This story is so relatable. I had a similar ex friendship just like this. They slowly drift apart and hang out with other friends behind your back without inviting you on several occasions. I felt like a fool for giving them the benefit of doubt. A hard lesson to learn. On another point, the woman is not wrong for celebrating her success. It's only the wrong people that take her success as a threat to themselves. She wants to better herself was positive but that ex friend decided to make it a competition, which was immature and I'm glad the story submitter distance herself from toxic friends
When you khav theeb about your success, be prepared for haters. There are so many successful hmong men and women out there, and they don’t go bragging about it by throwing a party to show it off.
She didn’t think you was going to get that far and then she got jealous you beat her to the final … jealously is a killer! Sometimes, you don’t know what people’s intentions are until it’s too late!! Some people don’t really want you to Succeed!! Very sad, how life is!! 😢❤🎉😮
Always remember not everyone will be happy for your success! Keep your success to yourself and your spouse because only you and your immediate family benefit from it, not others so it's not surprising when others don't share in your happiness.
Finally a story from the user. It’s me me me. You help me to achieve my educational goal. Now you help me to organize my party. I’m mad at you for refusing to offer up free labor even though I’m making more money now. You help me when I’m broke and down and help me to be successful but now you better keep helping me. Woman take a moment to appreciate and instead of thinking about she more can she do for you. What can you do to return the kindness? You’re very selfish.
Just be glad she's the one that encouraged you to get where you are at. If it wasn't for her, you would never have gotten to where you're at, but for me, i always keep my distance no matter how good of a good I may think of someone.
She probably wanted to play a good friend until your success came along. Than you became a treat. And she probably don’t want to keep you around anymore because now she feel your doing better than her. She was never a friend in the beginning. Becareful because there is a lot of people like that out in the world. Very true your best friend should only be your spouse. They are who going to support and uplift your life. Other people only act like they care but truly they are laughing inside when you are at your lowest. Pay attention to the people around you. Sometimes they do not sound as genuinely as they are. Don’t open up to people. They are just investigating your life and waiting for your downfall. Best to ignore and live on with your spouse and children. Friends are not everything in this world for us. Sometimes no friends mean peaceful mind and life. Be glad they show their true colors early than later on. Be glad things happen for a reason.
😂 alot of victim blaming here.... i see nothing wrong with anyone celebrating their own successes. They worked hard to get to where they are and they deserved to be celebrated. Unfortunately for this woman, she was friend with someone who truly was never her friend from the beginning but this was definitely a blessing in disguise that her success would showed her who truly is happy for her. ❤
You're too naive. She gave you a lot of red flags, and you chose to ignore it. Also, not everyone who you think is your good friend is actually your friend, and not everyone shares your happiness with you for your accomplishments, so let this be a lesson learned and keep everything to yourself.
Yap. I myself never encountered situations like this because I am always so cautious thankfully. But I have seen it happen to friends and relatives. Some people are very insecure.
LMFAO, there will always be haters in your life, be it family or friends. Best thing to do is keep your circle small and trust and keep those that truly loves you.
I empathize with this story. I have encountered a few hidden detractors who feigned kindness toward me and left them behind in the dust and vowed never to look back.
Ntuj aws nyiam qhuav tau haujlwm li ko xwb cas yuav khav ua luaj naj. Txhob muab yus tus kheej coj mus khav2 maj. CIA lwm tus mam pom yus qhov zoo xwb txhob coj yus mus khav2 rau tej chaws mloog os. Tus neeg txawj ntshe luag niam qhuav hnov Koj pib hais xwb ces luag twb nyeem tau Koj tas lawm os
G paub lwm tu zoo li ca os ho zoo li kuv tu kheej ma thaum luag txom nyem yu qhia2 luag yu pab luag txhua yam pab2 thaum luag zoo zuj zu tuaj lawm hauj lwm lo luag ua tau nyiaj ntau thaum lawv muaj nyiaj zog xwb ma pib hai Lu khav theeb lawv saib yu qhi2 yu cia li g muaj nqi lawv g Pom qhov yu qhia thiab yu pab lawv thaum lawv txom2 nyem luag mu twg lo luag tsua piav yog cov g muaj peev xwm thiaj ua tsi tau li luag no xwb yu thov nw kev pab ma nw g quav ntsej li thaum kawg ce nw tseem hai tia yog yu khib nw li tu niam tsev no hai thb,ce yu xum nploj ntsiag to xwb kuv ce yeej nkag siab ib co neeg e yu pab2 txawb2 kawg
Sister, kuv yeej nkag siab koj hais kawg os. Kuv twb tau taug txoj kev ntawd lawm thiab. Xub thawj mas yeej rau kuv mob siab kawg li thiab, tiam sis tiam sim no ces kuv xum nyob ib leeg es thiaj li kaj kuv siab dua xwb.
Lesson learned don't show off especially among the Hmong community, because there are lots of haters that don't want the best for you or know you're doing well. Come on don't trust anyone.
Some people yeej secretly ntxub yus os. Most of the time it’s the people closest to you that hates you. Nws twb tsis nyiam koj from the beginning es nws lam hais kom koj mus nkawm ntawd bc she thinks you can’t do it. Koj ua tau ces khib khib nws siab mas.
Nej cov poj hmoob thaum txom nyem es lawm pab nej na thaum nej tau noj nej yuav tau tig los hlub cov phooj ywj ua tau pab nej thiab. Tus poj hauv zaj dab neeg xav tau tus phooj yej ua qhev tuag nti. Leeg twg thiaj xav ua nws qhev mus tag li. Koj twb tau nyiaj ntau thiab kav theeb es cas koj tsis muaj me ntsib nyiaj los them nws qhov koj kom nws pab koj. Thaum Koj txom nyem mam nws hlub thiab pab dawb tabsis yog twb muaj nyiaj lawm mam txhob qias dub thiab vam noj luag lub zog free. Thaum nws hais rau koj tias nws yuav ib qhob khoom plig rau koj. No yog nws nug koj tias “thaum koj txom nyem kuv twb pab koj, hnub no koj muaj lawm, koj yuav tau muaj rau kuv thiab” tabsis vim koj yog ib tus neeg vam kom luag ua qhev xwb ces koj tias tsis nkag siab.
Remember not every body is your friend some friend just like you but jealous of you. Cov hlub thiab zoo siab hlo pab yus tsib khib txog yus ces yog yus cov txheeb txheeb ze ze yus xwb nawb mog
Some people cannot accept other people's success. A person like that does not deserve your time. Be glad you are not friends with that group or her. You deserve better!
I don't hate success. I dislike how big of a deal the hmong community makes of it by throwing huge parties when their kids get a degree. It's appropriate to celebrate with friends and families, not the whole community. There will be people who will think you're boasting. Boasting is a trait that turns people off. You need to re-evaluate how you behave since you joined the educated class. Lots of successful people now live a quiet life. Be humble and make new friends. Be wiser this time around. Remind yourself that your occupation doesn't define who you are. You may be acting like you are better than your friends now so they detach from you.
She's jealous, yes. But I think you may have over-celebrated a "supervisor" position too. It's one thing to celebrate amongst your own immediate family (spouse + kids) like go out for dinner or something... But it's completely annoying bragging to throw a party for it. 🙄🙄 I think you may have down played how annoying you are too. I get the feeling you're overly annoying about A LOT of things in life. Nobody wants those kinds of friends either
You need to learn to be humble. Just a supervisor role and you act like you own the whole company and made a huge deal for others to congratulate you. Should have just been you and your husband and/or kids to celebrate is good enough. Stop thinking other ppl should congratulate you for a small mile stone in your life that has no affect on thier life. Ppl only notice when it affects their life too.
Congrats on your success and promotion! Because you were so happy that u shared your job promotion with your good friend Zena. U have the right to tell your friend about it. There's nothing wrong with that. It's not like she's a stranger. What u don't know is that your friend is a liar, a snake, n a jealous hater of your new job position. This kind of a friend is dangerous cus she's very good at pretending n hiding her true feelings. B careful who u make friends in the future. Don't trust people so easily.
Ib cov poj niam ces yog koj tsis muaj education los txhob txwm thas lais kom koj mus kawm ntawv ces koj tsis paub. Ces Cas koj ho kawm tau koj ho tau supervisor ces nws Haj yam ntxub koj. Haters ces Haters nawb
I have a friend who brags about her family. Her man doesn't even have an education nor has an good paying job. He knows a little bit of hmong traditional stuffs but she brags about him to me, other people and to strangers like crazy about how qhuag he is, how much he loves her so and so. Her man yeej qhuag thiab yeej hlub nws but no need to brag about it like that. Her children are all grown..they aren't educated either. they dont even work but stay home all day but she brags that they are so good this and that. She speak so highly of her family that they are so good, smart and etc but she aint no queen in the house. She's working so hard...lol
I don’t think you was kam teev but you was happy that she encouraged you to do better and you’ve succeeded and then she didn’t like it that you’ve accomplished something . She is a person of show she wants credit for everything
Mloog zoo li thaum koj tau zoo neej zog tuaj, koj coj txawv koj tug thaum ub rau nws lawm.. Tej zaum nws nyiam koj tug thaum ub better, thaum ntawv zoo li koj tsis khav theeb thiab show show off raws li koj tham.. You sure be grateful rau nws tug thaum ub and zam txim rau nws tug tamsim nov es xav tias tej zaum nws muaj nws own problems thiab..
Those people are not your friends. They are followers. The puppies will do what their leader tell them. You lost bad people in your life. Be happy about that.
You must really be self centered to not know notice anything! A person doesn't go bragging about themselves too. Take it as a lesson learned. Just like a tree. Some stay for a season, some stay for a while, and some last a lifetime. Not everybody that walk into your life going to stay with you til the end. We all got out own path to take. Cherish the people around you. And always keep the number small.
This reminds me of my ex best friend. We did everything together and shared all of our secrets. But when I got every guy without trying, her crushes liking me over her or got better jobs and opportunities she hated me so much she’ll try to diss me on her social media. And unfriend me off everything but tried to act like she didn’t hate me in person. 😂 The jealousy is real and some people are evil that’s why u got to be careful who u love and befriend.
Being a supervisor is not easy but just be fair and treat people like humans. Very happy for you. Sister there will always be someone who secretly hates you on the inside
Dont brag too much of your success to others. They don't really care. I was a supervisor for my medical clinic billing department for 10 years, and it was so much drama and stress. The money is not worthy of my sanity.
Cov phooj ywg zoo li ko mas thaum yus ruam tshaj nws pluag tshaj nws mas nws ua thaj siab zoo2 hai zoo2 ua tus ntsheb2 pab yus tiam sis thaum yus ho ntsheb thiab muaj nyiaj tshaj nws mas nws ci li ntshub thiab khib2 yus
Don’t put all your eggs in one basket! Look at yourself, maybe you’re too cocky, that’s why the whole group blocked you. Don’t expect anything from anyone and you will never be disappointed.
Tham phone xwb es txawm siv pom lub ntsej muag luag ntxhi ntag. Tsis paub xyov cas koj nim yuav quav ntsej koj tus phooj ywg Zeena ntawv ua luaj txog txij yus ua rooj noj es nws tsis tuaj thiab nws ua es nws twb tsis hais txog yus ces tsum xwb yus nyob yus xwb tsis quav2 ntsej txog txuag yus tus dag tus zog mus pab tus neeg pab yus hlub yus tiag2 tsis yog pab tej tus fake friends ntawv li os. kuv li kuv yeej tsis ua phooj ywg zoo2 nrog leej twg li nawb yus tus phooj ywg ces yog yus tsev neeg yus viv yus ncaus xwb
Maybe it was you who looked on them and bragged yourself that you make a lot of money and have high degree and supervisor.If the person you claimed hate you as you said. She would not encourage you go back to school. You should thank her instead of gossiping about her. You are not a good person as you claimed you. We would like to hear from her side.
I think you’re the problem…maybe you let your success get into your head. People don’t usually push orhers to succeed unless they really care. Just my 2 cents
First rule, You don’t tell people how much money you make.
This story is so relatable. I had a similar ex friendship just like this. They slowly drift apart and hang out with other friends behind your back without inviting you on several occasions. I felt like a fool for giving them the benefit of doubt. A hard lesson to learn.
On another point, the woman is not wrong for celebrating her success. It's only the wrong people that take her success as a threat to themselves. She wants to better herself was positive but that ex friend decided to make it a competition, which was immature and I'm glad the story submitter distance herself from toxic friends
When you khav theeb about your success, be prepared for haters. There are so many successful hmong men and women out there, and they don’t go bragging about it by throwing a party to show it off.
Ruam os. Twg kom yus khav theeb txog yus txoj kev kawm ntawv success. Be humble!
She didn’t think you was going to get that far and then she got jealous you beat her to the final … jealously is a killer!
Sometimes, you don’t know what people’s intentions are until it’s too late!! Some people don’t really want you to Succeed!! Very sad, how life is!! 😢❤🎉😮
Always remember not everyone will be happy for your success! Keep your success to yourself and your spouse because only you and your immediate family benefit from it, not others so it's not surprising when others don't share in your happiness.
It’s better not to be her friend. I’m glad you learned to let her and her group of friends go. 😊
Finally a story from the user. It’s me me me. You help me to achieve my educational goal. Now you help me to organize my party. I’m mad at you for refusing to offer up free labor even though I’m making more money now. You help me when I’m broke and down and help me to be successful but now you better keep helping me. Woman take a moment to appreciate and instead of thinking about she more can she do for you. What can you do to return the kindness? You’re very selfish.
Just be glad she's the one that encouraged you to get where you are at. If it wasn't for her, you would never have gotten to where you're at, but for me, i always keep my distance no matter how good of a good I may think of someone.
She probably wanted to play a good friend until your success came along. Than you became a treat. And she probably don’t want to keep you around anymore because now she feel your doing better than her. She was never a friend in the beginning. Becareful because there is a lot of people like that out in the world. Very true your best friend should only be your spouse. They are who going to support and uplift your life. Other people only act like they care but truly they are laughing inside when you are at your lowest. Pay attention to the people around you. Sometimes they do not sound as genuinely as they are. Don’t open up to people. They are just investigating your life and waiting for your downfall. Best to ignore and live on with your spouse and children. Friends are not everything in this world for us. Sometimes no friends mean peaceful mind and life. Be glad they show their true colors early than later on. Be glad things happen for a reason.
😂 alot of victim blaming here.... i see nothing wrong with anyone celebrating their own successes. They worked hard to get to where they are and they deserved to be celebrated. Unfortunately for this woman, she was friend with someone who truly was never her friend from the beginning but this was definitely a blessing in disguise that her success would showed her who truly is happy for her. ❤
You're too naive. She gave you a lot of red flags, and you chose to ignore it. Also, not everyone who you think is your good friend is actually your friend, and not everyone shares your happiness with you for your accomplishments, so let this be a lesson learned and keep everything to yourself.
Yap. I myself never encountered situations like this because I am always so cautious thankfully. But I have seen it happen to friends and relatives. Some people are very insecure.
LMFAO, there will always be haters in your life, be it family or friends. Best thing to do is keep your circle small and trust and keep those that truly loves you.
I empathize with this story. I have encountered a few hidden detractors who feigned kindness toward me and left them behind in the dust and vowed never to look back.
Amen 🙏
Ntuj aws nyiam qhuav tau haujlwm li ko xwb cas yuav khav ua luaj naj. Txhob muab yus tus kheej coj mus khav2 maj. CIA lwm tus mam pom yus qhov zoo xwb txhob coj yus mus khav2 rau tej chaws mloog os. Tus neeg txawj ntshe luag niam qhuav hnov Koj pib hais xwb ces luag twb nyeem tau Koj tas lawm os
yog kawg twb pom muaj cov li ko thb lawm
G paub lwm tu zoo li ca os ho zoo li kuv tu kheej ma thaum luag txom nyem yu qhia2 luag yu pab luag txhua yam pab2 thaum luag zoo zuj zu tuaj lawm hauj lwm lo luag ua tau nyiaj ntau thaum lawv muaj nyiaj zog xwb ma pib hai Lu khav theeb lawv saib yu qhi2 yu cia li g muaj nqi lawv g Pom qhov yu qhia thiab yu pab lawv thaum lawv txom2 nyem luag mu twg lo luag tsua piav yog cov g muaj peev xwm thiaj ua tsi tau li luag no xwb yu thov nw kev pab ma nw g quav ntsej li thaum kawg ce nw tseem hai tia yog yu khib nw li tu niam tsev no hai thb,ce yu xum nploj ntsiag to xwb kuv ce yeej nkag siab ib co neeg e yu pab2 txawb2 kawg
That's why I keep my circle small! Haters every where!
Hom neeg zoo li ko ces siab phem tob thiab khib lwm tus tshaj plaw li os
Sister, kuv yeej nkag siab koj hais kawg os. Kuv twb tau taug txoj kev ntawd lawm thiab. Xub thawj mas yeej rau kuv mob siab kawg li thiab, tiam sis tiam sim no ces kuv xum nyob ib leeg es thiaj li kaj kuv siab dua xwb.
Lesson learned don't show off especially among the Hmong community, because there are lots of haters that don't want the best for you or know you're doing well. Come on don't trust anyone.
Some people yeej secretly ntxub yus os. Most of the time it’s the people closest to you that hates you. Nws twb tsis nyiam koj from the beginning es nws lam hais kom koj mus nkawm ntawd bc she thinks you can’t do it. Koj ua tau ces khib khib nws siab mas.
True !!!! Some people are so jealous about you !!!!
Not everyone smiles at you is your friend.
It's OK, don't be sad about it. Keep your life safe is the best thing.
Friends like that, you’re better without!
Nej cov poj hmoob thaum txom nyem es lawm pab nej na thaum nej tau noj nej yuav tau tig los hlub cov phooj ywj ua tau pab nej thiab. Tus poj hauv zaj dab neeg xav tau tus phooj yej ua qhev tuag nti. Leeg twg thiaj xav ua nws qhev mus tag li.
Koj twb tau nyiaj ntau thiab kav theeb es cas koj tsis muaj me ntsib nyiaj los them nws qhov koj kom nws pab koj. Thaum
Koj txom nyem mam nws hlub thiab pab dawb tabsis yog twb muaj nyiaj lawm mam txhob qias dub thiab vam noj luag lub zog free.
Thaum nws hais rau koj tias nws yuav ib qhob khoom plig rau koj. No yog nws nug koj tias “thaum koj txom nyem kuv twb pab koj, hnub no koj muaj lawm, koj yuav tau muaj rau kuv thiab” tabsis vim koj yog ib tus neeg vam kom luag ua qhev xwb ces koj tias tsis nkag siab.
Remember not every body is your friend some friend just like you but jealous of you. Cov hlub thiab zoo siab hlo pab yus tsib khib txog yus ces yog yus cov txheeb txheeb ze ze yus xwb nawb mog
Sadly to said your best friend was never loves you !
Some people cannot accept other people's success. A person like that does not deserve your time. Be glad you are not friends with that group or her. You deserve better!
It’s ok sister. She lost a good friend over her own self greed.
I don't hate success. I dislike how big of a deal the hmong community makes of it by throwing huge parties when their kids get a degree. It's appropriate to celebrate with friends and families, not the whole community. There will be people who will think you're boasting. Boasting is a trait that turns people off. You need to re-evaluate how you behave since you joined the educated class. Lots of successful people now live a quiet life. Be humble and make new friends. Be wiser this time around. Remind yourself that your occupation doesn't define who you are. You may be acting like you are better than your friends now so they detach from you.
It's okay, you don't need friend like that. My friends are my sisters...
This is why I don't have any outsiders as friends. My friends are my spouse and siblings.
Remember, the only people who can truly be happy for your accomplishments and successes are your parents!
Something must happen for things to happen.
Family are the worst haters.
I dpnt surround myself with ppls or friends. Being alone is the best.
She's jealous, yes.
But I think you may have over-celebrated a "supervisor" position too. It's one thing to celebrate amongst your own immediate family (spouse + kids) like go out for dinner or something... But it's completely annoying bragging to throw a party for it. 🙄🙄
I think you may have down played how annoying you are too. I get the feeling you're overly annoying about A LOT of things in life. Nobody wants those kinds of friends either
You need to learn to be humble. Just a supervisor role and you act like you own the whole company and made a huge deal for others to congratulate you. Should have just been you and your husband and/or kids to celebrate is good enough. Stop thinking other ppl should congratulate you for a small mile stone in your life that has no affect on thier life. Ppl only notice when it affects their life too.
Those are true two faced people
Every wolf pack only has one Alfa, the up and coming Alfa must be denied
Ab es ntshe yus twb muaj lawm thiab os😢😢😢😢😢😢
Cov neeg hais lus mos2 thiab hais lus zoo2 mas ceev faj nawb yog phooj ywg laib xwb os
Yog tsaj os kuv Los twb muaj ib zaj li koj thiab os sister ma aw taum yus paub es twb lig lawm thiab os.
What a bunch of drama queens.
Congrats on your success and promotion! Because you were so happy that u shared your job promotion with your good friend Zena. U have the right to tell your friend about it. There's nothing wrong with that. It's not like she's a stranger. What u don't know is that your friend is a liar, a snake, n a jealous hater of your new job position. This kind of a friend is dangerous cus she's very good at pretending n hiding her true feelings. B careful who u make friends in the future. Don't trust people so easily.
Ntxub vim khib. Txoj kev sib khib li no muaj tob tshaj plaws yog cov ntawm xub ntiag tuaj mus (including 2 tug identical twins tib si).
Ib cov poj niam ces yog koj tsis muaj education los txhob txwm thas lais kom koj mus kawm ntawv ces koj tsis paub. Ces Cas koj ho kawm tau koj ho tau supervisor ces nws Haj yam ntxub koj. Haters ces Haters nawb
Why are people so passive aggressive. If you don’t like someone, just tell them.
Peb hmoob mas nyuam qhuav kawm ntawv tiav ib qib thiab tau ua supervisor xwb mas qhia teb chaw paub pab txaj muag dhau.
Kv ce kv g muaj phooj ywg li tej phooj ywg ntawv yg phooj ywg phim nyub vais xb o
Beware of gentle speakers and people who are very nice.
Jealousy is such an ugly thing. Keep rising so she will be even more jealous and envious of you.
I have a friend who brags about her family. Her man doesn't even have an education nor has an good paying job. He knows a little bit of hmong traditional stuffs but she brags about him to me, other people and to strangers like crazy about how qhuag he is, how much he loves her so and so. Her man yeej qhuag thiab yeej hlub nws but no need to brag about it like that. Her children are all grown..they aren't educated either. they dont even work but stay home all day but she brags that they are so good this and that. She speak so highly of her family that they are so good, smart and etc but she aint no queen in the house. She's working so hard...lol
I don’t think you was kam teev but you was happy that she encouraged you to do better and you’ve succeeded and then she didn’t like it that you’ve accomplished something . She is a person of show she wants credit for everything
Vim yus ruam2 ces yus qhia siab tag2 rau luag ces luag muaj txoj kev khib es tsi tag yus yuav ua phooj ywg rau luag lwam mog.
Umm, seems like there's more to this story. Remember that no one is perfect, even ourselves.
The hate is real! Glad they do enough to you so that you dont have to waste your time on ppl like that anymore 😊
Sister, don't feel bad. i have a Sister in law act the same as her, too.she talks very nicely to you, but she talks behind your back.
That’s not a true friend …
You should know better! Not everyone enjoys your success! Out of 10 people 2 people will not like you!
Mloog zoo li thaum koj tau zoo neej zog tuaj, koj coj txawv koj tug thaum ub rau nws lawm..
Tej zaum nws nyiam koj tug thaum ub better, thaum ntawv zoo li koj tsis khav theeb thiab show show off raws li koj tham..
You sure be grateful rau nws tug thaum ub and zam txim rau nws tug tamsim nov es xav tias tej zaum nws muaj nws own problems thiab..
Those people are not your friends. They are followers. The puppies will do what their leader tell them. You lost bad people in your life. Be happy about that.
You must really be self centered to not know notice anything! A person doesn't go bragging about themselves too. Take it as a lesson learned. Just like a tree. Some stay for a season, some stay for a while, and some last a lifetime. Not everybody that walk into your life going to stay with you til the end. We all got out own path to take. Cherish the people around you. And always keep the number small.
You're overjoyed about your success, and you over emphasize your success. That's why your friend hates you.
Yep I have a few haters that I know of. I just stay away from them. I know that they hate me because I am much better then them.
Yog kawg peb cov pojniam es nyiam nyiam ua zoo nkauj hauv fb teb na muaj secret hater coob heev nawb! Be careful os!😅
Hater 😂🎉
Biggest FAN 😂😂😂😂
Txob tu siab. You don't need friends like that in your life.
This reminds me of my ex best friend. We did everything together and shared all of our secrets. But when I got every guy without trying, her crushes liking me over her or got better jobs and opportunities she hated me so much she’ll try to diss me on her social media. And unfriend me off everything but tried to act like she didn’t hate me in person. 😂
The jealousy is real and some people are evil that’s why u got to be careful who u love and befriend.
😢😢😢😢 muaj ib zaj zoo li no kiag os vim yus siab zoo2 yus g muaj lub siab ntxub leej twg tab tab luag tsi zoo li yus...
Rule #1, your biggest haters are in your circle, Rule #2 don’t share how much $$ you make, Rule #3 keep your accomplishment/money/travels to yourself
I love hater’s
Hater’s gonna hate that means your doing it right
Ruam tiag tiag luag block los tseem tusiab es quaj ib pluag thiab hahah.. peb ua tib neeg nyob tsis paub tuag mas thiaj tusiab es quaj yog luag muab yus blocked tawm yus fb lawm ces zoo siab tsawg ib qho haujlwm xwb os nawb.
Being a supervisor is not easy but just be fair and treat people like humans. Very happy for you.
Sister there will always be someone who secretly hates you on the inside
I just realized I have haters too. So I stay away.
Dont brag too much of your success to others. They don't really care. I was a supervisor for my medical clinic billing department for 10 years, and it was so much drama and stress. The money is not worthy of my sanity.
I'm going to honest, I went and checked to see who blocked me. 😅
Maybe you did change? And she is a big hater! It takes two to tangle. Goodluck
Well she has her own issues and self disappointment. It probably pains her to see ur success. Its her not u so once u get a clue, just move on
Glad I don’t work in production with Hmong ladies. These stories are typical production jobs.
Cov phooj ywg zoo li ko mas thaum yus ruam tshaj nws pluag tshaj nws mas nws ua thaj siab zoo2 hai zoo2 ua tus ntsheb2 pab yus tiam sis thaum yus ho ntsheb thiab muaj nyiaj tshaj nws mas nws ci li ntshub thiab khib2 yus
Don’t put all your eggs in one basket! Look at yourself, maybe you’re too cocky, that’s why the whole group blocked you. Don’t expect anything from anyone and you will never be disappointed.
Tham phone xwb es txawm siv pom lub ntsej muag luag ntxhi ntag. Tsis paub xyov cas koj nim yuav quav ntsej koj tus phooj ywg Zeena ntawv ua luaj txog txij yus ua rooj noj es nws tsis tuaj thiab nws ua es nws twb tsis hais txog yus ces tsum xwb yus nyob yus xwb tsis quav2 ntsej txog txuag yus tus dag tus zog mus pab tus neeg pab yus hlub yus tiag2 tsis yog pab tej tus fake friends ntawv li os. kuv li kuv yeej tsis ua phooj ywg zoo2 nrog leej twg li nawb yus tus phooj ywg ces yog yus tsev neeg yus viv yus ncaus xwb
Maybe it was you who looked on them and bragged yourself that you make a lot of money and have high degree and supervisor.If the person you claimed hate you as you said. She would not encourage you go back to school. You should thank her instead of gossiping about her. You are not a good person as you claimed you. We would like to hear from her side.
Only in Wisconsin or Minnesota 😂😂😂😂. Nothing here folks. Move along 😅😅😅just wasted 10 minutes of my life.
I think you’re the problem…maybe you let your success get into your head. People don’t usually push orhers to succeed unless they really care. Just my 2 cents
Kuv pom tau tias peb cov poj niam hmoob tsis hais tom company los yog phooj ywg quav dej quav cawv yeej tsis txawj sib hlub qhov loj tiag tsuas yog sib khib sib ntxub nkaus xwb thaum kawg ces ciaj yeeb ncuab nkaus xwb
Stop being navie.