I was a child when this song was released and I didn't quite understand the song but I loved it! Now that I'm an adult and how this song fits my situation😭😭
Funny this song came out the same year I met my ex husband and I love this song then! just wish I would have understood the meaning behind the words more!
Back in 2002 I was like 6 and I remember hearing this song all the time all over the radio and everything. It’s a great song but I remember it always sounded so sad to me for some reason.
This song describes the past 4 years of my love life. I finally moved on for good & am excited to be single now. I thought I’d never leave or be able to live without him. Here I am not shedding one tear as I told him I no longer want him.
@@nataliesantana6196 how did u do this? it’s only been 4 days since I’ve left and my heart already hurts so fuckinh bad. I feel so betrayed hurt by him, I was with him for 4 years. It was toxic abusive cycle and I still cling to him
@@999japgirl i used to cling so much, but once you understand that it’s just you and what you’re used to and not actually love it makes it easier.. think like this, why be miserable and hurt when at the end of the day they dont care if you’re hurting
@@nataliesantana6196 thanks for replying:) I’ve hurt for so long, I was ready to set myself free. he told me he’s been doing opiods again, two nights ago he od on fentanyl. I feel like it’s my fault he’s relapsed and my responsibility to support him. He’s only 22. I was at the lowest point of my life helping him through the last withdrawal. I would sacrifice my happiness just to help him again even if that means breaking myself. Addiction on top of a toxic relationship adds so much pain. I found the strength to put myself first just to be pulled back in. I just wanted to be loved the way ur suppose to be loved
Because the love or attachment you have to them is strong and it's hard to just say goodbye even tho you know you need to. It took me time to get to where I'm at now where I didnt talk to the person I want to talk to right now. It's been a month and almost a week and I'm proud cause he doesnt deserve meee!!💯
This takes me back to the years of '05 and '06, where My momma would used to blast this in the car jamming to it. It would be like 6:00 or something like that, and my momma would sing the chorus of this song and she would be like, "Aye y'all sing it!" Ah, I missed that time in music.
2022.. I been listening to you before LOVE. I sang this song with all my heart- now at 30 I realize I understand and feel every lyric to this song… damn 💔🙏🏽
@@ngndnd we ended up getting back together for a year and then he cheated 🤣 then we broke up and I spiraled and got suppper depressed, but I’m happy to say I’m finally doing better after 2 years 😇😇 time does heal for sure
I hope everybody truly knows what this song is about. Obviously, it is about an abusive relationship. I've had to deal with this type of thing, but it was not I who was in the relationship. If any girl or boy out there is dealing with this kind of relationship, i know it'll be hard, but you HAVE to leave. It'll save you from so much. It corrupts your mind, messes up your head. Trust me I know. Just for everyone that is in this u type of relationship, try your best to get help. Keep trying, there's a way out💕
I just love this song so much...it's a great one to turn to when no one else understands..
I was a child when this song was released and I didn't quite understand the song but I loved it! Now that I'm an adult and how this song fits my situation😭😭
Lmao 🤣🤣 fr sameeeee 💯💯💯💯👍👍
@@selenasaldana2297 who knew we'd end up feeling like this, more than a decade after this song's release.
Funny this song came out the same year I met my ex husband and I love this song then! just wish I would have understood the meaning behind the words more!
I can relate to u
We need more R&B songs like this
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Peeeeeriod !!!
My 12 year old daughter listens to this song and she loves it as much as I do
Do you both still love this song after 5 years ?
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Back in 2002 I was like 6 and I remember hearing this song all the time all over the radio and everything. It’s a great song but I remember it always sounded so sad to me for some reason.
It is sad. Lol so sad
2022 song just popped in my head and I just had to hear it again.
Jan 1, 2024, babe. Listen to it again. 🤣🙌🤣
I love Ashanti so much she's so beautiful and gorgeous ❤️ 2019
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This song describes the past 4 years of my love life. I finally moved on for good & am excited to be single now. I thought I’d never leave or be able to live without him. Here I am not shedding one tear as I told him I no longer want him.
Finally left my bd after 5 years, i used to always go back when i would leave and this time i finally feel at peace and feel good without him
@@nataliesantana6196 how did u do this? it’s only been 4 days since I’ve left and my heart already hurts so fuckinh bad. I feel so betrayed hurt by him, I was with him for 4 years. It was toxic abusive cycle and I still cling to him
@@999japgirl i used to cling so much, but once you understand that it’s just you and what you’re used to and not actually love it makes it easier.. think like this, why be miserable and hurt when at the end of the day they dont care if you’re hurting
@@nataliesantana6196 thanks for replying:) I’ve hurt for so long, I was ready to set myself free. he told me he’s been doing opiods again, two nights ago he od on fentanyl. I feel like it’s my fault he’s relapsed and my responsibility to support him. He’s only 22. I was at the lowest point of my life helping him through the last withdrawal. I would sacrifice my happiness just to help him again even if that means breaking myself. Addiction on top of a toxic relationship adds so much pain. I found the strength to put myself first just to be pulled back in. I just wanted to be loved the way ur suppose to be loved
I know u don’t have all the answers but it’s nice to be able to talk to someone.
I Never Get Tired of this song!
refreshing after listening to danielles cover.
Right 💀
LMFAOOOO
Same
LMAOOAOO I-
Crazy how relatable this song is.. 😔💔
POV: you came to listen to the original version again after listening to Danielle Cohan’s ear rape
You caught me😂😂😂😂
ahahah literally me
Haha
girl yesssss
Bwaahhhh but sadly yes
why is it so hard to leave somebody when you know you need to?
Gumdrop k it took me 16 years. Left for6 months still went back. 2 years later trying to be strong enough to do it again. 😥
Because the beginning was so different
Good d
Because the love or attachment you have to them is strong and it's hard to just say goodbye even tho you know you need to. It took me time to get to where I'm at now where I didnt talk to the person I want to talk to right now. It's been a month and almost a week and I'm proud cause he doesnt deserve meee!!💯
Mannnn 😢😢😢
It really is like that when you love someone so much but you just can't make them love you and be faithful to you.
This takes me back to the years of '05 and '06, where My momma would used to blast this in the car jamming to it. It would be like 6:00 or something like that, and my momma would sing the chorus of this song and she would be like, "Aye y'all sing it!" Ah, I missed that time in music.
2022.. I been listening to you before LOVE.
I sang this song with all my heart- now at 30 I realize I understand and feel every lyric to this song… damn 💔🙏🏽
Searched the number 1 music when I was born and this is what appeared🖤
I hate how this is so true,,idk w@s wrong with us women,,we jus cant leave even when we being treated unfairly
Where did she go? She was such a Darlin with very nice songs. And that duo with Ja-rule was just it. I terribly miss her.
When bae takes a whole min to text back
Twenty Øne Crybabies! at The Disco 😂
Biggggg faxxx
He my friend
😂😂
I'm not hurt I just like the break down part when she says "See, when I get the chance to leave" I'm like yeeeass girl!! lol
no matter what your mood is, listening to this song will surely make u feel sad ...
I was like 5 or 6 when this came out. It really does make you nostalgic
V8 8
Reminds me of when my grandmother died, 2002 was the year, time goes by so fast its crazy
TREAT YOUR WOMAN LIKE THE QUEEN SHE IS...... this made me appreciate my gf even more.
Champ -DC both should treat each other with respect.
Champ you should both treat each other good not just the man to the woman, the woman plays a role aswell you know
Simp
@@gjin4551 🤣😆
@@gjin4551 exactly
This is still the realest song ❣️
just watching Van Helsing with my brother, and chilling while listening to music. LOVE MY LIFE AND EVERY ONE IN IT. :) :) :) :)
one of the best songs of all times
Still a banger after all these years
2:19 she kills it!
this song became my favorite song it's so emotional 😭😭😭💕💕💕
Dude I miss the old day but I still like dis song 😭😭😉
What happened to good R&B these days...?
Mommy right!! i love 2000s r&b
Dynastie Cruz me too
Mommy word.
Mommy
Born in 2006, though I like this more than the music now.
Mommy Everybody sings and produces. Music nowadays is like fast food.
So someone *cough Danielle Cohn cough* stole this beautiful song and messed it up..
Fr🥺
2013...keep running back to this song
Back in the days I’ve always loved this song
This was me but I finally blocked my ex last night no more going back to him I'm moving on
Um......Not trying to be rude or anything but how old are you?
***** Yea Lol
I'm actually going on 25
Amanda Houff :O
OMG Well You Look Like Your A 12 Year Old, Just Saying
Geez La Weez Most people say I look 16 or 19 thank you for making me feel so young lol
Still a good song today 😊
i love the description you put for the video :)
I LOVE THIS SONG!!!
National Anthem for these type of girlies ☝
OH MY GOD.. IM OBSESSED WITH LYRICS OF THIS SONG :)
Foolish = That honeymoon period
Unfoolish = Realising you are worth more and actually leave him
I need to leave. 20yrs of pain and tears it has to stop....i dont know how to walk away..hurting sooooo bad
Damn so nostalgic had to hit the repeat botton like 1k times 2018 anyone?
Perfect timing
My exact situation, hard to let go of a 3 & 1/2 year relationship ..
Sydknee S. I was in the same situation, It was hard to let go. But, now I have moved on for good.
Try 11 years
update?
@@ngndnd we ended up getting back together for a year and then he cheated 🤣 then we broke up and I spiraled and got suppper depressed, but I’m happy to say I’m finally doing better after 2 years 😇😇 time does heal for sure
@@bluedragonfly2790 i was so afraid that you’d say you two were still together but i am so happy that you have healed from that
i agree with what your saying about the sunset and listening to this song:)
2018?
Raha Ibrahim yes 2018
Yap
Still here 👐🏼
biggy
2019 (:
See my days are cold without u but I'm hurting while I'm with you 😥😥how I feel
I hope everybody truly knows what this song is about. Obviously, it is about an abusive relationship. I've had to deal with this type of thing, but it was not I who was in the relationship. If any girl or boy out there is dealing with this kind of relationship, i know it'll be hard, but you HAVE to leave. It'll save you from so much. It corrupts your mind, messes up your head. Trust me I know. Just for everyone that is in this u type of relationship, try your best to get help. Keep trying, there's a way out💕
Love this song ❤
I'm 15 and love this song 😍 my moms the best ovi
same (;
hailey rivera Samee girl sameee
she's really good at singing
she has a good voice
God my mom needs to listen to this song cause she relates to this way to much
This song is such a banger
2019?? Yes please!!
i really really love this song remind me of my teens years i really really love Ashanti ❤️😇✝️
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I miss the old school music this music now days suck
Jasmine Shantel ikr
If ur still listening to this song then u are a legend.🤪
I love this so much 💗
STILL jamming on MAXXXX in 2018 🗣🖤
I'm here from The Most Popular Songs from 1940-2016. I instantly recognized this riff, but I never knew the title until then!
Foolish out of nowhere with a RKO!
Still here in 2022 here we go!!
Falta músicas destas
so sad what love will make you do 💔
😢😢😢😢😢
FaZa dax ikr
I love this song 😍😍😍
One of the best songs in the world
Feeling this pain right now😭😭
still love the song!
Oh you know how much I hate this one and I can't wait for you know what
i LOVE this song it's the best
Old but gold
2019 and forever
U ain't lying it's like u feel like you trapped or u need them an don't
I love this song
Luv this song
I love Ashanti and this song
My favorite song in the whole wide world😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
i like this song 2012 every day
Don't you guys just miss this era in music?
I can't wait intell where back together ❤
Dis real R&B
I remember hearing this on Y100 N 96.1 or w.e as a kid (Miami radio stations)
reminds me of driving home on a rainy day
this is my fav ashanti song
Who is still listening to this in 2021 because I'm still vibeing to it lol
2020 this still a hit
2019 Was The Last Good Year For Music.
one of my fav's
best song ever.
Me too! The good old days on Power 96!! lol
Joyeux Noël 2021 enfin qui regardent en même temps que moi maintenant😉☺️☺️
from being battered to being cheated on, and being walked away from, i still love you :(
story of my life !!
2020 anyone 😍
he gave warmth
I used to love this song
That song make me cry
lovely song ever ✌💋
them love days...brings back memories of my first love
Last heard this song when i was 5 a decade later im listening to it X_X