Tried that, didn't work and then you feel worse. Now you wonder if there is someone that you will ever trust again! Simply because it happened to you. Get out of the relationship and do something for yourself, get as far away as you can!! Believe me I know and it feel that someone cut your heart out with a dull knife. 👀
When people cheat and when they decide to do it is it choice but once you cross that threshold there is no going back to that person and I want that trust is gone it's gone you can never get it back
Exactly, when your partner cheats on you, he/she is not only breaking the sacred bond of trust, but is compromising a holy relationship of a husband and a wife. Cheating is a choice, it is a sin, a cardinal sin. Never ever forgive cheaters, whether man or woman.
What's even worse is when you KNOW that she has cheated on you and she sits there and plain face denies it. It's amazing how in a brief moment you can go from loving someone and wanting to be with them and then not wanting anything to do with them.
@@RealKellieTrue, but its not necessarily hate or even unforgiveness... . . if you Recognize the marital covenant is RESOLVED, (nothing less) if a wife (willfully), even if drunk, stoned, or whatever...... ....Engages (WITH) HIM, in that ultimate level of intimacy... referred to biblically, as "Knowing" her. The "Marital Covenant" is a sexual Covenant. Sex consumates the marriage. Sex with snither resolves the marital covenant. Plain & simple. Every other Covenant man can and does make, is NOT a SEXUAL Covenant.. Men, If your girlfriend or wife has physically cheated (just once), and you are absolutely positive...put her away!!! Forgive her, for YOUR souls sake, even love her soul...but DO NOT have sex with her ever again. You're one flesh with Belial, if you do.
@@RealKellie I get the gist of your post but I wouldn't use the word hate to describe the emotion felt in this situation. As he said in the video, it's a loss of respect which plays out as indifference to the cheater. There's pain of course and definite moments of anger. But all that eventually passes. What endures the most (for me) is indifference because you can never look at the other person the same way ever again.
Lol wears a necklace another man bought her and doesn't expect the husband to notice 😂😂😂. And he can still call you a liar cause you are. Admitting the fact after having lied about it for how long doesn't change the fact you still lied.
I never doubted my self worth. It had so little to do with me. She'd cut off sex long before. That bothered me most, but again not in terms of self worth. I have known since my twenties what I have available to me sexually. I've never cheated, nor do I want to. I want sex, sure. But honestly my self esteem would suffer more if I cheated than from anything else. I can't imagine feeling good about myself with anyone who would be with me when I'm a married guy with kids. Yikes! Who does that? Well...actually, I know what kind of person does that 😂😂
@mfawls9624 I'm a married guy with teenage kids. The thought of hurting my wife and destroying her trust in me is enough for me to repel any woman who looks twice at me. I usually take it as a cue to talk non stop about my lovely wife and kids until I see the interest drain right out of their expression... works great to get rid of gay guys trying to chat me up too (bring up the wife and kids and they can't get away from me fast enough 😅😅😅)
@@davidhenningson4782 🤣🤣🤣the gay guys too😂 I got a haircut from one once. Called me a man-thing, told me I couldn't look any better when I first sat down😂 Was worried the whole salon might go up in flames from that dude. It always puzzled me how much fun they made of Mike Pence and his not allowing himself to being alone with women other than his wife.
I’ve been through this and the best way to handle it is to never speak to that person again and the best revenge is to go and have the best life you can. There is nothing to discuss there is nothing to try and understand you have been deeply betrayed and it is completely over there’s nothing to work through walk away with your dignity and avoid all legal repercussions and never speak to that person again.
@@RealKellie keep your head up there are good people out there. I admit to struggling to find them. But I have absolutely promised myself no low hanging fruit! If I’m going to invest my time and energy and resources and open my heart I want quality! I really do hope you find happiness. It helps to focus on personal growth and understanding the world around you. God bless and please be safe and have a wonderful wonderful life!
@@oneanddonetzone3673 Amen! I was at a friends wedding years ago, and the groom said something in his vows that has changed my view of relationships forever.... "I spent all of my time and energy becoming the person that I wanted in my life, growing into the best version of me that would attract the exact person that I wanted to share my life with." When we raise our vibrations, we attract those of equal caliber! Many blessings to you for happiness and fulfilment!
I know this video is 14 years old, but I did find it interesting. The male actor in this drama and the subject matter reminded me of a story going back almost 20 years. In this case, the confrontation happened in the lobby of a hotel near downtown Atlanta. The husband in this case was in his mid-40s at the time and a classmate of mine during our time attending Georgia Tech. I was sitting across from him as we both were drinking coffee. I followed his then-wife as she and her AP entered the elevator and called my friend. We spent those hours talking about old times and his early years married to her. Talked about their two daughters then in College. One was at Duke University to become a Medical Doctor and the other daughter was attending Georgia Tech. Both of us were positioned so we could see the elevators. It was about 9PM when they came down. She was smiling and all happy until she got about 3 or 4 feet from the elevator. My friend did not say a word to her. He just took off his ring and tossed it to her. Both of us walked out and walked to my car. Thankfully she was in such a state of shock she froze for long enough for us to get out. I never found out who the AP was. Both daughters still love their mother but are not as close to her as they are to the father.
@@RealKellie That's the bitter truth. Suppose we want to give it another chance; for whatever reason, this wound will never fully heal. I saw and experienced painful moments. Certain reproaches, recollections of memories.
It changes you. I was never the "same" after I caught my wife together with someone who pretended to be a "friend". Then there's the divorce; and the two children were very yong at the time. Both under the age of 6. Ironically, after some time passed, those two split up; couldn't make it work even after all of that. I stayed single for many years after that. But yeah, the whole thing changed me. Changed my life.
@@johnwithrow2795 I am so sorry, yes it does change you! A piece of your soul dies and your faith in humanity, and ability to trust is damaged forever.
There is no longer a relationship, just ashes. A drunken accidental loss of your senses is on thing. A deliberate on going affair where there is a supportive loving spouse is beyond contemptible and and an absolute betrayal. Walk !!! Nothing to salvage except what’s left of your self respect
Poor guy!!!! I hate seeing people cheated on. Just be honest with someone and leave before breaking their hearts! Some people will love you to the point of insanity. 😢 Real love is special.
Why is she acting like she’s shocked? Everyone knows the risk when they cheat and yet everyone is surprised when they get caught. Ridiculous. Most people are still children.
True! Though in this scene...it really was not her intention to 'cheat'. She and the boss were both going through very hard, painful times, and found friendship and support with each other. One night, he had taken her to dinner to say thank you for all of help and he had gotten her a neckless; they let their feeling get caught up and both let things go too far. She was immediately ashamed, and broke off all communication. She tried even harder to reach out to Jamie, and re kindle their relationship (he had shut her out emotionally because of something that he was hiding); but it was too late. It is something that she to this day classifies as her single biggest mistake in life.
Sorry. I’m a firm believer that it isn’t what you say that defines you. It’s what you do. Besides, I really can’t care that she was having a bad time. She should’ve remembered her vows. That’s why they take them. If she wanted to be led around by her emotions and make choices like that, she didn’t need to be in a marriage in the first place. And as far as regretting, it wasn’t like she was tricked into bed by someone. Cheating is not a mistake. It’s a choice. And I say that as someone who has never cheated. And never will.
@@RealKellie Sorry....the "hard painful times" excuse just isn't gonna cut it. Cheating is not about intentions. It's an active choice. Not like she momentarily forgot she had a husband & kids at home. The proof is how she reacted here. She knew exactly what she was doing.
I was absolutely disgusted with my niece when i found out she cheated on her husband during the first year of their marriage. They had a big Catholic wedding and put on quite the show. After the affair they went through counseling and had three kids before getting divorced. Who suffers the most? Their kids.
Wait l, maybe I’m misreading it. He discovered she was a cheater then instead of getting a divorce, he decided to do counseling and have three children with her? If that’s the case, I don’t feel bad for him because that’s exactly what he signed up for. Don’t feel disgusted by your niece, she disrespected him and he stayed and didn’t make her pay the consequences by divorcing her, so that ultimately his fault. Question is, are those three children actually his?
@@standground8284 It was a big Catholic wedding in a small town. What would everyone think if they got divorced? Divorce is a no no if you're Catholic. But yes, they went to counseling and had three kids but ended up divorced anyway. And I really couldn't tell you if all three kids are his. They moved away and got divorced after about 15 years. I get where you're coming from about not feeling sorry for her husband but I'm disgusted and ashamed because this was my niece and they put on a big production of a wedding. It was all a show.
@@jonw.3886 Honestly, someone leaving a cheater should not care what anyone thinks or says. People outside the relationship always has something to say either way and you should never let them dictate your life. I find that most weddings are people putting on a show with no intentions to actually honor their vows. Anytime some cheats and able to stay, the relationship deteriorates inevitable at some point. People who say “Their was infidelity and we’re now happy” don’t move me in the slightest. It’s usually because the cheater knows you’ll tolerate disrespect so they’ll do a better job hiding the cheating. Either way, hopefully your nieces children learn a thing or two about being faithful and not tolerating cheating.l
It was all my fault. After 17 years of marriage I had totally neglected my wife's sexual needs. I had forgotten to hug her, cop a feel as I walked by etc. No wonder she was susceptible to a black fellow worker. He knew she was starved for affection. He knew exactly how to get her horny & needy. We soon will have a new baby. A black child. All my own damn fault.
Single guys like me that are constantly in pain while being a man against the world….. It could always be worse. I can’t imagine how awful this would be.
That's true, I caught my wife cheating. I chose to forgive her 20 years later, she filed for divorce. I was extremely upset. My daughter then confided she had been cheating for years, with many different people. Wow, I was blind and a fool.
@@rogerledoux4741Never ever forgive a cheater. Once a cheater, always a cheater. It doesn't matter if he/her doesn't cheat anymore. The deal is he/her disrespected you in the worst way possible, and that would stay forever in your life. No matter what.
Me too unfortunately I dragged it out way longer than I should have thinking it could be fixed; the only result was she cheated more and I lost all self respect. The only way to get it back is to break it off and rebuild yourself better; I should have done it years prior. Consulation prize three years later I am on top of the world and my ex's life has become a dumpster fire. Sometimes what goes around does come around.
I know what it’s like to be cheated on. It’s horrible. I’ve been struggling with it for almost 2 years. But I decided to move on to find the special someone that won’t do that to me. I won’t lie and say they love you and they don’t. But now I learn from that mistake to marry someone that wasn’t very faithful to you. I came to realize. That he can’t just sit in the past and think about how your ex cheated on you. Eventually, it’s gonna happen to them because cheaters will find love and then their new spouse will cheat on them..
Met my wife when we where 14. I can't imagine this happening. We have been married 34 years, 3 kids, 2 grands. We both are true to our faith which holds us true to each other! Plus we are kindred spirits! Born the same day, same year! Crazy huh?
I have experienced this from both sides. When I was younger, my first serious long-term relationship with the girl I thought I was going to marry ended when I unexpectedly dropped in at her home in the middle of the afternoon and caught her in bed with another man. It was eerily similar to the opening scene in the 2014 movie "This is Where I Leave You", where Jason Bateman comes home early and walks in on his boss (Dax Shepard) laying an absolute pounding down on his wife (Abigail Spenser). Outside of having blue eyes instead of brown, the girl even looked like Spenser. Jason Bateman's character even asked the exact same question I asked. Even his and her reactions afterwards, where he retreats to another room and she comes rushing in a few seconds later, tying her robe around her and stopping about ten feet away, were identical to how we reacted. Even decades later, watching that seen completely knocked me off center, as if I was reliving it all over again. At the time, it hurt like hell. But, once over the initial shock, I eventually left it behind me and things got better. Years later, I was in even a longer term relationship (engaged, but not married) with a girl who began doing everything in her power to isolate me from friends and family alike. To the point it was becoming toxic. Instead of leaving first, which is what I should have done, I instead found comfort in the arms of a coworker. It was only a few months before I left her but, even if it wasn't technically adultery, cheating on her were some of the worst months of my life. I vowed to never do that again, ever. Not just to another woman, but to myself. But unlike being cheated on, being the cheater is a stain you carry with you forever. It may fade over time, but the guilt and pain of what you did is always there, just beneath the surface. So, if you have any conscience whatsoever, it is emotionally far easier to be cheated on than to be the adulterer/adulteress yourself. I realize that brings small comfort to those who have been cheated on; but I have never the less found it to be true. Not just in my case but in quite a few others I have met throughout the years who have unfortunately made the same mistake. I have also known a few guys who were able to forgive their wives after catching them in affairs. In just about every case, the girl showed honest remorse and guilt. Nearly overwhelming guilt, to the point they became incredibly re-devoted to their husbands. It took a LOT of work on the girls part, working their butts off, to slowly rebuild their love to the point it eventually allowed forgiveness. But trust was far harder to re-earn. In a couple of cases, even years later, I can tell the guys still don't one-hundred percent trust their wives; but they managed to earn enough back to make it work. They had to. Love doesn't last long without at least some trust. I have seen a lot of guys in the same situation, where the girl forgives them, they spend a few years rebuilding that trust, and then they screw it all up again, at which point the girl permanently dumps the loser. I've also seen the wife do that to one or two guy friends (I have a very large circle of friends) but more often, at least from what I have seen, if a guy gives a girl a second chance, she is usually all-in on him from that point on. She doesn't allow herself to be put into a situation that even gives the appearance of that being a possibility again. I realize everyone has different life experiences, but these have been mine.
My unfaithful ex-wife had been rebellious, defensive, and uncooperative since her adultery. I wanted us to make it but she simply wasn't willing to do any work. As a guy, I found it next to impossible to trust her or feel close to her again, although I wanted to try. Maybe she has overwhelming guilt, but you would never know it. By all accounts she has seemed to be doing just fine and is to this day.
Thank you so much for sharing your experiences and perspective... it is very well thought out and transparent! That is exactly what I felt, playing the character in this scene... the guilt and self judgment were eating me up. The boss and I had only had sex once, though he had been consoling me and helping me emotionally through a hard time. I could never forgive myself for letting it go so far... especially with two very young children. The consequences were devastating.
@@wm7929 I'm so sorry for your experience. You are definitely not alone. There are so many unfaithful partners out there who only see the world through their eyes and not the damage they cause to, not only each other, but so many around them. As much as it hurts, you are far better off without her. There is power in forgiveness. Not so much for her as for yourself. If and when you forgive her, you will realize she no longer has any power over you. Putting her behind you, moving on and living well will prove to be catalyst that will changes everything. Wishing all the best...
@@RealKellie And I appreciated the power of the acting from both of you in this scene. It's crushing to think about how many of these conversations happen every night, In living rooms, at kitchen tables, etc. If you haven't seen it yet, I highly recommend watching the movie Unfaithful (2002) with Diane Lane and Richard Gere. How Diane Lane didn't win the Academy Award that year is beyond me. She smashed every other award possible for that role that year. The emotional roller-coaster she goes through as an adulterer is impressive to see. There is some discontinuity at the end of the movie as the director and Richard Gere did not agree with the studio and some producers on how the movie should have ended, and it is very noticeable in the auction scene. The auction scene, and the escape fantasy scene that follows has been put up by another viewer in post on UA-cam. I explain what missing scene they cut out and how that causes the shift to what happened afterwards. I go on to explain the real struggle that they face and what they might potentially go through to find a way to stay together as a couple. It's a little long for UA-cam, but it has been well received and I would love to get your opinion on it, Kellie. Check it out, when you have the time. ua-cam.com/video/8nbPfLKbLTI/v-deo.html
@@HoneyBadger17 Very cool! I will definitely check it out... I have seen that film, but it has been a hot minute, so I will also check that out when I can... It was good acting!
Funny how people can never seem to think beyond the moment when they cheat. No thought for the effect it has on their spouse, the affair partner, or that person's family. Then they cry and want to make it all go away.
As a follower of God, I will do what's right in God's eyes. I have forsaken my lord many times with sin, and I probably will many more. Therefore I will forgive my wife if she asks for forgiveness
@@funkysawmanwright5077 No one is saying that you’re not allowed to forgive your wife. Why not forgive your wife and divorce her, that way she can pursue the person she cheated with?
In this case, she was also devastated by her own actions and had a tremendous amount of self hate and regret... but of course it was too little, too late!
I know!!!! It is amazing how many people search for 'infidelity' or 'my wife cheated on me'. It absolutely shocked me, and has encouraged me to take this channel, and after 15 years, start creating again!
I think what has really spurred the algorithm is the searching for the subject, 'infidelity' and all of the comments that people ( mostly men) who have been cheated on and have something to say about it!
The hurt upon finding out, is devastating to the party hearing the news. Basically, it to my mind means, that the affected party is no longer good enough, hence the transgression was during a planned absence of the affected party.
Especially if they've cheated for a long period of time. They're good on the cheating. They're just sorry they got caught and have to live with the consequences.
Everyman... if a woman cheats. She cheats with her heart first and then sex. She has to have feelings tied to sex. Don't give her a second chance to treat you like fool
They only ever want to work through it if they are caught. Up 'til then everything is so well hidden. I don't understand how people can live two separate lives so honestly to each. The cheated-on never has a cooking clue.
I see that this is an audition scene for a TV show - there must have been some kind of magic that day on the set because the actors delivered an amazing performance. Stephen very believable due to his reserved manner or "under-acting". Once the hammer falls he still keeps it bottled up. Kellie's appearance also adds to the reality - her mussed hair (she just put their child down), lack of make up, sweatshirt. She acts tired like most moms of small kids do at that time of the evening. But you can tell that with some attention she could look pretty. All that makes the betrayal all the more believable and devastating. Super challenging part for Kellie - she has to run through a handful of very strong emotions lastly the realization of hurting her husband and losing her family. bravo to the director and film editor. quite a gem
Wow that is quite the breakdown and analysis! Thank you so much for tuning in and taking the time to go through the layers and nuances of the performance! Very good eye for detail :-)
This is how my wife behaved, when she cheated on me with her boss. But she denied the affair. Even though she confided in her sister that she had an affair.
“I do love you!” Yeah. You love the fact that you’re deceiving me. You love the fact that I have been providing for you. You love the fact that you played me for a fool. “Let’s talk about this!” Right! Let’s talk about how this is “All my fault, and I forced you into this.”. Let’s talk about how “It was a fling, it didn’t mean anything.”. Let’s talk about how if it was I that cheated, YOU’D be screaming for divorce and how you’re going to take me to the cleaners. “I’m sooo sorry!” Yeah, sorry you got caught.
Such as good video that hits home..About the same way I had broken it to my x wife I knew..there was no yelling or cursing...When trust is broken there isn't a fixing it. To this day she still calls & I'm sure she's sorry.. That's over 10 years ago & I'm still gun-shy but that's my problem cause I know there's good women out there
Good women don't cheat trust me..when a women cheat on his man ahe knows that's the most evil thing that she can do to his man..just tell her how you feel.. she have no vlue in you're life I don't know why you western people are so easy on these things..face the fact this is not youre problem some people are just fucked up even if you treat them like a queen they fall for their mental problems hope you find you're real women❤
Mental problems I agree..That was a long time ago .I did like your input though..I really think it's not worth the trouble anymore as I've adjusted to being alone ok.. thanks!!
This was very well acted by both parties & the script was spot on, especially when she laughably tells him she loves him & begs him not to leave - it's amazing how many times a woman will try that...
can't stay with a cheater - when you least expect it the "image" will pop into your head out of nowhere - even years later, holding hands, walking on the beach you'll be interrupted by a flash in your mind. You'll be angry & betrayed all-over again, as if it just happened. Bail.
LOL! I recently found this old channel that I had created just to get links to my work... it was never meant for the public! I honestly don't even know how people found this channel... I took a UA-cam course in Dec. cause I wanted to build a channel and found this old one and thought I would just practice the course assignments on this channel and it made a HUGE difference and really started to grow, so I branded it for the content I want to create going forward and since this has traction, I will just start here.... It really is a funny surprise, and I am absolutely shocked at how many men have something very powerful to say about their personal experience about being cheated on. I want to do some 'follow up' content to this video, because I think men could really use some support and insight from a woman who is not a USER or GOLDDIGGER, and why the woman in this scene cheated, and the true backstory of this particular story.
@@RealKellie ahah. That’s funny & you should make more content, like this, imo. Yeah, many men go through this😞. Maybe the sequel to this could be him finding someone better & she gets insanely jealous🤷♂️. And it’d be cool to see her backstory, though I suspect she wanted to willingly instead of her being blackmailed or “forced” by his boss. Idk, maybe the boss being manipulating kinda invalidates my feelings about this whole thing(bc I’m a man, lol) bc then it would excuse her actions, shifting blame from her to someone else. Either way, good luck!
It is actually not from a movie, it is a scene that we put together for our acting reels! But we are thinking to maybe make a series or short film out of it.
this video is incredibly compelling, and i appreciate the honesty you share. but honestly, i can’t help but wonder if there’s more to the story. sometimes, relationships can be tricky, and there might be underlying issues that led to this situation. it’s easy to point fingers, but maybe both partners should reflect on their roles? just a thought.
Yes you are absolutely correct! there is so much more to the backstory of each character and their relationship... I have actually thought to do a follow up video with Steve to go into that back story! So many have commented that she is a lying, cheating, gold digger ( I guess based on their own experiences); which is far from the truth of her character... she is a devoted wife and mother, but fell into a situation because of the deterioration of their communication and relationship. I was never intended, and it was not an on-going afair ... and still considered her biggest mistake in life.
It is actually not from a movie, it is a scene that we put together for our acting reels! But we are thinking to maybe make a series or short film out of it.
He responded the only way he should. Don't listen to their lies and excuses about why they did it. Don't listen to their phony apologies and them saying " we can get past this ". They are not the ones who have been cheated on. They don't give a rats a$$ about you or your feelings. Leave them for the streets and get on with your life without them.
I just hate cheaters no matter what they think their reasons are to make it right- it’s never right- it’s always wrong and this is base on their other half as been nothing but faithful- why in the hell they want to destroy a relationship like that?
Too True! There is no reason that make any of it "Right", and things happen that cause people to do things that they regret for the rest of their lives.
I remember the quote of some cheating story, "why cheater always cry when they get caught? This is the worst thing. If the feeling is so unpleasant, for God's sake DON'T CHEAT!".
I caught my wife cheating , and I’m the one who got screwed . Fast forward 20 years , and I’m doing great . No ill will towards her , but it was the lowest time in my life .
I'm so sorry for the rough time you went through... but it is great to hear that you have recovered and are doing well. It says so much about your character and self awareness to be able to forgive and release the pain. So many commenting here still have so much pain and anger... It really shocks and saddens me that so many men are suffering from infidelity!
It is actually not from a movie, it is a scene that we put together for our acting reels! But we are thinking to maybe make a series or short film out of it.
My kids mom got pregnant by another dude while we were married., I divorced her and lost everything., court didn’t give a shit and she got custody and skipped the state., 1998. She’s on husband 6 1/2 now., which means husband number 6 but separated. Amazing she still thinks she’s ok and all the dudes were the problem.,
It is actually not from a movie, it is a scene that we put together for our acting reels! But we are thinking to maybe make a series or short film out of it.
Very good script too. Really liked the meaningful pauses. Far superior to the narrative cheating stories that are turned out today by the dozen. If you have the motivation I encourage you to do more short focussed sketches. Well done. Martin UK
@@martinlamaison Thanks! We are definitely thinking about it... you might want to check out a couple of the other short scenes on this channel 😀 Here is another look at infidelity... ua-cam.com/video/IhBu0tUyH7M/v-deo.htmlsi=lDGciWokQrBUOcG1
@@RealKellie watched who’s cheating who. very subtle had to watch it twice to realise what was going on!!! Another clever script. You are very creative
Going through this. Only her two friends knows about it and nobody, literally no one. I didn't talk to anyone about it just so that People don't point fingers at her.
Thanks so much for watching!! We are thinking to develop the story and shoot some more... if you are interested in seeing more as we develop it, just subscribe and hit the bell for notifications! :-)
Yes!!! we were both in Cupsize as well... that is where Steve and I first met, and then we realized that we were both graduates of the Sanford Meisner School. A very specific acting technique based on creating and 'living' organic moments.
married 4 times... airline pilots are gone a lot and usually flying on the back side of the clock... BUT... I finally found the right one in 1985... she's pouring our drinks now, and I have been retired for some time... find the right one and its worth it.
I came across a few cases of infidelity in my circle of friends and family and in all cases the wife/husband and their AP divorced their spouses and live happily ever after. No remorse whatsoever. Sorry English is not my mother language.
They don’t really care they cheat on you cause they don’t respect you. They have an old saying “what you don’t know won’t hurt you “and they think you’ll never find out. and they have another saying” it’s just as easy to fall in love with a rich man as it is a poor man“ . So get one good punch in because you’ll regret it if you don’t and then leave and take everything with you because you can bet she will.
This is actually a scene that Steve and I put together for our acting reels... it is not from a film, though we are thinking to maybe write a continuation in the form of a short film or series.
Sorry! It is actually not from a movie, it is a scene that we put together for our acting reels! But we are thinking to maybe make a series or short film out of it.
It should be possible for adults to neither act in the first flush of emotion nor make irreversible decisions. And as an adult, you may also have learned that humans are people who disappoint each other. Inevitably. This does not mean that cheating is a small thing and can always be forgiven and thus remain without consequences. But you could first check whether you are really the one who has been crushed by fate, or whether more mature behavior is possible. In any case, the man reacts like a child who has had his favorite toy taken away. For adults, this is a lecture on the relation between wishes and consequences, not a lecture on morals.
That is a really well thought out and emotionally intelligent response! It is interesting to see all of the comment by men here who have experienced varying degrees of betrayal... and yes many respond in a very child-like, victim way. There are so many events and aspects that lead up to such a drastic result... many layers to unwind and everyone must look at their own part and take responsibility.
It's never the cheater who goes through hell... it's the one who was cheated on. No talking, no counseling, just leave them.
I know from experience that counseling is a waste of time.
Tried that, didn't work and then you feel worse. Now you wonder if there is someone that you will ever trust again! Simply because it happened to you. Get out of the relationship and do something for yourself, get as far away as you can!! Believe me I know and it feel that someone cut your heart out with a dull knife. 👀
Absolutely!!!
When people cheat and when they decide to do it is it choice but once you cross that threshold there is no going back to that person and I want that trust is gone it's gone you can never get it back
Exactly, when your partner cheats on you, he/she is not only breaking the sacred bond of trust, but is compromising a holy relationship of a husband and a wife. Cheating is a choice, it is a sin, a cardinal sin.
Never ever forgive cheaters, whether man or woman.
"At least you can't say I'm a liar."
Spoken like a true adultress.
Tried to make light of it. Such an idiot. Marriage doesn't mean anything to her. I'm hoping he is running out instead of walking out, just sayin'
But you can say she's a cheating whore.
She lied hundreds, perhaps thousands of times.
@@user-OJBB I was thinking the same thing. She's disgusting.
😂😂
What's even worse is when you KNOW that she has cheated on you and she sits there and plain face denies it. It's amazing how in a brief moment you can go from loving someone and wanting to be with them and then not wanting anything to do with them.
Such a thin line between love and hate!
@@RealKellieTrue, but its not necessarily hate or even unforgiveness...
. . if you Recognize the marital covenant is RESOLVED, (nothing less) if a wife (willfully), even if drunk, stoned, or whatever......
....Engages (WITH) HIM, in that ultimate level of intimacy... referred to biblically, as "Knowing" her.
The "Marital Covenant" is a sexual Covenant.
Sex consumates the marriage.
Sex with snither resolves the marital covenant. Plain & simple.
Every other Covenant man can and does make, is NOT a SEXUAL Covenant..
Men, If your girlfriend or wife has physically cheated (just once), and you are absolutely positive...put her away!!!
Forgive her, for YOUR souls sake, even love her soul...but DO NOT have sex with her ever again.
You're one flesh with Belial, if you do.
@@RealKellie I get the gist of your post but I wouldn't use the word hate to describe the emotion felt in this situation. As he said in the video, it's a loss of respect which plays out as indifference to the cheater. There's pain of course and definite moments of anger. But all that eventually passes. What endures the most (for me) is indifference because you can never look at the other person the same way ever again.
Lol wears a necklace another man bought her and doesn't expect the husband to notice 😂😂😂. And he can still call you a liar cause you are. Admitting the fact after having lied about it for how long doesn't change the fact you still lied.
I can relate. Been There. Remember this my friends. Know your worth. Stay Blessed Everyone.
Here is another video showing self-worth when faced with infidelity! ua-cam.com/video/IhBu0tUyH7M/v-deo.html
I never doubted my self worth. It had so little to do with me. She'd cut off sex long before. That bothered me most, but again not in terms of self worth.
I have known since my twenties what I have available to me sexually. I've never cheated, nor do I want to.
I want sex, sure. But honestly my self esteem would suffer more if I cheated than from anything else. I can't imagine feeling good about myself with anyone who would be with me when I'm a married guy with kids.
Yikes! Who does that?
Well...actually, I know what kind of person does that 😂😂
@mfawls9624 I'm a married guy with teenage kids. The thought of hurting my wife and destroying her trust in me is enough for me to repel any woman who looks twice at me.
I usually take it as a cue to talk non stop about my lovely wife and kids until I see the interest drain right out of their expression... works great to get rid of gay guys trying to chat me up too (bring up the wife and kids and they can't get away from me fast enough 😅😅😅)
@@davidhenningson4782 🤣🤣🤣the gay guys too😂 I got a haircut from one once. Called me a man-thing, told me I couldn't look any better when I first sat down😂 Was worried the whole salon might go up in flames from that dude.
It always puzzled me how much fun they made of Mike Pence and his not allowing himself to being alone with women other than his wife.
@@mfawls9624 I guess Mike Pence doesn't trust himself around other women besides his wife. Bit insecure that way.
Having an affair with the husbands boss has to add another level of disrespect to the betrayal. That is so hard to imagine.
Akin to sleeping with his brother. That would be even worse.
Not with women. They don't have a conscience
@@Cooldaddio2or his father.
@@Cooldaddio2 Agreed! a close friend or family member would be devastating!
At least she didn’t sleep with his subordinates. 🤪
She’s soooo sorry...that she got caught.
Straight from SSM!
But but it wasn't my fault....these women are pathetic
@@vegasmike4610 Same Sex Marriage?
She's sorry because she has a problem and can't fix the problem.
@@mountainguyed67 UA-camr Strong Successful Male
Imagine being at work to provide for your family and the woman you love is spread out by your boss.
That has to be the biggest betrayal ever.
#truth
Basically, she isn't made to, but more than happy to. Such a slut, plain and simple! 🤔
... you don't want to be 'my boss' in that scenario... I have Viking blood🤨
Vikingi astia, dupa 40 de ani glumesc singuri nu cu nevasta. Evident ca femeia cauta!!!!
@m400067 det ar inte sant😅 My wife isn't looking and I'm nearly 50
I’ve been through this and the best way to handle it is to never speak to that person again and the best revenge is to go and have the best life you can. There is nothing to discuss there is nothing to try and understand you have been deeply betrayed and it is completely over there’s nothing to work through walk away with your dignity and avoid all legal repercussions and never speak to that person again.
Wish you all the happiness in the world in the next chapter of your life.
In this case, it is a bit more difficult, with two very young children 2 and 4... their lives will be entwined to some degree forever.... or not!
@@RealKellie keep your head up there are good people out there. I admit to struggling to find them. But I have absolutely promised myself no low hanging fruit! If I’m going to invest my time and energy and resources and open my heart I want quality! I really do hope you find happiness. It helps to focus on personal growth and understanding the world around you. God bless and please be safe and have a wonderful wonderful life!
@@oneanddonetzone3673 Amen! I was at a friends wedding years ago, and the groom said something in his vows that has changed my view of relationships forever.... "I spent all of my time and energy becoming the person that I wanted in my life, growing into the best version of me that would attract the exact person that I wanted to share my life with." When we raise our vibrations, we attract those of equal caliber! Many blessings to you for happiness and fulfilment!
@@RealKellie Thank you!
I know this video is 14 years old, but I did find it interesting. The male actor in this drama and the subject matter reminded me of a story going back almost 20 years. In this case, the confrontation happened in the lobby of a hotel near downtown Atlanta. The husband in this case was in his mid-40s at the time and a classmate of mine during our time attending Georgia Tech. I was sitting across from him as we both were drinking coffee. I followed his then-wife as she and her AP entered the elevator and called my friend. We spent those hours talking about old times and his early years married to her. Talked about their two daughters then in College. One was at Duke University to become a Medical Doctor and the other daughter was attending Georgia Tech. Both of us were positioned so we could see the elevators. It was about 9PM when they came down. She was smiling and all happy until she got about 3 or 4 feet from the elevator. My friend did not say a word to her. He just took off his ring and tossed it to her. Both of us walked out and walked to my car. Thankfully she was in such a state of shock she froze for long enough for us to get out. I never found out who the AP was. Both daughters still love their mother but are not as close to her as they are to the father.
Wow what a heartbreaking story! Yes, I believe that infidelity is something you can never really recover from.
@@RealKellie That's the bitter truth. Suppose we want to give it another chance; for whatever reason, this wound will never fully heal. I saw and experienced painful moments. Certain reproaches, recollections of memories.
@@yosiw9298 I'm so sorry for your painful moments. 😢
It changes you. I was never the "same" after I caught my wife together with someone who pretended to be a "friend". Then there's the divorce; and the two children were very yong at the time. Both under the age of 6. Ironically, after some time passed, those two split up; couldn't make it work even after all of that. I stayed single for many years after that. But yeah, the whole thing changed me. Changed my life.
@@johnwithrow2795 I am so sorry, yes it does change you! A piece of your soul dies and your faith in humanity, and ability to trust is damaged forever.
"at least you can't say that i am a liar".... comedy gold lol.
Lol, she lied every day,with every action.
It's not the first time she cheated. It's the first time you caught her.
Your relationship will never be the same
Yep! That is what is so heartbreaking for everyone involved!
There is no longer a relationship, just ashes. A drunken accidental loss of your senses is on thing. A deliberate on going affair where there is a supportive loving spouse is beyond contemptible and and an absolute betrayal. Walk !!! Nothing to salvage except what’s left of your self respect
Kelle thanks for channel.
They only care when you get the courage to leave them...
All women think "im sorry" is like a get out jail free card
Funny, I've never heard the words "I'm sorry" from women who have wronged me.
i think that is cuz they get one sorry card per lifetime and they know how so many times they will need it
Sorry she got caught!
Nope.....after THAT......that's a "get out of the house" card.🤔
"I'm so sorry, baby, I'll never hit you again."
Stop your bullshit. If you're a person who sucks, you suck. Your gender doesn't matter.
Poor guy!!!! I hate seeing people cheated on. Just be honest with someone and leave before breaking their hearts! Some people will love you to the point of insanity. 😢 Real love is special.
Why is she acting like she’s shocked? Everyone knows the risk when they cheat and yet everyone is surprised when they get caught. Ridiculous. Most people are still children.
True! Though in this scene...it really was not her intention to 'cheat'.
She and the boss were both going through very hard, painful times, and found friendship and support with each other. One night, he had taken her to dinner to say thank you for all of help and he had gotten her a neckless; they let their feeling get caught up and both let things go too far. She was immediately ashamed, and broke off all communication.
She tried even harder to reach out to Jamie, and re kindle their relationship (he had shut her out emotionally because of something that he was hiding); but it was too late.
It is something that she to this day classifies as her single biggest mistake in life.
Sorry. I’m a firm believer that it isn’t what you say that defines you. It’s what you do. Besides, I really can’t care that she was having a bad time. She should’ve remembered her vows. That’s why they take them. If she wanted to be led around by her emotions and make choices like that, she didn’t need to be in a marriage in the first place. And as far as regretting, it wasn’t like she was tricked into bed by someone. Cheating is not a mistake. It’s a choice. And I say that as someone who has never cheated. And never will.
@@RealKellie Sorry....the "hard painful times" excuse just isn't gonna cut it. Cheating is not about intentions. It's an active choice. Not like she momentarily forgot she had a husband & kids at home. The proof is how she reacted here. She knew exactly what she was doing.
Cheating has no excuses madame @@RealKellie
“I’m the one leaving but you’re the one who walked out.”
I was absolutely disgusted with my niece when i found out she cheated on her husband during the first year of their marriage. They had a big Catholic wedding and put on quite the show. After the affair they went through counseling and had three kids before getting divorced. Who suffers the most? Their kids.
So sad... it is becoming more and more prevalent!
Paternity test?
Wait l, maybe I’m misreading it. He discovered she was a cheater then instead of getting a divorce, he decided to do counseling and have three children with her?
If that’s the case, I don’t feel bad for him because that’s exactly what he signed up for. Don’t feel disgusted by your niece, she disrespected him and he stayed and didn’t make her pay the consequences by divorcing her, so that ultimately his fault. Question is, are those three children actually his?
@@standground8284 It was a big Catholic wedding in a small town. What would everyone think if they got divorced? Divorce is a no no if you're Catholic. But yes, they went to counseling and had three kids but ended up divorced anyway. And I really couldn't tell you if all three kids are his. They moved away and got divorced after about 15 years. I get where you're coming from about not feeling sorry for her husband but I'm disgusted and ashamed because this was my niece and they put on a big production of a wedding. It was all a show.
@@jonw.3886 Honestly, someone leaving a cheater should not care what anyone thinks or says. People outside the relationship always has something to say either way and you should never let them dictate your life. I find that most weddings are people putting on a show with no intentions to actually honor their vows. Anytime some cheats and able to stay, the relationship deteriorates inevitable at some point. People who say “Their was infidelity and we’re now happy” don’t move me in the slightest. It’s usually because the cheater knows you’ll tolerate disrespect so they’ll do a better job hiding the cheating. Either way, hopefully your nieces children learn a thing or two about being faithful and not tolerating cheating.l
Amazing how this film manages (or deliberately) to portray Jamie as the bad guy. Amazing. This is the world we live in.
I don't think it's portraying him as the bad guy. He's doing what any normal human would do. Leaving the garden tool to rot in the shed of her making.
Beyond horrible.
I didn’t see it that way at all.
Both characters are hurt. Trust is gone.
I didn’t see it that way. Funny that you would.
They're never sorry until they're caught!
It was all my fault. After 17 years of marriage I had totally neglected my wife's sexual needs. I had forgotten to hug her, cop a feel as I walked by etc. No wonder she was susceptible to a black fellow worker. He knew she was starved for affection. He knew exactly how to get her horny & needy. We soon will have a new baby. A black child. All my own damn fault.
Single guys like me that are constantly in pain while being a man against the world…..
It could always be worse. I can’t imagine how awful this would be.
“Once a Cheat, all ways a Cheat “
hence get a prenup
That's true, I caught my wife cheating. I chose to forgive her 20 years later, she filed for divorce. I was extremely upset. My daughter then confided she had been cheating for years, with many different people. Wow, I was blind and a fool.
@@rogerledoux4741Don't wary baddy enjoy your rest of the life with full of happiness
God bless you
Fact
@@rogerledoux4741Never ever forgive a cheater. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
It doesn't matter if he/her doesn't cheat anymore. The deal is he/her disrespected you in the worst way possible, and that would stay forever in your life. No matter what.
Unfortunately I've been in his shoes. I'm glad I had the nerve to divorce her
You did the right thing brother. You can't present your back for a second stabbing.
Me too unfortunately I dragged it out way longer than I should have thinking it could be fixed; the only result was she cheated more and I lost all self respect. The only way to get it back is to break it off and rebuild yourself better; I should have done it years prior. Consulation prize three years later I am on top of the world and my ex's life has become a dumpster fire. Sometimes what goes around does come around.
Can't go back once the bond is broken.
Soooo true!!! once broken, there is no going back!
I know what it’s like to be cheated on. It’s horrible. I’ve been struggling with it for almost 2 years. But I decided to move on to find the special someone that won’t do that to me. I won’t lie and say they love you and they don’t. But now I learn from that mistake to marry someone that wasn’t very faithful to you. I came to realize. That he can’t just sit in the past and think about how your ex cheated on you. Eventually, it’s gonna happen to them because cheaters will find love and then their new spouse will cheat on them..
@@RealKellieShe said " I love you so much but I fucked with another man "
WHAT'S LOGIC IS THIS ?????
Met my wife when we where 14. I can't imagine this happening. We have been married
34 years, 3 kids, 2 grands. We both are true to our faith which holds us true to
each other!
Plus we are kindred spirits! Born the same day, same year! Crazy huh?
it means NOTHING to a cheater
That is really beautiful!! There is hope in the world for true love and commitment!!! Congratulations! Thank you for sharing!
Me to 12 and 13 I love her but she doesn't love me. Now it's over at. 74😥
My second wife cheated on me and then tried to make it seem like it was my fault..
I'm so sorry! that sucks.
Harpies do that. Marriage is a one time event.
Of course they always let her go she's not worth the headache
I have experienced this from both sides. When I was younger, my first serious long-term relationship with the girl I thought I was going to marry ended when I unexpectedly dropped in at her home in the middle of the afternoon and caught her in bed with another man. It was eerily similar to the opening scene in the 2014 movie "This is Where I Leave You", where Jason Bateman comes home early and walks in on his boss (Dax Shepard) laying an absolute pounding down on his wife (Abigail Spenser). Outside of having blue eyes instead of brown, the girl even looked like Spenser. Jason Bateman's character even asked the exact same question I asked. Even his and her reactions afterwards, where he retreats to another room and she comes rushing in a few seconds later, tying her robe around her and stopping about ten feet away, were identical to how we reacted. Even decades later, watching that seen completely knocked me off center, as if I was reliving it all over again. At the time, it hurt like hell. But, once over the initial shock, I eventually left it behind me and things got better.
Years later, I was in even a longer term relationship (engaged, but not married) with a girl who began doing everything in her power to isolate me from friends and family alike. To the point it was becoming toxic. Instead of leaving first, which is what I should have done, I instead found comfort in the arms of a coworker. It was only a few months before I left her but, even if it wasn't technically adultery, cheating on her were some of the worst months of my life. I vowed to never do that again, ever. Not just to another woman, but to myself. But unlike being cheated on, being the cheater is a stain you carry with you forever. It may fade over time, but the guilt and pain of what you did is always there, just beneath the surface. So, if you have any conscience whatsoever, it is emotionally far easier to be cheated on than to be the adulterer/adulteress yourself. I realize that brings small comfort to those who have been cheated on; but I have never the less found it to be true. Not just in my case but in quite a few others I have met throughout the years who have unfortunately made the same mistake.
I have also known a few guys who were able to forgive their wives after catching them in affairs. In just about every case, the girl showed honest remorse and guilt. Nearly overwhelming guilt, to the point they became incredibly re-devoted to their husbands. It took a LOT of work on the girls part, working their butts off, to slowly rebuild their love to the point it eventually allowed forgiveness. But trust was far harder to re-earn. In a couple of cases, even years later, I can tell the guys still don't one-hundred percent trust their wives; but they managed to earn enough back to make it work. They had to. Love doesn't last long without at least some trust. I have seen a lot of guys in the same situation, where the girl forgives them, they spend a few years rebuilding that trust, and then they screw it all up again, at which point the girl permanently dumps the loser. I've also seen the wife do that to one or two guy friends (I have a very large circle of friends) but more often, at least from what I have seen, if a guy gives a girl a second chance, she is usually all-in on him from that point on. She doesn't allow herself to be put into a situation that even gives the appearance of that being a possibility again. I realize everyone has different life experiences, but these have been mine.
My unfaithful ex-wife had been rebellious, defensive, and uncooperative since her adultery. I wanted us to make it but she simply wasn't willing to do any work. As a guy, I found it next to impossible to trust her or feel close to her again, although I wanted to try. Maybe she has overwhelming guilt, but you would never know it. By all accounts she has seemed to be doing just fine and is to this day.
Thank you so much for sharing your experiences and perspective... it is very well thought out and transparent! That is exactly what I felt, playing the character in this scene... the guilt and self judgment were eating me up. The boss and I had only had sex once, though he had been consoling me and helping me emotionally through a hard time. I could never forgive myself for letting it go so far... especially with two very young children. The consequences were devastating.
@@wm7929 I'm so sorry for your experience. You are definitely not alone. There are so many unfaithful partners out there who only see the world through their eyes and not the damage they cause to, not only each other, but so many around them. As much as it hurts, you are far better off without her. There is power in forgiveness. Not so much for her as for yourself. If and when you forgive her, you will realize she no longer has any power over you. Putting her behind you, moving on and living well will prove to be catalyst that will changes everything. Wishing all the best...
@@RealKellie And I appreciated the power of the acting from both of you in this scene. It's crushing to think about how many of these conversations happen every night, In living rooms, at kitchen tables, etc. If you haven't seen it yet, I highly recommend watching the movie Unfaithful (2002) with Diane Lane and Richard Gere. How Diane Lane didn't win the Academy Award that year is beyond me. She smashed every other award possible for that role that year. The emotional roller-coaster she goes through as an adulterer is impressive to see. There is some discontinuity at the end of the movie as the director and Richard Gere did not agree with the studio and some producers on how the movie should have ended, and it is very noticeable in the auction scene. The auction scene, and the escape fantasy scene that follows has been put up by another viewer in post on UA-cam. I explain what missing scene they cut out and how that causes the shift to what happened afterwards. I go on to explain the real struggle that they face and what they might potentially go through to find a way to stay together as a couple. It's a little long for UA-cam, but it has been well received and I would love to get your opinion on it, Kellie. Check it out, when you have the time.
ua-cam.com/video/8nbPfLKbLTI/v-deo.html
@@HoneyBadger17 Very cool! I will definitely check it out... I have seen that film, but it has been a hot minute, so I will also check that out when I can... It was good acting!
This is the best clip I have seen; The actors are excellent.
Thanks so much Yosi!! We appreciate your feedback!!🥰
More like this please.
Not actors
Funny how people can never seem to think beyond the moment when they cheat. No thought for the effect it has on their spouse, the affair partner, or that person's family. Then they cry and want to make it all go away.
Soooo true! When we realize the impact our actions have on those we truly love... it's too late!
As a follower of God, I will do what's right in God's eyes. I have forsaken my lord many times with sin, and I probably will many more. Therefore I will forgive my wife if she asks for forgiveness
@@funkysawmanwright5077 Then as God does with you personally, expect her to sin (cheat) against you again.
@@RealKellieExcept if she truly loved, she would not harm. Can't have it both ways.
@@funkysawmanwright5077 No one is saying that you’re not allowed to forgive your wife. Why not forgive your wife and divorce her, that way she can pursue the person she cheated with?
THE REAL PROBLEM IS, UNLIKE THIS WOMAN, THEY NEVER SAY "I'M SORRY."
Very true, its never their fault
In this case, she was also devastated by her own actions and had a tremendous amount of self hate and regret... but of course it was too little, too late!
This video is 15 years old and it randomly pops up. UA-cam algorithm works in mysterious ways…
How the random pop up works is interesting.
Are these incidents going to happen again in the future or happening again ?
@@extra2ab that’s a really good, thought provoking question 🤔
I know!!!! It is amazing how many people search for 'infidelity' or 'my wife cheated on me'. It absolutely shocked me, and has encouraged me to take this channel, and after 15 years, start creating again!
I think what has really spurred the algorithm is the searching for the subject, 'infidelity' and all of the comments that people ( mostly men) who have been cheated on and have something to say about it!
@@RealKellie interesting. You’re probably right.
"Let's just talk about this"...
Guaranteed you'll hear that line when they get busted.
This is exactly how my wife acted when she got caught and exactly how I felt about her before she cheated
hope shes an ex
Yet you still call her wife 😂😂😂
Man I hope you will find happiness whatever your decision
Remember God was also put to such bad circumstances... we need to have patience... god will punish her
@@swabhiman_1998--- Yes , and in a way you will never imagine.Romans 3.23
He will always, have doubts about any female from here on out. No brag just fact, so sad!👀🤔
Rent, don't buy, guys.
Severely underestimated epic statement right here fellas
@neo87011 Or Caveot Emptor
The hurt upon finding out, is devastating to the party hearing the news.
Basically, it to my mind means, that the affected party is no longer good enough,
hence the transgression was during a planned absence of the affected party.
Cheating is never a mistake. It's always an intent.They always say they're sorry for cheating. What they're really sorry for is getting caught.
Especially if they've cheated for a long period of time. They're good on the cheating. They're just sorry they got caught and have to live with the consequences.
Everyman... if a woman cheats. She cheats with her heart first and then sex. She has to have feelings tied to sex. Don't give her a second chance to treat you like fool
End “no fault” divorce.
She is never sorry for cheating; she is only sorry that she got caught.
Really well acted. Good chemistry.... very believable.
@blazerprophet thanks so much!!🙏🏻😘
@@kelliekoppelgood job. Very believable scene 💪💪
Thank you so much!
I'm not a film sophisticate, but the acting here is sublime.
Thanks So Much For Dropping In and Watching!
They only ever want to work through it if they are caught. Up 'til then everything is so well hidden. I don't understand how people can live two separate lives so honestly to each. The cheated-on never has a cooking clue.
I see that this is an audition scene for a TV show - there must have been some kind of magic that day on the set because the actors delivered an amazing performance. Stephen very believable due to his reserved manner or "under-acting". Once the hammer falls he still keeps it bottled up. Kellie's appearance also adds to the reality - her mussed hair (she just put their child down), lack of make up, sweatshirt. She acts tired like most moms of small kids do at that time of the evening. But you can tell that with some attention she could look pretty. All that makes the betrayal all the more believable and devastating. Super challenging part for Kellie - she has to run through a handful of very strong emotions lastly the realization of hurting her husband and losing her family. bravo to the director and film editor. quite a gem
Wow that is quite the breakdown and analysis! Thank you so much for tuning in and taking the time to go through the layers and nuances of the performance! Very good eye for detail :-)
I love how the audio sounds like it was recorded yesterday and the video actually looks 15 years old
Cheating is a choice not mistake
Yep... it is an unfortunate choice that has consequences for the rest of the entire family's lives!
This is how my wife behaved, when she cheated on me with her boss.
But she denied the affair.
Even though she confided in her sister that she had an affair.
“I do love you!”
Yeah. You love the fact that you’re deceiving me. You love the fact that I have been providing for you. You love the fact that you played me for a fool.
“Let’s talk about this!”
Right! Let’s talk about how this is “All my fault, and I forced you into this.”. Let’s talk about how “It was a fling, it didn’t mean anything.”. Let’s talk about how if it was I that cheated, YOU’D be screaming for divorce and how you’re going to take me to the cleaners.
“I’m sooo sorry!”
Yeah, sorry you got caught.
LOL! Great subtitles!!
This.
It's not the first time she cheated. It's the first time she got caught.
Such as good video that hits home..About the same way I had broken it to my x wife I knew..there was no yelling or cursing...When trust is broken there isn't a fixing it. To this day she still calls & I'm sure she's sorry.. That's over 10 years ago & I'm still gun-shy but that's my problem cause I know there's good women out there
Good women don't cheat trust me..when a women cheat on his man ahe knows that's the most evil thing that she can do to his man..just tell her how you feel.. she have no vlue in you're life I don't know why you western people are so easy on these things..face the fact this is not youre problem some people are just fucked up even if you treat them like a queen they fall for their mental problems hope you find you're real women❤
Mental problems I agree..That was a long time ago .I did like your input though..I really think it's not worth the trouble anymore as I've adjusted to being alone ok.. thanks!!
Not a liar, but she was lying whilst having the affair.
Not every liar is an adulterer... But every adulterer is a liar...
That is true... and every lie eats away at the very fabric of the relationship!
I maybe Leaving this House
But
You're The one who's walked Out of this Marriage
-Quote from the Man Who's In pain
This was very well acted by both parties & the script was spot on, especially when she laughably tells him she loves him & begs him not to leave - it's amazing how many times a woman will try that...
Thank you so very much! Would you like to see more scenes like this?
@@RealKellie Yes I would even if it breaks my heart every time !
@@RealKellie YES. Very well done. 14 years ago and I'm just seeing it.
That's exactly how my wife acted when she got caught. And exactly how I felt about her before her cheating
@@mrchevy73 any updates
can't stay with a cheater - when you least expect it the "image" will pop into your head out of nowhere - even years later, holding hands, walking on the beach you'll be interrupted by a flash in your mind. You'll be angry & betrayed all-over again, as if it just happened. Bail.
The only women I've ever known to be faithful, were my female dogs.
That is 100% true. Jade was the only faithful female I've ever known. I miss you!
You’re still replying to comments after 15 years. Awesome.
LOL! I recently found this old channel that I had created just to get links to my work... it was never meant for the public! I honestly don't even know how people found this channel... I took a UA-cam course in Dec. cause I wanted to build a channel and found this old one and thought I would just practice the course assignments on this channel and it made a HUGE difference and really started to grow, so I branded it for the content I want to create going forward and since this has traction, I will just start here.... It really is a funny surprise, and I am absolutely shocked at how many men have something very powerful to say about their personal experience about being cheated on. I want to do some 'follow up' content to this video, because I think men could really use some support and insight from a woman who is not a USER or GOLDDIGGER, and why the woman in this scene cheated, and the true backstory of this particular story.
@@RealKellie ahah. That’s funny & you should make more content, like this, imo.
Yeah, many men go through this😞. Maybe the sequel to this could be him finding someone better & she gets insanely jealous🤷♂️. And it’d be cool to see her backstory, though I suspect she wanted to willingly instead of her being blackmailed or “forced” by his boss. Idk, maybe the boss being manipulating kinda invalidates my feelings about this whole thing(bc I’m a man, lol) bc then it would excuse her actions, shifting blame from her to someone else.
Either way, good luck!
Which movie I want to see it complete
It is actually not from a movie, it is a scene that we put together for our acting reels! But we are thinking to maybe make a series or short film out of it.
Ok
this video is incredibly compelling, and i appreciate the honesty you share. but honestly, i can’t help but wonder if there’s more to the story. sometimes, relationships can be tricky, and there might be underlying issues that led to this situation. it’s easy to point fingers, but maybe both partners should reflect on their roles? just a thought.
Yes you are absolutely correct! there is so much more to the backstory of each character and their relationship... I have actually thought to do a follow up video with Steve to go into that back story! So many have commented that she is a lying, cheating, gold digger ( I guess based on their own experiences); which is far from the truth of her character... she is a devoted wife and mother, but fell into a situation because of the deterioration of their communication and relationship. I was never intended, and it was not an on-going afair ... and still considered her biggest mistake in life.
What is this movie name
It is actually not from a movie, it is a scene that we put together for our acting reels! But we are thinking to maybe make a series or short film out of it.
Getting caught is a breathe of fresh air!
He responded the only way he should. Don't listen to their lies and excuses about why they did it. Don't listen to their phony apologies and them saying " we can get past this ". They are not the ones who have been cheated on. They don't give a rats a$$ about you or your feelings. Leave them for the streets and get on with your life without them.
Notice how much he had to expose before she admitted
Infidelity is a bad thing, it cannot be forgiven, it is like a disease that is difficult to cure
Once trust is lost... everything is eroded.
@@kelliekoppel ,Because cheating is a choice, not a mistake, and choices must have consequences.
Don't do that, poor broken heart
and,,don't even think about dividing your heart
@@kelliekoppel There is only one heart, and one forever
I just hate cheaters no matter what they think their reasons are to make it right- it’s never right- it’s always wrong and this is base on their other half as been nothing but faithful- why in the hell they want to destroy a relationship like that?
Too True! There is no reason that make any of it "Right", and things happen that cause people to do things that they regret for the rest of their lives.
Fix the divorce laws and she is the one who has to leave
can you please show more videos like this !!!!!
Sure! Thanks for watching!!! Do you want more specifically on infidelity, or relationships, or just dramatic 'life' scenes?
Great acting, thanks.
Thank you so much! Check out some of the other videos on this channel! I will also be creating more content this next year!
ua-cam.com/video/IhBu0tUyH7M/v-deo.html Try this one out... a twist on infidelity!
I remember the quote of some cheating story, "why cheater always cry when they get caught? This is the worst thing. If the feeling is so unpleasant, for God's sake DON'T CHEAT!".
Unfortunately there is no thought about the consequences until it's too late.
@@RealKellie True. It's all fun and games until they get caught and face the consequences.
Accountability is like kryptonite to women.
Sue your boss and company for alienation of affection. Most companies have a zero tolerance for abuse of power.
I caught my wife cheating , and I’m the one who got screwed . Fast forward 20 years , and I’m doing great . No ill will towards her , but it was the lowest time in my life .
I'm so sorry for the rough time you went through... but it is great to hear that you have recovered and are doing well. It says so much about your character and self awareness to be able to forgive and release the pain. So many commenting here still have so much pain and anger... It really shocks and saddens me that so many men are suffering from infidelity!
Jaime is one of the good ones. Good guys are very difficult to find. Wife really messed up
What is the name of the movie / series?
It is actually not from a movie, it is a scene that we put together for our acting reels! But we are thinking to maybe make a series or short film out of it.
She's only sorry she was caught. #femalenature
They wasn’t sleeping! Lol
why do people confuse sex with sleeping? who has sex in their sleep?
OK not the conversation to have the night before you are going for an interview...
I cheated on you, we need counseling. Classic
Don’t do anything for anyone who treats you that way.
My kids mom got pregnant by another dude while we were married., I divorced her and lost everything., court didn’t give a shit and she got custody and skipped the state., 1998. She’s on husband 6 1/2 now., which means husband number 6 but separated. Amazing she still thinks she’s ok and all the dudes were the problem.,
WOW WOW WOW! That is horrible, I am so sorry for you... it sounds like she definitely has issues and you dodged a bullet there!
@@RealKelliedidn’t dodge any bullet. Had kids, I lost kids and everything else.,
What’s the name of the program plz
It is actually not from a movie, it is a scene that we put together for our acting reels! But we are thinking to maybe make a series or short film out of it.
Brilliant acting
Awe, thank you so very much! We had a great time shooting this! We are thinking to maybe write and shoot additional scenes as a follow up.
Very good script too. Really liked the meaningful pauses. Far superior to the narrative cheating stories that are turned out today by the dozen. If you have the motivation I encourage you to do more short focussed sketches. Well done. Martin UK
@@martinlamaison Thanks! We are definitely thinking about it... you might want to check out a couple of the other short scenes on this channel 😀 Here is another look at infidelity... ua-cam.com/video/IhBu0tUyH7M/v-deo.htmlsi=lDGciWokQrBUOcG1
@@RealKellie watched who’s cheating who. very subtle had to watch it twice to realise what was going on!!! Another clever script. You are very creative
Nice work Kellie! 🎭
Thank you!! 😁 How nice to see you!!! What is up in your world???
movie name?
Avengers infinity war
@@janjosiahelimanco9955 it’s end game bitch
Going through this. Only her two friends knows about it and nobody, literally no one. I didn't talk to anyone about it just so that People don't point fingers at her.
I'm so sorry that you are going through this; and with the grace to keep it private, says a lot about your character!
powerful. well done.
Thanks so much for watching!! We are thinking to develop the story and shoot some more... if you are interested in seeing more as we develop it, just subscribe and hit the bell for notifications! :-)
@@RealKellie That would be really cool.
I always want to ask cheaters who get caught, "Was it worth it? Look at this irreversible destruction you caused! Was feeding your ego worth this?"
Never worth it!!! especially with two young children, whose lives you have changed forever :-(
Name of the full movie please!?!?
Cup size
This was actually modified audition sides that we decided to shoot as a scene for both our reels.
Yes!!! we were both in Cupsize as well... that is where Steve and I first met, and then we realized that we were both graduates of the Sanford Meisner School. A very specific acting technique based on creating and 'living' organic moments.
This was great acting, her especially.
Thank you so much! I really appreciate you watching and reaching out!
Good acting.
Thanks so much for tuning in and enjoying it!
married 4 times... airline pilots are gone a lot and usually flying on the back side of the clock... BUT... I finally found the right one in 1985... she's pouring our drinks now, and I have been retired for some time... find the right one and its worth it.
Congratulations! Yes, it is hard enough to make relationships work, especially with that kind of schedule.
its done. what she expected?
I came across a few cases of infidelity in my circle of friends and family and in all cases the wife/husband and their AP divorced their spouses and live happily ever after. No remorse whatsoever.
Sorry English is not my mother language.
Very interesting! I think when there is infidelity, there are usually much deeper problems in the relationship even before the cheating.
They don’t really care they cheat on you cause they don’t respect you. They have an old saying “what you don’t know won’t hurt you “and they think you’ll never find out. and they have another saying” it’s just as easy to fall in love with a rich man as it is a poor man“ . So get one good punch in because you’ll regret it if you don’t and then leave and take everything with you because you can bet she will.
My ex slept with the husbands of her friends. Talk about effed up.
Wow that is really messed up and sad on soooo many levels!!!
If we knew everything about them, we would never put them on a pedestal. And we sure as hell wouldn’t date or marry them.
I dont get what there is to talk about. The damage is done its over nothing you can do or say can change it.
Hey, don't say that.
Otherwise the counselling economy will be finished.
@@RUHappyATM Reconciliation Industrial Complex (RIC) - see Chump Lady
LOL!
Name of the film?
This is actually a scene that Steve and I put together for our acting reels... it is not from a film, though we are thinking to maybe write a continuation in the form of a short film or series.
Well, what goes around comes around👀
This thing of uploading videos without titles is getting boring and tiring, we go through commet section and still cant find it bullshit.
Sorry! It is actually not from a movie, it is a scene that we put together for our acting reels! But we are thinking to maybe make a series or short film out of it.
At the interview: "So, why are you looking leave your current job?"
Lol!! Absolutely!!!
It should be possible for adults to neither act in the first flush of emotion nor make irreversible decisions. And as an adult, you may also have learned that humans are people who disappoint each other. Inevitably. This does not mean that cheating is a small thing and can always be forgiven and thus remain without consequences. But you could first check whether you are really the one who has been crushed by fate, or whether more mature behavior is possible. In any case, the man reacts like a child who has had his favorite toy taken away. For adults, this is a lecture on the relation between wishes and consequences, not a lecture on morals.
That is a really well thought out and emotionally intelligent response! It is interesting to see all of the comment by men here who have experienced varying degrees of betrayal... and yes many respond in a very child-like, victim way. There are so many events and aspects that lead up to such a drastic result... many layers to unwind and everyone must look at their own part and take responsibility.