" Man Calmly Refuses Being Rushed Into A Relationship…This Happens NEXT!
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She’s impulsive and her mouthing off in the shower then leaving with no warning is a sign she throws temper tantrums.
She wants him to chase her and it throws her off when he doesn't. Notice how she calls it a lack of communication on his part, but her leaving and never calling isn't addressed.
She'd probably respond well to being explicitly told "No, this isn't how we're having this conversation." or similar.
I don't even think she cares about the actual arguments, it's him not reacting to her energy.
She seems interested, so she might learn that's not how you get his attention, or priority in his life.
A more mature woman would just say
"I know you're busy, but I need to speak to you more if this is going to continue. Can we set aside some time throughout the week in advance where we can talk, that I won't be left wondering when the next time will be?"
It's not romantic, but if a relationship and marriage are the goals, you gotra treat it like work sometimes, and just address the issues in the best way possible even if it's not the ideal way.
All Woman want to be chased...but modern men don't want to make that effort.
@@bpraise517because they’re not worth chasing
Facts - this is why one of her questions to the men was “how do you deal with conflict”
Women know that they are the ones bringing the conflict.
This man isn’t perfect, however are taking her on a few dates, he owes her nothing, not even being open and clear.
@@kingtchala6832, he doesn't necessarily have to be "open", but he should absolutely be clear with her, that way she can not say he led her on.
That man is in his stoicism...
As with most men, he doesn't have a problem with her, it's all her problems with him.
He has no clock on him..... while she's in the "DANGER ZOONNNNEEE" 😂😂😂😂
Just explained this to my sister women don't have time men do.
Exactly 🤣🤣🤣
Archer and Lana
Danger zooonnneeee 😂😂
29 is not danger zone 35 is danger zone
He failed her beta test. Good for him.
That’s the trap they be setting
Women these days just continue to talk themselves out of every meaningful relationship smh.
He's doing everything 110% correct if he was more attentive and emotionally connected she would be much less attracted to him. He's doing everything right. Her frustration is a trophy in his case
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Women Always make Something out of Nothing
And this is literally nothing
I swear! 😅
What!! He can't watch the dog!! That said alot about him!!
@@tishaturner8079 she brought her dog to his house and she took a random shower at his house. THAT says a lot about HER!! Interrupting that man's dinner to watch her dog? Gtfoh
He clapped them checks, and he is not interested in a relationship with her.
You're the only one that peeped that
@@Pookie_Poo843 I wasn’t 💯 sure at first but when she said about having a shower snd he had a shower too that could mean only one thing 😂 I mean she went over with food and wine then she had a shower??? Yeah he smashed then they both showered.
@@mosu9133 100% certain he beat that p... And based on her reaction he sunk her battleship 😅
She jumped the gun too soon.
@@gregoriopassport sunk her battleship 🤣
At Josh's age communication isn't the problem. She's attempting to lead to a deeper relationship then what Josh is ready to give her. it is an article of faith MEN WILL MOVE FOR WHAT THEY WANT. It sounds like Josh isn't moving so she should assume the reason is she isn't REALLY WHAT HE WANTS.
Black men like Josh are NOT TRYIN' TO GET MARRIED!!! Black women have been uncommonly successful in demonstrating to black men they are very poor prospects for more than occasional dating.
If he's not communicating it's because he doesn't trust you with what he wants to say.
Conflict resolution with a partner requires trust, and you aren't always going to get that at the start.
Rushing it is never a good idea. As long as you know why he's pulling away during conflict you shouldn't need to worry, as long as when he comes back you can discuss it.
@p9a9r21 You made a very strong argument, thing is Josh hasn't accomplished his goals, he want's her to be patient in more ways than one, as he is very career driven it might be that Josh isn't ready and wants to take things slow, but still want's her to hang around and be his woman, point is does she have the patience to do so, and if not then she will just move on and find the next cock lol, as she will feel the need to have children as her clock is ticking. He just wants her to work with him simple, modern women want the fast track and aren't willing to build with a man anymore that is the real problem wanting things ready made.
@@shaunbrown3806FACTS ! You sound mature enough to have dinner. Lmk
His work is his center or attention and she doesn’t like it.
He didn’t exactly get the 'future girlfriend or wife' vibes, so he swiped left on that one. You know, since we’re the gatekeepers of marriage and all, we’re not exactly out here setting wedding dates like it’s a clearance sale.
Women will talk that communication shit until it’s time for them to communicate
She don't make no sense she say is the communication of the aspect but she just up and left without even asking or letting him know that she just left and then expect him to read her mind and say he asked where I was why I left why did I leave did I make it home safe where did I go like what I would have did the same thing too give me some time you can't just give up and quit because it ain't going your way that's a little girl s***
Women just talk. There’s no logic or thought behind it.
I cant speak for him,but as a reserved guy the more quiet i am the more uncertain or uncomfortable i am about you.
Also you shouldn't be having arguments 2 days in.
Everything should be fun and light.
He clock is ticking
I agree, it can work but this is too much drama way too early
Facts. You learn this from evaluation.
“As long as you allow me to” no.
Women love nonchalant man, but always get irritated by that...
Don't listen to them, guys... Let her know about you little by little...
She's fighting for control... they love it... She would leave him ASAP
if he said everything that she wanted to know. She seems disingenuous that's
why he doesn't want to share more about him.
🎯🎯
This is a great point, and it's something I do in practice.
You can not put all of your cards on the table with a modern woman, no matter how much gaslighting they do.
He doesn’t like her 😂
He like the cheeks
He likes her cheeks.
Why would he 😂😂🤷♂️🤷♂️
Yes he does he just wants to keep her he's just not simping
Hes playing it safe to make sure he knows what hes getting involved with
Bro hit post nut clarity
Why she not talking about her improving, a lot more patient and shutting her mouth. Keep your dog at home. She needs classes on how to be a wife. He needs to not be so apologetic and stand on who he is. She needs more work than he does.
She's trying to lock him down way too early.
Bruh he 39 an single for a reason lol cheecks only
That's the problem she is impatient. She clearly is attracted to him, but she want instant title right away and it only been a few dates.
Yeah her clock is ticking his isn’t so she better find some patience because she’s on his time 🤷🏾♂️🤣🤣🤣🤣
I think they can work through it. When I first met my husband, we had issues communicating b3cause we had different styles, but we worked through it, and it just worked out. She needs patience, and he needs to communicate more. Comprise and it will be just fine.
This sound like a parent teacher conference
Single woman with a dog.. red flag! Hoop earrings.. red flag! Chest tats.. red flag!
No not at all, they either have a dog or a side dude, I don't even like them but a single woman normally has a dog
The reality is no masculine man is going to leave himself in a space where he’s at the mercy of a woman. There needs to always be an exit plan. She either fits what you want or she isn’t it. A woman character and tendencies are very important.
He's just too reserved and calm for her. she needs someone with a more bright personality. They both seem like good people.
I don't think she is a bad person, but she is not the right person for him at this particular time in his journey. She is going to keep pressing him and he is going to get tired of her taking him off his purpose. She may need someone closer to her age or at least someone that has more time to dedicate to her.
This guy is platinum I salute you
So many ppl confuse talking alot with being able to communicate effectively.
In her mind they’re already in a 10 year relationship and getting ready for marriage,lol
Well played dude.. well played. I can see from here she recreational use only, 3 red flags
He gone tear that lil 28 yo tender out of the frame hahaha
Lmaooo I’ve been in this situation a few times. You like the girl, you like the s.x. And everything is pretty good the way it is, but she wants to move fast cause she really feeling you, but your just not there yet cause she’s too pressed to move fast.
I’ve had the same excuses too! I be like, “I’m working on communicating better. I didn’t mean to upset you. I’m still working on myself, but I’ll get there…I promise”. 😂😂😂😂
On the flip side, I’m 42 now, and every now and then I miss those girls
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I think us men are just very observant and don't want to get hurt and we trust absolutely no one, even if somebody is doing everything right. Relationships seem to be mentally exhausting and there's already a high enough expectation on men in society as it is, regardless of age, race, or how you look. This is something no woman can fully understand and won't get
Why are they having problems 2 weeks in
Because it's not real
Trying to do too much. Everybody's in a rush to "look" like the adult version of happy in a relationship.
Her fake correlating of fatherhood and “watch my dog” is ffffing crazy. Why bring your dog to my place first of all. And secondly, OUR baby is not equal to YOUR dog.
He has no feelings towards her at all...almost apathy 😂
It’s not her.. it’s him
A dog isn't a baby.
Can't blame him for being cautious as men have a lot to lose when relationships fail, esp when marriage and children are being considered.. she knows he wants to move forward, she's gotta work on herself too
Women and men don't communicate on the same levels and we don't handle confrontation the same, either.
A man who walks away from confrontation, or arguments, is trying to remove emotion and anger from the conflict, so he can come back to you and discuss it clearly.
Women want to hash everything out then and there. They want to discuss it in the moment and negotiate terms while in the emotional. They want you to "fight" for the relationship", and show that you care. For a lot of them the arguement IS the proof.
I argued a lot with my mother, I had a bad job that gave me anger issues, and I had a bad relationship with my girlfriend, and this gave me anger issues.
Eventually I learned to just walk away and calm down.
When I met my wife she didn't understand my need to separate from an arguement. She didn't understand how I could be calm when she told me we were expecting. While she was nervous and panicking, I simply said "I'll need to get a car.", went about buying the stuff we'd need.
Now, years later, she understands that's how I deal with conflict or confront challenges.
There's communication, it's just after we've calmed down and can talk, settle things, and tell each other we love one another.
I like this video because it gives a little more normal and realistic view on what happens sometimes when good women and good men get together and learn how to be with each other! It’s not easy and it takes time I hope it works out for them
I don’t blame him if the roles were reversed she’d be doing exactly that
If he was rushing her, she would already be gone.
Dogs belong outside. You don’t bring no damn dog to someone else’s house.😡
I don’t understand, women poss to be the better communicator but they never really communicate
She is not the one. She doesn't do it for him.
She drawn to the challenge of trying to fully control and change Josh. Everytime he apologizes and tells her she's right she gets a thrill. Once he starts to do whatever she wants she will lose interest. She doesn't really want him. She just likes trying to boss him into being what she thinks she wants.
Him, he doesn't seem like he prioritizes relationships or women. She's just there so he will deal with her and enjoy the company and sex. But I don't think he will change for her.
Kevin Samuels said "If you can't say, 'and that's final', at the end of an argument and it be over, there is not peace in that house". You know this woman does not embody that.
Most men don't communicate well. That is why taking your time to get to know someone. Get passed the representative, learn a person.
We don't trust women with our inner thoughts and feelings (especially black women) because we know it will be used against us later on....that's why we keep that ish to ourselves.
If a man wants something he'll make it clear. No ambiguity. She's attempting to force the sale. He'll buy when he's ready. Relax and let him decide. Forcing his hand is a waste of time
They both gained weight for sure. She is beautiful...Geez...he struggles with communication anyway.
So, she decides to catch an attitude, have a temper tantrum arms then she expects him to run after her when she decided to up and leave in the first place? All this talk about communicating she's doing, how was that communicating? Other than the nonverbal communication of her throwing a fit and leaving 🤦🏾♂️
Most women don't want to wait for the "right one" they want the "right now"
All I hear is her talking about “I feel like” (him too) and sushi and dinners. Schedule keeps coming up she doesn’t value him really.
She wants to be entertained. He doesn't have the desire to do so at almost 40 years old.
Struggling with communication at 39, come on dawg.
This woman talk to dvmn much… and she don’t have relationship experience…? She tryna be too aggressive when bro been there, he tryna set the tone… she is not adapting, she can’t be led at the moment
They definitely don’t need to be together at all.
Arlette brewing that tea 4 sure 😂😂😂 tea will be served
Okay! I Love Her!
Sounds like, like all romantic relationships, a lot of work. If you desire to be in the position of boyfriend, husband, provider, father, there are certain levels of work involved, same if one wants to be in position of a girlfriend, wife, mother.
Nope theow the whole relationship away. She expects to be a certain way, he's not so he mad and when she left his vibe was idgaf.
Yikes, this is all after 2 weeks?! 😂
He didn’t have to chase her. Ghosting and leaving is not a communication method! It’s immature. She could have called him after she left
C'mon Josh, this young lady appears to be fairly reasonable, she seeks your guidance, and appears to be genuine. She's a beautiful lady that appears to be well-mannered, beautiful, conscientious with the potential of being a good mother.
She appears to come from a good family; definitely deserves a chance
Are black men the most patient?
Conflict conflict conflict blah blah blah
It seemed like everything was his fault 😂
These two are not the right fit for each other.
Women haven’t got time out here like us men after 35 for a women it’s high risk pregnancy
Nah she toxic and want him to sit there and go back and forth with him when she acting childish.
Why is she volatile to get up and leave and talk noise in the shower bro laid back and taking his time feeling her out shes showing her temperament
He got no game but shout out to him for at least not being a fkn simp and that's why she fk wit him fr fr.
21:43 It’s very clear why he’s single. He requires wayyyyy too much patience. I hope she moves on.
Yes queen I hope so too ❤
Her concerns are pretty valid tbh. These concerns may seem minor now but in the long run may prove very problematic for a potential relationship they may have
Just seems he's not ready. And thats ok. Just do your work and it's not someone job to always bring you along.
She wants to rush him into a serious commitment and she might run him off. He's 39 so he is not going to be manipulated.
Who goes over someone’s hose for dinner and gets in the shower afterwards. They smashed.
he's very attractive, but i dont think he has many options when it comes down to it, because of his personality. I like her for him, but it'll be hard. Question is is it worth it for her and is he willing to push himself to adapt? we shall see. i'm rooting for them, i think they make a good couple. Sometimes when its hard in the begining its pays off in the end. Other times, not worth the effort. Dating is hard!!!!
Could it be the dismissive avoidant and anxious attachment dynamic in play🤔
They both seem semi uncomfortable as of they are walking on eggshells like there just being vague and not very direct with their answers.
Move on, sis, he ain't it. 40 and still growing. You can do better. He seems like a nice guy, but things don't change with older men. What you see is what you get.
She brought the dog because she knew she was going to spend the night
He's serious about his goals. At 39 he knows what is important and what isn't.
He doesn't want to be married and he has created a life for himself that doesn't include a wife and children.
Correction: he doesn’t want to be married to her.
They talkin bout this man like he a lil kid or dog
As a man women don’t like it when you’re too easy and they stress when you’re not making it easy for them.
She has an attitude problem lol... i can feel it
To be fair in her defence this guy in my opinion by age 39 should have had his ish together tbh and try more if he really is committed to getting to know her and being with her. Otherwise if he ain't willing to put up with her or be with her then clearly translate that man coz time management aint a good excuse
She sounds to needy and demanding.
What are they even talking about?????
Girls think communication is just them talking, no. Communication is the ability to disseminate information in the way someone understands whatever the topic is. JOSH IS A GREAT COMMUNICATOR BY DEFINITION. His honesty and realness isn’t being noticed, she wants someone far too bendable, he is not that.
He hit and it was 🚮
I think it's just a matter of them getting to know each other. It is what it is.
I’m on 23rd minute I can’t stop laughing lol he already clapping cheeks but he saying let’s take it slow lol
He's not feeling her after he got the box!
I love this couple....she is so pretty...just be patient it will work out
He's not really into her
Plus on the flip side women take up all your time if she loves u she wants to be with u all day everyday and when your on your purpose and mission as a Man U ain’t got time so u need a women that knows that
The man wants a woman, but when there is no woman in that space . You have to make space and time for someone . It isn't an easy task to add someone . She needs patience .
Look how easy he took accountability
Look how quiet the youtuber is when the problem is coming from the man 😮
Communicate what? I hate these conversations that speak about everything in such broad terms. She could be asking too many questions. I know I don't answer questions like that, I mean regular ones yea but those questions trying to get into shit and ask the same questions 5 different ways like ma stop the bs I'm smart enough to know what you doing.