His children’s moms were baby momma material not wife material . Wants a basic woman, no rich women

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  • @randommusings4957
    @randommusings4957 Рік тому +1127

    The fact that people think having a child and creating life with someone is less of a commitment than marriage is mind boggling😵‍💫🥴

    • @yeslia2010Godis
      @yeslia2010Godis Рік тому +43

      Right ,the randomness of it all😩🤔

    • @1fattgirlmah1
      @1fattgirlmah1 Рік тому +39

      It definitely is crazy as hell lol I be like they're so stupid.

    • @gp9677
      @gp9677 Рік тому +7

      It’s less of a financial commitment to another grown person less of a financial risk

    • @drinkwatereatmelons7048
      @drinkwatereatmelons7048 Рік тому +56

      He's been in existence for 54 yrs and this is what come out of his mouth.....😖
      Following dad's foot steps.....huh😑

    • @LoveAfterPookie
      @LoveAfterPookie Рік тому +80

      Exactly. Children are a lifelong commitment. This mindset is disgusting.

  • @ghariiscool
    @ghariiscool Рік тому +671

    This man is further proof that maturity and age are completely different things

  • @kse377
    @kse377 Рік тому +619

    54 year old man, four children, by three women who aren't "wifey material," what a disgusting mentality and it's destroying our community.

    • @theresap.3305
      @theresap.3305 Рік тому +64

      He is also too old to say “wifey.” I cannot stand that term. Being a wife is not to play.

    • @jossangeles4011
      @jossangeles4011 Рік тому +36

      Might be another middle-aged man that is looking for marriage due to aging.

    • @NotLikeUs17
      @NotLikeUs17 Рік тому +39

      Exactly. This show high key exposes a lot things people have come to normalize in this community. Beyond gross.

    • @belizegal29
      @belizegal29 Рік тому +5

      I agree!!! This is tragic.

    • @brianfreckles8542
      @brianfreckles8542 Рік тому +16

      ​@@jossangeles4011 middle age? This dude is geriatric. Middle age is like 35 to 40s

  • @stevenharris1460
    @stevenharris1460 Рік тому +518

    Ladies, do not reward these baby momma makers by marrying them. Find a good man to marry and have your own family.

    • @giaholmed2626
      @giaholmed2626 Рік тому +57

      Absolutely, let them live out the rest of their days in misery for everyone to see.
      These ole 🥷🏾 s have to be made examples of!!!! Young men beware!

    • @casscatherine
      @casscatherine Рік тому +24

      Seriously! When If I dated guys with kids they were by ex-wives not baby mamas, and that was a big IF.

    • @justlurkin
      @justlurkin Рік тому +13

      I bet if you added a second sentence telling men to do the same for baby mommas you would have 10% of those likes lol

    • @godgift2earth
      @godgift2earth Рік тому

      ​@@justlurkin so I guess it's all about the likes 👍

    • @mkmeabeliever
      @mkmeabeliever Рік тому +4

      Lol! They're NOT listening boo. 🤣

  • @adams8830
    @adams8830 Рік тому +404

    Women who are "wife material" will not wanna "grow old" with a dusty serial baby daddy with a bunch of attitude. Best of luck to this man.

  • @drinkwatereatmelons7048
    @drinkwatereatmelons7048 Рік тому +583

    His differences in trying to define a baby mama and a wife is just as annoying as that damn smoke detector 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @jennzifur
      @jennzifur Рік тому +33

      I lost the will to live with that beeping 😂😂😂

    • @JacksQueen.
      @JacksQueen. Рік тому +16

      Lmfaoooooo

    • @suni.L
      @suni.L Рік тому +5

      😂😂

    • @Lovely-ff7uv
      @Lovely-ff7uv Рік тому +25

      He is basically let it be known that he does NOT take care of his kids and don't have a relationship w/them

    • @Sam-zr3ly
      @Sam-zr3ly Рік тому

      @@elizabeth9345 Other good upright races are not checking for BW sorry. BW are the least desired. Maybe powerful toys will help out

  • @msve5636
    @msve5636 Рік тому +383

    This is the prime example of age does not bring wisdom.

  • @MalevolentElephant
    @MalevolentElephant Рік тому +403

    A lot of our people have a maturity problem and a "failure to launch" that saddens me. This man is 54 meaning in the 3rd quarter of his life and acts like a man 30 years younger

    • @keepsit100atalltime9
      @keepsit100atalltime9 Рік тому +37

      And it has gotten worse over the years, especially men.

    • @thaflat8371
      @thaflat8371 Рік тому +27

      He’s in the third quarter you say?! 😂😂😂 Goodness!!!!

    • @TheSolitary1
      @TheSolitary1 Рік тому +25

      He is definitely the "Majority" here in Georgia

    • @chavonlove
      @chavonlove Рік тому +18

      I love the way you so eloquently put this lol 😂I was gonna say something similar but nothing like this 😂 Shouts out to you @Malevolent Elephant ✊🏽

    • @NubianOne
      @NubianOne Рік тому +4

      Well said.

  • @Mindurbusiness1234
    @Mindurbusiness1234 Рік тому +275

    Any woman who lays with him gets exactly what they deserve. Listening to him would dry me right on up 🥴.

  • @latifa__chronicles3761
    @latifa__chronicles3761 Рік тому +161

    This was actually kind of disturbing

    • @staceywilliams1863
      @staceywilliams1863 Рік тому +12

      Yea I’m not humored at all. This shit sad.

    • @MrEOM41
      @MrEOM41 Рік тому +14

      Yeah dude is very immature seems like he’s stuck at age 20

    • @ElonNicole
      @ElonNicole Рік тому +2

      Not kind of..

    • @Roccofan
      @Roccofan Рік тому

      Where do you think all the women with a bunch of baby daddies find them?

    • @afrovpunk8627
      @afrovpunk8627 Рік тому +4

      He acts like he’s 20-25 this is very disturbing lol 😂😂😂😂

  • @ItsGoingDao
    @ItsGoingDao Рік тому +281

    Tragic how casually he sees having children, like buying groceries 🗑️

    • @daphuckuwant
      @daphuckuwant Рік тому +7

      Yeah!!!😂😂😂 Like he’s going to Walmart and shopping on roll back prices.😩🤣🤣

    • @KevinSamuelsPowerBottom
      @KevinSamuelsPowerBottom Рік тому +1

      More like taking a dump. He pops a squat and walks tf away. It's sickening.

  • @intensepassion3382
    @intensepassion3382 Рік тому +186

    Can you imagine hearing your Father saying this about your Mother. He's not Father material.

    • @Roccofan
      @Roccofan Рік тому +9

      True, but the women that had his children knew that way before they had sex with him. You know I’m right.

    • @Army_Brat1980
      @Army_Brat1980 Рік тому

      ​@Roccofan you are.

    • @intensepassion3382
      @intensepassion3382 Рік тому

      @@Roccofan so disgusted by ignorance

    • @SweetEssie
      @SweetEssie Рік тому +1

      ​@Roccofan I bet the women who had his kids never had this conversation.

    • @rayb2410
      @rayb2410 10 місяців тому +1

      He has definitely said these around his kids, if he has seen them. Because he keeps it 1000 just like my 15 year old would say.

  • @yeslia2010Godis
    @yeslia2010Godis Рік тому +196

    54 acting and speaking like he's 14..The antics, the whispering, the whole Interview was trash...🤦🏽‍♀He got on Kendra's last nerve....

    • @kimberlyrenee8767
      @kimberlyrenee8767 Рік тому +15

      And my nerves too😂

    • @keepsit100atalltime9
      @keepsit100atalltime9 Рік тому +24

      Probably still sag and wear Jordans

    • @couleuredgirl6314
      @couleuredgirl6314 Рік тому +4

      I thought it was 58? 😂😂

    • @verapetty6070
      @verapetty6070 Рік тому +10

      Kendra wasn't the only whose nerves he got on. In my Kendra voice, oooo chile!

    • @j.baldwin3012
      @j.baldwin3012 Рік тому

      A lot of guys only try as hard as they need to in order to attract women. He's found women to have kids with, so he probably didn't see the need to try any harder, so he's basically a grown a$$ kid.

  • @laurancebell3015
    @laurancebell3015 Рік тому +149

    I don’t trust no one who can’t change their smoke detectors battery. Lol

    • @suni.L
      @suni.L Рік тому +25

      I don't understand how people get comfortable with the sound. 😬

    • @JustBree716
      @JustBree716 Рік тому +13

      I thought it was just something the single ladies had going 😅

    • @JasmineJ_
      @JasmineJ_ Рік тому +11

      It truly tells you a lot about where a person is in life if they learn to live with that sound

    • @AnastasiaBeaverhousn
      @AnastasiaBeaverhousn Рік тому +5

      ​@@JasmineJ_ damn, it's THAT deep to you!!! 🤡🙄

    • @JasmineJ_
      @JasmineJ_ Рік тому +3

      @@AnastasiaBeaverhousn nah but semi put together people, especially men who can easily reach it tend to not have a smoke detector constantly going off and not flinch. So yes it’s telling about a person who lives that way. If it doesn’t bother you, then good for you.
      I’d rather not hear that annoying sound every few seconds and have someone take 5 minutes to replace my battery 🤡

  • @shegotit_honest5069
    @shegotit_honest5069 Рік тому +150

    His brain stopped developing at the age of 12

  • @InsertAliasHere1154
    @InsertAliasHere1154 Рік тому +419

    54 years of absolute degeneracy

  • @SexyJoPlai
    @SexyJoPlai Рік тому +193

    The level of disgust this man brings my soul at his big age 54 is a shame. Like I’m embarrassed for his lack of class, morals and integrity as a black man

    • @Frugal637
      @Frugal637 Рік тому +10

      He doesn’t even qualify for a basic woman.

    • @AnastasiaBeaverhousn
      @AnastasiaBeaverhousn Рік тому +1

      Embarrassed ? Why he's a male not a woman!! This has NOTHING to do with us!! 🙄🤡

    • @SexyJoPlai
      @SexyJoPlai Рік тому +4

      @@AnastasiaBeaverhousn He’s a black man sis

    • @belindalindsey607
      @belindalindsey607 Рік тому

      He was not trained in the basics of manhood to even qualify for a relationship.

    • @jaykool6865
      @jaykool6865 Рік тому

      @@AnastasiaBeaverhousn wasn't u on the show b4 ?

  • @GQSuaveGerald
    @GQSuaveGerald Рік тому +122

    As a 30 year old black man it is sad to see an older man conduct himself like this. He definitely can’t guide or give the youth any type of words of wisdom because he doesn’t have any. Some low hanging fruit woman will give her mind and body to this old grown clown .

    • @AnastasiaBeaverhousn
      @AnastasiaBeaverhousn Рік тому +12

      This is most Black males. 🤷🏿‍♀️

    • @jmatthews5685
      @jmatthews5685 Рік тому +9

      Same age and agreed. This is terrible look and horrible mindset, especially for someone so old.

    • @loyalandkindsunshine3382
      @loyalandkindsunshine3382 Рік тому +8

      Who do you think is teaching the youngins how to be pookies and ray rays i mean reaaally?

    • @burrell897
      @burrell897 Рік тому

      Couldn't say it better myself

    • @steveeleigh3731
      @steveeleigh3731 Рік тому

      😂😂😂😂

  • @maninthemirror3497
    @maninthemirror3497 Рік тому +272

    Even the most basic women (providing they have healthy self esteem) don't want this.

    • @Squeeky-Da-Don
      @Squeeky-Da-Don Рік тому +5

      Lol check the women in your local government housing authority

    • @theguyshepassedupfortyrone
      @theguyshepassedupfortyrone Рік тому +12

      At least four women did.

    • @shakira9468
      @shakira9468 Рік тому +7

      @Mark Anthony sounds like you need to change your surroundings and get off social media and see the world

    • @Squeeky-Da-Don
      @Squeeky-Da-Don Рік тому +3

      @Shakira94 I have. Funny thing is you don't call me liar instead use adhominem attacks. I know a bunch of Shakira's in the hood, you not special

    • @shakira9468
      @shakira9468 Рік тому

      @Mark Anthony of course that's all you know is the hood lol, I can tell by your small mind mindset

  • @Dr.Mahadrasjethwani_MD
    @Dr.Mahadrasjethwani_MD Рік тому +176

    In other words, he wants a low-budget woman who will not require or influence him to do better, to be better. Simply put, my thoughts.

    • @candorsspot2775
      @candorsspot2775 Рік тому +2

      Lol influence aka harass. No man wants a nagging woman no matter his level.

    • @bellab320
      @bellab320 Рік тому +24

      @@candorsspot2775 chile please! The broke boy will take a nagging Trans 🤣🤣🤣

    • @Sam-zr3ly
      @Sam-zr3ly Рік тому

      Whether expensive or cheap woman, the value is the same. Both can satisfy his biological needs the same

    • @BuffKangaroo1
      @BuffKangaroo1 Рік тому

      They all do the same thing so why does it matter

    • @patsajak7809
      @patsajak7809 Рік тому

      Basically, that's what I gathered. It was a struggle watching this and listening to him.

  • @Infrazale
    @Infrazale Рік тому +191

    How can we expect righteous marriagable women, when men like this are the moral leaders?

    • @j.daniels1548
      @j.daniels1548 Рік тому

      Stop spreading your legs for Pookie and you won’t have that problem 🤷🏽

    • @candorsspot2775
      @candorsspot2775 Рік тому +27

      This is true. The horrible state of women is the fault of the men.

    • @j.daniels1548
      @j.daniels1548 Рік тому +11

      @@candorsspot2775 who is raising these people? Who is instilling these values in them from an early age?

    • @apples2juice
      @apples2juice Рік тому +6

      @@j.daniels1548 their Mamas I’m seeing little boys being groomed into being this type of man now && if you say something to the single Mom her response is “so” I’ve even had a women tell me she don’t care if her child kills someone 😢 because of this I’m not having kids

    • @msfancy9280
      @msfancy9280 Рік тому

      ​@@apples2juice yeah get mad at the dumb moms who are at least there. Instead of the dumb men seeding them and abandoning his sons

  • @shamekawillis7151
    @shamekawillis7151 Рік тому +381

    LAWD our brains burned 800 calories with the mental gymnastics of trying to make sense of what he was saying. Bless you Kendra. Where do I even begin????
    1: The Niggacity of him uttering the words wife material when he isn’t even dollar tree 1-ply tissue is astounding.
    2: The carelessness in which he casually calls his children seeds as if they don’t grow up into trees is disgusting.
    3: His concern about women forgetting where they came when never left in the first place is giving “failure to launch.”
    4: He is searching for someone to love him not for sickness and health but in Sickness to hospice.
    5: Any woman who reaches out to him is a complete and utter fool and I have no sympathy for whatever consequences stem from it 🤷🏾‍♀️. I would not be willing to share a child, chicken, or butterfly with this man. I implore any woman to try kewchie before trying him.
    ⛳️⛳️⛳️⛳️⛳️⛳️⛳️⛳️⛳️⛳️⛳️⛳️

    • @MzSam2U
      @MzSam2U Рік тому +26

      He made me work to listen to him.🤦🏿‍♀️

    • @patsajak7809
      @patsajak7809 Рік тому +35

      😆😆😆and thats on Mary and her lil seeds (lambs) he's pathetic

    • @Goddess_Infinity
      @Goddess_Infinity Рік тому +6

      This!!!

    • @Babajai
      @Babajai Рік тому +19

      I haven't encountered anyone that simple minded... 😕 🤷 🤔

    • @Espistar
      @Espistar Рік тому +3

      Facts!

  • @rena24k71
    @rena24k71 Рік тому +148

    Lord. So many of our men are emotionally unavailable. I’d rather watch paint dry than to have a conversation with this man. His whole personality is “I keeps it 1000”.

    • @liliwms508
      @liliwms508 Рік тому +4

      😂

    • @freethinkingMILF
      @freethinkingMILF Рік тому +5

      😂

    • @myvalentine9590
      @myvalentine9590 Рік тому

      Who cares if he’s emotionally unavailable….Nobody sane would entertain that

    • @Age_Of_Aquarius84
      @Age_Of_Aquarius84 Рік тому +2

      Emotionally unavailable.
      Emotionally retarded.
      Emotionally unintelligent.
      Emotionally unstable.
      This man is what happens to ageing fuckboys. It's such a pathetic spectacle to witness.

    • @Frugal637
      @Frugal637 Рік тому +2

      Or watch my plants grow

  • @chubbytummymafia
    @chubbytummymafia Рік тому +281

    He's just like the men at the old folks home I work at who have lots of stories about women ,kids and money but never get any visitors

    • @CookWithStephh
      @CookWithStephh Рік тому +41

      I worked with those men for years at a nursing home. Been married multiple times but not one ex wife comes to visit

    • @TheSolitary1
      @TheSolitary1 Рік тому +13

      Same here, when i worked at the nursing homes

    • @melanincandy7733
      @melanincandy7733 Рік тому +17

      I remember they talked about this on Paris page when they kept saying bw would end up dying alone.

    • @drinkwatereatmelons7048
      @drinkwatereatmelons7048 Рік тому +2

      Why should an ex-wife visit.....perhaps she remarried

    • @R.Yvette.X.
      @R.Yvette.X. Рік тому +12

      They had no one who loved them. That's the problem with a majority of them.

  • @TyroneLangam
    @TyroneLangam Рік тому +173

    “A baby mama is just… Somebody you have a child by”
    Bro…. So. A wife?! 👨🏿‍💻

  • @LoveAfterPookie
    @LoveAfterPookie Рік тому +291

    I'm gonna give him props. He understands that a basic woman is all he qualifies for. Stay in your lane.

    • @salutemimi81
      @salutemimi81 Рік тому +108

      As a basic woman
      Average DNA
      We appreciate the opportunity but truly decline
      We wish him well in his future endeavors
      Sincerely
      CEO of Basic Average Mind Our Business Corporations
      Est.1981

    • @alkalinegoods8064
      @alkalinegoods8064 Рік тому +10

      So … somebody just like you 🎯😂

    • @LoveAfterPookie
      @LoveAfterPookie Рік тому +30

      @@salutemimi81 I'm screaming 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @LoveAfterPookie
      @LoveAfterPookie Рік тому +26

      @@alkalinegoods8064 are you the man in the video??? You hurt boo?? 🤭🤭🤭

    • @salutemimi81
      @salutemimi81 Рік тому +26

      @pretty Baby
      That's always been my issue
      Just because I embrace my basic looks
      Does not mean I have low self esteem
      Low standard
      So yah
      Us Basics ain't doing that😂
      We just drink water and watch 🫡😘

  • @loyalandkindsunshine3382
    @loyalandkindsunshine3382 Рік тому +126

    I stand with planned parenthood ✊🏿

    • @randommusings4957
      @randommusings4957 Рік тому +3

      💯

    • @LoveAfterPookie
      @LoveAfterPookie Рік тому +2

      Me too ✊🏽

    • @j.daniels1548
      @j.daniels1548 Рік тому

      Wouldn’t it be easier to keep your legs closed or use birth control instead of killing your children?

    • @randommusings4957
      @randommusings4957 Рік тому +13

      @@j.daniels1548 . I definitely believe in abstinence, but Planned Parenthood also offers birth control and contraception

    • @LoveAfterPookie
      @LoveAfterPookie Рік тому +3

      @@j.daniels1548 planned parenthood supplies us with birth control as well.

  • @poetryinmotion1708
    @poetryinmotion1708 Рік тому +131

    Our community is so broken...😥😥😥 it's so sad

    • @suni.L
      @suni.L Рік тому +8

      So true. We have already seen what the dating app pool will be.

    • @naled1987
      @naled1987 Рік тому

      Ummm no he is broke hunny not the community the ppl like him within the community is reason we have issue he clearly doesn’t values marriage or children which is prime issue plus his clearly doesn’t value education either ie him just opening his mouth and talking ughh

    • @ShannonsBibleStudy
      @ShannonsBibleStudy Рік тому

      @@suni.L He's typical of what's on dating apps past forty or so.

    • @user-zx5xw4yw2e
      @user-zx5xw4yw2e Рік тому

      What community is that?

    • @sasshil4202
      @sasshil4202 Рік тому

      @@ShannonsBibleStudy and under forty.

  • @TheSolitary1
    @TheSolitary1 Рік тому +63

    He seems absolutely controlling and sneaky. Think women are suppose to be beneath him.

    • @Sunshine_80
      @Sunshine_80 Рік тому +9

      I got "Mister" vibes from "The Color Purple."

  • @adams8830
    @adams8830 Рік тому +125

    Ladies be mindful who you have babies with. How this man speaks is how some of these men speak about you creating and bringing life into this world. You're just "someone to have a baby with" and nothing more. Exactly why a man must show proper qualifications to have a child with you, even if you aren't interested in marriage.

  • @pamelajpayne8041
    @pamelajpayne8041 Рік тому +102

    This ninja is definitely for the streets. He wants someone basic cause he's basic. That explanation of the difference between a bm and a wife had me perplexed.

    • @intensepassion3382
      @intensepassion3382 Рік тому +9

      My hope he reads this comment section.

    • @nicolesawyer7117
      @nicolesawyer7117 Рік тому +12

      @@intensepassion3382 it won’t faze him he doesn’t care obviously 😂

    • @drinkwatereatmelons7048
      @drinkwatereatmelons7048 Рік тому +5

      He was also perplexed.....Searching for words to support his bullsxxx thinking

    • @steelysam7189
      @steelysam7189 Рік тому +2

      I hope he comes across a comment that encourages him to change his battery on the smoke detector!

  • @SomechicknameAshley
    @SomechicknameAshley Рік тому +54

    He really said, "the only thing we did was create a seed" like that was supposed to sound good 🥴

  • @kristinae4900
    @kristinae4900 Рік тому +104

    The pits of HELL! 😹 He hasn’t amounted to anything, so he wants a woman who has also not amounted to anything. Anything above that will make him feel insecure. So insecure you can’t even go to brunch and luxuriate with unlimited mimosas, because he’ll think you dropped from, “1,000” to 100. 😹😹😹

  • @Soleilsorrel33
    @Soleilsorrel33 Рік тому +86

    I have no words for this monstrosity 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @JasmineJ_
      @JasmineJ_ Рік тому +5

      I always struggle to understand how women put up with men like this long enough to have his child. I was done less than a minute in.

    • @williamstuiel7892
      @williamstuiel7892 Рік тому +1

      Why😂

  • @Tiger-zp8eq
    @Tiger-zp8eq Рік тому +33

    This dude is 54, never been married, with 3 baby mamas. And he’s worried about time wasters! I can’t with these immature, ashy nakers. 🙄

  • @paigeviper244
    @paigeviper244 Рік тому +98

    Kendra: Oh! You’re a Valentine baby!?
    Quayshawn: “ I said 12th. 14th. Sagittarius!” 🤣

  • @humbleheart2650
    @humbleheart2650 Рік тому +76

    Annoying and at the same time sad and depressing. This is somebody’s child and daddy☠️😳

  • @bruceleeroy8302
    @bruceleeroy8302 Рік тому +71

    Man, I swear y’all be having me run to the store to get 9V batteries 😂 😅

  • @itsme0306
    @itsme0306 Рік тому +41

    Lord this hurt to watch a 50 something year old man communicate like this.

  • @lh6784
    @lh6784 Рік тому +55

    He said that his baby mothers were not marriage material yet he got them pregnant anyway. At this point , he is obviously deflecting and projecting. He can't admit that he is not commitment material. Why won't he admit that he is the type of guy that wants to hit and quit it at the expense of children being the collateral damage.

  • @eke.D
    @eke.D Рік тому +210

    3:40-3:50 Yes! Kendra spoke hard facts !! This is something that both sides need to ingrain in our heads. Tiring seeing so many people cavalier on having kids and shocked how much it can ruin their life when it's with the wrong person.
    Guard your seed and protect your wombs until you both agree and in position to have kids.

  • @kjs9
    @kjs9 Рік тому +46

    😅😅😂 I can’t believe this is 54? Like five four! Is this the leader y’all want us to submit to?

    • @roseinharlem8152
      @roseinharlem8152 Рік тому +5

      But… but… he keeps it 1000 .. 😂

    • @steelysam7189
      @steelysam7189 Рік тому

      What qualifies him as a leader?

    • @kevinlee9929
      @kevinlee9929 Рік тому

      The fact that you even need to ask that question speak volumes about you ....

    • @kjs9
      @kjs9 Рік тому

      @@steelysam7189 my point

  • @TruCunt
    @TruCunt Рік тому +58

    This is so sad. He just creates children just because

  • @criticfortheuploader2035
    @criticfortheuploader2035 Рік тому +56

    *He keeps looking over his shoulder because he's residing with a woman, he needs to change the battery in the smoke detector before pursuing anyone, smh...*

    • @koolsmoothfan
      @koolsmoothfan Рік тому

      bingo, that might have been the woman he slept with previous night

    • @crystalsmart1614
      @crystalsmart1614 Рік тому +1

      The smoke detector battery should be the LAST thing on his mind. He needs therapy IMMEDIATELY 😳🤣🤣🤣

  • @Osunshoney409
    @Osunshoney409 Рік тому +25

    RUN 🏃🏽‍♀️ LADIES, RUN!!!!!!! Somebody please get him his passport ASAP

  • @michellejones1226
    @michellejones1226 Рік тому +37

    Today I learned the difference between “one hunnit” and “one thasand.”

  • @angeleyes3386
    @angeleyes3386 Рік тому +59

    Quashawn scared TF outta me!! Kendra…he the boogeyman 😂

  • @Classycaramel4
    @Classycaramel4 Рік тому +57

    Those women were good enough for him to start his legacy with, but not good enough to marry.. and he's 54... once again this shows that age has nothing to do with wisdom!! 🤦🏾‍♀️😩

    • @kennettabradford6566
      @kennettabradford6566 Рік тому +7

      Unfortunately alot of black dudes think exactly like him. Sad but true

  • @emoney5814
    @emoney5814 Рік тому +13

    Black men like this been failed the community 😂

  • @shay337h8
    @shay337h8 Рік тому +48

    God bless you Kendra for your ability to converse with these individuals🙏🏾💜.

    • @liliwms508
      @liliwms508 Рік тому

      Hats off to her; I don’t have the patience for the foolishness🤦🏽‍♀️😩

  • @FightsRightsAlways
    @FightsRightsAlways Рік тому +32

    "The only thing we created was a seed"
    As in the words of Kevin Samuels
    "You can't make this stuff up".

    • @pauhg9
      @pauhg9 Рік тому

      That’s so sad. You created a human being! He’s an As*

  • @QueenNTheMaking
    @QueenNTheMaking Рік тому +42

    Of course she gotta live in his state…he just said he want someone basic and prefers they do not have a high salary…he def not trying to fly nobody out 😂😂

  • @frostnova2144
    @frostnova2144 Рік тому +147

    Scary thing about this is the fact he thinks he is really making sense
    Been a while since I seen someone so clueless

    • @belizegal29
      @belizegal29 Рік тому

      My thoughts exactly. Straight up loser.

    • @dannyh9290
      @dannyh9290 Рік тому +1

      You must be new to this channel if it's been a while! 😆

    • @AnastasiaBeaverhousn
      @AnastasiaBeaverhousn Рік тому +2

      You don't watch this show daily? 🤷🏿‍♀️🤔

  • @Mr.Ming07
    @Mr.Ming07 Рік тому +38

    I can’t fend for my black brothers on here for shi.. smh 😅

  • @mogetit5999
    @mogetit5999 Рік тому +31

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣I love this show. My gawd I knew it was gonna be good with a name like Quayshawn

  • @ChakaBee777
    @ChakaBee777 Рік тому +24

    The fact that he’s 54 and talking like this 😮🫠🫠🫢🤔

  • @wellsincewerehere773
    @wellsincewerehere773 Рік тому +36

    This should be played at all planned parent hood clinics nationwide!

  • @longbeachmaumba7059
    @longbeachmaumba7059 Рік тому +25

    He's 54 and his name is Quashaun.
    That seems a little bit off.

    • @j.daniels1548
      @j.daniels1548 Рік тому

      Yes - BW have been giving their children ghetto names for 50+ years

    • @drinkwatereatmelons7048
      @drinkwatereatmelons7048 Рік тому +5

      It a combination of his parents' name
      Quanisha & Shawn or Shaun

    • @ud558
      @ud558 Рік тому

      ​@@drinkwatereatmelons7048 on the floor . 😆😆😆🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @swallace9958
      @swallace9958 Рік тому

      Probably not even his name for real. Either way it doesn't matter cause only a fool would entertain him.

  • @coachebonynicolesmith7537
    @coachebonynicolesmith7537 Рік тому +17

    Where are the MEN that will hold him accountable?🤷🏾‍♀️🤔🤪

    • @jmar385
      @jmar385 Рік тому

      Don’t need to child support will hold him hostage unlike women there’s an incentive to abandon their family

    • @real-ishstraighttruthnocha1687
      @real-ishstraighttruthnocha1687 Рік тому +9

      I just did. I'm fair about my criticism. Buddy dusty as a damn sandstorm

    • @R.Yvette.X.
      @R.Yvette.X. Рік тому +5

      We need more men speaking out against this.

    • @SISTAGURL
      @SISTAGURL Рік тому +1

      Ohhh . This is round bout the time they become voluntarily unable to comprehend his dysfunction. To them dude is just a solid good guy that at least had a job and is simply just looking for love.

  • @Benjamina.Button
    @Benjamina.Button Рік тому +30

    At this point some people's thought process should be illegal. You don't value your legacy if you having kids with anybody. I bet he don't take care of his kids; Probably got the ages wrong and everything.

  • @steelysam7189
    @steelysam7189 Рік тому +47

    I'm glad this show is shedding light to how messed up is the dating pool. Ladies, when you meet a man, please make sure his intentions are to marry you and have start a family....and that he can change the friggin battery on smoke detectors!

    • @johnjay3308
      @johnjay3308 Рік тому +2

      Marriage is the new thing 2 say etc but that's a discussion for way down the line, not soon after u meet someone.

    • @soulsistah5738
      @soulsistah5738 Рік тому

      Lmaoo 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @nellescott4899
      @nellescott4899 Рік тому +8

      @@johnjay3308 Not its not. If I were to ask a man if he wants marriage and he tells me no, what is the point of proceeding?

    • @AnastasiaBeaverhousn
      @AnastasiaBeaverhousn Рік тому +1

      ​@@johnjay3308 bullshit!!! That's the problem right there!!! 🤡
      Why would you wait "down the line" to discuss marriage!!!?? 🤷🏿‍♀️
      That's the FIRST thing you speak about because if they're not marriage material you move on!!! Why would you waste your time getting to know someone just to find out you're not equally yoked!!! 🤷🏿‍♀️

    • @AnastasiaBeaverhousn
      @AnastasiaBeaverhousn Рік тому

      ​@@nellescott4899 exactly!! That's the problem with these fools, they're dumb as hell!!! 🤡🙄

  • @NoName-nj4mw
    @NoName-nj4mw Рік тому +27

    They weren't wife material but you want them raising your seeds. He's not husband material lol

  • @angeleyes3386
    @angeleyes3386 Рік тому +40

    Now y’all gotta get on Quayshawn like Shaquesha. 😂

    • @ud558
      @ud558 Рік тому +2

      Yess 😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆

    • @JacksQueen.
      @JacksQueen. Рік тому +1

      Right!!

    • @thaflat8371
      @thaflat8371 Рік тому +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @jetskipapi6193
      @jetskipapi6193 Рік тому +1

      Lol...they would make a decent couple...He can push her around...She not stuck up.

  • @babysis6.059
    @babysis6.059 Рік тому +21

    Hard to believe anybody named their baby Quay anything back in the '60's, he must be the first 🤣🤣🤣

    • @candorsspot2775
      @candorsspot2775 Рік тому +1

      Originator

    • @halftimehomes
      @halftimehomes Рік тому +10

      He probably gave himself that name in the 2000s

    • @kennedigurl
      @kennedigurl Рік тому +5

      @@halftimehomes This 𝙝𝙖𝙨 to be the answer. 😂😂😂

    • @MizzSweetTe
      @MizzSweetTe Рік тому +3

      You have a point ⁉️IF THATS EVEN HIS REAL NAME🤔

  • @coreycoleman5389
    @coreycoleman5389 Рік тому +44

    A person who is successful isn't stuck up it's just your mindset changes which brings on the success in the first place. You are drawn to like minded people to stay motivated and you leave behind non motivated friends because they will just keep you in the same place out of jealousy. You can tell this 54 year old immature loser has never been successful in his life because he would understand that. You don't have to hang around other losers to not forget where you can from, you can understand that's where you were and never go back in order to keep your success

    • @WeezyJeffersonYo
      @WeezyJeffersonYo Рік тому +10

      Yep. He doesn't understand that you are supposed to evolve. As adults, we may not like people we were cool with when we were children/teens and didn't know who we were yet.

    • @poetryinmotion1708
      @poetryinmotion1708 Рік тому +11

      And he's angry that a good woman would never give him a look based on his past choices. Soo then she's stuck up for not standing in line to be his next victim...ok🙄

    • @NewlifeNewbeginnings2
      @NewlifeNewbeginnings2 Рік тому

      💯💯

    • @AnastasiaBeaverhousn
      @AnastasiaBeaverhousn Рік тому

      LITERALLY stopped eating and looked at the TV like WTH!!! 🤡🙄

  • @xoxoro5521
    @xoxoro5521 Рік тому +13

    He kept throwing them red flags 🚩🚩🚩 out there left and right. Any woman who hits him up is clearly lost and do not know her worth. In my Khia voice, "NEXT CASE!!"👩🏾‍⚖️

  • @Netta-jb1dv
    @Netta-jb1dv Рік тому +19

    Kendra should get some "Oohh Chile" shirts going😊💯👍🏽

  • @moniquew3603
    @moniquew3603 Рік тому +13

    This why women should require marriage BEFORE having children with men. Many of them have this mindset... absolutely ridiculous!

    • @yournamemustbejealousy2062
      @yournamemustbejealousy2062 Рік тому +2

      His mindset won't change with marriage 🙄

    • @moniquew3603
      @moniquew3603 Рік тому +2

      @@yournamemustbejealousy2062 I was not suggesting anyone should marry this man. I was speaking in general due to his statements about his baby mamas not being wife material. I bet he didnt tell those women that, AND I'm sure some of those women would've loved to have a family/marriage with the man they are having children with. Tbh I want to know why those women had children with him....

    • @yournamemustbejealousy2062
      @yournamemustbejealousy2062 Рік тому +1

      @@moniquew3603 Good question. I hope his children mother's will see this show and call in to discuss it.

  • @PiscesPrincess87
    @PiscesPrincess87 Рік тому +15

    So running up in a woman with no protection is not as risky as signing a piece of paper and getting married? Then he’s an idiot and can’t formulate a proper sentence.🙄🙄

  • @thehills8027
    @thehills8027 Рік тому +24

    I am unsure what condition I would be in if this were my father, good grief. TO my father (though you will never read this): you are/were an amazing parent and one of the best human beings I could have ever known.

    • @swallace9958
      @swallace9958 Рік тому

      Amen. Mine too and he is 91 years wise. My condolences to you on the loss of your dad.

  • @candorsspot2775
    @candorsspot2775 Рік тому +18

    Now it all makes sense. These are the men the women who come on here have babies with and relate too. Same energy and spirit of baby mamas.

    • @jetskipapi6193
      @jetskipapi6193 Рік тому +3

      Yea...them same Baby moms want their new man to make at least 6 figures too.

    • @kevinlee9929
      @kevinlee9929 Рік тому +5

      @@jetskipapi6193 Yup. This be their baby daddy. But the next guy has to bring the sun and the moon lol

  • @blackmedici6018
    @blackmedici6018 Рік тому +13

    This pookie can't follow simple instructions. She has to keep telling him to bring the phone down.

  • @Carvel0
    @Carvel0 Рік тому +20

    Baby mom material? I never heard that one before

    • @drinkwatereatmelons7048
      @drinkwatereatmelons7048 Рік тому +2

      Quay: Nah, I ain't marrying u.....but, we can share a child for life

    • @DJ-vj4vi
      @DJ-vj4vi Рік тому

      Stop lying y’all just came up with the term this year in 2023

  • @laremo2117
    @laremo2117 Рік тому +21

    He blew me the whole video. Definitely gave 20 something mentally also slow

  • @sabrinajohn6023
    @sabrinajohn6023 Рік тому +9

    He's 54 and look how he dress. Cap to the side at his age. Good luck black women with your kangs. This the type of kangs you have to choose from. Being single is better option than these kangs

  • @DreamsReality7
    @DreamsReality7 Рік тому +13

    54 still with this mindset?

  • @stoplayin21
    @stoplayin21 Рік тому +5

    He’s giving “I’ve been in prison for most of my adult life.”

  • @Aceboogie83
    @Aceboogie83 Рік тому +20

    I can smell the dustiness all the way from nyc 😂😂😂smh

  • @Bossylady2752
    @Bossylady2752 Рік тому +15

    Kendra!!!!!! That ending 😂😂😂😂😂 I swear I watched it like 5+ times!!! Killed Me!!! But honetie when I tell you! You were matching his energy from the Gate! Love 💗 it!!! That was a lesson for those that don’t know how to Match Energy!

    • @wshelby83
      @wshelby83 Рік тому +1

      😂😂😂😂 that part was funny!!

  • @etuitivemillionaire
    @etuitivemillionaire Рік тому +7

    Let me keep it 1000. Ladies Run

  • @ladetramoham8804
    @ladetramoham8804 Рік тому +5

    What in the F was that, he bet not come back and say his DM’s were full

  • @Ambitiousgirl22
    @Ambitiousgirl22 Рік тому +29

    This is what they do...get to this big age without any maturation and want to look for something worthwhile. His value system is scary and it's quite sad. But we are supposed to choose better instead of them simply being better.

    • @thequeenicee8835
      @thequeenicee8835 Рік тому

      I always say this...why is the onus always solely on us women...you want us to choose better, but wont give us something better to choose from...

  • @tanbutterfly8282
    @tanbutterfly8282 Рік тому +11

    Broken dusty man producing Broken homes in our community 💔

  • @MeresankhJ
    @MeresankhJ Рік тому +22

    I don’t feel bad for them they choose to be his baby mama. I’m glad he told the truth because a lot of women want to pretend these men don’t see a difference between a baby mama and wife

    • @kennettabradford6566
      @kennettabradford6566 Рік тому

      But he's not nobody to be with anyway🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

    • @MeresankhJ
      @MeresankhJ Рік тому +1

      @@kennettabradford6566 I didn’t say he was

  • @MzRiley1272
    @MzRiley1272 Рік тому +18

    If watching paint dry was a person... 😳

  • @unbothered731
    @unbothered731 Рік тому +18

    Run. No other word. Run. The delusion is rea.

  • @brandicedavis8556
    @brandicedavis8556 Рік тому +11

    This was so cringy & weird

  • @thoughtbodymanifest
    @thoughtbodymanifest Рік тому +6

    His responses made ABSOLUTELY no sense for having been on the earth for more than 1/2 a century!
    Kendra’s patience wore thin very early on in this interview with good cause!

  • @MrDee001
    @MrDee001 Рік тому +8

    Him not hearing that d@mn fire alarm low battery beep is the first sign of a garbage person relationship wise. It goes off every thirty seconds and he hasn't noticed for how long?

  • @poetryinmotion1708
    @poetryinmotion1708 Рік тому +9

    I sooo wish he would become a PASSPORT BRO🙏🙏

  • @rasun316
    @rasun316 Рік тому +13

    ...when you have a child with a woman, you are gonna grow old with her one way or the other sir.

  • @trulydorcas
    @trulydorcas Рік тому +7

    Ladies I’m so glad someone like him is revealing himself..
    .
    Run 🏃🏽‍♀️ and run fast.. Whenever I meet I man interested in kids but marriage is not a priority.. I exit stage left..
    .
    This man should meet other women on his wavelength, very low vibrations..
    .
    Best of luck out there ❤️🙏🏾

  • @tmichelle9669
    @tmichelle9669 Рік тому +7

    54 with the mindset of a 14-year-old 🤯

  • @humbleplayer9106
    @humbleplayer9106 Рік тому +18

    Kendra. you are HILARIOUS!!😂

  • @Jacee191
    @Jacee191 Рік тому +7

    Whewwwww! I thank the lord for my husband EVERY day and night. Thank you lord for bringing along the man that you did into my life. Matter of fact I’m going to call my husband and tell him how much I appreciate him.

  • @rffrostbite9989
    @rffrostbite9989 Рік тому +6

    He ain’t looking for no woman he looking for a UFO ( Unidentified Fucking Object) 😂😂😂🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @MersayW
    @MersayW Рік тому +7

    Hold him accountable as a man!! This is an example of what's not needed in a community!!

  • @serious7179
    @serious7179 Рік тому +3

    Any woman who is even tempted by this needs immediate assistance.

  • @saraliburd7752
    @saraliburd7752 Рік тому +9

    He’s a basic 54 year old with a hoodie and baseball cap😭😭😭😭

  • @myabea7553
    @myabea7553 Рік тому +9

    He has four children by three different women, what makes him think he is husband material?