do this kuya Steven. you can get through this. I wish you well!
i found myself crying while watching this video.... i feel you.. ganyan din ako after a couple of year.
teb..im crying..so hard and i went through d same situation..bawat kanta marinig..bawat kwento na ma alala ko sya..we never had a closure kasi may original daddy sya and kabit lang ako..i was d one who left even knwing he wants me..ayaw ko masira sila..it took me forever to forget almost 8 mos na kami hwalay..in touch kami sa mobile legends lamang..i want to move in..have so many prospects..
I dunno why i always wanted to watch this over and over again 😓
@@StevenBansil i got 5 ads here idol teb while watching, my boss asked me why im crying without no reasons every morning😅, i said i feel him 😂😘💞.
Labyeah kuya teb😉
there are no words to describe the hurt.. im sorry to hear this..
madami nman dyang babae..hindi lng isa. hindi dapt iniiyakan ang tao ayaw na.. kahit sbihin na natin na years pa kau kung hindi nman talaga compatible. hindi rin magtatagal.. cheer up
A year after, your'e one happy Tebby.. Be happy and stay happy Teb. Kudos!
Kuya tebbie? 😔😔😔heres a hug from me 🤗🤗🤗 be strong kuya.. sobrang hirap at sakit kuya pero wala pong ibang makakatulong sa sarili nyo po kundi ikaw din po kuya tebbie.. sobrang sakit makita ka kuya tebbie na umiiyak ndi po kase ako sanay n umiiyak ka kuya. Cguro po may mas deserving na nakalaan pra sau c Lord kuya. Sa ngaun po kuya tebbie tumawag ka lang po kay Lord. Pag pray kita kuya tebbie sana bigyan po kau ni Lord ng lakas at tatag ng loob pra po malampasan nyo po ito. We Love You kuya tebbie. Please be strong po pra sa amin kuya🙏🤗😔
Buti na lng okay na Steven!! 💪🏽😊
fuck men i am 30 the same way so said i think that i am old and i can handle this easily because i've been through this many time but damn men it feels like wrecking ball and over and over again feel numb and nobody can talk to me. the memory and the plan you made together to Him.
i hope you are fine now na sir. naalala ko tuloy nun akoy nandyan sa position nayan earlier this year. sobrang hirap especially nasa abroad ako. walang kalaban laban..
Steven Bansil hahaha iba ka talaga sir ! In fact napa luha din ako ah. Hahaha
Naiiyak ako kahit luma na😔 relate ako sa sakit 💔💔😭😭😭
Nak wag kang malungkot.umiiyak din aq pag umiiyak ka.love u nak.
Baka naman kasi tayo talaga sa isa't-isa
Biro lang😂
Hey Steven its me your friend Angeelo Rabaya on Facebook. If this doesn't help reassure you I don't know what will...
God says "The reason some people have turned against you & walked away from you with or without reason, has nothing to do with you. It is because I have removed them from your life because they cannot go where I am taking you next. They will only hinder you in your next level because they have already served their purpose in your life. Let them go and keep moving. Greater is coming." says The Lord.
Grabe!!! I feel you kuya Teb :( bat mo kami pinapaiyak
Its been 3 months na :(
Awwww :(
naiiyak ako habang pinapanuod to TEb...sana okey kna ngayon....
Im here again and feel the pain. Im broke 😭😭😭
Ok lang yan po good looking ka naman so madali ka lang maka move on,
Kuya andito ako sa position na ito ngayon, and knowing na ok ka na ngayon. I am hopeful na darating din ako sa point na maging ok na din ako.
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Im sorry ngayun lang ako mag cocomment kasi lately ko lang nakita mga vids mo and im very curious of ur breakup. And now I know. Saket eh. Saket tologo. Thanks Teb.
huhuhu!😢😢😢 parehong pareho po tayo ng kwento😢
was trying to search for your latest vid when i found this old vlog... so heart wrenching. im so sorry you had to go through this. you deserve to be happy. both of you deserve each other, deserve to be happy with the right person.
I really really like you kyah teb!
Stay strong idol
i disagree when you said u give a part of yourself to your partner, which you can never take back. For me, that shouldnt be the case... when you love someone, you have to be WHOLE, so if you break up, you will never feel incomplete....because you are already whole before you even met that person.. you dont need that person to complete you or your world... because that person is someone who would want to be part of that whole world you already built.... Breaking up may shatter you but you would already know which pieces to put together in order to be whole again. Man up... remind yourself that you are strong..like what you said....and remind yourself that hurt is part of the package when you love someone.
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i feel you.
Awww. Glad u now moved on Teb. Anyeays, More than 4 ads ata tong nasa vid na to
Sakit po, bumalik yung sakit na na feel ko noong ganyan din ako
Its really hard i been there in that situation..
Power hug kuya tebbb
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God bless you steven..
Interesting. I just subscribed your channel.
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Hirap-hirap magmove-on
Ang hindi ko maintindihan bakit ka nya sinaktan!!! 😢😢😢
:( hugggggggggggg kht 1 year na to 😭
power hug.
Kuya harapin mo bukas na masaya po please.wag ka gagaya sa mga korean na suiside agad ha po.ang dami pang haharapin mo na maging masaya ka po.kong sino man sya hindi sya dapat sayu po.sabi ng mom ko kuya.ang pagmamahal pag may pasakit hindi po yun pagmamahal.makasarili po daw yun.ginawa ng mom ko lahat at the end wala pa ring kakuntintuhan po.ganyan mom ko ng meron na maraming iba papa ko.ngayun po kami nalang at masaya na sya po.mag asawa ka po.hingin mo kay god the best girl for you and live happily in this world po.please please.
so arte
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the description 😶😶
😢 kasi super na-dala na ako. huhu. ang effective.
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😭😭😭 Im crying watching this vlog i lost my entenet connection, thats why i was going back to all your videos. I feel you kuya tebb, All is well..
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