Brother Hang and Brother Zhan told Jin Tao’s parents how much it cost to marry Angina.

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  • @ThestoryofAfricanwivesinChina
    @ThestoryofAfricanwivesinChina  Місяць тому +12

    Hello everyone, the translation is wrong. It’s not that I went to Brother Zhan’s house. It was that Brother Zhan had an empty house in the county town and no one lived in it, so he let Angeina and Jin Tao live there. It wasn’t that Angeina went to live in Brother Zhan’s house alone. Everyone misunderstood because the house in the county town was empty. It is convenient to get married here. Roads are being built in the countryside. Cars cannot travel and transportation is inconvenient.

    • @shiriyakanaka
      @shiriyakanaka Місяць тому +2

      You don't have to pretend to be involved. You are now forgetting you also used to answer as if you were Xiao bai. We appreciate that you steal these video's from Douyin on our behalf, lol. Thank you for your hardwork. Wink.

    • @ThestoryofAfricanwivesinChina
      @ThestoryofAfricanwivesinChina  Місяць тому +7

      @@shiriyakanaka Because I am in their group, I know more about the ins and outs of the incident and can better show the story to everyone. I don’t want everyone to be misunderstood by the information or translation.

    • @CaroleMcDonnell
      @CaroleMcDonnell Місяць тому +1

      Thanks!

    • @shiriyakanaka
      @shiriyakanaka Місяць тому

      @@ThestoryofAfricanwivesinChina What do you mean you are in their group? Which group? They are posting these videos on Tik Tok and Douyin. Many channels are taking the videos and reposting.

    • @Pebble5ify
      @Pebble5ify Місяць тому +1

      ⁠@@shiriyakanaka which Xiao bai are you referring to? Do you mean Macy’s boyfriend or someone else?❤

  • @fireofmoonwiccan
    @fireofmoonwiccan Місяць тому +43

    Anita needs to make her own channel for English speaking subscribers and share her own perspective on moving as an African wife to China.

    • @lystraantoine4741
      @lystraantoine4741 Місяць тому +10

      She needs to run home

    • @philomenasason7733
      @philomenasason7733 Місяць тому +3

      She had to pay for all they they had used on he then they will let it go,if she just run away meaning she is scamming him of his money 😂

    • @Laitalafraise
      @Laitalafraise Місяць тому +1

      Great idea! 👍🏽

    • @dzeindobrcesc4258
      @dzeindobrcesc4258 Місяць тому

      ​@@philomenasason7733lorsque les chinois vont se marier en Afrique, ils savent bien que pour épousé une femme Africaine il faut doté ? Même en Chine il ya des dotes, si jamais il ya divorce Anita ne paye rien car Jintao aussi il a profité de son corps, savez-vous que en Asie il y a aussi des dotes? Inde, Pakistan, Chine etc..

    • @suedanoah2983
      @suedanoah2983 29 днів тому

      UA-cam has been banned in China for ages by their government. So no chance of them having UA-cam, but they can have Tiktok

  • @robertcheong2089
    @robertcheong2089 Місяць тому +16

    This ain’t gonna work as Jintao seems to be clueless and Angelina is too outgoing for him.This marriage should have never taken place but Zhang and his cousin forced this matchup Jintao is like a mute and is incapable of of communicating period.

  • @Vibe4858
    @Vibe4858 Місяць тому +18

    I feel concerned for Angela, she is a very sweet girl who is saddled with an intellectually challenged man. He is 35 years old chronologically, but it would appear his mental age seems to be that of a young teenage boy. It seems that this marriage will be plagued with problems. Angela needs to reconsider. Is this what she really want for her young life?

    • @suedanoah2983
      @suedanoah2983 29 днів тому

      What about her mother who is just watching it afar and shows no sign stepping in, was this all about money they got it from Jintao's family. Don't the mother and daughter have conversation and discuss the reality of the situation? It's so confusing, even the cruel subscribers, attacking her to show love to Jintao and marry him, I suspect these are his family who are grooming her to marry him. They put pressure on her, giving a new phone, and his mother smothers her to accept her son etc. I really feel for her🤔🙄😞😞😞

  • @worldtraveler2417
    @worldtraveler2417 Місяць тому +21

    Jia Tao seems incapable of running his own life. At 35 or 36 years, his parents, his cousin and the matchmaker are making all the decisions for a grown man who has married a young lady from a different country.
    His immaturity and his inability to make decisions as a new husband is uncomfortable for Anita and her mother coming all the way to China to find out Jin Tao is not the decision maker in their marriage.
    Anita’s family should have done a thorough compatibility assessment before accepting the cousin’s dowry. he paid for Anita’s marriage to Jin Tao.
    Material things alone do not build a happy marriage. Jin Tao has to step up and be the husband/decison maker. He has to stop acting as a spectator in his own marriage. 💖🇺🇸👍🏿

    • @KJB4evr
      @KJB4evr Місяць тому +2

      Totally agree!

  • @tutybrown6479
    @tutybrown6479 Місяць тому +13

    They are doing good job for new couple Every thing will be better soon

  • @new2gaming318
    @new2gaming318 Місяць тому +9

    Brother Zhan and Brother Hang are very caring and kind human beings. They want to make sure that Anita is comfortable in her new surroundings.

    • @carolnawa3356
      @carolnawa3356 Місяць тому +1

      True

    • @peggyclio1199
      @peggyclio1199 Місяць тому +1

      But She will not...the future husband seems too passive and she is and outgoing girl. Not a good macht

    • @SuzyMullerAbbe
      @SuzyMullerAbbe Місяць тому +1

      Hum ça sera compliqué pour la Petite quand ces deux hommes vont partir ils sont impliqués dans ce mariage avec une très bonne volonté est ce que Le marié sera à la hauteur ????

  • @new2gaming318
    @new2gaming318 Місяць тому +5

    Brother Hang said Anita sent him a message about persons coming in and out of her home, so I believe she would have said something about her marriage if she was having second thoughts.
    Anita also told him that everything is fine.

  • @judithcasey7991
    @judithcasey7991 Місяць тому +10

    Angela pls try and build your own channel with your inlaw and husband .You will succeed.

    • @philomenasason7733
      @philomenasason7733 Місяць тому +4

      Give her time not everyone know how ,but she have to learn.There is certain things you have to know if you want to be a blogger in china.There is a do and don't.

    • @lsabel9128
      @lsabel9128 Місяць тому

      obviously they will do their own channel just like the rest of the African wives married in china😅😅

  • @shiriyakanaka
    @shiriyakanaka Місяць тому +10

    As his cousins said, Jintao has no interest in anything, has a temper and is ungrateful. His cousins and parents are discussing and planning his affairs, he is just loitering around, hands folded as usual. Anita had better think twice about going through with this wedding. Her future in China is not a happy one. The only comfort is knowing that if Jintao tries unleashing his temper on Anita, she will beat him into pulp in a one-on-one fight, lol. Jintao's parents are the sweetest, especially mum. I feel your pain with this son of yours!!!

    • @nyamburanjinjo3540
      @nyamburanjinjo3540 Місяць тому +1

      Imagine instead of being good to his cousin for standing by his side and he is jobless no money just be narcissist all the time like pregnant woman I feel mercy for angina 🤔

  • @sanelemhlanga8796
    @sanelemhlanga8796 Місяць тому +15

    I don’t think this marriage will last because the in law are making all the decisions on the man and he just stand there like someone who not capable enough

    • @nyamburanjinjo3540
      @nyamburanjinjo3540 Місяць тому +1

      Remember jantao doesn't have money he looking his cousin to help him in every thing

    • @philomenasason7733
      @philomenasason7733 Місяць тому +4

      Ofcourse the inlaw have to make decisions cos he is there only son ,whatever property and lands they have eventually they will transfer to his son

  • @narose5269
    @narose5269 Місяць тому +2

    That girl should have the marriage annulled and go back to her country. She’s young and beautiful, she’ll be fine. That fake husband is not worth it.

  • @ThestoryofAfricanwivesinChina
    @ThestoryofAfricanwivesinChina  Місяць тому +8

    Due to the inconvenience of traveling due to road construction in the village, Brother Zhan decided to give Anjina and Jin Tao a house in the county to temporarily live in, which would also be convenient for holding a wedding.

  • @CarlaThomas37
    @CarlaThomas37 Місяць тому +6

    He is a mama's boy, and they have done everything for him. They bought him to find a wife because his mother wants grandchildren. This man was just fine living off of his parents because they gave him money, and he doesn't want a wife because he doesn't know what to do because he has never done it. This girl has a child on her hands, and she is only a child but with more experience. So, she needs to do all of the videos if it is just her and his mother and other family to build up her content and let him be because he it's will to try. They are tired of paying his way because he doesn't want to work. He can't pay for them a place to live at a wedding he is very immature.But we will see where this goes. I'm seeing so far nowhere.

  • @DaDocTa1996
    @DaDocTa1996 Місяць тому +12

    Seems like the only decision he's making is either smoking or offering cigarettes. Jin Tao, go find your man parts & man up! No woman wants a weasel. Its time for you to act like you wanna be married & start a family. Your parents seem to really like your wife. It is not fair to your wife that you're still not communicating with her. Use a translator or do whatever it takes to make your marriage work.

    • @philomenasason7733
      @philomenasason7733 Місяць тому +1

      In Chinese culture offering cigarettes is a courtesy and manner.

    • @philomenasason7733
      @philomenasason7733 Місяць тому +3

      😂 I am sure when they are not in front of the camera the do communicate.

    • @philomenasason7733
      @philomenasason7733 Місяць тому +3

      Cameraman dont follow them 24 hours aday.give them a break😂

    • @NadiaTuks
      @NadiaTuks Місяць тому

      As for the first sentence 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @DaDocTa1996
      @DaDocTa1996 Місяць тому

      @@philomenasason7733 she told the matchmaker the communication is the same as before

  • @kittenlang333
    @kittenlang333 Місяць тому +6

    Sounds like nickel and diming them if you ask me. This should have been long settled BEFORE the marriage, even the engagement!

    • @yelloworchid1840
      @yelloworchid1840 Місяць тому +1

      I think they've learnt from their mistakes with Yiweng & Xiao Shuai's channel; they didn't make the expenses transparent to their followers and they've been accused of making lots of money out of the videos and not giving enough back to the couple when there are costs that needs to be covered first

  • @sabrinaseychelles9911
    @sabrinaseychelles9911 Місяць тому +4

    Et jintao me rapelle xiong er que sa propre famille méprisait, quand on le voit maintenant on en dirai pas la même question . Je ne peux pas me baser sur une video de 10 mn pour juger ni Anita ni Jintao.

  • @gracesibley2641
    @gracesibley2641 Місяць тому +2

    Anita and her mother has plans they’re not dumb they’ll build a business from china to Africa and thrive Juntoa is slow and mentally challenged and they never got therapy for him probably couldn’t afford to and that’s why they’re looking for a wife/ caretaker for him Anita is not push over and I don’t see her being his caretaker. She has her own plans 😊

  • @CarlaThomas37
    @CarlaThomas37 Місяць тому +5

    The dad is rude, and they all have a bad understanding Angela 8s sitting over there looking at them like why me. DANG JING STOP BEING HARD TO DEAL WITH AND CHANGE HOW U ARE THINKING BEFORE U LOOSE YOUR WIFE!!!!!!

  • @blessingewanlen8949
    @blessingewanlen8949 Місяць тому +2

    Please tell Jin Tao to always seat or stand beside his wife because she's new there and he should speak Chinese with her also he smoke too much thank you.

  • @gwenmutsago1010
    @gwenmutsago1010 Місяць тому +1

    Angela needs to reconsider she needs to go back home this man is not okay why’re they discussing about marriage he is not even there

  • @luissobradomartinez4343
    @luissobradomartinez4343 Місяць тому +7

    Pareciera que lo casaron a la fuerza porque era incapaz de tomar desiciones a los 35 años se le pasaba el tren. Por eso otros toman desiciones por él. Será un matrimonio fallido

    • @SprinkleLewis
      @SprinkleLewis 29 днів тому

      Agree 💯👍🏽 and also forced Anita to receive the 70k yuan(10k USD.)

  • @sabrinaseychelles9911
    @sabrinaseychelles9911 Місяць тому +2

    Moi je pense que toute la discution sur l'argent c'était pour faire comprendre aux parents de Jintao qu'ils ont dépenser tout ça ,ce serait dommage qu'elle reparte parce qu'elle se sent mal à l'aise. Toute cette histoire me rappelle iyeng et son marie qui eux aussi étaient surveillés par la famille je pense qu'ils essaient d'éviter que ça se répète.

  • @lsabel9128
    @lsabel9128 Місяць тому

    usually a marrige that everyone despice most is the one that last longer😅😅😅😅

  • @FacilityWalure
    @FacilityWalure Місяць тому +2

    where is the man? how come he's not part of this discussion?

  • @gwenmutsago1010
    @gwenmutsago1010 Місяць тому +1

    Look at him standing at the door

  • @chatelefrance2719
    @chatelefrance2719 Місяць тому +1

    Je voir que le mari de atina es juste bébé gâté pas ces propret parents. Il vonts tout pour lui😂❤

  • @wombmate1669
    @wombmate1669 Місяць тому +1

    Anita, please do a Q& A😊

  • @SprinkleLewis
    @SprinkleLewis Місяць тому +2

    The drama is outta order, in-laws feeling uncomfortable, Anita is confuse about family she just met in their home every day at will.😂😂😂 Now they will move to Battle's home. What about Jintao, is this a low-key way to send Anita and her mother packing?

    • @yelloworchid1840
      @yelloworchid1840 Місяць тому +5

      It's part of the chinese wedding tradition to have the groom collect the bride from her home, it could also be from a hotel room, Brother Battle is letting the Anita and her mother stay at his home instead; which will save the family the cost of staying in a hotel room

    • @shiriyakanaka
      @shiriyakanaka Місяць тому +7

      @@yelloworchid1840 Yes. But he also said Anita said many people were coming in and out of the house. I guess she is feeling she has not had time alone with Jintao and core family.

    • @yelloworchid1840
      @yelloworchid1840 Місяць тому +3

      @@shiriyakanaka
      Similar to western weddings, the groom cannot see his bride the day or night before the wedding.
      It'll be nice for Anita and her mama to spent time away too after all the visitors they've been getting from Day 1 in China.
      Anita will also need to try on some outfits for the chinese wedding if she hasn't done so already

    • @CaroleMcDonnell
      @CaroleMcDonnell Місяць тому +3

      Thanks for explaining

    • @yelloworchid1840
      @yelloworchid1840 Місяць тому +1

      @@CaroleMcDonnell 😊

  • @amydiacoul9417
    @amydiacoul9417 Місяць тому +2

    On n'arrive pas a savoir comment elle se sent et ce qu'elle pense elle devrait s'exprimer plus

  • @D.K13960
    @D.K13960 Місяць тому +1

    For me is this match a very sad one of: "the story of African wifes in China."It really makes me feel sad. I don't understand that as parents you know that your son's intellectual development has been stuck in the teenage years and then you expect that he should now be able to be both, breadwinner, husband and father. I'm 100% convinced that starting a family wasn't Jintao's idea. In my opinion, Jintao was not feeling lonely at all . He was already in a relationship and they were and still are very happy: "Mi,My self and I." Jintao therefore has no intention of giving up his relationship for Princess Anitha. Either she accepts the situation as it is, or she returns to her kingdom of Zambia.🇿🇲