How I ACTUALLY became more confident

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  • @crystal1150
    @crystal1150 3 місяці тому +50

    The 2nd stage is like "fake it until you make it".

  • @kayp4273
    @kayp4273 3 місяці тому +112

    Bro uploads at just the RIGHT TIME I swear. Thank you. To whoever is scrolling the comments I hope your confidence levels sky rocket. 💯

    • @Azul-Rawr
      @Azul-Rawr 3 місяці тому +3

      FRFR I NEEDED THIS CAUSE NO ONE ELSE GON’ DO IT FOR ME, oop-

    • @pangoenglizh9170
      @pangoenglizh9170 3 місяці тому +1

      For real! Same for me too!

    • @coolxuan
      @coolxuan 3 місяці тому +1

      same xd

  • @stannctbeforeubecomeamember
    @stannctbeforeubecomeamember 3 місяці тому +38

    You and the wizardliz are the only ones that have benefited me 😭💕 I’m really thankful

    • @junay-lk5nj
      @junay-lk5nj 3 місяці тому +8

      Forreal,im with you on that one.Their advice ain't generic and it's actually original

  • @bluemacaroons
    @bluemacaroons 3 місяці тому +11

    Makes sense bc i did well at gcses by putting in a lot of hard work and i was confident bc i managed to get top grades. But then i regressed during a levels from overconfidence thinking i could get the same results with less work and staying in a friend group that is fine with getting mediocre grades and weren’t consistently driven. I thought it would have been better to help improve my social skills bc in gcses i just got pissed that nobody i knew was that concerned with getting the best grades. But it didn’t and I’m just as anxious as i was back then. I don’t entirely regret it bc it made me realise things i didn’t before. But i think i was stupid to think i could do just as well without the work

  • @RegulusBlack-zh6vf
    @RegulusBlack-zh6vf 3 місяці тому +15

    Always keeping it simple yet deep!

  • @Realdeeds.
    @Realdeeds. 3 місяці тому +30

    Bro, when i subscribed to your channel back in aug 2023 or something, you had like 90k or something subs back, then in less than a year, you have like 273k subs . Which proves that your videos are superbbbbb(you aldready know it lol) thank you for guiding my life and I hope your channel grows more and more as your content is what teenagers these days actually need.

    • @foo_dz
      @foo_dz 3 місяці тому

      20k off lol

    • @MeeanjStyles
      @MeeanjStyles 3 місяці тому +1

      Yes , I can't believe it's been about 1 year from I found this channel

  • @OkuhleKunene-yh5jp
    @OkuhleKunene-yh5jp 3 місяці тому +4

    I have been watching your videos and u have made a difference in my lfe

  • @Sathvika-g
    @Sathvika-g 3 місяці тому +17

    I think this was what i needed to stop just blinding believing in my self to actually start putting in the effort and work towards the thing i want to achieve. Thanks a bunch ruff. love the real talks.

  • @Reyes_L
    @Reyes_L 3 місяці тому +18

    What I learnt from this video
    1. There are 3 stages to confidence
    2. Stage one is unconfident, you have no evidence so you’re unconfident. No evidence=no confidence
    3. Stage two is ego. You’re confident but you don’t have evidence. This stage is important as having ego will push ourselves to work harder to get evidence
    3. Stage three is true confidence. You have evidence so know your confident. “True confidence is not built by screaming affirmations at the wall, it’s built by having a stack of undeniable proof that we are who we say we are”

  • @Livelaughlovelaw7
    @Livelaughlovelaw7 3 місяці тому +5

    I've been failing exams recently this year, but ever since I found this channel, it has helped me a lot🙏 THIS IS ACTUALLY GETTING ME MOTIVATED INSTEAD OF ME STILL LAYING DOWN AND WATCHING PHONE ONE EVERY SOCIAL EVERYDAY🙏 so thanks for your existance💯

  • @kritidwivedi8803
    @kritidwivedi8803 3 місяці тому +7

    So I always score in the 90s and I realised from this video that maybe I AM in the ego state. The thing is I have an ample amount of evidence that I can get the same percentage as before but by simply believing I don't take any new actions which makes me stay at the same spot and doesn't let me grow. What I got from the video was
    I believe that I can achieve that certain percentage but I want to grow and do more than that. This mindset can help many...so thanks Ruff❤

  • @MB2005OM
    @MB2005OM 3 місяці тому +3

    One of The Best channel ever,...so raw so pure ☺☺

  • @tejasveegupta2700
    @tejasveegupta2700 3 місяці тому +3

    You you all get up ruff posted another masterpiece!!!!!

  • @saileebaviskar9775
    @saileebaviskar9775 3 місяці тому +4

    Your videos have improved my life a lot

  • @sofia352
    @sofia352 3 місяці тому +7

    Thank you for the videos always!

  • @Milana-mf3wv
    @Milana-mf3wv 3 місяці тому +2

    The more videos I see from his channel, the more I feel like I should change , thanku brother for your efforts 🙏, this efforts is bringing a great change in my life

  • @tronghoatran8183
    @tronghoatran8183 2 місяці тому

    sneako's lowkey the one who got me to start all this self improvement. Hes not the same now

  • @Peterwithanr
    @Peterwithanr 3 місяці тому +4

    RUFF AT IT AGAINNNNN LESSGOOOO

    • @difevfx3275
      @difevfx3275 3 місяці тому

      Ok egyp

    • @Peterwithanr
      @Peterwithanr 3 місяці тому +1

      @@difevfx3275 ok nige- damn wait you were setting me up?

  • @karamdeepkaur5039
    @karamdeepkaur5039 3 місяці тому +3

    Thank you Ruff, I was feeling Under confident cause I do really good in studies (but few years back its was even more) and When I got enough to be in the Top 7 persons but fell back from The top 3 and even 1 sometimes It hurted me and my Ego I know But this video fueled me as I’m starting a new journey This year for college and finished hs I’ll keep on building the confidence and Trying to improve myself and Grow,Thank you for your gem of videos 🙏🏻❤️
    P.S. Love the quote and The way you tell us about the stories and where you are in this journey. Really you‘re Amazing🧿

  • @notimetoexplain4213
    @notimetoexplain4213 3 місяці тому

    This man manages to scare me whenever he uploads, keep cooking 🗣🗣🗣

  • @RameshSolanki-b8u
    @RameshSolanki-b8u 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you 🙏

  • @BlueTheBlueGuy
    @BlueTheBlueGuy 3 місяці тому +2

    I needed that

  • @Ss_2726
    @Ss_2726 3 місяці тому +2

    we all are egotistical. mere identification as 'I am' is egotistical. we are not the body or the mind.

  • @nitro_0_5
    @nitro_0_5 3 місяці тому

    im around 14, my brother is an overachiever and pushing me to do more and your videos are exactly what i needed. I went from gaming every day to Bs in school and i am not finished

  • @SophiaLee-cu5bo
    @SophiaLee-cu5bo 3 місяці тому +2

    just a suggestion, can you do a video on how to start self improvement over the course of summer break? after all it is coming soon. Also I really like ur videos :) thx for the help and guidance from ur vids

  • @itzchip._.
    @itzchip._. 3 місяці тому +2

    first day being the first:o
    thanks, i have social anxiety and thís may help :,)

  • @mofinz
    @mofinz 3 місяці тому +2

    first here! ay keep up the good work man got some good content, really helpful

  • @lucky_asian
    @lucky_asian 3 місяці тому +1

    Thanks for the video papi

  • @johnkel2762
    @johnkel2762 3 місяці тому +1

    I love your videos. Keep it up! ❤

  • @DestivaKukurice
    @DestivaKukurice 3 місяці тому +1

    This is really useful

  • @XiaNicoleJacob
    @XiaNicoleJacob 3 місяці тому

    Love you ruff

  • @Yellow.bellow.matchy.fellow
    @Yellow.bellow.matchy.fellow 3 місяці тому +1

    A vid from you so quickly is unexpected but not unwelcome EHEHEHEHHEHE

  • @invader8292
    @invader8292 3 місяці тому

    congras. you have gotten one truer fan from this video.

  • @bloxxdude
    @bloxxdude 3 місяці тому +3

    YES FOR THE FIRST TIME IM THIS EARLY THOUGH ITS REALLY LATE HERE IN SG, RUFF, pls upload earlier 😭

  • @Sevse-nh3fi
    @Sevse-nh3fi 3 місяці тому

    I guess this could explain why when I study alone I dont feel accomplished. Tests results give me tangible evidence but when Im alone I have to come up with confidence/motivation on my own

  • @WarsaIqbal
    @WarsaIqbal 3 місяці тому

    Thank u, ruff. Your videos are always helpful.

  • @sulaimansiddiqui4907
    @sulaimansiddiqui4907 3 місяці тому

    You know how people say fake it till you make it? it applies to confidence as well. If you act confident even when you dont feel confident, then your confidently being confident.

  • @difevfx3275
    @difevfx3275 3 місяці тому +1

    Nice vid man

  • @OkuhleKunene-yh5jp
    @OkuhleKunene-yh5jp 3 місяці тому +2

    I'm 11y old

  • @ZhenAnthony
    @ZhenAnthony 2 місяці тому

    Time to build evidence for "I'm not a procastinator"

  • @byebyebye970
    @byebyebye970 3 місяці тому +5

    What is your religion?

  • @Keeten.143
    @Keeten.143 3 місяці тому +1

    THANKS MY SCHOOL'S REOPENING-

  • @alishaanthony
    @alishaanthony 3 місяці тому +2

    what about the video about sleep?

  • @Zakkaipuresarcasm
    @Zakkaipuresarcasm 3 місяці тому +1

    So when you talk about ego you don't mean the cocky arrogant side of the word, but the connecting your feelings and self-worth, part of the word or am I misunderstanding?🤔
    Great videos by the way very inspiring and refreshing👍🏽🙃

  • @joshunyek
    @joshunyek 3 місяці тому +7

    u need to bring back the old style editing that isn't just video monologues, it makes it forgettable. bring back the shots of you doing puhsups, going outside, etc.

  • @sunnymonths
    @sunnymonths 3 місяці тому

    Why did you change your desk’s location? I liked the setup 😭

  • @Merrical
    @Merrical 3 місяці тому +1

    Damn

  • @winterbear725
    @winterbear725 3 місяці тому

    You uploaded the vid on the best timeeeeee!!!!! Thank you!!! Ur vids help me out a lott!!!! Thank you! .... Gimme a kiss... Mmmuahhh!!!!! 😂

  • @ruffnot
    @ruffnot 3 місяці тому

    can't i have no ego and go from on confidence to full confidence

  • @salvatorefrasca3883
    @salvatorefrasca3883 3 місяці тому

    Thanks for all the videos Ruff , you are making my life better. What about impostor syndrome, when you have evidence but not confidence ? i got diagnosed with adhd and impostor syndrome is one thing i really struggle plus i dont take medication so its a bit harder

  • @murugeshrithika4034
    @murugeshrithika4034 3 місяці тому +2

    hey ruff, I couldn't be consisten enough tell me a hard trick

  • @preritsharma329
    @preritsharma329 3 місяці тому +2

    Hey! how old are you btw? nice video!

  • @Kurom14
    @Kurom14 2 місяці тому +1

    I think the stage where u have an ego but no evidence (stage 2) u kinda end up having to prove yourself to yourself otherwise ur ego will b hurt??? And then you end up pushing yourself to do more and then u have the evidence to back up ur confidence

    • @Kurom14
      @Kurom14 2 місяці тому +1

      And like if u don't put the effort in to prove yourself and let yourself down it only fuels you to do smth abt it so u won't have to feel that way???

  • @devyanichavan-h2n
    @devyanichavan-h2n 3 місяці тому +1

    hello!!

  • @lowkey_nugg3t
    @lowkey_nugg3t 3 місяці тому +2

    Can you do a face reveal

  • @5fbycdgfdr
    @5fbycdgfdr 3 місяці тому

    Indian 🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳

  • @ramshapalla3742
    @ramshapalla3742 3 місяці тому

    👍

  • @blexed.833
    @blexed.833 3 місяці тому

    The old setup was good🙁

  • @ItsMeYolan
    @ItsMeYolan 3 місяці тому +1

    Video's audio aint to loud

  • @snowchwn
    @snowchwn 3 місяці тому +1

    we need face reveal

  • @Graciiegrace
    @Graciiegrace 3 місяці тому

    What happens if you have the evidence but still not the confidence.. 😭

  • @Switchofyourphone
    @Switchofyourphone 3 місяці тому +1

    .

  • @tantdelight5712
    @tantdelight5712 3 місяці тому

    😂😂 fav imagination? "Imagine Elon musk lost all his companion today" I love your videos

  • @Azul-Rawr
    @Azul-Rawr 3 місяці тому

    6:00 8:30 am i the only one that started to tear up or am i just really sensitive..😀

  • @ElCyber69420
    @ElCyber69420 3 місяці тому +2

    2 mins 56 views, fallen off fr lol

    • @PatFB6492
      @PatFB6492 3 місяці тому

      Idk if he needs yt to survive

  • @ogpublic1
    @ogpublic1 3 місяці тому +2

    BROOO!pls,this unedited shit doesn't look good
    I mean do not edit the video but atleast,subtitles!!

  • @starmiiee
    @starmiiee 3 місяці тому +1

    first (23rd)

  • @Concorde002
    @Concorde002 3 місяці тому

    bro youre the one wearing a face mask

    • @Kazuhasabs
      @Kazuhasabs 3 місяці тому +1

      The mask is probably a privacy thing not related to confidence

  • @proka_66
    @proka_66 3 місяці тому +5

    Bro you fell off so hard only 13 views in 10 seconds

    • @Peterwithanr
      @Peterwithanr 3 місяці тому +2

      Omg ur so cool commenting this OMG just shut up with ur 3 subs, joke detected , words token back

    • @proka_66
      @proka_66 3 місяці тому

      @@Peterwithanr It is a joke chill out

  • @creeperfury
    @creeperfury 3 місяці тому

    Are you really confident if you put a museruola in your face?

  • @cashiewputh7340
    @cashiewputh7340 3 місяці тому

    Said by the person who always hides his face

  • @krishiv1292
    @krishiv1292 3 місяці тому

    Your videos slowly becoming more and more repetitive

  • @LPSsparkleNight
    @LPSsparkleNight 3 місяці тому +1

    You talk about "confidence" but wear a mask in every video.

    • @stannctbeforeubecomeamember
      @stannctbeforeubecomeamember 3 місяці тому +3

      He doesn’t talk about being confident about looks in this video, also how do you know the reason for his mask is insecurity?

    • @somebodynobody218
      @somebodynobody218 3 місяці тому +3

      It's for privacy purposes

    • @Kazuhasabs
      @Kazuhasabs 3 місяці тому

      It’s probs for privacy not confidence

  • @mebakyabum4032
    @mebakyabum4032 3 місяці тому

    Ruff always making us belief in ourselves thank you for breaking it to us in such a simple way...🫢