This sermon hits me so much. 5 year relationship with a non believer, I insisted to stay no matter how many red flags God revealed to me. No matter how toxic and abusive it was. He turned my heart away from God and one day out of the blue he called it quit after so many sacrifices I made. Leaving my country, my family, my career. God removed him from my life in a very hard way. But His plan is always the best❤️
I’m so proud of you sis! It’s hard but you chose God at the end of the day and that’s all that matters. I also left my ex 2 and a half years ago because he was an unbeliever and God told me to end it with him numerous times. He told me to let go, he led me to the story of Solomon that’s mentioned in this sermon to let me know that I would be led astray in that relationship. And I was slowly getting there. I was stubborn and blinded by love, my heart was deceitful. God even asked me if He was enough for me! That broke me. And I repented. Although it’s almost been 3 years since the break up I know that God has better for me I believe that. He’s spoken to me about a hopeful future and I can trust in Him. He loves us more than any man could. So hang in there. God is with you❣️ and I’m proud of you🫶🏾
I second you sis!! he dumped me a month ago and he was so cold and distant in the end from the very beginning he was scared to commit because of his parents, i sacrificed so much for this guy, everything went in vain, stupid me! i just wish that i left after 1st red flag, i still wanted to stay and make things work, it turned out that he is emotionally unavailable person, Im still struggling so much to move on..
Same thing happened to me .. I think there is something to be learned here though .. I also saw the red flag but yet acted as if was yellow and proceeded with caution.. red flag means STOP … so possibly we may have co dependency issues and or people chasing .. that is our issue we should strive to allow God to heal and BELIEVE that he will ! We can’t be upset at the wind for blowing , we also can’t be upset with people being people .. best of luck
Remember this, Even when dating God says, Be not unequally yoked. Christian women should date only Christian Men, you'll save yourself alot of trouble and heartbreak. Know this, God delivered you from that relationship because He loved you. 🙂👱♀️😷
I know I’m a man but I want to speak to the women that watch this and see my comment. This should open your eyes if you are a woman that claims to be okay being by herself or not need nobody or no man to help her be successful. If you are watching this it’s most likely because you believe the same thing I do. Do not let that mindset keep you from a man that is truly after Gods heart before yours because one that claimed to be in the past wasn’t so honest with you or himself
Hmmm... I agree with the latter(that is, it's wrong to assume all men are the same) but not the former point in your text Sir. How do I mean? The ffg scriptures: In Christ is our fullness..We are complete in Him. Cursed is the man who makes flesh his arm and his heart deviates from God and: "But Jesus said, "Not everyone is mature enough to live a married life. It requires a certain aptitude and grace. Marriage isn't for everyone. Some, from birth,seemingly never give marriage a thought. Others never get asked-or accepted. And some decide not to get married for kingdom reasons. But if you are capable of growing into the largeness of marriage,do it" 🍓Mathew19:11-12 (The Message Translation)
That's not every person's situation. The ratio of women, is much higher than males. Subtract men who date men, think about how many men are in prison. You should watch your words, life has a funny way of teaching you not to speak on things that you are ignorant about.
My boyfriend of 3 1/2 years has been clean for a year and is homeless and working hard and trying to follow the Lord. I have to move out Aug. 31st. We both want to be devoted but we can’t afford to not move in together. We even spoke about sleeping in separate rooms. But it doesn’t feel right. He wants to buy me a ring. Get married. But what about our witness? The Lord is putting it on my heart to seek him in all this in different ways. I just don’t know what to do. Please pray for us. Thanks church. ❤
This is exactly what I needed! The world will leave you feeling empty, people will disappoint you, but God wants to heal us. I love that He always chases us no matter how far we drift.
Don’t let lies get into your head! The devil is a liar! To have a God centered relationship you must first believe it can exist! If you are equally yoked in values, don’t let the devil lie to you and influence you to leave a good relationship!
This is very timely. To completely surrender in God’s will and timing is not easy, yet it’s rewarding, fulfilling, and the only right thing to do. Watching from Australiaaaaa!
This hits home, I was dating a nonbeliever three years ago. I was a nonbeliever myself. I grew up in the Christianity world, but I stepped out of it when I got older. The last two years of my life change rapidly God healed me and now I want different things. I still wanted the same man I was dating in the past but God works in miracle ways, God open my eyes in the few months that I was talking to this person again. We were different people I believe in Jesus and he just didn’t believe in nothing. At first, it stunned me because I liked him but then I remember I love Jesus and myself to put me through a relationship that doesn’t honor me or value me as the woman I am. So I had to let it go. Things always happen for a reason and I know God has better thanks for me. I know his promises are true. ❤😊🙏🏽
At the point he spoke of Ephesians I cried, which I don’t normally do, but I think it helped me to understand Jesus’ love for us, also 18:16, the first thought when he asked “what do you want” I only thought of “I want you lord” and nothing else can come to me
God warned me about this and he lead me to scripture. Put away forward mouth and Gaurd your heart from certain people. Same as don't tell everyone certain things from your heart.
As a Christian, a lukewarm for so long now that I’ve realized so many things . I struggle with lust , not trusting God , metal breakdowns etc etc . But once I’m convicted I get better , this sermon convinced and convicted me that this was meant for me . I needed this word
i googled "guard your heart" and this is one of the messages I found. I have come to understand only Jesus can make my heart content. I thought I could find it other things. Only Jesus can help me.
This video popped up on my UA-cam homepage so I clicked on it and watched. What can I say? I hope you won't become those trendy pastors. Keep it simple and clear. No need for extravagant props. Just keep it genuine and speak the way you are. Thank you Pastor. I love you my brother in Christ and I pray more people get to learn how to give their hearts to God.
Loneliness and just wanting to be loved can make us vulnerable to the wolves out there that prey on the wounded. Be very slow and cautious before giving your heart to others.
I am a pastor and I love listening to your sermons. God uses you to feed me and encourage me. Thank you for obeying God and doing His will for your life. God is moving in our church and lives are being changed. We only preach the Word of God. God bless you and know our church prays for all pastors.
This may be my favorite sermon yet. All of them speak to me but so much of this one speaks to the season I came out of but also the one I'm currently in. Literally brought me to tears because Jesus has changed my heart, and its so so good. I'm so very grateful.
Thank you so much for this word, Pastor Bobby. You spoke clearly to my situation and confirmed some things that God has been telling me. It's time that I obey Him and guard my heart.
Wow! What a powerful sermon ! Has me sobbing in the Lyft ride. I love god so much!! And if it wasn’t for the last person in my life I would’ve never gotten closer to god the way I did.
Thank you so much Pastor, this is another prompting from God to me, I am asking God to strengthen me to make certain decision in my life. This sermon is God's voice to me again....Please Pray for me to choose what is God's will. Thank You !
This is so true to me. I've been looking for love outside the love of Jesus, I even installed dating apps and open myself to dating even having the conviction that they're not the right one for me, but today I came to my senses, knowing that God's promises stand forever. And that He can do it for me. Just like David, when Samuel came to anoint a king, he was not recommended, not suggested but God sees him. God sees us when no one is looking. And God's suddenly can change everything. This time, my vision is to be an obedient daughter of God.
This sermon popped up in my feed! I'm really thankful for it. I needed this truth as a reminder. I'm a person who gives her heart too easily to people (like Pastor Bobby Chandler mentioned in the sermon). And then after a heartbreak, the pendulum swings too sharply to the other side and I don't trust anyone. 😞 I appreciate the Scriptures given to help us to guard our hearts better.
Another great message. Very authentic. I have heard similar messages but for some reason this one hit so much more. Its all about Jesus. Nothing else matters we have to guard our heart, mind, mouth, eyes and soul. Again, its all about Jesus. People are dying left and right and going straight to hell in their sin. I thank God that I am desiring to be on the right path and not the wrong. We have to be doers of the word and not just hearing the word.
You have been sent to God Pastor. May God bless you. This sermon is exactly what I needed in my life. I will continue to come to it Thank you God for this day.
Hey Elena! We invite you to watch the full service available on Facebook. We leave the 11:00am service available on there if you would like to hear parts of the service outside of the sermon itself. facebook.com/authenticchurch
6/30/24…Listening in SE Alabama. My late paternal grandparents lived in Hickory for several years when I was a little girl. I’m grateful for your preaching.
Man I haven’t been watching you for a long time but I stumbled across you in a Facebook reel and I haven’t been able to stop listening ever since, thank you Pastor Bobby for helping me in my journey to get closer to our God, I’ve struggled with following God, constantly falling back into sin over and over again , I grew up in church but never understood that it’s far more than just going to church but having a relationship with Jesus, so thank you for inspiring me and helping me , I truly feel God used you to get through to me , God bless you Pastor I can’t wait to see the growth of the church who I feel apart of regardless of me being across the country , thank you as well for making us who watch online feel just as welcomed as everyone there in person
This is an amazing sermon. It’s interesting to see how God can reveal himself and honor us. But out of flirtation with sin, we loose track of the purpose of Jesus Christ in our lives. I pray we pursue him and self examine ourselves every day so that we don’t fall in love with the wrong things. 🤍
The first time hearing of this pastor. I loved seeing how much time he put into his sermon. He referenced so many verses and connected them well to demonstrate his point. I felt God speak to me through this sermon. I took away so many points from this….the most famous king is also the author of the most depressing books in the Bible
This sermon hits me so much. 5 year relationship with a non believer, I insisted to stay no matter how many red flags God revealed to me. No matter how toxic and abusive it was. He turned my heart away from God and one day out of the blue he called it quit after so many sacrifices I made. Leaving my country, my family, my career. God removed him from my life in a very hard way. But His plan is always the best❤️
I’m so proud of you sis! It’s hard but you chose God at the end of the day and that’s all that matters. I also left my ex 2 and a half years ago because he was an unbeliever and God told me to end it with him numerous times. He told me to let go, he led me to the story of Solomon that’s mentioned in this sermon to let me know that I would be led astray in that relationship. And I was slowly getting there. I was stubborn and blinded by love, my heart was deceitful. God even asked me if He was enough for me! That broke me. And I repented. Although it’s almost been 3 years since the break up I know that God has better for me I believe that. He’s spoken to me about a hopeful future and I can trust in Him. He loves us more than any man could. So hang in there. God is with you❣️ and I’m proud of you🫶🏾
@@SmittenInLove thank you, God bless you ❤️
I second you sis!!
he dumped me a month ago and he was so cold and distant in the end from the very beginning he was scared to commit because of his parents, i sacrificed so much for this guy, everything went in vain, stupid me! i just wish that i left after 1st red flag, i still wanted to stay and make things work, it turned out that he is emotionally unavailable person, Im still struggling so much to move on..
Same thing happened to me .. I think there is something to be learned here though .. I also saw the red flag but yet acted as if was yellow and proceeded with caution.. red flag means STOP … so possibly we may have co dependency issues and or people chasing .. that is our issue we should strive to allow God to heal and BELIEVE that he will ! We can’t be upset at the wind for blowing , we also can’t be upset with people being people .. best of luck
Remember this, Even when dating God says, Be not unequally yoked. Christian women should date only Christian Men, you'll save yourself alot of trouble and heartbreak. Know this, God delivered you from that relationship because He loved you. 🙂👱♀️😷
Reminder ladies, you must also be the Godly woman so that your Godly man can find you!
Reminder males, you should be Godly as well.
"If you never heal from what hurt you, you'll always bleed on people who never cut you". This line hits me the most from you!
Holy Spirit lead me here. Never heard of this preacher or church. Thank you God. Thank you pastor
I know I’m a man but I want to speak to the women that watch this and see my comment. This should open your eyes if you are a woman that claims to be okay being by herself or not need nobody or no man to help her be successful. If you are watching this it’s most likely because you believe the same thing I do. Do not let that mindset keep you from a man that is truly after Gods heart before yours because one that claimed to be in the past wasn’t so honest with you or himself
Hmmm...
I agree with the latter(that is, it's wrong to assume all men are the same) but not the former point in your text Sir.
How do I mean?
The ffg scriptures:
In Christ is our fullness..We are complete in Him.
Cursed is the man who makes flesh his arm and his heart deviates from God and:
"But Jesus said,
"Not everyone is mature enough to live a married life.
It requires a certain aptitude and grace.
Marriage isn't for everyone.
Some, from birth,seemingly never give marriage a thought.
Others never get asked-or accepted.
And some decide not to get married for kingdom reasons.
But if you are capable of growing into the largeness of marriage,do it"
🍓Mathew19:11-12
(The Message Translation)
That's not every person's situation. The ratio of women, is much higher than males. Subtract men who date men, think about how many men are in prison. You should watch your words, life has a funny way of teaching you not to speak on things that you are ignorant about.
My boyfriend of 3 1/2 years has been clean for a year and is homeless and working hard and trying to follow the Lord. I have to move out Aug. 31st. We both want to be devoted but we can’t afford to not move in together. We even spoke about sleeping in separate rooms. But it doesn’t feel right. He wants to buy me a ring. Get married. But what about our witness? The Lord is putting it on my heart to seek him in all this in different ways. I just don’t know what to do. Please pray for us. Thanks church. ❤
Amen 🙏 amen amen .yes we must gaurd our hearts.
This is exactly what I needed! The world will leave you feeling empty, people will disappoint you, but God wants to heal us. I love that He always chases us no matter how far we drift.
Don’t let lies get into your head! The devil is a liar! To have a God centered relationship you must first believe it can exist! If you are equally yoked in values, don’t let the devil lie to you and influence you to leave a good relationship!
Wow 😯 Holy Spirit 🔥
This is very timely. To completely surrender in God’s will and timing is not easy, yet it’s rewarding, fulfilling, and the only right thing to do. Watching from Australiaaaaa!
Amen so true noting satisfies me nomore but God and his presence
This hits home, I was dating a nonbeliever three years ago. I was a nonbeliever myself. I grew up in the Christianity world, but I stepped out of it when I got older. The last two years of my life change rapidly God healed me and now I want different things. I still wanted the same man I was dating in the past but God works in miracle ways, God open my eyes in the few months that I was talking to this person again. We were different people I believe in Jesus and he just didn’t believe in nothing. At first, it stunned me because I liked him but then I remember I love Jesus and myself to put me through a relationship that doesn’t honor me or value me as the woman I am. So I had to let it go. Things always happen for a reason and I know God has better thanks for me. I know his promises are true. ❤😊🙏🏽
At the point he spoke of Ephesians I cried, which I don’t normally do, but I think it helped me to understand Jesus’ love for us, also 18:16, the first thought when he asked “what do you want” I only thought of “I want you lord” and nothing else can come to me
God warned me about this and he lead me to scripture. Put away forward mouth and Gaurd your heart from certain people. Same as don't tell everyone certain things from your heart.
As a Christian, a lukewarm for so long now that I’ve realized so many things . I struggle with lust , not trusting God , metal breakdowns etc etc . But once I’m convicted I get better , this sermon convinced and convicted me that this was meant for me . I needed this word
i googled "guard your heart" and this is one of the messages I found. I have come to understand only Jesus can make my heart content. I thought I could find it other things. Only Jesus can help me.
This video popped up on my UA-cam homepage so I clicked on it and watched. What can I say? I hope you won't become those trendy pastors. Keep it simple and clear. No need for extravagant props. Just keep it genuine and speak the way you are. Thank you Pastor. I love you my brother in Christ and I pray more people get to learn how to give their hearts to God.
Okay God literally spoke to me through this video this morning over something I'm going through. God Bless you Pastor Bobby. 🙏🏼
God is still the same, yesterday, today and forever 🙌
Loneliness and just wanting to be loved can make us vulnerable to the wolves out there that prey on the wounded. Be very slow and cautious before giving your heart to others.
I am a pastor and I love listening to your sermons. God uses you to feed me and encourage me. Thank you for obeying God and doing His will for your life. God is moving in our church and lives are being changed. We only preach the Word of God. God bless you and know our church prays for all pastors.
This message is BEAUTIFUL May the LORD AND JESUS CHRIST guard ALL of our hearts AMEN!!🤍🙏🏾
Well, he said we are to guard our hearts. That's why it's so hard because we have to work for it.
😢😢😢 lord heal my heart
This may be my favorite sermon yet. All of them speak to me but so much of this one speaks to the season I came out of but also the one I'm currently in. Literally brought me to tears because Jesus has changed my heart, and its so so good. I'm so very grateful.
A great message ! This message is like medicine to my soul.
Thankful to my wife for sharing with me.
A joy to here this young man.
Leonard
Thank you so much for this word, Pastor Bobby. You spoke clearly to my situation and confirmed some things that God has been telling me. It's time that I obey Him and guard my heart.
This was so profound, as I'm healing from a broken heart. But, God has been so faithful through the chaos.
Wow! What a powerful sermon ! Has me sobbing in the Lyft ride. I love god so much!! And if it wasn’t for the last person in my life I would’ve never gotten closer to god the way I did.
So powerful, just what I needed today. God bless you Pastor!!
Thank you for the message God always speaks to us
I just discovered him. I love his sermons.
9:36 9:38 9:41 Amen this is the truth!!!!! No one can serve two masters
Thank you Pastor for this wonderful message
I am truly blessed from it.
Henceforth, I would guard my heart through the scriptures.
Thank you so much Pastor, this is another prompting from God to me, I am asking God to strengthen me to make certain decision in my life. This sermon is God's voice to me again....Please Pray for me to choose what is God's will. Thank You !
I also have a choice to make. I’m praying we both choose God’s will❤
I was a fool Jesus please be a fence around me everyday
Amen Brother in Christ 🙏🏾
Thank you so much! Especially for the Scripture Psalms 147:3 ] He heals the brokenhearted and bandages their wounds.
God bless you Sir for this impactful message.
This is so true to me. I've been looking for love outside the love of Jesus, I even installed dating apps and open myself to dating even having the conviction that they're not the right one for me, but today I came to my senses, knowing that God's promises stand forever. And that He can do it for me. Just like David, when Samuel came to anoint a king, he was not recommended, not suggested but God sees him. God sees us when no one is looking. And God's suddenly can change everything. This time, my vision is to be an obedient daughter of God.
This is so beautiful
This sermon popped up in my feed! I'm really thankful for it. I needed this truth as a reminder. I'm a person who gives her heart too easily to people (like Pastor Bobby Chandler mentioned in the sermon). And then after a heartbreak, the pendulum swings too sharply to the other side and I don't trust anyone. 😞 I appreciate the Scriptures given to help us to guard our hearts better.
❤I can relate. I pray God helps us guard our hearts from now on🫂
@@nine73soldier Amen!
EVERY SINGLE TIME YOU HIT MY SPIRIT 👏🏼🙏🏽♥️
Another great message. Very authentic. I have heard similar messages but for some reason this one hit so much more. Its all about Jesus. Nothing else matters we have to guard our heart, mind, mouth, eyes and soul. Again, its all about Jesus. People are dying left and right and going straight to hell in their sin. I thank God that I am desiring to be on the right path and not the wrong. We have to be doers of the word and not just hearing the word.
Thank you Pastor, this is what I have been needing to hear for the past few years now! God Bless you. Praise the Lord!
Talking about a sermon that matches your circumstances 🙏🙏
I love all of your sermons but this one really hit home. Bless you, Pastor
He is definitely a man of God.
You have been sent to God Pastor. May God bless you. This sermon is exactly what I needed in my life. I will continue to come to it
Thank you God for this day.
We enjoy the prayer the pastor does before the sermon. Please think of including it in the video
Hey Elena! We invite you to watch the full service available on Facebook. We leave the 11:00am service available on there if you would like to hear parts of the service outside of the sermon itself. facebook.com/authenticchurch
@@AuthenticChurch oooh🩷😄 thank you
Speak the truth in love. We cant be silent.
Absolutely amazing!!!!!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
Solomon has control issues. Like us all. We all want to be God
God bless everyone praise God
Your sermons have always hit home with me. Thank you so much
I tend to pick at everyone elses flaws.. especially when they are similar to My own.
This is so powerful thank you for obeying God
Beautiful message! Amen. May the Lord bless everyone and heal their broken hearts.
Bless Father yahuah Jesus christ of nazareth bless you all 😅😅😅😅
Wow!
Behold I stand at the door and knock! Great sermon
Wow beautiful amen ❤🙏🙌
This had me in tears. Thank you. ❤
You are so welcome!
A great sermon.❤
Great message 👍 thank you hugs from the Netherlands 🇳🇱 🤗 ❤️ Pray for us 🙏
7:40
12:40 Culture tells you "follow your heart" but God says: No.
13:20. This part is so good and true
15:36
God bless you
6/30/24…Listening in SE Alabama. My late paternal grandparents lived in Hickory for several years when I was a little girl. I’m grateful for your preaching.
Thanks for your comment!
That's the one gift women have, the Gift of Influence, make sure it's used for good though, not bad things. 🙂👱♀️😷
Wow!! So convicting. Thank you for this message. God is using it in my heart.
Thank you for the message, God definetly used it to speak to my heart
That supernatural church per God is going to plant seeds and be fruitful 🙏🙌Praise God almighty in Yeshua name our Savior The anointed ❤TYJ
Thanks again Pastor Bobby! God Bless 🙏🏽❤
That's true, only God can heal a brokenheart, another man can't. 🙂👱♀️😷
Man I haven’t been watching you for a long time but I stumbled across you in a Facebook reel and I haven’t been able to stop listening ever since, thank you Pastor Bobby for helping me in my journey to get closer to our God, I’ve struggled with following God, constantly falling back into sin over and over again , I grew up in church but never understood that it’s far more than just going to church but having a relationship with Jesus, so thank you for inspiring me and helping me , I truly feel God used you to get through to me , God bless you Pastor I can’t wait to see the growth of the church who I feel apart of regardless of me being across the country , thank you as well for making us who watch online feel just as welcomed as everyone there in person
Thanks for your kind words and being part of our online Authentic Church family!
Right on time🤍
I needed this sooo badly!!! Thank you 🙏 my relationship is at its end, as I am watching him start to date. My heart is broken 💔
I love the way God uses pastor Bobby,the word is true wisdom
So glad I'm watching this sermon
I’m cuttin’ it down!
Have mercy! This is such truth speaking directly to my heart. Thank you, Holy Spirit. First time listening here.
Thanks you God.
This is an amazing sermon. It’s interesting to see how God can reveal himself and honor us. But out of flirtation with sin, we loose track of the purpose of Jesus Christ in our lives.
I pray we pursue him and self examine ourselves every day so that we don’t fall in love with the wrong things. 🤍
Wow I am going to listen to this again. Amen ❤
I needed this. I just got back from being attacked due to not wearing the full Armour of God.❤
🔥 Fire HolyGhost Preaching
Every Sinner has a future; Every saint has a past.
Exactly what I needed to hear tonight thank you ❤️
Ecclesiaties is Good. Not depressing:) depends on how you see it.
This!
Love this truth message!
Amen
Amazing pastor. And I'd be lying if I said he wasn't handsome
Thank you Pastor. I Needed to hear this today. GOD Bless you and your Family 🙏💞🤗
Watching from Huntsville Alabama.
❤
Thank you
Listening from Kenya ❤❤
Thank you i needed to hear this
Loving this series 🙏 cant wait for next week. Blessings from New Zealand 🇳🇿
Wow amen god bless you
Wao!!🙌🏻🙌🏻gracias Dios por esta palabra, la necesitaba tanto. Gloria a Dios
The first time hearing of this pastor. I loved seeing how much time he put into his sermon. He referenced so many verses and connected them well to demonstrate his point. I felt God speak to me through this sermon. I took away so many points from this….the most famous king is also the author of the most depressing books in the Bible