You said you lived in America? Why complain about him? You had the chance to be strong and divorce any day, but you didn’t! Marriage is not set in stone, you could have left the first week if you knew he was not a good husband. Why have kids to tie you down if he’s not a good father? You are half to blame!
Some women aren’t as strong as others…it’s easier to say do this and that when you’re in the outside looking in but when it happens to you, then and only then will you know what you would truly do!!!
I've always told you ladies that if your hubby is a known cheater, NEVER, EVER trust him!!! If he's suddenly extra nice and sweet to you, even if you think he's not a cheater, he's got ulterior motives. Either he's seeing someone or he's fixin to get with someone. ALWAYS be suspicious and on the look out! Dont EVER blindly trust someone, even your spouse, 100%!!! It's 50/50. Keep one foot inside and the other outside. This is to protect yourself and your assets!!!
I feel you sister, you wanted to be a good wife and a good person, but you lived in a miserable life. We all wants to be that one good friend, should always put family first and not using your money to be a good friend. Whether you lives in the past or present, cheating is not acceptable. Whether you're a woman or man, if your spouse truly loves you, he/she should never cheat. No woman should live in a life like yours now a days. Once you realize it's not going to work, or you can't be committed, need to talk and let each other go. Sister, sorry to say but your husband never love you or his kids. Got to think positive and love yourself.
Ca koj ruam ualuaj naj tus niam tsev koj niag txiv es ua npaum kos rau koj los koj tseem ntseeg nws thiab ce tsi txhob tus siab os tus niam tsev yus nrog yus ruam xwb os mog.
Koj ces raum dhau lawm ces tuag zoo dua o. Koj ces raum dhau lawm es laug thiaj li muab yus dog li ntawd nas. Koj ces tsua dog yus raum ces koj niam txiv ua rau koj los koj twb tseem hlub thiab nrog nws nyob. Kaj tsis nyob koj niag txiv dej lub neeg xwb mas yog koj khiav tsis tau na. Leeg twb Kom koj pheej nyob nawb.
Nyiag txiv dev zoo li koj nyiag txiv dev ko es koj thiaj khwv xim xwb os niag viv ncaus ruam aw. Cas yuav ruam2 tag npaum li ko. Txiv neej tag lawm Los teb chaws no na?
Wow.. listening to the first 20 minutes of this story.. for a minute i thought it was my story.. 😂 i hate txiv zej txiv zos.. hnub g tau tawm twb mus lawm, hnub poob ib tsam twb los g txog!!
Mi viv ncaus aw cas koj yuav zoo ua luaj li os. Tus txiv zoo li koj ces tso thaum ntxov zoo dua os mog. Cas koj tseem tos txog thaum nws tsim koj nyhav npaum li no os. Pab koj tu siab dhau lawm os.
I don't know why you gave him 50 grand when you didn't trust him with the 100 grand life insurance money. It's still the same person eating your money.
Teenage mentality is very hard to handle especially in the Hmong. Culture can impress much on an individual in the core operations of life. Like the meaning of marriage, construct of honor and privilege. So how is a new mind to understand and move pass this even when deep inside, they feel things are wrong? Good role models were lacking in the 80s and 90s and even today. Trying times calls for stronger remedies and stronger catches. We must work hard to keep the whole together, to move with the times, and to engage with the world. Okay, So Special Flowers & Special Desires, well, so special. Special in that, yes, it has potential for dreams to come true. But, what dreams and who's? A volatile journey is volatile and easy to move in any direction. Keep in mind, one's failure could be another's success - The stuff of Dreams really. Have a wonderful day.
Twb hais tias koj niam nkawv muaj koj 1 leeg yog ntxhais xwb cas ho hais tias koj tus niam laus txiv laus pab tus nyuj rau koj ua kev zoo siab rau koj tus ntxhais thiab no es yog li cas. Yog koj tus txiv twb liam npaum li ko cas koj ho yuav txog thaum muaj 5 tug me nyuam es tseem yuav dua zaum 2 zaum 3 es tseem mus txais txog tsheej $50 tawm phav rau thiab naw koj ces ntshe yeej phim2 koj niag txiv liam ko kawg li thiab mas yog 1 tug txiv liam npaum ko ces yuav ntev kawg ces 3 xyoos xwb Kuv twb muab laim pov tseg lawm os tus me viv ncaus aw
Yog nej tau ib tug txiv dev zoo li koj tus no ces kav tsij muab nws ncaws tawm cuag lawb dab thiab tsis txhob nrhab ceg dav2 rau nws maj peb tsis tau pom dua li koj tsis ntse pestsawg thiab koj thiaj li yuav xwb os, cov txiv zoo li tus no tom tej muaj ntau tshaj qaug ib tseg tsuav tau 2 3 rab qau loj thiab ntev heev zoo koj siab tshaj
Ruam2 tshaj npua lm. 1 tug txiv dev li koj xwb Cas koj niaj hnub nrab ceg rau nws e yug tau tseej pab menyuam. U twb u tau u niam niag txiv dev twb pab g tau koj uacas u g divorced u nyob u. Tsim nyog muab nws recycled 30 nram ntej ub.
Twb nyob teb chaws MisKas no lawm es tseem tshuav tej tug poj niam hmoob mekas ruam tag npaum ko thiab na. I am not feeling sorry for you. You allowed your txiv dev to treat you that way.
Cov niag poj niam hmoob ruam li ko ces tsis txhob tuaj nroo nroo os. Yeej tsis muaj leej twg pab hlub koj li os. Koj yuav tsis yuav los twb yuav niag txiv dev liam koj los txog tav no es pheej tuaj hais ua dab tsi na. Tuaj hais txog koj txoj niag kev ruam xwb ces neeg nyhos koj xwb os. Cov poj ruam li ko ces yug los xiam tiam xwb. Cas yuav nkim niam txig lub zog tu hlob xwb lau. Cov poj niam ruam li koj ces ua rau peb cov poj niam hmoob poob tsim thiab tsis muaj peev xwm.
This story makes me so irritated. Your husband is such a neeg xob txiaj and liar. Cov neeg lim hiam li koj tus qub txiv ces yim lawb sai yim zoo xwb os. Txhob ntseeg siab lawm yog nws twb betray yus the first time he can do it again. I know some people that only do good to outsiders to look good but their own family they don't even care about. I dislike these type of people.
Tus poj niam nov kawm tsis thiav li. Koj twb paub tias koj tus txiv ib txwb tsis hlub koj nav, cas koj tseem rov qab cia nws los nyob nrog koj thiab. Lady, I don't feel bad for you. You did it to yourself knowing he's a serial liar.
Tus niam tais aw!!! Koj tswv yim yuav tsawg ua luaj? Koj kuj hais rau koj tus qub txiv tias yog nws tsis them koj $50,000.00 rau koj ces koj hu kom police tuaj muab nkawd thiaj teb luaj pov tseg no mas ntshe nws thiaj yuav them ov.
Hmoob ruam nej twb tuaj nyob lub tebchaws mékas lawm cas nej tseem siv hmoob txoj niag cai uas yog dev npua cai no thiab ? Nej twb yeej paub zoo tias tebchaws no txawm yog muaj txiv lawm los yog nws yeem lawm ces nej kawg npuav dej xwb, leej twg tsa txoj cai nplua nyiaj no rau nej cov hmoob ruam ko siv ? Yog li cas thaum dub thiab mev coj nej tus pojniam mus yaim lawm nej ho hais tsis tau quav ci noj ? nej tsis txhob ua npau suav nruab hnub tias nej yuav tau kuv 1$. Hmoob tus me pojniam koj haistias txojkev khaum kev npam raws cuag hmoob tus txij yaj ceeb sai heev tab sis raws li peb mloog mas txojkev npam twb xub raws cuag koj ua ntej koj thiaj li poob 50 caug phav $ dawb2 rau hmoob tus txiv lawm los yog tim koj txojkev ruam ?
You said you lived in America? Why complain about him? You had the chance to be strong and divorce any day, but you didn’t! Marriage is not set in stone, you could have left the first week if you knew he was not a good husband. Why have kids to tie you down if he’s not a good father? You are half to blame!
Agree
Agree this lady is kind of dumb, if she smart she would left him in the beginning...
Yup!
Dang, I heard many newlyweds when the husband goes out after a month or else but this one!! Just 3 days!!! I would run back home.
I can’t finish this story to this type of Hmong woman.
It's not him anymore. It's her too.
Some women aren’t as strong as others…it’s easier to say do this and that when you’re in the outside looking in but when it happens to you, then and only then will you know what you would truly do!!!
I've always told you ladies that if your hubby is a known cheater, NEVER, EVER trust him!!! If he's suddenly extra nice and sweet to you, even if you think he's not a cheater, he's got ulterior motives. Either he's seeing someone or he's fixin to get with someone. ALWAYS be suspicious and on the look out! Dont EVER blindly trust someone, even your spouse, 100%!!! It's 50/50. Keep one foot inside and the other outside. This is to protect yourself and your assets!!!
I feel you sister, you wanted to be a good wife and a good person, but you lived in a miserable life. We all wants to be that one good friend, should always put family first and not using your money to be a good friend. Whether you lives in the past or present, cheating is not acceptable. Whether you're a woman or man, if your spouse truly loves you, he/she should never cheat. No woman should live in a life like yours now a days. Once you realize it's not going to work, or you can't be committed, need to talk and let each other go. Sister, sorry to say but your husband never love you or his kids. Got to think positive and love yourself.
Nyob zoo sawv ntxov rau koj os sister jenny tuaj mloog koj dua
nyob zoo nawb. Ua tsaug rau koj os
Stupid. Why put up with it for that long, and give him that much money.
hlub koj thiab o viv ncau cas koj tau ib tug txiv teb txiv chaw li kuv thiab na
Tsis tas tas pab hlub tus naim tsev no os, nws tsis hlub nws tus keej nas,
Ca koj ruam ualuaj naj tus niam tsev koj niag txiv es ua npaum kos rau koj los koj tseem ntseeg nws thiab ce tsi txhob tus siab os tus niam tsev yus nrog yus ruam xwb os mog.
Txhob tu siab os tus niam tsev tim koj tsuas nros koj ruam rov yuav niag txiv dev liam ko ne
Sister Jenny this was one of the most headache story I’ve heard so far
Txhob tu siab os. Koj tsis yog 1 leeg hmoov phem xwb os mog. Nws yeej muaj cov sab nraud tau lub neej tsaus2 Ntuj thiab tsuas yog txawv koj tus xwb mog.
I don't why you trust him to give him that much money?
Koj ces raum dhau lawm ces tuag zoo dua o. Koj ces raum dhau lawm es laug thiaj li muab yus dog li ntawd nas. Koj ces tsua dog yus raum ces koj niam txiv ua rau koj los koj twb tseem hlub thiab nrog nws nyob. Kaj tsis nyob koj niag txiv dej lub neeg xwb mas yog koj khiav tsis tau na. Leeg twb Kom koj pheej nyob nawb.
Nyiag txiv dev zoo li koj nyiag txiv dev ko es koj thiaj khwv xim xwb os niag viv ncaus ruam aw. Cas yuav ruam2 tag npaum li ko. Txiv neej tag lawm Los teb chaws no na?
Kev npam yeej muaj tiag
Me muam koj tsuas nros koj ruam koj xwb. Txhua yam no yog koj lub hlwb tsis duav koj tus kheej ces coj li koj tiag lawv.
Some people knowingly it’s lemon and kept on thinking it would turn orange some days.
My goodness…him asking for $50k was such a big red 🚩
Nyob zoo py kuv tuaj koom koj lawm🎉🎉🎉
Koj ruam tshaj plaws, tej zaum koj nyiam nws tshaj koj nyiam nws pob. Luag cov ntse lauag twb mob pob tseg los lawm ntev os pog mej thaub aw.
I don’t bad for this type of Hmong woman.
Wow.. listening to the first 20 minutes of this story.. for a minute i thought it was my story.. 😂 i hate txiv zej txiv zos.. hnub g tau tawm twb mus lawm, hnub poob ib tsam twb los g txog!!
Lol..😂😂😂..you got fooled twice...my god....😂😂😂😂😂
Es nyob meskas teb txoj cai twb hais tias over 18 xyoo thiab nyias yeem nyias lawm ces police yeej hais tsis tau Nev
Mi viv ncaus aw cas koj yuav zoo ua luaj li os. Tus txiv zoo li koj ces tso thaum ntxov zoo dua os mog. Cas koj tseem tos txog thaum nws tsim koj nyhav npaum li no os. Pab koj tu siab dhau lawm os.
Whatever woman if you don’t enjoy the drama you would of left him already.
Happy September sister Jenny.
Thank you!
Why you give him that much money? A husband like yours doesn’t even deserve $5. Koj yeej ruam thiab ces tsis txhob complain.
I don't know why you gave him 50 grand when you didn't trust him with the 100 grand life insurance money. It's still the same person eating your money.
Niag txiv ko tsi yog txiv yaj ceeb yog txiv dab teb xwb thiab nws yog dab ntxwj nyoog xwb lwm hnub nws yuav mag lub hnav xwb tsi txhob txawj yeej yuav mag xwb os oh mag lawm tiag tiag li yom!!
I feel like you told this story before. Or is there just so many like it?
พูดได้เหมือนชีวิตเราเลย
จริงเหรอเนี่ยไม่น่าเลย ผัวแบบนี้ไม่รับผิดชอบครอบครัวชอบแต่เที่ยวเอา ดื่มแต่เหล้าไม่เมาไม่เลิก.
Lady-you haven’t learned your lesson from this guy and still gave him $50,000
Kuv mloog mas yog koj nyiam nws xwb nws tsis nyiam koj
Cov nyiam22 haus dej haus cawv li cov phooj twg qhab nab no ces siab tsis ntev os.
Muab hais los mas twb tsis yog niag txiv ntawd npam os koj yog niag npam es koj mag tas los mag dua…
Tus niam tsev koj twb hais tias koj niam muaj koj ib leeg xwb no nes? Cas hos hais txog koj tus niam laus pab nyuj hus koj tus ntxhais plig no?
So it took over 30 freaken years for you to learn
Koj ruam dhau lawm ces nyuam qhuav ntxim. Tus txiv liam li ntawd yog peb ces twb muab tsij khib Nyiab thaum ntxov lawm. Yog koj tsis nrauj nws ces koj tsua muaj ua lub neej lwj siab chim siab txhua hnub. Feel sorry for you sister twb yog tiam21 lawm los pojniam hmoob tseem ntse tsis tau txaus. Txiv neej tas rau koj niag dev liam ntawv lawm nws thiaj muaj qau xwb ces kav tsij khawm nws ruaj ruaj nawb tsam plam lawm. Hivhiv! Sawv daws hlub koj thiaj hais xwb os txhob chim nawb.
I can't believe she still trusted him for the 50k
Exactly! Too desperate just to keep her txiv dev.
Teenage mentality is very hard to handle especially in the Hmong. Culture can impress much on an individual in the core operations of life. Like the meaning of marriage, construct of honor and privilege. So how is a new mind to understand and move pass this even when deep inside, they feel things are wrong? Good role models were lacking in the 80s and 90s and even today. Trying times calls for stronger remedies and stronger catches. We must work hard to keep the whole together, to move with the times, and to engage with the world.
Okay, So Special Flowers & Special Desires, well, so special. Special in that, yes, it has potential for dreams to come true. But, what dreams and who's? A volatile journey is volatile and easy to move in any direction. Keep in mind, one's failure could be another's success - The stuff of Dreams really.
Have a wonderful day.
Dang, a cow just for completing high school? That's too much. I thought u didn't have money.
Koj es ruam li ruam xwb es kuv ces hu police rau koj dhia tsis saib qab xwb tseem them nyiaj rau thiab ob....meem txom dhau
Tus niam tsev tsis muaj qaus hmoob lawm los
Twb hais tias koj niam nkawv muaj koj 1 leeg yog ntxhais xwb cas ho hais tias koj tus niam laus txiv laus pab tus nyuj rau koj ua kev zoo siab rau koj tus ntxhais thiab no es yog li cas. Yog koj tus txiv twb liam npaum li ko cas koj ho yuav txog thaum muaj 5 tug me nyuam es tseem yuav dua zaum 2 zaum 3 es tseem mus txais txog tsheej $50 tawm phav rau thiab naw koj ces ntshe yeej phim2 koj niag txiv liam ko kawg li thiab mas yog 1 tug txiv liam npaum ko ces yuav ntev kawg ces 3 xyoos xwb Kuv twb muab laim pov tseg lawm os tus me viv ncaus aw
Poj ruam raug dag tag los g ris siab. Poj niam siab dev.😂
She sounds like a smart woman at first but nope smh
Yog nej tau ib tug txiv dev zoo li koj tus no ces kav tsij muab nws ncaws tawm cuag lawb dab thiab tsis txhob nrhab ceg dav2 rau nws maj peb tsis tau pom dua li koj tsis ntse pestsawg thiab koj thiaj li yuav xwb os, cov txiv zoo li tus no tom tej muaj ntau tshaj qaug ib tseg tsuav tau 2 3 rab qau loj thiab ntev heev zoo koj siab tshaj
Ntuj os teb cas koj yuav ruam ua li os viv ncaus aw pab koj chim siab thiab mob siab ua luaj li nas 😢
Why you believe a liar and el cheater! Never again I would never take back a cheater!
Ruam2 tshaj npua lm. 1 tug txiv dev li koj xwb Cas koj niaj hnub nrab ceg rau nws e yug tau tseej pab menyuam. U twb u tau u niam niag txiv dev twb pab g tau koj uacas u g divorced u nyob u.
Tsim nyog muab nws recycled 30 nram ntej ub.
koj ces ruam dhau hwv lawm o
Twb nyob teb chaws MisKas no lawm es tseem tshuav tej tug poj niam hmoob mekas ruam tag npaum ko thiab na. I am not feeling sorry for you. You allowed your txiv dev to treat you that way.
Yus niag txiv yog txiv zej txiv zos xwb yus txawm khav theeb ces yog yus tus kheej xwb poj ruam aw! Nej mas ib txia yeej kawm tsi tau ib yam dabtsi kiag li os..
Cov niag poj niam hmoob ruam li ko ces tsis txhob tuaj nroo nroo os. Yeej tsis muaj leej twg pab hlub koj li os. Koj yuav tsis yuav los twb yuav niag txiv dev liam koj los txog tav no es pheej tuaj hais ua dab tsi na. Tuaj hais txog koj txoj niag kev ruam xwb ces neeg nyhos koj xwb os. Cov poj ruam li ko ces yug los xiam tiam xwb. Cas yuav nkim niam txig lub zog tu hlob xwb lau. Cov poj niam ruam li koj ces ua rau peb cov poj niam hmoob poob tsim thiab tsis muaj peev xwm.
Kuv tuaj mloog koj zaj mas zoo nkaus li kuv zaj thiab os tab sis kuv me nyuam cool 2 thiab laus 2 lawm es lam nyob xwb ostu siab heev nawv
This story makes me so irritated. Your husband is such a neeg xob txiaj and liar. Cov neeg lim hiam li koj tus qub txiv ces yim lawb sai yim zoo xwb os. Txhob ntseeg siab lawm yog nws twb betray yus the first time he can do it again. I know some people that only do good to outsiders to look good but their own family they don't even care about. I dislike these type of people.
Tus poj niam nov kawm tsis thiav li. Koj twb paub tias koj tus txiv ib txwb tsis hlub koj nav, cas koj tseem rov qab cia nws los nyob nrog koj thiab. Lady, I don't feel bad for you. You did it to yourself knowing he's a serial liar.
Lady you’re too bright that’s why bad things always happens to you
Ntuj aw!!! Teb chaws no es tseem muaj cov me ntxhais ruam npaum koj ntag?
Tus niam tais aw!!! Koj tswv yim yuav tsawg ua luaj? Koj kuj hais rau koj tus qub txiv tias yog nws tsis them koj $50,000.00 rau koj ces koj hu kom police tuaj muab nkawd thiaj teb luaj pov tseg no mas ntshe nws thiaj yuav them ov.
Hmoob ruam nej twb tuaj nyob lub tebchaws mékas lawm cas nej tseem siv hmoob txoj niag cai uas yog dev npua cai no thiab ?
Nej twb yeej paub zoo tias tebchaws no txawm yog muaj txiv lawm los yog nws yeem lawm ces nej kawg npuav dej xwb, leej twg tsa txoj cai nplua nyiaj no rau nej cov hmoob ruam ko siv ? Yog li cas thaum dub thiab mev coj nej tus pojniam mus yaim lawm nej ho hais tsis tau quav ci noj ? nej tsis txhob ua npau suav nruab hnub tias nej yuav tau kuv 1$. Hmoob tus me pojniam koj haistias txojkev khaum kev npam raws cuag hmoob tus txij yaj ceeb sai heev tab sis raws li peb mloog mas txojkev npam twb xub raws cuag koj ua ntej koj thiaj li poob 50 caug phav $ dawb2 rau hmoob tus txiv lawm los yog tim koj txojkev ruam ?
Hau yau es yeej ntsaw txiv dhau lawm os. Koj siab dev xwb es