I think it’s a varying percentage/combo of ‘feeling sorry’ and ‘jugment’. Both of course stem from ‘I can help myself, they don’t seem able to’. There is some sort of ‘mirroring/feedback loop’ to it-that I observe not to be there when interacting with my dog. - Was hoping it was the van Kolken guy and not the doige guy. Doige gets up my nose for what ever reason. Will buy one of his books.
There is something `adorable` about `helplessness`. My big `fun fact` is that it works on big fat adults as well (if `one` thinks of them as helpless (not as dumb fat fucks)).
Hi Nick, Curious as to who book’s author is? -- Was thinking a few days back about my dog. Would never cross my mind to do should have, would have, could have on her. Yet (as a result of?) my ‘love’ for her is complete.
Bessel van der Kolk. I can see it as `feeling sorry` for whoever/whatever. The question is `why?` the feeling sorry for them? Does it come with the `air` of --- I can help myself, but them; poor them ... can't.
I think it’s a varying percentage/combo of ‘feeling sorry’ and ‘jugment’. Both of course stem from ‘I can help myself, they don’t seem able to’. There is some sort of ‘mirroring/feedback loop’ to it-that I observe not to be there when interacting with my dog.
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Was hoping it was the van Kolken guy and not the doige guy. Doige gets up my nose for what ever reason.
Will buy one of his books.
There is something `adorable` about `helplessness`.
My big `fun fact` is that it works on big fat adults as well (if `one` thinks of them as helpless (not as dumb fat fucks)).
That’s a bit “dark’. But hey.
I wish you and Mrs Mystic a wonderful Christmas
What about the rest of the year?
@TheOldMystic wish you all the best, all the time
What do you mean by the word `wish` ... No magic I hope?!?!
@@TheOldMystic yep, as a knower of what you call magic, that is what it is
Hi Nick,
Curious as to who book’s author is?
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Was thinking a few days back about my dog. Would never cross my mind to do should have, would have, could have on her. Yet (as a result of?) my ‘love’ for her is complete.
Bessel van der Kolk.
I can see it as `feeling sorry` for whoever/whatever. The question is `why?` the feeling sorry for them?
Does it come with the `air` of --- I can help myself, but them; poor them ... can't.