This Is Exactly Why I Moved to California

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  • Опубліковано 13 чер 2022
  • This Is Exactly Why I Moved to California! I just moved from my home in New Jersey to San Diego, California.
    Why did I move 3,000 miles away from home? What am I searching for out here? How did this even happen? This video says it all (or most of it).
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  • @deintri
    @deintri Рік тому +43

    I'd rather pay higher rent in paradise and cut expenses in other areas than save and live in a place I'd loathe.

    • @jumb0shr1mp6
      @jumb0shr1mp6 Рік тому +6

      Damn I felt that

    • @kindadecent9754
      @kindadecent9754 Рік тому +3

      It’s like eating tasty but unhealthy food and only living 50 years or eating twigs and berries and living 100. Here for a good time, not a long time

    • @tweety2fab
      @tweety2fab Рік тому

      😂 agreed!

    • @Ditzychocohermosa_pink
      @Ditzychocohermosa_pink 9 місяців тому

      Yes!!!!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @imrighturwrong7840
      @imrighturwrong7840 2 місяці тому

      Yea totally seems like a comfortable life to have 👍

  • @carolcox9443
    @carolcox9443 2 роки тому +51

    I’m 64, and finally left the DC area three years ago for Palm Desert! Always knew I was meant for CA, and finally did it. It is heaven 🥰. Best wishes to you!

    • @Monicagbulnes
      @Monicagbulnes  2 роки тому +2

      Wow that is amazing, so happy you made that leap. Thank you for your support! 😇

    • @janetmelnyk6475
      @janetmelnyk6475 2 роки тому +2

      Did you move alone? My husband does NOT want to move but I do. I got to get out of the winters. I hate it here! Help!!!’

    • @Monicagbulnes
      @Monicagbulnes  2 роки тому +2

      @@janetmelnyk6475 i hear your struggle Janet :( what if you make a compromise? Visit in the winters once a year? Or vacation once to see if he can imagine himself moving there? I hope you can both find happiness and sunshine ☀️ good luck!

    • @tessloneill7978
      @tessloneill7978 Місяць тому

      I will be 60 yrs and retired from teaching five yrs ago. Crazy but I want to California. I wonder if I can do it. Sell my house and move.

  • @marshachristian
    @marshachristian Рік тому +7

    been drawn to california since i was 15. i'm 23 now, but i'm manifesting that i at least get to visit often in the future!!

  • @ItsShanonMaglente
    @ItsShanonMaglente Рік тому +16

    I also just moved to SoCal from NJ - and have been loving it so far! I so look forward to not having to shovel or commute in the snow ☀️

    • @Monicagbulnes
      @Monicagbulnes  Рік тому

      Yas!! Are you just as curious as i am to see what the seasons look like here?!

    • @ItsShanonMaglente
      @ItsShanonMaglente Рік тому

      @@Monicagbulnes same!!! So far it’s fall in the morning and night and summer the rest of the day haha

  • @EmoniMichelle
    @EmoniMichelle Рік тому +13

    I’ve been having a strong urge to leave Atlanta and go to California. I’m coming out the end of this month for my birthday but to also visualize myself there like you said! The thought of moving coast to coast is scary. But watching this gave me clarity that I need to follow that tiny voice inside. Thank you✨

  • @cliffroberts2291
    @cliffroberts2291 Рік тому +9

    Moved to So Cal from Tx 7 years ago...best decision ever...good luck.

    • @eeeveee9176
      @eeeveee9176 Рік тому +1

      im from texas moving to CA next year!

    • @cliffroberts2291
      @cliffroberts2291 Рік тому

      @@eeeveee9176 good luck...I moved from Houston to Temecula. Love the laid back wine country vibe.

    • @eeeveee9176
      @eeeveee9176 Рік тому +1

      @@cliffroberts2291 lucky! san diego its close by. & its beautiful! been there twice

  • @theresasoldevilla8203
    @theresasoldevilla8203 Рік тому +15

    I live in Texas and i love California. People always want to talk me out of it and this time I’m not going to listen. I put in for a transfer and hopefully 🤞🏽 getting it. Thank you for sharing your story. ❤

    • @cliffroberts2291
      @cliffroberts2291 Рік тому +10

      I did it 7 years ago from Houston to SoCal...got so much negativity until they saw how much better it was for me here.

    • @trinawms3749
      @trinawms3749 Рік тому +2

      OMG, I just visited California & fell in love ! I am ready to leave Texas

    • @bigbezzzy1231
      @bigbezzzy1231 9 місяців тому

      you should go i moved to houston 2 years ago but i’m moving back to cali

    • @deborahalvarez9280
      @deborahalvarez9280 8 місяців тому +1

      Houston born & raised here, but I am moving to California in February!

  • @Sophie-kn3gh
    @Sophie-kn3gh Рік тому +4

    I’m moving to socal in a couple weeks and am soooo excited! Definitely my vibe ❤

  • @wellsaid7192
    @wellsaid7192 Рік тому +5

    I’m from California. You are going to love the weather.

  • @JS-wp4zi
    @JS-wp4zi 2 роки тому +8

    Welcome to CA! We welcome people from all states and countries ❤. I hope you enjoy it!!

    • @Monicagbulnes
      @Monicagbulnes  2 роки тому

      Thank you so much! I’ve noticed - Californians have all been so sweet and welcoming. I love seeing so many different license plates on the road! :0)

    • @Mrsbehavin59
      @Mrsbehavin59 Рік тому +1

      Hilarious….that’s the reason California is an arm pit…love all the tents along the freeways from north to south and the graffiti is artistic…so lovely 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @AliRaza-yx7ci
    @AliRaza-yx7ci 2 роки тому +6

    U r beast buddy.This vid brought me to tears. Currently in Houston, Texas. Move from CA 3 years ago at 19. I can't sleep bcz something within myself never leave Cali & my body n soul are not feel connected for a long period now. U r my mentor.

  • @blakeseisan9537
    @blakeseisan9537 Рік тому +5

    Good for you. Las Vegas resident here. Grew up in the San Fernando valley in CA. Decided a few years ago my partner and I wanted to move back to California to settle down. Ventura county area. Run up in housing prices and high interest has delayed things but hearing people are still able to make it gives us hope. Definitely a great motivation.

  • @wilyshapruitt5271
    @wilyshapruitt5271 Рік тому +4

    I’m trying to move to California from Ohio.

  • @talineagamy437
    @talineagamy437 Рік тому +2

    I needed to see this video. Thank you so much for your message about making sure your decision is coming fully from within yourself, and following that pull inside you from the universe! Yes yes yes ❤

  • @MrsClassy09
    @MrsClassy09 Рік тому +1

    Im soo excited for you! I’m determined to move to SD and I’m working on a plan to get there! Good luck on your journey. ❤

  • @ricardohernandez8912
    @ricardohernandez8912 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for your video my girl just left our apartment with my 4 year old and I’m now currently moving too LA in the next two months and it’s very scary and a little overwhelming knowing my kid will be back in Chicago but I just really have something in my gut telling me to go and I know this will change my entire families life and I’m so excited to get out and hustle and make a name for my self seriously thank you for your video and your words of wisdom

  • @vikm1341
    @vikm1341 Рік тому +4

    I already have lived in California and im moving back 😊 Thanks for making this video

  • @jasminevault9412
    @jasminevault9412 2 роки тому +4

    I just love your mindset! Thank you for this video. I am ready to take that leap of faith now! Definitely subscribing! 💕🔥

    • @Monicagbulnes
      @Monicagbulnes  2 роки тому +1

      Thanks so much, that’s such a compliment for me 🥰 mindset is everything! Go get it girl, you got this! 🙏🏼💕

  • @riquelmejosh
    @riquelmejosh 2 роки тому

    So freaking proud of you! I know how much you’ve been wanting to do this ❤️ it’s only up from here babe

    • @Monicagbulnes
      @Monicagbulnes  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you 🥹❤️ ready to write this next chapter

  • @angelad.williams6298
    @angelad.williams6298 3 місяці тому

    So glad I found your video! I said the same thing about Tucson summers, this is my last one! I plan to move to San Diego in 3 years, I have not told many people because like you said, it's best to be sure. I have lived many years in places with either cold winters or hot summers and I would like to be done with that. Really liked your video, thanks!

  • @tmone802
    @tmone802 Рік тому +4

    I’ve been applying to lots of jobs in CA for after graduation already. I hope I get a job offer there! I feel intuition that I need to move there. I think I’d be happier there mentally, I need more warm weather.

  • @rocket4444
    @rocket4444 2 місяці тому

    this is SO comforting. i am currently apartment searching in NYC and my gut is telling me that the city is not right for me. i actually toured a few apartments and when i got home that night i cried nonstop from the stress and because something just felt off. i've been dreaming of living in CA since i was a little girl but i don't know anyone there :(

  • @charlesmartin800
    @charlesmartin800 Рік тому +2

    Born and raised in SoCal so it much easier for me to always stay here… but even if I was solo I would never move anyplace else. Congrats.

  • @adriannagreer2326
    @adriannagreer2326 Рік тому +6

    Wow this just aligned with me so much! Didn’t even realize it was San Diego till the video started & that’s where I’m moving too in a 3 months by myself from Dallas! This was perfect motivation & we seem to have similar reasons for moving. Would even love to have you as a friend once I get down there in March :)

  • @Kandalf8989
    @Kandalf8989 Рік тому +1

    I'am also planning to move to CA, from FL, mainly because from my past experience we used to pay for our apartment almost 2.5 times less in 2021, cost of living in Florida is getting on the same level as in CA, car insurance, flooding all year around, and there is no point for me to suffer from super brutal heat in FL, and swamp.. Maybe in Fall, i will start relocating to CA. Thank you for this video, it gives chills, that CA is still not lost.

  • @fatimarazon8407
    @fatimarazon8407 2 роки тому +1

    Welcome to the best coast friend! I miss living in San Diego so much. :)

  • @craftypassions1754
    @craftypassions1754 2 роки тому +1

    So happy for you 😘

  • @nunya1969
    @nunya1969 3 місяці тому

    Thank you for this video. I've wanted to move to California since I was younger but it would be such a big move living in NYC. The winters here have gotten so harsh and longer. The whole environment keeps someone down especially with increasing rent. I'm starting to think a move like is what I might need.

  • @savannahcdunn
    @savannahcdunn Рік тому +1

    thank you so much. My absolute dream is to move to socal and I am from Ohio. I’m so so set on living my dream there, and I’ve been worried I can’t do it. Thank you for this

  • @avapakosta
    @avapakosta 2 місяці тому

    I’m planning on moving to Cali from Chicago next year (it’s been a dream of mine for years now) and people’s opinions have been really getting to me and making me second guess my decision, but I know it’s right for me!! Thank you for making this, I really needed to hear everything you said 💌

    • @KittyKat-vb1nd
      @KittyKat-vb1nd Місяць тому

      Move in silence do not share your goals with people. They will bring their energy.

  • @ugouchendu581
    @ugouchendu581 6 місяців тому

    I'm hoping to move from Michigan to San Diego for the same reasons! I love nature, and the outdoors. It sucks dealing with negative temperatures and crazy snow out here. I'm so excited to transition to a better quality of life!

    • @Monicagbulnes
      @Monicagbulnes  5 місяців тому +1

      Giiirl this is amazing you’re gonna love the quality of life (and air lmao) in SD!

  • @wootang911
    @wootang911 7 місяців тому

    Recently visited family in Southern California and I am ready to move there. It’s so beautiful.

  • @silverzsz
    @silverzsz 2 роки тому +1

    omg i just stumbled upon ur video while looking for san diego content and i related soo much! im from new york and always thought the exact same thing about the winters! i thought after college i'd live in the city for a year or two and THEN move to california like i always planned but then i realized i shouldnt stay in a state/city i dont actually want to be in anymore. i still need to pick what city in california but san diego has always stuck out to me. im super scared to move to a place where i literally dont know anyone (especially when all my friends & family are back in ny) and have to go through awkward periods of not having friends but at the same time ive known ive wanted to do this since i was like 13. hoping to make the move late this year!!

    • @Monicagbulnes
      @Monicagbulnes  2 роки тому

      Omg that is crazy we are so similar!! Do it do it do it, on your own timeline but I promise you, you won’t regret it. You will feel the most YOU you’ve ever felt in your life. My best friend has also wanted to live here since she was young and now that she’s done it she says she’s never leaving. I’m rooting for you! 💕

  • @jayyswrld2464
    @jayyswrld2464 11 місяців тому +1

    Moving to socal from Chicago next month🙏🏾

  • @mariiahryvnak4677
    @mariiahryvnak4677 2 роки тому +2

    Hi Monica, good luck with your adventures in California, aka my favorite state lol💕
    Looking forward to more content 😍

    • @Monicagbulnes
      @Monicagbulnes  2 роки тому

      Hey Maria, thanks for stopping by! I’ve always loved vacationing in California too! Living here is pretty similar to that. The state is always here if you’re up for a change! 🥰 i appreciate your support on my videos ❤️

    • @mariiahryvnak4677
      @mariiahryvnak4677 2 роки тому

      @@Monicagbulnes with the house marker so crazy and two kids ( = lotssss of stuff) it doesn’t seem doable, so we shall see in a couple of years 😅

    • @Monicagbulnes
      @Monicagbulnes  2 роки тому +1

      @@mariiahryvnak4677 the housing market… sooooo so bad, i hear you! I’d wanna sit tight too with two babies, you’re a god to me always will be lol studying your butt off at RU while having to pee during tests, you’re a different breed 🥹

    • @mariiahryvnak4677
      @mariiahryvnak4677 2 роки тому

      @@Monicagbulnes I’ve been laughing for a good minute, even I forgot about that 😂😂😂
      Oh jeez 😂

  • @KatiaJ90
    @KatiaJ90 8 місяців тому

    Omg u r so inspirational I am trying to live in Los Angeles as well❤❤❤❤

    • @Monicagbulnes
      @Monicagbulnes  5 місяців тому

      So happy you find my video! I need updates, are you there yet?!

  • @handsdowndrumming9261
    @handsdowndrumming9261 5 місяців тому +1

    Have the insane opportunity to join a top tier band and record in LA and doing research on how to move there from Oklahoma (!) and your vids have been very helpful so far thank you!

    • @Monicagbulnes
      @Monicagbulnes  5 місяців тому

      I’m so happy to hear that! You got this!! 💪🏼

  • @lauriegentle4083
    @lauriegentle4083 2 роки тому +2

    Welcome to Cali. I live in Northern California.

  • @jillh7934
    @jillh7934 6 місяців тому

    Funny...I am a born New Yorker (Brooklyn) who then moved to Jersey city and now looking to move to Cali..

    • @Monicagbulnes
      @Monicagbulnes  5 місяців тому

      Whoa 🤯 similar paths for sure!

  • @jacobjakus
    @jacobjakus Рік тому

    I want to request an update. What do you love about it now? It’s calling me so I gotta get there

    • @jacobjakus
      @jacobjakus Рік тому

      Everyone I’ve told has been so negative about it. “Oh you don’t wanna do that” like no I absolutely do want to do that. The only person that’s not is my cousin and he’s done it too lol

    • @Monicagbulnes
      @Monicagbulnes  5 місяців тому

      Those who are scared to do it themselves will project onto you.. don’t take advice from anyone you don’t want to be like! Update: 2 years in and I LOVE California I don’t plan to move anytime soon. Highly recommend if you haven’t done it yet!

  • @user-hy8lq4ud8v
    @user-hy8lq4ud8v 6 місяців тому

    Bienvenida mi casa es su casa

  • @williams1camron
    @williams1camron Рік тому

    I’m trying to get my fiancé to come there with me

  • @faustinreeder1075
    @faustinreeder1075 3 місяці тому

    I grew up in Southern California and lived there 50 years. The traffic and taxes chased me away. It just wasn’t worth it to me to stay. That was 14 years ago and don’t miss it at all.
    But I’m glad all of you are happy.

  • @Kougarboyxoxo
    @Kougarboyxoxo Рік тому

    I need to gtfo of NJ ASAP🙄

  • @Nomad420
    @Nomad420 Рік тому +1

    Go back we're full!!!

    • @Monicagbulnes
      @Monicagbulnes  Рік тому +1

      Lmaoo I’m so sorry I’ve already been adding a body to the California population for 6 months now 😂 💀

    • @Nomad420
      @Nomad420 Рік тому

      @Monica Grace unfortunately . But it's leading to the constantly growing wealth gap that is caused homelessness. But people like you can't understand the impact it has on the native population.

    • @Nomad420
      @Nomad420 Рік тому

      Not that a dumb mf like you would care

  • @omaralvarado1080
    @omaralvarado1080 2 роки тому +1

    Well welcome to California where people are angry all the time but the weather is beautiful. And you might end up getting robbed. 🤗🤗🤗🥲🥲🥲

    • @xonetra
      @xonetra Рік тому +11

      Sound like most places that occupy humans.

    • @Lisa-kz7vw
      @Lisa-kz7vw 10 місяців тому +1

      that's really a stupid statement you can get robbed any state people are people and there's many broken people living everywhere in the world can't escape crime and problems no state is perfect.

    • @Ditzychocohermosa_pink
      @Ditzychocohermosa_pink 9 місяців тому +1

      You just described New york fool 😂

    • @faustinreeder1075
      @faustinreeder1075 3 місяці тому

      I’ve seen everything in California. I’ve been up and down and all around that state at least 20 times and the angriest/douchiest people I ever met lived in Orange County. By far the most arrogant and conceited jackasses in the state. Ground zero
      for douche canoes is Corona Del Mar. Followed by Mission Viejo.