My Mother is very toxic. I secretly think she's jealous of me or she just hates me. I have so many examples from my life about how many mental hardships i have endured because of her: 1) I hated my lower teeth, so years ago i had a bonding procedure done to close the gap which made me self conscious about smiling. Once it was done i felt so good about myself and i was ready to finally come out of my shell and talk more. My Mom threw cold water on that right away. She remarked that my tooth looked bad and that it looked like i had some fake substance on them (well, she was right). But still, i cou;dn't believe how insensitive she was about something that very important to me. 2) Years ago, when i was in much better shape, i was obsessed with riding my bicycle. And i told my parents i was determined to one day reach 100 miles in a single ride. After many months of trying and i finally did it one July day after eating plenty of food during my ride so i didn't run out of energy. I was so proud of myself. I told my Mom and she literally changed the subject. Never even acknowledged it. 🙄 3) My quest to find a girlfriend is very important to me. I know my life won't necessarily get better with a girlfriend but it's worth a shot after years of being lonely. Well, my Dad discussed the possibility of going to Latin America or Asia to find a sweetheart for me and my Mom chimed in by snidely remarking that women from those cultures are willing to overlook ugliness if u are American but not poorness. smh P.S. I could write a book about all the other abuses i have suffered at her hands. I used to love my Pop Pop so much who died about 10 years ago, and conversely i never liked my cousin (who is roughly my age and much better looking and more successful than i am). Well, my Mom once admitted that i should love my cousin more because he had defended me when my grandpa said i wasn't very smart and would never succeed in school, She deliberately told me this to hurt me because she knew how much i loved my Grandpa and how disappointed i would be that he secretly thought i was stupid. Seriously, what kind of horrible mother does this stuff?
This is really good advice, but what about the case where someone else you love in your family is caught up in their toxic culture and doesn't have the means or the desire to leave it? That's where I feel I'm at.
You look so beautiful in blue! I’m sorry your family wasn’t treating you right. I believe in you too and I’m proud of you. Keep it up 💗💗
@@itwillwaffle1745 thank you so much for your kindness!! Thank you truly ❤️ you’ve made my day!! Sending peace and light
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This topic it's so important, Thank you because u talked about it. And we love you so much ❤✨
@@kaoutarmb7718 this warmed my heart so much, thank you for your kindness!! Sending you peace and light friend
I can relate to this title I have a small yet toxic family so I could use this tutorial
My Mother is very toxic. I secretly think she's jealous of me or she just hates me.
I have so many examples from my life about how many mental hardships i have endured because of her:
1) I hated my lower teeth, so years ago i had a bonding procedure done to close the gap which made me self conscious about smiling. Once it was done i felt so good about myself and i was ready to finally come out of my shell and talk more. My Mom threw cold water on that right away. She remarked that my tooth looked bad and that it looked like i had some fake substance on them (well, she was right). But still, i cou;dn't believe how insensitive she was about something that very important to me.
2) Years ago, when i was in much better shape, i was obsessed with riding my bicycle. And i told my parents i was determined to one day reach 100 miles in a single ride. After many months of trying and i finally did it one July day after eating plenty of food during my ride so i didn't run out of energy. I was so proud of myself. I told my Mom and she literally changed the subject. Never even acknowledged it. 🙄
3) My quest to find a girlfriend is very important to me. I know my life won't necessarily get better with a girlfriend but it's worth a shot after years of being lonely. Well, my Dad discussed the possibility of going to Latin America or Asia to find a sweetheart for me and my Mom chimed in by snidely remarking that women from those cultures are willing to overlook ugliness if u are American but not poorness. smh
P.S. I could write a book about all the other abuses i have suffered at her hands. I used to love my Pop Pop so much who died about 10 years ago, and conversely i never liked my cousin (who is roughly my age and much better looking and more successful than i am). Well, my Mom once admitted that i should love my cousin more because he had defended me when my grandpa said i wasn't very smart and would never succeed in school, She deliberately told me this to hurt me because she knew how much i loved my Grandpa and how disappointed i would be that he secretly thought i was stupid. Seriously, what kind of horrible mother does this stuff?
This is amazing... goodluck in your master's... I'm a year older than you but the advice and story is great and helpful
@@sophiahitch726 thank you so much friend! I am so happy to hear that!! Sending you peace and light
This is really good advice, but what about the case where someone else you love in your family is caught up in their toxic culture and doesn't have the means or the desire to leave it? That's where I feel I'm at.
I hope you are doing well 😊❤
Completely stunning!
U are getting your masters at your young age? Wow, i’m 37 and i only have a measly bachelors degree, i was too scared to pursue a masters
12:17 It would be funnier if you said put them in the toilet.😅
Hey are you available to talk to?
You are my toxic family
I couldn't comment so I will say I feel the same