Learning to Live Alone with an Anxious Attachment

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  • Опубліковано 19 жов 2024

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  • @nykkeebunny4103
    @nykkeebunny4103 2 роки тому +158

    You need a pet Fei, pets make everything better

  • @writethosefeels
    @writethosefeels 2 роки тому +38

    if the bf is okay with it, then i think most of us are too! he makes you happy and we'd love to meet him

  • @MsLadyshooter0604
    @MsLadyshooter0604 2 роки тому +8

    I think bf (un blurred) content would be so cool!!! 🎉 happy anniversary 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @nalanip
    @nalanip 2 роки тому +27

    This whole video is highly relatable to me. First, I'm sick as hell right now. It started with a sore throat and turned into a double ear infection. Second, I'm about to have my apartment all to myself. However, I'm excited and rather be alone.
    I love you so much and hope you're feeling better ❤️

  • @bts_army8323
    @bts_army8323 2 роки тому +6

    Ngl I’m also scared to live by myself, the paranoid, self reliance and responsibility is a lot. Not only that when we are alone in a quiet house, our thoughts tend to get the best of us because we are so used to other people voices drowning out those voices in our head. But hopefully we can get through that feeling together, and learn more about ourselves. 💜💜💜

  • @cy24
    @cy24 2 роки тому +18

    Hi Fei ! Just wanted to say that it's ok to feel lonely at times. When I lived on my own, I constantly visited my family often until late in the evening and then drove home. Also I'm excited for your shop too and if you're comfortable with sharing your SO then we're all for it. You look good and happy. This season of life seems to be treating you well and I'm happy for you.

  • @hugznotdrugz1234
    @hugznotdrugz1234 2 роки тому +19

    I’m living all by myself for the first time since I was 20. I’ve always lived with a boyfriend, family, friends or roommates. The first several nights were tough. I have abandonment issues too. Also I’m a sound sleeper and I often worry someone could break in and I wouldn’t wake up. I hope you don’t have a bad time being alone. Take time to focus on you. That’s what I’m going to do but I’m a socially awkward introvert. Lol

  • @amandareynolds8930
    @amandareynolds8930 2 роки тому +13

    It’s okay to rely on others, but time by yourself is important as well. It gives you space to breathe and learn more about yourself. Take care of yourself, reach out if you need to and have fun being accountable only to yourself for a while.

  • @raiineu
    @raiineu 2 роки тому +6

    So happy and can't wait to see a new chapter of your channel! 🥰

  • @maceyhillrichs4057
    @maceyhillrichs4057 2 роки тому

    Yes! If he’s ok with it and you’re ok with it then we would love to see him involved!! So happy for you guys!

  • @sammynicolex
    @sammynicolex 2 роки тому +2

    do what makes you comfortable & happy! i’m sure i’ll enjoy watching. also good that your sore throat is gone and you can enjoy eating again☺️

  • @PBYvonne97
    @PBYvonne97 2 роки тому +5

    I want you to do whatever makes you happy Fei. If you want to share him with us and feel comfortable with him being shared on your page do it. ✨ I just want you to live for you as you and I’ll be here like always for it all. 💕 love from Ohio

  • @ginalim9710
    @ginalim9710 2 роки тому +8

    Hey Fei bae! To think more positively: your sister being in another city for work maybe a good thing-I hope you’re able to learn more about yourself and maybe even try somethings out with being by yourself more now than ever. You’ll always have your Lindas here! As one of your Lindas, I am happy to say that I am excited to see your new beau in future videos if you choose to do it! 🫶🏼🫶🏼

  • @rkiveappy
    @rkiveappy 2 роки тому +3

    The food your cooking looks really good!

  • @jerzeyj
    @jerzeyj 2 роки тому +1

    Fei Fei! I know that being alone or feeling alone and left behind can really be tough. I had a similar experience with that just this morning~ but I hope you know that you're not, and that so many people adore and are here for you whether that be in physical presence, or even just having you on their mind. There will always be people that you love and care about who love and care for you as well, but of course with the ones who are closest to you, the scarier feelings like this can be. For now, take your time and feel what you feel- it's okay to be scared sometimes. We don't really have control over anyone else but ourselves, so I don't blame you at all for worrying, but please always know that a support system will always be there for you, whether that be family, friends, and even these crazy internet friends you've got over here😘 Also- have you thought about getting a pet? I know a lot of people say that they can really cheer them up when coming home.

  • @FloridaTesfay
    @FloridaTesfay 2 роки тому

    You can whatever you want Fei, we'll watch ❤

  • @itslisamworld
    @itslisamworld 2 роки тому +5

    This vlog was so nice yet relaxing!! & yes can't wait to see you & your bf together 🙌🧡

  • @veronicahejny
    @veronicahejny 2 роки тому +4

    If you were curious about why we might not have liked the previous boyfriend content, I can share my perspective with you and hopefully that will help to give you some clarity on any future boyfriend content.
    When it comes down to the previous content, this is what it comes down to for me: It's not that I didn't like the "boyfriend content," it's that I didn't like the boyfriend. I didn't like the way he spoke to you in those videos. I didn't like the way he treated you in those videos.
    You have come a long way on your healing journey and you've learned a lot. I think if you were to look back on those videos now, you'd be able to see the red flags crystal clearly.
    I'm happy to hear that this relationship you're currently in is with a man who is treating you with the kind of respect and devotion you deserve. If you want to share him with us, I'd be happy to meet him.

    • @itsfeiiiday
      @itsfeiiiday  2 роки тому +1

      You’re so sweet Veronica and I truly see this now ❤️ thank you for always being an honest friend 🥹

  • @denisseflores9051
    @denisseflores9051 2 роки тому +4

    I felt this so much, I'm Living alone for the first time in another country and it's so stresfull, I sen u a big hug! A about ur bf do whatever u want I will happy see it

  • @louiseyadav3615
    @louiseyadav3615 2 роки тому +2

    I always enjoy watching your vlogs no matter what

  • @fatpanda5801
    @fatpanda5801 2 роки тому +1

    how are they having their 1 year next month when it literally was just last week when she did all the naughty girl talk about guys on spotify and was meeting all these dudes istg 😭😭 DID I SLEEP ALL YEAR???

  • @rose191991
    @rose191991 2 роки тому

    omg its been 1 year? 🎉 yaay happy for you

  • @angelbrock2029
    @angelbrock2029 2 роки тому +1

    I hope you're okay. Hopefully it gets better if you find a routine some type of schedule or something. Then a fan of yours for a long time and honestly it's so hurts a little to see you so sad. I know how it is when your sister is so far away from you. I feel the same way about my sister. Keep your head up. You are loved.

  • @damiria524
    @damiria524 2 роки тому +4

    we’re always here for you fei. love you 💘. would love to see your bf! thanks for being open with us and happy anniversary in advance :) ❤️

  • @쪼오오-s4e
    @쪼오오-s4e 2 роки тому

    girl we is ready

  • @Ccostly
    @Ccostly 2 роки тому

    Oooh, your office looks awesome! I love watching you cook by the way! :D Can't wait to meet your bf! Atlanta is a lot of fun, have a good time!

  • @jenny12here
    @jenny12here 2 роки тому

    I think you guys should still keep you’re relationship to yourselves. If that makes sense. Buuutttt this is your channel and it’s your choice. Will still love you content no matter what you decide😊

  • @Ashley0613
    @Ashley0613 2 роки тому

    Whatever fei wants fei gets🤩🤩

  • @Maislifestyle
    @Maislifestyle Рік тому

    I feel like this is going to be me next year but I’m really not ready lol

  • @kpoptrash1433
    @kpoptrash1433 2 роки тому +2

    Go get em fei!!! You got this

  • @gabriellevalentine9857
    @gabriellevalentine9857 2 роки тому

    We would love to meet him! Welcome bf!!

  • @luzsoto2961
    @luzsoto2961 2 роки тому +2

    If you want to share it's fine with me, I'm getting excited!

  • @somethingpurplee4957
    @somethingpurplee4957 2 роки тому

    Damn ik that hurts so bad try Strepsils you'd be fine

  • @annamatic85
    @annamatic85 2 роки тому

    Fei babe you need to be eating like smoothies and jello and cheese. Easy soft mild stuff. Feel better xx

  • @Sindri27
    @Sindri27 2 роки тому

    Not sure if you'll see this but I use to get sore throats that would swell up so bad that I almost needed a traceadomy. So at the first sign of a sore throat I take a qtip and apply honey straight to my throat and eat it. Ill have green tea with honey and of that a couple times a day. Honey is known to kill strep bacteria I havent had a sore throat that needed medical treatment in 6 or 7 years now. So next time you start to feel a sore throat coming on you should give that a try. Id love to see your boyfriend congrats on a year together.

  • @Sapphyi
    @Sapphyi 2 роки тому

    Love your videos Fei! Also does anyone know the ending song at 11:01 ?

  • @ldm3i
    @ldm3i 2 роки тому

    ATL?? Are you going to see the Rose?? 😍😍😍

  • @Robin_L92
    @Robin_L92 2 роки тому

    Go fei 😍

  • @aashly1O1
    @aashly1O1 2 роки тому

    Do you just love your model 3 or what?! ❤❤❤

  • @kristamelusky4506
    @kristamelusky4506 2 роки тому

    What cover of Plastic Love does Fei use at the end of her videos??? I've tried so hard to find it 😭

  • @tiffanysailor8410
    @tiffanysailor8410 2 роки тому +8

    Would Love to meet your boyfriend 🥰
    Glad you are feeling better. Take B-6 for mouth sores it helps heal everything faster. Loving the 11:11 but would love seeing you longer. This alone time for you might be what you need. Love you girl ❤

  • @kuntsekotavlog1478
    @kuntsekotavlog1478 2 роки тому

    Nice 👍👍👍👍👍

  • @hleevang85
    @hleevang85 2 роки тому +3

    Bf tag or Q&A with the both of you.

  • @sophiakt28
    @sophiakt28 2 роки тому

    We wanna meet Fei’s boyfieeeee

  • @jennifermauricio2300
    @jennifermauricio2300 2 роки тому

    Think you might have Strep? Hope you feel better soon.

  • @rachelrobinson1015
    @rachelrobinson1015 Рік тому

    Honestly, this is probably gonna be really unpopular but I wouldn’t suggest showing your boyfriend. You guys aren’t married, what happens if you break up? It’s best not to mix business and relationships, or at least wait until you’re married if you’re going to do so.

  • @evelynclcr
    @evelynclcr 2 роки тому

    we’d love to meet your boyfriend feiiii!! 🥰🥰🥰

  • @Mon_grant2531
    @Mon_grant2531 2 роки тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Girl_in_the_red_dress
    @Girl_in_the_red_dress 2 роки тому +2

    Why is your videos always 11:11 minutes long does it have a meaning to you ?

    • @rkiveappy
      @rkiveappy 2 роки тому +1

      It’s her way of sending us good vibes since 11:11 is a angel number

    • @sessamii
      @sessamii 2 роки тому

      @@rkiveappy well and because 10 mins is a minimum ad requirement isn't it ... ?

    • @rkiveappy
      @rkiveappy 2 роки тому

      @@sessamii that’s true but she does explain why she has been ending all her vlogs with 1111 in one of her vlogs

    • @sessamii
      @sessamii 2 роки тому

      @@rkiveappy I know lol but it's just probably more than one reason lol 🤣 I mean do we think she'd end it in 7:77? That's an angel number but... It's not over 10 minutes minimum lol

  • @cocoliu9497
    @cocoliu9497 2 роки тому

    first!!!