ENG SUB【Nothing But Thirty 三十而已】EP14 | Starring: Jiang Shu Ying, Tong Yao, Mao Xiao Tong

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    【Synopsis】The drama unfolds from the perspective of three women in their thirties, telling the story of urban women in their thirties, an important age node, when they encounter multiple pressures.
    【Starring】Jiang Shu Ying, Tong Yao, Yang Le, Mao Xiao Tong
    ENG SUB【Nothing But Thirty 三十而已】EP14 | Starring: Jiang Shu Ying, Tong Yao, Mao Xiao Tong
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 211

  • @harrobye8233
    @harrobye8233 4 роки тому +65

    U kno a man is dodgy wen he refuses to define a relationship

  • @Pantoufle8
    @Pantoufle8 3 роки тому +51

    I feel like he has some traumatic past, relationship-wise, that he can't get over yet and that's why he's scared to define their relationship.
    If he's just dodgy, I'll be so upset lol

  • @rosedawg7895
    @rosedawg7895 3 роки тому +64

    Man Ni is my homegirl. Love the way she thinks. I so get her. Nothing wrong with being able to look after yourself and having standards 👊

    • @virginiaboone8163
      @virginiaboone8163 2 роки тому +5

      The three main characters are good role models for young women everywhere.

  • @alefreinar7569
    @alefreinar7569 4 роки тому +53

    So he didn´t define their relationship and give to her a car as a gift and almost give her a credit card....it´s almost like to say "I´m not sure but for now, you are more like a lover status". She did well to didn´t accept the credit card x_x

  • @teyoshariff5598
    @teyoshariff5598 2 роки тому +22

    If he is not defining the relationship,take that card/ gifts and define your own happiness.
    Like gal by a house with his credit card put your name on it🤣 it's a gift

  • @kstone6014
    @kstone6014 3 роки тому +26

    I understand Mr. Liang Zheng Xian is not ready for commitment to have a serious relationship but he really like Ni Ni. He just need slow down to get know her better

  • @bibibello2181
    @bibibello2181 Рік тому +10

    If a single handsome man whom I have feelings for is not defining our relationship but chooses to spoil me with money, I will take all he is giving me and not put too much hope in him but will build a future for myself.

  • @JosieC-hq8fk
    @JosieC-hq8fk 4 роки тому +58

    I am glad Man Ni said no to the credit card. This guy is a player.

    • @lindathompson3982
      @lindathompson3982 Рік тому +1

      There's a difference between being a player & a womanizer...That he is very drawn to a mature woman like Manni, that he respects her thinking & decisions
      and right to decide speaks well of him.
      I doubt very much he sees himself as a player & certainly not a womanizer..He is clear enough as to what he promises & what he doesn't..as open as is necessary for him to be and I notice- -Manni hasn't asked him about his relationship status outside of their affair...She's thinking, foolishly, there's nothing to ask, and he's offered no status information..Her knowing he has not 'offered' definition should warn a grown woman; what seens too perfect to be true••is exactly that: not as it seems!

  • @justmeonthebeach
    @justmeonthebeach 2 роки тому +12

    Yes, that guy is a player. Im sure he has girlfriends in every season. He takes the cruise ship to find lonely ladies, and seduce them. Dont ever sleep with a guy if you are not married to him. That's it. Period.

    • @rukagi
      @rukagi Рік тому

      Girls nowadays sleep around

  • @Dani-pt4yp
    @Dani-pt4yp 2 роки тому +13

    I’m happy that Xiao Qin is divorced now but my heart hurts a bit bc I can see they still love each other but they definitely don’t know how to share their feelings, specially him so they can’t be together

    • @aleksk9643
      @aleksk9643 2 роки тому +3

      They don't love each other, they just get used to each other.

    • @virginiaboone8163
      @virginiaboone8163 2 роки тому +1

      I feel sad for him. He is really a good guy.

    • @rukagi
      @rukagi Рік тому

      @@virginiaboone8163 He deserves better. Xiao Qing is too childish

    • @virginiaboone9503
      @virginiaboone9503 3 місяці тому

      She gets on my nerves and I’m sure she got on her husband’s.

  • @shiqichen272
    @shiqichen272 4 роки тому +40

    顾佳的气度和格局是做大事的。

    • @vexpressivo
      @vexpressivo 3 роки тому +1

      她在厂里说话好像保险公司核保员一幕一样。👀

    • @lindathompson3982
      @lindathompson3982 Рік тому

      @@vexpressivo And?

  • @elenac556
    @elenac556 Рік тому +6

    8:19 what a despicable guy by calling her an old woman!

  • @DP-oi9nd
    @DP-oi9nd 3 роки тому +24

    Im taking all the gifts. yall tripping, dont deny abundance when it does no one any harm smh

    • @lucretciaseven4873
      @lucretciaseven4873 3 роки тому +10

      In time you will find there is no such thing as getting something for nothing, there is always a cost. In this case a man will expect you to put up with whatever he does because he knows you love the material things and when you don't the gravy train halts and if you do put up with it the cost is your self respect. They aren't gifts they are down payments on owning her. and the more she takes the less say she has in te relationship.

    • @kdhj88
      @kdhj88 2 роки тому +1

      …..Typical….🙄🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @lolitahansen1682
      @lolitahansen1682 2 роки тому

      Girl RIGHT, she trippin. He didnt say quit your job, hes giving gifts, you wanted someone rich then act offended when he treats her with gifts and money. Just never satisfied. We all know youre a strong independent woman, but girl STFU and take the gifts! LOL

    • @OluwatosinOgunyemi-lv1sx
      @OluwatosinOgunyemi-lv1sx 2 місяці тому

      ​@@lucretciaseven4873 The comments have been looking for. I respect this comment. It tally with me

  • @CM-jg4zp
    @CM-jg4zp 4 роки тому +34

    he evaded man ni's question. He did not say whether or not she is his girlfriend

    • @lamyolei
      @lamyolei 4 роки тому +4

      Ikr, weird man though, we women know this situation doesn't sit well

    • @kenyabell2982
      @kenyabell2982 4 роки тому +7

      We don’t want him to be a bad man. I’m rooting for them!!!

    • @CM-jg4zp
      @CM-jg4zp 4 роки тому +2

      @@kenyabell2982 gurrrrrrl......I will say no more!

  • @chaosthao2009
    @chaosthao2009 3 роки тому +7

    Me watching at the 25min mark… where’s the traffic? 😅

    • @TheGLOSSette
      @TheGLOSSette 2 роки тому

      Exactly..... They cant film car scenes in real traffic. They can replicate it but too much wok trying extra people diving in cars alongside them.

    • @rukagi
      @rukagi Рік тому

      @@TheGLOSSette They could have recorded during red light lmao

  • @lilyfu7575
    @lilyfu7575 4 роки тому +26

    这个剧好看的停不下来。

  • @janettangcantu822
    @janettangcantu822 4 роки тому +43

    这男的渣是渣 但是他是真的大方啊 有几个渣男能做到这样

    • @sisi5057
      @sisi5057 4 роки тому +9

      哈哈。遇到这样的渣男还挺好的,这时候谈感情就俗气了

    • @sonnyasu
      @sonnyasu 4 роки тому +1

      两个字:包养

    • @leahidjaja1725
      @leahidjaja1725 4 роки тому

      @@sonnyasu m
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      M. N.
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  • @jacejovinz8964
    @jacejovinz8964 Рік тому +2

    The writer is making the Liang Script mysterious 😪am in much suspense.I need a spoiler to tell me the mystery behind him😪

  • @lolb1339
    @lolb1339 4 роки тому +47

    哎 晓芹自己管钱 滴滴滴 几天就没了

  • @kenyabell2982
    @kenyabell2982 4 роки тому +11

    She’s sitting side saddle on a motorcycle? Is that even possible in reality?

    • @Hydrang3a
      @Hydrang3a 4 роки тому +7

      From experience, yes

    • @temiscorner3867
      @temiscorner3867 3 роки тому +5

      Yes it is. She’s Wearing a skirt and doesn’t want her body showing to the public.

    • @rosedawg7895
      @rosedawg7895 3 роки тому +3

      I’m glad someone brought this up. Looks mega cute but 8m not sure I could ride like that.

    • @ll4759
      @ll4759 2 роки тому +3

      It is quite common in some places.

    • @whimsicaldamsel6323
      @whimsicaldamsel6323 2 місяці тому

      It's common in India

  • @Pantoufle8
    @Pantoufle8 3 роки тому +18

    Where is he getting this money from tho? When does he work?? Is he involved in some shady business that he doesn't want her to be a part of?
    Maybe he's testing her, lol, to see if she just wants his money or not. I don't want her to get hurt!

    • @gabrielmartin1400
      @gabrielmartin1400 3 роки тому +4

      You ask good questions. Maybe in future episodes he is under investigation? Like the way you think!

    • @TheGLOSSette
      @TheGLOSSette 2 роки тому +2

      Money laundering? And need to disperse this money somehow?

  • @jonathankohn5547
    @jonathankohn5547 4 роки тому +5

    xiaoqin的妈妈很可爱

  • @shiqichen272
    @shiqichen272 4 роки тому +9

    港男真的太油腻了。。。。听个歌剧一直哔哩吧啦的。想到贺丰和雅思听歌剧的那场戏,就是天壤之别。

  • @lauralyu9956
    @lauralyu9956 4 роки тому +9

    顾佳这个嘴怎么看着这么难受

  • @danielaluo7424
    @danielaluo7424 2 роки тому

    好喜欢最后一段三个人吃饭的戏,演得太真实了

  • @donglinwang3453
    @donglinwang3453 4 роки тому +16

    这个剧看的好压抑

    • @日光倾城
      @日光倾城 4 роки тому +2

      是不是因为代入感很强?

  • @danniGF
    @danniGF 4 роки тому +5

    三个人圆桌吃饭。我们的镜头旋转跳跃不停歇 。。。 真的是不怕观众晕吐。。。

  • @蒟蒻醬桑
    @蒟蒻醬桑 4 роки тому +3

    没有直接回答接受车子是以什么身份的时候,就是回避!老油条!老司机!😎

  • @shiqichen272
    @shiqichen272 4 роки тому +32

    漫妮和第一次见面的小白在车上谈这些真是不合适

    • @codingbomb666
      @codingbomb666 4 роки тому

      是啊哈哈哈

    • @AL-cr7uc
      @AL-cr7uc 3 роки тому +1

      非常没有礼貌 连朋友都不算 还站在道德的制高点指责别人

  • @disappearintothesea
    @disappearintothesea 2 роки тому +2

    This guy is gaslighting Man Ni. He's giving me creep vibes.

  • @harrobye8233
    @harrobye8233 4 роки тому +11

    All 3 leading men character in this drama are all trash. Ones selfish, one cheats n anothers a playboy
    Watching this drama is lowkey scary

  • @lisalin727
    @lisalin727 4 роки тому +5

    没有人喜欢小芹的工作服吗?

  • @rosybreeze
    @rosybreeze 4 роки тому +10

    演许换山男演员呆呆的

  • @skyscope8409
    @skyscope8409 4 роки тому +3

    这么贵的车都接受 就已经是保养了

  • @krystynarakowiecki2558
    @krystynarakowiecki2558 2 роки тому +1

    Very nice story.

  • @MrSander2012
    @MrSander2012 3 роки тому +1

    我二十出头会接受卡 现在快三十 车都不会要 因为一切东西都默默的做好标价 比如刷这个人的卡 一旦这个人出事 警察都会找过来 正儿八经生意人 这么挥霍拿来养个女人的很少 能这样物价女性的也不是什么好东西…灵魂都不契合 床上更不要想 我觉得岁月是个好东西 起码让人越来越清醒

  • @talk2ronke
    @talk2ronke Місяць тому

    I have not finished this drama but i feel like takin Man Ni to the bar was tellling. Felt like he was introducing her to the side piece life his friends side piece is living. I hope i am wrong. Really i hope so. 😊😊

  • @allisonz7187
    @allisonz7187 4 роки тому +1

    刚拿到车就开这么好,厉害了

  • @ninali9514
    @ninali9514 4 роки тому +9

    下班高峰结果路上也没什么车啊🤨

  • @lolb1339
    @lolb1339 4 роки тому +7

    哈哈哈哈 “你别搞这些虚的”=“别天天比着装逼” 哈哈哈

  • @jenniezheng843
    @jenniezheng843 4 роки тому +15

    钟人设不讨喜,智商也不够,只会瞎嚷嚷

    • @conniesu1020
      @conniesu1020 4 роки тому

      我都是跳过她的戏看的😂

  • @gangmai2754
    @gangmai2754 4 роки тому +11

    这港男恐怕真的只是玩玩而已吧。

  • @hardmanapril437
    @hardmanapril437 4 роки тому +13

    许还山是那年花开月正圆里的王管家吗??!!越看越像呐

    • @vickychen1764
      @vickychen1764 4 роки тому

      Liu Yue 是,就是他

    • @shiqichen272
      @shiqichen272 4 роки тому +1

      哈哈哈,没错,我看着他就总是很出戏,想到他是周莹家的王掌柜

    • @yvonneli5090
      @yvonneli5090 4 роки тому +1

      完美关系里沈英杰也是他,这里他那个朋友沈杰也让我出戏😂

    • @AL-cr7uc
      @AL-cr7uc 3 роки тому

      是的

  • @mayg3474
    @mayg3474 4 роки тому +10

    邮轮男越来越像洗米华

    • @reneewang2614
      @reneewang2614 4 роки тому +1

      导演是不是就是照着他找到?

  • @zoelin7772
    @zoelin7772 4 роки тому +7

    有机分裂是个啥!不是有丝分裂?

  • @satondana5940
    @satondana5940 2 роки тому +1

    Man Ni is putting a lot of pressure on this guy. I'm not quite sure what his story is yet. He gives me the creeps though. Feels like he is a wealthy serial killer or something...lol...

    • @rukagi
      @rukagi Рік тому +1

      Maybe he's a player

  • @oceansmurf6070
    @oceansmurf6070 4 роки тому +3

    小琴被称作老女人,嗨,女人好悲催

  • @DoraG568
    @DoraG568 4 роки тому +2

    陈屿婚戒都没摘,有时男人的第六感也挺准的~

  • @wemiadon4018
    @wemiadon4018 4 роки тому +1

    杨玏用鞋拔子提鞋,这演的也太好了吧!👍

  • @keirachen4496
    @keirachen4496 4 роки тому +1

    这洗脑洗的够彻底的

  • @Vivian-Li-2
    @Vivian-Li-2 4 роки тому +8

    许幻山除了长相以外其他都好像李亚鹏,

  • @shiqichen272
    @shiqichen272 4 роки тому +11

    “老女人....”充满恶意

  • @lichitv1164
    @lichitv1164 4 роки тому +6

    上次就被三阿哥害死了,长记性了

  • @Jason-xm7xz
    @Jason-xm7xz 4 роки тому +1

    这小子一看就不正经,玩过摩托车的都知道,哪有人出门带两个头盔的。肯定是晚上去夜蒲

  • @hadleyliu2632
    @hadleyliu2632 4 роки тому +2

    渣男上来就送车 也是下本钱了哟

  • @satondana5940
    @satondana5940 2 роки тому +2

    Cheng Yu's wife is abusive...

    • @rukagi
      @rukagi Рік тому

      childish too

  • @jiereynolds1925
    @jiereynolds1925 Рік тому

    应该说两个人对于未来的期待不同,梁没有结婚的计划,曼妮多少是明白的,不敢问而已

  • @elainewang9701
    @elainewang9701 4 роки тому +8

    顾家是事业型女人,家庭对她是种束缚,她的能力野心和心性都更适合做女绝户

    • @lindathompson3982
      @lindathompson3982 Рік тому

      If she were married to an equally brilliant & self-assured, mature man- -Where would the difficulty be?
      Personal gifts & strengths should be prized & valued...not begruged by a mate.

  • @哈哈哈333
    @哈哈哈333 4 роки тому +1

    看歌剧还逼逼逼逼

  • @tianpeixiao9106
    @tianpeixiao9106 4 роки тому

    王漫妮陪梁品酒时候穿的那条裙子是什么牌子的呀?

  • @kakakaka-qc2ug
    @kakakaka-qc2ug 4 роки тому +9

    邮轮男到底看上曼尼什么了?这个好玛丽苏的感觉

    • @selina5827
      @selina5827 4 роки тому

      养成系的感觉

    • @michxshao
      @michxshao 4 роки тому +1

      漂亮啊

    • @liang890330
      @liang890330 4 роки тому +2

      看上曼尼让他睡了,反正又不娶不般配有什么关系?

    • @yichangxing8929
      @yichangxing8929 4 роки тому

      好看呗,又比🐔干净

    • @shekd9699
      @shekd9699 4 роки тому

      我也不知道

  • @satondana5940
    @satondana5940 2 роки тому +3

    This woma is enjoying squandering the ex-husband's money like a crazy person as if the guy cheated on her or something. She is the one who was smothering the guy together with her mother. There were 3 people in their marriage, and she i not understand why the guy was unhappy. She will regret...

    • @crestm1384
      @crestm1384 Рік тому +5

      Not sure how she's squandering the ex's money when every single one of her paychecks have gone into the account he controls. Before she didn't buy much for herself just for the household. Like she said all the deliveries except for the face masks, which was something new she was buying, and the phone case the rest was for the house. For three years she has put the money she earned into the joint account and spent little on herself. He's spent more money on his fish then she's spent on herself for three years. Also as she said all the money she's spending on herself she's deducting from her divorce settlement. There were also four entities in the marriage. Him, her, her mother and his fish. With the way he treats the fish every time he doesn't want to deal with something they might as well be the other women. Their lack of communication is the reason their relationship died.

  • @EmpressRoselinde
    @EmpressRoselinde 4 роки тому +2

    13:54 wow! Where is it?

    • @daniellet.3072
      @daniellet.3072 4 роки тому

      I want to know as well

    • @Elyw22
      @Elyw22 3 роки тому +1

      I believe its in Lishan Town , Fuyang District of Hangzhou

  • @simonmacdonald888
    @simonmacdonald888 3 роки тому +1

    The 🇻🇺 skeletons in the bag 💼 can’t waiting for them to appear 🎵

  • @peixuanli4989
    @peixuanli4989 4 роки тому

    我也想吃面,可是我现在只有能吃的方便面。😭

  • @yig8763
    @yig8763 4 роки тому +2

    受不了梁正贤讲话

  • @joangong7641
    @joangong7641 4 роки тому +5

    再给这港普20集的时间也不可能出圈,这种所谓的港男风为什么在他这就变得很土

  • @로블롤하는주앤원
    @로블롤하는주앤원 3 роки тому +1

    曼妮让这个男的有负担了 人家只想玩玩 她想的是做梁太太

  • @hanfei2756
    @hanfei2756 4 роки тому +1

    看到港男就快进

  • @wulili8723
    @wulili8723 4 роки тому +1

    看歌剧这样一直说话…这…

  • @Sunshine-jm8ds
    @Sunshine-jm8ds 4 роки тому +4

    其实陈宇真的没那么差,离婚有点可惜了

    • @陈升-w4f
      @陈升-w4f 4 роки тому +2

      没错 算得上好男人

  • @hangcen7714
    @hangcen7714 4 роки тому

    有一种心情叫提心吊胆!就如顾佳的心情

  • @dannizou7549
    @dannizou7549 4 роки тому +10

    老女人?

    • @lolb1339
      @lolb1339 4 роки тому +1

      Su Yarman 是台词啦 别激动

    • @elinal855
      @elinal855 4 роки тому +1

      @@suyarman1943 8:20

  • @evergreen8807
    @evergreen8807 3 роки тому +2

    我真不喜欢来自香港的油腻Playboy

  • @codingbomb666
    @codingbomb666 4 роки тому +1

    电视剧里才有的渣男。。。

  • @1cnnz1
    @1cnnz1 4 роки тому +3

    完成有机分裂,回归单独个体

  • @aileenlin6738
    @aileenlin6738 4 роки тому +2

    天哪,港男好大方啊

    • @hayleylai8543
      @hayleylai8543 4 роки тому +1

      现实可不是这样 打扰了

    • @猪-i8i
      @猪-i8i 4 роки тому +1

      觉得他有问题

  • @whimsicaldamsel6323
    @whimsicaldamsel6323 2 місяці тому

    This Xiaoqin is such a horrible person

  • @MissUniverse1111
    @MissUniverse1111 2 роки тому +3

    Nini is getting on my nerves with this judgemental and self righteous act of hers,girl puhlease🙄 and she had better accept Liang zhens gift and spend his money cos this"thing" between them isn't going anywhere,you wanted a rich man now you've got it and you're acting like his money isn't one of the reasons you're with him.
    Love how xia qin is recklessly spending chen Yu's money😂,spend his cash girl👏

    • @rukagi
      @rukagi Рік тому

      It was also her fault, she's way too childish and fish guy is bad communicating

  • @RAHH-s3c
    @RAHH-s3c 4 роки тому

    相差六岁?看不出来

  • @harrobye8233
    @harrobye8233 4 роки тому +7

    Xiao qing has no right to say she dislikes young boys haha wen she literally acts n dresses much younger than 30. Shes literally just as immature
    This girl can be so short sighted lol. At least get ur own credit card instead of using the same acc as ur ex husbands. Talk about having no tact

    • @mercye6151
      @mercye6151 4 роки тому +7

      I actually disagree because irregardless of personal fashion I feel people can like anything/one they want but I actually think she dresses like a 30 year old tho, her face and behavior is just cute looking and sometimes immature

    • @yvonnettabushell6040
      @yvonnettabushell6040 3 роки тому +1

      And she's 30 and can't even make a meal for herself ..has to run home to mom and dad whenever she's along🧐

    • @whimsicaldamsel6323
      @whimsicaldamsel6323 2 місяці тому

      She did say she was thinking about divorce since her miscarriage so she should at least have gotten her finances in order before squandering other people's money, she is so senseless

  • @yuexue8664
    @yuexue8664 2 роки тому

    在上海八年的曼妮,一分钱都没攒吗,还要爸妈的?

  • @linacui
    @linacui 4 роки тому +7

    江疏影和胡歌长得有点像啊

    • @elainewang9701
      @elainewang9701 4 роки тому +1

      这点竟然有人跟我有同感哦,太意外了

    • @linlinwang5949
      @linlinwang5949 4 роки тому +1

      哪里是有点像 明明就是太像了

    • @mayg3474
      @mayg3474 4 роки тому

      眼睛细长 还往下耷拉 还有一点点外斜

    • @elainewang9701
      @elainewang9701 4 роки тому

      笑起来嘴巴和眼睛的组合更明显

  • @JorrinaCC
    @JorrinaCC 4 роки тому

    编剧太理想主义了吧 知道沪A摩托车牌照几个钱吗????

  • @meilin8654
    @meilin8654 4 роки тому +1

    就是不说“朋友”还是“男朋友”,可恶

  • @lucretciaseven4873
    @lucretciaseven4873 3 роки тому +4

    I'm liking Xiao Qin' less and less, she has two very different faces, with her mom at times and with Chen Yu she's snotty mean and entitled and with her girl friends she does the cute helpless little doll routine. She has no reason to be so hateful to her ex-husband the marriage just didn't work out, it's not like he abused her, spent all her money on gambling, was falling down drunk all the time or cheated on her. I just get the feeling she gets mean and nasty when she doesn't get her way and isn't treated like a coddled little princess. The divorce wasn't all his fault and if she treated everyone like she treated her ex when they were married she wouldn't have a friend in the world. He was very kind about the settlement and went out of his way not to make it rough on her and the way she acted about using his credit card really set my teeth on edge, if I was him I would have canceled the damn thing and told her to kick rocks. I know everyone will slam me for saying all this, but she's really started grating on my nerves I guess because I don't like two faced people.
    Man Ni needs to RUN, that man she's seeing isn't looking very promising and generally when something seems too good to be true it's because it's too bad to be fake.

    • @gabrielmartin1400
      @gabrielmartin1400 3 роки тому

      Well look at the fact when her parents sat both of them down to find out the truth from both of them. Did she act childish, mean and snotty and two faced? No, she said nothing bad about her ex-husband but just the truth. Her parents are just misleading her to get back together and even though he saved her on the island people like him can always pretend to show a good side.

    • @lucretciaseven4873
      @lucretciaseven4873 3 роки тому +2

      @@gabrielmartin1400 "Pretend to show a good side" what are you talking about, he's done no more wrong to her than she has to him. He didn't bad mouth her either, he played along with her trying to deceive her parents to save her face. She is constantly screaming at him and being very nasty and spiteful no matter what he does, goof bad or indifferent. He's done nothing to her to deserve the level of hate and vitriol she's been directing at him and it's kind of repulsive.
      He split the house which he didn't have to do and she was grateful for all of two seconds, but that's how she has been acting just constantly taking him for granted and ordering him around, like that bit of highhanded nastiness when he hadn't packed her things. Her biggest problem is she has been spoiled rotten and is very immature because she's always gotten her way by acting the cute little baby, but she is thirty now and that act is old.
      We shall just have to agree to disagree on this subject I'm afraid.

    • @gabrielmartin1400
      @gabrielmartin1400 3 роки тому

      @@lucretciaseven4873 have you ever researched three triad personalities such as narcissism, sociopath and psychopath? I understand what you are saying. You present a different viewpoint. Although she isn't perfect, I believe Xiao Qin is better character because she loved and needed empathy for losing her child. Her friends had empathy and showed sympathy for her. Not Chen yu and his brother. Chen xu, Chen yu's brother didn't give a damn.he just constantly annoying anyway. He always shows up just pestering her to stay and get back with Chen yu. This manipulates her to think he is a good man when he is not. He didn't want children then why did he marry her in the first place?
      Do people not have a right to get angry at someone for how they treated them?
      He acted like it was his house to begin with? Even though she didn't move out at first? He acted like he was entitled to the house and acted like everything belongs to him even though he split everything between them. Of course she behaved this way when he acted worse than her. I'm in defense of her rather than the narcissistic Chen yu because narcissist can pretend to act nice to people. Yes, he only did two good things but that doesn’t neglect the fact she lacks thinking skills for herself to be independent of others. It doesn't neglect that he could be pretending to be nice to her just to get her back. Even his brother is backing up his narcissistic behavior and trying to get her back with him. So Chen yu and his brother are part of the problem in the story anyway. I believe the writers could have introduced her learning to think for herself and the three triad personalities as a way of growth to be wary of these two men she could only choose from in the story. The writers only gave her these two men in the story it seems like there were no other choices for her. Now it seems that she has to go back to her ex-husband? The writers make her a flat character because she doesn't grow, change or learn from the experiences she has to overcome.
      I felt this doesn't give her depth as a character. I like her character better than the men the writers force her to choose from. If the writers presented another male character her age whose character resembled gu Jia, who could teach her and help her to grow it would have given her depth and roundedness of character that would have been better for the story, instead of continously making her a flat character as the writers make her to be. . As gu Jia is full of many talents, abilities and wisdom. A male character who matched gu Jia would have shown a balance for Xiao Qin to make her to fully grow and develop.
      The sad part is she has only two men to choose from. With Shanghai being a huge city. No other men could have been presented as a balance for her to have a relationship and marriage? One who wants a family with her? I think the writers could have done better with this part. Yet Xiao Qin's parents don't help much either. They don't have any knowledge of these three triad personalities. Not all parents teach their children right or give good advice or guidance. If you want to blame someone, blame her parents. Her parents are part of the problem as well for making her go back to her ex-husband. Like things are going to change if she gets back with him.

    • @gabrielmartin1400
      @gabrielmartin1400 3 роки тому

      So according to you, every person in the world is two faced, including all the lead female characters in this story. Not just Xiao Qin. I don't believe Xiao Qin is two faced, not for one second. If this is what you believe. I believe then your argument is rather weak on your opinion.

    • @lucretciaseven4873
      @lucretciaseven4873 3 роки тому +1

      @@gabrielmartin1400 You apparently have trouble with reading comprehension, because I very clearly only said Xiao Qin seemed two faced and said absolutely nothing about EVERY person in the world or EVERY female character in this drama Personally I don't care what you believe or what you think of my opinion, but what you do NOT get to do is arrogantly paraphrase or translate what I said or what I meant, it was very precise and doesn't need your snide interpretation.
      I also don't need your approval to have an opinion on a FICTIONAL character, so if you cannot handle someone having a view contrary to yours I suggest you shove your sarcasm where you keep your opinions and don't read comments.

  • @gabrielmartin1400
    @gabrielmartin1400 3 роки тому +1

    I'm starting to dislike Xiao Qin's coworker. He is not just childish but doesn't respect her. I believe there will be trouble ahead if they get into a relationship or marriage. She needs to be brave and set boundaries by telling him she isn't interested in him. She has already told him she doesn't like his childish behavior. I feel he will end up hurting her in the end. He constantly bothers her in a very negative way. These are reasons I'm starting to hate her coworker. There is a difference between making a woman laugh and playing jokes on her to irritate her.
    He showing signs of a psychopath. He in fact is really torturing her (psychopaths torture people). Sad. I hope she can do something about it. Plus he constantly follows and stalks her from time to time. He is showing red flags already. I see nothing positive about this guy. His repetitive behavior can be irritating.
    She just ended a relationship and marriage with an uncaring, emotionally detached person who is self centered (narcissistic). She doesn't need a person who has a three triad personality (narcissistic, sociopath and psychopath). I see she is a humble carefree introvert.
    It seems introvert people like me seems to always magnetize these wicked people.

    • @rukagi
      @rukagi Рік тому

      Xiao Qing is also childish and needy though

  • @oceansmurf6070
    @oceansmurf6070 4 роки тому

    男的不帅女的不媚,还是韩国欧巴好看,又高又帅