fr. the best way for influencers to apologize when the do something like colleen or shane, is to fall off the face of the earth and spare our ears and eyes from terrible songs! 😃
The fact she didn’t really address it and actually apologize is infuriating. She literally sent kids inappropriate things to MINORS and also had people come after Adam and send him death threats and raid his house is even worse. Also the poses she made kids do in live shows and the clips that show 9 year olds having to stick their hands down her pants is disgusting. She deserves every last but if hate that people give to her.
She talked like 2 minutes about what she did, didn’t say sorry, and then blamed it on us, calling us ‘toxic’ and ‘not having information’ and ‘spreading rumors’ like, dude, actually apologize, Colleen.
@@Thatprrrr it wasn’t even that tbh she barely said what exactly she did all she said in it was “I did bad things but stop talking about it because I don’t like it” 😪
The thing that bothered me the most about the entire situation is how there is LITERAL PROOF. If she would’ve genuinely showed the tiniest ounce of remorse for the victims and maybe even reached out to them and tried to have a conversation people wouldn’t have reacted this way. You would think a woman in her late 30’s would be able to take accountability it baffles me that she can’t just be the bigger person and say she’s sorry
I don’t even think we can consider Colleen’s videos as an apology.. all she did as gaslight people into thinking she did nothing wrong and that she wasn’t a creep. She is ridiculous.
I used to love watching, “Haters back off”, Miranda was just the funniest character and was so silly. I can’t believe Colleen would do something like this.
less people take accountability and just give nothing as their "apology," making a statement is so different than addressing and apologizing for things edit: typo smh
Here is my drama: So basically me and this friend got along really well during school and when we graduated she said "I hope we don't loose contact over summer." so i have been trying to make plans and stuff but she just wont follow through and make plans or says she's busy, and also she keeps blocking my other friend and i don't know what to do.
Babe, the best thing you can do is just let that friend go. If you are making plans/arrangements and they just arent following through, they aren’t worth your time and effort of staying in contact. If they wanted to, they would show that and put in the same effort. If you aren’t benefiting anything from this friendship it isnt worth it to try. Yeah, its selfish, but being selfish about this type of situation is a good thing. Again, if they arent very clearly showing they care about the situation, it isnt worth your time. (😼 I hope I could give u sum advice)
I feel so bad for trisha because she was just a joke to colleen and didn't even view her has a person. Trisha thought colleen was a friend and colleen was sending her (trishas) ADULT photos to minors and making fun of her body with groups of people which is horrible and truly shows how disgusting colleen is.
I watched my first episode of this podcast yesterday and let me tell you.. Ben has given me entertainment in the best way. I love these podcasts! They’re my form of keeping up with the news. Forget TV or radio stations.. DRAMA MAMA is here. Edit: Here’s my drama……… ……..Okay, so it all starts with the fact that I’m going to a whole new school next week! I don’t know what to do.. should I try to be more social than I actually am or just stick to being myself? I’m confused and a little scared. Thank you!
It’s crazy how she is accused of being a child groomer and she apologizes with a song… like wtf And it wasn’t even an apology it was a denial of it ever happening
One girl I used to be friends with became really upset with me because she was trying to be friends with the boy I liked, but she didnt realize that boy hated her and she blamed it on me. She's rlly annoying but she thinks everyone loves her. should I tell her?
hi ben here's my 'drama'. i dated this guy from the start of the year and we recently broke up but have not really properly ended things. my mental health was deteriorating and that resulted in him getting frustrated at me and calling our relationship a burden to him, i still see him almost every day around school and im not sure whether to cut him off completely because i want closure, or if i should just leave it (i sit next to him in physics, its not fun)
But also its disgusting how she voilated a 17 year old's girls body. She also didn't address about that in her "apoliogie" video, she only brought up the things that people were saying that weren't true. And yes people made some rumors but what about the things that were true. Going into your fans dms and say have u lost ur virginity or talking about you know what. She also was saying im just here to take accountablity for her actions even though she didn't. Your not the victim here. She just needs to be canceled. Oh wait she is. Grow up.
if you're talking about the young girl on stage, I'm pretty sure she was in her early teens/late tweens. Adam was 17 but the girl on stage had to of been much younger
@@Nora-fm9qq It's oddly clever, I mean the video was disgusting and I hate how she "responded" to the things about her, but it kind of does feel like she made that as a last middle finger to the whole youtube community.
Another « apology » that comes to mind is that one tiktoker that did an interpretive dance about her still being young and still learning 😭 forgot her name but she was a body positivity person i think?
Drama shit: I’m a guy, I knew I liked guys to an extent but I hated the way I was treated for it, and I went to the mental hospital, saw a boy, we made friends, came out of the mental hospital, and were still friends. It’s been a couple months now but I am 100% in love with him and he’s bi, but he shows zero emotion and I’m scared to talk to him about it.
I think the reason behind colleen"s peculiar way of apologizing is bc she didn't want to be like any other youtubers apology video she wanted to stand out more and to show that she was coming from heart but also try to be received well unlike the other youtuber apology video but that obviously didn't go like how she wanted .It backfired. not that i am justifying any of her actions at all or i stand by what she said she was VERY wrong let me make that clear.take this with a grain of salt...
they should really just say ''im sorry for what ive done i know what i did was wrong and if you want to unfollow or do anything like that just know i understand. i really hope yall can forgive me it was a really dumb thing to do and just know i love all of yall.''
My drama is this girl who has been rude to me my entire life and treated me like a pet when we were friends cheated on my boy bsf and has reeked havoc on me and my friends is attacking my healthy relationship and when I defend myself she threatens with calling the cops or getting me suspended should I tell her off or js let it go
My ex bestie found out i was gay- and started rumors about me now she is acting like the victim and blocked me and now wants to be friends again what do I do?
Spoken] Hey It's been a while since you saw my face I haven't been doing so great So I took a little break A lot of people are saying some things about me that aren't quite true Doesn't matter if it's true, though Just as long as it's entertaining to you, right? You guys having fun? [Chorus] All aboard the toxic gossip train Chugging down the tracks of misinformation The toxic gossip train You got a one-way ticket to manipulation station Toxic gossip train Tie me to the tracks and harass me for my past Those rumors look like facts if you don't mind the gaps I won't survive in the crash, but hey At least you're havin' fun [Spoken] Uh, hi, everyone I've been wanting to come online and talk to you about a few things Um, even though my team has strongly advised me to not say what I want to say I recently realized that they never said that I couldn't sing what I wanna say, so Here I am, and, um, today I only wanna talk about the facts So, I hope that you'll be willing to listen Here we go Many years ago, I used to message my fans Uh, but not in a creepy way like a lot of you are trying to suggest It was more of a loser kind of way Where I was just trying to be besties with everybody It was kinda like, uh, when you go to like a family gathering, you know? And there's a weird aunt there who keeps coming up to you and going like "Hey, girl, what's the tea!" And you're like "Ehhh" Um, that was me, but in group chats with my fans, it was weird You might also like Beauty and the Beat Boots Todrick Hall You’re Losing Me (From The Vault) Taylor Swift Cupid (Twin Version) FIFTY FIFTY (피프티피프티) [Verse 1] I've been sharing my life online for over 15 years I've poured my heart out to you and because of that I feel Like I'm talking to my friends, but, in the beginning of my career I didn't really understand that maybe there should be some boundaries there There were times in the DMs when I would overshare Details of my life, which was really weird of me I haven't done that for years, you see Because I changed my behavior, and I took accountability [Spoken] But that's not very interesting, is it? [Chorus] So let's go on the toxic gossip train The locomotive's fueled with hateful accusations The toxic gossip train Steamroll over someone's reputation Toxic gossip train Hop on board, but close your eyes, otherwise you'll realize That the train is made of lies and that person you despise Maybe didn't deserve to die But hey, at least you're havin' fun [Spoken] In all seriousness, I do think it's really important to hold people accountable for their mistakes Um, y'know, we should hope that everyone can learn from their mistakes And grow, and change their behavior, and be a better person This is something that I've always tried to do when I make mistakes And is something that I will continue to try t- what? Oh, you don't care? Oh, okay [Verse 2] I thought you wanted me to take accountability But that's not the point of your mob mentality, is it? No Your goal is to ruin the life of the person you despise While you dramatize your lies and monetize their demise [Spoken] Yeah, um, I feel like I can already hear the comments on this video "She's gaslighting, manipulating!" "Ugh, she's a narcissist and a rat!" "I would never make a mistake like that." [Verse 3] Oh, I'm sorry I didn't realize That all of you are perfect, so please, criticize me Bring out the daggers made from your perfect past And stab me repeatedly in my bony little back I'm sure you're disappointed in my shitty little song I know that you wanted me to say that I was 100% in the wrong Well, I'm sorry, I'm not gonna take that route Of admitting to lies and rumors that you made up for clout [Verse 4] "Hey everybody, I found someone new to harass She did some things that I do not like, in her past So everybody, gather 'round, 'cause we're about to attack" But not based on facts, oh no Your loaded lethal weapon is your fingers on the keys You don't need any armor when you can hide behind a screen So, shoot me down, quick, with a click, and bam My reputation's deceased [Spoken] Uh, I also wanted to take a minute to talk about that girl, Miranda Sings You know the one, yeah her Uh, she's PG-13, it says that on my website [Verse 5] And it's always been that way And that's why you won't find my videos on the UA-cam Kids app Anyway, um, I didn't realize it was my responsibility To decide what was appropriate for every kid to see I've always relied on parents to decide if they're comfortable With their families watching my UA-cam videos or coming to my live shows Now, have I made some jokes in poor taste? Yes Have I made lots of dumb mistakes? Yes Am I sad that there's some fans that feel betrayed? Yes But was my intention to manipulate? No [Spoken] It doesn't really matter what my intention was 'Cause it seems as though everyone's already decided on that Let me tell you, it's not very fun to have millions of people all over the world Call you the most vile, horrendous, disgusting, life-ruining words That a person can be called, in my opinion Um, it doesn't matter that these things aren't true Uh, everyone just believes that you are the type of person who manipulates and abuses children So, I just wanted to say that, um The only thing that I've ever groomed is my two Persian cats I'm not a groomer, I'm just a loser [Verse 6] Who didn't understand I shouldn't respond to fans And I'm not a predator even though a lot of you think so Because 5 years ago, I made a fart joke So, even though I know this video won't change anyone's mind about me I still felt it was important to come on here and defend myself a little And take accountability And I also wanted to say that To anyone out there who has ever supported me in any capacity [Spoken] I really, really appreciate you, thank you For what it's worth, I never had any bad intentions But I do feel like shit [Chorus] The toxic gossip train Chugging down the tracks of misinformation Toxic gossip train You got a one way ticket to manipulation station Toxic gossip train You tied me to the tracks and harassed me for my past Rumors look like facts when you don't mind the gaps I won't survive in the crash, but hey Hope you had some fun [Spoken] Actually, y'know, I feel like maybe I should let you guys know something, um Seems like, maybe you're confused about something? I don't know Let me try to help, um [Outro] Sometimes people make a mistake and it doesn't make them a horrible person, whoa Sometimes people can make a mistake and they're still a good person Crazy, I know Sometimes people can make a mistake and you don't have to take that mistake, oh no And twist it up, and grind it, and add some lies to it, and pulverize it And stab it with knives, and ruin a life, and, oh no Sometimes people can make a mistake, it doesn't mean you gotta send them hate, oh no Sometimes people can make a mistake and you can kindly let them know, and help them to grow Sometimes people make mistakes, simply because they made a mistake? And that mistake doesn't make them a terrible human It just makes them a human [Spoken] But what do I know? Fuck me, right?
heyy ben ily and i need advice so here’s my drama- last year i had become best friends with someone, but this year i started to get closer with other people. is it right for them to say i’m replacing them after they had replaced me times before? (there super toxic btw and didn’t comfort me at all in dark times)
Drama of the week: So, my brother is extremely obnoxious, and when I get older, I am thinking of cutting contact with him. He calls me names, acts like he's smarter than me, and coaxes my parents into thinking I'm in the wrong. He thinks that just because he is in football, he has a rite of passage to do horrid shit to me, and sometimes my family, going as far as to almost hit my mom. My main question is, should I cut contact with him?
Just don’t talk to him, block/remove his number and all social media, don’t tell him where you move and see if you can also inform your parents of you not wanting him to know. Other than that, I’m very sorry about the situation and seriously hope things change for the better for you AND your family.
@@bigheartbigboobs_ thank you, but the sad thing is, one, I'm 14, two, he's my twin, and three, we share a bedroom, so I'm kinda stuck with him, but I still thank you for your advice
@@bigheartbigboobs_ no worries, you did nothing wrong, but fr though, and I already have enough problems as it is (mostly including my weight, but I've been losing some). But still, thank you.
my drama : i normally hang out with my cousins, because i’m lonely, and lately (not lately it’s always happened) after about an hour of hanging out they just run off without telling me where they’re going. i have just more or so, stopped wanting to hangout with them as this is the final straw, they’ve talked behind my back, got me into drama/in trouble without a reason, etc. i want to confront them, how should i? or should i just cut them off?
🚨dramamamm story 🚨 i have this friend(online) who likes me and is very weird about it. i dont like her back and usually i dont make people feel bad if they like me because you can’t control it. some examples would be: i was talking about my crush and she got all salty and said “im better” ,or when i talk abt my interests she suddenly knows everything abt it any advice on how to slowly drift from her? theres so much more but the limit is 3 sentences
Not to mention miranda is a character she made from one of her DISABLED family members, at this point nobody is apologising, just using it as an opportunity to get more views. The fact that this situation made trisha paytas genuinely be mature really says how hurt she is.
Hi Ben! I loved this episode bcz its honestly facts about this ✨disgusting✨ topic lol Heres the dRaMa for me: So I have been friends with these girls and apparently recently one of the girls, we'll call her H, found out that the others girls were calling her a pick-me, toxic, and other rude things. If im honest, H can sometimes be a slight bit annoying and although it may seem rude, toxic. However, I have been growing closer with H than the other girls and feel bad taking the opposite side. I love all of them and am not sure if I will ruin one friendship by taking the side of the other. What should I do? 😞
my drama is abt sh so if u read pls give TW but its that my best friend since i was 2 was bullying me cuz i used to cut myself when i was 9-11 (im 13 now) and is now mad at me for not talking to him when i already said 2 times that was wrong and i wouldn’t hang out with him anymore if he didn’t apologize and he still hasn’t after 1 1/2 months what should i do also sorry if this is kinda venting i just really need some advice also if you’re reading this ilysm ben you’re part of the reason i stopped
ok i have a drama!!!!! IT MIGHT BE LONG IM SORRY. me and my friend were in a fight (ill call her rose) rose told my other friend abt me and her (roses) sister going on vacay together after she swore not to, and also like ever since we've been friends she always says mean stuff abt me to her sister (my bestfriend) and im finally fed up with it. yesterday me, rose, roses friend, and roses sister went to see fireworks for the 4th of july and rose and me just hit started talking like nothing happened. after the 4 of us had a sleepover and it was super fun but idk if i should just forgive her that easily. BTW BEN ILYSM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Okay, here's my drama. I got groomed by an administrator at my school. And here's why, I met this administrator on my 3rd or 4th day of school and she reminded me of my aunt (not my real aunt, family friend.) So, I started to talk to this administrator and I was kind to her, I'd give her her favorite candy and would say hi to her whenever I saw her, we'd hug and she'd tell me that she loved me. Long story short, I trusted her by telling her things that has been going on in my friend group (my friend group were bad influences... To put it short.) And this administrator gathered other administrators to have me suspended from school for six months. SIX MONTHS! (Btw, I dmed you her phone number so that you can prank call her in your next prank call series.) 😭
Hi Ben first of all love your videos but I have a little drama So I've liked this guy for a few months and we talk and text sometimes but I just found out he has a gf. I don't wanna be "that person" and like wanna say I I him for myself or anything bc im a very shy person but I honestly thought he could've had feelings for me. Idk what to do but I just keep talking/texting as a normal and he still has no clue :/ what should I do?
My drama, I have this friend who kept gaslighting me and making me always to look the bad person I tried breaking of the friendship atleast three times but I did'nt really have anybody else, then one day she just blew up on me and I told her we didnt have to be friends if she didnt want to, she told everyone I was the one who got mad at her, her friends who dont even know me started talking trash about me, What do you think I shoud'lve done?
"my managers said I shouldn't say anything about it, so I'm gonna sing it :D" tf, no. You asked for nudes from a 14 year old and used the excuse that he was gay, to make it acceptable. And the fact that she has her own family is even more upsetting. Its not gossip Colleen, its fact. There are screenshots of the messages, AND thousands of people saw you ask for a kid to put his hands down your pants. So who's gossiping now?
Colleen’s video isn’t even an apology. She shouldn’t have even just sung for the video or whatever. She should have addressed the situation. I feel so bad for the minors who have been involved with anything Colleen has done.
people don’t know how to apologize anymore 💀💀
fr. the best way for influencers to apologize when the do something like colleen or shane, is to fall off the face of the earth and spare our ears and eyes from terrible songs! 😃
Lol
Fr man...
all aboard the toxic gossip train !!🙈
chugging down the tracks of misinformation !! 😘
The fact she didn’t really address it and actually apologize is infuriating. She literally sent kids inappropriate things to MINORS and also had people come after Adam and send him death threats and raid his house is even worse. Also the poses she made kids do in live shows and the clips that show 9 year olds having to stick their hands down her pants is disgusting. She deserves every last but if hate that people give to her.
Danm... I know that am a random person on the internet but I feel very bad for Adam I hope he's doing ok.
she also made a kid shove their hand down her pants at a live show.
Who’s Adam?
@@KaiKailuv one of the victims
Adam did not deserve that at all but his response to the video is so hilarious 😂
She talked like 2 minutes about what she did, didn’t say sorry, and then blamed it on us, calling us ‘toxic’ and ‘not having information’ and ‘spreading rumors’ like, dude, actually apologize, Colleen.
A SOB for that.
I hate that people keep calling Colleen’s video an apology because it literally wasn’t even an apology 😭
THAT'S WHAT I'M SAYING
it was literally just “youre wrong and you should feel bad for me”
I think Annamarie's term "acknowledgement video" should be used more
@@Thatprrrr it wasn’t even that tbh she barely said what exactly she did all she said in it was “I did bad things but stop talking about it because I don’t like it” 😪
extremely off topic but kenny pfp
no cause when I was watching Colleen's vid, my jaw DROPPED TO THE FLOOR. I don't think people know how to apologise anymore lmaooo
Nah, cuz SAME. I was like "There IS NO WAY this is the way she apologized..." I was so disappointed in her😭💀
calling her video an apology is actually incorrect since she never said “i’m sorry”
She did say sorry…
That we thought that she owed anyone an apology :/
She did say sorry watch it again
“well,i’m sorry,i’m not gonna take that route” basically saying she’s sorry that she’s not sorry
@@UwUskaynot for what she did 💀💀
The thing that bothered me the most about the entire situation is how there is LITERAL PROOF. If she would’ve genuinely showed the tiniest ounce of remorse for the victims and maybe even reached out to them and tried to have a conversation people wouldn’t have reacted this way. You would think a woman in her late 30’s would be able to take accountability it baffles me that she can’t just be the bigger person and say she’s sorry
I don’t even think we can consider Colleen’s videos as an apology.. all she did as gaslight people into thinking she did nothing wrong and that she wasn’t a creep. She is ridiculous.
“Gaslight”💀💀💀 as if anyone believed her
@@13._.1she still has genuine supporters over this who go “i never believed a thing!” lalalalala
the worst part is that young children who are too young to understand will continue to support her and be gaslit and groomed
the way she planned that video out, thought up the song, wrote the lyrics, recorded it, took MULTIPLE takes, captioned it, and posted it
I used to love watching, “Haters back off”, Miranda was just the funniest character and was so silly. I can’t believe Colleen would do something like this.
I hated haters back off
@@kennethmccormick4744 why? And how? It was hilarious
i also used to love watching her show and channel and then i grew out of it and saw all of this
@@deziswiththebandI always thought of watching it again but I had always put it off. But now that I’ve seen this! Hell nah
@@officiallychelz6508 I just never found it funny, and I always thought it was such a weird show when I was young
These "apologies" are literally outrageous
Ikr…
It's wild how people get away with these things😰🙈
Ikr
These influencers getting brushed off as “being canceled” and not actual criminals is crazy. They don’t get punished, and they really need too…
IKR like there's proof on the internet but the police be like : 👨🦯👨🦯👨🦯 👀 ❌
less people take accountability and just give nothing as their "apology," making a statement is so different than addressing and apologizing for things
edit: typo smh
“i’m not a groomer, just a loser”
well congratulations we have the number 1 over achiever of the year!
Here is my drama:
So basically me and this friend got along really well during school and when we graduated she said "I hope we don't loose contact over summer." so i have been trying to make plans and stuff but she just wont follow through and make plans or says she's busy, and also she keeps blocking my other friend and i don't know what to do.
Babe, the best thing you can do is just let that friend go. If you are making plans/arrangements and they just arent following through, they aren’t worth your time and effort of staying in contact. If they wanted to, they would show that and put in the same effort. If you aren’t benefiting anything from this friendship it isnt worth it to try. Yeah, its selfish, but being selfish about this type of situation is a good thing. Again, if they arent very clearly showing they care about the situation, it isnt worth your time.
(😼 I hope I could give u sum advice)
Ben never misses, i dont like podcasts but I love Bens cause he’s always saying facts
@@mini.moooon right! He always manages to put a smile on my face 💕
People can get away with things so easily by doing the smallest things
People have forgotten how to apologize... especially Colleen 💀
luv her
@@madrasaseries😟
I SAW THE TITLE AND IMMEDIATELY KNEW WHAT IT WAS GONNA BE ABOUT😭😭
The "Not a groomer!.. just a loser" bit of her song reminds me of those "But i guess I deserved it... heh.. :/" people 💀
Fr👀..
I feel so bad for trisha because she was just a joke to colleen and didn't even view her has a person. Trisha thought colleen was a friend and colleen was sending her (trishas) ADULT photos to minors and making fun of her body with groups of people which is horrible and truly shows how disgusting colleen is.
all aboard the toxic gossip train!! 🤗
I used to LOVE her when I was little, and now finding out she’s a child groomer is just..literally heartbreaking, and absolutely disgusting.
I watched my first episode of this podcast yesterday and let me tell you.. Ben has given me entertainment in the best way. I love these podcasts! They’re my form of keeping up with the news. Forget TV or radio stations.. DRAMA MAMA is here.
Edit: Here’s my drama………
……..Okay, so it all starts with the fact that I’m going to a whole new school next week! I don’t know what to do.. should I try to be more social than I actually am or just stick to being myself? I’m confused and a little scared. Thank you!
That isn't "I'm sorry 😔😔" thats "I'm gaslighting people 😫😫"
No because Colleen ballingers apology video made me physically ill
When she pulled up with the ukulele i had officially lost faith in humanity🥰
It’s crazy how she is accused of being a child groomer and she apologizes with a song… like wtf
And it wasn’t even an apology it was a denial of it ever happening
It's crazy how creators today can get away with basically anything for a few years before getting called out for their actions.
the way she didn’t apologize yet she says she took accountability???💀
colleen knowing she's done for after they tell her she can't bring her ukelele :😥
One girl I used to be friends with became really upset with me because she was trying to be friends with the boy I liked, but she didnt realize that boy hated her and she blamed it on me. She's rlly annoying but she thinks everyone loves her. should I tell her?
Yes that is toxic behavior
hi ben here's my 'drama'. i dated this guy from the start of the year and we recently broke up but have not really properly ended things. my mental health was deteriorating and that resulted in him getting frustrated at me and calling our relationship a burden to him, i still see him almost every day around school and im not sure whether to cut him off completely because i want closure, or if i should just leave it (i sit next to him in physics, its not fun)
I WAS WAITING FOR THIS EPISODE
But also its disgusting how she voilated a 17 year old's girls body. She also didn't address about that in her "apoliogie" video, she only brought up the things that people were saying that weren't true. And yes people made some rumors but what about the things that were true. Going into your fans dms and say have u lost ur virginity or talking about you know what. She also was saying im just here to take accountablity for her actions even though she didn't. Your not the victim here. She just needs to be canceled. Oh wait she is. Grow up.
if you're talking about the young girl on stage, I'm pretty sure she was in her early teens/late tweens. Adam was 17 but the girl on stage had to of been much younger
i already know this is gonna be a good episode
Colleen isnt sorry, she’s scared and panicking abt The fact that her career Is deteriorating. She’s trying to convince ppp to feel sorry for her
fr. she’s getting attention that she hasn’t had in while. she kinda fell off so maybe this was her way to make a (bad) comeback to fame 😭
imagine she comes back with an even shitter video like "y'all are just hatrs!121211"
@@Nora-fm9qq It's oddly clever, I mean the video was disgusting and I hate how she "responded" to the things about her, but it kind of does feel like she made that as a last middle finger to the whole youtube community.
I was literally just thinking “Ben is gonna do a podcast about coleens apology”
Me too lol
FR BRO
Colleen's vid wasn't even an "apology" vid it was a defense video
She had NO RIGHT making that apology so catchy tho
@@silvsin_66 chugging down the tracks of manipulationnn
@@pinkdiorrr🤓actually it’s *misinformation* ☝️
She stole the chords from Bo burnham Istg
@@Ilovetoxicyuri lmao
@@Ilovetoxicyuriactually there’s two different parts🤓☝️
colleen embarrasses herself even more every day
Another « apology » that comes to mind is that one tiktoker that did an interpretive dance about her still being young and still learning 😭 forgot her name but she was a body positivity person i think?
Siana may(idk how to spell her name)
i ran as fast as i could 🙏🏼 I WAITED FOR U TO POST AB THIS
If you ever apologize you should know what your getting into
I really feel like me and ben are going back and forth gossiping because of how we're both sitting and looking shocked 😭
we need to talk abt sienna maes fucking DANCE apology
i literally love this podcast with every blood speck in my body
Bro same
I CLICKED ON A RANDOM VIDEO AND GOT JUMP SCARED BY BEN OF THE WEEK HELP
Drama shit: I’m a guy, I knew I liked guys to an extent but I hated the way I was treated for it, and I went to the mental hospital, saw a boy, we made friends, came out of the mental hospital, and were still friends. It’s been a couple months now but I am 100% in love with him and he’s bi, but he shows zero emotion and I’m scared to talk to him about it.
I think the reason behind colleen"s peculiar way of apologizing is bc she didn't want to be like any other youtubers apology video she wanted to stand out more and to show that she was coming from heart but also try to be received well unlike the other youtuber apology video but that obviously didn't go like how she wanted .It backfired. not that i am justifying any of her actions at all or i stand by what she said she was VERY wrong let me make that clear.take this with a grain of salt...
It’s allways a great day when Ben posts
For real bruh
I agree
Toxic Gossip Train (Collen’s version) (10 minute version)
I’m surprised you didn’t mention the Sienna Mae apology 😭 my god that was so bad especially for what she did
What did she do?
@@Åľŵąÿşřęmëmbēř_øsexually assaulted her best friend at the time and her apology was an interpretive dance.
@@tiasoverycoolthat dude wasn't even her boyfriend he was her best friend
@@Sungspoonmy bad, I thought they were dating
@@tiasoverycool it's ok
i’m not a groomer… just a loser😞 is the same energy as a stereotypical pick me girl
2023 just isn’t real anymore
FRRR💀💀💀
Apology videos always made me cringe. Love you Ben ❤
I honestly love Ben and how he explains things. He’s like the most relatable podcaster I have ever seen
they should really just say ''im sorry for what ive done i know what i did was wrong and if you want to unfollow or do anything like that just know i understand. i really hope yall can forgive me it was a really dumb thing to do and just know i love all of yall.''
How do they even get away with the things they do? like they should be in jail or something
My drama is this girl who has been rude to me my entire life and treated me like a pet when we were friends cheated on my boy bsf and has reeked havoc on me and my friends is attacking my healthy relationship and when I defend myself she threatens with calling the cops or getting me suspended should I tell her off or js let it go
My ex bestie found out i was gay- and started rumors about me now she is acting like the victim and blocked me and now wants to be friends again what do I do?
THEY ARE FAKE
DONT BE FRIENDS WITH THEM‼️‼️
what ever happened to "sorry" ☠️
yess! I was waiting for ben to make this video🙏
we love drama.
100% agree✨✨
@@7_Kiki_7 101% percent agree👍
121% agree✨✨✨
i know this is gonna involve the apology song
Spoken]
Hey
It's been a while since you saw my face
I haven't been doing so great
So I took a little break
A lot of people are saying some things about me that aren't quite true
Doesn't matter if it's true, though
Just as long as it's entertaining to you, right?
You guys having fun?
[Chorus]
All aboard the toxic gossip train
Chugging down the tracks of misinformation
The toxic gossip train
You got a one-way ticket to manipulation station
Toxic gossip train
Tie me to the tracks and harass me for my past
Those rumors look like facts if you don't mind the gaps
I won't survive in the crash, but hey
At least you're havin' fun
[Spoken]
Uh, hi, everyone
I've been wanting to come online and talk to you about a few things
Um, even though my team has strongly advised me to not say what I want to say
I recently realized that they never said that I couldn't sing what I wanna say, so
Here I am, and, um, today I only wanna talk about the facts
So, I hope that you'll be willing to listen
Here we go
Many years ago, I used to message my fans
Uh, but not in a creepy way like a lot of you are trying to suggest
It was more of a loser kind of way
Where I was just trying to be besties with everybody
It was kinda like, uh, when you go to like a family gathering, you know?
And there's a weird aunt there who keeps coming up to you and going like "Hey, girl, what's the tea!"
And you're like "Ehhh"
Um, that was me, but in group chats with my fans, it was weird
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[Verse 1]
I've been sharing my life online for over 15 years
I've poured my heart out to you and because of that I feel
Like I'm talking to my friends, but, in the beginning of my career
I didn't really understand that maybe there should be some boundaries there
There were times in the DMs when I would overshare
Details of my life, which was really weird of me
I haven't done that for years, you see
Because I changed my behavior, and I took accountability
[Spoken]
But that's not very interesting, is it?
[Chorus]
So let's go on the toxic gossip train
The locomotive's fueled with hateful accusations
The toxic gossip train
Steamroll over someone's reputation
Toxic gossip train
Hop on board, but close your eyes, otherwise you'll realize
That the train is made of lies and that person you despise
Maybe didn't deserve to die
But hey, at least you're havin' fun
[Spoken]
In all seriousness, I do think it's really important to hold people accountable for their mistakes
Um, y'know, we should hope that everyone can learn from their mistakes
And grow, and change their behavior, and be a better person
This is something that I've always tried to do when I make mistakes
And is something that I will continue to try t- what?
Oh, you don't care? Oh, okay
[Verse 2]
I thought you wanted me to take accountability
But that's not the point of your mob mentality, is it? No
Your goal is to ruin the life of the person you despise
While you dramatize your lies and monetize their demise
[Spoken]
Yeah, um, I feel like I can already hear the comments on this video
"She's gaslighting, manipulating!"
"Ugh, she's a narcissist and a rat!"
"I would never make a mistake like that."
[Verse 3]
Oh, I'm sorry I didn't realize
That all of you are perfect, so please, criticize me
Bring out the daggers made from your perfect past
And stab me repeatedly in my bony little back
I'm sure you're disappointed in my shitty little song
I know that you wanted me to say that I was 100% in the wrong
Well, I'm sorry, I'm not gonna take that route
Of admitting to lies and rumors that you made up for clout
[Verse 4]
"Hey everybody, I found someone new to harass
She did some things that I do not like, in her past
So everybody, gather 'round, 'cause we're about to attack"
But not based on facts, oh no
Your loaded lethal weapon is your fingers on the keys
You don't need any armor when you can hide behind a screen
So, shoot me down, quick, with a click, and bam
My reputation's deceased
[Spoken]
Uh, I also wanted to take a minute to talk about that girl, Miranda Sings
You know the one, yeah her
Uh, she's PG-13, it says that on my website
[Verse 5]
And it's always been that way
And that's why you won't find my videos on the UA-cam Kids app
Anyway, um, I didn't realize it was my responsibility
To decide what was appropriate for every kid to see
I've always relied on parents to decide if they're comfortable
With their families watching my UA-cam videos or coming to my live shows
Now, have I made some jokes in poor taste? Yes
Have I made lots of dumb mistakes? Yes
Am I sad that there's some fans that feel betrayed? Yes
But was my intention to manipulate? No
[Spoken]
It doesn't really matter what my intention was
'Cause it seems as though everyone's already decided on that
Let me tell you, it's not very fun to have millions of people all over the world
Call you the most vile, horrendous, disgusting, life-ruining words
That a person can be called, in my opinion
Um, it doesn't matter that these things aren't true
Uh, everyone just believes that you are the type of person who manipulates and abuses children
So, I just wanted to say that, um
The only thing that I've ever groomed is my two Persian cats
I'm not a groomer, I'm just a loser
[Verse 6]
Who didn't understand I shouldn't respond to fans
And I'm not a predator even though a lot of you think so
Because 5 years ago, I made a fart joke
So, even though I know this video won't change anyone's mind about me
I still felt it was important to come on here and defend myself a little
And take accountability
And I also wanted to say that
To anyone out there who has ever supported me in any capacity
[Spoken]
I really, really appreciate you, thank you
For what it's worth, I never had any bad intentions
But I do feel like shit
[Chorus]
The toxic gossip train
Chugging down the tracks of misinformation
Toxic gossip train
You got a one way ticket to manipulation station
Toxic gossip train
You tied me to the tracks and harassed me for my past
Rumors look like facts when you don't mind the gaps
I won't survive in the crash, but hey
Hope you had some fun
[Spoken]
Actually, y'know, I feel like maybe I should let you guys know something, um
Seems like, maybe you're confused about something? I don't know
Let me try to help, um
[Outro]
Sometimes people make a mistake and it doesn't make them a horrible person, whoa
Sometimes people can make a mistake and they're still a good person
Crazy, I know
Sometimes people can make a mistake and you don't have to take that mistake, oh no
And twist it up, and grind it, and add some lies to it, and pulverize it
And stab it with knives, and ruin a life, and, oh no
Sometimes people can make a mistake, it doesn't mean you gotta send them hate, oh no
Sometimes people can make a mistake and you can kindly let them know, and help them to grow
Sometimes people make mistakes, simply because they made a mistake?
And that mistake doesn't make them a terrible human
It just makes them a human
[Spoken]
But what do I know?
Fuck me, right?
You literally Ctrl+A'd the genius page.
I can see the "you may also like" heading
@@LeReubzRic yeah, but i’m saving the lyrics for later
@@theodorington oh ok
why did i pause the video and start singing along ☠
@@naenaeoclock it's an EARWIG!!!!!!!!!!!!!
“Groom your kids… JUST KIDDING and if I did that was a long time ago so I’ve learned. I’m not a bad person I’m just so quirky and a loser.”
"I'm not a groomer I'm just a loser😔😔😔 uwu I'm so small omg I'm litteraly such a loner🥺🥺" LIKE SHUT UP U THIRTY YEAR OLD WOMAN WITH A CHILD
the 10 minute video summarized in two sentences.
Nine words, Colleen. “I’m so sorry and take accountability for my actions” like girl
What mic do you use for your podcasts and videos?
heyy ben ily and i need advice so here’s my drama-
last year i had become best friends with someone, but this year i started to get closer with other people. is it right for them to say i’m replacing them after they had replaced me times before? (there super toxic btw and didn’t comfort me at all in dark times)
I love that hes being so serious but says collen ballinger its just what i love abt him
Drama of the week: So, my brother is extremely obnoxious, and when I get older, I am thinking of cutting contact with him. He calls me names, acts like he's smarter than me, and coaxes my parents into thinking I'm in the wrong. He thinks that just because he is in football, he has a rite of passage to do horrid shit to me, and sometimes my family, going as far as to almost hit my mom. My main question is, should I cut contact with him?
Just don’t talk to him, block/remove his number and all social media, don’t tell him where you move and see if you can also inform your parents of you not wanting him to know. Other than that, I’m very sorry about the situation and seriously hope things change for the better for you AND your family.
@@bigheartbigboobs_ thank you, but the sad thing is, one, I'm 14, two, he's my twin, and three, we share a bedroom, so I'm kinda stuck with him, but I still thank you for your advice
@@novavr5 I’m sorry abt that, I’m also 14 and have some family issues, we’ll get thru it together
@@bigheartbigboobs_ no worries, you did nothing wrong, but fr though, and I already have enough problems as it is (mostly including my weight, but I've been losing some). But still, thank you.
my drama : i normally hang out with my cousins, because i’m lonely, and lately (not lately it’s always happened) after about an hour of hanging out they just run off without telling me where they’re going. i have just more or so, stopped wanting to hangout with them as this is the final straw, they’ve talked behind my back, got me into drama/in trouble without a reason, etc. i want to confront them, how should i? or should i just cut them off?
🚨dramamamm story 🚨
i have this friend(online) who likes me and is very weird about it. i dont like her back and usually i dont make people feel bad if they like me because you can’t control it. some examples would be: i was talking about my crush and she got all salty and said “im better” ,or when i talk abt my interests she suddenly knows everything abt it any advice on how to slowly drift from her? theres so much more but the limit is 3 sentences
Tell her how u feel, and if she can't accept that and keeps pushing then it's best to cut her off cause that is IMMEDIATELY a red flag
Not to mention miranda is a character she made from one of her DISABLED family members, at this point nobody is apologising, just using it as an opportunity to get more views. The fact that this situation made trisha paytas genuinely be mature really says how hurt she is.
YES BEN THANK I HAVE BEEN BEGGING AND PRAYING U MAKE A VID ABOUT THIS THX
I always felt uncomfortable watching haters back off so I wouldn't...guess my intuition was right.
Hi Ben! I loved this episode bcz its honestly facts about this ✨disgusting✨ topic lol
Heres the dRaMa for me:
So I have been friends with these girls and apparently recently one of the girls, we'll call her H, found out that the others girls were calling her a pick-me, toxic, and other rude things. If im honest, H can sometimes be a slight bit annoying and although it may seem rude, toxic. However, I have been growing closer with H than the other girls and feel bad taking the opposite side. I love all of them and am not sure if I will ruin one friendship by taking the side of the other.
What should I do? 😞
my drama is abt sh so if u read pls give TW but its that my best friend since i was 2 was bullying me cuz i used to cut myself when i was 9-11 (im 13 now) and is now mad at me for not talking to him when i already said 2 times that was wrong and i wouldn’t hang out with him anymore if he didn’t apologize and he still hasn’t after 1 1/2 months what should i do also sorry if this is kinda venting i just really need some advice also if you’re reading this ilysm ben you’re part of the reason i stopped
I'm sure a five year old would quickly make an apology but a 36 year old couldn't do that ? Seriously..
“Im sorry, what I did was wrong. I have learned from my mistakes.”
It’s THAT simple 🙄
ok i have a drama!!!!! IT MIGHT BE LONG IM SORRY. me and my friend were in a fight (ill call her rose) rose told my other friend abt me and her (roses) sister going on vacay together after she swore not to, and also like ever since we've been friends she always says mean stuff abt me to her sister (my bestfriend) and im finally fed up with it. yesterday me, rose, roses friend, and roses sister went to see fireworks for the 4th of july and rose and me just hit started talking like nothing happened. after the 4 of us had a sleepover and it was super fun but idk if i should just forgive her that easily. BTW BEN ILYSM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Timing too good frfr
the fact that she played victim instead of owning up to her mistakes is horrible.
I know righ!! It’s horrendous to see how she just sang a terrible tune over and over in a 10 min long video
It’s horrific (in the worst way)
Okay, here's my drama.
I got groomed by an administrator at my school. And here's why, I met this administrator on my 3rd or 4th day of school and she reminded me of my aunt (not my real aunt, family friend.) So, I started to talk to this administrator and I was kind to her, I'd give her her favorite candy and would say hi to her whenever I saw her, we'd hug and she'd tell me that she loved me.
Long story short, I trusted her by telling her things that has been going on in my friend group (my friend group were bad influences... To put it short.) And this administrator gathered other administrators to have me suspended from school for six months. SIX MONTHS!
(Btw, I dmed you her phone number so that you can prank call her in your next prank call series.) 😭
Futility is the word.
colleen is NOT bbg.
💀💀
I was hoping Ben would make a video about this
IVE BEEN WAITING FOR YOU TO TALK ABOUT THIS
SAME
As a ukulele player, I do not claim her.
the fact that her video wasnt even an apology💀💀
Hi Ben first of all love your videos but I have a little drama
So I've liked this guy for a few months and we talk and text sometimes but I just found out he has a gf. I don't wanna be "that person" and like wanna say I I him for myself or anything bc im a very shy person but I honestly thought he could've had feelings for me. Idk what to do but I just keep talking/texting as a normal and he still has no clue :/ what should I do?
My drama, I have this friend who kept gaslighting me and making me always to look the bad person I tried breaking of the friendship atleast three times but I did'nt really have anybody else, then one day she just blew up on me and I told her we didnt have to be friends if she didnt want to, she told everyone I was the one who got mad at her, her friends who dont even know me started talking trash about me, What do you think I shoud'lve done?
I have some drama: so basically I am friends with 4 girls they are always not including me and really toxic. What should I do? I need advice.
"my managers said I shouldn't say anything about it, so I'm gonna sing it :D" tf, no. You asked for nudes from a 14 year old and used the excuse that he was gay, to make it acceptable. And the fact that she has her own family is even more upsetting. Its not gossip Colleen, its fact. There are screenshots of the messages, AND thousands of people saw you ask for a kid to put his hands down your pants. So who's gossiping now?
yk its good day when ben posts
when my ex broke up with me she said i was to needy but she facetimed me 24/7 and left almost no dime for my family
Y’all I had to rewind the video 3 times because bens words went out of my ears 😭✋
Colleen’s video isn’t even an apology. She shouldn’t have even just sung for the video or whatever. She should have addressed the situation. I feel so bad for the minors who have been involved with anything Colleen has done.