Everyone is praising Clarence and as y’all should but give Mod his flowers because if he has an avoidant communication style this is a huge step behind and front of the camera. Proud of him
dont be that person. avoidant communication means that you shy away from communication, you're non confrontational, you don't typically step up to communication you might choose to run from issues. it doesn't mean a complete shut down or that you can't communicate you just rather not@@CartierChapo
This is what happens when you have the right women beside you. People can say what they want, but queen is a real one. I'm glad you guys talked it out. Respect 🙏🏽
I love that they are talking again. The love is there for sure. I understand mod and how he tends to run and shelter himself from the hurt the tension of the conversation. I know it's not right to go ghost. Most of the time a person is dealing with something and probably just don't want to talk. It's not personal but I can't deal right now. I know we should say something. But that hurt or maybe even pride be real.
Love that Mod was willing to be vulnerable enough to share his perspective. Feeling like you’re alone on an island while surrounded by your “friends” and “family” can definitely tear you down
can anyone explain whats been happening in these videos? I havent watched queen or clarence or mod in like 2 years and i heard he cheated. are clarence and mod beefing or something? did clarence cheat on queen?
Queens a real one for that. She came into THEIR relationship if you really think about it. They were like Brothers when she popped in the picture- and so many people like to say she tore their Friendship/Brotherhood apart; and she actually made them both realize how important it is that they _fix_ whatever issues they had. People don’t give Queen the credit she deserves- and I hate how people always blame her for everything! #ItsQueensFault is so fitting for her brand, and I’m glad she capitalized off that.
Grown men sitting down and communicating talking about they feelings clearing the air for a year and change is a masterpiece give these men they flowers they didn’t had to do it but they did 🙏🏿💯
Stop with the flowers 💐 talk it's dead. Taking away from a women and once again femanizing guys (crnt spell lol) seriously I hate how ppl keep falling for these feminine phrases tf
I’m glad Queen extended the offer and Mod accepted and Clarence and Mod had a serious talk. Brotherhood is important. Be there for each other good and bad. I love seeing you both laugh. Mod looks happy and relieved that he has you back on his life.
Pride can be the biggest relationship killer. So glad Queen took the initiative to break the ice that paved the way for them to start communicating again. Im so happy to see the dynamic duo together again. Family 🙏🏻
Ayooo shout out to my girl Queen. She brought the squad back ❤ sometimes we need these type of experiences for growth. Dope to see y’all talk it out and appreciate y’all for sharing it with us.
This was so genuine and real. Clarence as a friend just wants more for Mod. How he express his vision and that included Mod was real. Mod just needed some time they both did, they both bring the best and want the best out of one another. Time for a Mod & Clarence Podcast that’s the vibe I was getting!!!! ❤
These sit down talks be so therapeutic. Glad y’all were able to work out y’all differences cuz y’all really came a long way. U don’t see these kind of sit down talks this often when it comes to friendship. This was very much a mature thing to do👏🏽👏🏽
Crazy how Queen initially got y’all to talk and there were people trying to instigate the fact that she got in between y’all friendship ..she a real one ❤frfr..so moral of everything..misunderstanding and miscommunication
real friends always come back together this is so nice , this would be nice if you two do a podcast in that space and stuff. i’m happy for this friendship
Ya should start a brotherly podcast! I really enjoyed this. MOD is really funny & when ya together it’s a mood. Two different people, yet ya can bring out the best in each other by also revealing weak areas. MOD idk if you’re going to see this but your channel would be so lit if you would be consistent. I think your personality would draw people easily. And you can collab with real ones. ❤ you gotta balance it all.
You can tell therapy is really helping Clarence..the way he talks, expresses himself & tries to get Mod to do the same. Super dope. I didn’t finish the vid yet, but I hope Mod can get in to therapy. Seems like he carries a lot & laughs it off..
He was definitely nervously laughing alot, I hope he does get therapy because this was good to see! Can't wait to see his MAJOR come up & turn around👏🏾
I like how supportive/understanding Clarence is at 21:36 - 22:47 things like this show how you can see what you could have said & done better to keep a healthy friendships or even relationships
Mod was never jealous of Clare, he felt left out- he felt hurt that he was being left behind: It’s so much deeper then clothes, money, and everything else. This is two grown, beautiful Black Men having real issues in their Friendship- and Mod loves Clarence and his Family.
This truly made my week! I’ve never clicked on something so fast before! Y’all are family and it shows. Fate will always bring you back to people who are supposed to be in your life. Queen is a true gem for bringing y’all back together. I understand Mod completely because I’m that friend too. I pull away when I don’t feel fully supported. And don’t necessarily want to explain to my closest friend why I’m hurt. But it hurts them too. Which I’ve learned. True friendship will always make a way. Mod just needed some extra love and support and I’m glad Clarence was open & willing. True brotherhood. We love to see it. ❤
Another reason I really love queen,... this was very much needed from the both of them... sooooo happy to see them back vibin they missed each other friendship
@CLARENCENYC YOOOOOOO I ain't Neva smiled SOOOO hard! Ik Queen is smiling too. What a way to shut the devil! U and Mod been boys since u were small. I was devastated when y'all went distant from each other. Bros that stay close before the come up n come up together should STAYYY together AFTER the come up. THISSSSSSSS is what BEEN needing to happen. ALMOST made tear tf up frfr!! Now I wanna see a sit down wit You and Queens Mama....not Tina rn smh kuz that's different but YOU and Mama overdue for a sit down ....then a sit down even if a video call wit u and POPs! We goin into 2024 free y'all!
Not they started the chat with a bunch of giggling!! I love it. Real solid men. Sometimes 'time' is needed to really recognize if something is authentic. This brotherhood is certainly real.
Say what y’all want about Clarence but he is a good person . His maturity and accountability is everything, plus he just keeps it real af & I love that the most. Mod is one of my favorites too , always have been & him being a Virgo (those that get it get it) I completely understand how he felt and where he was coming from & how it’s very tough to communicate our feelings most times & how we’d rather remove ourselves quickly from a situation. All in all I’m so glad these kings were able to put their pride aside and mend things as brothers ❤ I loved every bit of this conversation as well as pt 2 on mod’s channel. Well done kings , glad to see y’all back. Also can’t forget about my girl Queen , I appreciate her part in this. Behind every great man is a great woman.
I love this so much . Normalize having THE TALK ! Whether its with friends/family /your significant other.. certain relationships are worth fighting for & I love that yall are back in tune . I definitely understand both perspectives nobody was really right or wrong yall just had different perspectives . Its the maturity for me 💕. Clare thank you for being understanding I've been in Mod shoes & felt alone before & I had the wrong ppl around me so seeing this was so refreshing
It’s hard navigating elevation in your personal life with friends who aren’t either financial or socially elevated yet. I’m not even making big money but as a new grad nurse, heading toward my critical care NP, I’m no longer living pay check to pay check, and can afford a little more and even that’s hard navigating friends. Finding neutral ground with old friends and new friends in different brackets/life styles/ is something I wasn’t expecting to need to learn. Cus I see people as people but society definitely puts pressures on people to look, act be, a certain way within a specific lifestyle. Which is crazy for real. Like it really shouldn’t be like that cus I feel like everyone is/has a gold mine in them, we all just cash in different.
This is the best explanation of what is happening with Clarence at this point in his life. Neither are wrong but I do feel all MOD wanted was for him to speak up then… but I understand Clarence because as Day Day said…”I gotta live here when you leave” … lol and climbing the social ladder is hard because it’s no longer about paychecks… it’s about social capital… ❤
@@kyeshialikely4086 exactly. It’s not about money anymore it’s about connects and how those connects are going to form your life. What can that connect do to build your or break you. I know as nurse I can’t be in certain places with certain people because I could lose my nursing license. Everything I worked so hard for the life I sacrificed for. Also, the more I network the more opportunities I have. So it defiantly becomes social currency. Also, I’ve notice “friends” have become entitled to the money I make. I work hard for my money it doesn’t come easy. And people think I’m all of a sudden a millionaire and I make easy money. “Friends” that don’t like you anymore and want to find ways to “put you in your place” aka make you feel less than what you are. People who NEVER wanted to talk to me when I was a struggling mother, stressing to keep the lights on are now calling me “family” and saying how much they miss me. I know Clarence missed Mod because it’s hard to find someone who has love for you just because it’s you. Mine is my cousin. So I don’t mind breaking bread with her and teaching her everything I’ve learned. This world is evil it really is. I just stay close to God and to the few who loved and love me money or not.
This is what grown people do. Respect each other even while not speaking; not getting upset and spilling each other secrets because you’re not seeing eye to eye at the moment. Have a conversation when both parties are cool, calm , and ready to do so. Much respect for both young men for not letting social media and others pin you too against each other. Thank you for both being grown men and respecting and taking your time to deal with this. Queen, your name speaks for itself; Thank you lady for being a great woman hopefully soon a great wife in Clarence life, also thank you for being a great friend to Mod. You three were a dynamic trio at one point and we all loved your chemistry. #Respect
I did not know how invested I was into y’all friendship until this vlog! Lol I knew y’all would eventually have this sit down but I’m so glad I’m seeing y’all talk things through 🤗 good friendships are something you hold onto! 💪🏾
Queen said she was going to reach out too, after that twitch live after seeing how Clarence was really hurt mod wasn’t speaking to him..She’s the sweetest!😩🙏🏾🖤
I really appreciate mod for being vulnerable and coming on this video and saying how he felt this was really big of him I will always love mod he has such a positive attitude all the time
Mod stil holding back... i can tell ... i'm so happy Clarence took accountability of his lack of control and being so neutral in some situations he needed to speak up for Mod ! Mod probably felt unappreciated, and so lonely ... they came up together and Clarence got everything meaning love ,money family.
It felt like Mod sugar coating his feelings throughout this. I think he genuinely felt like C wasn’t being a real friend, that’s why he took a step back. He definitely felt like fuck this 🥷, I do think he felt unsupported by Clare. He laughed through his pain in this one. Clare is a strong personality where Mod is more passive.
I fell out with my bestie of 18 years for a year then we linked back up and then she passed away a year later I'm so happy we got back right b4 she passed
I think attachment style is important thing to be highlighted in this conversation… mod May have an avoidant attachment style which causes people to shut completely down if they feel like their needs aren’t being met or they’re not meeting their own. Speaking from personal experience as a fearful avoidant, I have a best friend of almost 20 years and as of these last couple years we don’t really talk as much as we used to and I know it’s mostly my fault but I have a really hard time expressing my needs in friendships and it’s to a point now where I do feel uncomfortable even having the conversation with her because i know she definitely feel a way about it. But I honestly don’t wanna go back to talking every single day but at the same time I wouldn’t mind talking here and there every week. I guess I subconsciously fear going back to how things were for so long and it felt disruptive to my life and tuning into my own needs being there for someone in that way for so long. I feel guilty though and I’m gonna try to have a conversation with her. I applaud these men for taking that step and hope they have true grace and understanding for where each other’s coming from.
This is how you do it. I love love love that you guys are maturely sitting down, hearing each others sides, comprehending it (which is the most important part), and actually coming to a common ground. More people need to take notes 👏🏼 SO happy to see you two back together and shout out to Queen for being a great woman. She really loves you and cares about y’all friendship to go out of her way. You have a very good support system behind you. God bless y’all all ❤
I have a deeper respect for Clarence! He’s straightforward & accepting responsibility for where he played his part but also showing love & trying to understand where things went wrong! & I know Mod can feel that
I felt mod when he said I’ll go broke for my dreams! But I see both sides! Definitely need a friend like Clarence in ya corner to help motivate ya. Keep goin love to see this !
Shout out to QUEEN for being such ass women seeing your man hurting and without him saying what it is know and helping to change that she’s amazing bro
I am so happy to see you both sitting down and having this very needed discussion. Sounds like you both came to an understanding. Great start Clare ready for part 2!!
I tell ppl all the time, if you’re going to rekindle a relationship of any kind you have to have that honest conversation first. Glad to see them back together because the brotherly love is there🫶🏾
Great conversation! You can tell Clarence is going to therapy because of the questions he’s asking and how he’s responding! Growth! Mod has more growing to do and needs to address his personal trauma. But him talking today was a great start! Go Mod! 🥂 Part 2 y’all need to be wearing “I blame Queen Naija!” Tees!!
I feel what both of y’all are saying and part of adulting and growth is being able to communicate. Sometimes going back to where you started is a good reminder of the solidarity of you all’s friendship. I hope it sticks. Way to start the accountability process. Best wishes. Keep the circle tight and authenticity will last. Love Queen for her part!
I feel both perspectives. I feel bad for both parties in a way because they are clearly in different lanes. But I hope they find balance in this relationship and in life.
Studies say if you have been best friends for more than 7 years you will remain friends forever. I believe this as I have had the same two best friends since I was 13 and we have definitely got it into it and stopped speaking but when you have history they are like your family and the older you get the more you put important things into perspective. I realized that there is nothing wrong with apologizing and taking accountability. This is why I love the show insecure so much it shows growing pains through a friendship.
Love to see this! I had the same thing happen to me with my best friend, didn’t talk for like 10 months over miss communication n its like we never stopped talking. God has a reasoning for everything. Love y’all!
Clarence and Mod, this conversation was so mature. Im so proud of you both. You both need each other in your lives. That's Uncle Mod. You both grew up together. That's love. Thank you both for sharing.
This was an good conversation especially the way that class and even acquired class plays a role in friendships. I don't think this is talked about often enough in friendships at all, but is so important.
I think Mod can take from Queen where Queen is a singer but she had to tap into another route and wait until her time came instead of solely focusing on trying to become a singer. IE: Doing UA-cam for years until she got signed.
Yea but I see where Clarence is coming from you don’t answer me but you answer my girl that’s definitely weird I’ll feel some type of way never know some dudes low key like their man’s girl I don’t put nothing past anyone
All friendships hit obstacles when you're approaching thirty. Everyone is growing and really having revelations about themselves. That's when those childhood traumas & triggers start becoming harder to ignore. If you can have patience with each other & keep a level of respect anything can be mended. My bff & I went through the same thing & didn't speak for a yr. We were both going through bad breakups and just selfish because we were in our feelings. A mutual friend went behind my back and sent her an email. We talked from like 10 pm to the sun came up.
I’m there with one of my best friends. Haven’t talked since a day before her birthday in April. I’ve always been the one to try to fix it even when it wasn’t my fault because of the disagreement which we seldomly had. She just turned 31 and I turned 30 in November. It’s a lot to unpack but I’m tired of being unappreciated as a friend and her keeping all the wrong people around and I’m ALWAYS there to pick up the pieces when they let her down because that’s how my heart is and that’s my best friend. Triggers traumas and tools to move on. Man
Also told my family and friends not to reach out because if she wanted to speak or reach out she knows where I live and knows my number. She will reach out to those who hurt her the most but won’t reach out to me. Fck that.
@@RoseGoldHoneyy I also lost a really close friend around that time that I never reconciled with. Some ppl show you who they are or how they don't value the friendship like you do. Either way do what's best for you.
That’s some grown man shit! Love to see when us black kings can put our pride aside and chop it up with each other. We gotta look out for each other!🙏🏽 W manz for this
Shout to Queen for seeing that her man needed his guy back in his life and getting it done !! I’m literally cheesing so hard just in the first 30 secs because this is beautiful!!! Mod and Clare back like old times and it’s definitely giving Yachty and Drizzy lol
“ I be thinking the next one is Take Care” is hilarious 😭😭😭😭 Mod too funny but great conversation y’all!! We’re happy our Favs are backkk! Let’s get back to the 💰
I’m so happy for this! Mod’s day musically is coming for sure. I still don’t understand why it has taken off yet, but he can truly say he did it on his own.
They both spoke facts and Clarence real af saying go after ur dream but get the bag. So many people just put money in music and never go anywhere and get stuck. Gotta get the bag and chase the bad period
Im proud of Mod, when you stop communicating with someone you were close to, it’s hard to take that step to reunite or hash it out!! And not be stubborn and prideful!!
Everyone is praising Clarence and as y’all should but give Mod his flowers because if he has an avoidant communication style this is a huge step behind and front of the camera. Proud of him
The hell is an avoidant communication style ? How can you be avoidant & communicate ? 🧐
Absolutely
@@CartierChapoI think she just means he laughs and tries to avoid certain things during tense conversations lol
dont be that person. avoidant communication means that you shy away from communication, you're non confrontational, you don't typically step up to communication you might choose to run from issues. it doesn't mean a complete shut down or that you can't communicate you just rather not@@CartierChapo
@@CartierChapothis means he has a hard time sharing his feelings or emotions and is passive
This is what happens when you have the right women beside you. People can say what they want, but queen is a real one. I'm glad you guys talked it out. Respect 🙏🏽
I love that they are talking again. The love is there for sure. I understand mod and how he tends to run and shelter himself from the hurt the tension of the conversation. I know it's not right to go ghost. Most of the time a person is dealing with something and probably just don't want to talk. It's not personal but I can't deal right now. I know we should say something. But that hurt or maybe even pride be real.
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Yeah Mod damn near Queen other boyfriend lol...I'm sure she missed that at home.
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Love that Mod was willing to be vulnerable enough to share his perspective. Feeling like you’re alone on an island while surrounded by your “friends” and “family” can definitely tear you down
can anyone explain whats been happening in these videos? I havent watched queen or clarence or mod in like 2 years and i heard he cheated. are clarence and mod beefing or something? did clarence cheat on queen?
Mod is the true definition of “laughing through the pain” . He was laughing through that podcast but he was hurt af
Yea , he gotta grow up as well
I hope he heals, he was definitely laughing & deflecting the situation. I’m glad to see them actually talk tho!
I think he was drunk...or the alchohol had alot to do with it
@@Msladyrae92maybe its sum deep with him personally like mentally sum real deep
@@Msladyrae92he gotta grow up ? Niggaz tried to clown him literally outta nowhere wtf is u talkin about ?
You can tell that they are both happy to be back in each others lives. Props to Queen.
Queens a real one for that.
She came into THEIR relationship if you really think about it. They were like Brothers when she popped in the picture- and so many people like to say she tore their Friendship/Brotherhood apart; and she actually made them both realize how important it is that they _fix_ whatever issues they had.
People don’t give Queen the credit she deserves- and I hate how people always blame her for everything!
#ItsQueensFault is so fitting for her brand, and I’m glad she capitalized off that.
I’m so proud of you both. Relationships take work & close relationships require uncomfortable conversations
One thing I like about clarence is he can admit when he is wrong or played a part in something❤
U can tell he care ❤
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Grown men sitting down and communicating talking about they feelings clearing the air for a year and change is a masterpiece give these men they flowers they didn’t had to do it but they did 🙏🏿💯
Stop with the flowers 💐 talk it's dead. Taking away from a women and once again femanizing guys (crnt spell lol) seriously I hate how ppl keep falling for these feminine phrases tf
Grown *black men
This was such a good conversation. When Clare said “I love you” to Mod that made me tear up 😢 The love is real…REAL MEN TALK! ✨👏🏽
what minute did he say that? 👀
@@elvisjoelle It towards the end when Clare was talking to Mod about his dreams and getting to the bag. Clare says to Mod “I do love you…38:40~ ✌️
I’m glad Queen extended the offer and Mod accepted and Clarence and Mod had a serious talk. Brotherhood is important. Be there for each other good and bad. I love seeing you both laugh. Mod looks happy and relieved that he has you back on his life.
Pride can be the biggest relationship killer. So glad Queen took the initiative to break the ice that paved the way for them to start communicating again. Im so happy to see the dynamic duo together again. Family 🙏🏻
Ayooo shout out to my girl Queen. She brought the squad back ❤ sometimes we need these type of experiences for growth. Dope to see y’all talk it out and appreciate y’all for sharing it with us.
If you’re reading this I wish nothing but wealth and health all 2024
You too sir! I hope you get everything your heart desires :)
Same to you and BEYOND🙌🏾👑
You too my brother thanks may God continue to bless you on your long life journey 🙏🙌
Aww, same to you 🙏♥️
Handsome, thank you! Same to you! 🙏🏾🤍
This was so genuine and real. Clarence as a friend just wants more for Mod. How he express his vision and that included Mod was real. Mod just needed some time they both did, they both bring the best and want the best out of one another.
Time for a Mod & Clarence Podcast that’s the vibe I was getting!!!! ❤
I can totally see them doing a podcast together. And it would also be therapeutic for them as well! 💯🙌🏾✨🙏🏾💛💫
Clearance is the friend everybody needs. Him wanting to be an open ear for mod to express himself is heartwarming.
These sit down talks be so therapeutic. Glad y’all were able to work out y’all differences cuz y’all really came a long way. U don’t see these kind of sit down talks this often when it comes to friendship. This was very much a mature thing to do👏🏽👏🏽
Crazy how Queen initially got y’all to talk and there were people trying to instigate the fact that she got in between y’all friendship ..she a real one ❤frfr..so moral of everything..misunderstanding and miscommunication
real friends always come back together this is so nice , this would be nice if you two do a podcast in that space and stuff. i’m happy for this friendship
You can tell they missed each other 🥺🧡! That’s Love real men , don’t have to always act tough behind everything
Ya should start a brotherly podcast! I really enjoyed this. MOD is really funny & when ya together it’s a mood. Two different people, yet ya can bring out the best in each other by also revealing weak areas.
MOD idk if you’re going to see this but your channel would be so lit if you would be consistent. I think your personality would draw people easily. And you can collab with real ones. ❤ you gotta balance it all.
You can tell therapy is really helping Clarence..the way he talks, expresses himself & tries to get Mod to do the same. Super dope. I didn’t finish the vid yet, but I hope Mod can get in to therapy. Seems like he carries a lot & laughs it off..
He was definitely nervously laughing alot, I hope he does get therapy because this was good to see! Can't wait to see his MAJOR come up & turn around👏🏾
I definitely agree with your comment I was thinking the same..
I like how supportive/understanding Clarence is at 21:36 - 22:47 things like this show how you can see what you could have said & done better to keep a healthy friendships or even relationships
finally y’all reunited on camera, y’all always been funny together 😂💯
Mod been jealous dats all. he been weird.
@@mikeymanfremod was going through personal stuff so cut that shit out
Mod was never jealous of Clare, he felt left out- he felt hurt that he was being left behind: It’s so much deeper then clothes, money, and everything else.
This is two grown, beautiful Black Men having real issues in their Friendship- and Mod loves Clarence and his Family.
@@KaayLright so much ish happened back in 2019-2020 for him
This truly made my week! I’ve never clicked on something so fast before! Y’all are family and it shows. Fate will always bring you back to people who are supposed to be in your life. Queen is a true gem for bringing y’all back together. I understand Mod completely because I’m that friend too. I pull away when I don’t feel fully supported. And don’t necessarily want to explain to my closest friend why I’m hurt. But it hurts them too. Which I’ve learned. True friendship will always make a way. Mod just needed some extra love and support and I’m glad Clarence was open & willing. True brotherhood. We love to see it. ❤
after hearing this I hope Mod is mentally ok in general. I am glad they are back around each other.
Another reason I really love queen,... this was very much needed from the both of them... sooooo happy to see them back vibin they missed each other friendship
i’m soo glad y’all did this i missed y’all friendship!💗
@CLARENCENYC YOOOOOOO I ain't Neva smiled SOOOO hard! Ik Queen is smiling too. What a way to shut the devil! U and Mod been boys since u were small. I was devastated when y'all went distant from each other. Bros that stay close before the come up n come up together should STAYYY together AFTER the come up. THISSSSSSSS is what BEEN needing to happen. ALMOST made tear tf up frfr!! Now I wanna see a sit down wit You and Queens Mama....not Tina rn smh kuz that's different but YOU and Mama overdue for a sit down ....then a sit down even if a video call wit u and POPs! We goin into 2024 free y'all!
S/O to Queen for making this be able to happen she a real one ❤
Not they started the chat with a bunch of giggling!! I love it. Real solid men. Sometimes 'time' is needed to really recognize if something is authentic. This brotherhood is certainly real.
Say what y’all want about Clarence but he is a good person . His maturity and accountability is everything, plus he just keeps it real af & I love that the most. Mod is one of my favorites too , always have been & him being a Virgo (those that get it get it) I completely understand how he felt and where he was coming from & how it’s very tough to communicate our feelings most times & how we’d rather remove ourselves quickly from a situation. All in all I’m so glad these kings were able to put their pride aside and mend things as brothers ❤ I loved every bit of this conversation as well as pt 2 on mod’s channel. Well done kings , glad to see y’all back. Also can’t forget about my girl Queen , I appreciate her part in this. Behind every great man is a great woman.
I’m so happy y’all took time out to really listen to eachother feelings and come back better than before
Mod is mad talented and I'm surprised he hasn't gotten where he wants to be yet. I understand both points of views. So glad yall back. ❤
THIS IS CALLED GROWTH ❤
Nah mod just too sensitive
Man shut up
queen so real for that.. your girl really be ya biggest supporter fr when its right
I love this so much . Normalize having THE TALK ! Whether its with friends/family /your significant other.. certain relationships are worth fighting for & I love that yall are back in tune . I definitely understand both perspectives nobody was really right or wrong yall just had different perspectives . Its the maturity for me 💕. Clare thank you for being understanding I've been in Mod shoes & felt alone before & I had the wrong ppl around me so seeing this was so refreshing
Say it again, certain relationships are worth fighting for!
❤this!!!
It’s hard navigating elevation in your personal life with friends who aren’t either financial or socially elevated yet. I’m not even making big money but as a new grad nurse, heading toward my critical care NP, I’m no longer living pay check to pay check, and can afford a little more and even that’s hard navigating friends. Finding neutral ground with old friends and new friends in different brackets/life styles/ is something I wasn’t expecting to need to learn. Cus I see people as people but society definitely puts pressures on people to look, act be, a certain way within a specific lifestyle. Which is crazy for real.
Like it really shouldn’t be like that cus I feel like everyone is/has a gold mine in them, we all just cash in different.
This is the best explanation of what is happening with Clarence at this point in his life.
Neither are wrong but I do feel all MOD wanted was for him to speak up then… but I understand Clarence because as Day Day said…”I gotta live here when you leave” … lol and climbing the social ladder is hard because it’s no longer about paychecks… it’s about social capital… ❤
@@kyeshialikely4086 exactly. It’s not about money anymore it’s about connects and how those connects are going to form your life. What can that connect do to build your or break you. I know as nurse I can’t be in certain places with certain people because I could lose my nursing license. Everything I worked so hard for the life I sacrificed for. Also, the more I network the more opportunities I have. So it defiantly becomes social currency.
Also, I’ve notice “friends” have become entitled to the money I make. I work hard for my money it doesn’t come easy. And people think I’m all of a sudden a millionaire and I make easy money.
“Friends” that don’t like you anymore and want to find ways to “put you in your place” aka make you feel less than what you are.
People who NEVER wanted to talk to me when I was a struggling mother, stressing to keep the lights on are now calling me “family” and saying how much they miss me.
I know Clarence missed Mod because it’s hard to find someone who has love for you just because it’s you. Mine is my cousin. So I don’t mind breaking bread with her and teaching her everything I’ve learned. This world is evil it really is. I just stay close to God and to the few who loved and love me money or not.
Mod, respectfully, accept what you have and were you are. Even though it may not be were you want but it’s still better than most people!!!
This is what grown people do. Respect each other even while not speaking; not getting upset and spilling each other secrets because you’re not seeing eye to eye at the moment. Have a conversation when both parties are cool, calm , and ready to do so. Much respect for both young men for not letting social media and others pin you too against each other. Thank you for both being grown men and respecting and taking your time to deal with this. Queen, your name speaks for itself; Thank you lady for being a great woman hopefully soon a great wife in Clarence life, also thank you for being a great friend to Mod. You three were a dynamic trio at one point and we all loved your chemistry.
#Respect
I’m so happy you guys are back together again. Spicy gang forever 🌶️🔥
I did not know how invested I was into y’all friendship until this vlog! Lol I knew y’all would eventually have this sit down but I’m so glad I’m seeing y’all talk things through 🤗 good friendships are something you hold onto! 💪🏾
Queen said she was going to reach out too, after that twitch live after seeing how Clarence was really hurt mod wasn’t speaking to him..She’s the sweetest!😩🙏🏾🖤
They love each other the bond is evident asf even with the time that passed without them talking
I really appreciate mod for being vulnerable and coming on this video and saying how he felt this was really big of him I will always love mod he has such a positive attitude all the time
The conversation we wanted and truly appreciated. These young kings need to see this maturity raw and realness ❤ love y’all brotherhood 🥺💕💕🔥
Ya was chillen & vibing.. cause you guys are truly family.
like sibling/cousin behavior
I rooted for y’all so hard man. I’m so glad you guys got to talk because y’all broke UA-cam with this one fr 💔❤️🩹
Mod stil holding back... i can tell ... i'm so happy Clarence took accountability of his lack of control and being so neutral in some situations he needed to speak up for Mod ! Mod probably felt unappreciated, and so lonely ... they came up together and Clarence got everything meaning love ,money family.
Lmao YES QUEEN!!! "AINT NO WAY THE 2 REALEST NIGGAS I KNOW CANT SIT DOWN AND TALK"
Amennn sistaaa
I’m SO glad this happened. PLEASE don’t ever fall out that long again. 🙏🏾Communication is key in all relationships.
This is real friendship you go through ups & down ya back like nothing ever happen that’s real 💪🏼💪🏼
It felt like Mod sugar coating his feelings throughout this. I think he genuinely felt like C wasn’t being a real friend, that’s why he took a step back. He definitely felt like fuck this 🥷, I do think he felt unsupported by Clare. He laughed through his pain in this one. Clare is a strong personality where Mod is more passive.
I fell out with my bestie of 18 years for a year then we linked back up and then she passed away a year later I'm so happy we got back right b4 she passed
Awh that’s so sad 😢
Omgosh I’m so sorry for your loss. That’s so heartbreaking.
I think attachment style is important thing to be highlighted in this conversation… mod May have an avoidant attachment style which causes people to shut completely down if they feel like their needs aren’t being met or they’re not meeting their own.
Speaking from personal experience as a fearful avoidant, I have a best friend of almost 20 years and as of these last couple years we don’t really talk as much as we used to and I know it’s mostly my fault but I have a really hard time expressing my needs in friendships and it’s to a point now where I do feel uncomfortable even having the conversation with her because i know she definitely feel a way about it. But I honestly don’t wanna go back to talking every single day but at the same time I wouldn’t mind talking here and there every week. I guess I subconsciously fear going back to how things were for so long and it felt disruptive to my life and tuning into my own needs being there for someone in that way for so long. I feel guilty though and I’m gonna try to have a conversation with her. I applaud these men for taking that step and hope they have true grace and understanding for where each other’s coming from.
I’m so happy y’all reunited !!!
This is how you do it. I love love love that you guys are maturely sitting down, hearing each others sides, comprehending it (which is the most important part), and actually coming to a common ground. More people need to take notes 👏🏼 SO happy to see you two back together and shout out to Queen for being a great woman. She really loves you and cares about y’all friendship to go out of her way. You have a very good support system behind you. God bless y’all all ❤
I have a deeper respect for Clarence! He’s straightforward & accepting responsibility for where he played his part but also showing love & trying to understand where things went wrong! & I know Mod can feel that
This was nice to see. Im proud of yall and im proud of Queen for being the mediator.
This is dope! I love to see y’all back together. Shoutout to Queen for initiating a link. ❤
I felt mod when he said I’ll go broke for my dreams! But I see both sides! Definitely need a friend like Clarence in ya corner to help motivate ya. Keep goin love to see this !
A lot of people can’t even admit when they wrong so I fw this
Shout out to QUEEN for being such ass women seeing your man hurting and without him saying what it is know and helping to change that she’s amazing bro
I am so happy to see you both sitting down and having this very needed discussion. Sounds like you both came to an understanding. Great start Clare ready for part 2!!
I tell ppl all the time, if you’re going to rekindle a relationship of any kind you have to have that honest conversation first. Glad to see them back together because the brotherly love is there🫶🏾
Losing someone close to me made me appreciate the ones close to me even more. 💯 I'm so happy yall are back to yall because life is TOO SHORT. ❤
😢😢😢❤❤❤❤ when I seen the thumbnail I was so happy! I missed this dynamic brothers for life! Nothing can break this bond
Great conversation! You can tell Clarence is going to therapy because of the questions he’s asking and how he’s responding! Growth! Mod has more growing to do and needs to address his personal trauma. But him talking today was a great start! Go Mod! 🥂
Part 2 y’all need to be wearing “I blame Queen Naija!” Tees!!
I feel what both of y’all are saying and part of adulting and growth is being able to communicate. Sometimes going back to where you started is a good reminder of the solidarity of you all’s friendship. I hope it sticks. Way to start the accountability process. Best wishes. Keep the circle tight and authenticity will last. Love Queen for her part!
I feel both perspectives. I feel bad for both parties in a way because they are clearly in different lanes. But I hope they find balance in this relationship and in life.
Clarence is giving therapists Clare bc he was like “So do you want to get into that?” Like keeping everything open and not forcing
Yes this showed me a different side of Clare. He really has a good heart and mean well. I can tell he loves Mod
Studies say if you have been best friends for more than 7 years you will remain friends forever. I believe this as I have had the same two best friends since I was 13 and we have definitely got it into it and stopped speaking but when you have history they are like your family and the older you get the more you put important things into perspective. I realized that there is nothing wrong with apologizing and taking accountability. This is why I love the show insecure so much it shows growing pains through a friendship.
I'm so happy to see you guys together the love between you guys is like no other what ever happens always talk it out your family❤
Love to see this! I had the same thing happen to me with my best friend, didn’t talk for like 10 months over miss communication n its like we never stopped talking. God has a reasoning for everything. Love y’all!
Clarence and Mod, this conversation was so mature. Im so proud of you both. You both need each other in your lives. That's Uncle Mod. You both grew up together. That's love. Thank you both for sharing.
Nothing in this world more valuable than a good friend, especially when they’re more like family! Great video guys ❤️
Praise Queen for the reunite. 🧡🧡🧡🧡
I’m so happy to see these two together on screen and that they worked through whatever they had going on!
Queen made for this peace keeping stuff❤
THANK GOD. Love y’all together. Black brothas with genuine love.
I’m SO glad y’all worked things out and s/o to Queen! She a real one!❤
I’m so happy to see ya back on good terms and speaking ! Brothers for life 💯💯
This was an good conversation especially the way that class and even acquired class plays a role in friendships. I don't think this is talked about often enough in friendships at all, but is so important.
Awww I love Queen you can tell she have a sweet spirt you know y’all are true friends.
I think Mod can take from Queen where Queen is a singer but she had to tap into another route and wait until her time came instead of solely focusing on trying to become a singer. IE: Doing UA-cam for years until she got signed.
Beast is smiling down on y'all 333 forever 🙏🏿🙏🏿
It’s hard to find true friends. It’s good y’all put your pride to the side and made things right. Salute to y’all 💯
I'm happy as hell right now, like I know them personally ❤
You're not alone Sis 🥲💞
Queen a real one for bringing up inviting him 🥲 she know y’all deserve to be in each other lives
Yea but I see where Clarence is coming from you don’t answer me but you answer my girl that’s definitely weird I’ll feel some type of way never know some dudes low key like their man’s girl I don’t put nothing past anyone
All friendships hit obstacles when you're approaching thirty. Everyone is growing and really having revelations about themselves. That's when those childhood traumas & triggers start becoming harder to ignore. If you can have patience with each other & keep a level of respect anything can be mended. My bff & I went through the same thing & didn't speak for a yr. We were both going through bad breakups and just selfish because we were in our feelings. A mutual friend went behind my back and sent her an email. We talked from like 10 pm to the sun came up.
I’m there with one of my best friends. Haven’t talked since a day before her birthday in April. I’ve always been the one to try to fix it even when it wasn’t my fault because of the disagreement which we seldomly had. She just turned 31 and I turned 30 in November. It’s a lot to unpack but I’m tired of being unappreciated as a friend and her keeping all the wrong people around and I’m ALWAYS there to pick up the pieces when they let her down because that’s how my heart is and that’s my best friend. Triggers traumas and tools to move on. Man
Also told my family and friends not to reach out because if she wanted to speak or reach out she knows where I live and knows my number. She will reach out to those who hurt her the most but won’t reach out to me. Fck that.
@@RoseGoldHoneyy I also lost a really close friend around that time that I never reconciled with. Some ppl show you who they are or how they don't value the friendship like you do. Either way do what's best for you.
Y’all should start a series like this, and call it Clare&Mod:Open Conversation 💕i feel like that would be good content and y’all are so funny together
Yessss that will be dope
i love this, maybe even allow it to be a place for boys to get tips or advice from them. guidance
That’s some grown man shit! Love to see when us black kings can put our pride aside and chop it up with each other. We gotta look out for each other!🙏🏽
W manz for this
Shout to Queen for seeing that her man needed his guy back in his life and getting it done !!
I’m literally cheesing so hard just in the first 30 secs because this is beautiful!!!
Mod and Clare back like old times and it’s definitely giving Yachty and Drizzy lol
So happy we can normalize black men communicating issue in they’re friendship. I love this ❤
Yo.. Y’all the definition of friendship and Real💪🏾.. that’s not giving up on family. 🩸
“ I be thinking the next one is Take Care” is hilarious 😭😭😭😭 Mod too funny but great conversation y’all!! We’re happy our Favs are backkk! Let’s get back to the 💰
I’m so happy for this! Mod’s day musically is coming for sure. I still don’t understand why it has taken off yet, but he can truly say he did it on his own.
They both spoke facts and Clarence real af saying go after ur dream but get the bag. So many people just put money in music and never go anywhere and get stuck. Gotta get the bag and chase the bad period
Im proud of Mod, when you stop communicating with someone you were close to, it’s hard to take that step to reunite or hash it out!!
And not be stubborn and prideful!!
I love how mod knows the dates and times it just shows he cares , been caring 😊
Queen is a real one for this ❤❤❤
I love this and I respect Clarence for owning up to where he could've been a better friend. I love that Mod put his pride aside and link w him. ❤️