The Importance of Initiative | Hard Sparring at RKM

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  • @thesadanimations
    @thesadanimations Рік тому +611

    "We are not trying to stunt on our partner, or show off, or anything like that!"
    *immediately throws cartwheel kick*

    • @hard2hurt
      @hard2hurt  Рік тому +253

      What? That's totally a regular move.

    • @AltsekBUL
      @AltsekBUL Рік тому +22

      I was searching for this comment

    • @CaymanGiordano
      @CaymanGiordano Рік тому +55

      @@hard2hurt More importantly, it was *immediate*. It wasn't a cartwheel kick, it was The First cartwheel kick.

    • @BWater-yq3jx
      @BWater-yq3jx Рік тому +14

      Real-life trolling, lol.
      But actually a bit impressive.

    • @sk8ratz462
      @sk8ratz462 Рік тому +10

      made me spit out my soup

  • @thesilverwolfofnyc5077
    @thesilverwolfofnyc5077 Рік тому +502

    Love how he said no showing off then right away sets up that sick kick💀💀💀

  • @SaltLight7
    @SaltLight7 Рік тому +278

    Using D&D to illustrate a point in martial arts. What a nerdy thing to do. And I absolutely loved it!

    • @tomnaughadie
      @tomnaughadie Рік тому +6

      @@zachariaravenheart Add it to the warmups.

    • @beardo6229
      @beardo6229 Рік тому +11

      @@tomnaughadie lol when i coach im always playing D&D.. "20 secs left!!!!--looks at stopwatch 30 secs actually left*

  • @jedBSME
    @jedBSME Рік тому +168

    Even hard sparring here looks safe. Heavier gloves, controlled contacts and protective gears. Love the techniques. Suddenly I'm in a mood to spar myself.

  • @khairt1731
    @khairt1731 Рік тому +187

    Man I love your gym environment. Your guys are going 70% with good speed and they KNOW when to Pull back on their punches and kicks.
    High Level shit right here. Wish I was there.

    • @hard2hurt
      @hard2hurt  Рік тому +74

      We spend a LOT of time and effort on dialing in the intensity for each athlete.

    • @khairt1731
      @khairt1731 Рік тому +10

      @@hard2hurt this is excellent. Good job. Wish I was there.

    • @dylhemsley9458
      @dylhemsley9458 Рік тому +6

      I wish I could train there, Such a great atmosphere and Icy Mike is an excellent coach.

  • @dirtpoorchris
    @dirtpoorchris Рік тому +168

    10:00 She is definitely becoming much more responsive and starting to see her options. Your training is working pretty good on her.

    • @hard2hurt
      @hard2hurt  Рік тому +100

      Give her the credit. She works very hard.

    • @dirtpoorchris
      @dirtpoorchris Рік тому +26

      @@hard2hurt ya in the end you can see her pretty damn tired but she kept pushin. Give yourself credit too your plan is workin pretty good.

    • @KungFuHustling
      @KungFuHustling Рік тому

      @@dirtpoorchris well

    • @KungFuHustling
      @KungFuHustling Рік тому

      But I agree

    • @dirtpoorchris
      @dirtpoorchris Рік тому

      @@KungFuHustling @Well: Deep subject, usually the deeper you go the purer the water.

  • @Ninjacob00
    @Ninjacob00 Рік тому +81

    Agreed taking initiative should be following whatever your gameplan is staying proactive and not being reactive to your opponents game plan

    • @hard2hurt
      @hard2hurt  Рік тому +36

      Yeah, reflexes and reaction are very unreliable compared to strong tactics.

    • @Ninjacob00
      @Ninjacob00 Рік тому +14

      @@hard2hurt kinda crazy how this kind of stuff happens to even the highest level of fighters. I remember when Wonderboy lost to Burns and when reflecting on the fight he said “I should’ve stuck to my game plan and work the sidekick instead of worrying about the takedown”

  • @Samuel-sg2iv
    @Samuel-sg2iv Рік тому +35

    I wish people would talk about this more. Being first is so incredible important. YOU CAN NOT WIN i fight going second with a good fighter. You will never win, you have to go first. And not only that, learning to be first teaches you such good offense and defense. I'll give you an example, just yesterday Glover vs Hill. Glover was not going first, he was just waiting for hill to attack him and then he would try to counter. DON'T wait for people to hit you, hit them first.

  • @Gregbarlow04
    @Gregbarlow04 Рік тому +37

    I know HEMA sees a bit of a mixed reaction, but I learned a very similar lesson years ago. In German manuscripts, they refer to the "Vor" and "Nach" (Before and After, respectively). They insist that you need to "Seize the Vor, never settle into Nach unless you are luring someone in to take back the Vor." I learned over time the lessons are very similar to unarmed fighting styles, just with different context.
    Those who act first, act with intent, and act aggressively will generally hold advantage. You highlighted it perfectly that even when you aren't dominant, you can still control the flow.

  • @RedeemerNDestroyer
    @RedeemerNDestroyer Рік тому +9

    The DnD reference explains your whole concept of "being first" so well - basically play to your strengths and use them to take initiative instead of passively waiting to see what the other guy's gonna use to "be first"
    If I understand correctly, even "actively waiting" the other guy to go first with the intention to block/parry/slip when you are good with those defensive maneuvers, so that you can then come back with a counter is a way of "being first"/"taking initiative"

  • @HeavyHardDrive
    @HeavyHardDrive Рік тому +17

    Strength, Dexterity, Constitution, Intelligence, Charisma, Wisdom.
    Cast Magic Missile and Dominate Monster .

  • @ObliqueReference
    @ObliqueReference Рік тому +56

    Never thought I'd hear a 10 minute D&D talk in the middle of Kickboxing class. Thought it was just BJJ guys like me that were that big a geek.

    • @hard2hurt
      @hard2hurt  Рік тому +34

      We are your tribe.

    • @ceruleanfive
      @ceruleanfive Рік тому +7

      Was just about to say that it was a pleasant surprise seeing my two main interests randomly align.

  • @PlayingAy0
    @PlayingAy0 Рік тому +29

    What an amazing session! Everybody is on the same page! I'd love to train in this environment!

  • @Necrosythe2
    @Necrosythe2 Рік тому +27

    Love when you were like, she's exhausted I'm gonna put it on her, then she still comes like a bat out of hell with crazy volume. Future champ

    • @hard2hurt
      @hard2hurt  Рік тому +29

      She knows that she can get tired beating me up, or get tired with me beating her up. Those are the only two choices I leave her.

  • @Stahlvanten
    @Stahlvanten Рік тому +41

    Superb session with a good mix of training and education.
    Edit: When Cliffton puts on the pressure, yikes.

    • @hard2hurt
      @hard2hurt  Рік тому +24

      Yeah... we rarely show final form Cliff, but this video peeled back a few layers.

  • @ThatFunkyMonky
    @ThatFunkyMonky Рік тому +34

    This was a great video. Between getting to see a sneak peek into what RKM classes are like, your method of teaching, and the amount of skill in everyone sparring, this was a great watch.
    On a semi-related note, I can tell how hard Natalia and Demario are working their asses off to get better. They’re already really good, i can see them going far in the MMA world.

    • @hard2hurt
      @hard2hurt  Рік тому +12

      They are both champion material.

  • @ericalger2288
    @ericalger2288 Рік тому +6

    Your coaching, its honest...its non ego driven.....and i think its great! We need more coaches like you! God bless brother.

  • @dremenzies5390
    @dremenzies5390 Рік тому +11

    Talking about how to gain the initiative in DnD terms was not what I was expecting, but it made the concepts clearer imo. Very clever!

    • @crustybomb115
      @crustybomb115 Рік тому

      that came out of left field, and was a very welcome(and accurate) thing to do...

  • @Alexamdern
    @Alexamdern Рік тому +7

    The best possible mma gym environment. So unlike the atmosphere in many gyms currently.

  • @gw1357
    @gw1357 Рік тому +14

    That DnD analogy was great.
    The thing I tell my guys all the time is "Don't worry about him. Make him worry about you!"

    • @hard2hurt
      @hard2hurt  Рік тому +3

      That's a good bit of advice.

    • @gw1357
      @gw1357 Рік тому +7

      @@hard2hurt There's a great quote from Ulysses Grant, after he took over the Army of the Potomac. He said to his staff:
      “Oh, I am heartily tired of hearing about what Lee is going to do. Some of you always seem to think he is suddenly going to turn a double somersault, and land in our rear and on both of our flanks at the same time. Go back to your command, and try to think what we are going to do ourselves, instead of what Lee is going to do.”

  • @nicholasb2218
    @nicholasb2218 Рік тому +16

    Man, this is fantastic stuff. Guys like you and Sensei Seth remind me how much I love and miss training martial arts.

  • @TM-ug3ci
    @TM-ug3ci Рік тому +4

    I saw the true warrior in the lady come out on her last round, especially around the time she threw the knee. This is why I love martial arts, anyone and everyone can turn into a badass w enough hard work.

  • @tallguy2023
    @tallguy2023 Рік тому +8

    One of your best videos, sir. Love the analogy for initiative, the support, honesty and obvious care you have for your students.

  • @obiwanquixote8423
    @obiwanquixote8423 Рік тому +3

    Loved seeing how you run a class and create a great environment to train. Fantastic use of D&D analogies and I love that the "be first" lesson is constantly being reinforced throughout. Not just a one off maxim being shouted out onto the mat but brought up in every lesson. Guaranteed those guys are going to be hearing that in their dreams

  • @Macreadysshack
    @Macreadysshack 8 місяців тому

    Man the reward system for spar-drilling here is awesome. It’s so important to have language to communicate these concepts. Every time I learn a new way to communicate a concept, I get so excited to use it to help people get better around me. I’ve trained at world class MMA gyms and I still learn a lot from your gym. Thanks

  • @whyareyoubothering
    @whyareyoubothering Рік тому +5

    This video is one of the most important for up and coming fighters.
    A fighter tried to explain this to me in simple terms “I’m just throwing it out there no matter what.”
    As a would be counter fighter I didn’t get it. It felt like that’s how you get countered.
    I wasn’t used to the fact that no matter what your gonna get hit especially facing experienced fighters. It’s about committing to your plan that makes the hit different. You don’t know whose gonna be the one getting dazed or shocked by the hit. The better fighter will be able to act on it either way.
    But one thing is guaranteed. You don’t start your plan they will. Dancing and waiting won’t do enough to the opponent. You have to throw something out there.
    Might seem obvious from the keyboard but in the ring, when you’re tired and a little scared the 1 second you pause to take a break and think it through is enough for your opponent to take initiative.

    • @hard2hurt
      @hard2hurt  Рік тому +11

      Got a video for would be counterfighters coming eventually.

  • @pegstervegas
    @pegstervegas Рік тому +4

    A few months ago I somehow ended up taking MMA conditioning and kick boxing classes. I am absolutely hooked and can’t explain why.
    I love love love your videos and your approach to training. I can’t get enough of this. No, I won’t be stepping into a ring for real fight but I absolutely want to learn how!

  • @168193404
    @168193404 Рік тому +1

    Thanks!

  • @thetalantonx
    @thetalantonx Рік тому +2

    I'm getting both vicarious battlejoy and coachingjoy from this, man. Being under good leaders and instructors, and then being able to turn around and teach my guys and see them get it, and then they go on to teach well even in little exchanges there's always room to learn and teach and it shows in your gym that you and your people have done well in creating a place to learn more than just techniques.

  • @stevenshar1233
    @stevenshar1233 Рік тому +1

    Mike over the years of doing content creation, you have gotten better and better as a martial arts teacher. You may not know me, but you will always have my respect for that.

  • @jeremiaschajtur2624
    @jeremiaschajtur2624 Рік тому +1

    I usually come for the self defense and the shenanigans so this was a nice surprise
    The spirit everyone showed is inspiring 👊🏼

  • @Bear.imbolo
    @Bear.imbolo Рік тому +4

    Demario at the end just absolutely exhausted, I love to see it

    • @hard2hurt
      @hard2hurt  Рік тому +6

      Kumario works his butt off. He has progressed faster than anyone I have ever trained because he listens intently and always does his best.

  • @BigBoriWorld
    @BigBoriWorld Рік тому +3

    #1 Coach on UA-cam hands down (no pun intended)

  • @xcaptainmorgan9
    @xcaptainmorgan9 Рік тому +1

    Appreciate everyone at rkm for the hard work and dedication not just to the gym but the Channel

  • @giovannipinazza
    @giovannipinazza Рік тому +1

    This is my favorite video on this channel now, followed by Natalia’s first match. You guys do things really similarly to gym, and I can tell you have a great relationship with all your fighters, Mike.

  • @taijumasta
    @taijumasta Рік тому +1

    Your skill level at teaching a group and explaining deeper ideas for fighting is crazy. Referencing d&d? Priceless lol. Awesome job

  • @rylewmma553
    @rylewmma553 Рік тому +8

    Great peek into RKM

    • @hard2hurt
      @hard2hurt  Рік тому +10

      I was nervous to put this one out... it's a pretty revealing look.

    • @Priapos93
      @Priapos93 Рік тому +1

      The charm hits harder than the punches

  • @CADClicker
    @CADClicker Рік тому +5

    The D&D metaphors had me cracking up

  • @jasonfinnerty5711
    @jasonfinnerty5711 Рік тому +4

    Your training and overall joy for The Lifestyle makes me happy. People in my life think I just wanna train to protect myself.
    It's to protect my self from myself !_!

  • @xassassin609
    @xassassin609 Рік тому

    This is honestly the best combat channal I've ever seen, nothing compares

  • @SaltLight7
    @SaltLight7 Рік тому +2

    13:53 That! I want to be like that! I
    don't necessarily want to be the strongest or fasted but I want to be that guy. Certin things appeal to us for different reasons. For me, the second I saw that, I decided that will be my thing.

  • @SaftonYT
    @SaftonYT Рік тому

    I like how Clif shows up in the video out of nowhere near the end and it's just him unloading on Tyler with a massive combination.

  • @justinAclark2075
    @justinAclark2075 Рік тому

    I absolutely love the complex sparring drills. genius

  • @hernanmarin3904
    @hernanmarin3904 Рік тому

    Excellent video! I've been practicing martial arts for 45 years, and that was the Best advice I've e er heard..."be first"... I like it! I'm with your permission, I'm going to start using your philosophy, it's AWESOME! Keep the goodwork!

  • @christiansaint-pierre6797
    @christiansaint-pierre6797 Рік тому

    So many studios gloss over the initiative concept. This is the first time I've seen a video give more than just lip service to the concept. Kudos.

  • @CaptainCow9
    @CaptainCow9 Рік тому

    Absolutely love how great of a coaching job this man does he does a great job explaining everything works so well with his fighters

  • @danlewis7707
    @danlewis7707 5 місяців тому

    Man. Much respect. I usually see the silly stuff but this was hard work and great coaching. Thanks for putting this up.

  • @slingshotmcoy
    @slingshotmcoy 4 місяці тому

    Action is always faster than reaction, love the emphasis on it being decisions made right now.

  • @Cannonbo
    @Cannonbo Рік тому +1

    you really got me with the DnD references. was not expecting that from you. you got the initiative by speaking geek.

  • @jamesmanning8795
    @jamesmanning8795 Рік тому

    Icy Mike is the best hype guy ever. I get pumped watching his videos. Good stuff.

  • @davidcounts3851
    @davidcounts3851 Рік тому

    I now feel compelled to use a D&D reference in my work as well. Seeing a video that combines two of my hobbies makes me smile.

  • @MMDogTv
    @MMDogTv Рік тому +2

    Icy mike using d&d to explain fighting? Never thought I would see the day

    • @hard2hurt
      @hard2hurt  Рік тому

      Ahh you must not be paying close attention... there are some pretty frequent rpg and fantasy references.

    • @MMDogTv
      @MMDogTv Рік тому

      @@hard2hurt I’ve noticed some others but blatant d&d just caught me by surprise! And I’m all for it. As someone with shared interests and who learns best by example or comparing topics to things I already understand , I wholeheartedly love its inclusion. Keep up the great content!

  • @hardcaliber19
    @hardcaliber19 Рік тому +1

    Don't know what I'm more impressed by; How on the nose the D&D analogy was, or the fact that you knew what all the stats are hahaha.
    In another life, I think you and I would've been friends Mike, lol.
    Great coaching display.

  • @fabians228
    @fabians228 Рік тому

    Great video, one of the best I’ve seen online that encapsulates MMA and martial arts in general and great footage of controlled sparring… getting hit just hard enough or having a student stand up against a wall and block and take (reasonable) shots until they no longer flinch out of fear of getting hit. Great video Mike. The martial artists in this video are being taught very well 👍✌️

  • @belikewater2413
    @belikewater2413 10 місяців тому

    Really good sparring and excellent coaching to bring out their best while maintaining composure 👊

  • @rjc5175
    @rjc5175 Рік тому +3

    Yo, Cliff vs Tyler bringing heat. Good stuff.

    • @hard2hurt
      @hard2hurt  Рік тому +4

      There's a very good reason I only showed a small part of it.

  • @SergioXavierJr
    @SergioXavierJr Рік тому

    One of the best fighting videos I had ever seen!
    Congrats Mike!

  • @rw8147
    @rw8147 Рік тому

    We called these "exhaustion drills" in sambo. The activities changed but the protocol was the same. Fighter A was told "Do 100 crosses into the bag, then 50 thai kicks, then 30 push-ups, then crunches until your partner jumps on you. Your job is to submit B" Fighter B was told, "Jump on A during the crunches. Your job is to pin A and not get submitted."
    Then we got three minutes until B started on the bag and eventually A jumped on B By the second round of getting jumped on it was all gut instinct and grit. And I never failed to learn something serious each time. You can see Natalya hunting, finding openings, being more efficient with strikes, etc even while she's getting more and more tired. So good!

  • @resilientkid
    @resilientkid 7 місяців тому

    If I somehow ever end up in South Carolina, I want to visit this gym. So glad I got to meet you at your Staten Island seminar.

  • @MrRomanpa
    @MrRomanpa Рік тому

    One of your best videos coach!
    Got me jacked up for Krav class later
    Thanks

  • @tapilaha
    @tapilaha Рік тому

    dude, the world needs more teachers like you

  • @raisnaix
    @raisnaix Рік тому

    I LOVE your teaching technique! Wish I lived near your gym.

  • @samueltheblonde
    @samueltheblonde 2 місяці тому

    You're a very good coach with very good students.

  • @AugustPerkele
    @AugustPerkele Рік тому

    15:57 Natalia sitting in the background just contemplating. I feel this

  • @emanuelr.desousa6878
    @emanuelr.desousa6878 Рік тому

    Great video! You can see many throwbacks from the past videos, but now put into practice.

  • @brownlashawn56
    @brownlashawn56 Рік тому

    7:08 that pulled head kick from the giant was crazy

  • @evanbrown1367
    @evanbrown1367 3 місяці тому

    I really wish more sparring classes were like this.

  • @CriticallyGnart
    @CriticallyGnart Рік тому +2

    I used to go to this Krav class. The techniques were mostly bogus, but their shark tanks did teach me what its like to really be pushed to and beyond the breaking point. I threw up from exertion more than once haha.

  • @MichalLempicki
    @MichalLempicki Рік тому +2

    Thanks for the awesome video as always!

  • @christophervelez1561
    @christophervelez1561 Рік тому +1

    I love this concept of training. I’m gonna try it with my bjj team!

  • @benephelps
    @benephelps Рік тому

    The D&D analogies were amazing!

  • @ianbrewster8934
    @ianbrewster8934 Рік тому

    This is awesome stuff, please, please, please post more videos like this. This is hands down my favorite video you have posted so far. So much knowledge in this video. This is going to rewatched several times for sure. 😀😀😀 10/10

  • @Inaluogh
    @Inaluogh 5 місяців тому

    That girl getting it on with no gas got some serious grit. Great playful environment busting each other's chops but not being a dick about it. If every gym was this fun there'd be more people physically fit and ready to defend themselves.

  • @CoASoFi
    @CoASoFi Рік тому

    One of your best videos Mr. Mike. That girl is really freaking good. An absolute killer she is.
    Also, I see that the effort expended here made this really hard for everyone but I didn’t even think of this as hard sparring. Guess I’m just used to how hard boxers tend to go though.
    Anyways… awesome stuff. As soon I can make it to your area I’ll be swinging on in.

  • @bradpryer
    @bradpryer Рік тому

    Just great Mike! Love the channel!!!!

  • @dustincintron1682
    @dustincintron1682 Рік тому

    Inspiring video. LOVED the d&d analogy

  • @0for30
    @0for30 Рік тому

    16:00 hahahahh the face of the girl sitting there after a hard sparring session. Very relatable. Sometimes you just gotta sit there and zone out

  • @jaden_shah
    @jaden_shah Рік тому +1

    Brilliant coaching

  • @davidwatson3800
    @davidwatson3800 Рік тому

    This is the best explanation of be first I've ever heard

  • @galseed5629
    @galseed5629 Рік тому +1

    That Kumario guy seemed like he had some real potential. Lot of slick moves with just a few rough edges.

  • @kanebarresi7312
    @kanebarresi7312 Рік тому

    I just gotta say, seeing that girl work even though she was gassed, was awesome.

  • @billyg.personaltraining
    @billyg.personaltraining Рік тому +3

    2 things:
    I remember when Jay took a day off you'd have no one to train with, and made the footwork solo drill with Monica from Beautiful Mind. (Which isn't there anymore?)
    2. I LOVE the D&D analogy. I might need to houserule initiative different now. What's your take on the OGL drama?

    • @hard2hurt
      @hard2hurt  Рік тому +2

      Wow. That really puts it in perspective for me. Thanks for the reminder to be grateful for what I have here.

    • @billyg.personaltraining
      @billyg.personaltraining Рік тому

      @@hard2hurt We love you Mike.

    • @dylhemsley9458
      @dylhemsley9458 Рік тому +2

      @@hard2hurt Are you still in contact with Jay? He seems like a really nice guy and your vids together were fun and informtive. Haven't seen him on Hard2Hurt for a while.

  • @Ashbringer85
    @Ashbringer85 Рік тому

    This is what Mike is best at, while I disagree with some of his weapons stuff in terms of an unarmed combat trainer hes very good. I think the mind set is something overlooked in many combat gyms and i think its one of the keys to making a confident fighter.

  • @sixfoxtrot
    @sixfoxtrot Рік тому

    This is great information - I'm an aspiring coach and really like what you're doing. I like the lesson here. Go first.

  • @malkomalkavian
    @malkomalkavian Рік тому +1

    This video is gold. Thank you :)

  • @Mikecheck1212canuhearme
    @Mikecheck1212canuhearme Рік тому +2

    You’re a great coach. Wish I had the opportunity to work with you

  • @snow7728
    @snow7728 Рік тому +5

    DnD nerd time. Wisdom in dnd is more about how perceptive you are of the world and its people rather than experience. You can still use this to take initiative by perceiving your opponents condition, their strengths and weaknesses, your position in the ring relative to theirs or any holes in their defence they might be leaving open. 🤓

  • @ConsumateMonster
    @ConsumateMonster Рік тому +1

    Dude. I think you just created a new house rule for melee classes and initiative modifiers.

  • @canisdefense5608
    @canisdefense5608 Рік тому

    Great coaching and even better programming

  • @gbormann71
    @gbormann71 Рік тому

    Wish I could be there too 😄 Good vibes yet relentless!

  • @notbob6922
    @notbob6922 8 місяців тому

    "that's like waiting to throw a punch, you'll be waiting forever"

  • @julien558
    @julien558 Рік тому

    Great piece of coaching to learn from

  • @pauldrees2833
    @pauldrees2833 Рік тому

    This is awesome! Hard work paying off 💪

  • @Macreadysshack
    @Macreadysshack 8 місяців тому

    “WE ARE NOT TRYING TO STUNT ON OUR PARTNER. This is a warmup.”
    Capoeira kick

  • @scottwheldon9992
    @scottwheldon9992 Рік тому

    I learned a lot from this episode. So much to ponder on.

  • @RammAndTheLamb
    @RammAndTheLamb Рік тому +1

    Love the DnD analogy lol Explains it well and concise

  • @jordansquires2259
    @jordansquires2259 Рік тому

    That cartwheel kick was brilliant

  • @KelpWolf
    @KelpWolf Рік тому

    Cool video, you're a good coach Mike, I hope your students appreciate you!

  • @CrazyDEntertainment
    @CrazyDEntertainment Рік тому

    This is coaching. I LOVE it.

  • @killercour
    @killercour Рік тому

    Great advice. Haven't been to kickboxing in a while but I'm going to apply this to BJJ class