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If you understand an introvert's mindset, everything that she did, from going a 7km run on a first date, making a tiktok video on a first date, making a feedback form for first date and making awkward eye contact, everything makes sense and it sounds more normal than you might think
Yeah, the criticism for the this girl is so unnecessary. It's not what you normally expect a first date to be, but so what it's not harming anyone? The guy agreed to it and seemed to like running too, what if we're just extremely unfit people? This could be normal for them. I have friends who'd go hiking for first dates, it's cute.
@@elliotw.888 It's actually normal for a 7km run for a date, but for a first date its probably something to do with how introvert thinks. I could be wrong but she probably wanted to go for a different type of date instead of the same old movie dates, somehow feeling creative. She is also looking for some activity where she feels comfortable so that she feel less awkward when initiating a conversation, introverts can interact better in a familiar environment especially when meeting someone new or doing something new (dating).
I don't think it's such a bad idea. It's one way to promote clear and open communication, and it shows that they actually want to know your point of view of how the date went, and is open to change/compromise! Sure it's not the most romantic thing in the world, but I'd see it as goofy and some people like that
I think the default visualization of responses on Google Forms is pie chart hahahaha but tbh I find her feedback form cute lah I think she suggested 7 km run because like she said, she is an introvert and probably felt better doing an activity she was very comfortable with, which I guess for her is running, rather than drinks :")
I'm still trying to get over the fact that she keeps referring to herself as being old....at 26. Boy, she's going to look back on this time in 20 years and say, "and to think, I thought I was old at 26, I was dumb".
This feedback form aint new. There is an up & coming dating app in the philippines in which people can rate & review each other after some significant interaction. The creators said it promotes transparency and accountability.
At least she has dedication. Respect for her tho. But its like telling the guy, sorry this is our last date, could you please rate me before we part ways? arkward....
As wholesome as reddit can be, I won't recommend it. It's full of incel ready to spill hate at slightest show of someone being happy with themselves and their lives.
EQ? go running for first date, keep filming, talk too much until jaw hurt, ask for feedback, post all of it online for attention maybe a good example of what not to do on a first date, or any date.
Idk I think this is a not-so-useful idea as everyone expects differently and the feedback they give may not apply highly to another person unless the person receiving the feedback can discern that.
It's one of those tiktokers who try to be relatable and use self-deprecating humor, since she said 'it's her first ever date' as an 'introverted spinster'. Since dating is exciting but also humiliating, she decided to be different and come up with the 7k run, feedback form, and reduce humiliation by turning it into a social experiment tiktok? Also, idk why she would doom herself with 7km run, because what if the guy released really awful body odor, so it's like she has to suffer through the run, and then sit with the sweat smell for the 'date' 💀 As for the pie chart, it's because she's planning to send the same feedback to multiple dates so the percentage is more of how many percent of her dates think she holds eye contact well etc.. Although it looks like it will friendzone herself to most men and attract the specific type who will use the same type of humor (like the dude who used a powerpoint slide to promote himself to ladies) or overly-serious desperate creeps who will write long essays back.
If ultimate goal of dating is to end up in bed, isn't it best to find out body odor on a first date? Some people can tahan each other scent and some cannot but there is nothing wrong either way.
To be fair to her, if you're not comfortable with keeping eye contact, a trick is usually to look at someone's forehead or nose when talking to them. She's probably a bit awkward and used that trick a bit too obviously. From a fellow socially awkward person, kudos to her for putting herself out there honestly.
Well I suffer from the opposite. For me looking away is kinda hard..I like to know that I have the person's attention when I'm speaking. I find it kinda rude tho when someone looks away. So I guess introvert or extrovert we each have our individual struggles ?
I think it’s amazing that she stepped out of comfort to go on a date for the first time in her life. It’s not easy for people who are more introverted. If I knew her I’d be proud of her.
She didn't do anything wrong, please leave the poor girl alone! She even shared in a recent tiktok about how the hate comments have been greatly affecting her mental health. This world is already full enough of negativity, please be kind yall 😭
I absolutely hate eye contact and prefer sitting next to someone when on a date rather than across a table. When my husband and I first started dating, he sat next to me automatically, and it made it nice to be closer to him and be able to speak more quietly, without the pressure of maintaining eye contact. He's neurodivergent, too - so I guess we're two weirdos that got together. :D
Honestly, it's quite a wholesome date. Both of them agreed on the 7km run so why not? I like the idea of having a feedback form too, transparent and straightforward. Saw one of her recent videos that it’s been overwhelming for her when the video went viral. Let’s be less judgmental and more encouraging on the internet 💛
This is legit me. Especially rewarding at the cafe after the date. The feedback is a good idea for introverts or neurodivergents who sometimes have a hard time understanding people.
I think the feedback form is honestly cute. It’s funny you know and I could really sense her nervousness and awkwardness through the video so props to her for going through it and enjoying herself👍
It’s a refreshing and fun date. I don’t see anything wrong with sharing her experiences on social media. If you prefer to keep your life private then good for you. What’s she’s doing is perfectly harmless! Please leave her alone.
Running is actually quite clever. It increases your heart rate, which your brain might misinterpret it as being in love. Same goes to scary rides in the theme park ('cuz adrenaline). The physiological changes that occurs when ur in love and when ur experiencing adrenaline and increasing heart beat is quite similar and the brain can sometimes be stupid enough to be tricked. Also, surviving something scary tgt draws ppl closer to each other, hence why many who went to the same concentration camps ended up marrying each other. Dating hack? Idk.
I mean, feedback is fine but putting it in the form is a bit too much, as efficient as it is. Plus it removes the interaction you know. I think just straight up asking them is better, you guys can discuss it too.
I'd be suspicious that the reason they're giving this feedback form is because they want to confess something unpleasant and they hope that the other person will say "you should give me feedback too!", and this form is an excuse to do this.
I am going to sound a bit mean. You always keep the first date short and pristine. As a Asian American man who dated a lot in the past with girls of all races. Going on a date that involves running isn't good. First date should always be just a complementary to knowing each other. I'd would limit all first date to less than 1 hour and that is to include maybe a coffee grab. It's understandable that the girl is very inexperience. It's a very awkward date like how she did it so I hope she can learn how to be more better next time.
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If you understand an introvert's mindset, everything that she did, from going a 7km run on a first date, making a tiktok video on a first date, making a feedback form for first date and making awkward eye contact, everything makes sense and it sounds more normal than you might think
Yeah, the criticism for the this girl is so unnecessary. It's not what you normally expect a first date to be, but so what it's not harming anyone?
The guy agreed to it and seemed to like running too, what if we're just extremely unfit people? This could be normal for them.
I have friends who'd go hiking for first dates, it's cute.
not that I think it's wrong but why do you think 7km run makes sense for a first date for an introvert?
Absolutely shocked by the backlash that she got online.
@@elliotw.888 It's actually normal for a 7km run for a date, but for a first date its probably something to do with how introvert thinks. I could be wrong but she probably wanted to go for a different type of date instead of the same old movie dates, somehow feeling creative. She is also looking for some activity where she feels comfortable so that she feel less awkward when initiating a conversation, introverts can interact better in a familiar environment especially when meeting someone new or doing something new (dating).
@@hihihi1690 hiking on a first date sounds fun. It is said if you want to know someone's personality, travel with them. I can get behind it.
I don't think it's such a bad idea. It's one way to promote clear and open communication, and it shows that they actually want to know your point of view of how the date went, and is open to change/compromise!
Sure it's not the most romantic thing in the world, but I'd see it as goofy and some people like that
I FIND HER AND THE GUY SO WHOLESOME TOGETHER
More impressed with the guy being so willing to do the feedback form haha
It never ceases to amaze me how people all over the globe perceive dating so much different from how we do.
The moment she said a ‘7k run’ I was like.. is he german??👀
I've been learning about mating habits of humans from Germany. I thought the same.
I think the default visualization of responses on Google Forms is pie chart hahahaha but tbh I find her feedback form cute lah I think she suggested 7 km run because like she said, she is an introvert and probably felt better doing an activity she was very comfortable with, which I guess for her is running, rather than drinks :")
I think she is introvert I think introverts will agree with her actions tho
Broski the pie charts are the default visualisation lol
The feedback form is not an entirely new idea on social media tho, regardless on what you think about it.
I'm still trying to get over the fact that she keeps referring to herself as being old....at 26. Boy, she's going to look back on this time in 20 years and say, "and to think, I thought I was old at 26, I was dumb".
ASAB - Assigned Single At Birth.
🤣🤣very creative now this generation dating . "Feedback" sound like more on business 🤣
Plot twist: feedback form is an insurance application form
This feedback form aint new. There is an up & coming dating app in the philippines in which people can rate & review each other after some significant interaction. The creators said it promotes transparency and accountability.
She is cool. Refreshing. Seems not that introverted though? Do introverts active on social media? Anyhow she will improve in no time.
I cannot find the feedback form for this video...
At least she has dedication. Respect for her tho. But its like telling the guy, sorry this is our last date, could you please rate me before we part ways? arkward....
Hahahaha I shall do e feedback form for my date ahahhah
In my opinion, I don't think that she did film everything... But only some parts. If I remembered clearly, she only showed the guy twice...
Damn it, I know it’s cultural for Asian countries but 26 IS NOT OLD. I AM SO OFFENDED lmao
As wholesome as reddit can be, I won't recommend it. It's full of incel ready to spill hate at slightest show of someone being happy with themselves and their lives.
Dk bou yall but im born to be alone
EQ?
go running for first date, keep filming, talk too much until jaw hurt, ask for feedback, post all of it online for attention
maybe a good example of what not to do on a first date, or any date.
Idk I think this is a not-so-useful idea as everyone expects differently and the feedback they give may not apply highly to another person unless the person receiving the feedback can discern that.
No way this is true 😭😭😭😭
Did they have a hot shower together after the run?
form could have been done better
It's one of those tiktokers who try to be relatable and use self-deprecating humor, since she said 'it's her first ever date' as an 'introverted spinster'. Since dating is exciting but also humiliating, she decided to be different and come up with the 7k run, feedback form, and reduce humiliation by turning it into a social experiment tiktok? Also, idk why she would doom herself with 7km run, because what if the guy released really awful body odor, so it's like she has to suffer through the run, and then sit with the sweat smell for the 'date' 💀
As for the pie chart, it's because she's planning to send the same feedback to multiple dates so the percentage is more of how many percent of her dates think she holds eye contact well etc.. Although it looks like it will friendzone herself to most men and attract the specific type who will use the same type of humor (like the dude who used a powerpoint slide to promote himself to ladies) or overly-serious desperate creeps who will write long essays back.
The pie chart visualisation of responses is just the default setting of google forms...
If ultimate goal of dating is to end up in bed, isn't it best to find out body odor on a first date? Some people can tahan each other scent and some cannot but there is nothing wrong either way.
To be fair to her, if you're not comfortable with keeping eye contact, a trick is usually to look at someone's forehead or nose when talking to them. She's probably a bit awkward and used that trick a bit too obviously. From a fellow socially awkward person, kudos to her for putting herself out there honestly.
Well I suffer from the opposite. For me looking away is kinda hard..I like to know that I have the person's attention when I'm speaking. I find it kinda rude tho when someone looks away. So I guess introvert or extrovert we each have our individual struggles ?
@@monicarai1497 I agreed.
I think it’s amazing that she stepped out of comfort to go on a date for the first time in her life. It’s not easy for people who are more introverted. If I knew her I’d be proud of her.
She didn't do anything wrong, please leave the poor girl alone! She even shared in a recent tiktok about how the hate comments have been greatly affecting her mental health. This world is already full enough of negativity, please be kind yall 😭
I absolutely hate eye contact and prefer sitting next to someone when on a date rather than across a table. When my husband and I first started dating, he sat next to me automatically, and it made it nice to be closer to him and be able to speak more quietly, without the pressure of maintaining eye contact. He's neurodivergent, too - so I guess we're two weirdos that got together. :D
How cute. Thanks for sharing
I would want to date a neurodivergent too. As much as i like hanging out with others i can connect with neurodivergents better.
Honestly, it's quite a wholesome date. Both of them agreed on the 7km run so why not? I like the idea of having a feedback form too, transparent and straightforward. Saw one of her recent videos that it’s been overwhelming for her when the video went viral. Let’s be less judgmental and more encouraging on the internet 💛
This is legit me. Especially rewarding at the cafe after the date. The feedback is a good idea for introverts or neurodivergents who sometimes have a hard time understanding people.
I think the feedback form is honestly cute. It’s funny you know and I could really sense her nervousness and awkwardness through the video so props to her for going through it and enjoying herself👍
Great example of feedback: "harder baby harder"
This is truly one of the dates of all time!!!!
As an introvert I can totally relate to her omg! Especially love her little reward after the date, you did great girl 😍
I think she's smart 🤓 feedback forms probably weed out alot of jokers and narcissists lol
As an introverted single from born i unds and relate to her hahha
Depending on intentions, if they both like running, it’s not the worst idea.
It’s a refreshing and fun date. I don’t see anything wrong with sharing her experiences on social media. If you prefer to keep your life private then good for you. What’s she’s doing is perfectly harmless! Please leave her alone.
she didn't get friend zoned la, it's exercise zoned ..................
I’m totally getting a Google Form for all my dates. It’s giving bureaucracy.
“Run on the first date is too much” well, i guess good that it’s this kind of run, instead of running away from the meet up 😬😬😬
That is the Google form responses chart for option choice (default setting)
Running is actually quite clever. It increases your heart rate, which your brain might misinterpret it as being in love. Same goes to scary rides in the theme park ('cuz adrenaline). The physiological changes that occurs when ur in love and when ur experiencing adrenaline and increasing heart beat is quite similar and the brain can sometimes be stupid enough to be tricked. Also, surviving something scary tgt draws ppl closer to each other, hence why many who went to the same concentration camps ended up marrying each other. Dating hack? Idk.
Before get marry, use e feedback form.
Maybe the guy’s forehead is high to the extent she can play tic tac toe with it so she’s actually playing it by herself in her mind.
I'm pretty sure she uses pie charts and graphs because she wants to reuse her form.
That's just the default way of how the responses are shown on a google form...she didn't create them
I mean, feedback is fine but putting it in the form is a bit too much, as efficient as it is. Plus it removes the interaction you know. I think just straight up asking them is better, you guys can discuss it too.
"good running pace" was definitely a CHOICE 😭
Oh noo. Staring at someone's forehead is not what u wanna do. That can really make people feel uncomfortable.
it won't end well when you are chasing after the guy. Literally...
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imagine going for a 7k run and then after that only talk for 1 second then decide to post her journey to tik tok and called it a date
Truly weird
YEOLO on a first date be like: “U think u SIA?”
For ppl defending her, now u guys know how tough it is for a guy to make the first move and set up a date.
I'd be suspicious that the reason they're giving this feedback form is because they want to confess something unpleasant and they hope that the other person will say "you should give me feedback too!", and this form is an excuse to do this.
Feedback form for a date . Right. That's.....really.....romantic...
I am going to sound a bit mean. You always keep the first date short and pristine. As a Asian American man who dated a lot in the past with girls of all races. Going on a date that involves running isn't good. First date should always be just a complementary to knowing each other. I'd would limit all first date to less than 1 hour and that is to include maybe a coffee grab. It's understandable that the girl is very inexperience. It's a very awkward date like how she did it so I hope she can learn how to be more better next time.
ok who are forcing yall introverts to go out on dates Y_Y
yikes-