17 millions only on UA-cam... man.. this is good popular song :/ mu japanese friends love that song and its pretty mainstream? many people know Lauv (gladly) so dont gatekeep
I never really tell my friends my dark thoughts anymore. When I see them, I only share my happy experiences and funny encounters with other people. I only share those things that I think are worth-sharing and not those which are kinda sad and depressing because i’m super afraid that they won’t want my company anymore if i get too sad and emotional, if i show my other true self. I also don’t want to be a burden to them. So basically, i fake my happiness whenever i’m around them. But seriously, i’m very grateful to have people who I can call friends.
Share your dark moments too! Not all of them but few that you are comfortable to talk about. I swear it'll make you feel a lot better,lighter and idk what to say... Just try it once
Take off pieces of your "mask" gradually and when you're comfortable with yourself, and when you do if they stay you'll know they are a real friend. Don't waste your time with fake people I made that mistake. Don't make the mistake to think your the only one feeling like that, everyone wears a "mask" weather if its to hide the truth from themselves or others, but you should at least have that one person who you don't have to be fake around. *mask* - Metaphorical word I'm using for the person your faking to be
Lyrics: I've been thinkin' 'bout my father lately The person that he made me The person I've become And I've been tryna fill all of this empty But, fuck, I'm still so empty And I could use some love And I've been trying to find a reason to get up Been trying to find a reason for this stuff In my bedroom and my closet The baggage in my heart is still so dark Modern loneliness, we're never alone But always depressed, yeah Love my friends to death But I never call and I never text, yeah La di da di da You get what you give and give what you get, so Modern loneliness, we love to get high But we don't know how to come down If I could break my DNA to pieces Get rid of all my demons If I could cleanse my soul Then I could fill the world with all my problems But, shit, that wouldn't solve them So, I'm left here alone And I've been trying to find a reason to get up Been trying to find a reason for this stuff In my bedroom and my closet The baggage in my heart is still so dark Modern loneliness, we're never alone But always depressed, yeah Love my friends to death But I never call and I never text, yeah La di da di da You get what you give and give what you get, so Modern loneliness, we love to get high But we don't know how to come down Down, down, down, down, down We don't know how to come down Down, down, down, down, down We don't know how to come down Down, down, down, down, down We don't know how to come down Down, down, down, down, down We don't know how to come down Modern loneliness, we're never alone But always depressed, yeah Love my friends to death But I never call and I never text, yeah La di da di da You get what you give and give what you get, so Modern loneliness, we love to get high But we don't know how to come down Down, down, down, down, down We don't know how to come down Down, down, down, down, down We don't know how to come down Down, down, down, down, down We don't know how to come down Down, down, down, down, down We don't know how to come down Modern loneliness, we're never alone But always depressed, yeah
Poignant lyrics, beautifully arranged simplicity: Take my word for it - this doesn’t just apply to the young…make the most of life, kids, ‘cos ageing is a bastard (& that’s a polite understatement!) I’ve outlived my generation, so I’m not going to tempt fate by being negative, any more than necessary - it’s just a word of warning…which, of course, you’re bound to ignore 😊 Take care & be well y’all, from Brighton 🌈 UK 🙏🏻💔🙏🏽
Man, this song is really an important marker for the progression of music- how the topics music covers is really diversifying, how people are becoming more open to talking about their personal mental well being, how unique our generations experience of depression is (surrounded by so much, with so many open opportunities, but at the same time so lonely and how individualistic we are all expected to be- not sharing our struggles, always striving to reach out "full potential", selfishly ambitious, shamelessly achievement oriented, fiercely independent and not to mention mind bogglingly "successful"). The lyrics are so simple but they speak to so many people on a personal level. This song really gives me hope, hope for the normalization of not fitting into the world's expectations of successful, happy etc.,hope that we realize vulnerability is okay, that we're all as insecure, as lonely as the other person and ultimately hope for people to realize that EVERYONE has their own struggles whether or not they're open about it. Man Lauv really deserves a big thank you from us, because he's really out there speaking about things we can't be open about, he's really out there speaking for us and speaking to us and all the others who feel they're in it alone. Love this song so much for everything it stands for ♥️.
That’s everything, you stated this message so beautifully and undeniably. I feel every single line of it.♥️ also love you Lauv and this song’s just amazing!
@@ericgregory438 It happens to all of us...we get real jobs with real lives. Sadly life is a rat race unless you're really lucky to the point you can afford it, and even then, your friends most likely cant.
I'm from japan. Your lyrics make a deep impression on me. I empathize with "modern loneliness" from japan. Probably everybody is feeling all over the world. thx lauv.
i used to feel bad for calling or texting my friend when i first got to know her i felt like i was not important enough to be calling her, because i would only be a burden anyway i felt like she wouldn’t want to meet up anyway, because she has other more important friends why would she hang out with me ? but how am i supposed to get close to people then instead ? then one day i just realized i gotta change, if i want to have friends i have to call and text them first as well, it can’t just be one sided, just because i feel like i’m a burden so i started to text and call her and ask wether we want to meet up and that’s i got to know my first ever best friend in life, although we are not friends anymore now through her i learned that although i might feel like i’m a burden to everyone, i’m actually not ❤️ EDIT: thank you for 1.6K likes, i didn’t expect so many people to relate to this ❤️ i hope how through this i’m feeling better but also other people who ever felt or are feeling that way feel a little bit better about themselves as well. I love you so love yourself as well, you’re not a burden, you’re precious and appreciated ❤️☁️
He may be underrated until now, but I see him rising. When I saw Lizzo do the same i just shared her stuff on my social media. I am going to do the same for him.
Still one of the best songs produced during the COVID pandemic. Remember telling my friend about Lauv’s lyrics being so relatable. We’re in different places now, saw her at my graduation, smiled and waved back. Miss you Subaiba. Those calls are still very close to my heart. ❤
This is one of THOSE songs man. The ones that make my rough, tiring and the shittiest days where I feel the lowest, a little more better; which is all that matters.
"We're never alone but always depressed" "I love my friends to death but I never call them, I never text them" Lauv is literally saying E. V. E. R. Y. T. H. I. N. G!!!!!!
I don't know why but being an introvert really sucks for me. I wish I was an extrovert, instead. Whenever I try to start a conversation with my friends, it always end up being a small talk. I want to deepen my relationships and support them through problems but I just can't. Maybe I'm scared that I might say something wrong because my socializing skills are so level -9000 and I really bore them in long conversations. I suck at expressing myself, the only thing I can give them are inspirational quotes, memes and normal tips but I don't think its enough. Hell, I'm sorry if you guys didn't understand my story, I'm just not good at describing my situation.
You express the concept perfectly. I am also an introvert person. We are special, we are deeper than others. You just need to find the right persons that will acknowledge you and listen to you. And it's not easy. So if you find the right friend, even if is one, hold on onto it.
You're not alone in this world. We are special , bt we need someone who would understand us the way we understand our friends, families n try to help them. We need someone who would never get bored of us, someone who would never shut on us. #BeingAnIntrovertIsABlessing
This song explained exactly how my life are. I shared this song a few times on status/story hoping that my friends could see the message that I've been trying to tell them, but it really break my heart when some of them act like stranger. I know that I'm kinda selfish too since I rarely contact them but from time to time I also want someone to ask about my condition. Btw thanks @lauv for making this song. This song help me to realized that I'm not a strange person, there are a lot of people who are like and this song comfort me everytime I listen to it..
“I love my friends to death, but I never call and I never text” These words hit me in my core, thank you Lauv for speaking to all of us who needed it 💛
4 months later this songs turned 1 years . . . And im still stuck in the house,, chillin with this song,missin my friend,trying to find a way to get up,, and still a 'modern loneliness' :(
"Love my friends to death but I never call them, I never text them" That struck so deep. I have recently shut myself out on social media even on text messages. My friends don't know what the hell is going on with me. Only to find out that one of my friends is going to another country the next day. I felt bad.
Damn that's sad but he could have called and told you it's not as if you blocked the person... or did you? I struggle a lot with interacting with people and I do this a lot as well as far as removing profile pics and logging off... The lonelier I feel, the more I tend to push people off
i understand, but you cant always expect them to talk first, always. there are things that they might be going thru as well, but just put on a happy face for the sake.
@@christianguerrier1887 even I feel sometimes if someone was there to call me and taken some care.. This loneliness never goes away. When I m alone I also tend to move people away. I lost my dad 2 years back. Now I feel there is no one to help my feelings. Even my friends don't care about me. In collage I wonder whether I do exist or not🙄...
The thing I love the most about this song is how the chord progression in the second half of the chorus, just keeps on going into the whole last chorus ❤️
“Love my friends to death, but I never call them I never text them” I relate to this so much... it’s something that comes with depression but no one really talks about. It makes you isolate and distance yourself from everyone you love, it makes you feel like a shitty friend/person then you end up losing everyone..
For real!! That’s something people who don’t have depression don’t understand. This depression makes me feel like no wants me so I stay out of their lives to make them happy, but that’s not true. It’s just lies your telling yourself because of the depression. You can’t really understand unless you’ve experienced it, and I wouldn’t wish depression on my worst enemy.
i mean like this generation be saying "i'm so depressed" and wonder why they are, but say stuff like "push everyone away"....? You're partly to blame. Be part of the solution
Lauv's recent posts on instagram stories were always about his self doubts and questions about his purpose.. I just wanted to tell Ari, this is your purpose.. To say and sing the words we can't say. To express the feelings we can't normally express. Through your music we find comfort and that means you're doing a great job on what you do. Please keep being the artist and the person that you are. You are blessed. Keep being weird, brother.. And dont forget to drink yo' watah!
This is a song that everyone needs to hear. This is what is going on in someone's, almost everyone's life. People are trying to show other side of them, they're trying to keep everything with themselves and it's super sad. We have a lot of people around with who we can talk. And that's super sad that people are feeling like that, that they're struggling with something. But everyone needs to know that YOU'RE NOT ALONE! You're alive, you can find a reason to get up, you can find a reason to fight, to live happy life, all problems will fade. You're strong, yes, you who are reading it! And don't let modern things to make your life empty, don't let them change your free, your beautiful thinking. Find a reason to be yourself and be happy, please just be happy ❤️
This song really hits hard. Like literally. Yes i know im still a kid because im still 11 years old right now but, i understand this song and it really represents our generation. Ive had depression since i was 9 and up until now. Don't worry, im already getting some help. If you have depression, please get some help and don't harm yourself. It's not worth it. God created us to live in this wonderful world. We all have a purpose. Everyone is loved. God loves us all equally.
Raman New it’s in our genes. You can’t change it. During homosapiens period, humans need community to survive. If you’re alone, you’ll get killed by wild animals. Now present time, we don’t need community to survive. You can live alone and no animals will eat you. But our genes tell us we need human interaction but other humans are busy with their lives so you get lonely and depressed.
the anthem for humanity, I love you all, life is fucking hard sometimes, I hope all of our souls can find respite and a friend in our selves and in another or in whatever, songs like this, when we need it most 💛
This song is so apt for today's times when everyone is busy on their phones and there's no one to 'talk' to. I'm so inspired right now. As a singer-songwriter and music producer, there's so much to learn from you, Lauv! You're awesome!
I love Lauv and his honesty, his recognition is definitely well deserved, however... If you're reading this and you want to be an influence one day, never stop giving and you'll receive something special in the long run. Spread love.
I have been listening to Lauv for 3 years now... And his music always helped me get through the bad times and enjoy the great times... Thank you for everything Lauv 🖤
We all surrounded by many people, having a lot of followers or likes, yet in the end we all depressed and deny to accept the fact. I hope everybody can establish their small circle+girlfriend/boyfriend and understand it's not quantity its quality that matters.
That's why I only have one or two friends that I meet from time to time, and I spend time with my family. I had lots of friends but only two of them stood by me when I'm at my worst.
This song... It reminds me of when a girl told me once that she never texts first, but she's lonely and wants to talk to people... But what if everyone is waiting for everyone else to text first? Nobody is going to communicate that way. So talk to people! Call them, even though most people don't do that anymore, text them first, even if it starts off awkward, it will get better! If you want to be around people, a lot of them are too afraid of awkward silences or odd beginnings to initiate it, but especially if you're a teenager, we're all lonely! We might act like we're fine but if you're thinking about someone, leave them a message saying that you were! Chances are it will make their day. If you're lonely, I totally get it. I have very few friends, cuz im homeschooled and just don't get around people that often. Just be brave and text someone! I promise to everyone who has "modern loneliness" (including myself) that it's gonna get better. I love you so incredibly much and God does too. You are blessed, you are a blessing and I pray you have a fantastic day
Being the one that always texts first, is kinda make me feel I am unwanted lately, if they care they will texts first, even it’s just once or twice,it shows that they care. Im sorry but I just know how it feels to be always the one that do the texting
Layahima you’re not the only one hun. 🥺 my crush always texted first but then when i’ve been texting my crush first, he stopped talking to me ever since.
If you're always feeling lonely, but never reach out, you can't expect someone else to swoop in and save you. Stop playing the martyr, and make the first move. You don't change your life by staring at the wall and feeling bad for yourself.
This reminds me of the time i had to leave my friends, they said "dont worry, now we have the Internet, we can always talk whenever we want" but actually, it's the belief that we can always talk whenever that we dont even bother to talk anymore. And that's how we drifted apart. "Modern loneliness, never alone but always depressed" - aint no truer stories.
Agreed, I feel that. You intend on trying to stay in touch but in reality life can get so busy that you somehow slip up in that connection. Until it dissolves unintentionally.
Made me send texts to friends haven’t communicated with for months to years with the link to the song! And to Ari of course to let him know how much I love him...
Its mind-blowing and refreshing to have Lauv not only express but help uz understand the things we couldn't put into words. Please be kind to yourself and reach out to your loved ones and those you would love to love💕, I promise its worth it and they may feel the same way too. You are not alone!
I felt the sincerity and genuineness of the lyrics. I feel like Lauv has always been suffering from depression and music is his way of expressing his emotions, releasing them by sharing to the world his feelings through great melody and superb vocals. Lauv has always been the most relatable artist for me because he writes not just love songs but songs for the soul that directly hit you right in the chest. Im so proud of you, Lauv! Keep going, man! 🤙🏼❤️ In the end, everything will be okay. Trust God. Have faith. ❤️
My image of Modern loneliness. It's like when you don't really have someone to spill your heart out to because you're scared, you end up holding so much trouble even when there are already so many people willing to hear you out.
I am an old man, but I know that the phrase... You get what you give and you give what you get ... perfectly describes what I am now. My depresion sometimes is stronger than me.
"Modern Loneliness, we're never alone but always depressed. I love my friends to death, but I never call, I never text. Modern Loneliness, we love to get high but we don't know how to come down." We all know this hits hard. Tbh, the people nowadays tends to tolerate loneliness and make depression as a design. This new song from Lauv is really an eye opener. People have people around them, we're never alone, learn to get down and conquer your surroundings to overcome modern Loneliness in yourself. P.S. to the "YOU" who is reading this. You're not alone. We were listening to this song together. I love you. ♥️
i’m in a public transpo at the moment, on my way to work.. and just, this is making me cry so hard. this hits a different spot. and i feel like i’m always transported to why I stanned Ari in the first place because of the messages he try to send out and how he does this. it’s breathtaking. i love you and your art, Ari. thank you for this
Don't you just love how, despite the toxicity, UA-cam can sometimes be a great place to make things better. Like these little exchanges from people who don't know each other and because we felt similarly about the song here we are sending hugs to people who we don't know and just about everyone else who needs it after listening to this.
James Theo thanks, man. i legit cried it out and perhaps the people inside the bus thought i’m crazy. good luck with your thesis! been there and it’s truly so much pressure so i hope you get all the support that you need
![Lauv - Sad Forever [Official Video]](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/Klsi8CbSm8Y/mqdefault.jpg)
![Lauv - Sad Forever [Official Video]](/img/tr.png)
![Lauv - Changes [Official Video]](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/pPAAFMtDUzo/mqdefault.jpg)
![[1 Hour with Lyric] Lauv - Modern Loneliness (Realtime Lyrics)](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/FANT4dhEfZU/mqdefault.jpg)
Watch more of Lauv’s music videos at lauv.lnk.to/OMVplaylist
Lauv :00 HIM
king.
Hi
hi!!! i love your music so much and i love you
😪
Fact: *LAUV NEVER DISAPPOINTS!*
EDIT: omg! thanks for the likes! Should I make a Cover of one of Lauv‘s songs too? 🤔 What do u think! ❤️
so true.
@@RochusBurtscher oh yeas
True facts💯
Modern Loneliness by Lauv [swa lee Remix]
ua-cam.com/video/S6V3kXv0XBw/v-deo.html
Lany is much better.
Lauv genuinely doesn't have one song he's made I don't like.
same²💓
Same brother
thicc goody All his songs are literally the best things ever. EXCEPT, A different way. i hate that i stg
Same!
Agreed
"Modern loneliness, were never alone but always depressed." That hit me deep
I know right
ikr
Yea, nice lyrics
Seriously
⛔🧢
*"Love my friends to death but I never call and I never text them."* really hits hard.
this part is tragically true
Btw, that profile picture is cursed af.
Yeah and that's what we call fact.
I teared a little listening to this
relatable but doesnt hit hard lol
when lauv sang: “Modern loneliness, we're never alone but always depressed, love my friends to death but I never call and I never text” I felt that
loneliness Lyrics
ua-cam.com/video/S6V3kXv0XBw/v-deo.html
Lauv - Modern Loneliness [ Swa Lee Remix Lyrics ]
ua-cam.com/video/S6V3kXv0XBw/v-deo.html
This line is brutal truth
Indeed. 😂😂
Sad but true
"Modern Loneliness, we're never alone, but always depressed."
Lauv
Alone and depressed tbh.
Ahhhhh ! 🤩💫
Ahhhhh ! 🤩💫
Ahhhhh ! 🤩💕
Ahhhhh ! 🤩💫
People are relating to this song because of quarantine but this song represents me my whole life.
Same
Same here
Not same but felt that
same
Same
I'm actually glad that this song is so underrated. Some masterpiece deserve to be known by people with the best taste!!
I like your perspective
Yesss!!!
17 million views is NOWHERE NEAR underrated, where do you come up with that stupid shit lol.
17 millions only on UA-cam... man..
this is good popular song :/ mu japanese friends love that song
and its pretty mainstream? many people know Lauv (gladly)
so dont gatekeep
@@narrow3601 2nd A
*This guy has literally NEVER made a bad song.*
Congratulations bro we are from the same country with our favourite artist lauv ❤❤❤ jai hind
Yep
@@GamingwithMandyZone Jai Hind, dude.
Very very very true
yeah, but made people more sad.
Lauv is literally one of the only artists that don't ever disappoint me.
loneliness Lyrics
ua-cam.com/video/S6V3kXv0XBw/v-deo.html
loneliness Lyrics
ua-cam.com/video/S6V3kXv0XBw/v-deo.html
one of the only artists that I can play and not have to skip a single song and THAT IS SO RARE. ❣️
Lauv and jeremy zucker are gold ❤🤗🤗
Definitely.
Lauv. That's the comment.
Agreed
Trueee😌
@@gargigehlot5632 hi
You got that right
Because all of his songs are based on what he experienced❤️
Omfg why is every single word from this song relatable????!!
I never really tell my friends my dark thoughts anymore. When I see them, I only share my happy experiences and funny encounters with other people. I only share those things that I think are worth-sharing and not those which are kinda sad and depressing because i’m super afraid that they won’t want my company anymore if i get too sad and emotional, if i show my other true self. I also don’t want to be a burden to them. So basically, i fake my happiness whenever i’m around them. But seriously, i’m very grateful to have people who I can call friends.
Share your dark moments too! Not all of them but few that you are comfortable to talk about. I swear it'll make you feel a lot better,lighter and idk what to say... Just try it once
Take off pieces of your "mask" gradually and when you're comfortable with yourself, and when you do if they stay you'll know they are a real friend. Don't waste your time with fake people I made that mistake. Don't make the mistake to think your the only one feeling like that, everyone wears a "mask" weather if its to hide the truth from themselves or others, but you should at least have that one person who you don't have to be fake around.
*mask* - Metaphorical word I'm using for the person your faking to be
Same uwu :
I love you chloe for this I also do this ❤️
Facts but the problem with me I don't trust people friends or not 🚷
"modern loneliness, we're never alone, but always depressed"
damn
lyrical video
ua-cam.com/video/S6V3kXv0XBw/v-deo.html
Damn I felt that
deeplyyyy
Yes :(
this shit hits me bullseye i am crying
Hearing this song again in Chucky made me realize how much I miss hearing it.
samee!!!
When Jake and Devon kiss
@@Leonard-rm3mq soo cut
@@Gibbygobbie I'm not gay but support LGBT🏳️🌈
Yeahh i got here because of it actually
Lyrics:
I've been thinkin' 'bout my father lately
The person that he made me
The person I've become
And I've been tryna fill all of this empty
But, fuck, I'm still so empty
And I could use some love
And I've been trying to find a reason to get up
Been trying to find a reason for this stuff
In my bedroom and my closet
The baggage in my heart is still so dark
Modern loneliness, we're never alone
But always depressed, yeah
Love my friends to death
But I never call and I never text, yeah
La di da di da
You get what you give and give what you get, so
Modern loneliness, we love to get high
But we don't know how to come down
If I could break my DNA to pieces
Get rid of all my demons
If I could cleanse my soul
Then I could fill the world with all my problems
But, shit, that wouldn't solve them
So, I'm left here alone
And I've been trying to find a reason to get up
Been trying to find a reason for this stuff
In my bedroom and my closet
The baggage in my heart is still so dark
Modern loneliness, we're never alone
But always depressed, yeah
Love my friends to death
But I never call and I never text, yeah
La di da di da
You get what you give and give what you get, so
Modern loneliness, we love to get high
But we don't know how to come down
Down, down, down, down, down
We don't know how to come down
Down, down, down, down, down
We don't know how to come down
Down, down, down, down, down
We don't know how to come down
Down, down, down, down, down
We don't know how to come down
Modern loneliness, we're never alone
But always depressed, yeah
Love my friends to death
But I never call and I never text, yeah
La di da di da
You get what you give and give what you get, so
Modern loneliness, we love to get high
But we don't know how to come down
Down, down, down, down, down
We don't know how to come down
Down, down, down, down, down
We don't know how to come down
Down, down, down, down, down
We don't know how to come down
Down, down, down, down, down
We don't know how to come down
Modern loneliness, we're never alone
But always depressed, yeah
wouw prachtige lied!!!
Thanks
Thanks
Poignant lyrics, beautifully arranged simplicity:
Take my word for it - this doesn’t just apply to the young…make the most of life, kids, ‘cos ageing is a bastard (& that’s a polite understatement!)
I’ve outlived my generation, so I’m not going to tempt fate by being negative, any more than necessary - it’s just a word of warning…which, of course, you’re bound to ignore 😊
Take care & be well y’all, from Brighton 🌈 UK
🙏🏻💔🙏🏽
Man, this song is really an important marker for the progression of music- how the topics music covers is really diversifying, how people are becoming more open to talking about their personal mental well being, how unique our generations experience of depression is (surrounded by so much, with so many open opportunities, but at the same time so lonely and how individualistic we are all expected to be- not sharing our struggles, always striving to reach out "full potential", selfishly ambitious, shamelessly achievement oriented, fiercely independent and not to mention mind bogglingly "successful"). The lyrics are so simple but they speak to so many people on a personal level. This song really gives me hope, hope for the normalization of not fitting into the world's expectations of successful, happy etc.,hope that we realize vulnerability is okay, that we're all as insecure, as lonely as the other person and ultimately hope for people to realize that EVERYONE has their own struggles whether or not they're open about it. Man Lauv really deserves a big thank you from us, because he's really out there speaking about things we can't be open about, he's really out there speaking for us and speaking to us and all the others who feel they're in it alone. Love this song so much for everything it stands for ♥️.
I love this response!!
Dechen Dorjee 🤧👏👏🥰
That’s everything, you stated this message so beautifully and undeniably. I feel every single line of it.♥️ also love you Lauv and this song’s just amazing!
Thanks for saying this ♥️
Well said!!
When he said “I love my friends to death but I never call them or text them”. I really felt that
Graduating high school in a couple months.....i hope this doesn’t happen to me and my friends
@@ericgregory438 It happens to all of us...we get real jobs with real lives. Sadly life is a rat race unless you're really lucky to the point you can afford it, and even then, your friends most likely cant.
@@jameswest3412 true
Same 😭
@@ericgregory438 man sadly it will happen😭
I'm from japan.
Your lyrics make a deep impression on me.
I empathize with "modern loneliness" from japan.
Probably everybody is feeling all over the world.
thx lauv.
i used to feel bad for calling or texting my friend when i first got to know her
i felt like i was not important enough to be calling her, because i would only be a burden anyway
i felt like she wouldn’t want to meet up anyway, because she has other more important friends
why would she hang out with me ?
but how am i supposed to get close to people then instead ?
then one day i just realized i gotta change, if i want to have friends i have to call and text them first as well, it can’t just be one sided, just because i feel like i’m a burden
so i started to text and call her and ask wether we want to meet up
and that’s i got to know my first ever best friend in life, although we are not friends anymore now
through her i learned that although i might feel like i’m a burden to everyone, i’m actually not ❤️
EDIT: thank you for 1.6K likes, i didn’t expect so many people to relate to this ❤️ i hope how through this i’m feeling better but also other people who ever felt or are feeling that way feel a little bit better about themselves as well. I love you so love yourself as well, you’re not a burden, you’re precious and appreciated ❤️☁️
Yes me too. I always feel like that whenever I want to text or call my friend 😢
Modern Loneliness by Lauv [swa lee Remix]
ua-cam.com/video/S6V3kXv0XBw/v-deo.html
I can super relate. I always think to myself that I consider her my best friend but I don't know if I'm hers. 😥
I still struggle about this things. Thanks for sharing (◍•ᴗ•◍)❤
tania same
This guy deserves a grammy. He's so damn talented but still underrated. I Lauv U bruhh
super trueee
Omg yeah so true he such has a lot good music
Yeah yes my thoughts too
He may be underrated until now, but I see him rising. When I saw Lizzo do the same i just shared her stuff on my social media. I am going to do the same for him.
If your into music like this you should give my new song “ETINWIS” a listen I swear you won’t regret 😏💕💕m
Still one of the best songs produced during the COVID pandemic. Remember telling my friend about Lauv’s lyrics being so relatable. We’re in different places now, saw her at my graduation, smiled and waved back. Miss you Subaiba. Those calls are still very close to my heart. ❤
Lauv is so TRUE, and that’s why we truly fell in love and sense every single song of his songs 💕
"The irony of loneliness is...we all feel it at the same time.
Together."
Rupi Kaur.
shirley goodwin Amin
Holy shit never thought of that lol
there is a song in there somewhere
This is how many people love Lauv
I love ryaaaaaa
Love how Lauv create songs that speak so much about our current state of mind. This is a gem.
This is one of THOSE songs man. The ones that make my rough, tiring and the shittiest days where I feel the lowest, a little more better; which is all that matters.
"We're never alone but always depressed"
"I love my friends to death but I never call them, I never text them"
Lauv is literally saying E. V. E. R. Y. T. H. I. N. G!!!!!!
Ikr 😭❤👌🏽
IKR. he's just the best in producing music.
i agree! 😔🥺😭
I don't know why but being an introvert really sucks for me. I wish I was an extrovert, instead. Whenever I try to start a conversation with my friends, it always end up being a small talk. I want to deepen my relationships and support them through problems but I just can't.
Maybe I'm scared that I might say something wrong because my socializing skills are so level -9000 and I really bore them in long conversations.
I suck at expressing myself, the only thing I can give them are inspirational quotes, memes and normal tips but I don't think its enough. Hell, I'm sorry if you guys didn't understand my story, I'm just not good at describing my situation.
You express the concept perfectly. I am also an introvert person. We are special, we are deeper than others. You just need to find the right persons that will acknowledge you and listen to you. And it's not easy. So if you find the right friend, even if is one, hold on onto it.
And hold on yourself. Believe in yourself, love yourself more ❤️
@@LennieLosino Thank you so much ❤
you're not alone dude
You're not alone in this world. We are special , bt we need someone who would understand us the way we understand our friends, families n try to help them. We need someone who would never get bored of us, someone who would never shut on us.
#BeingAnIntrovertIsABlessing
This song explained exactly how my life are. I shared this song a few times on status/story hoping that my friends could see the message that I've been trying to tell them, but it really break my heart when some of them act like stranger. I know that I'm kinda selfish too since I rarely contact them but from time to time I also want someone to ask about my condition. Btw thanks @lauv for making this song. This song help me to realized that I'm not a strange person, there are a lot of people who are like and this song comfort me everytime I listen to it..
You're Not alone❤
I lost you 3 years ago dad, it hurts as much now as it did then.
Thanks Dad for making me the man I am today
Hope this will be a big hit.
I heard this is his best song
Lauv's songs are always big hit to me.
lyrical video
ua-cam.com/video/S6V3kXv0XBw/v-deo.html
It will. I know it.
Si
“I love my friends to death, but I never call and I never text”
These words hit me in my core, thank you Lauv for speaking to all of us who needed it 💛
same ...
This is me. And I honestly never knew why I did it.
It happened to me too...
I think its time for us to appreciate what we have. Dont know what will happen tomorrow or day after.
Cant lie this is Lauv’s best song, my all time favorite
4 months later this songs turned 1 years
.
.
.
And im still stuck in the house,, chillin with this song,missin my friend,trying to find a way to get up,, and still a 'modern loneliness' :(
3 years later and youre still making it broski.
"Love my friends to death but I never call them, I never text them"
That struck so deep. I have recently shut myself out on social media even on text messages. My friends don't know what the hell is going on with me. Only to find out that one of my friends is going to another country the next day. I felt bad.
Hai exo-l
Damn that's sad but he could have called and told you it's not as if you blocked the person... or did you?
I struggle a lot with interacting with people and I do this a lot as well as far as removing profile pics and logging off... The lonelier I feel, the more I tend to push people off
i understand, but you cant always expect them to talk first, always. there are things that they might be going thru as well, but just put on a happy face for the sake.
theEXOaudio same damn
@@christianguerrier1887 even I feel sometimes if someone was there to call me and taken some care.. This loneliness never goes away. When I m alone I also tend to move people away.
I lost my dad 2 years back. Now I feel there is no one to help my feelings.
Even my friends don't care about me. In collage I wonder whether I do exist or not🙄...
"Never alone but always depressed.."
IF THIS DOESN'T DESCRIBE MY LIFE RN-
Victoria Galut I feel you, but it's okay everything is going to be fine. Don't give up.
@@remember6646 thank you ❤️
@__yoonki that's gonna be fine, it takes time sometimes, just wait. Right people will always find a way to you. Or you will.
Deserves more than 15 million
The thing I love the most about this song is how the chord progression in the second half of the chorus, just keeps on going into the whole last chorus ❤️
why is nobody talking about how beautiful his eyes are?!
em m his eyes in that thumbnail is why I clicked on this video. Hahaha. I usually skip videos.
That is a real eyes???
yeah I was searching for a hit comment of that and none.... I can drown inside that green eyes...
I thought only me thinks that wkwk
@@chicherron2935 indo spotted hehe... I get that wkwk a lot ingame
“Love my friends to death, but I never call them I never text them” I relate to this so much... it’s something that comes with depression but no one really talks about. It makes you isolate and distance yourself from everyone you love, it makes you feel like a shitty friend/person then you end up losing everyone..
lol this generation throwing around the word depression like it's nothing
you wont lose the true ones tho, they will seek you out because they wanna know why you're distancing yourself. Someone does care
For real!! That’s something people who don’t have depression don’t understand. This depression makes me feel like no wants me so I stay out of their lives to make them happy, but that’s not true. It’s just lies your telling yourself because of the depression. You can’t really understand unless you’ve experienced it, and I wouldn’t wish depression on my worst enemy.
@@nixweldon1618 agreed lol
i mean like this generation be saying "i'm so depressed" and wonder why they are, but say stuff like "push everyone away"....? You're partly to blame. Be part of the solution
I love this guy
He is the definition of my music taste
fact: Lauv's songs are exactly what most of us feel.
yasss...!! i was also thinking this..
Yes his songs are relatable
@@rajbelwal1634 are you Indian?
@@shreyasnanda3053 yaa no doubt..!!
@@shreyasnanda3053 yup, how do knw.? U too.?
Lauv's recent posts on instagram stories were always about his self doubts and questions about his purpose.. I just wanted to tell Ari, this is your purpose.. To say and sing the words we can't say. To express the feelings we can't normally express. Through your music we find comfort and that means you're doing a great job on what you do. Please keep being the artist and the person that you are. You are blessed. Keep being weird, brother.. And dont forget to drink yo' watah!
You are right😭
hope he reads this!
loneliness Lyrics
ua-cam.com/video/S6V3kXv0XBw/v-deo.html
💖💖💖💖
YOU ARE SO RIGHT
This has been my mood since July when my dad was diagnosed with cancer
Modern loneliness will always my number 1 of lauv's song
you literally can’t make a bad song if you tired, we stan a king
NathanTriska love u nathan
Modern Loneliness by Lauv [swa lee Remix]
ua-cam.com/video/S6V3kXv0XBw/v-deo.html
U look like conner bobay
This comment got more likes then Lauv comment
I'm sorry but tried**
This is a song that everyone needs to hear. This is what is going on in someone's, almost everyone's life. People are trying to show other side of them, they're trying to keep everything with themselves and it's super sad. We have a lot of people around with who we can talk. And that's super sad that people are feeling like that, that they're struggling with something. But everyone needs to know that YOU'RE NOT ALONE! You're alive, you can find a reason to get up, you can find a reason to fight, to live happy life, all problems will fade. You're strong, yes, you who are reading it! And don't let modern things to make your life empty, don't let them change your free, your beautiful thinking. Find a reason to be yourself and be happy, please just be happy ❤️
❤
Thank you❤
damn
am I the only one who didn't read the whole lecture?
haha
thanks🥺💓
@@birb345 I knew that there will be someone hahah
His eyes are greener than the grass, his emotions deeper than others.
This song really hits hard. Like literally. Yes i know im still a kid because im still 11 years old right now but, i understand this song and it really represents our generation. Ive had depression since i was 9 and up until now. Don't worry, im already getting some help. If you have depression, please get some help and don't harm yourself. It's not worth it. God created us to live in this wonderful world. We all have a purpose. Everyone is loved. God loves us all equally.
*"Modern Loneliness"* We're Never Alone, *but Always Depressed"*
That's me everyday
Yeah that's true. Don't know what the reason exactly
Raman New it’s in our genes. You can’t change it. During homosapiens period, humans need community to survive. If you’re alone, you’ll get killed by wild animals. Now present time, we don’t need community to survive. You can live alone and no animals will eat you. But our genes tell us we need human interaction but other humans are busy with their lives so you get lonely and depressed.
abel thomas what a nice compliment. Thank you.
Sometimes he scares me because his way of thinking is so accurate.
I know right? I think we all want to be able to relate a little. Common ground!
I get scared sometimes when people love this music but still not a good person. Hopefully someone feels the same way :/
I think he can read my mind
LennieLosino lol meee
I agree with you so much. These lyrics are so accurate and I resonate with them so much
the anthem for humanity, I love you all, life is fucking hard sometimes, I hope all of our souls can find respite and a friend in our selves and in another or in whatever, songs like this, when we need it most 💛
listened to this during Covid and still the best song no doubt
This song is so apt for today's times when everyone is busy on their phones and there's no one to 'talk' to. I'm so inspired right now. As a singer-songwriter and music producer, there's so much to learn from you, Lauv! You're awesome!
Yeah..so true💙💙
Great lyris
That's not really what the song is a about, but you're not wrong with that fact.
Nice
We're still dreaming.........🤍💙
I love Lauv and his honesty, his recognition is definitely well deserved, however... If you're reading this and you want to be an influence one day, never stop giving and you'll receive something special in the long run. Spread love.
Thank you 💓
I have been listening to Lauv for 3 years now... And his music always helped me get through the bad times and enjoy the great times... Thank you for everything Lauv 🖤
Listened to this song today trust me me been playing it all day 😢😢I was tearing up the connection I felt with his words 😞
"I've been thinking about my Father lately" His Dad is our chem teacher! I started listening to Lauv because of him and I'm so glad I did😊
That's so cool!!
My science teacher is a tik toker
Harmeen Kang my college professor is a tik toker too
Love being your Chem teacher GN! Missing you all this week!
OMG you just got a reply from LAUV's dad!!!!!!!!!! so lucky!!!!
Or since I’m in North Carolina, I should have said all y’all!
We all surrounded by many people, having a lot of followers or likes, yet in the end we all depressed and deny to accept the fact. I hope everybody can establish their small circle+girlfriend/boyfriend and understand it's not quantity its quality that matters.
Mehmetcan Karakoyun well said
That's why I only have one or two friends that I meet from time to time, and I spend time with my family. I had lots of friends but only two of them stood by me when I'm at my worst.
This song is so simple and so meaningful, so beautifully just hitting the right places. I love the simplicity. This song helps so much.
It's amazing how this song makes me feel like coming home.. or is it his voice.. 🤔
Stuck at home alone from Self Quarantine, Listening to this song while it's raining outside, damn this feeling is so depressing...
Stay safe..
Same. Luckily my son is here with me during the day while my husband is here or I’d be going insane
To introverts it's nothing.
Stay safe
@@sonesunny7632 as an introvert I agree
This song should be the anthem of our generation.
amen brother
this and generation why by conan gray
I feel you bro😞
🙂❤🔥
@Nóra Jánosi it’s my first time every hearing this song
Thank you, Lauv. You comforted me a lot. I'll listen to your song for a long time.
Lauv is the only person on this earth who could understand everykind of moodswings I'm having T_T
This song... It reminds me of when a girl told me once that she never texts first, but she's lonely and wants to talk to people... But what if everyone is waiting for everyone else to text first? Nobody is going to communicate that way. So talk to people! Call them, even though most people don't do that anymore, text them first, even if it starts off awkward, it will get better! If you want to be around people, a lot of them are too afraid of awkward silences or odd beginnings to initiate it, but especially if you're a teenager, we're all lonely! We might act like we're fine but if you're thinking about someone, leave them a message saying that you were! Chances are it will make their day. If you're lonely, I totally get it. I have very few friends, cuz im homeschooled and just don't get around people that often. Just be brave and text someone! I promise to everyone who has "modern loneliness" (including myself) that it's gonna get better. I love you so incredibly much and God does too. You are blessed, you are a blessing and I pray you have a fantastic day
It feels like you are writing for me😭 thank you
Being the one that always texts first, is kinda make me feel I am unwanted lately, if they care they will texts first, even it’s just once or twice,it shows that they care. Im sorry but I just know how it feels to be always the one that do the texting
Layahima you’re not the only one hun. 🥺 my crush always texted first but then when i’ve been texting my crush first, he stopped talking to me ever since.
If you're always feeling lonely, but never reach out, you can't expect someone else to swoop in and save you. Stop playing the martyr, and make the first move. You don't change your life by staring at the wall and feeling bad for yourself.
I'm exactly like that but the problem is I get tired of people easily
He's "been trying to find a reason to get up"
so he literally sang the whole song lying down :)
😥
Such a perfect oxymoron post.😉
:0 wow
1000th like
The reason why I love Lauv and his music is because I can just always relate to all of it, and that's that. i love him so much!
Watched it during pandemic 🥺and here after the pandemic 🥺💔
He’s one of the only artists whose Spotify “this is” playlist I can leave there playing and not have to worry about skipping anything
Innit omggg
Yea all his songs are so good 💙
i'm doing that right now lmaooo
Same 💖
Lauv: Modern loneliness we're never alone but always depressed.
My mom: It's because of that damn phone!!
Haha relatable
She's right you know.
True
Well that’s somehow true. Life is a paradox
This made me laugh. I don't know...
💯modern loneliness never alone but always depressed.
I sing this song as a way I share my talk with a lover. The loneliness can express sympathy to her and it leads to our caring, sharing and loving
This reminds me of the time i had to leave my friends, they said "dont worry, now we have the Internet, we can always talk whenever we want" but actually, it's the belief that we can always talk whenever that we dont even bother to talk anymore. And that's how we drifted apart. "Modern loneliness, never alone but always depressed" - aint no truer stories.
Wow so true
Sooo true 😔 😔
Agreed, I feel that. You intend on trying to stay in touch but in reality life can get so busy that you somehow slip up in that connection. Until it dissolves unintentionally.
Damn this hit differently.
Let's take a moment to appreciate how beautiful his eyes are!
Aashna Rose I did, I deserve a clap🙂
😍😍😍 Lauv 😍😍😍
This song made my reasons why i do love lauv songs
Lauv is honestly not appreciated enough. His songs are so genuine and moving. This song is my fav! ❤️
Yeah honestly music nowadays is just love songs
@@patrickstar5438 Yeah, it's nice to have something new to listen to for a change
@@megha1855 thats why I listen to lofi hiphop
Even the autistic kids are dancing on the floor
Agree 100%
This song speaks a lot me at my down moments: "I'm trying to find a reason to get up" lauv you 💙
lyrical video
ua-cam.com/video/S6V3kXv0XBw/v-deo.html
lyrical video
ua-cam.com/video/S6V3kXv0XBw/v-deo.html
ua-cam.com/video/S6V3kXv0XBw/v-deo.html
Thanks for the song Chucky!
Lauv never disappoints 😊❤️
TO PEOPLE WHO READ THIS:
CONGRATS YOU HAVE GOOD TASTE OF MUSIC💜
yaaaa true !!
true
Thank you 😊
Yuuuuupppp💜
"NEVER ALONE BUT ALWAYS DEPRESSED"
"LOVE MY FRIENDS TO DEATH BUT I NEVER CALL AND I NEVER TEXT"
:Probably the lines that hits you to the core. 💔
loneliness Lyrics
ua-cam.com/video/S6V3kXv0XBw/v-deo.html
Sometimes songs know you a little too well, it's almost scary.
Sadly, I don't have a core. I'm a very hollow person. :(
Made me send texts to friends haven’t communicated with for months to years with the link to the song! And to Ari of course to let him know how much I love him...
Yeah they SLAP... in every possible way
i love that the conversations are finally happening now, but a little sad about that
Its mind-blowing and refreshing to have Lauv not only express but help uz understand the things we couldn't put into words.
Please be kind to yourself and reach out to your loved ones and those you would love to love💕, I promise its worth it and they may feel the same way too.
You are not alone!
I felt the sincerity and genuineness of the lyrics. I feel like Lauv has always been suffering from depression and music is his way of expressing his emotions, releasing them by sharing to the world his feelings through great melody and superb vocals. Lauv has always been the most relatable artist for me because he writes not just love songs but songs for the soul that directly hit you right in the chest. Im so proud of you, Lauv! Keep going, man! 🤙🏼❤️ In the end, everything will be okay. Trust God. Have faith. ❤️
He was!
THAT'S IT, he is just amazing
Mathews Varughese i can feel that he is still going through it but i know he will get through it ❤️
My image of Modern loneliness. It's like when you don't really have someone to spill your heart out to because you're scared, you end up holding so much trouble even when there are already so many people willing to hear you out.
loneliness Lyrics
ua-cam.com/video/S6V3kXv0XBw/v-deo.html
I'll leave my comment here so when someone likes it someday I'll be reminded of this song
I am an old man, but I know that the phrase... You get what you give and you give what you get ...
perfectly describes what I am now.
My depresion sometimes is stronger than me.
"If you are lonely when you're alone, you are in bad company." - Jean-Paul Sartre
Ben@Banglr damn I guess I’m the toxic one
Well that's 90% of people
Exactly... I realized it yesterday..lol😔😂
Sartre knows that's up
Lauv's audios are better than so many artists MVs
Sirf audio like whatever but lauv is lauv ❤❤❤
People are saying that some particular hit them.
But to me, The whole song hit really hard.
Being an introvert could relate with this. Lost touch with many of friends because of this.
"Modern Loneliness, we're never alone but always depressed. I love my friends to death, but I never call, I never text. Modern Loneliness, we love to get high but we don't know how to come down."
We all know this hits hard.
Tbh, the people nowadays tends to tolerate loneliness and make depression as a design.
This new song from Lauv is really an eye opener. People have people around them, we're never alone, learn to get down and conquer your surroundings to overcome modern Loneliness in yourself.
P.S. to the "YOU" who is reading this. You're not alone. We were listening to this song together. I love you. ♥️
shrine_ maiden13 💜💜💜
Thank u. love u too!💙
I love you too😊
I love u too 💜
Jennifer Barrios hi jennifer,you look cute,do you want to talk with me ?
i’m in a public transpo at the moment, on my way to work.. and just, this is making me cry so hard. this hits a different spot. and i feel like i’m always transported to why I stanned Ari in the first place because of the messages he try to send out and how he does this. it’s breathtaking. i love you and your art, Ari. thank you for this
cry it out. im doing my thesis now and im listening to this and i'm about to tear up. hugs.
Same. On a train ride to work, then saw this pop up. Damnnnn made my eyes sweat so hard. Sending virtual hugs to everyone xx
Don't you just love how, despite the toxicity, UA-cam can sometimes be a great place to make things better. Like these little exchanges from people who don't know each other and because we felt similarly about the song here we are sending hugs to people who we don't know and just about everyone else who needs it after listening to this.
@@tywinlannister2208 I'll agree. Internet is indeed a toxic place. But it still manages to give us the comfort.
James Theo thanks, man. i legit cried it out and perhaps the people inside the bus thought i’m crazy. good luck with your thesis! been there and it’s truly so much pressure so i hope you get all the support that you need
thank you Jimin for recommending a song that literally describes my life. I think this is a song that any INFP-T can relate to.
only 7 people related to your comment haha, this song is already great even without jimin's recommendation
the song is the song that makes you cry and vibe at the same time.
"Modern loneliness, we're never alone but always depressed yeah"
That line hits me...
so much ...