I dislike how involved with themselves most of their arguments are. I wish they could view the matters at hand objectively, anecdotes are okay but one has to understand that they are not the absolute standard. They are however very civil which is great.
How much more objective do you want them to get? They are women? They have firsthand experience nobody can tell tell you about the experience of being a woman better than a woman.
How much more objective do you want them to get? They are women? They have firsthand experience nobody can tell tell you about the experience of being a woman better than a woman.
I think Mark Zuckerberg said it best in a Facebook comment section some years back. He posted something on his facebook page, and a female commenter said "I wish my daughter gets married to someone as smart and rich as you in the future"... Mark actually replied her and said "Don't wish for your daughter to marry someone rich and smart, wish for your daughter to become rich and smart, and she should then end up with someone like her".
Oreofe has a point about marriage being a partnership but the thing is that how many men agree that marriage is a partnership? A lot of men these days would rather convulse than agree that theyre equal with their wives so where does this stand? Men need to first agree that they are in partnership with their wives, give their wives freedom to fly and also, be open. It is that simple.
Also I'll add that the line between emotions and logic are blurry...if there are any lines at all. What we call 'logic' are infact neurological and sensory patterns that we evolved and retained from the days of our hunter-gatherer ancestors. Basically, their survival algorithm. There is also no scientific and even socially documented research that indicates any kind of variation in the 'sensory dna algorithm' based on sexes. Emotions are much more faster and reflexive 'Logic'. For example, take this 'logical' scenario: So when Mr. A wanted to choose a partner, he decided to be much more logical. He wrote down a short list of what he 'needs' from a spouse. Beauty - for the sake of his children looks Brains- Ditto Culinary skills- for his stomach's sake Up and down- for shaboinking ease That apparently is logical. The emotional 'opposite' would still be Mr. A. not having written anything down and just falling in love with a woman who embodies these traits. What informed those choices? Well, our ancestors bore the brunt and harshness of natural selection the most. The only ones whoose DNA survived to this generation were those who made certain choices. Or did not. The choice of a partner included. The 'love' and 'lust' emotions are 'logically' informed by our hunter-gatherers ancestors DNA. And our logic also the same. Sorry I failed summary in high school😂 Enjoyed the show as always tho
The problem of making more money than your husband and "forgetting your husband" is a major YOU problem. It's a problem of your attitude and orientation towards money, personality and personal mindset more than it is a generalized attitude of women towards money.
I like this video. It shows that women don't think the same The women that thinks you should be submissive to her husband thinks completely different to the women that knows they shouldnt bow down to a man
It still hurts me seeing a woman told to sit at home and then her husband dies untimely. She is then left to figure out life with young children. The same society would not come to their aid to bare the constant bills.
Saying that when men get older they look younger than the woman cause the woman has been overused AND also saying that men get down with sicknesses at their mid lives because of financial burden are infact contradictory statements. Especially when both statements were agreed to by the majority. Also, objectively, the 'my money is my money and his money is our money' thingy varies greatly according to the values, settings and perceptions of the couples involved. A man who values a traditional setting in his house definitely has no business asking the wife to support him. Finances are the only responsibility he has(Noone cares that the capitalist system of today can no longer contain such traditional arrangement as he chose it himself) and it would be absolutely unfair to require his wife to contribute anything to the household.
This is so exciting. Seeing women have conversations like this just makes me happy. I don't know how you guys pick people for this,but I will love to have conversations on this topic. Cassandra ate though 😍
Brilliant discussion. It's quite funny though that when you are privileged "because you are a woman", it's termed feminine power even though it's just something that stems from the place of men's attraction to women. But, when women are refused certain opportunities "because you are a woman", it is then called gender discrimination.
@@TheChibuogwu Absolutely! And makes me wonder what their defense will be when hit with this truth. Thanks for the disclaimer. I wouldn't have guessed so😅. I'm a woman as well.
@@Bxtsy_d1st Exactly! At least, ot shouldn't be encouraged. One woman somewhere is saying, "don't call me a female doctor. I'm just a doctor, my gender has nothing to do with it" while another woman is adding "female farmer" to hers because of the advantages it will give her above her male counterparts. It's giving confusion and selective patriarchy.
@@rebeccaobakpolor952 There is a certain level of depravity that is not supposed to be platformed or even argued about because the tiny percent of the population that will misunderstand are too great. We don't need topics like Jews vs Nazis or kids vs pedos.
@@rebeccaobakpolor952 No. I believe this particular topic was necessary. I don't want them to become like Jubilee and bring people that bastardise the beliefs of the average Nigerian
Women can make as much money as they want however most women want a man near their financial level or more- that means the richer they become, the richer a man must be for her to be interested… that leaves her with a small number of men to be compatible with.
Good. Most men don’t marry poor women either. If they marry from liwer social status, these women are very educated. Fiction has convinced people that rich people often marry low and middle class people. It is an EXCEPTION. The rule is that the rich marry amongst themselves
@@liannababy4030 poor is a reach, yes if he’s wealthy he’s not picking a homeless woman from the street… but I’m not talking about someone destitute- I’m talking about a man not caring about what a woman can provide for him financially.
This episode just triggered a business idea I can start in addition to my job. So it’s a job well done to the producers and everyone involved in the making of this episode
Its a debate y'all, stop with the hate. For the love of Christ! Some people in the comment section obviously are handing the show with maturity, giving logical ans constructive criticism, while some otbers are just being emotional about the whole thing. Even if youre not enjoying the show, dont come and start ranting on how you hate the ladies. Please, lets be civil while making comments
Wish you could add diversity all of these women are Yoruba and they lean towards a patriarchal mindset if you added other ethic groups it would be different
Casandra is intelligent but I think she sometimes don’t understand that the world doesn’t revolve around her experiences and her English……the experiences in ikorodu and agege is different from the experiences in places like magodo and lekki
She does understand. I believe she understands there's a different world from her own perspective. This is why her opinions are strong and solid and she's trying to help women (young and old) see that there's a world beyond their ikorodu and they can aim for more.
Oreofe is disconnected from reality. She is sooooooooooo disconnected from reality. That is why Cassandra keeps interrupting her. Cassandra has a more balanced nuance on this topic because she is directly involved with other women outside her sphere. Oreofe needs to step out of her bubble occassionally.
I think Cassandra is very dismissive. It’s okay to have a different point of view but to shut down other opinions isn’t the best. Using words like ridiculous and bullshit is outright disrespectful. It makes her points hard to agree with Then that woman that’s an evangelist, omooo imagine the female children she’s mentoring.
Cassandra didn't eventually justify how exactly men have more advantage in tech. It seems she's still in the past. These days there are numerous tech roles(only women scholarships, grants, free certifications, free vouchers, etc) only women can apply to. You're not getting that job( if open to both genders) only because there's a male(or even female) applicant who did better in the interviews, has more experience, is willing to take lesser pay or was recommended by an employee of the company. Zainab is a joke, your money is your sibling's money lol.
I guess that is where she missed it, when you want to solve a bias their is a tendency to solve the symptoms and not the root cause. You end up tiping the scale in favour of the other person you are trying to compensate. Life is not generally fair whether male or female. If we want to solve some of these problems we have to look beyond solving the symptoms and start solving for the actual reason for the problem. That comes from having empathic leaders who genuinely want to solve these problems in Africa.
No lies, on some freelance platforms women are being at high chances being picked compared to the male counterparts, same as on streaming platforms e.g. bigo live
4:38 this first point eh. My mom and I are looking for money so that my father can retire in peace. And a working mother isn't the cause for wayward children, a rich mother is definitely not. I know people that would have led different lives if their moms were rich, this particular girl was introduced to prostitution as a teenager and she gave her mother money to add things to her shop🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️ she even took it sef and the mother of the girl who introduced her was complaining that she's never received anything from her daughter 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️. Rich women are not anybody's problem abeg. All my life, I've wished my mom was the loaded one, anytime this woman has money, everybody dey feel am, including my dad. She's very free handed, I'm working but she'll give me money to make hair even if I just squandered my salary. My life would have been so sweet if my mom made more
I dont know if I'll change my kind in the future but I'm not for my money is my money your money is our money, marriage is a partnership and you guys should be able to plan as partners and find a balance. Inless he earns way more and you guys agree to let him spend. Marriage is planning, every step of the way
honestly, about the earning power, and feminine power thing, it is still catering to someone who holds significant power over you- A MAN. Even with all the added advantages, how many women are actually at the top? so las las, you don't have more earning power than him cos you are catering to him- A MAN who is in power. and someone who has the power to feed you can starve you, so the day you don't fit the whims or gratify their fantasies, God help you! lmap. if it was so much about feminine power, we would have had lots of women at the top, even by mere sleeping with who is at the top. so las las, they give you breadcrumbs, just enough to keep you thinking that you have power, but they are winning more. That's why very successful women are sometimes termed masculine because to be successful to that level, you have to embody some of the characteristics normally attributed to men. Sure feminine power has its own advantages, however, when it comes to the real world, and getting to the top as a woman, you're gonna need to be qualified and graced with tenacity and a strong mind and heavenly backing, cos the other gender sometimes dey get fragile ego. so called "feminine energy" alone, ain't gonna get you there boo.
Women should not be asked to provide for the home because most of the time we do contribute to the home however the woman should not be forced to bring this money out because men can be very greedy and lazy when the woman helps
A lot of these older women are raised to be male identified and they raise their daughters to follow. Everything in their life must revolve around men or children. Educated women know this is wrong but there’s generations of toxicity that needs to be undone
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥. That older woman is just desperate to make her point. A woman who is determined to out earn her spouse doesn't have a husband, she has a competitor. This seems to be more of a problem for men. Why is it not seen as a problem that they treat their partners as rivals?
You want men to stuck to the role of providing but you don't want to stick to the role of serving. It's so funny when it got to my money is my momey, Bs
@@somtoobiorah206this is the 21st century and most homes have both partners providing, so in cases like this why should one partner do all the house chores 🤷
@@yomide_naturals where did I say that. If both of them are providing, then they should both be doing chores. But you can't be saying as a woman "my money is my money , my man's money is our money," and still expect him to do chores in the house.
My point exactly, she made a lot of sense but even when you disagree with people’s opinion, you still have to acknowledge that they have a right to their ideologies, just as you do. At the end of the day in this life, nothing is really just black and white
Not true men just dash women money. Based on opportunities, people don’t even take women seriously. They start with sexual harassment before they take yous seriously
@@factsandopinions577 Earning power is the ability to generate profit, and women today are proving that they have the capacity to not only earn more money but also to thrive in ways that surpass the men. Women are dominating various industries, becoming entrepreneurs, and establishing themselves as business owners . With the right information and resources, a woman can rise to the top and close the gap between her and a male .we that by nature we are multitasker and multiplier you give a woman house u turn it to a home. I know women face challenges but they are barriers that can be broken
@@jenniferonyebinanma2262 Earning power is the ability to generate profit, and women today are proving that they have the capacity to not only earn more money but also to thrive in ways that surpass the men. Women are dominating various industries, becoming entrepreneurs, and establishing themselves as business owners . With the right information and resources, a woman can rise to the top and close the gap between her and a male. we that by nature we are multitasker and multiplier you give a woman house u turn it to a home. I know women face challenges but they are barriers that can be broken.
My husband money is for the family and him. My money is for our retirement savings and investments plus fun and vacation money. I am not doing 50/50 with no man on the daily basis. He will manage our present life with his wealth and I use my money for myself, our future wealth or children future.
Cassandra needs to understand that women are yet to dominate in the tech space simply put because of interests and not because men simply dominate in such sectors. Even in engineering today, we still hope to convince more women to join but all in all, it depends on interest.
Thank you ma. How many women do you see in construction, engineering, surveying? Let’s be true to ourselves. Similarly, how many male nurses do we see?
All round, it’s a very reasonable show and the ladies that were present did a great job bringing different valid opinions to light. It’s actually proof that not all women think the same way like people (guys) like to assume.
you can’t separate the opportunities available to women in africa, especially from key factors like exposure, power systems, cultural norms, and access to education and resources. these elements play a significant role in shaping the economic, social, and political environments that either enable or limit women's progress. without addressing these foundational factors, true equality and opportunity for women remain elusive. dont be indigenous and ignorant please.
This is a topic that revolves around women. Why should men be brought into a women only conversation? What opinions and experiences does a man have on what happens with and to women?
Then why brought men into the conversation? They could have just focused more on the topic without comparing themselves with men, since women does not have the opinion and experience men had. It's pretty simple. @TheChibuogwu
I dislike how involved with themselves most of their arguments are. I wish they could view the matters at hand objectively, anecdotes are okay but one has to understand that they are not the absolute standard. They are however very civil which is great.
In Nigeria objectivity makes you guilty. 😂
True. I wish the conversation had been more objective.
Honestly, especially that Oreofe lady.
How much more objective do you want them to get? They are women? They have firsthand experience nobody can tell tell you about the experience of being a woman better than a woman.
How much more objective do you want them to get? They are women? They have firsthand experience nobody can tell tell you about the experience of being a woman better than a woman.
I think Mark Zuckerberg said it best in a Facebook comment section some years back.
He posted something on his facebook page, and a female commenter said "I wish my daughter gets married to someone as smart and rich as you in the future"... Mark actually replied her and said "Don't wish for your daughter to marry someone rich and smart, wish for your daughter to become rich and smart, and she should then end up with someone like her".
My job is simply, never skip a cruise video
🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽, Tiri Gbosa for you !
Simple*
Oreofe has a point about marriage being a partnership but the thing is that how many men agree that marriage is a partnership? A lot of men these days would rather convulse than agree that theyre equal with their wives so where does this stand? Men need to first agree that they are in partnership with their wives, give their wives freedom to fly and also, be open. It is that simple.
Just because you are articulate about your thoughts doesn't mean the other party is wrong, please!
Cassandra is so smart!
Lmao nr b only
veryyy
She’s so stupid
@@ukuowheogaga136Urhobo man wey no like work, no go find work werey
@@roselineabiaediete9307 lmao Nr b only naso una take dey spoil so take am play first
Had fun speaking on this one. Thank you for having me ❤️✨
Aww, just finished watching the video. I love the way you speak
You were very intelligent. I especially agreed with your takes about "feminine power"
You were awesome!
You're intelligent and I love that you're firm and unwavering in your opinions. All the best. 🎉
YOU LITERALLY HELPED ME SAY THE THINGS I WISHED THEY WERE TOLD
I had so much fun talking on this one and connecting with great women. Thank you so much for having me.
I must say that I loved the way you articulated yourself and spoke. Such a true gem. And btw, you look stunning
You are so smart , I love the way you think and the fact that you are realistic. I like how you shut it down.
Also I'll add that the line between emotions and logic are blurry...if there are any lines at all.
What we call 'logic' are infact neurological and sensory patterns that we evolved and retained from the days of our hunter-gatherer ancestors.
Basically, their survival algorithm.
There is also no scientific and even socially documented research that indicates any kind of variation in the 'sensory dna algorithm' based on sexes.
Emotions are much more faster and reflexive 'Logic'.
For example, take this 'logical' scenario:
So when Mr. A wanted to choose a partner, he decided to be much more logical.
He wrote down a short list of what he 'needs' from a spouse.
Beauty - for the sake of his children looks
Brains- Ditto
Culinary skills- for his stomach's sake
Up and down- for shaboinking ease
That apparently is logical.
The emotional 'opposite' would still be Mr. A. not having written anything down and just falling in love with a woman who embodies these traits.
What informed those choices?
Well, our ancestors bore the brunt and harshness of natural selection the most. The only ones whoose DNA survived to this generation were those who made certain choices. Or did not.
The choice of a partner included.
The 'love' and 'lust' emotions are 'logically' informed by our hunter-gatherers ancestors DNA. And our logic also the same.
Sorry I failed summary in high school😂
Enjoyed the show as always tho
Partners compete oo, unhealthy behavior.......
The problem of making more money than your husband and "forgetting your husband" is a major YOU problem. It's a problem of your attitude and orientation towards money, personality and personal mindset more than it is a generalized attitude of women towards money.
But if it’s vice versa it won’t affect the man’s behavior??but only women… that’s so funny
Thank you for having me Cruise, had so much fun filming this💜
I like this video. It shows that women don't think the same
The women that thinks you should be submissive to her husband thinks completely different to the women that knows they shouldnt bow down to a man
It still hurts me seeing a woman told to sit at home and then her husband dies untimely. She is then left to figure out life with young children. The same society would not come to their aid to bare the constant bills.
Cassandra is smart.
Very smart.. I like how she put her point out
Really smart!
But it shouldn't come across as trying to force your opinions on others
They should listen to her and Oreofe though
She's right but her denying feminine power which is a female privilege is wrong
Saying that when men get older they look younger than the woman cause the woman has been overused AND also saying that men get down with sicknesses at their mid lives because of financial burden are infact contradictory statements. Especially when both statements were agreed to by the majority.
Also, objectively, the 'my money is my money and his money is our money' thingy varies greatly according to the values, settings and perceptions of the couples involved.
A man who values a traditional setting in his house definitely has no business asking the wife to support him. Finances are the only responsibility he has(Noone cares that the capitalist system of today can no longer contain such traditional arrangement as he chose it himself) and it would be absolutely unfair to require his wife to contribute anything to the household.
This is so exciting.
Seeing women have conversations like this just makes me happy.
I don't know how you guys pick people for this,but I will love to have conversations on this topic.
Cassandra ate though 😍
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you see the lady in black and white is shouting on top of her voice ...
Brilliant discussion.
It's quite funny though that when you are privileged "because you are a woman", it's termed feminine power even though it's just something that stems from the place of men's attraction to women.
But, when women are refused certain opportunities "because you are a woman", it is then called gender discrimination.
You see that too huh? It is so ridiculous 😂😂. I am a woman, by the way.
@@TheChibuogwu Absolutely! And makes me wonder what their defense will be when hit with this truth.
Thanks for the disclaimer. I wouldn't have guessed so😅. I'm a woman as well.
So them what is the solution??
Do not give me or take away from me opportunities because of my gender, let me have them because of my qualifications
@@Bxtsy_d1st Exactly! At least, ot shouldn't be encouraged.
One woman somewhere is saying, "don't call me a female doctor. I'm just a doctor, my gender has nothing to do with it" while another woman is adding "female farmer" to hers because of the advantages it will give her above her male counterparts.
It's giving confusion and selective patriarchy.
I mean is it not!?
Why would you refuse them opportunities because of gender.
Please don't follow in Jubilee's footsteps. We don't want to see pro slavery vs antislavery
💀💀😂
wdym yes we do we need awareness on topics like this especially in a country as backward as Nigeria
@@rebeccaobakpolor952 There is a certain level of depravity that is not supposed to be platformed or even argued about because the tiny percent of the population that will misunderstand are too great. We don't need topics like Jews vs Nazis or kids vs pedos.
@@stamzthehuman897 well obviously but that's not what is discussed. do you think this topic was unnecessary?
@@rebeccaobakpolor952 No. I believe this particular topic was necessary. I don't want them to become like Jubilee and bring people that bastardise the beliefs of the average Nigerian
First time watching an episode as it lands … proud cruiser 🎉❤
Proud Cruiser!!!! 🤗.
Women can make as much money as they want however most women want a man near their financial level or more- that means the richer they become, the richer a man must be for her to be interested… that leaves her with a small number of men to be compatible with.
As it should be.
Good. Most men don’t marry poor women either. If they marry from liwer social status, these women are very educated. Fiction has convinced people that rich people often marry low and middle class people. It is an EXCEPTION. The rule is that the rich marry amongst themselves
@@liannababy4030 poor is a reach, yes if he’s wealthy he’s not picking a homeless woman from the street… but I’m not talking about someone destitute- I’m talking about a man not caring about what a woman can provide for him financially.
Oreofe is so enlightened and enlightening bruh
This episode just triggered a business idea I can start in addition to my job. So it’s a job well done to the producers and everyone involved in the making of this episode
Its a debate y'all, stop with the hate. For the love of Christ! Some people in the comment section obviously are handing the show with maturity, giving logical ans constructive criticism, while some otbers are just being emotional about the whole thing. Even if youre not enjoying the show, dont come and start ranting on how you hate the ladies. Please, lets be civil while making comments
"This is actually me in my calmest state.😊" lmao. Gosh, I love her.
Oreofo is annoying and self righteous. how can mama say she wanted to do something and u say she did not ? is that feminist ?
Wish you could add diversity all of these women are Yoruba and they lean towards a patriarchal mindset if you added other ethic groups it would be different
I like how Cassandra explains herself...wisdom.
Oreofe is who she thinks she is a beg!!! love her
I don’t mind my wife earning 5x more than me, as long as she doesn’t use it to insult me. Well, she is not that kind of person.
Haew Oreofe is so fine 🥹🥹
She speaks politely too 😍
Casandra is intelligent but I think she sometimes don’t understand that the world doesn’t revolve around her experiences and her English……the experiences in ikorodu and agege is different from the experiences in places like magodo and lekki
She does understand. I believe she understands there's a different world from her own perspective. This is why her opinions are strong and solid and she's trying to help women (young and old) see that there's a world beyond their ikorodu and they can aim for more.
@@TheChibuogwuYou are right!!
I smell jealousy
Oreofe❤, very smart ❤
Zainab is not serious. Feminist wey de selective of her feminist beliefs
Oreofe, woman do not have more earning power in this Nigeria.
I wonder the kind of scripts Tade Olabisi will be writing.
She could be a good script writer. All that would be needed is a script editor.
Oreofe is disconnected from reality. She is sooooooooooo disconnected from reality. That is why Cassandra keeps interrupting her. Cassandra has a more balanced nuance on this topic because she is directly involved with other women outside her sphere. Oreofe needs to step out of her bubble occassionally.
So Zainab,
Him earning more than you is giving misogyny but when he does your money is your money
Omo e tire me
the hypocrisy is crazy 😂
You should change these titles from "African/s" to "Nigerian/s"
I think Cassandra is very dismissive. It’s okay to have a different point of view but to shut down other opinions isn’t the best. Using words like ridiculous and bullshit is outright disrespectful. It makes her points hard to agree with
Then that woman that’s an evangelist, omooo imagine the female children she’s mentoring.
God bless you!… we saw the same thing
@@divineomorogieva764 that her 32 years old daughter if not reoriented would have the same mentality as her and pass it down to her own daughter.
Cassandra didn't eventually justify how exactly men have more advantage in tech. It seems she's still in the past. These days there are numerous tech roles(only women scholarships, grants, free certifications, free vouchers, etc) only women can apply to. You're not getting that job( if open to both genders) only because there's a male(or even female) applicant who did better in the interviews, has more experience, is willing to take lesser pay or was recommended by an employee of the company.
Zainab is a joke, your money is your sibling's money lol.
I guess that is where she missed it, when you want to solve a bias their is a tendency to solve the symptoms and not the root cause. You end up tiping the scale in favour of the other person you are trying to compensate. Life is not generally fair whether male or female. If we want to solve some of these problems we have to look beyond solving the symptoms and start solving for the actual reason for the problem. That comes from having empathic leaders who genuinely want to solve these problems in Africa.
No lies, on some freelance platforms women are being at high chances being picked compared to the male counterparts, same as on streaming platforms e.g. bigo live
She's talking about the Tech industry. Women are disadvantaged. Black women, especially. They are still struggling. Google is your friend, too.
@@lawaldamilola9085 Women are not disadvantaged in Tech.
I still believe women themselves want their men to make more than them,but it being a normal or a rule,hell no😂
Of course, we want our men to be the providers that they are and us the supporters 😅
Cassandra is so on point. A queen
But I’m the first to like
and i am to the first to like your comment
@@A98712 and i am the first to like your answer
HR sit down and stray bullet come meet us. Salary inequity is a bad practice
Not my first time seeing Ore-ofe on Cruise and I’m a fan ❤️
4:38 this first point eh. My mom and I are looking for money so that my father can retire in peace. And a working mother isn't the cause for wayward children, a rich mother is definitely not. I know people that would have led different lives if their moms were rich, this particular girl was introduced to prostitution as a teenager and she gave her mother money to add things to her shop🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️ she even took it sef and the mother of the girl who introduced her was complaining that she's never received anything from her daughter 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️. Rich women are not anybody's problem abeg. All my life, I've wished my mom was the loaded one, anytime this woman has money, everybody dey feel am, including my dad. She's very free handed, I'm working but she'll give me money to make hair even if I just squandered my salary. My life would have been so sweet if my mom made more
I love how everyone looks beautiful and decent.
Imagine if it was an episode from America…. Every lady would be half naked
@@drsiza honestly 😳
Your money is your power….
If that money was taken from her would she still be talking like this…
Just thinking.
40:09 i don't agree with this women hate each other bs.
the way i ran here after seeing the teaser on tiktok 😂
Yomi- meleki, I love your surname
Thank you😊😊
I dont know if I'll change my kind in the future but I'm not for my money is my money your money is our money, marriage is a partnership and you guys should be able to plan as partners and find a balance. Inless he earns way more and you guys agree to let him spend. Marriage is planning, every step of the way
*mind
*Unless
I love this older woman😂
A woman who doesn’t believe that fine girl privilege or that feminine power is delusional. It’s not about big English , I love the lady with clean cut
honestly, about the earning power, and feminine power thing, it is still catering to someone who holds significant power over you- A MAN. Even with all the added advantages, how many women are actually at the top?
so las las, you don't have more earning power than him cos you are catering to him- A MAN who is in power. and someone who has the power to feed you can starve you, so the day you don't fit the whims or gratify their fantasies, God help you! lmap. if it was so much about feminine power, we would have had lots of women at the top, even by mere sleeping with who is at the top. so las las, they give you breadcrumbs, just enough to keep you thinking that you have power, but they are winning more.
That's why very successful women are sometimes termed masculine because to be successful to that level, you have to embody some of the characteristics normally attributed to men. Sure feminine power has its own advantages, however, when it comes to the real world, and getting to the top as a woman, you're gonna need to be qualified and graced with tenacity and a strong mind and heavenly backing, cos the other gender sometimes dey get fragile ego. so called "feminine energy" alone, ain't gonna get you there boo.
Men are logical..... lol, who are causing the wars today?
Women should not be asked to provide for the home because most of the time we do contribute to the home however the woman should not be forced to bring this money out because men can be very greedy and lazy when the woman helps
Low-key some delusional takes tho but if i speak I'm in big trouble
honestly😂
My money can be our money when we did court wedding if not that pls my money is my money and ur money is out money
A lot of these older women are raised to be male identified and they raise their daughters to follow. Everything in their life must revolve around men or children. Educated women know this is wrong but there’s generations of toxicity that needs to be undone
15:29 i agree with Oreofe, i feel like the rest should have taken their time. I agree that it's still objectifying but yea girl privilege
Cassandra just keeps lieing to herself
It’s not new that man are being loved for what they provide and women are loved just for their existence
Personally everyone is loved for what they bring, nobody is loved freely.
Oh please as if men don’t say they will divorce if the woman won’t always have sec with them everyone is “loved” on what’s they provide
Abi oo. Feminine power exists.
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥. That older woman is just desperate to make her point. A woman who is determined to out earn her spouse doesn't have a husband, she has a competitor. This seems to be more of a problem for men. Why is it not seen as a problem that they treat their partners as rivals?
Lol, WOW what a woman can do a man can do better when it comes to responsibilities.
You want men to stuck to the role of providing but you don't want to stick to the role of serving. It's so funny when it got to my money is my momey, Bs
Who even gave the roles that women should serve
@habibajai3278 the same ppl that gave the role of providing to the men
@@somtoobiorah206this is the 21st century and most homes have both partners providing, so in cases like this why should one partner do all the house chores 🤷
@@yomide_naturals where did I say that.
If both of them are providing, then they should both be doing chores. But you can't be saying as a woman "my money is my money , my man's money is our money," and still expect him to do chores in the house.
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I love cruise bringing nigerian perspectives to the world
"my husband's money is sweeter" means what???
Abeg wetin concern believer and man must earn more biko
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Females have this power. So so true.
Feyikemi needs to stand up.
the girl on white skirt seems to have a very condescending tone... people are entitled to their opinion
You shouldn't bully people to accept your point.
Real😭
My point exactly, she made a lot of sense but even when you disagree with people’s opinion, you still have to acknowledge that they have a right to their ideologies, just as you do. At the end of the day in this life, nothing is really just black and white
I completely agree with you.
You don’t have to call someone’s opinion “complete bullshit”
“i know i might be talking from a place of privilege”, then proceeds to say the most privileged shit ever. lmaooo.
Because what else do you want her to say??? She literally gave heads up that she's going to blab about her pretty privilege. Mehh😩.
Nice to have Oreofe back 🎉
Yeah I support that second part. Women have earning power more than Men in Nigeria
Not true men just dash women money. Based on opportunities, people don’t even take women seriously. They start with sexual harassment before they take yous seriously
How?
That’s not even true in the slightest bit.
@@factsandopinions577 Earning power is the ability to generate profit, and women today are proving that they have the capacity to not only earn more money but also to thrive in ways that surpass the men. Women are dominating various industries, becoming entrepreneurs, and establishing themselves as business owners . With the right information and resources, a woman can rise to the top and close the gap between her and a male .we that by nature we are multitasker and multiplier you give a woman house u turn it to a home. I know women face challenges but they are barriers that can be broken
@@jenniferonyebinanma2262 Earning power is the ability to generate profit, and women today are proving that they have the capacity to not only earn more money but also to thrive in ways that surpass the men. Women are dominating various industries, becoming entrepreneurs, and establishing themselves as business owners . With the right information and resources, a woman can rise to the top and close the gap between her and a male. we that by nature we are multitasker and multiplier you give a woman house u turn it to a home. I know women face challenges but they are barriers that can be broken.
Cassandra my babe ❤
My husband money is for the family and him. My money is for our retirement savings and investments plus fun and vacation money. I am not doing 50/50 with no man on the daily basis. He will manage our present life with his wealth and I use my money for myself, our future wealth or children future.
Cassandra needs to understand that women are yet to dominate in the tech space simply put because of interests and not because men simply dominate in such sectors. Even in engineering today, we still hope to convince more women to join but all in all, it depends on interest.
Thank you ma. How many women do you see in construction, engineering, surveying? Let’s be true to ourselves. Similarly, how many male nurses do we see?
This is a lie but ok
You just hit the nail in the head, no man is dominating in the modelling industry
Atleast if your mama dey disturb keep em
For house now. 😂😂😂
Mrs Favour took 8:07 personal 😂😂
Those generation doesn't want to hear that you don't want to get married meanwhile not everyone will get married.
All round, it’s a very reasonable show and the ladies that were present did a great job bringing different valid opinions to light. It’s actually proof that not all women think the same way like people (guys) like to assume.
I love the panel. Mrs. Olabisi is living her soft girl life. With time, you'll understand her stance.
you can’t separate the opportunities available to women in africa, especially from key factors like exposure, power systems, cultural norms, and access to education and resources. these elements play a significant role in shaping the economic, social, and political environments that either enable or limit women's progress. without addressing these foundational factors, true equality and opportunity for women remain elusive. dont be indigenous and ignorant please.
Feminine power is for society standard of beauty. Someone who isn’t society’s idea of beauty will not see any advantage.
These millennials and baby boomers go dey vex person now 😂😂😂
I love the 1st example and POV of Cassandra.
That nurse lady doesn’t know anything about life.
Im not going to lie, if i see that yellow dress woman as my mother in law, im running, in fact sprinting
One women’s earning power- consider the ceiling that comes in due to maternity leave and being the primary caregiver to the kids.
Lol. I wish men were featured in this discussion too.
This is a topic that revolves around women. Why should men be brought into a women only conversation? What opinions and experiences does a man have on what happens with and to women?
Then why brought men into the conversation? They could have just focused more on the topic without comparing themselves with men, since women does not have the opinion and experience men had. It's pretty simple. @TheChibuogwu
I just know Cassandra is a Twitter babe! 😭😂❤️
Love her!
If you make money employ staff, and take care of your children very simple ..😂
Zainab didn't get to speak for long. I'd have loved to hear her opinions more..
I have a lot to say but you'll find most of what i want to say in cassandra's comments ❤😊
There is no Law that stops women from Achieving should it be a topic.
23:43 is she conveniently trying to not be progressive?😂 Lmao