Ask a woman what she wants in a man, you get a list, a thesaurus, an encyclopedia. Ask her want she brings, you can write it on the back of a stamp. Thank you Kevin Samuels for bringing clarity to men.
The fact that you couldn’t recognize that says a lot about you. It’s a shame Mr Samuels became so many emasculated men online daddy! I feel sad y’all never had a man! To show y’all what and how a man moves!
I've reached a point in my life where I realize I don't need to settle. I can wait and be patient. Just because a woman presents herself doesn't mean she is best for me. All things that shine aren't always diamonds.
@real-ish, Absolutely. Modern women think because they say "he who findith a wife, findith a good thing", makes them a wife, but they don't understand a woman has to be a wife before she is married, meaning she has the mind and spirit of a wife already.
Listening to modern women explain themselves gives me a headache. The contradictions that come out of their mouths is mind boggling. In one breath she said she "wants a man who walks in and commands the attention of the room", but she doesn't want him to feel like she should be happy to be in his presence. 🤦♂️ So basically she wants a lion with no teeth, she wants a king, who thinks like a peasant.
Ima woman, and I feel the same. It makes me wanna slam my head into a brick wall. That’s how much sense they make. They’ll say a few key points but the way they putitalltogether, they miss the mark 🤦🏽♀️
Its not that men aren't setttling down, its that men aren't settling. Why would a man setttle for any woman that thinks she is the prize? She isn't, she is just a woman. Men don't have to lead with anything when they don't want the woman beside them.
Never understood how someone who does nothing, has the same thing any and every woman has, can't cook or clean, disrespectful, half plastic and is for the interstate , can't afford to do what she expect a man to do for her, in debt, has a degree buy no job to show for it, loud and ghetto, child or children by either one or more men, can't keep a man, divorced, broke, wasteful spender, the most evicted, etc can ever possibly be a prize unless you count runner up but in their case, the the other way prize.
The best part of the video is the women saying, “These men have money, accomplishments, a nice house/apt, a nice car, etc… that’s the bare minimum”… but at the same time complaining that “The Bare Minimum”… DON’T WANT THEM 😂😂😂
Facts...the nerve of them to undermine the very productiveness that makes a man valuable in the first place....Black women are the worst ...you see how they move the goalpost.... according to them these men are providers and that's not good enough???? He needs swag and bad boy attitude too?😂😂😂
I’m from and in Dallas. These women want someone to validate the narrative of they expectations rather then what they offer due to their success. It’s going to vary from male to male. They want us to be what they want which is fine, but we have the option to accept that.
@patrickduffey3061, I'm in NC, but I've heard cats in Dallas are getting money, so it's funny to hear these chicks talk about needing more than a penis and a wallet, because they don't want to have to compete to keep a man.
Well rounded men are successful at work and at home. And some women are intimidated by men they can't control so they will find something superficial to reject him like his car is old while he lives in a mansion.
bruh you know i came here on 05 and i never seen any Dallas women that even carry themselves like this nor talk like this meaning this is the most feminine ive seen em ..every woman i dated wasnt from here because Dallas females just too rachet that On God Bro shit turned me all the way off i ended up marrying a woman from Funky Town fam lol
The men they are talking about aren't interested in them and not taking them seriously. They are unattractive, that's the reality. I wouldn't approach them.
What I’m getting from these women is nothing is ever enough. I want, me, me, me. He has to be this, that and the cat in the hat but I must continue on with zero introspection.
The problem is that they can't use the he ain't got a job/dusty argument so they want to use the you suppose to have job but what else you bring argument. Smh
@@poindextersheelturn436 I agree completely! Not once did they have any introspection or say what makes them worth partnering with. I guess that is just supposed to be apparent. I’m a woman, you may worship me now.
@@Guildofarcanelore Yeah, they want the upper hand basically but the hypergamy wont let them date an average guy, so they will have to take an L on this. Also, all that i aint going to do this, coes standard on a Becky or Maria so they are fighting a uphill battle, they dont have a monopoly on Black men no more.
@@poindextersheelturn436 I agree, that’s why you see so many “passport bro” hate videos. It’s simply them watching their monopoly end and complaining bitterly that there is a whole world of women, many younger, prettier and more traditional that they have to compete with. If we are all dusty and unworthy Becky, why are you so upset? Because you thought we would have to put up with your nonsense and we found a way out of your control.
Lol I live in Dallas...as a successful accomplished Man ...I can attest that it is not that I am not direct with my approach..I am NOT gonna directly approach women that I am not attracted to (overly independent, over talking i.e. masculine lol). Women hate it when Men have the upper hand (options, resources and confidence to back it up) The options are plentiful here for us MEN. I was blessed to find a Diamond (submissive, successful woman who was raised (by her married grandparents)to be a wife...i.e. cooks, cleans, organized, but will ALWAYS “make my plate first" )in the rough! ✊🏾
Mannnnn these heffas just mad that y’all are teaching the lower Men( the bums, simps, son husbands and unmotivated) and we’re finally understanding and we’re moving like y’all. First 6 months with these women, $40 budget and if she act right she might get some Waffle House or sum. Their fall back guys, we’re leaving them on read until they ready to give us that head with full spread and she got that butter on the garlic bread.😂
@@Bruno62Hell yeah. I'm 27, so I'm still very young, and I literally stopped talking to the females i was talking to to find my purpose. I've started a youtube gaming channel and plan on creating my own cartoon. It's not much now, but im sure if i keep putting the work in good things, will come.
@@ahsoka_polo it is much, brother✊🏿 Congratulations, I’ll watch it and support you. I still watch anime and play my ps4 in my free time. So your audience is going to go bonkers, I wish all the success in your journey
@@ahsoka_polo Stay on your grind Young Man. Like the Late Great Godfather (Kevin Samuels) and a few other HVM would/Have said…it gets better for us(Men) as we get older AS LONG AS YOU stay grinding on your purpose and bettering yourself. Like my grandfather would say, “ you will lose money and resources chasing women, BUT You’ll never lose women chasing money and resources!” ✊🏾👍🏾💯🔥
They're asking for all of this, but a man can't ask for fit, feminine, submissive, and cooperative, they'd call it toxic masculinity, but what they're doing isn't toxic femininity
The stink face look that black women have sometime like someone farted or said something dispicable is a look they cannot get rid of after showing that expression since early teens. Nahhh i prefer living in Eastern Europe where women practice pretty smiles and fit boides in hopes of being a model....and later in life they have quick smiles, soft eyes, and unaggressive attittudes. Learned Behavior....
When she says she wants a man who knows what he wants, it's never considered that he may not want her(or he doesn't want her the way she expects him to).
Ladies in the interview: "Hey all you successful, top 10%: your success is not enough - you need to have a personality I can vibe to!" Successful men: "I'm sorry who are you again?"
She says that she wants a leader but is she willing to be led? I’m betting that the answer is “No”. Women view themselves as the “prize”. But can you cook? Can you maintain a household? Can I envision you as mother to my children? Can you mesh well with my family? Can I mesh well with yours? Do we have a similar life outlook? Do you have a long term approach to our relationship and are you willing to grow with me? These are the types of things that a rational, confident man has in the back of his mind. He may have an upfront conversation with you about it but more often than not, he won’t. What he most definitely will do is take note of your demeanor, your attitude, your friends, how you interact with others, what you say and how you move. I don’t think women understand how many of them silently disqualify themselves from consideration based on the above.
So much wisdom in this. Sad thing is in this day and age a lot of black women in the west don't wanna hear it. And as long as they don't wanna hear KS will stay right.
What is really funny if she met a man that could meet her requirements then she would introduce them to her friends for their approval. Its tough with one women let along four of them.
These are modern women who are angry their generation of men know their worth- Especially the men they want. The men in my generation (X) didn't for the most part - thats why we had all those cheesy love songs with dudes begging- simp anthems
They are not getting hit on by the guys they want...plain and simple...the guys they want are looking at better looking girls than them cause they can...
See this is why relationships never work and are pointless as the foundation is just trash. The only way this view on relationships works is if you are the very peak of man. If you are successful and a guy is slightly more successful then you wants your wife well bye bye wife.
1. Many want men that they view as beneath them. Successful black men put them in a position to follow when they don’t actually want to follow. 2. Now that the world knows that black men are doing fine, they need new arguments as to why they cannot follow a man and let him lead. They’re moving the goalposts. 3. They don’t want to compete for a man.
These women may be able to pay for themselves but men look for women that are attractive and pleasant to be with. They are 6's and 7's and not very pleasant.
She LITERALLY just agreed with most red pill spaces that CAREER SUCCESS DOES NOT TRANSLATE TO A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP! MEN have said this THE ENTIRE TIME! Why don't they see that within themselves? Hypocrisy
The unmentioned elephant in the room is, “marriage.” A tremendous risk for an accomplished man who marries someone who has nothing to lose but everything to gain. The current male attitude evolved out of divorce law, as did the current female attitude of entitlement in some part.
Great point. Marriage and family should be the ultimate goal. This has little risks, but potential for great reward for women but for a successful man, marriage today is tantamount to commiting financial suicide.
Just because men aren't stepping up to them with command, presence, charisma, doesn't mean those men do not posses those qualities, like well paid actors, those skills go on only when it's show time. and there is a payoff in the end.
they run their men to us and we treat them like Kings. My husband is successful because he persevered and built his life with the help of other veterans. I’m a pediatrician with his help and love of our families i proceeded to better and enrich both my life and my Husbands. I’m amazed how they act so arrogantly when they bring nothing to the table
Women: I have my own place, I have my own car, I pay my own bills I'm independent Also women: So what a man has his own place, car and pay his bills so what that what you are supposed to have. Contradiction
So if a man has a house, car, good job, and has his affairs in order, he is being an adult. But if a woman has those things she is an independent bad bitch🤨! Make it make sense 😂
They are successful but not leaders - lol!!! She is saying is that she wants a man that will "own the room, be direct, don't beat around the bush". What's happening is that the men are not being direct with HER. Why? because she is not what they want. Who shops for something they do not want? The more successful a man becomes the more his baseline standards generally increase. The more they increase the more that the women he does not desire find reasons why he is not doing it "right". Whole clown shows...
when women say "i want u to walk in the room and own it" it sounds ridiculous to me.. it reflects what i deem to be a hatred of humility.. did your granddad "walk in a room and own it?" or did he walk in like a normal person and just do what he had to do?
The 2nd woman actually told the truth unlike the first chic with the bimbo babble. There are indeed a lot of successful black men in Dallas and Houston, so yeas these men have a lot of options and they're enjoying this position.
I am so lost. Women make up sentences and make no sense to me. They are so lost at time. Now I agree with her about a personal relationship succeeding is totally different than a career. With that being said, she can't have both. She wants a LEADER in career and ambishous and still wants the relationship to carry on. One area will suffer right?
Idk, I personally see a lot of men who are settling/settled down.. With average/below average women at that. Some women are willing to be an actual wife & not some type of co-husband. One of my coworkers says all the time: "Now my wife may not be a supermodel, but she gets me, completes me & doesn't COMPETE with me." They have zero debt, everything paid off, go on trips regularly, & retirement accounts look pretty nice.
So your coworker showed that he was willing to take a wife over a combative super model. Men do not want combative super model business partners in marriage. They want a wife, a helper, and a submissive and feminine woman. Not someone who walks around telling him what he should be doing or he has to do like the women in the video did.
Thank you women for just admitting what we been saying to you . Your not a boss chick , your not some high mighty queen or somebody men need to level up and raise their game to handle because you have a job , car or place . Your just a functioning adult . Now we have that clear many of you can also admit that your average and no better then the average man . KNOCK IT OFF .
Charles provided some excellent commentary on this interview. I was struggling trying to understand the ladies as they were going in circles, contradicting themselves, and blaming everything on men. Women now have to be the huntresses, not the hunted. Another option is to become better bait: fit, feminine, friendly.
I think you hit the nail on the head. I think the women don’t know that they actually are competing and they don’t like it. They feel like these types of men should chase them. They want the options that don’t want them.
I remember I matched with a woman from Houston on a dating app, I am here in Charlotte. She said she couldn’t find a decent guy in the four largest city in the nation and that was part of the reason she moved. I told her if she couldn’t find her guy in Houston, she damn sure wasn’t going to find him in Charlotte. She was actually legitimately shocked and disappointed. The logic finally dawned upon her.
They want a man with accolades. But they don't want a man to leverage his accolades. If a woman is good-looking, and wears a size 2 dress, she leverages that. Use of the term "horrible" is being dramatic and/or entitled. And women seem to generally not understand that a whole new 'hot crop' of women are coming behind them. I remember I used to explain this to homegirls ~10 years back. They stay at the poker table too long.
Women like this are dependents... The men they choose to date would be setting themselves up for failure.. This same woman is the type of woman that would initiate a divorce the moment things get tough or require her to participate in the relationship.
When a man doesn't compare to the man that she has already built in her head it doesn't end well the perfect man on her mind she wants to exist in reality
I live in Dallas where the women make as much money as the men but hey there’s plethora of options for men here in Dallas. Why will a man settle for less?
8:14 "That's you being an adult" That's the same thing men have been trying to tell them for the longest, when women lead with their accomplishments. 😂☕
Not for nothing, they say all that with the money part about how it doesn't matter.. but I'd bet my bottom dollar as soon as they get in an argument with a man with nothing, i bet the first words out their mouths are "you bum a$$ ninja"..
Never never never get back with your ex unless, you are 1000000000000% sure that she didn't date around, you will always regret it in the long run. Ty🙏
Well, I think the circumstances are that what is attractive to a man is different to what is attractive to a woman. And these women don’t understand what is attractive to a man. The assumption is, I make money too so you should be attracted to me as a woman but men don’t care for that. What men want is under valued. Women try to tell me what they want in a woman, and get upset when it’s not what they offer and then turn and say “where are all the good men.” Well, you’ve disqualified them by downplaying what makes them good men.
These conversations take only COMMON SENSE! A man must be able to UNDERSTAND what women are saying. She is basically saying that she is not able to find a successful man who is also a SIMP, who easily agrees with her without seeing THE OBVIOUS FAULT IN HER POINT (Which the dude with the camera was exposing). Women want to be picky with men...so, after a thousand dates they will make up their minds...maybe. This woman is DESPERATE, but the successful men in Dallas are not foolishly jumping at the bait like fcking fishes. They are looking at where it's coming from. Now...was that so hard to understand? Anyone???
Chasing 'those' was a 70's, 80's and 90's game. 2000's with the avent of social media, men are wiser and getting gamed up by wiser men and not wear the capes but strictly be about the business. Men chase wealth, healthy lifestyle and happiness, not women. Black men travel globally, interracially dating or say fuck it, dont date at all.
As a man...a black man...your dating options expand exponentially in your 40s and 50s. As you continue to earn more and pay off your debts, you don't have to deal with ungrateful or disrespectful women. You can pick and choose like women did in their 20s.
They had some good talking points with how they want a man to have personality and being a good man ! I wish in the interview they talked a little about what they a bringing so that the man would have that interest in them so we could see if it’s one or the other who needs to step it up or both! And Charles said it competition and being real about the standards and the level of men that would want them I think it’s the physical
Charles, your assessment of the points these women spoke on is spot on. I wish they would stop saying "I feel like" at the start of their sentences because that phrase often tells me their answers are going to be emotional instead of logical with reasoning and evidence thus anecdotal. That phrase makes me not want to engage in conversation with you anymore which may be unfair but done.
So these women want super successful men that don't know their worth. Got it
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Basically they want a CHAD that will simp for them. CHAD doesnt Simp, its not his nature.
Spot on.
@FlyiDCG and when they simp, they won’t even love him but use him, manipulate him, and likely cheat
Yep because they want a power doll that they can wave at their leisure
Ask a woman what she wants in a man, you get a list, a thesaurus, an encyclopedia. Ask her want she brings, you can write it on the back of a stamp. Thank you Kevin Samuels for bringing clarity to men.
Exactly! You are absolutely right!
The fact that you couldn’t recognize that says a lot about you. It’s a shame Mr Samuels became so many emasculated men online daddy! I feel sad y’all never had a man! To show y’all what and how a man moves!
I've reached a point in my life where I realize I don't need to settle. I can wait and be patient. Just because a woman presents herself doesn't mean she is best for me. All things that shine aren't always diamonds.
@real-ish, Absolutely.
Modern women think because they say "he who findith a wife, findith a good thing", makes them a wife, but they don't understand a woman has to be a wife before she is married, meaning she has the mind and spirit of a wife already.
FACTS!!!
That P word is key. Patience.
It’s funny where the woman are complaining and not the win. They just mad because men have options and they have to compete faith other women
@@almightyproductions9657Stay Alpha
Listening to modern women explain themselves gives me a headache. The contradictions that come out of their mouths is mind boggling.
In one breath she said she "wants a man who walks in and commands the attention of the room", but she doesn't want him to feel like she should be happy to be in his presence. 🤦♂️
So basically she wants a lion with no teeth, she wants a king, who thinks like a peasant.
So many contradictions. You're correct. Speaking in circles in order to make themselves feel better.
I learned to live with it because they're thinking from feelings first and feelings change Like the Wind.
Ima woman, and I feel the same. It makes me wanna slam my head into a brick wall. That’s how much sense they make. They’ll say a few key points but the way they putitalltogether, they miss the mark 🤦🏽♀️
Yep. Simple reality is that a man who is confident and successful enough to walk in and command most rooms has tons of options and is thus, the prize.
They want the winners to be humble & simp. Thats not how these successful types move. They want the best of the best.
Its not that men aren't setttling down, its that men aren't settling. Why would a man setttle for any woman that thinks she is the prize? She isn't, she is just a woman. Men don't have to lead with anything when they don't want the woman beside them.
Say it again for the people in the back.
Took the words right out of my mouth.......#NeverSettleForLessThanYourWorth
@robchurch881, you are preaching my guy...CHURCH!
Never understood how someone who does nothing, has the same thing any and every woman has, can't cook or clean, disrespectful, half plastic and is for the interstate , can't afford to do what she expect a man to do for her, in debt, has a degree buy no job to show for it, loud and ghetto, child or children by either one or more men, can't keep a man, divorced, broke, wasteful spender, the most evicted, etc can ever possibly be a prize unless you count runner up but in their case, the the other way prize.
It’s always busted women complaining about dating.
Lmao
The one to the left of the screen can get it. The middle and right 🙄
They ain't that busted but they average as French toast.
Factssss! I’m surprised UA-cam let you say this!!!😂
Big Facts!? Instead of using that same energy to invest in themselves and level up!
Do these women not realize they’re describing the way women have acted for the past 25 years?
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25?! Try 50.
@@rodprops I was being nice
Facts
Exactly💯
The best part of the video is the women saying, “These men have money, accomplishments, a nice house/apt, a nice car, etc… that’s the bare minimum”… but at the same time complaining that “The Bare Minimum”… DON’T WANT THEM 😂😂😂
That's sneaky funny....😂😅😊
I cook these types because they can't read 2 box
Facts...the nerve of them to undermine the very productiveness that makes a man valuable in the first place....Black women are the worst ...you see how they move the goalpost.... according to them these men are providers and that's not good enough???? He needs swag and bad boy attitude too?😂😂😂
You can't make this shit up
We don't want you when you subtract 50 percent of my income yearly
Im certainly guilty of this......WAY TOO MANY OPTIONS LOL Life is good yall
Stay up bro. Congratulations on your success.
Congrats bro trying to get like you. Graduate in May so hopefully it makes this aspect of my life easier.
I’m from and in Dallas. These women want someone to validate the narrative of they expectations rather then what they offer due to their success. It’s going to vary from male to male. They want us to be what they want which is fine, but we have the option to accept that.
@patrickduffey3061, I'm in NC, but I've heard cats in Dallas are getting money, so it's funny to hear these chicks talk about needing more than a penis and a wallet, because they don't want to have to compete to keep a man.
Well rounded men are successful at work and at home. And some women are intimidated by men they can't control so they will find something superficial to reject him like his car is old while he lives in a mansion.
bruh you know i came here on 05 and i never seen any Dallas women that even carry themselves like this nor talk like this meaning this is the most feminine ive seen em ..every woman i dated wasnt from here because Dallas females just too rachet that On God Bro shit turned me all the way off i ended up marrying a woman from Funky Town fam lol
The men they are talking about aren't interested in them and not taking them seriously. They are unattractive, that's the reality. I wouldn't approach them.
Women are looking for simps with clout but a man with his life in order do not waste their time simping
MEN NOW A DAYS AREN'T SETTLING FOR BASIC WOMEN OR TRASH. SIMPLE
Dallas metroplex has a population total of almost 6 million. If she can't find what she's looking for...the problem is her.
What I’m getting from these women is nothing is ever enough. I want, me, me, me. He has to be this, that and the cat in the hat but I must continue on with zero introspection.
The problem is that they can't use the he ain't got a job/dusty argument so they want to use the you suppose to have job but what else you bring argument. Smh
@@poindextersheelturn436 I agree completely!
Not once did they have any introspection or say what makes them worth partnering with. I guess that is just supposed to be apparent. I’m a woman, you may worship me now.
@@Guildofarcanelore Yeah, they want the upper hand basically but the hypergamy wont let them date an average guy, so they will have to take an L on this. Also, all that i aint going to do this, coes standard on a Becky or Maria so they are fighting a uphill battle, they dont have a monopoly on Black men no more.
@@poindextersheelturn436 I agree, that’s why you see so many “passport bro” hate videos.
It’s simply them watching their monopoly end and complaining bitterly that there is a whole world of women, many younger, prettier and more traditional that they have to compete with.
If we are all dusty and unworthy Becky, why are you so upset? Because you thought we would have to put up with your nonsense and we found a way out of your control.
Men have a lot of committed relationship options, women have smashing options. Men want to smash, women want commitment- funny as hell
It's a yin and yang situation for sure 😂
Yeah, women confuse offers for d*ck, as having options.
😂 we definitely at the end of times..
Exhausting if you ask me 😅
Circle of life
Lol I live in Dallas...as a successful accomplished Man ...I can attest that it is not that I am not direct with my approach..I am NOT gonna directly approach women that I am not attracted to (overly independent, over talking i.e. masculine lol). Women hate it when Men have the upper hand (options, resources and confidence to back it up)
The options are plentiful here for us MEN. I was blessed to find a Diamond (submissive, successful woman who was raised (by her married grandparents)to be a wife...i.e. cooks, cleans, organized, but will ALWAYS “make my plate first" )in the rough! ✊🏾
Mannnnn these heffas just mad that y’all are teaching the lower Men( the bums, simps, son husbands and unmotivated) and we’re finally understanding and we’re moving like y’all.
First 6 months with these women, $40 budget and if she act right she might get some Waffle House or sum.
Their fall back guys, we’re leaving them on read until they ready to give us that head with full spread and she got that butter on the garlic bread.😂
I agree from another successful dallas man
@@Bruno62Hell yeah. I'm 27, so I'm still very young, and I literally stopped talking to the females i was talking to to find my purpose. I've started a youtube gaming channel and plan on creating my own cartoon. It's not much now, but im sure if i keep putting the work in good things, will come.
@@ahsoka_polo it is much, brother✊🏿
Congratulations, I’ll watch it and support you.
I still watch anime and play my ps4 in my free time.
So your audience is going to go bonkers, I wish all the success in your journey
@@ahsoka_polo Stay on your grind Young Man.
Like the Late Great Godfather (Kevin Samuels) and a few other HVM would/Have said…it gets better for us(Men) as we get older AS LONG AS YOU stay grinding on your purpose and bettering yourself. Like my grandfather would say, “ you will lose money and resources chasing women, BUT You’ll never lose women chasing money and resources!” ✊🏾👍🏾💯🔥
They're asking for all of this, but a man can't ask for fit, feminine, submissive, and cooperative, they'd call it toxic masculinity, but what they're doing isn't toxic femininity
Right a help mate being demanding like she da prize
The stink face look that black women have sometime like someone farted or said something dispicable is a look they cannot get rid of after showing that expression since early teens. Nahhh i prefer living in Eastern Europe where women practice pretty smiles and fit boides in hopes of being a model....and later in life they have quick smiles, soft eyes, and unaggressive attittudes. Learned Behavior....
When she says she wants a man who knows what he wants, it's never considered that he may not want her(or he doesn't want her the way she expects him to).
Fact. She sure needed a lot of words to simply say men in Houston don’t want me.
None of them look good anyway
😂😂😂
@victormuhammad1393 high expectations for average at best
Ladies in the interview: "Hey all you successful, top 10%: your success is not enough - you need to have a personality I can vibe to!"
Successful men: "I'm sorry who are you again?"
Oh you better be tall and a world class pipe layer as well or I'm going to get bored and cheat.
Exactly
@@doncorleone2713lol
Yep. What do you have that I need?
She says that she wants a leader but is she willing to be led? I’m betting that the answer is “No”.
Women view themselves as the “prize”. But can you cook? Can you maintain a household? Can I envision you as mother to my children? Can you mesh well with my family? Can I mesh well with yours? Do we have a similar life outlook? Do you have a long term approach to our relationship and are you willing to grow with me?
These are the types of things that a rational, confident man has in the back of his mind. He may have an upfront conversation with you about it but more often than not, he won’t. What he most definitely will do is take note of your demeanor, your attitude, your friends, how you interact with others, what you say and how you move. I don’t think women understand how many of them silently disqualify themselves from consideration based on the above.
Truth ! Preach !!
So much wisdom in this. Sad thing is in this day and age a lot of black women in the west don't wanna hear it. And as long as they don't wanna hear KS will stay right.
I 100% agree we may not cut you off but you most certainly were ruled out as a life partner based on your inability to be a somewhat decent helper
BAM!! THERE IT IS!!😂
What is really funny if she met a man that could meet her requirements then she would introduce them to her friends for their approval. Its tough with one women let along four of them.
These are modern women who are angry their generation of men know their worth- Especially the men they want. The men in my generation (X) didn't for the most part - thats why we had all those cheesy love songs with dudes begging- simp anthems
GenX here. You’re 💯 % right, but we didn’t know any better. I’m so glad that this generation of men has this mindset.
They are not getting hit on by the guys they want...plain and simple...the guys they want are looking at better looking girls than them cause they can...
So they're mad they can't call someone dusty and broke lol.
A successful man should have options, he’s successful. He put in the work to get higher than the average man, he should choose what he wants.
See this is why relationships never work and are pointless as the foundation is just trash.
The only way this view on relationships works is if you are the very peak of man. If you are successful and a guy is slightly more successful then you wants your wife well bye bye wife.
1. Many want men that they view as beneath them. Successful black men put them in a position to follow when they don’t actually want to follow.
2. Now that the world knows that black men are doing fine, they need new arguments as to why they cannot follow a man and let him lead. They’re moving the goalposts.
3. They don’t want to compete for a man.
@coolbreeze, BINGO!!!!
These women may be able to pay for themselves but men look for women that are attractive and pleasant to be with. They are 6's and 7's and not very pleasant.
HOW THE FVCK IS A GUY NOT ACCOMPLISHED IF HE'S VERY SUCCESSFUL?!?
LMAO!! Don't try to make sense of it Fam. It's dumb
Oh so now they admit relationship success is different from career success. We’ve been saying that about them for years now.
Right😂😂😂 once i read your comment and listened to them, i said these bitches.
She LITERALLY just agreed with most red pill spaces that CAREER SUCCESS DOES NOT TRANSLATE TO A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP! MEN have said this THE ENTIRE TIME! Why don't they see that within themselves? Hypocrisy
or as i like to say it, in honor of westernized females, HIPPOCRISY
get it?
The unmentioned elephant in the room is, “marriage.” A tremendous risk for an accomplished man who marries someone who has nothing to lose but everything to gain. The current male attitude evolved out of divorce law, as did the current female attitude of entitlement in some part.
Marriage was killed by the last man who paid
Great point. Marriage and family should be the ultimate goal. This has little risks, but potential for great reward for women but for a successful man, marriage today is tantamount to commiting financial suicide.
Lmao. She said success in your career doesnt equal success in dating, yet feels entitled to a successful man
Just because men aren't stepping up to them with command, presence, charisma, doesn't mean those men do not posses those qualities, like well paid actors, those skills go on only when it's show time. and there is a payoff in the end.
These young ladies talk a good game. Ask them the same questions 10 years from now when they are still single.
Respectfully
The group last in dating and marriage (ABW) always has a diagnosis for EVERYONE ELSE but themselves
They the real issue in the black community
they run their men to us and we treat them like Kings. My husband is successful because he persevered and built his life with the help of other veterans. I’m a pediatrician with his help and love of our families i proceeded to better and enrich both my life and my Husbands.
I’m amazed how they act so arrogantly when they bring nothing to the table
Women: I have my own place, I have my own car, I pay my own bills I'm independent
Also women: So what a man has his own place, car and pay his bills so what that what you are supposed to have.
Contradiction
Facts my dude!!
So if a man has a house, car, good job, and has his affairs in order, he is being an adult. But if a woman has those things she is an independent bad bitch🤨! Make it make sense 😂
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They are successful but not leaders - lol!!! She is saying is that she wants a man that will "own the room, be direct, don't beat around the bush". What's happening is that the men are not being direct with HER. Why? because she is not what they want. Who shops for something they do not want? The more successful a man becomes the more his baseline standards generally increase. The more they increase the more that the women he does not desire find reasons why he is not doing it "right". Whole clown shows...
Men aren’t interested in her anyway. None of them look good
when women say "i want u to walk in the room and own it" it sounds ridiculous to me.. it reflects what i deem to be a hatred of humility.. did your granddad "walk in a room and own it?" or did he walk in like a normal person and just do what he had to do?
I walk in a room and absolutely own it the problem is I don't look like they think the owner should 😮
As the old saying goes, a man with a lot of money won’t necessarily have the time to spend with you. A man with time won’t have the money.
She's in relationship taking about single ppl problems
304s.... She too obvious, Her partner is obviously a simp.
Bingo. So she is on the fence about her relationship.
The 2nd woman actually told the truth unlike the first chic with the bimbo babble. There are indeed a lot of successful black men in Dallas and Houston, so yeas these men have a lot of options and they're enjoying this position.
I am so lost. Women make up sentences and make no sense to me. They are so lost at time. Now I agree with her about a personal relationship succeeding is totally different than a career. With that being said, she can't have both. She wants a LEADER in career and ambishous and still wants the relationship to carry on. One area will suffer right?
Idk, I personally see a lot of men who are settling/settled down.. With average/below average women at that. Some women are willing to be an actual wife & not some type of co-husband. One of my coworkers says all the time:
"Now my wife may not be a supermodel, but she gets me, completes me & doesn't COMPETE with me."
They have zero debt, everything paid off, go on trips regularly, & retirement accounts look pretty nice.
So your coworker showed that he was willing to take a wife over a combative super model. Men do not want combative super model business partners in marriage. They want a wife, a helper, and a submissive and feminine woman. Not someone who walks around telling him what he should be doing or he has to do like the women in the video did.
What I have learned... You can't trust what women say. They say I want a nice guy.. that's a lie. They say show some emotion, don't do it!
that WALL is a culture SHOCK for them females
Women are never satisfied 😂. Just live your life fellas 😎
If a man is already accomplished and is dating down, he technically is the “Price” when she brings nothing to the preverbal table.
I'll translate for yah.
The men she wants, don't want her
The level of contradiction is amazing
The prime example of moving the goalposts
I don't think the women realize this comes off as an obvious attempt to downplay the men they want who don't want them. It's sour grapes. 😂
8:08 Bruh...women brag about doing these things ALL THE TIME!
"I'm INDEPENDENT!" 🤦🏾♂️ 😂😂
Exactly
Sounds like they want men with low self esteem who need them to be happy.
So basically, for us men we're damned if we do and we're damned if we don't.
I respect her. She is honest and take it
Imagine being a woman who is tired of being catered to going on multiple date's she doesnt have to pay for
The man that exists in her head she wants in real life
She'll realize that man isn't out there for her to get
Thank you women for just admitting what we been saying to you . Your not a boss chick , your not some high mighty queen or somebody men need to level up and raise their game to handle because you have a job , car or place . Your just a functioning adult . Now we have that clear many of you can also admit that your average and no better then the average man . KNOCK IT OFF .
Charles provided some excellent commentary on this interview. I was struggling trying to understand the ladies as they were going in circles, contradicting themselves, and blaming everything on men. Women now have to be the huntresses, not the hunted. Another option is to become better bait: fit, feminine, friendly.
I think you hit the nail on the head. I think the women don’t know that they actually are competing and they don’t like it. They feel like these types of men should chase them. They want the options that don’t want them.
My how the tables have turned! Now they don't like the fact that they have to compete!
Ladies you're in competition with each other! That's the way it should be
If you zero out all potential matches in a big ole Texas city, your potential matches aren’t the problem.
These successful men don’t want to settle until they have exhausted all their options.
These men are window shopping. Women shop for bags men shop for women. Have to try a few on before you find the one that fits.
Damn they don’t fit the bill 😂 . So they have to move the goal post 😂
Or.......they just don't take you seriously.
"I don't like that the men I like can play the game the way I have been."
The successful men don't want them😂
I remember I matched with a woman from Houston on a dating app, I am here in Charlotte. She said she couldn’t find a decent guy in the four largest city in the nation and that was part of the reason she moved. I told her if she couldn’t find her guy in Houston, she damn sure wasn’t going to find him in Charlotte. She was actually legitimately shocked and disappointed. The logic finally dawned upon her.
These women are out of their damn minds if they think every guy is living good in those Dallas streets.. can’t make this shit up
They want a man with accolades. But they don't want a man to leverage his accolades. If a woman is good-looking, and wears a size 2 dress, she leverages that. Use of the term "horrible" is being dramatic and/or entitled. And women seem to generally not understand that a whole new 'hot crop' of women are coming behind them. I remember I used to explain this to homegirls ~10 years back. They stay at the poker table too long.
Facts, when the music stops many will have no seat at the table.
She really said she doesn't care about accolades but they do matter 7:30
you nailed it!
Women like this are dependents... The men they choose to date would be setting themselves up for failure.. This same woman is the type of woman that would initiate a divorce the moment things get tough or require her to participate in the relationship.
I never heard of the prize complaining about said difficulty.
When a man doesn't compare to the man that she has already built in her head it doesn't end well the perfect man on her mind she wants to exist in reality
Know your worth Kings
Rofl!😂 Tell me you deserve THAT guy... He SHOULD compete for ME, im a Queen, and gaslighting yourself HEs not the prize I am. City Boys!
I live in Dallas where the women make as much money as the men but hey there’s plethora of options for men here in Dallas. Why will a man settle for less?
8:14 "That's you being an adult" That's the same thing men have been trying to tell them for the longest, when women lead with their accomplishments. 😂☕
GREAT ANALYSIS CHARLES👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾🙂🙂🙂👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾💯💯💯
The point is that they want somebody who's completely fixed instead of building
Not for nothing, they say all that with the money part about how it doesn't matter.. but I'd bet my bottom dollar as soon as they get in an argument with a man with nothing, i bet the first words out their mouths are "you bum a$$ ninja"..
Never never never get back with your ex unless, you are 1000000000000% sure that she didn't date around, you will always regret it in the long run.
Ty🙏
Kevin Samuels got demonized for saying this exact thing to the women who called in
If the guy has the money, the house, the car, e.t.c. then she is not the prize, he is the prize.
these the type of women who would wait at the finish line and still be picky as if successful men are running to get them. 😂
These 3 women are actually balanced in their minds.
Well, I think the circumstances are that what is attractive to a man is different to what is attractive to a woman. And these women don’t understand what is attractive to a man. The assumption is, I make money too so you should be attracted to me as a woman but men don’t care for that. What men want is under valued. Women try to tell me what they want in a woman, and get upset when it’s not what they offer and then turn and say “where are all the good men.” Well, you’ve disqualified them by downplaying what makes them good men.
These conversations take only COMMON SENSE! A man must be able to UNDERSTAND what women are saying. She is basically saying that she is not able to find a successful man who is also a SIMP, who easily agrees with her without seeing THE OBVIOUS FAULT IN HER POINT (Which the dude with the camera was exposing). Women want to be picky with men...so, after a thousand dates they will make up their minds...maybe.
This woman is DESPERATE, but the successful men in Dallas are not foolishly jumping at the bait like fcking fishes. They are looking at where it's coming from.
Now...was that so hard to understand? Anyone???
Chasing 'those' was a 70's, 80's and 90's game. 2000's with the avent of social media, men are wiser and getting gamed up by wiser men and not wear the capes but strictly be about the business. Men chase wealth, healthy lifestyle and happiness, not women. Black men travel globally, interracially dating or say fuck it, dont date at all.
Women definition of ambition means why you don't have money like Jeff Bezos
Men are the prize. Enough said. Change my mind...I'll sit and wait.
These three have been ran through so much the Boston marathon would be jealous... i really hope others have the sane radar
My bs meter is going off with these ladies…I think theyre not getting chosen and are bitter
How much money a man has isn't enough. These women always want more. Enough is never enough.
As a man...a black man...your dating options expand exponentially in your 40s and 50s. As you continue to earn more and pay off your debts, you don't have to deal with ungrateful or disrespectful women. You can pick and choose like women did in their 20s.
These ladies all seem exhausting to engage with.
They are set to harp and complain and harp and complain. Some poor guy will never please them.
It's a good thing when a successful man has a lot of dating options.
Let’s keep it a buck. You’re looking at 3 stragglers (49ers) who don’t want to compete in the marketplace.
They had some good talking points with how they want a man to have personality and being a good man ! I wish in the interview they talked a little about what they a bringing so that the man would have that interest in them so we could see if it’s one or the other who needs to step it up or both! And Charles said it competition and being real about the standards and the level of men that would want them I think it’s the physical
Charles, your assessment of the points these women spoke on is spot on. I wish they would stop saying "I feel like" at the start of their sentences because that phrase often tells me their answers are going to be emotional instead of logical with reasoning and evidence thus anecdotal. That phrase makes me not want to engage in conversation with you anymore which may be unfair but done.