DIVORCE & REMARRIAGE | LET'S TALK ABOUT IT! | J.T. BOYD

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  • Let’s Talk About It is anti-conformist and pro-transforming by the renewing of the mind. The show will cover current controversial trending themes, as well as topics that the church seldom discusses but should.
    It will offer biblical perspectives while inviting contemporary voices on for thought- provoking and inspiring conversations. Who’s ready to talk about it?
    LET'S TALK ABOUT DIVORCE & REMARRIAGE❗️

КОМЕНТАРІ • 114

  • @ladawnrussell3121
    @ladawnrussell3121 Рік тому +5

    Marriage is a covenant unto death....can't change that.

    • @ladawnrussell3121
      @ladawnrussell3121 Рік тому +1

      Marriage is different because it's a covenant (agreement) before God. It shouldn't be something you just toss to the side when you feel like.

    • @janelleallen1081
      @janelleallen1081 Рік тому

      Speaking the truth

  • @stephaniedodson7539
    @stephaniedodson7539 Рік тому +11

    Many of the same who say you can’t divorce have already divorced because they have mentally left the marriage. They just still hanging on to a piece of paper when their heart is somewhere else.

    • @tyronking574
      @tyronking574 8 місяців тому +1

      You can divorce but if you divorce and remarry for any reason other than adultery then you are an adulterer (Matthew 19:9)

  • @angelad.holmesentrepreneur9305
    @angelad.holmesentrepreneur9305 Рік тому +11

    This is so real and very needed! I’ve been divorced since 2010. God loves me unconditionally regardless of my marital status … her story is so much like mine! I’m whole and ready to marry my purpose mate 😊 I lived in “Church” condemnation for toooooo long….seek God and HIS righteousness in ALL situations. God speaks! And when He did I said … “What the? You mean to tell me I had my own self stuck? “ 😆 EXCELLENT SHOW JT 🙌🏾🔥💃🏾

  • @Rafael-hf8qg
    @Rafael-hf8qg Рік тому +4

    So good! I believe the church has a lot of religious boxes in regards to “What God has joined together…” sometimes it’s not God joining together and just man in wrongful desires or lack of wisdom & purpose..Christ came to give us Life & Life more abundantly! Walk in your Freedom! 🕊️

  • @rochelleestellemaarteaston7009

    I been divorced after 25 years for the last 3 years now and I discovered only more of myself and hope to meet someone to do the call of God our lives together!Im excited for this new season!

  • @everythingwillberevealed3215
    @everythingwillberevealed3215 Рік тому +6

    I totally appreciate this topic. I was married and divrced 2 times before I got saved. But then I got saved and was in a very religious church that would not allow me to get married or even date. So I have been single for 8 years. Now Im like, wait a minute. Where is the grace and forgiveness? So glad you talked about it. Divorce happens, we need to have/give grace.

    • @angelad.holmesentrepreneur9305
      @angelad.holmesentrepreneur9305 Рік тому +1

      🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @lgertrude2815
      @lgertrude2815 Рік тому

      Ooh we save God who gives us another chances in life, religious people are bad in a way they condemn you and yet there is no contamination to those who love the Lord. I hope you will find a suitable partner

  • @Beautiiandlight
    @Beautiiandlight Рік тому +7

    I have been divorced for 3 years now and praying God sends me the partner that is meant for me to do God's work with.

  • @jorty.
    @jorty. Рік тому +3

    The words you spoke at the end were powerful about the adultery where you pointed out mindsets that don't wish to remarry being scared of adultery and explaining we wouldn't have need for Jesus if we did all things correct.

  • @theodoriamahal5830
    @theodoriamahal5830 Рік тому +2

    I have wrestled with this & stayed in my marriage though knowing it was killing me because of Matthew 5.32. Through adultery I stayed only for the trauma to increase. Now separated 2 years & still believed I cannot remarry but I still want my children to live what I didn’t & to experience healthy marriage. Thanks for this. I still need God to work in me regarding this. Pray for me. ❤ & blessings

  • @jodievans-harris9409
    @jodievans-harris9409 Рік тому +7

    This is so good! I'm recently separated & needed to hear all of this!

  • @kerryannpaul1097
    @kerryannpaul1097 Рік тому +4

    “Christ died for all judgement” this statement is so powerful🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
    Thank you for sharing your story and perspective❤️

  • @MisuZama
    @MisuZama Рік тому +5

    I've never been able to find my place in the church as a divorced Christian. There's singles ministry, widows, married & no real place for women who are divorced. Also, when they pray for restoration of marriages, I'm not sure to say "amen" for myself because in my case I believe the separation was from God.

    • @AbsolutViolette
      @AbsolutViolette Рік тому +5

      When they’re praying for marriages to be restored I can stand in agreement with others but just like you, my separation was all God. In terms of finding a ministry to “identify” with, I join the singles, cause that’s what I am - single. That’s how I look at it anyway 😊

  • @marielaceballosp
    @marielaceballosp Рік тому +2

    The tools about marriage are develop every day. I would love to see this kind of conversation with a couple with More Years together.

  • @etheljohnson2589
    @etheljohnson2589 Рік тому +1

    Married twice divorced twice. Prayerfully God will allow a third and final time with grace and happiness. Amen

  • @makinadasent3038
    @makinadasent3038 Рік тому +2

    Chai! Revelation Nation. Captives are being set free indeed! Love this!

  • @helenhamilton1005
    @helenhamilton1005 Рік тому +4

    I think some people get married for the wrong reason, back in the days if you make a mistake and get pregnant they make you get married I feel it’s the wrong reason!!!!!

  • @michellebelk9951
    @michellebelk9951 Рік тому +2

    Grace and Mercy.❤️ God is a loving Father.🙏🏽
    This couple are excellent teachers, and the questions and discussion was rich.

  • @namarome9445
    @namarome9445 Рік тому +4

    That was great eye opener I love it the way this family is dedicated for their marriage

  • @kingdomtalkchannel
    @kingdomtalkchannel Рік тому +3

    This is so good on time and needed.

  • @angelobrice3089
    @angelobrice3089 Рік тому +7

    Good evening!!! but the bible it's clear about divorce. In Mat 5:32 Jesus said the only way you should get divorce, only if there's cheating. Of course if your life is in danger you'll have to leave. Get divorce doesn't mean remarried

    • @mightywomanofvalor956
      @mightywomanofvalor956 Рік тому +2

      Whom God join together lets no man put as sunder. If their marriage were not ordained back then it will not work. They met they purpose matched so they can walk in agreement with God.

    • @deniseclemons3168
      @deniseclemons3168 Рік тому +1

      We swiggle the word to fit our agenda, I think death does it part except for cheating and life threatening those are the vows people choose to make.

  • @theuncommonlife5981
    @theuncommonlife5981 Рік тому +1

    One thing I have learned is that I divorced the body, but GOD did not divorce me (us). My next marriage will be ordained of GOD and for purpose. The wait on this GOD ordained marriage is real! but it will be worth it. Together we will bring down many empires of darkness. On that note I definitely understand why the wait has to be with patience and GOD is bringing it all together 🙏🏾

  • @fredar.5326
    @fredar.5326 Рік тому +1

    I remember I was told you can’t live in fairytale land. Marriage is not like Cinderella, it was only a movie, I was told.

  • @CB-jz2dn
    @CB-jz2dn Рік тому +2

    Behold, I will do a new thing; now it shall spring forth; shall ye not know it? I will even make a way in the wilderness, and rivers in the desert.

    • @alenhorvatek4477
      @alenhorvatek4477 Рік тому

      Bravo, I'we been thinking about this verse watching video.

  • @communingwithGod
    @communingwithGod Рік тому +1

    One thing to know is pray and ask God before marrying someone. God will show you. Things do get hard in marriages- I believe sometimes its due to satan not liking unity, nor union under God or becoming one. So he causes havoc and chaos in your marriage. Other cases, some marry out of lust for the person, being lonely, looks, etc. All the wrong reasons. So if you want to be married or married again make sure you speak to God first. Marrying for the right reasons, marry someone most importantly who has the same beliefs as you. If you know the person doesnt love God nor serve God, you cant change that person only God can. This is what also causes issues, marrying someone who doesnt love God. Now God does say when your already married and the person isnt saved, to pray for that person. Best to talk to God- its a big step and a big commitment.

  • @maribelmejia2693
    @maribelmejia2693 Рік тому

    So cool! I'm born & raised from Philly. I live in Detroit, Michigan now. I'm divorced so this is going to be interesting.

  • @CB-jz2dn
    @CB-jz2dn Рік тому +1

    “And hath made us kings and priests unto God and his Father; to him be glory and dominion for ever and ever. Amen.”

  • @SD-ld1wl
    @SD-ld1wl Рік тому +2

    Thank you for sharing topics that is needed and real life experiences while sharing the revelation of God word. To God be all glory honor and praise for Revelation Nation Church LA. ♥♥🔥🔥🔥

  • @catherinekainza5384
    @catherinekainza5384 Рік тому +1

    I’am already excited before I watch and listen

  • @CB-jz2dn
    @CB-jz2dn Рік тому +1

    Releasing the NEED to be first and adopting the Spirit of Humility & AFTER YOU, WILL ALWAYS YIELD BLESSINGS from the throne room of Heaven.

  • @marissarichards5880
    @marissarichards5880 Рік тому +5

    I’ve been separated and divorced since 2016. I embrace marriage again whenever it comes.

    • @grant2149
      @grant2149 Рік тому

      You will be a adulteress

  • @candisalkins4474
    @candisalkins4474 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Jesus I'm in Isolation right now

  • @bunnygirl3357
    @bunnygirl3357 Рік тому +1

    I needed this one. 😊 Thanks this lets me know how pissible it is to have a successful marriage.

  • @CB-jz2dn
    @CB-jz2dn Рік тому +1

    Great "reveal" of an authentic journey between 2 people towards covenant, compatibility & the journey of blending 2 spirits for Kingdom purpose. KEEP GROWING.......KEEP LOOKING TO JESUS...

  • @peaceful22023
    @peaceful22023 Рік тому +1

    THANK YOU ❤

  • @CB-jz2dn
    @CB-jz2dn Рік тому +1

    I SPEAK THE "AFTER YOU" spirit over all of us
    Thank you for this segment.

  • @CB-jz2dn
    @CB-jz2dn Рік тому +1

    When we come to a complete place of submission before God, we can give freely and practice the spirit of "AFTER YOU," LIKENED TO ALLOWING Your spouse to walk through any door/ conversation or activity *FIRST*.... AS YOU SAY....."AFTER YOU," with a HUMBLE HEART AND A QUIET SPIRIT.

  • @LISLOVESTRUTH
    @LISLOVESTRUTH Рік тому +2

    I hear what they say about purpose but I really appreciate the perspective of her husband. People forget that marriage has a built in purpose even before church ministry, which is to demonstrate the relationship between Christ and His church; which is one that endures despite sin,imperfections, conflicts etc. It is one that thrives on forgiveness and returning to first principles. Jesus made it clear that divorce was allowed because of the " hardness of people's hearts". I think in this video the husband really acknowledged this when he admitted that marriage would be as long as you want it to be. Remarriage is a concession but its definitely not God's ideal. That's why the church frowns on Divorce and remarriage. It is allowed because of the sinfulness and feebleness of the heart of man, but it is not to be understood as a path that Christians should readily take. I judge no one for being either divorced or remarried but I wish those who choose that path would be honest about the fact that it is not God's ideal.

    • @ladawnrussell3121
      @ladawnrussell3121 Рік тому

      THIS!!!!!!!! SO ACCURATE

    • @ladawnrussell3121
      @ladawnrussell3121 Рік тому +2

      Husbands should love their wives as Christ love the church.....Christ has yet to divorce the church despite the church constantly hurting him. Many miss this part.

  • @Crownedwithpurposeglobal
    @Crownedwithpurposeglobal Рік тому +5

    I was divorced and married again ❤❤❤

  • @jermainewalden
    @jermainewalden Рік тому +1

    TEACHESY‼️

  • @angelad.holmesentrepreneur9305

    Part two needed JT
    please speak to divorced /remarried and over 49

  • @lavonbeats
    @lavonbeats Рік тому +1

    Amen

  • @debbiehendryx8925
    @debbiehendryx8925 Рік тому

    Lord give me and make me for purpose

  • @danettevalentine5627
    @danettevalentine5627 Рік тому

    So many lessons.

  • @CB-jz2dn
    @CB-jz2dn Рік тому +1

    It's EXTREMELY important for wives to SEE the annointing that RESTS UPON their husbands. CLEARLY CLEARLY CLEARLY........these men are annointed & God honors the annointing. Wives are called to SEE the annointing and the wife's annointing is
    to do what the word encourages us to do. I'm single, but I can clearly SEE the annointing upon them. My prayer is that God give women the SEERs eye to honor the annointing & when we do this ABUNDANT PEACE ABUNDANT BLESSING & ABUNDANT JOY WILL FLOW......AND our children will SEE IT!!!

  • @Listentomusicist
    @Listentomusicist Рік тому +1

    Encouraging and needed discussion. Amen

  • @candisalkins4474
    @candisalkins4474 Рік тому +1

    Thank you sir blessings to you

  • @dayshaargrow7
    @dayshaargrow7 Рік тому +3

    OmG!!! Apostle JT, you went in in this show. what a way to start! I appreciated this in every way. Thank God for Prophetess Lena, and Pastor Todd. They were intimately transparent...
    Keep up the great work!❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥

  • @dianemaner
    @dianemaner Рік тому +2

    ❤❤

  • @melodyjettoo5658
    @melodyjettoo5658 Місяць тому

    I appreciate this video. I wish the couple spoke more to what it says in the Word about divorce and how they married the two so to speak. Not so much religious people but more about - well the Word says this - how do I reconcile remarrying. I think that’s where a lot of us get stuck (including myself as I’ve been divorced and look forward to remarrying) The Word says marrying a divorced woman is adultery. It’s in our bible in Mark and Luke - but that’s what I don’t fully understand and want to know more about. I’d love it if someone could address that but I feel like everyone tiptoes around it.

  • @farayimoyo1134
    @farayimoyo1134 Рік тому +1

    This is so good!! Thank you

  • @chantaldarius4401
    @chantaldarius4401 Рік тому +8

    I am on my 4th divorce and never felt accepted by the church and often looked down on. Am I missing something?

    • @lahdee1552
      @lahdee1552 Рік тому +8

      Noone should ever make you feel excluded or rejected just know christ loves you and pray for those who persecute you.

    • @jorty.
      @jorty. Рік тому +6

      According to the story of the Samaritan woman you meet Jesus after the fifth....so...😂 But on a serious note I am truly sorry you have gone through this. The fact they looked down on you was their carnal heart as we shouldn't do that to another.

  • @maribelmejia2693
    @maribelmejia2693 Рік тому

    Uncomfortably I had 2 divorces. My 1st husband, we got together @16(highschool sweethearts) We where together 15 yrs. My 2nd marriage we where 17 yrs but we fist fight almost everyday for 27 yrs. I started too long so my kids would not stay without a father but it did more damage then God.

  • @angelaprewitt8672
    @angelaprewitt8672 Рік тому +2

    THIS IS SO HELPFUL AND ENCOURAGING FOR ME THANK YOU AND GOD BLESS YOU ALL

  • @VivianFlowers1
    @VivianFlowers1 Рік тому

    This was so good. I can relate to Lena's story so much. I'm trusting God. ❤

  • @sherrydenmark4067
    @sherrydenmark4067 Рік тому +1

    Jesus HALLELUJAH, well received testimony Thank you for sharing, Blessings 🙌🏿

  • @jafremu
    @jafremu Рік тому

    This is deep

  • @alyssajackson9025
    @alyssajackson9025 Рік тому +1

    Such a blessing to see it that way.

  • @nickiemarie2025
    @nickiemarie2025 Рік тому +2

    Beautiful ❤️ message

  • @ThisisMissHope
    @ThisisMissHope Рік тому +3

    I am a young widow. Do remarriage for widows next please! Thanks.

  • @BrandiValBElias
    @BrandiValBElias Рік тому +1

    Thanks Apostle that was Fire as Always…!!!🔥💕🔥

  • @eunarenejyles6239
    @eunarenejyles6239 Рік тому +1

    I love the intro😁💕

  • @alenhorvatek4477
    @alenhorvatek4477 Рік тому +1

    Revelation, we aren't perfect. Jesus is, so growth in Him and be free to marrie again.

  • @heavenorwilliams8609
    @heavenorwilliams8609 Рік тому

    This was really good…thanks for sharing

  • @katabok
    @katabok Рік тому +1

    Gold 😁

  • @CB-jz2dn
    @CB-jz2dn Рік тому +1

    Marriage is "Alterology"
    We come to the alter of marriage to GIVE.....not to take & you can only succeed in alterology when we cease from self absorption & enter the covenant of giving......AND pouring into one another as God pours INTO US.

  • @sherrywoods4993
    @sherrywoods4993 Рік тому

    I Thank God that I stumbled upon this video! I know I was not just by chance! This blessed me so much and exactly what I NEEDED. I connected so much to all of what they were saying! I’m literally in tears! God is so good and merciful! ❤ I’m so excited about this next chapter of my life 😊

  • @LisaLisa-ui4iu
    @LisaLisa-ui4iu Рік тому +1

    Deep🔥

  • @CB-jz2dn
    @CB-jz2dn Рік тому +1

    BEHOLD.........I WILL DO A NEW THING.........SHALL YE NOT KNOW IT!

  • @etheljohnson2589
    @etheljohnson2589 Рік тому +1

    🔥🔥🔥

  • @pharrahcrawford521
    @pharrahcrawford521 Рік тому +1

    This was amazing! Thank you so much!

  • @rebeccacasey
    @rebeccacasey Рік тому +1

    🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @CB-jz2dn
    @CB-jz2dn Рік тому +1

    The gift of a Fatherly Annointing is upon this guest speaker. He and His wife are called to be the jewels of Heaven, relative to peace joy and fulfillment in a home
    Write a movie script and produce a movie of the Tapestry of God's Love in covenant. God will download the script.

  • @etheljohnson2589
    @etheljohnson2589 Рік тому +1

    Thst background music is so very distracting. But the testimonies are good...

  • @tyronking574
    @tyronking574 8 місяців тому

    Unless your partner commits adultery first, if you divorce and remarry you are an adulterer and are living in sin. 'Prophet Lovy' is an adulterer and a false prophet, for teaching that 'God was lusting after him' and that he got divorced because he was a pastor, and then could remarry a different woman. Matthew 5 is just one place this injunction on divorce and remarriage is written, go read Matthew 19. And even for the injunctions in Matthew 5, yes we need to resist sinning in thoughts too, Jesus' propitiation is not a licence to sin, as we live under the Law of Christ.
    "And I say to you: whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery.”- Matthew 19:9

  • @CB-jz2dn
    @CB-jz2dn Рік тому +1

    ......And Hath made us kings and priests.

  • @wendyjenkins1559
    @wendyjenkins1559 6 місяців тому

    Celebrity marriage classic pastor todd😂

  • @Strong_echo
    @Strong_echo Рік тому +1

    😊This is some good stuff. Thank you for sharing. Please sign me up for Revelation Christian Mingle.😉 I want to do it right the next time. After God is done molding me. 🙏🏽💃

  • @vannymac5529
    @vannymac5529 Рік тому +2

    What does the bible say about this?

  • @nickiemarie2025
    @nickiemarie2025 Рік тому +2

    👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @randyponson
    @randyponson Рік тому +1

  • @kimbunting3229
    @kimbunting3229 Рік тому +1

    Amos 3:3 How can two walk together unless they agree 💯I believe if you get to the point of disagreement, go back to the place of the initial agreement. Almost like losing sight of your Why

    • @angelobrice3089
      @angelobrice3089 Рік тому

      Good evening!!! but the bible it's clear about divorce. In Mat 5:32 Jesus said the only way you should get divorce, only if there's cheating.

    • @jesusistheonlywaytoheavenj7880
      @jesusistheonlywaytoheavenj7880 Рік тому

      ​@@angelobrice3089 1 Corinthians 7:39 (NASB95)
      39 A wife is bound as long as her husband lives; but if her husband is dead, she is free to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord.

    • @angelobrice3089
      @angelobrice3089 Рік тому

      Amen!!

  • @KingFrance5
    @KingFrance5 Рік тому +1

    🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @gwenmatthews4153
    @gwenmatthews4153 Рік тому +1

    🔥🔥🔥🔥🙏🏽

  • @nickiemarie2025
    @nickiemarie2025 Рік тому +2

    🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @kimbunting3229
    @kimbunting3229 Рік тому +1

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @wandaversal2780
    @wandaversal2780 Рік тому +1

    Woohoo

  • @repentorperish133
    @repentorperish133 Рік тому +2

    This is clear violation of the Scriptures to remarry when you have a LIVING COVENANT SPOUSE! Noel should know better to marry anyone who divorced and has a living spouse!! Jesus says this is adultery. Anyone who has divorced and remarried and have a living spouse, your first spouse, you must repent and come out of this ADULTEROUS REMARRIAGE! Matt. 19:9; Mark 10:11-12, Matt. 5:32; Luke 16:18; Romans 7:3; 1 Corinthians 7:39

    • @Jesusbride515
      @Jesusbride515 Рік тому

      Exactly!!! Jesus is coming back for a pure bride and many will be left behind because of divorce and remarriage adultery. Jesus doesn’t lie!!! God bless you for saying this.

    • @Jesusbride515
      @Jesusbride515 Рік тому

      Do you believe in the trinity? Even people who understand divorce and remarriage is adultery are oneness Pentecostal’s. It’s really sad. Most churches are not preaching the truth on this.

  • @Indiscrazyworld
    @Indiscrazyworld Рік тому +1

    AMEN

  • @p.harvey4401
    @p.harvey4401 Рік тому +1

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    @EssiesGurl Рік тому

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  • @terica5234
    @terica5234 Рік тому +1

    ❤❤