I'm In Love WIth My Dead Friend's Sister

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  • Опубліковано 25 сер 2018
  • Welcome to another episode of What Do You Wanna Know. Today I'm giving advice to a viewer who is in love with his deceased friend's sister.
    If you’d like to submit a question, they can be sent to ctownwdywk@gmail.com
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 54

  • @khoikidd
    @khoikidd 5 років тому +107

    Yo reading the title I thought Myke was in love with a dead person lol

  • @Yjin570
    @Yjin570 5 років тому +76

    sounds like a twin peaks subplot

  • @mykectown
    @mykectown  5 років тому +63

    I see a lot of you commenting about the title. Do y’all think it’s disrespectful? If so I’ll change it. I wasn’t trying to be a dick. It’s just the first thing that came to mind.

    • @stewmitchell6935
      @stewmitchell6935 5 років тому +37

      Myke C-Town nah don’t change it. It’s attention-grabbing which is good for views but it’s still accurate so it’s not disrespectful

    • @MilkPatonai
      @MilkPatonai 5 років тому +19

      Myke C-Town yah i think ur good, if anything most ppl prolly were just hoping this was gonna be u personally admitting to some dark shit lol

    • @stuartkeating6508
      @stuartkeating6508 5 років тому +14

      The only thing disrespectful about your title is the capital "i" in the word "With". How dare you shit on the Queen's English.

    • @bernardomattos8341
      @bernardomattos8341 5 років тому

      I mean I get how the title resambles the email that Fred sent you, so yeah I get it but It might be disrespectful to him, idk

    • @justinhughes619
      @justinhughes619 5 років тому

      No, it's appropriate. Great advice and insight too, Myke

  • @OurFoundingLiars
    @OurFoundingLiars 5 років тому +53

    You were respectful for giving a genuine answer and not putting this in the out of my element section

  • @primordialsky7216
    @primordialsky7216 5 років тому +22

    Quite the title.

  • @L0uisaAf0a
    @L0uisaAf0a 5 років тому +16

    Yay I missed this series! Also your lighting looks good too!

  • @DammitBobby
    @DammitBobby 5 років тому +1

    Very nuanced and in depth response. Thanks for the video. Always love the Whatchu wanna know videos

  • @brandonayong7656
    @brandonayong7656 5 років тому +5

    maaan i love the WDYWK videos for real

  • @faybiel2981
    @faybiel2981 5 років тому +1

    Title aside, your perspective on this situation is very insightful, Myke. Great adivce.

  • @supak108
    @supak108 5 років тому +2

    As you said, there is no shelf life for grief. I lost my mother last year and I can say personally grief is a terribly complex emotion. It can invoke even in the most scientific man almost childish levels of metaphysical attachment. To be clear I am not saying a person who is moved by the metaphysical is childish, I am one of them for instance. I was just taking a walk and I'm having a tough day. I saw a cloud that looked like a dragon breathing fire, and because I'm wearing a game of thrones shirt the idea came to mind that my mom was talking to me and I started to cry a bit. Grief will completely change your entire perspective when it is profound, so if the gentleman is reading this just understand that it's totally ok to be confused about your ethics. As Myke said this does have other consequences that don't have to do with you, obviously meaning your girlfriend, but I don't think your being selfish at all if you are having a hard time ending it. With that being said you still need to end it if that is in fact on the table. It's real heavy stuff man and there's really no proper way to understand any of it. Don't beat yourself up, and love as many people as you can. As my man Chuck Bukowski once put it, the fact that we're all going to die should be enough reason for us to care about each other, sadly we fail to do this constantly. In the same vain, the fact we can sympathize with each other's grief should be enough for us to be decent to each other. So from one grieving, confused, deeply flawed human to another, I love you man. I don't even know if this is that coherent, and honestly I'm just talking about myself because it's helping me get through some real sadness right now. I also just moved to Arizona to get my masters so I don't have a lot of people hear yet that I can confide in so I'll confide in y'all. Thanks for the video Myke, and I hope your having a pleasant day.

  • @HoboBusiness
    @HoboBusiness 5 років тому +13

    What a title that is Myke

  • @nikhilkrishnakumar
    @nikhilkrishnakumar 5 років тому

    While I don't always agree with your advice, more often than not, you're extremely good at it. Keep doing you!

  • @williamlavagna1096
    @williamlavagna1096 5 років тому +1

    I need that shirt!! Love that album! I have it on a marble colour vinyl.

  • @AlexandreDuqueque
    @AlexandreDuqueque 5 років тому +1

    Quite the title indeed, but these are nice advices. Do more of these if u can!

  • @TigahStyleOG
    @TigahStyleOG 5 років тому

    Great perspective Myke

  • @benng4376
    @benng4376 5 років тому +9

    The gothic chick in me finds that situation strangely alluring. The real question is how do you feel about dungeon synth?

    • @mykectown
      @mykectown  5 років тому +3

      I think most of it's boring as shit. I find it funny that these new jack metal kids are obsessed with it all of the sudden. But I know things go in cycles. I remember when I first heard Mortiis and thought it was the raddest shit ever.

  • @BillsBoxOfSound
    @BillsBoxOfSound 5 років тому +4

    Good advice. I love that Stevie Wonder shirt!

  • @byoutifulmonster
    @byoutifulmonster 5 років тому +1

    I read the title and thought "My Dead Friend's Sister" was a band.

  • @bUmBuClAuDe
    @bUmBuClAuDe 5 років тому

    amazing shirt!!

  • @bernardomattos8341
    @bernardomattos8341 5 років тому +4

    Dear Fred, you dont know how much I actually get you man its crazy. Ive fell in love for the TWIN SISTER of the girl I was hooking up, thats it, pretty simple, also pretty crazy, cliche, weird whatever you wanna call it. It happened. We've talked, she was in love with me too, we starting dating and now were in an AMAZING relationship, for real. But I would be lying if I didnt mention the awful sides on this relationship, and what are they? Exactly what you feel dude, family, friends, other people related. Someone here on the comment section commented on the EXPECTATION other people have, thats a very good way to sum up everything thats actually bad or harmful to me or my girlfriend, we are an amazing couple and love eachother so bad, but our relationship was born in such a fkin weird time and chain of events man. So I trully do feel you my dude, have some conversations with your girl, make sure she feels this way too, that if there are some issues in your relationship it stems from all this bullshit surrounding people that dont know how you both feel and how much you both make each other happy!
    Thats all I wanna say, I really wish I could sit with you and have a conversation, sorry if thats weird af I just feel we can relate so much.
    (brazilian viewer, english mistakes forgiven by second languagery)

  • @Nicolasmondragon707
    @Nicolasmondragon707 5 років тому +2

    Myke the Kid C Town we need some more throwback photos on your Instagram please

  • @damianpiotrowski114
    @damianpiotrowski114 5 років тому +3

    Considering you listen to a wide variety of music. How do you feel about ambient music?

  • @phillipscheid4505
    @phillipscheid4505 5 років тому

    Awesome shirt man, where can I get one?

  • @wavyhov1050
    @wavyhov1050 5 років тому +1

    Great shirt. I can't find it anywhere though, Google doesn't help.

  • @DuncanUdaho67
    @DuncanUdaho67 5 років тому

    Myke definitely knows how to grab your attention.

  • @dellayassine
    @dellayassine 5 років тому

    Interesting dilemma!

  • @frederiklunne5993
    @frederiklunne5993 5 років тому

    Hej myke, will you reviewing Jean Grae & Quelle Chris: Everyting's fine album

  • @Arian545
    @Arian545 5 років тому +1

    While I don't think there is anything wrong with dating your dead friends sibling if there is genuine feelings involved I do feel like it is doomed to be dysfunctional, especially if there is the extra baggage of you having had feelings for the deceased. I'm not saying it can't work, or that you shouldn't try, just in general it sounds like it is gonna be difficult because of the context.

  • @DeezNuts-it7qn
    @DeezNuts-it7qn 5 років тому

    I just read the title and was like wtf

  • @beigegecko
    @beigegecko 5 років тому

    i first read it as 'I'm In Love WIth My Friend's Dead Sister'

  • @traplover6357
    @traplover6357 5 років тому +3

    I mean, does the sister know you dated with your friend?
    Personally, if you're interested, a deceased friend can't provide consent to your relationship anyways. Just make sure it's not love formed only from sadness

  • @ilovefatpussy11722
    @ilovefatpussy11722 5 років тому

    Myke how I send you a t-shirt

  • @dellayassine
    @dellayassine 5 років тому +7

    If "Fred" is reading this: My advice is for you to decrease any type of expectations you have from anyone, especially your girl's family. As long as you're happy and making her happy as well, you have nothing to feel guilty about. Those feelings of "guilt" are surely brought up in your head *because* of these family gatherings, and by eliminating these outside elements and focusing on your relationship and nothing else, you'll feel so much better. Just have the mindset that they're going to think what they think regardless if you stay with your girl or not, so it doesn't even matter what you do 'cause you can't change their minds. Therefore, who cares what they think. You've done nothing wrong, and you should find time to be alone and practice a way to accept that as a fact. Hope this helps.

  • @dertodesking.
    @dertodesking. 5 років тому

    My answer would have taken a slightly different turn to put it mildly. That said, Mike gave the correct response.

  • @LewdConnoisseur
    @LewdConnoisseur 5 років тому +3

    Why all these people keep asking relationship questions to dehh? XD

    • @SirJenkz
      @SirJenkz 5 років тому +5

      Gonzo Lewd well mct is one of the coolest and most genuine guys I’ve seen on the internet (and real life) so why wouldn’t you?
      it might also be because they need a bitch with long hair like Myke C Town.

  • @ChawletMelk
    @ChawletMelk 5 років тому

    I'd say, it'll be extremely uncomfortable, but just tell the woman that you're with now how you felt about her sister (if she doesn't already know) and how you feel awkward in family functions and things of the sort. And from there hopefully a nice organic conversation will sprout and you'll get to the root of things.

  • @TheTashiTaylor
    @TheTashiTaylor 5 років тому

    At here at No views, what

  • @LudaQuixx
    @LudaQuixx 5 років тому +2

    I thought Myke only loved his bed and his mama...

  • @ihavemydignity
    @ihavemydignity 5 років тому

    bruh good vid but these outros need work.