Oh my godddd the performative "advocating" they do for you over tiny things, like "Omg Tanner you didn't hold her hand? You're so mean to herrrrrr, stopppp!"
The best part about these dynamics is that they 100% have a crush on him, but he is virtually Not interested Whatsoever for some reason, and it just makes her *spiral*
This is giving me flashbacks to a few women who were vipers towards me because I got along with guys. It was an old coworker situation too like I'm here to work mind your business
literally my ex’s best friend lmao i never trusted her never, she had/has a boyfriend and i never suspected anything between them but she was just soooo fake with me
I'd just act like we're bffs 😂 and we usually do wind up becoming pretty good friends unless they're just too toxic in which case the guy usually winds up seeing
That is HEINOUS. Sounds like your bf enjoys the attention and knows full well it crosses boundaries. Imagine how upset he'd be if the roles were reversed and you had a guy "best friend" who acted like this. You do NOT deserve to deal with that messiness. Either your bf needs to put some healthy and appropriate boundaries in place, or he's not ready to be in a relationship and you shouldn't have to be subjected to that treatment from your bf OR his "bff".
Same. He’s not currently dating anyone but when he was I made myself scare, gave her advice if she asked, and tried to be as supportive as possible. I love him and I want him to be happy, even if it’s not with me. She turned out to be horrible and attempted to steal both his identity, $, and wrecked his truck. But until he was done with the relationship I wasn’t going to say anything negative about her to him.
Tbh tho, I’ve met a female like this who was part of a boy group that I started hanging with too. And she was kinda like that, just super “I was here before you.” Kinda bullshit. Made me feel left out.
It's not the same thing, but my best friend and I are exes and every person they've dated was jealous and tried to get them to stop talking to me... we broke up for a reason, leave us alone 😭 And mind you, most of these people never met me
I hate this type of person, is so hard to me to empathize bc I'm a girl-best-friend and I genuinely always want to be besties with my best friend's girlfriends
Saaaaame because I look at it as expanding my friend circle and then what if they get married and have kids? I get to be an auntie to my friends kid? That's goals honestly. I want my friends to thrive with good partners.
As someone who is a girl best friend (I’m aspec for reference) my best friend is literally family not like “he’s just like my brother” but like he calls my mom “mom” and I’ve not liked his GFs previously but as long as she is nice to him it just means he spends time with us separately instead of trying to force a friendship. When I see things like this it icks me out, a real best friend loves and supports
@@Sleipnirseight she’s why we broke up lol. I had my suspicions. They acted like a throuple (ex, brother, and brothers wife). His brother would also be gone for like a week at a time for work. Not that I thought they actually were (a throuple, obviously, or just cheating). But emotionally, pretty much. And he was like, whipped asf. Like… asf. Very weird dynamic to try to join. She was my absolute best friend at first too.
I'm so very grateful that my 3 male friends & I have an open line of communication because this sh¡t's absolutely wild💀 I know this happens & I'm just stunned every time I'm reminded of that. Like please stop being a b¡tch to his girlfriend & just tell him how you feel! This is embarrassing😭
I know for a fact that girls who date my dude friends that I've known since I was like 14 THINK I'm doing this...but I'm usually just trying to get to know them and see if I think they'll be a good match! Sometimes I'm even trying to warn them about my buddies!😂 it's not my fault you didn't come on that one trip...or you haven't met his dogs yet. I'm not trying to make you feel excluded or trying to take your man... I'm just trying to figure out if you're gonna be hanging around or not😂😂😂
It's not your job to make that assessment. That's the job of the person DATING them. Friends are there to support when NEEDED and allow their friends to make their own decisions. As a girl bff myself, you sound insufferable.
@@Sleipnirseight It sure is when they ask me to! And it DEFINITELY is if she's a sweet Lil thing that needs to be warned against my horn dog guy friends!
the emphasis on mini dress 😭
Oh my godddd the performative "advocating" they do for you over tiny things, like "Omg Tanner you didn't hold her hand? You're so mean to herrrrrr, stopppp!"
She is his red flag. 🚩
She's giving You Belong with Me by Taylor Swift music video from like 2008
Or Girlfriend from Avril lol
except the girlfriend was the toxic one in the mv😭😭
@@kass2007xx that's the whole point tho, both are toxic. Taylor is just hiding it
@@kass2007xx I said what I said
Don’t disrespect Taylor like that.. she wasn’t the one who was toxic😭
The best part about these dynamics is that they 100% have a crush on him, but he is virtually Not interested Whatsoever for some reason, and it just makes her *spiral*
"this was before you were around, *sweetie*" oh my god
i’m getting war flashbacks from this video
PTSD inducing so you know it’s real
I'm sending this to my best friend 😂 she was legit like this back in HS.
How and why are you even still friends lmao
@moononthewindynight27 I wasn't the best person in HS too. Obnoxiously self righteous of my own ignorance, I like to call it.
@@moononthewindynight27Because people change and these really are exactly the kind of things teenagers are figuring out in real life.
@@Gildedmuse I doubt most people change. In my experience most just get better at hiding their true personality.
@@christiannipales9937 ok that checks out then 😂
You can be so terrifying sometimes.
Omg I got a flashback at "You didn't have to dress up for this" no matter what you're wearing 💀 THESE ARE THE CLOTHES IN MY CLOSET
No offense but….(proceeds to tell you the rudest thing you’ve ever heard in your life)
My best friend is a woman. She doesn't act like this at all. She is great at telling a person's character and has out lasted every relationship.
Thats lovely
vs. The actual girl best friend:
Your hair is incredible tell us the secret sis
That's good genetics.
@@folkloreofbeingAbsolutely. Girl won the genetic lottery.
The actual girl best friend will look you in the eyes and say "why are you with him? You can do so much better." and mean it
LOL THIS
This character is my new sleep paralysis demon
Plot twist: New girlfriend is bi and only with Tanner because she's into toxic best girl friend and tries to gauge her chances 🤪
So both toxic?
Touch grass
no..
@@lazyenjoyer1362 Yeah, Tanner just can’t catch a break.
Lmao
You made me cringe, and then laugh, at every attempt. I love this!
"Oh brings a different girl here every year"
This is giving me flashbacks to a few women who were vipers towards me because I got along with guys. It was an old coworker situation too like I'm here to work mind your business
Same but the inverse. Friends with girls and the guys just started getting really pissy, all the sudden pulling 180s and hating me
literally my ex’s best friend lmao i never trusted her never, she had/has a boyfriend and i never suspected anything between them but she was just soooo fake with me
I'd just act like we're bffs 😂 and we usually do wind up becoming pretty good friends unless they're just too toxic in which case the guy usually winds up seeing
I am currently going through this right now she has more of his clothing items than I do 😭
That is HEINOUS. Sounds like your bf enjoys the attention and knows full well it crosses boundaries. Imagine how upset he'd be if the roles were reversed and you had a guy "best friend" who acted like this. You do NOT deserve to deal with that messiness. Either your bf needs to put some healthy and appropriate boundaries in place, or he's not ready to be in a relationship and you shouldn't have to be subjected to that treatment from your bf OR his "bff".
Time to leave him. Trust that this will end messily.
“You’re usually not the type Eddie brings around”
“Yeah and that’s probably why I’m still here 😌”
Yep, she’s clearly into him.
I'm in love with my boy best friend who has a girlfriend and you would NEVER catch me doing this shit
Damn. Good luck girly, whether it’s with him or with someone else 💗
Same. He’s not currently dating anyone but when he was I made myself scare, gave her advice if she asked, and tried to be as supportive as possible. I love him and I want him to be happy, even if it’s not with me. She turned out to be horrible and attempted to steal both his identity, $, and wrecked his truck. But until he was done with the relationship I wasn’t going to say anything negative about her to him.
@Alixir1228some people have “self control”
Omgsh the fact this makes me want to hate you means it’s goooood. 😂 This and the sound going around of the pick me girl watching you do makeup. 💯
Plot twist she has a crush on the girlfrien.
Tbh tho, I’ve met a female like this who was part of a boy group that I started hanging with too. And she was kinda like that, just super “I was here before you.” Kinda bullshit. Made me feel left out.
I am so glad I'm married already. Dating seems nuts now.
It's not the same thing, but my best friend and I are exes and every person they've dated was jealous and tried to get them to stop talking to me... we broke up for a reason, leave us alone 😭
And mind you, most of these people never met me
I hate this type of person, is so hard to me to empathize bc I'm a girl-best-friend and I genuinely always want to be besties with my best friend's girlfriends
Saaaaame because I look at it as expanding my friend circle and then what if they get married and have kids? I get to be an auntie to my friends kid? That's goals honestly. I want my friends to thrive with good partners.
Your hair looks so fucking good
As someone who is a girl best friend (I’m aspec for reference) my best friend is literally family not like “he’s just like my brother” but like he calls my mom “mom” and I’ve not liked his GFs previously but as long as she is nice to him it just means he spends time with us separately instead of trying to force a friendship. When I see things like this it icks me out, a real best friend loves and supports
You’re an aspect of what?
@@Ciara_Foxx oh aspec not aspect it stand for asexual spectrum (basically I have very limited sexual attraction)
Absolutely. The person portrayed is a fake friend who is just jealous and doesnt respect boundaries
Tanner lmao 🤣
This pissed me off lmao
I am a girl best friend and I am still friends with some of the girls my friend has dated
Poison poison poison 😅
This was my ex’s sister in law that he basically lived with
SUSPICIOUS 👀👀 Would love to know if they ever cheated
@@Sleipnirseight she’s why we broke up lol. I had my suspicions. They acted like a throuple (ex, brother, and brothers wife). His brother would also be gone for like a week at a time for work. Not that I thought they actually were (a throuple, obviously, or just cheating). But emotionally, pretty much. And he was like, whipped asf. Like… asf. Very weird dynamic to try to join. She was my absolute best friend at first too.
Goodness, I know her lol
I'm so very grateful that my 3 male friends & I have an open line of communication because this sh¡t's absolutely wild💀 I know this happens & I'm just stunned every time I'm reminded of that. Like please stop being a b¡tch to his girlfriend & just tell him how you feel! This is embarrassing😭
Not the pet sitting
It’s so funny that it’s not what she says it’s how she says it
Tyler Bender, I love this! Can we be friends?
spam
Don't worry, girl, I'll take this one offa your hands.
The zero total girl best friends
Ac•Cur•Ate
I actually felt nauseous watching this 🤢😂😂
Your videos must be good because some of them legit make me nauseous lmao.
Utah Girls are fine
If this is just a friend I hate to see your Just a sibling
does anyone find these still entertaining?
I know for a fact that girls who date my dude friends that I've known since I was like 14 THINK I'm doing this...but I'm usually just trying to get to know them and see if I think they'll be a good match! Sometimes I'm even trying to warn them about my buddies!😂 it's not my fault you didn't come on that one trip...or you haven't met his dogs yet. I'm not trying to make you feel excluded or trying to take your man... I'm just trying to figure out if you're gonna be hanging around or not😂😂😂
It's not your job to make that assessment. That's the job of the person DATING them. Friends are there to support when NEEDED and allow their friends to make their own decisions. As a girl bff myself, you sound insufferable.
@@Sleipnirseight It sure is when they ask me to! And it DEFINITELY is if she's a sweet Lil thing that needs to be warned against my horn dog guy friends!