How to Build a Strong Personality | June 14, 2008 | Maulana Wahiduddin Khan

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  • @uzairabdullah8906
    @uzairabdullah8906 Рік тому +18

    NOTES FROM THE LECTURE:
    1. When pointed out, accept that you were wrong
    - Remain in a constant state of inner engineering, i.e introspection to make sure what you are doing is right by listening to your inner nature and if it isn't, to accept that you are wrong so you can fix it.
    - Bring your inner nature in-line with your actions
    - If you don't:
    - 1. Tension in dunya,
    - 2. Bad end in Akhirah
    2. Avoid suppositions
    - Two types of suppositions:
    - 1. Positive
    - 2. Negative
    - Positive: the subject does not feel bad he/she listens
    - Negative: the subject feels bad if he/she listens
    - Even the slightest negative remark, like referring to someone with a negative attribute of theirs, can be dangerous.
    - if you accidentally pass a negative remark, quickly repent, ask for forgiveness, do what you can
    3. Never lie (directly or indirectly)
    - Two types of lies:
    - 1. Direct
    - 2. Indirect
    - Direct: I suppose things like deception, clear lies
    - Indirect: Lies told in order to prevent one's image (either to maintain it, or fix it one it has been damaged)
    - Don't lie directly or indirectly, if you did something wrong, don't try to save your image by lying.
    3. Don't give excuses
    - "If you have a good excuse, don't use it" (even if you have a good excuse, we shouldn't use it)
    - Excuses are given in order to avoid accepting mistakes
    - Instead of giving excuses, we should wholeheartedly accept our mistakes
    - 3 levels in accepting mistakes:
    - 1. just acknowledging that a mistake was made.
    - 2. accepting strongly and with intensity that you made a mistake
    - Proclaiming strongly that you have made a huge mistake with dire consequences
    - Every mistake we made leaves us two options: whether to accept it, or give an excuse
    - Accepting builds strong personality, while giving an excuse builds a weak personality

  • @yasirmehmood7498
    @yasirmehmood7498 Рік тому +3

    مولانا وحید الدین خان کمال تحسین باتیں کہ کیا انداز ہیں۔ بہت سی باتیں ازبر ہوجاتی ہیں۔

  • @hamnayasir2903
    @hamnayasir2903 3 роки тому +32

    Mind blowing lecture 😳yeh sari galtian mery andr hain 😒...mery lea dua karyn k mn b strong personality ki malik ho jaoun ... ameen ALLAH pak mere madad fermayn ameen

    • @rameezmalik2069
      @rameezmalik2069 3 роки тому +3

      Hum sab mein flaws hain ,bas accept krna and rectify krna badi baat hai

    • @saadatabbas786
      @saadatabbas786 Рік тому +3

      You are a s strong personality because you are admitting your mistakes

  • @laafz5352
    @laafz5352 11 місяців тому

    Respected Mulana Sahib Allah Grant you High rank in Janna tul Firdos Ameen ya Allah ❤

  • @swamivedantanandapuri1322
    @swamivedantanandapuri1322 Рік тому +1

    Pranaam 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @foziaafzalbhat4911
    @foziaafzalbhat4911 2 роки тому +2

    Self-correction - Self Introspection - Self-observation - Self judgement - Self-love.

  • @manikhan3174
    @manikhan3174 3 роки тому +4

    kia khoobsurat andaz hy molana sahab baat seedhi dil main utarti hy..

  • @MAKahsankhan
    @MAKahsankhan 3 роки тому +5

    Your discourses are a source of life and sheer guidance. Love for teacher Wahiduddin Khan!

  • @raunaquezameer4863
    @raunaquezameer4863 3 роки тому +4

    Your teaching had great impact on our daily life.May allah grant you place in paradise.

  • @abuhurairahkhan6877
    @abuhurairahkhan6877 2 роки тому +4

    I have never seen such a useful video before, thanks.

  • @growwiser8471
    @growwiser8471 5 років тому +13

    I learned great lessons in a simple way.
    Jazakallah khair 🙏

  • @hamnayasir2903
    @hamnayasir2903 3 роки тому +14

    " I WAS WRONG " 🌺

  • @tranquility10
    @tranquility10 Рік тому +3

    Priceless talk ❤❤❤❤

  • @farzanasajjad3671
    @farzanasajjad3671 3 роки тому +2

    Allah ap ko bhtreen jagha rakhy ameen aj ap ne bhtreen guide kia

  • @danishkhankhattar7457
    @danishkhankhattar7457 Рік тому

    Your insightful teachings have left a positive impact on our daily lives. Your wisdom is truly appreciated, and may Allah reward you with a place in paradise for the knowledge and guidance you share. Thank you for your Team and their valuable contributions.

  • @ajaharuddhin8659
    @ajaharuddhin8659 3 роки тому +6

    Absolutely spiritual teacher ❤️

  • @anandsengar6602
    @anandsengar6602 Рік тому +1

    Best islamic scholor i know

  • @AliRaza-vg8lw
    @AliRaza-vg8lw Рік тому

    Jazak ALLAH💕🌿🌾🌿🌾🌿🌾🌿🌾🌿🌾🌿🌾🌿🌾🌿🌾🌿🌾🌿🌾🌿🌾🌿🌾🌿💕

  • @skghulamrasul3397
    @skghulamrasul3397 Місяць тому

    Thank sir

  • @sadiqhussain157
    @sadiqhussain157 Рік тому

    دین مکمل سسٹم ھے ذوق اور ضرورت کو برابر اھمیت دیجیے

  • @urdudailymotive8599
    @urdudailymotive8599 7 місяців тому

    Great Ma sha Allah

  • @HasanKhan-bm4fk
    @HasanKhan-bm4fk 3 роки тому +2

    Jazak ❤️Allah ❤️ khyran ❤️ kareesa 👍 moulana sahab

  • @shahbano9949
    @shahbano9949 2 роки тому +1

    Behtereen Mashallah

  • @Timelesstravel2
    @Timelesstravel2 Рік тому +1

    Love from Pakistan

  • @umairalikhan47
    @umairalikhan47 Рік тому

    An excellent discussion on moral behavior!

  • @ayanawan9312
    @ayanawan9312 3 роки тому +2

    Jazak allah

  • @ranaameerakhan690
    @ranaameerakhan690 3 роки тому +1

    Nice informative video. Thanks for sharing

  • @rashidbashir6804
    @rashidbashir6804 3 роки тому +2

    Absolutely right. Thanks

  • @nasreenghani9847
    @nasreenghani9847 3 роки тому +1

    JazakAllah ✅

  • @بنتعمر-ب6م
    @بنتعمر-ب6م 3 роки тому +1

    Masha Allah🌹

  • @azrakhan558
    @azrakhan558 Місяць тому

    English subtitles please

  • @DeepFakevolution
    @DeepFakevolution 2 роки тому

    Mashallah

  • @fayyazumeri7730
    @fayyazumeri7730 2 роки тому

    Eye opener

  • @nasreenghani9847
    @nasreenghani9847 3 роки тому

    JazakAllah

  • @aifamir6958
    @aifamir6958 3 роки тому +1

    Nice thought

  • @AikBanjara
    @AikBanjara 3 роки тому +1

    RIEP, Great thought

  • @mosarratperween1569
    @mosarratperween1569 Рік тому

    Nice talking 👄 👏

  • @lets-get-better
    @lets-get-better 3 роки тому +1

    when you admit a mistake you have to not repeat if you admit it. people don't want to do so. many people will admit here that they are wrong....they have to admit where it is the matter. admitting here make false resolution...this is the exactly what he said. we are getting good at lying to ourselves too.

  • @rehanansari3581
    @rehanansari3581 2 роки тому

    Very true

  • @azrakhan558
    @azrakhan558 Місяць тому

    People who can't accept constructive criticism

  • @ajourneytoislam
    @ajourneytoislam Рік тому +2

    It must also converted to English translation.

  • @AliRaza-ri3fi
    @AliRaza-ri3fi 3 роки тому +1

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @skhan-fl7tq
    @skhan-fl7tq 3 роки тому

    Perfect

  • @safiyakhanam9806
    @safiyakhanam9806 4 роки тому

    JAZAKALLAH

    • @omerrazarao6147
      @omerrazarao6147 3 роки тому

      Very simple honest practical approach to correct the incorrect. Yes confirm 💯 he is ,who is in My list of search

  • @Al-NABIL-ISLAM.
    @Al-NABIL-ISLAM. Рік тому

    So in islamic paralance, a strong person is one who controls his desires if they are against the Quran and Sunnaha

  • @Lions_Association_Of_Bengal
    @Lions_Association_Of_Bengal 3 роки тому +1

    iska matlab ajkal k politicians ko achche se character build karna hoga...

  • @benzinamoktar2265
    @benzinamoktar2265 3 роки тому

    Where can I find a translation?

  • @nawazshah9173
    @nawazshah9173 Рік тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤🎉

  • @healyourmind14
    @healyourmind14 Рік тому

    I learn to say that I was wrong

  • @dresstune6311
    @dresstune6311 2 роки тому

    I was wrong so many times
    And I apologize🙏🙏🙏 for them😓😓

  • @LondonBridge-w8e
    @LondonBridge-w8e 9 місяців тому +1

    2024

  • @danielharris8917
    @danielharris8917 2 роки тому +1

    I Was Wrong.

  • @aftabahmad8725
    @aftabahmad8725 2 роки тому +1

    Sood kay bara ma kaya khyal ha yehi to galti ha moula sahib ki .sharab ko haram kaha. Soor ko haram kaha .sood kay baray may kocn nahi kaha

  • @MuhammadSajid-fj5sk
    @MuhammadSajid-fj5sk 3 роки тому +2

    I was wrong

  • @notout841
    @notout841 3 місяці тому

    Molana aapne haq ko chhupaya...khayanat ker di! Qur'an ki aayaat ka zikr kiya aur ye nahi bataya ki woh shakhs kaun tha jisne Caliph Umar ko bachaya...aap kanni kaat gaye ki 'ek aadmi, kisi shakhs ne'...miyan woh aadmi koi mamooli aadmi nahi tha!
    Woh Nafs-e-Rasool saww, Haqeeqi janasheen e paighambar, Babul ilm, Ameerul Momineen, kulle eeman, siddique, Farooq, damaad e Rasool, fatah e Khaibar O Khandaq, badr O hunain, mola e kaaynaat Ameerul Momineen Hazrat Ali ibn Abutalib a.s the!
    "Lau la falaan, la halaka Umar" aapko aakhir kis cheez ne roka jo aap haq ko chhupa gaye...??
    "Lau la Ali un, la halaka Umar"( Agar Ali a.s na hote toh Umar halaak ho jata)!
    Bas yehi izzat hai aapki nazaron mein mola e kaaynaat ki....!
    Aapne hadees e Rasool nahi padhi ki Rasool ne farmaya ki agar koi shakhs zindagi bhar maqaam e ibrahim a.s aur hajar e Aswad ke darmiyan namazein padhta rahe, zindagi bhar roze rakhe, Ohad ke pahad ke barabar Sona khairaat kare aur 1000 haj baja laaye aur woh iss haalat mein mare ki uske dil mein hum Ahlebait a.s ki mohabbat na ho toh woh kufr ki maut mara hai"!
    Mujhe badi hairat hui ki aap jaisi shakhsiyat bhi ta'ssuub rakhti hai Mola Ali a.s aur Sayyida Fatima Zahra s a se!

  • @faheemomar8429
    @faheemomar8429 2 роки тому

    Jazak Allah

  • @saifanwar1510
    @saifanwar1510 2 роки тому

    JazakAllah

  • @AbassParray-e1f
    @AbassParray-e1f Рік тому

  • @Shazansheikh36
    @Shazansheikh36 Рік тому

    I was wrong

  • @wanderedsoul9954
    @wanderedsoul9954 7 місяців тому

  • @Danish-Farooka
    @Danish-Farooka 7 місяців тому +2

    I was wrong

    • @zayd7___
      @zayd7___ 7 місяців тому +2

      this video is my daily reminder....

    • @Danish-Farooka
      @Danish-Farooka 7 місяців тому +1

      @@zayd7___ Mashallah, May Allah Bless u 🫀

    • @NY_Boy
      @NY_Boy 3 місяці тому

      Great ​@@zayd7___