She Doesn't Owe You Her Time....But Guess What?

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  • @longbone6416
    @longbone6416 5 років тому +101

    When someone tells you who they are..believe them

  • @swoopes7777
    @swoopes7777 5 років тому +93

    Never Argue with a Woman. Just leave. When you're in your 30s, time is precious, stop wasting it on trash.

  • @alvinhollingeriii2562
    @alvinhollingeriii2562 5 років тому +88

    When Things Don't Add Up. Start Subtracting....

  • @andremotivation6561
    @andremotivation6561 5 років тому +154

    "Don't be a Time ho" ,"Your happiness is Paramount"- Patrice O'Neal

    • @MeridianPanther
      @MeridianPanther 5 років тому +8

      Andre Eli Patrice is needed more than ever now

    • @andremotivation6561
      @andremotivation6561 5 років тому +15

      @@MeridianPanther facts man, shit has gonna so far left it's insane. The man cut through ALL the b.s and was a real one. He was so ahead of his time.

    • @MeridianPanther
      @MeridianPanther 5 років тому +2

      Andre Eli bruh get the Time stone we need Patrice

    • @andremotivation6561
      @andremotivation6561 5 років тому +3

      @@MeridianPanther or a quantum relam suit ha

    • @MessyThrillz
      @MessyThrillz 5 років тому +7

      I still say "I'm not your time ho" to women today. When I first heard Patrice say that my life changed forever🔴💯

  • @kelvin8563
    @kelvin8563 5 років тому +80

    To me it has become pretty simple. A person who doesn't respect your time ultimately doesn't respect you. With that being said i have a lot fewer friends and acquaintances than I used to have.

    • @FloreFleur
      @FloreFleur 5 років тому +2

      abszero 24 The truth!

    • @KingBaldEagle1984_Prosperity
      @KingBaldEagle1984_Prosperity 5 років тому +8

      abszero 24 I prefer Quality over Quantity any day . I rather have a few quality great genuine friends than a lot so called fake friends. It creates Value in your circle in life.

    • @kxfromga5359
      @kxfromga5359 5 років тому

      abszero 24 👍🏾

    • @kxfromga5359
      @kxfromga5359 5 років тому

      Cuz I feel that energy when I’m around my friends or other people and I be by myself

  • @1Circusman
    @1Circusman 5 років тому +33

    Law 16: Use Absence To Increase Honor And Respect

    • @khalilshakur3402
      @khalilshakur3402 5 років тому +6

      ThatYoungin TJ my favorite law along with law 4

    • @1Circusman
      @1Circusman 5 років тому +1

      @@khalilshakur3402 Use Absence To Increase Honor And Respect, and Say Less Than Necessary are my 2 favorite laws too.

  • @25luqman
    @25luqman 5 років тому +87

    I approve this message. Im 34 and im not wasting time with anyone or anything that is not productive and contribute to my life!!!

    • @drewbranch7700
      @drewbranch7700 5 років тому +3

      Luqman84 👊🏽

    • @3poms28
      @3poms28 5 років тому +4

      Luqman84 I concur brotha!💯

    • @jamesbando5459
      @jamesbando5459 5 років тому

      Goes home and sleep with an unproductive female...

    • @oyh1016
      @oyh1016 5 років тому +2

      AMEN to that brotha!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @Perseus38
    @Perseus38 5 років тому +91

    Remember gentleman the medium is the message when dealing with women. Futhermore always value your time if she doesn't then next her. It's all about having an abundance mentality not one of scarcity.

    • @GanMan7
      @GanMan7 5 років тому +14

      Fuck em to sleep then dump em in the trash.😭😭😭😭😭

    • @longbone6416
      @longbone6416 5 років тому

      Marshal mccloughan

    • @GanMan7
      @GanMan7 5 років тому +7

      @Miss HoneyDew I'm doing plenty for black women. I'm running thru em at my job. Better yet they are throwing the pussy at me. Not my fault I'm part of the 5٪ that they want.

    • @GanMan7
      @GanMan7 5 років тому +9

      @Miss HoneyDew I could care less what anyone thinks of me let alone another fucking race. Once I got on my purpose the pussy came with it

    • @GanMan7
      @GanMan7 5 років тому +7

      @Miss HoneyDew nobody's whining. We are having a discussion. Bottom line lots of BW and women period waste mens time and resources.

  • @Onepunchmeme1
    @Onepunchmeme1 5 років тому +89

    I drink the Kool-Aid in my early twenties. I convinced myself I had all these female friends. It seem like every time talk to them. It involved me doing something, or being resourceful in one way or another. Ever since I started listening to red pill content. I stopped being a utility and started valuing my time agenda first. I'm happy to report I have no female friends and not sad about at all.

    • @nweeezy
      @nweeezy 5 років тому +31

      here's the kicker.....*drumroll*.....they were more than likely never your friends in the first place.....which is also more than likely why you dont give a shit about them not being around.........

    • @BOSZAY
      @BOSZAY 5 років тому +24

      Most women dont really want a guy friend... They just want someone around that desires them.

    • @Onepunchmeme1
      @Onepunchmeme1 5 років тому +17

      @@nweeezy I totally agree with you. Me personally I don't believe in the concept of friendship with the opposite sex. Any guy who is friends with a woman is wasting his life away.

    • @Onepunchmeme1
      @Onepunchmeme1 5 років тому +11

      @@nweeezy Also I had guys I know since gade school that was so call real friends back stab and bounce. I'm not tripping over them also.

    • @Onepunchmeme1
      @Onepunchmeme1 5 років тому +11

      @Miss HoneyDew You all fucked up with you out dated feel good nonsense. So you're saying being single is a waste of time. Tell that to the men paying child support and alimony.

  • @CoachMT4000
    @CoachMT4000 3 роки тому +2

    “You all about her and she’s all about hers” Lil Weezy

  • @koldworld3272
    @koldworld3272 5 років тому +52

    Your come back shoulda been since I'm not entitled to your time, your not entitled to my finances. By Felisha

  • @tkelly2546
    @tkelly2546 5 років тому +34

    Oshay is speaking facts. He knows are asses. We can't stand to be ignored BUT we will ignore in a heart beat. Then we get sensitive and mad when it's reciprocated. We know who to play that shit with and who not to though. Keep up the great work!!!

    • @jamelsweden9322
      @jamelsweden9322 5 років тому +7

      You broke the woman's code telling us men your secret, you women love attention, looool, we always knew that, watch your girlfriends in the comment come attacking you for telling men the truth about the female nature looool.

    • @tkelly2546
      @tkelly2546 5 років тому +2

      @@jamelsweden9322 That code is so secret Oshay had the code and remedy and where to fill the prescription. He's going to be a great doctor. If the women do come for me. I will treat them like I treat you men. I will write down their name and block they asses. I MOD on about 72 other station LMAO #impetty🤣😂

    • @jamelsweden9322
      @jamelsweden9322 5 років тому +4

      @@tkelly2546 loool, I always knew that code, I grew up in a house but full of women, I always heard them as a youngster talking about they dressed so fabulous and the guys they liked didn't even look at them or told them they looked nice or sexy, so I when I got older and started dating women I knew that code "women love attention especially from guys they find attractive or wealthy lool, women never fool me, I observed them all the time, am a security detective, plain clothes officer for a huge department store in London England, I observe human beings for a living. Loool.

    • @kxfromga5359
      @kxfromga5359 5 років тому +3

      Damn I never thought a woman would squeal instead of fight back 😂😂

  • @edthewave
    @edthewave 5 років тому +21

    Preach Brother! Been contemplating the same thoughts over the past year or so. I tell women, "You can waste my money, but don't waste MY TIME!" Our time is a precious, non-renewable resource. More important than money. Everyone has an hourglass assigned to them by the Most High. The sand doesn't go the other direction! USE OUR TIME WISELY!

  • @reginaldwhitfield8562
    @reginaldwhitfield8562 5 років тому +13

    I got a friend with 2 sons, he asked me to give these two teenage boys my best advice for life and this is exactly what I told them! Guard your time and energy wisely! All men should know this and put it in to practice daily.

  • @dollarwil1234
    @dollarwil1234 5 років тому +37

    Therapy...Damn, dudes don't know the power and impact of a "non select" dude rejecting or drawing a line with a woman who thinks her social status is greater.

  • @Sivraj85
    @Sivraj85 5 років тому +6

    I tell people all the time she's not obligated into dealing with you or owing anything and same for you. I do find it funny that is okay for women to waste your time but a crime to waste their time.

  • @devohnmitchell
    @devohnmitchell 5 років тому +16

    Man you preaching..Men need to Respect their time more. If we valued our time and attention more there would be no Simps

  • @ajtaylor8750
    @ajtaylor8750 4 роки тому +5

    I'm in my mid-twenties (birthday in two weeks), and what I noticed is that when I started valuing my time more than people, all of a sudden everyone wanted to hang out and get up with me. The less you make yourself available, the more people want your time, so always make your time the most valuable asset necessary.

  • @chillwithrahn1791
    @chillwithrahn1791 5 років тому +10

    On point with this one oshay. You take all the power from them. Had a chick talking to on and off one day shr send a passivr aggressive and disrespectful text. I just dipped on her. No explanation no time wasting.
    Guess what 2 days go by and she blow up my phone. Blow up the snapchat trying to get my attention. That shit kills them inside when they find out you aint a simp for time for them

  • @Ms.Sunshine420
    @Ms.Sunshine420 5 років тому +21

    The buffoonery remains
    at an all time high!💯

  • @Irvington81
    @Irvington81 5 років тому +17

    It’s called narcissism with female behavior

  • @jookbj
    @jookbj 5 років тому +25

    But guess what, neither do you.

  • @debwright3190
    @debwright3190 2 роки тому +2

    😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨keep on keeping on Oshay. Your commentary is informative and entertaining,why I and subscribe.✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽

  • @benaiahwright937
    @benaiahwright937 5 років тому +12

    Such a simple lesson but so hard to learn.

    • @MessyThrillz
      @MessyThrillz 5 років тому +2

      Simple lesson...simple to learn. What's hard is applying it to your life righteously.

    • @benaiahwright937
      @benaiahwright937 5 років тому +1

      @@MessyThrillz you've never wasted your time on a woman you liked?

    • @MessyThrillz
      @MessyThrillz 5 років тому +1

      @@benaiahwright937 Of course, any man that has dealt with a woman has had his time wasted at one time or another. My comment was to say it's all so simple but applying the game is the hard part.

    • @benaiahwright937
      @benaiahwright937 5 років тому +1

      @@MessyThrillz Oh yeah...that's what I was trying to say too

  • @raycebannon73
    @raycebannon73 5 років тому +35

    Chase $$$ not women - then women will chase you. Your needs, your goals, your hobbies, your adventures, your growth as a man, etc., etc. are the top priority. When relationships (business or dating) isn't working for you - walk away. No need to waste energy being negative nor talking down swearing about the individual. Just walk away. And why in the hell is any guy constantly texting any women? You're supposed to be conquering the world. If you're constantly texting a woman your actions tell her you're too available and have no life.

  • @illiest402
    @illiest402 5 років тому +21

    bro been there & u don't owe them shit either

  • @doggypup938
    @doggypup938 5 років тому +9

    For the women that come here to make negative comments : Thats conformation that you dont value your own time. So how could you value our time as men !

  • @appendix-q6k
    @appendix-q6k 5 років тому +2

    Oshay, I’m a white Dude and I appreciate your content. Toss these haters aside and preach that truth.

  • @legend-killa
    @legend-killa 5 років тому +5

    Facts! Oshay , the organ is playing. Dope sweater too! Kevin S done gave yah the hook up.
    I say all the time that many men are not getting married or engaging in serious relationships or "protecting" or "providing" is because they feel there is no "ownership" or sense of ownership with women. Its a adverse result of freedom/feminism. Once you see that they can thermal detonate your investment(s) at any time, you start valuing yourself much more and operating quid-pro-quo or on the principle of "equivalent exchange".

    • @juliuscaesar7660
      @juliuscaesar7660 5 років тому +1

      Legend Killa Yes. They don’t reciprocate but expect you to be this traditional, gentlemanly brother.

  • @jerrell3026
    @jerrell3026 5 років тому +3

    I wish I had this stuff when I was in my 20's! Especially the Brother Pill! Great content as always!

  • @kvantonio2001
    @kvantonio2001 2 роки тому +2

    My wife cheated on me she was nicer when I saw the signs. But every L is a lesson.

  • @tripzero4699
    @tripzero4699 5 років тому +2

    You spot on with the "ugly dudes are in" line, seems like the norm these days. that should be a video.

  • @GREATBLACKSHARK
    @GREATBLACKSHARK 5 років тому +2

    @OSHAY: Time is a precious nonrenewable resource. The wise will ALWAYS require those who they share their time with to respect it,or not have access to it. Wasted time is also wasted accomplishment to those of us who're productive.

  • @jayeephillips1992
    @jayeephillips1992 4 роки тому +1

    Once you call them on it it's over. They wanna put you in rotation with other guys.......no loyalty!

  • @SoulJustInCase
    @SoulJustInCase 5 років тому +8

    Oshay man without ypur content idk wherw my midnaet would be. Your videos have really helped me in fact everyday it helps me.

  • @Angelshavemanyeyes
    @Angelshavemanyeyes 3 роки тому +1

    damn man im sorry it happens to us all

  • @drewbranch7700
    @drewbranch7700 5 років тому +1

    Oshay that is exactly what I do bruh. Value yourself and also value your time.

  • @andrewbaker5824
    @andrewbaker5824 4 роки тому

    Great video. I don't let any woman waste my time. Glad you made a video to let the brother's know to stop letting women waste their time.

  • @gordonarnold7465
    @gordonarnold7465 5 років тому +3

    Brother,
    I personally Love everything about you
    You are definitely the MAN! 💪 👊 👏 👌
    KEEP UP THE
    KEEP UP!
    AND KEEP PEOPLE THINKING 💭 🤔👍
    AMEN! 🤣 😆 🤓

  • @aceboogie8813
    @aceboogie8813 5 років тому +2

    Like tommy once said.."FIRST RIGHT TO REFUSAL"

  • @abanks9591
    @abanks9591 5 років тому +1

    You hit this one out the park

  • @Lateralus46x2
    @Lateralus46x2 5 років тому +4

    This is gold

  • @-doom-1740
    @-doom-1740 5 років тому +5

    Great Job on that last video Oshay you make a great point about not disregarding my brothers that may not have accomplished what I have. Definitely made me think..

  • @Gillah_Ville
    @Gillah_Ville 5 років тому +3

    Oh you cookn cookn 🔥🔥🔥👏🏿🤟🏿

  • @readyreg9119
    @readyreg9119 5 років тому +1

    Women have to feel wanted and NEEDED. Once you show her you “may want” want her but don’t NEED her...it’s a wrap! Then she’ll know her place and you’ll have peace!

  • @FloreFleur
    @FloreFleur 5 років тому

    All the fellas need to watch this video!

  • @fraternicholas
    @fraternicholas 3 роки тому

    Blessing to you and your family. I respect and appreciate your contents. You have save me from going insane. I thought doing more for women would've make me more attracted to them. But it keeps push them away. Thanks again for your help.

  • @patriciamint9402
    @patriciamint9402 5 років тому +4

    "...next thing you know, you're dead!" Lol!!! that was funny ;D my first fav youtube preacher ;D

  • @animeinsane9611
    @animeinsane9611 5 років тому +6

    older years lol? Wtf 38 is not old oshay.... lol
    still great vid content as usual.

  • @funnymoneymikee
    @funnymoneymikee 5 років тому +1

    duke u talk that talk keep doing bro for real play the organ

  • @strauqq1
    @strauqq1 5 років тому +1

    Oh, you preaching today.

  • @df1phantom
    @df1phantom 5 років тому +1

    Over there waiting on them and they ain't got s*** to offer just to keep it 💯

  • @jameswinslow1651
    @jameswinslow1651 5 років тому +2

    It is funny he mentions not wasting my time. A woman told me that she didn’t want me in her body. I told her I don’t want her wasting me time. She had the nerve to tell me that wasn’t being fair to her. WTF!

  • @gymman7805
    @gymman7805 5 років тому

    You preaching brotha

  • @mrg3284
    @mrg3284 5 років тому

    RAC would be Proud!! Mode One...

  • @nsisongamama4760
    @nsisongamama4760 5 років тому +4

    Such fillies are histrionically narcissistic at best.....SMH! Word up, ODJ!

  • @mikenonhuman1335
    @mikenonhuman1335 5 років тому +1

    I've been listening to u for 2 yrs. This is one of the top 3 videos for sure. This video is some real shit!!! 🔥🔥🔥

  • @mrg3284
    @mrg3284 5 років тому

    Talk that shit brother!!

  • @jayeephillips1992
    @jayeephillips1992 4 роки тому +1

    You have 2 options when they go bad....... call them out or play dumb. If you have any pride I'd end it but if you are cool with just smashing then play stupid.

  • @qrfprivatesandman
    @qrfprivatesandman 5 років тому +2

    For every man thats maybe young so u havent experienced this...to the fuckin T...this is reality...nothing added, nothing left out..this is men & women relations to the core...i literally have been doing this to women for the past few years now...i realized my worth...i decide the type of ball we play with & what sport its going to be...if u dont like it...dudes...no disrespect...no name calling...no feelings...goodbye...i value my time...u better too

  • @pakzgucci3269
    @pakzgucci3269 5 років тому +1

    Brother Oshay preached

  • @jamescarter2013
    @jamescarter2013 5 років тому +1

    Powerful Message Oshay ‼️

  • @blackfistxu7953
    @blackfistxu7953 4 роки тому

    Thanks for another good message brother. This one really really hit home for me. You are a blessing bro

  • @coachganginthebuilding
    @coachganginthebuilding 4 місяці тому

    Another old video that came up . Dopeness OSHAY . Free agent fo’ life!

  • @promochannel25
    @promochannel25 5 років тому +2

    RIP Luke Perry 💔

  • @brianpelzer5811
    @brianpelzer5811 5 років тому

    GOOD COMMENTARY OSHAY ON HOW WOMEN CHANGE PATTERNS IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP.

  • @allenbarrow4904
    @allenbarrow4904 5 років тому

    Oshay,
    Thank you for your time and the message. Your channel is speaking TRUTH and KNOWLEDGE because Men and Women are watching and listening. But it's good too that men's voice their opinions how women treats their time.
    I got this female who I see just for concerts and movies only due to boredom. Do not need her for sex or other activities because it's already covered for me. She now wants a stronger relationship but no thanks. I told her needs to grow up and learn to listen on having intelligent conversations with men about preferences. In short, being honest what do you want from men.
    She got upset and didn't call or text me for a week and started talking herself and subjects in her life and those people in her life. I told her I rather be a friend instead of a side dude because I got school, new job and other activities put ahead of her. She got quiet and said she got the message and now acts right and more open too? It's a wait and see deal, not hold my breath on it but at least it is a step in the right direction. Good luck with this channel and message. Peace

  • @ChanceBerryman
    @ChanceBerryman 5 років тому +1

    Dealing with women’s bullshit will get you to that point. I’m 36, successful etc and I really don’t have time to be out here kicking it for nothing. No we not texting, no I don’t want to chill, no I don’t care abt that chick at work you don’t like. BYE.

  • @Marcus2839
    @Marcus2839 5 років тому

    Standing ovation!!!!!!!! Preach!!

  • @roscoec.tarver4118
    @roscoec.tarver4118 5 років тому

    OSHAy I like to see a brother grow.some of the you tubers are so dug in. They refuse to or can not grow. I’m proud of u! Stay sharp”

  • @peopleunite78
    @peopleunite78 5 років тому

    And you owed her the same thing...nothing !!!

  • @drewyetti
    @drewyetti 5 років тому +1

    Exactly right! 💯

  • @chrisnas1483
    @chrisnas1483 3 роки тому

    🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌 preach brotha ..

  • @flawed2001
    @flawed2001 5 років тому

    Amen Bro! This will PREACH!!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @Rory-ct1zu
    @Rory-ct1zu 2 роки тому

    Oshay the Great.......good evening

  • @Mic_Flex
    @Mic_Flex 5 років тому

    Lessons for the freshmen #realtalk and it hurts boys BUT you will survive #solute and the game gets way colder

  • @strategiclife-coachinginte2458
    @strategiclife-coachinginte2458 5 років тому +1

    Brother, I have learned from the time I was fifteen, when it comes to a female Something Different Something Wrong, I now understand; not to get upset with a snake for being a snake, its a snake let it be what it is

  • @darinbzy6358
    @darinbzy6358 5 років тому

    Manipulative time wasters are what they're called.. Usually don't watch cause of the soft shoe n yu an steve the dean b on.. But you do speak a lot of truth about women. Also yu got solid storytelling skills.. B1

  • @fitzroywalker2443
    @fitzroywalker2443 5 років тому

    Pass the collection plate, cause this man is preaching that hot fire. Careful you might melt that Mike.

  • @samsonpagon7550
    @samsonpagon7550 5 років тому +20

    I'm not black but I know what you are saying

    • @RogerSanGabriel
      @RogerSanGabriel 5 років тому +7

      We are all black in the dark. All men have been with females like this. Men are the source of female entertainment when she is not longer amused by a certain man, she will just get another one.

  • @s.w.4174
    @s.w.4174 5 років тому

    LMAO!!!!! He set that shit up funny

  • @mitchivantaylorov3595
    @mitchivantaylorov3595 2 роки тому +1

    ..best video of the year.. happy new year brother

  • @erickp.5601
    @erickp.5601 5 років тому +1

    Why is Oshay the Great so damn Great? Videos like this. Calypso Organ!!

  • @KennyG488
    @KennyG488 5 років тому +2

    Oshay Duke Jackson keep it 💯🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @BOSZAY
    @BOSZAY 5 років тому

    They we should chase constantly

  • @pickingupthepieces1307
    @pickingupthepieces1307 5 років тому +1

    Oshay, hate to agree with you, but u are Soo Right !!!

  • @Swayze_S.L
    @Swayze_S.L 5 років тому

    You preaching scriptures right now OG.. They ain't up on that block game. I cut a bitch off quick af .. I ain't got no kinda time for the bullshit no more.

  • @rorinsonjohn1439
    @rorinsonjohn1439 5 років тому +1

    Oshay the funny thing is when you check them it seems to turn a lot of them on since they haven't been done like that before. To late I've moved on..😎

  • @peopleunite78
    @peopleunite78 5 років тому +1

    Brothas, you teach these women how to treat you literally.

  • @bricktothehead
    @bricktothehead 5 років тому

    Oshay, I appreciate your strong words...I needed to hear this.

  • @1CedricWilliam
    @1CedricWilliam 5 років тому

    Speak on it brother 💯

  •  5 років тому

    In my heyday when it came to my paper chase I ALWAYS put $$ over bitches first and FOREMOST and today I am better off for this mindset.

  • @FarmerYuHaden
    @FarmerYuHaden 5 років тому +4

    Love your content

  • @richarddarling8418
    @richarddarling8418 5 років тому +1

    Man I can see the pain on Oshay face damn lol

    • @GanMan7
      @GanMan7 5 років тому

      You hurt. Oshay speaking that real.

  • @funnymoneymikee
    @funnymoneymikee 5 років тому +1

    play the organ duke

  • @smileyman7376
    @smileyman7376 5 років тому +1

    she does owe you she having relation going on with you at the time
    if the tables were turned she would expect the same so there you go

  • @AmmoShockTroop
    @AmmoShockTroop 4 роки тому

    Real fuckin talk!!!

  • @3oxisprimus848
    @3oxisprimus848 5 років тому

    Respect Doc

  • @jonathangant251
    @jonathangant251 5 років тому

    Thanks I had to need this after here this game and the thing happened.

  • @Eastwood302e
    @Eastwood302e 5 років тому +1

    Great message sir!